Klesh Rahit Jivan

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Mahavideh Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/009589/1

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dAdA bhagavAna kathita kleza rahita jIvana kleza rahita ghara, maMdira samAna jahA~ klezanahI yahAM bhagavAna kAnivAsa nizitA usakAma aapko| 'gAranTI detA hai| kleza to buddhi aura samajhadArI se miTAyA jA sake aisA hai| dUsarA kucha na Ae to use samajhAnA ki, kleza hogA to apane ghara meM meM bhagavAna cale jaaeNge| isalie tU nikSita kara ki hameM kleza nahIM karanA hai| aura nidhita karane ke bAda yadi bAneza ho jAe to samajharanA ki yaha apanI sattA ke bAhara ho gayA hai| usake lie pakSAtApa krnaa| eka hI janmakleza rahita jIvana jIyA, to bhI mokSa jAne kI limiTa meM A gyaa| dAdAzrI

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trimaMtra vyavahAra aura dharma sikhalAyA jagat ko eka pustaka vyavahArika jJAna kI bnaao| isase logoM kA vyavahAra sudhare taba bhI bahuta ho gyaa| aura mere zabda haiM usase unakA mana badala jaaegaa| zabda mere hI rkhnaa| zabdoM meM badalAva mata karanA / vacanabalavAle zabda haiM, mAlikI binA ke zabda haiN| parantu unheM suvyavasthita karake rakhanA hai aapko| merA yaha jo vyAvahArika jJAna hai na, vaha to oNla oNvara varlDa hara eka ko kAma meM aaegaa| pUrI manuSyajAti ke kAma aaegaa| hamArA vyavahAra bahuta U~cA thaa| vaha vyavahAra sikhalAtA hU~ aura dharma bhI sikhalAtA huuN| sthUlavAloM ko sthUla, sUkSmavAloM ko sUkSma parantu hara eka ko kAma meM aaegaa| isalie aisA kucha karo ki logoM ko hailpaphula ho| maiMne bahuta pustakeM par3hI haiM, ina logoM ko madada ho aisii| parantu kucha bhalA ho aisA nahIM thaa| thor3I-bahuta hailpa hogii| bAkI jIvana sudhAre aisA hotA hI nahIM! kyoMki vaha to mana kA, DaoNkTara oNpha mAinDa ho tabhI hotA hai ! vaha, AI ema da phula DaoNkTara oNpha mAinDa! - dAdAzrI

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dAdA bhagavAna kauna ? jUna 1958 kI eka saMdhyA kA karIba cha: baje kA samaya, bhIr3a se bharA sUrata zahara kA relve sTezana, pleTaphArma naM. 3 kI beMca para baiThe zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela rUpI dehamaMdira meM kudaratI rUpa se, akrama rUpa meM, kaI janmoM se vyakta hone ke lie Atara 'dAdA bhagavAna' | pUrNa rUpa se prakaTa hue| aura kudarata ne sarjita kiyA adhyAtma kA adbhuta aashcry| eka ghaMTe meM unheM vizvadarzana huaa| 'maiM kauna? bhagavAna kauna? jagat kauna calAtA hai? karma kyA? mukti kyA?' ityAdi jagat ke sAre AdhyAtmika praznoM ke saMpUrNa rahasya prakaTa hue| isa taraha kudarata ne vizva ke sammukha eka advitIya pUrNa darzana prastuta kiyA aura usake mAdhyama bane zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela, gujarAta ke carotara kSetra ke bhAdaraNa gA~va ke pATIdAra, kAnTrekTa kA vyavasAya karanevAle, phira bhI pUrNatayA vItarAga puruSa! unheM prApti haI. usI prakAra kevala do hI ghaMToM meM anya mumukSu |janoM ko bhI ve AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the. unake adabhuta siddha hue jJAnaprayoga se| use akrama mArga khaa| akrama, arthAt binA krama ke, aura krama arthAt sIr3hI dara sIr3hI, kramAnusAra Upara cddh'naa| akrama arthAt liphTa mArga, zaoNrTa kaTa! ve svayaM pratyeka ko 'dAdA bhagavAna kauna?' kA rahasya batAte hue kahate the ki "yaha jo Apako dikhate hai ve dAdA bhagavAna nahIM hai, ve to 'e.ema.paTela' hai| hama jJAnI puruSa haiM aura bhItara prakaTa hue haiM, ve 'dAdA bhagavAna' haiN| dAdA bhagavAna to caudaha loka ke nAtha haiN| ve Apa meM bhI haiM, sabhI meM haiN| ApameM avyakta rUpa meM rahe hue haiM aura 'yahA~' hamAre bhItara saMpUrNa rUpa se vyakta hue haiN| dAdA bhagavAna ko maiM bhI namaskAra karatA huuN|" 'vyApAra meM dharma honA cAhie, dharma meM vyApAra nahIM', isa siddhAMta se unhoMne pUrA jIvana bitaayaa| jIvana meM kabhI bhI unhoMne kisIke pAsa se paisA nahIM liyA balki apanI kamAI se bhaktoM ko yAtrA karavAte the| AtmajJAna prApti kI pratyakSa liMka 'maiM to kucha logoM ko apane hAthoM siddhi pradAna karanevAlA huuN| pIche anugAmI cAhie ki nahIM cAhie? pIche logoM ko mArga to cAhie na?" - dAdAzrI parama pUjya dAdAzrI gA~va-gA~va, deza-videza paribhramaNa karake mumukSu janoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the| ApazrI ne apane jIvanakAla meM hI pUjya DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna (nIrUmA~) ko AtmajJAna prApta karavAne kI jJAnasiddhi pradAna kI thiiN| dAdAzrI ke dehavilaya pazcAt nIrUmA~ vaise hI mumukSujanoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti, nimitta bhAva se karavA rahI thii| pUjya dIpakabhAI desAI ko dAdAzrI ne satsaMga karane kI siddhi pradAna kI thii| nIrUmA~ kI upasthiti meM hI unake AzIrvAda se pUjya dIpakabhAI deza-videzo meM kaI jagahoM para jAkara mumukSuoM ko AtmajJAna karavA rahe the, jo nIrUmA~ ke dehavilaya pazcAt Aja bhI jArI hai| isa AtmajJAnaprApti ke bAda hajAroM mumukSu saMsAra meM rahate hue, jimmedAriyA~ nibhAte hue bhI mukta rahakara AtmaramaNatA kA anubhava karate haiN| graMtha meM mudrita vANI mokSArthI ko mArgadarzana meM atyaMta upayogI siddha hogI, lekina mokSaprApti hetu AtmajJAna prApta karanA z2arUrI hai| akrama mArga ke dvArA AtmajJAna kI prApti kA mArga Aja bhI khalA hai| jaise prajvalita dIpaka hI dUsarA dIpaka prajvalita kara sakatA hai, usI prakAra pratyakSa AtmajJAnI se AtmajJAna prApta kara ke hI svayaM kA AtmA jAgRta ho sakatA hai|

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nivedana parama pUjya 'dAdA bhagavAna' ke praznottarI satsaMga meM pache gaye prazna ke uttara meM unake zrImukha se adhyAtma tathA vyavahAra jJAna saMbaMdhI jo vANI nikalI, usako rikaoNrDa karake, saMkalana tathA saMpAdana karake pustakoM ke rUpa meM prakAzita kiyA jAtA haiN| usI sAkSAta sarasvatI kA adbhuta saMkalana isa pustaka meM huA hai, jo hama sabake lie varadAnarUpa sAbita hogii| prastuta anuvAda kI vAkya racanA hindI vyAkaraNa ke mApadaNDa para zAyada pUrI na utare, parantu pUjya dAdAzrI kI gujarAtI vANI kA zabdaza: hindI anuvAda karane kA prayatna kiyA gayA hai, tAki vAcaka ko aisA anubhava ho ki dAdAjI kI hI vANI sunI jA rahI hai| phira bhI dAdAzrI ke AtmajJAna kA sahI Azaya, jyoM kA tyoM to, Apako gujarAtI bhASA meM hI avagata hogaa| jinheM jJAna kI gaharAI meM jAnA ho, jJAna kA sahI marma samajhanA ho, ve isa hetu gujarAtI bhASA sIkheM, aisA hamArA anurodha hai| anuvAda saMbaMdhI kamiyoM ke lie Apase kSamAprArthI haiN| __pAThakoM se... * isa pustaka meM mudrita pAThyasAmagrI mUlataH gujarAtI 'kleza vinAnuM jIvana' kA hindI rupAMtara hai| isa pustaka meM 'AtmA' zabda kA prayoga saMskRta aura gujarAtI bhASA kI taraha pulliMga meM kiyA gayA hai| jahA~-jahA~ para 'caMdUlAla' nAma kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai, vahA~-vahA~ pAThaka svayaM kA nAma samajhakara paThana kreN| pustaka meM agara koI bAta Apa samajha na pAe~ to pratyakSa satsaMga meM padhArakara samAdhAna prApta kreN| * dAdAzrI ke zrImukha se nikale kucha gujarAtI zabda jyoM ke tyoM 'iTAliksa' meM rakhe gaye haiM, kyoMki una zabdoM ke lie hindI meM aisA koI zabda nahIM hai, jo usakA pUrNa artha de ske| hAlA~ki una zabdoM ke samAnArthI zabda ) meM artha ke rUpa meM diye gaye haiN| aise sabhI zabda aura zabdArtha pustaka ke aMta meM bhI die gae haiN| saMpAdakIya jIvana to jI liyA jAtA hai hara kisI se, parantu kharA jIvana usakA jIyA huA kahalAtA hai ki jo jIvana kleza rahita ho! kaliyuga meM to ghara-ghara roja subaha pahale hI cAya-nAztA hI kleza se hotA hai! phira pUre dina meM kleza ke bhojana aura phA~kane kI bAta hI kyA karanI? are, satayuga, dvApara aura tretA meM bhI bar3e-bar3e puruSoM ke jIvana meM kleza AyA hI karate the| sAtvika pAMDavoM ko sArI z2indagI kauravoM ke sAtha mukAbalA karane kI vyUha racanA meM hI gaI! rAmacaMdrajI jaisoM ko vanavAsa aura sItA ke haraNa se lekara TheTha azvamegha yajJa huA vahA~ taka saMgharSa hI rahA! hA~, AdhyAtmika samajha se ve ina sabako samatAbhAva se pAra kara gae, vaha unakI mahAna siddhi mAnI jAegI! yaha, klezamaya jIvana jAe to usakA mukhya kAraNa nAsamajhI hI hai! 'tamAma du:khoM kA mUla tU khuda hI hai!' parama pUjya dAdAzrI kA yaha vidhAna kitanI gahanatA se du:khoM ke mUla kAraNa ko khulA karatA hai, jo kabhI bhI kisI ke dimAg2a meM hI nahIM AyA thA! jIvana naiyA kisa gA~va le jAnI hai vaha nizcita kie binA, dizA jAne binA use calAte hI jAte haiM, calAte hI jAte haiM to maMjila kahA~ se mile? patavAra ghumA ghumAkara thaka jAte haiM, hAra jAte haiM, aura aMta meM bIca samudra meM DUba jAte haiN| isalie jIvana kA dhyeya nizcita karanA ati-ati Avazyaka hai| dhyeya binA kA jIvana paTTA lagAe binA kA iMjana calAte rahane jaisA hai? yadi aMtima dhyeya cAhie to vaha mokSa kA hai aura bIca kA cAhie to jIvana sukhamaya nahIM ho to kucha nahIM parantu klezamaya to nahIM hI honA caahie| hararoz2a subaha dila se pA~ca bAra prArthanA karanI cAhie ki 'prApta mana-vacana-kAyA se isa jagat meM kisI bhI jIva ko kiMcit mAtra duHkha na ho, na ho, na ho!' aura usake bAvajUda bhI kisI ko bhUla se duHkha de diyA jAe to usakA hRdayapUrvaka pachatAvA karake pratikramaNa-pratyAkhyAna karake dho DAlane se jIvana vAstava meM zAMtimaya gujaratA hai| ghara meM mA~-bApa-baccoM ke bIca kI kaca-kaca kA aMta samajha se hI

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aaegaa| isameM mukhya to mA~-bApa ko hI samajhanA hai| atizaya bhAvukatA, moha, mamatA mAra avazya khilAte haiM aura sva-para kA ahita karake hI rahate haiN| 'farja pUre karane haiM, para bhAvukatA ke hiMDole meM jhalanA aura phira giranA nahIM hai|' parama pUjya dAdAzrI ne mA~-bApa aura baccoM ke vyavahAra kI bahuta hI gaharI samajha donoM ke gahare mAnasa ko samajhakara khallI karI hai, jisase lAkhoM ke jIvana sudhara gae haiM! pati-patnI ati-ati premavAle hone ke bAvajUda ati-ati kleza, aisA donoM ke hI jIvana meM dekhane ko milatA hai| eka-dUsare kI hUMpha se itane adhika baMdhe hue haiM ki aMdara sadA kleza ho phira bhI bAhara pati-patnI kI taraha pUrA jIvana jI lete haiN| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra kisa prakAra ho, usakA mArgadarzana saMpUjya zrI dAdAzrI ne ha~sate-ha~sAte de diyA hai| sAsa-baha kA vyavahAra, vyavasAya meM seTha-naukara yA vyApArI-vyApArI ke pArTanaroM ke sAtha ke vyavahAra ko bhI kleza rahita kaise jInA usakI cAbiyA~ dI anukramaNikA kleza rahita jIvana 1. jIvana jIne kI kalA sudhArane ke lie 'kahanA' baMda... 35 aisI 'lAipha' meM kyA sAra? 1 rileTiva samajhakara upalaka rahanA 36 parantu vaha kalA kauna sikhalAe? 2 salAha denI, parantu denI hI par3e... 38 samajha kaisI? ki du:khamaya... 4 aba, isa bhava meM to saMbhAla le 38 aise zauka kI kahA~ z2arUrata hai? 6 saccI sagAI yA parAyI pIr3A? 39 kisameM hita? nizcita karanA par3egA 8 ...phira bhI ucita vyavahAra.... aura aisI goThavaNI se sukha... 10 farja meM nATakIya raho baira khape aura AnaMda bhI rahe 12 baccoM ke sAtha 'glAsa vida kera' 42 sAhibI, phira bhI bhogate nahIM 14 ghara, eka bagIcA saMsAra sahaja hI cale, vahA~... 15 usameM mUrchita hone jaisA hai hI... 45 2. yoga-upayoga paropakArAya vyavahAra normeliTIpUrvaka honA cAhie 46 jIvana meM, mahat kArya hI ye do 17 usakI to AzA hI mata rakhanA 47 paropakAra se puNya sAtha meM 17 'mitratA', vaha bhI 'eDajasTamenTa' 48 paropakAra, pariNAma meM lAbha hI 18 kharA dharmodaya hI aba 48 3. duHkha vAstava meM hai? saMskAra prApta karavAe, vaisA... 49 'rAiTa bilIfa' vahA~ duHkha nahIM 22 isalie sadbhAvanA kI ora mor3o 50 duHkha to kaba mAnA jAtA hai? 22 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 'pemenTa' meM to samatA rakhanI... 24 matabheda meM samAdhAna kisa prakAra? 51 ...nizcita karane jaisA 'projekTa'... 26 ...isalie TakarAva TAlo 53 mAtra bhAvanA hI karanI hai 26 sahana? nahIM, solyuzana lAo 54 4. faimili ArgenAijezana hisAba cuke yA kaoNjez2a par3e? 56 yaha to kaisI lAipha? 28 'nyAya svarUpa', vahA~ upAya tapa 57 aisA saMskAra siMcana zobhA detA... 29 uttama to, eDajasTa evarIvhera 58 premamaya DIliMga - bacce sudhareMge... 30 ghara meM calana chor3anA to par3egA na? 60 ....nahIM to mauna rakhakara 'dekhate' raho 31 riekzanarI prayatna nahIM hI.... 61 ...khuda kA hI sudhArane kI jarUrata 32 ...nahIM to prArthanA kA eDajasTamenTa 62 dakhala nahIM, 'eDajasTa' hone.... 33 'jJAnI' ke pAsa se eDajasTamenTa 63 kevala AtmA-AtmA karake vyavahAra kI pUrI-pUrI upekSA karake Age bar3hanevAle sAdhaka jJAnIpada ko prApta nahIM kara skte| kyoMki unakA jJAna bA~jha jJAna mAnA jAtA hai| asala jJAnI jaise ki parama pUjya dAdAzrI ne vyavahAra aura nizcaya ke do paMkhoM ko samAnAMtara karake mokSagagana meM vihAra kiyA hai aura lAkhoM ko karavAyA hai aura vyavahAra jJAna aura AtmajJAna kI coTI para kI samajha dekara jAgRta kara diyA hai| prastuta pustikA meM jIvana jIne kI kalA, jo parama pUjya dAdAzrI ke zrImukha se nikalI huI bodhakalA ko saMkSipta meM saMkalita karane meM AyA hai| vistArapUrvaka adhika jAnane ke lie pratyeka vyakti ke sAtha ke vyavahAra ke solyuzana ke lie bar3e-bar3e graMtha prApta karake adhika gaharI samajha sujJa pAThaka ko prApta kara lenI jarUrI hai| mA~-bApa-baccoM kA vyavahAra, pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra, vANI kA vyavahAra, paisoM kA vyavahAra ityAdi vyavahAra jJAna ke graMthoM kA ArAdhana karake kleza rahita jIvana jIyA jA sakatA hai| - DaoN. nIrubahana amIna ke jaya saccidAnaMda 9

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Azrita ko kucalanA, ghora anyAya 63 eDajasTa ho jAe~, taba bhI sudhare 99 sAinsa samajhane jaisA 65 sudhArane ke badale sudharane... 100 jo bhugate usakI hI bhUla 66 kise sudhArane kA adhikAra? 101 miyA~-bIvI 66 vyavahAra nibhAnA, eDajasTa hokara 101 jhagar3A karo, para bagIce meM 68 nahIM to vyavahAra kI gutthiyA~... 104 ...yaha to kaisA moha? 68 kAunTarapulI-eDajasTamenTa kI rIti 104 ....aisA karake bhI kleza TAlA 69 ulTA kahane se kalaha huI.... 106 matabheda se pahale hI sAvadhAnI 71 aho! vyavahAra kA matalaba hI... 107 kleza bagaira kA ghara, maMdira jaisA 72 ...aura samyak kahane se kalaha...107 ulTI kamAI, kleza karAe 73 Takora, ahaMkArapUrvaka nahIM karate 108 prayoga to karake dekho 74 yaha abolA to bojhA bar3hAe 109 dharma kiyA (!) phira bhI kleza? 74 prakRti ke anusAra eDajasTamenTa... 110 ...taba bhI hama sulTA kareM 75 saralatA se bhI sulajha jAe 111 'palaTakara' matabheda TAlA 76 ...sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna... 111 ...yaha to kaisA pha~sAva? 78 jhagar3A, roz2a to kaise pusAe? 112 AkSepa, kitane duHkhadAyI! 81 'jhagar3AprUpha' ho jAne jaisA hai 113 khar3akane meM, jokhimadArI khuda..... 82 bairabIja meM se jhagar3oM kA udbhava 114 prakRti pahacAnakara sAvadhAnI rakhanA 83 jJAna se, bairabIja chUTe 114 DIliMga nahIM Ae, to doSa... 83 jaisA abhiprAya vaisA asara 115 'vyavahAra' ko 'isa' taraha se... 87 yaha sadvicAraNA, kitanI acchI 115 'mAra' kA phira badalA letI hai 90 zaMkA, vaha bhI lar3AI-jhagar3e... 116 phariyAda nahIM, nikAla lAnA hai 91 aisI vANI ko nibAha leM 117 sukha lene meM pha~sAva bar3hA 92 mamatA ke peca kholeM kisa taraha? 117 isa taraha zAdI nizcita hotI hai 93 sabhI jagaha pha~sAva kahA~ jAe~? 118 'kaoNmanasensa' se 'solyuzana'... 94 polampola kaba taka DhaMkanI? 119 rileTiva, aMta meM dagA samajha meM... 94 ...aise pha~sAva bar3hatA gayA 120 kucha samajhanA to par3egA na? 96 ...use to 'laTakatI salAma!' 121 rileTiva meM to jor3anA 98 eka ghaMTe kA gunAha, daMDa jindagI pUrI 122 vaha sudharA huA kaba taka Tike? 99 pagalA ahaMkara, to lar3AI... 123 aisI vANI bolane jaisI nahIM hai 1249. manuSyapana kI kImata saMsAra nibhAne ke saMskAra-kahA~? 125 qImata to, sinsiyAriTI.... 149 isameM prema jaisA kahA~ rahA? 125 'inasinsiyAriTI' se bhI mokSa 150 normeliTI, sIkhane jaisI 126 10. Adarza vyavahAra ...zaktiyA~ kitanI 'DAuna' gaI? 127 aMta meM, vyavahAra Adarza cAhiegA 151 bhUla ke anusAra bhUlavAlA mile 128 zuddha vyavahAra : sadvyavahAra 153 zaktiyA~ khilAnevAlA cAhie 129 Adarza vyavahAra se mokSArtha sadhe 154 pratikramaNa se, hisAba saba chUTeM 129 ...to saMsAra asta ho 130 'jJAnI' chur3avAe~, saMsArajAla se 131 aisI bhAvanA se chur3avAnevAle milate hI haiM 132 6. vyapAra, dharma sameta jIvana kisalie kharca hue? 134 vicAraNA karanI, ciMtA nahIM 134 cukAne kI nIyata meM cokhe raho 135 ...jokhima samajhakara, nirbhaya rahanA 136 grAhakI ke bhI niyama haiM 136 prAmANikatA, bhagavAna kA... 138 ...naphA-nukasAna meM, harSa-zoka... 139 vyApAra meM hitAhita byAja lene meM Apatti? 139 kifAyata, to 'nobala' rakhanI 140 7. UparI kA vyavahAra anDarahainDa kI to rakSA karanI... 141 sattA kA durupayoga, to.... 142 8. kudarata ke vahA~ gesTa kudarata, janma se hI hitakArI 144 para dakhalaMdAjI se du:kha mola... 146 ...phira bhI kudarata, sadA madada... 147 10

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kleza rahita jIvana yaha saba ulajhA huA hai! aura vaha Apako akele ko hI hai, aisA nahIM hai, pUre jagat ko hai| 'da varlDa ija da paz2ala ittselph|' yaha 'varlDa' iTaselpha paz2ala ho gayA hai| kleza rahita jIvana 1. jIvana jIne kI kalA aisI 'lAipha' meM kyA sAra? isa jIvana kA hetu kyA hogA, vaha samajha meM AtA hai? koI hetu to hogA na? choTe the, phira bUr3he hote haiM aura phira arathI nikAlate haiN| arathI nikAlate haiM, taba diyA huA nAma le lete haiN| yahA~ Ae ki turanta hI nAma diyA jAtA hai, vyavahAra calAne ke lie! jaise DrAme meM bhartRhari nAma dete haiM na? 'DrAmA' pUrA taba phira nAma puuraa| aise yaha vyavahAra calAne ke lie nAma dete haiM, aura usa nAma para baMgalA, moTara, paise rakhate haiM aura arathI nikAlate haiM, taba vaha saba z2abta ho jAtA hai| loga jIvana gujArate haiM aura phira guz2ara jAte haiN| ye zabda hI 'iTaselpha' kahate haiM ki ye saba avasthAe~ haiN| gujArA kA matalaba hI rAhakharca! aba isa jIvana kA hetu mauja-maje karanA hogA yA phira paropakAra ke lie hogA? yA phira zAdI karake ghara calAnA, vaha hetu hogA? yaha zAdI to anivArya hotI hai| kisI ko zAdI anivArya na ho to zAdI ho hI nhiiN| parantu barabasa zAdI hotI hai na?! yaha saba kyA nAma kamAne kA hetu hai? pahale sItA aura aisI satiyA~ ho gaI haiM, jinakA nAma ho gyaa| parantu nAma to yahA~ kA yahA~ rahanevAlA hai| para sAtha meM kyA le jAnA hai? ApakI gutthiyA~ ! Apako mokSa meM jAnA ho to jAnA, aura nahIM jAnA ho to mata jaanaa| parantu yahA~ ApakI gutthiyoM ke sabhI khulAse kara jaao| yahA~ to haraeka prakAra ke khulAse hote haiN| ye vyavahArika khulAse hote haiM to bhI vakIla paise lete haiM ! para yaha to amUlya khulAsA, usakA mUlya hI nahIM hotA n| dharma vastu to bAda meM karanI hai, parantu pahale jIvana jIne kI kalA jAno aura zAdI karane se pahale bApa hone kA yogyatApatra prApta kro| eka iMjana lAkara usameM peTrola DAleM aura use calAte raheM, para vaha mIniMgalesa jIvana kisa kAma kA? jIvana to hetu sahita honA caahie| yaha to iMjana calatA rahatA hai, calatA hI rahatA hai, vaha nirarthaka nahIM honA caahie| usase paTTA jor3a deM, taba bhI kucha pIsA jaae| para yaha to sArI z2indagI pUrI ho jAe, phira bhI kucha bhI pIsA nahIM jAtA aura Upara se agale bhava ke gunAha khar3e karatA hai| yaha to lAipha pUrI phrekcara ho gaI hai| kisalie jIte haiM, usakA bhAna bhI nahIM rahA ki yaha manuSyasAra nikAlane ke lie maiM jItA hU~! manuSyasAra kyA hai? taba kahe, jisa gati meM jAnA ho, vaha gati mile yA phira mokSa meM jAnA ho to mokSa meM jAyA jA ske| aise manuSyasAra kA kisI ko bhAna hI nahIM hai, isalie bhaTakate rahate haiN| parantu vaha kalA kauna sikhalAe? Aja jagat ko hitAhita kA bhAna hI nahIM hai, saMsAra ke hitAhita kA kucha logoM ko bhAna hotA hai, kyoMki vaha buddhi ke AdhAra para kitanoM ne nizcita kiyA hotA hai| para vaha saMsArI bhAna kahalAtA hai ki saMsAra meM kisa taraha maiM sukhI hoU~? asala meM to yaha bhI karekTa nahIM hai| karekTanesa to kaba kahalAtI hai ki jIvana jIne kI kalA sIkhA ho tb| yaha vakIla huA, phira bhI koI jIvana jIne kI kalA AI nhiiN| taba DaoNkTara binA phira bhI vaha kalA nahIM aaii| yaha Apa ArTisTa kI kalA sIkha lAe yA dUsarI koI bhI kalA sIkha lAe, vaha koI jIvana jIne kI kalA nahIM khlaatii| jIvana jIne kI kalA to, koI manuSya acchA jIvana jItA ho, use hama kaheM ki Apa yaha kisa taraha jIvana jIte ho, aisA kucha mujhe

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1. jIvana jIne kI kalA sikhlaao| maiM kisa taraha calU~, to vaha kalA sIkha sakatA hU~? usake kalAdhara cAhie, usakA kalAdhara honA cAhie, usakA guru honA caahie| para isakI to kisI ko par3I hI nahIM na ! jIvana jIne kI kalA kI to bAta hI ur3Akara rakhI hai na? hamAre pAsa yadi koI rahatA ho to use yaha kalA mila jaae| phira bhI, pUre jagat ko yaha kalA nahIM AtI aisA hamase nahIM kahA jA sktaa| parantu yadi kampalITa jIvana jIne kI kalA sIkhe hue hoM na to lAipha ijI rahe, parantu dharma to sAtha meM cAhie hI jIvana jIne kI kalA meM dharma mukhya vastu hai| aura dharma meM bhI dUsarA kucha nahIM, mokSadharma kI bhI bAta nahIM, mAtra bhagavAna kI AjJArUpI dharma pAlanA hai| mahAvIra bhagavAna yA kRSNa bhagavAna yA jisa kisI bhagavAna ko Apa mAnate hoM, unakI AjJAe~ kyA kahanA cAhatI haiM, ve samajhakara pAlo / aba sabhI na pAlI jAe~ to jitanI pAlI jA sakeM, utanI saccI aba AjJA meM aisA ho ki brahmacarya pAlanA aura hama zAdI karake le Ae~ to vaha virodhAbhAsa huA khlaaegaa| asala meM ve aisA nahIM kahate ki Apa aisA virodhAbhAsavAlA krnaa| ve to aisA kahate haiM ki tere se jitanI hamArI AjJAe~ eDajasTa hoM, utanI eDajasTa kr| apane se do AjJAe~ eDajasTa nahIM huI to kyA sabhI AjJAe~ rakha denI cAhie? apane se hotA nahIM, isIlie kyA hameM chor3a denA cAhie? Apako kaisA lagatA hai? koI do nahIM pAla sakate to dUsarI do AjJAe~ pAla sakeM taba bhI bahuta ho gyaa| logoM ko vyavahAradharma bhI itanA U~cA milanA cAhie ki jisase logoM ko jIvana jIne kI kalA aae| jIvana jIne kI kalA Ae use hI vyavahAradharma kahA hai| koI tapa, tyAga karane se vaha kalA AtI nahIM hai| yaha to ajIrNa huA ho, to kucha upavAsa jaisA krnaa| jise jIvana jIne kI kalA A gaI use to pUrA vyavahAradharma A gayA, aura nizcayadharma to Devalapa hokara Ae hoM, to prApta hotA hai aura isa akrama mArga meM to nizcayadharma jJAnI kI kRpA se hI prApta ho jAtA hai! 'jJAnI puruSa' ke pAsa to anaMta jJAnakalAe~ hotI haiM aura anaMta prakAra kI bodhakalAe~ hotI haiM ! ve kalAe~ itanI suMdara hotI haiM ki sarva prakAra ke duHkhoM se mukta karatI haiN| kleza rahita jIvana samajha kaisI? ki duHkhamaya jIvana jIyA ! 'yaha' jJAna hI aisA hai ki jo sIdhA kare aura jagat ke loga to hamane sIdhA DAlA ho, phira bhI ulTA kara dete haiN| kyoMki samajha ulTI hai| ulTI samajha hai, isIlie ulTA karate haiM, nahIM to isa hiMdustAna meM kisI jagaha para duHkha nahIM haiM? ye jo duHkha haiM ve nAsamajhI ke duHkha haiM aura loga sarakAra ko kosate haiM, bhagavAna ko kosate haiM ki ye hameM duHkha dete haiM! loga to basa kosane kA dhaMdhA hI sIkhe haiN| abhI koI nAsamajhI se, bhUla se khaTamala mArane kI davAI pI jAe to vaha davAI use chor3a degI? praznakartA: nahIM chodd'egii| dAdAzrI : kyoM, bhUla se pI lI thI na? jAna-bUjhakara nahIM pI phira bhI vaha nahIM chor3egI? praznakartA: nhiiN| usakA asara nahIM chor3egA / dAdAzrI : aba use mAratA hai kauna? vaha khaTamala mArane kI davAI use mAratI hai, bhagavAna nahIM mAratA, yaha duHkha denA yA dUsarI koI vastu karanI vaha bhagavAna nahIM karatA, pudgala hI duHkha detA hai / yaha khaTamala kI davAI bhI pudgala hI hai na? hameM isakA anubhava hotA hai yA nahIM hotA? isa kAla ke jIva pUrvavirAdhaka vRttiyoMvAle haiM, pUrvavirAdhaka kahalAte haiN| pahale ke kAla ke loga to khAne-pIne kA nahIM ho, kapar3e-latte nahIM hoM, phira bhI calA lete the, aura abhI to koI bhI kamI nahIM, phira bhI itanI adhika kalaha hI kalaha ! usameM bhI pati ko inkama Taiksa, selsa Taiksa ke laphar3e hote haiM, isIlie vahA~ ke sAhaba se ve Darate haiM aura ghara para bAIsAhaba ko pUcheM ki Apa kyoM DaratI ho? taba vaha kahe ki mere pati sakhta haiN| cAra vastue~ milI hoM aura kalaha kareM, ve saba mUrkha, phUliza kahalAte haiN| TAima para khAnA milatA hai yA nahIM milatA? phira cAhe jaisA ho, ghI

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1. jIvana jIne kI kalA vAlA yA binA ghI kA, para milatA hai na? TAima para cAya milatI hai yA nahIM milatI? phira do TAima ho yA eka TAima, para cAya milatI hai yA nahIM milatI? aura kapar3e milate hai yA nahIM milate? kamIz2a-penTa, sardI meM, ThaMDa meM pahanane ko kapar3e milate haiM yA nahIM milate? par3e rahane ke lie koThar3I hai yA nahIM? itanI cAra vastue~ mileM aura phira zora macAe~, una sabhI ko jela meM DAla denA cAhie! phira bhI use zikAyata rahatI ho to use zAdI kara lenI caahie| zAdI kI zikAyata ke lie jela meM nahIM DAla dete| ina cAra vastuoM ke sAtha isakI z2arUrata hai| umara ho jAe, use zAdI ke lie manA nahIM kara skte| para isameM bhI, kitane hI zAdI ho gaI ho aura use tor3a DAlate haiM, aura phira akele rahate haiM aura duHkha mola lete haiN| ho cukI zAdI ko tor3a DAlate haiM, kisa taraha kI pablika hai yaha?! ye cAra-pA~ca vastue~ na hoM to hama samajheM ki ise z2arA aDacana par3a rahI hai| vaha bhI du:kha nahIM kahalAtA, ar3acana kahalAtA hai| yaha to sArA dina duHkha meM nikAlatA hai, sArA dina taraMga (zekhacillI jaisI kalpanAe~) karatA hI rahatA hai| taraha-taraha ke taraMga karatA rahatA hai! eka vyakti kA mu~ha z2arA hiTalara jaisA thA, usakA nAka z2arA milatA-julatA thaa| vaha apane Apako mana meM khuda mAna baiThA thA ki hama to hiTalara jaise haiM ! ghanacakkara ! kahA~ hiTalara aura kahA~ tU? kyA mAna baiThA hai? hiTalara to yoM hI AvAz2a de, to sArI duniyA hila uThe! aba ina logoM ke taraMgoM kA kahA~ pAra Ae? isalie vastu kI koI jarUrata nahIM hai, yaha to ajJAnatA kA duHkha hai| hama 'svarUpajJAna' dete haiM, phira da:kha nahIM rhte| hamAre pA~ca vAkyoM meM Apa kahA~ nahIM rahate, utanA hI basa dekhate rahanA hai! apane TAima para khAnA khAne kA saba milatA rhegaa| aura vaha phira 'vyavasthita hai| yadi dAr3hI apane Apa ugatI hai to kyA tujhe khAne-pIne kA nahIM milegA? isa dAr3hI kI icchA nahIM hai, phira bhI vaha baDhatI hai na! aba Apako adhika vastuoM kI z2arUrata nahIM hai na? adhika vastuoM kI dekho na kitanI sArI upAdhI hai! Apako svarUpajJAna milane se pahale taraMgeM AtI thIM na? kleza rahita jIvana taraMgo ko Apa pahacAnate ho na? praznakartA : jI hA~, taraMgeM AtI thiiN| dAdAzrI : bhItara taraha-taraha kI taraMgeM AyA karatI haiM, una taraMgoM ko bhagavAna ne AkAzI phUla kahA hai| AkAzI phUla kaisA thA aura kaisA nahIM thA? usake jaisI bAta! sabhI taraMga meM aura anaMga meM, do meM hI par3e hue haiN| aise, sIdhI dhaula (hathelI se mAranA) nahIM mArate haiN| sIdhI dhaula mAreM vaha to paddhatipUrvaka kA kahalAtA hai| bhItara 'eka dhaula lagA dUMgA' aisI anaMga dhaula mAratA rahatA hai| jagat taraMgI bhUtoM meM tar3apatA rahatA hai| aisA hogA to, aisA hogA aura vaisA hogaa| aise zauka kI kahA~ z2arUrata hai? jagat pUrA 'annesesarI' parigraha ke sAgara meM DUba gayA hai| 'nesesarI' ko bhagavAna parigraha kahate nahIM haiN| isalie haraeka ko khuda kI nesesiTI kitanI hai, yaha nizcita kara lenA caahie| isa deha ko mukhya kisakI z2arUrata hai? mukhya to havA kii| vaha use hara kSaNa phrI oNpha kaoNsTa milatI hI rahatI hai| dUsarA, pAnI kI jarUrata hai| vaha bhI use phrI oNpha kaoNsTa milatA hI rahatA hai| phira z2arUrata khAne kI hai| bhUkha lagatI hai matalaba kyA ki phAyara huI, isIlie use bujhaao| isa phAyara ko bajhAne ke lie kyA cAhie? taba ye loga kahate haiM ki 'zrIkhaMDa, bAsuMdI!' are nahIM, jo ho vaha DAla de na aNdr| khicar3I-kar3hI DAlI ho taba bhI vaha bujha jAtI hai| phira sekanDarI sTeja kI z2arUrata meM pahanane kA, paDe rahane kA vaha hai| jIne ke lie kyA mAna kI z2arUrata hai? yaha to mAna ko DhUMDhatA hai aura mUrcchita hokara phiratA hai| yaha saba 'jJAnI puruSa' ke pAsa se jAna lenA cAhie na? ___eka dina yadi nala meM cInI DAlA huA pAnI Ae to loga Uba jaaeN| are! Uba gae? to kahe, 'hA~, hameM to sAdA hI pAnI caahie|' aisA yadi ho na to use sacce kI qImata samajha meM aae| ye loga to phenTA aura kokAkolA khojate haiN| are, tujhe kisakI z2arUrata hai vaha jAna le na! zuddha havA, zuddha pAnI aura rAta ko khicar3I mila gaI to yaha deha zora

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1. jIvana jIne kI kalA macAtA hai? nahIM mcaataa| isalie z2arUrateM kyA hai, itanA nizcita kara lo| jaba ki ye loga khAsa prakAra kI AiskrIma ddhuuNddheNge| kabIra sAhaba kyA kahate 'terA bairI koI nahIM, terA bairI ph'el|' kleza rahita jIvana hippI yahA~ Ae aura yahA~ ke logoM ne unakI nakala kara ddaalii| ise jIvana kahA hI kaise jAe? loga 'gur3a milatA nahIM, cInI milatI nahIM' aise zora macAte rahate haiN| khAne kI cIjoM ke lie kyA zora macAnA cAhie? khAne kI cIjoM ko to tuccha mAnA gayA hai| khAne kA to, peTa hai to mila hI jAtA hai| dA~ta hai utane kaura mila hI jAte haiN| dA~ta bhI kaise haiM! cIrane ke, phAr3ane ke, cabAne ke, alg-alg| ye A~kheM kitanI acchI haiM? karor3a rupaye deM taba bhI aisI A~kheM mileM? nahIM mileN| are, lAkha rupaye hoM taba bhI abhAgA kahegA, 'maiM duHkhI huuN'| apane pAsa itanI sArI qImatI vastue~ haiM, unakI qImata samajhatA nahIM hai| ye sirpha A~kha kI hI qImata samajhe, taba bhI sukha lge| ye dA~ta bhI aMta meM to divAliyA nikAlanevAle haiM, para Ajakala banAvaTI dA~ta DAlakara unheM pahale jaise banA dete haiN| para vaha bhUta jaisA lagatA hai| kudarata ko naye dA~ta dene hote to vaha nahIM detI? choTe bacce ko naye dA~ta detI hai na? isa deha ko gehU~ khilAe, dAla khilAI, phira bhI aMta meM arathI! sabakI arathI! aMta meM to yaha arathI hI nikalanevAlI hai| arathI yAnI kudarata kI jbtii| saba yahIM rakhakara jAnA hai aura sAtha meM kyA le jAnA hai? gharavAloM ke sAtha kI, grAhakoM ke sAtha kI, vyApAriyoM ke sAtha kI gutthiyA~ ! bhagavAna ne kahA hai ki 'he jIvoM! samajho, samajho, smjho| manuSyapana phira se milanA mahAdurlabha hai|' annesesarI ke lie bekAra hI bhAgadaur3a karatA hai, vahI fela kahalAtA hai| tU hindustAna meM rahatA hai aura nahAne ke lie pAnI mA~ge to hama tujhe fela nahIM kaheMge? 'apane fela miTA de, phira galI-galI meM phir|' isa deha kI z2arUrateM kitanI? zuddha ghI, dUdha caahie| taba vaha zuddha nahIM dete aura peTa meM kacarA DAlate haiN| ve phela kisa kAma ke? ye sira meM kyA DAlate haiM? zempU, sAbuna jaisA nahIM dikhatA aura pAnI jaisA dikhatA hai, aisA sira meM ddaaleNge| ina akkala ke khajAno ne aisI khoja karI ki jo phela nahIM the ve bhI phela ho gae! isase aMtarasukha ghaTa gayA! bhagavAna ne kyA kahA thA ki bAhyasukha aura aMtarasukha ke bIca meM pA~ca-dasa pratizata pharka hogA to calegA, para yaha nabbe pratizata kA pharka ho taba to nahIM clegaa| itanA bar3A hone ke bAda phira vaha phela hotA hai, maranA pdd'egaa| para aise nahIM marA jAtA aura sahana karanA par3atA hai| ye to kevala fela hI haiM, annesesarI z2arUrateM khar3I karI haiN| eka ghaMTA bajAra baMda ho gayA ho jAe to logoM ko ciMtA ho jAtI hai! are, tujhe kyA cAhie ki tujhe ciMtA hotI hai? to kahe ki, mujhe jarA AiskrIma cAhie, sigareTa caahie| yaha to fela hI bar3hAyA na? yaha aMdara sukha nahIM hai isalie loga bAhara DhUMDhate rahate haiN| bhItara aMtarasukha kI jo silaka thI, vaha bhI Aja calI gaI hai| aMtarasukha kA bailensa mata todd'naa| yaha to jaise acchA lage vaise silaka (rAhakharca, pU~jI) kharca kara ddaalii| to phira aMtarasukha kA bailensa hI kisa taraha rahe? nakala karake jInA acchA yA asala? ye bacce eka-dUsare kI nakala karate haiN| hameM nakala kaisI? ye faoNrena ke loga apanI nakala kara jAte haiN| para ye to faoNrena ke thor3e jalagA jIvana jIne kI kalA isa kAla meM nahIM hotI hai| mokSa kA mArga to jAne do, para jIvana jInA to AnA cAhie na? / kisameM hita? nizcita karanA par3egA hamAre pAsa vyavahAra jAgRti to niraMtara hotI hai! koI ghar3I kI kaMpanI mere pAsa se paise nahIM le gaI hai| kisI reDiyovAle kI kaMpanI mere pAsa

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1. jIvana jIne kI kalA se paise nahIM le gaI hai| hamane to kharIdA hI nhiiN| ina sabakA artha hI kyA hai? mIniMgalesa hai| jisa ghar3I ne mujhe parezAna kiyA, jise dekhate hI aMdara atyaMta du:kha lage, vaha kisa kAma kA? kAphI kucha logoM ko bApa ko dekhane se aMdara dveSa aura cir3ha hotI hai| khuda par3hatA nahIM ho, kitAba eka tarapha rakhakara khela meM par3A ho, aura acAnaka bApa ko dekhe to use dveSa aura cir3ha hotI hai, vaise hI isa ghar3I ko dekhate hI cir3ha hotI hai to phira rakho ghar3I ko eka trph| aura yaha dUsarA saba, reDiyo, TI.vI. to pratyakSa pAgalapana hai, pratyakSa 'meDanesa' hai| praznakartA: reDiyo to ghara-ghara meM haiN| dAdAzrI : vaha bAta alaga hai| jahA~ jJAna hI nahIM, vahA~ para kyA ho? use hI moha kahate haiM na? moha kise kahate haiM? binA z2arUrata kI cIz2a ko lAe~ aura z2arUrata kI cIz2a meM kamI kare, usakA nAma moha kahalAtA hai| yaha kisake jaisA hai, vaha kahU~? isa pyAz2a ko cInI kI cAsanI meM DAlakara deM to le Ae, usake jaisA hai| are, tujhe pyAja khAnI hai yA cAsanI khAnI hai, vaha pahale pakkA to kr| pyAz2a vaha pyAz2a honI caahie| nahIM to pyAja khAne kA artha hI kyA hai? yaha to sArA pAgalapana hai| khuda kA koI DisIjana nahIM, khuda kI sUjha nahIM aura kucha bhAna hI nahIM hai! kisI ko pyAja ko cInI kI cAsanI meM khAte hue dekhe to khuda bhI khAtA hai! pyAz2a aisI vastu hai ki cInI kI cAsanI meM DAlA ki vaha yUz2alesa ho jAtA hai| isalie kisI ko bhAna nahIM hai, bilakala bebhAnapanA hai| khada apane Apa ko mana meM mAnatA hai ki maiM kucha ha~ aura use nA bhI kaise kahA jAe hamase? ye AdivAsI bhI mana meM samajhate haiM ki maiM kucha huuN| kyoMki use aisA hotA hai ki ina do gAyoM aura ina do bailoM kA maiM UparI hU~! aura una cAra janoM kA vaha UparI hI mAnA jAegA na? jaba unheM mAranA ho, taba vaha mAra sakatA hai, usake lie adhikArI hai vh| aura kisI kA UparI na ho to aMta meM patnI kA to UparI hogA hii| ise kaise pahu~ca sakeM? jahA~ viveka nahIM, sAra-asAra kA bhAna nahIM, vahA~ kyA ho? mokSa kI bAta to jAne do, para sAMsArika hitAhita kA bhI bhAna nahIM hai| kleza rahita jIvana saMsAra kyA kahatA hai ki rezamI cAdara muphta meM milatI ho to vaha lAkara bichAo mata aura kaoNTana mola milatI ho taba bhI laao| aba Apa pUchoge ki isameM kyA phAyadA! to kahe, yaha muphta lAne kI Adata par3ane ke bAda yadi kabhI nahIM mile to muzkila meM par3a jaaegaa| isalie aisI Adata rakhanA ki hamezA milatA rhe| isalie kaoNTana kI kharIdakara laanaa| nahIM to Adata par3ane ke bAda muzkila lgegaa| yaha jagat hI sArA aisA ho gayA hai, upayoga nAma ko bhI nahIM miltaa| bar3e-bar3e AcArya mahArAjoM ko kaheM ki sAhaba ye cAra gaddoM meM Aja so jaaie| to unheM mahAupAdhi lagegI, nIMda hI nahIM AegI sArI rAta ! kyoMki darI para sone kI Adata par3I huI hai na! inheM darI kI Adata ho gaI hai aura ye cAra gaddo kI AdatavAle haiN| bhagavAna ko to donoM hI kabala nahIM haiN| sAdha ke tapa ko yA gRhasthI ke vilAsa ko bhagavAna kabUla karate nhiiN| ve to kahate haiM ki yadi ApakA upayogapUrvaka hogA to vaha sccaa| upayoga nahIM aura aise hI Adata par3a jAe to saba mIniMgalesa kahalAtA hai| bAteM hI samajhane kI hai ki isa rAste para aisA hai aura isa rAste para aisA hai| phira nizcita karanA hai ki kauna-se rAste jAnA cAhie! nahIM samajha meM Ae to 'dAdA' ko puuchnaa| taba dAdA Apako batAe~ge ki ye tIna rAste jokhimavAle haiM aura yaha rAstA binA jokhima kA hai, usa rAste para hamAre AzIrvAda lekara calanA hai| aura aisI goThavaNI se sukha AtA hai eka vyakti mujhe kahatA hai ki, 'mujhe kucha samajha nahIM par3atI hai| kucha AzIrvAda mujhe diijie|' usake sira para hAtha rakhakara maiMne kahA, 'jA, Aja se sukha kI dukAna khol| abhI tere pAsa jo hai vaha dukAna khAlI kara ddaal|' sukha kI dukAna matalaba kyA? subaha se uThe taba se dUsare ko sukha denA, dUsarA vyApAra nahIM krnaa| aba usa manuSya ko to yaha bahuta acchI taraha se samajha meM A gyaa| usane to basa yaha zurU kara diyA, isalie vaha to khUba AnaMda meM A gayA! sukha kI dukAna khole na, taba phira tere bhAga meM sukha hI rahegA aura logoM ke bhAga meM bhI sukha hI jaaegaa|

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1. jIvana jIne kI kalA 11 hamArI halavAI kI dukAna ho phira kisI ke vahA~ jalebI mola lene jAnA par3atA hai? jaba khAnI ho taba khA sakate haiN| dukAna hI halavAI kI ho vahA~ phira kyA? isalie tU sukha kI hI dukAna kholanA / phira koI upAdhI hI nhiiN| Apako jisakI dukAna kholanI ho usakI kholI jA sakatI hai| yadi hararoja na kholI jA sake to saptAha meM eka dina ravivAra ke dina to kholo ! Aja ravivAra hai, 'dAdA' ne kahA hai ki sukha kI dukAna kholanI hai| Apako sukha ke grAhaka mila aaeNge| 'vyavasthita' kA niyama hI aisA hai ki grAhaka milavA detA hai| vyavasthita kA niyama yaha hai ki tUne jo nizcita kiyA ho usa anusAra tujhe grAhaka bhijavA detA hai| jise jo acchA lagatA ho, use usakI dukAna kholanI caahie| kitane to ukasAte hI rahate haiN| usameM se unheM kyA milatA hai? kisI ko halavAI kA zauka ho to vaha kisakI dukAna kholegA ? halavAI kI hI n| logoM ko kisakA zauka hai? sukha kA / sukha kI hI dukAna khola, jisase loga sukha pAe~ aura khuda ke gharavAle bhI sukha bhogeM / khAo, pIo aura maz2e kro| AnevAle duHkha ke phoTo mata utaaro| sirpha nAma sunA ki caMdUbhAI AnevAle haiM, abhI taka Ae nahIM haiM, sirpha patra hI AyA hai, taba se hI usake phoTo khIMcane zurU kara dete haiN| ye 'dAdA' to 'jJAnI puruSa' unakI dukAna kaisI calatI hai ? pUrA dina ! yaha dAdA kI sukha kI dukAna, usameM kisI ne patthara DAlA ho taba bhI phira use gulAbajAmuna khilAte haiN| sAmanevAle ko thor3e hI patA hai ki yaha sukha kI dukAna hai isalie yahA~ patthara nahIM mArA jAe? vaha to nizAnA lagAe binA jahA~ mana meM AyA vahA~ mAratA hai| hameM kisI ko duHkha nahIM denA hai, aisA nizcita kiyA phira bhI denevAlA to de hI jAegA na? taba kyA karegA tU? dekha maiM tujhe eka rAstA batAU~ / tujhe saptAha meM eka dina 'posTa oNphisa' baMda rakhanA hai| usa dina kisI kA manIoNrDara svIkAranA nahIM hai aura kisI ko manIoNrDara karanA 12 kleza rahita jIvana bhI nahIM hai| aura yadi koI bheje to use eka tarapha rakha denA aura kahanA ki Aja posTa oNphisa baMda hai, kala bAta kreNge| hamArA to kAyama posTa oNphisa baMda hI hotA hai| ye divAlI ke dina saba kisalie samajhadAra ho jAte haiM? unakI 'bilIfa' badala jAtI hai, isalie Aja divAlI kA dina hai, AnaMda meM jAne denA hai aisA nizcita karate haiM, isalie unakI bilIfa badala jAtI hai, isalie AnaMda meM rahate haiN| 'hama' mAlika haiM, isalie goThavaNI (seTiMga ) kara sakate haiN| tUne nizcita kiyA ho ki Aja mujhe halakApana nahIM karanA hai| to tujhase halakApana nahIM hogaa| ye haphte meM eka dina hameM niyama meM rahanA hai, posTa oNphisa baMda karake eka dina baiThanA hai| phira cAhe loga cillAe~ ki Aja posTa oNphisa baMda hai ? baira khape aura AnaMda bhI rahe isa jagat meM kisI bhI jIva ko kiMcit mAtra duHkha nahIM dene kI bhAvanA ho tabhI kamAI kahalAtI hai| aisI bhAvanA roz2a subaha karanI caahie| koI gAlI de, vaha hameM pasaMda nahIM ho to use jamA hI karanA cAhie, patA nahIM lagAnA hai ki maiMne use kaba dI thii| hameM to turanta hI jamA kara lenI cAhie ki hisAba pUrA ho gyaa| aura yadi cAra vApisa de dIM to bahIkhAtA calatA hI rahegA, use RNAnubaMdha kahate haiN| bahI baMda kI yAnI khAtA baMda / ye loga to kyA karate haiM ki usane eka gAlI dI ho to yaha Upara se cAra detA hai ! bhagavAna ne kyA kahA hai ki jo rakama tujhe acchI lagatI ho vaha udhAra de aura acchI nahIM lagatI ho, to udhAra mata denaa| koI vyakti kahe ki Apa bahuta acche ho to hama bhI kaheM ki, 'bhAI Apa bhI bahuta acche ho|' aisI acchI laganevAlI bAteM udhAra do to clegaa| yaha saMsAra, pUrA hisAba cukAne kA kArakhAnA hai| baira to sAsa banakara, bahU banakara, beTA banakara, aMta meM baila banakara bhI cukAnA par3atA hai| baila lene ke bAda, rupaye bAraha sau cukAne ke bAda, phira dUsare dina vaha mara jAtA hai ! aisA hai yaha jagat !! anaMta janma baira meM hI gae haiM! yaha jagat baira se

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14 kleza rahita jIvana ki bhAtA hai, to vaha galata taraha se mana ko manAnA nahIM huA? 1. jIvana jIne kI kalA 13 khar3A rahA hai ! ye hindU to ghara meM baira bA~dhate haiM aura ina muslimoM ko dekho to ve ghara meM baira nahIM bA~dhate haiM, bAhara jhagar3A kara Ate haiN| ve jAnate haiM ki hameM to isI ke isI kamare meM aura isI ke sAtha hI rAta ko par3e rahanA hai, vahA~ jhagar3A karanA kaise pusAe? jIvana jIne kI kalA kyA hai ki saMsAra meM baira na baMdhe aura chUTa jaaeN| to bhAga to ye sAdhu-saMnyAsI bhI jAte hI haiM na? bhAga nahIM jAnA caahie| yaha to jIvana saMgrAma hai, janma se hI saMgrAma zurU! vahA~ loga mauja-maz2e meM par3a gae haiM! ghara ke sabhI logoM ke sAtha, AsapAsa. oNphisa meM saba logoM ke sAtha 'samabhAva se nikAla' krnaa| ghara meM nahIM bhAtA ho aisA bhojana thAlI meM AyA, vahA~ samabhAva se nikAla krnaa| kisI ko parezAna mata karanA, jo thAlI meM Ae vaha khaanaa| jo sAmane AyA vaha saMyoga hai aura bhagavAna ne kahA hai ki saMyoga ko dhakkA mAregA to vaha dhakkA tujhe lagegA! isalie hameM nahIM bhAtI, aisI vastu parosI ho taba bhI usameM se do cIz2a khA lete haiN| nA khAe~ to do logoM ke sAtha jhagar3e hoN| eka to jo lAyA ho, jisane banAyA ho, usake sAtha jhaMjhaTa ho, tiraskAra lage, aura dUsarI tarapha khAne kI cIz2a ke saath| khAne kI cIz2a kahatI hai ki maiMne kyA gunAha kiyA? maiM tere pAsa AI hU~, aura tU merA apamAna kisalie karatA hai? tujhe ThIka lage utanA le, para apamAna mata karanA meraa| aba use hameM mAna nahIM denA cAhie? hameM to de jAe~, taba bhI hama use mAna dete haiN| kyoMki eka to milatA nahIM hai aura mila jAe to mAna denA par3atA hai| yaha khAne kI cIz2a dI aura usakI Apane kamI nikAlI to isameM sukha ghaTegA yA bar3hegA? praznakartA : ghttegaa| dAdAzrI : ghaTe vaha vyApAra to nahIM karoge na? jisase sukha ghaTe aisA vyApAra nahIM hI kiyA jAe na? mujhe to bahuta bAra nahIM bhAtI ho aisI sabjI ho vaha khA lU~ aura Upara se kahU~ ki Aja kI sabjI bahuta acchI dAdAzrI : galata taraha se mana ko manAnA nahIM hai| eka to 'bhAtA hai' aisA kaheM to apane gale utregaa| 'nahIM bhAtA' kahA to phira sabjI ko gussA cddh'egaa| banAnevAle ko gussA cddh'egaa| aura ghara ke bacce kyA samajheMge ki ye dakhalavAle vyakti hamezA aisA hI kiyA karate haiM? ghara ke bacce apanI AbarU (?) dekha lete haiN| hamAre ghara meM bhI koI jAnatA nahIM ki 'dAdA' ko yaha bhAtA nahIM yA bhAtA hai| yaha rasoI banAnI vaha kyA banAnevAle ke hAtha kA khela hai? vaha to khAnevAle ke vyavasthita ke hisAba se thAlI meM AtA hai, usameM dakhala nahIM karanI caahie| sAhibI, phira bhI bhogate nahIM ye hoTala meM khAte haiM to bAda meM peTa meM maror3a hote haiN| hoTala meM khAne ke bAda dhIre-dhIre aise simaTa jAtA hai aura eka tarapha par3A rahatA hai| phira vaha jaba paripAka hotA hai, taba maror3a uThate haiN| aiMThana ho, vaha kitane hI varSoM ke bAda paripAka hotA hai| hameM to yaha anubhava huA usake bAda se sabase kahate ki hoTala kA nahIM khAnA caahie| hama eka bAra miThAI kI dukAna para khAne gae the| vaha miThAI banA rahA thA usameM pasInA par3a rahA thA, kacarA gira rahA thA! Ajakala to ghara para bhI khAne kA banAte haiM, vaha kahA~ cokhA hotA hai? ATA gUMdate haiM, taba hAtha nahIM dhoe hote, nAkhUna meM maila bharA hotA hai| Ajakala nAkhUna kATate nahIM na? yahA~ kitane hI Ate haiM, unake nAkhana laMbe hote haiM, taba mujhe unheM kahanA par3atA hai, 'bahana, isameM Apako lAbha hai kyA? lAbha ho to nAkhUna rahane denaa| tujhe koI DraoNiMga kA kAma karanA ho to rahane denaa|' taba vaha kahe ki nahIM, kala kATakara aauuNgii| ina logoM ko koI sensa hI nahIM hai ! nAkhUna bar3hAte haiM aura kAna ke pAsa reDiyo lekara phirate haiM! khuda kA sukha kisameM hai vaha bhAna hI nahIM hai, aura khuda kA bhI bhAna kahA~ hai? vaha to logoM ne jo bhAna diyA vahI bhAna hai| hai| praznakartA : vaha droha nahIM kahalAtA? na bhAtA ho aura hama kaheM

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1. jIvana jIne kI kalA bAhara kitane sAre ezo-ArAma bhogane ke haiM! ye lAkha rupaye kI DabalaDekara basa meM ATha Ane deM to yahA~ se TheTha carcageTa taka baiThakara jAne kA milatA hai| usameM gaddI phira kitanI acchI! are! khuda ke ghara para bhI aisI nahIM hotI! aba itane acche puNya mile haiM phira bhI bhoganA nahIM AtA hai, nahIM to hindustAna ke manuSya ko lAkha rupaye kI basa kahA~ se bhAgya meM ho? yaha moTara meM jAte ho to kahIM dhUla ur3atI hai? naa| vaha to rAste dhUla binA ke haiN| cale to pairoM para bhI dhUla nahIM cddh'tii| bAdazAha ko bhI usake samaya meM rAste dhulavAle the, vaha bAhara jAkara Ae to dhUla se bhara jAtA thA! aura ise bAdazAha se bhI jyAdA sAhibI hai, parantu bhoganA hI nahIM AtA na? yaha basa meM baiThA ho taba bhI aMdara cakkara zurU! saMsAra sahaja hI cale, vahA~.... kleza rahita jIvana ye saMsAra calAnA to apane Apa hI A jAe aisA hai| hA~, 'svarUpajJAna' prApta karane ke lie puruSArtha karane kI z2arUrata hai| saMsAra ko calAne ke lie kucha bhI karane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| ye manuSya akele hI bahuta adhika akkalavAle haiN| ina pazu-pakSiyoM ke kyA bIvI-bacce nahIM haiM? unheM zAdI karavAnI par3atI hai? yaha to manuSyoM ke hI patnI-bacce hue haiN| manuSya hI zAdI karavAne meM par3e hue haiN| paise ikaTThe karane meM par3e hue haiN| are, AtmA jAnane ke pIche mehanata kara na! dUsare kisI ke lie mehanata-majadUrI karane jaisI hai hI nhiiN| abhI taka jo kucha kiyA hai, vaha duHkha manAne jaisA kiyA hai| yaha bacce ko corI karanA kauna sikhAtA hai? saba bIja meM hI rahA huA hai| yaha nIma haraeka patte meM kar3avA kisalie hai? usake bIja meM hI kar3avAhaTa rahI huI hai| ye manuSya akele hI du:khI-du:khI haiM, parantu usameM unakA koI doSa nhiiN| kyoMki cauthe Are taka sukha thA, aura yaha to pA~cavA~ ArA, isa Are (kAlacakra kA bArahavA~ hissA) kA nAma hI dUSamakAla! isalie mahAduHkha uThAkara bhI samatA utpanna nahIM hotI hai| kAla kA nAma hI dUSama!! phira suSama DhUMDhanA vaha bhUla hai na? kucha du:kha jaisA hai hI nahIM aura jo hai ve nAsamajhI ke duHkha haiN| isa duniyA meM kitane sAre jIva haiN| asaMkhya jIva haiM ! parantu kisI kI pukAra nahIM ki hamAre yahA~ akAla par3A hai| aura ye mUrkha hara sAla zora macAyA karate haiM ! isa samudra meM koI jIva bhUkhA mara gayA ho aisA hai? ye kaue vagairaha bhUkhe mara jAte haiM aisA hai? nA, ve bhUkha se nahIM maranevAle, vaha to kahIM TakarA gae hoM, eksiDenTa ho gayA ho, yA phira AyuSya pUrA ho gayA ho, taba mara jAte haiN| koI kauA Apako duHkhI dikhA hai? koI sUkhakara dubalA ho gayA ho aisA kauA dekhA hai Apane? ina kuttoM ko kabhI nIMda kI goliyA~ khAnI par3atI haiM? ve to kitane ArAma se so jAte haiN| ye abhAge hI bIsa-bIsa goliyA~ sone ke lie khAte haiM! nIMda to kudarata kI bheMTa hai, nIMda meM to sacamuca kA AnaMda hotA hai ! aura ye DaoNkTara to behoza hone kI davAIyA~ dete haiN| goliyA~ khAkara behoza honA, vaha to zarAba pIte haiM, usake jaisA hai| koI blaDaprezaravAlA kauA dekhA hai Apane! yaha manuSya nAma kA jIva akelA hI du:khI hai| isa manuSya akele ko hI kaoNleja kI z2arUrata hai| ye cir3iyA~ suMdara ghoMsalA banAtI haiM, to unheM kauna sikhAne gayA thA?

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2. yoga-upayoga paropakArAya jIvana meM, mahat kArya hI ye do manuSya kA janma kisalie hai? khuda kA yaha baMdhana, hamezA kA baMdhana TUTe isa hetu ke lie hai, 'ebsolyUTa' hone ke lie hai aura yadi yaha 'ebsolyUTa' hone kA jJAna prApta nahIM ho, to tU dUsaroM ke lie jiinaa| ye do hI kArya karane ke lie hindustAna meM janma hai| ye do kArya loga karate hoMge? logoM ne to milAvaTa karake manuSya meM se jAnavara meM jAne kI kalA khoja nikAlI hai| paropakAra se puNya sAtha meM jaba taka mokSa nA mile, taba taka puNya akelA hI mitra samAna kAma karatA hai aura pApa-duzmana ke samAna kAma karatA hai| aba Apako duzmana rakhanA hai yA mitra rakhanA hai? vaha Apako jo acchA lage, usake anusAra nizcita karanA hai| aura mitra kA saMyoga kaise ho, vaha pUcha lenA aura duzmana kA saMyoga kaise jAe, vaha bhI pUcha lenaa| yadi duzmana pasaMda ho usakA saMyoga kaise ho vaha pUche, to hama use kaheMge ki jitanA cAhe utanA udhAra karake ghI pInA, cAhe jahA~ bhaTakanA, aura tujhe ThIka lage vaise maje karanA, phira Age jo hogA dekhA jAegA! aura puNyarUpI mitra cAhie to hama batA deM ki bhAI isa per3a ke pAsa se sIkha le| koI vRkSa apanA phala khuda khA jAtA hai? koI gulAba apanA phUla khA jAtA hogA? thor3A-sA to khAtA hogA, nahIM? hama nahIM hoM taba rAta ko khA jAtA hogA, nahIM? nahIM khA jAtA? praznakartA : nahIM khaataa| dAdAzrI : ye per3a-paudhe to manuSyoM ko phala dene ke lie manuSyoM kleza rahita jIvana kI sevA meM haiN| aba per3oM ko kyA milatA hai? unakI Urdhvagati hotI hai aura manuSya Age bar3hate haiM, unakI helpa lekara! aisA mAno ki, hamane Ama khAyA, usameM Ama ke per3a kA kyA gayA? aura hameM kyA milA? hamane Ama khAyA, isalie hameM AnaMda huaa| usase hamArI vRttiyA~ jo badalI. usase hama sau rupaye jitanA adhyAtma meM kamAte haiN| aba Ama khAyA, isalie usameM se pA~ca pratizata Ama ke per3a ko Apake hisse meM se jAtA hai aura pa~cAnave pratizata Apake hisse meM rahatA hai| yAnI ve loga hamAre hisse meM se pA~ca pratizata le lete haiM aura ve becAre Urdhvagati meM jAte haiM aura hamArI adhogati nahIM hotI hai, hama bhI Age bar3hate haiN| isalie ye per3a kahate haiM ki hamArA sabakucha bhogo, haraeka prakAra ke phala-phUla bhogo| isalie yaha saMsAra Apako pusAtA ho, saMsAra Apako pasaMda ho, saMsAra kI cIjoM kI icchA ho, saMsAra ke viSayoM kI vAMchanA ho to itanA karo, 'yoga upayoga propkaaraay|' yoga yAnI isa mana-vacana-kAyA kA yoga, aura upayoga yAnI buddhi kA upayoga, mana kA upayoga karanA, citta kA upayoga karanA, ye sabhI dUsaroM ke lie upayoga karanA aura dUsaroM ke lie nahIM kharca karate, taba bhI hamAre loga Akhira meM gharavAloM ke lie bhI kharca karate haiM na? isa kutiyA ko khAne kA kyoM milatA hai? jina baccoM ke bhItara bhagavAna rahe haiM, una baccoM kI vaha sevA karatI hai| isalie use saba mila jAtA hai| isa AdhAra para saMsAra sArA cala rahA hai| isa per3a ko khurAka kahA~ se milatI hai? ina per3oM ne koI puruSArtha kiyA hai? ve to z2arA bhI 'imozanala' nahIM haiN| ve kabhI 'imozanala' hote haiM? ve to kabhI Age-pIche hote hI nhiiN| unheM kabhI aisA hotA nahIM ki yahA~ se eka mIla dUra vizvAmitrI nadI hai, to vahA~ jAkara pAnI pI AU~! paropakAra, pariNAma meM lAbha hI praznakartA : isa saMsAra meM acche kRtya kauna-se kahalAte haiM? usakI paribhASA dI jA sakatI hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, acche kRtya to ye per3a sabhI karate haiN| ve bilakula

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2. yoga- upayoga paropakArAya 19 acche kRtya karate haiN| para ve khuda karttA bhAva meM nahIM haiN| ye per3a jIvita haiN| sabhI dUsaroM ke lie apane phala dete haiN| Apa apane phala dUsaroM ko de do| Apako apane phala milate rheNge| Apake jo phala utpanna hoM- daihika phala, mAnasika phala, vAcika phala, 'phrI oNpha kosTa' logoM ko dete raho to Apako ApakI haraeka vastu mila jaaegii| ApakI jIvana kI z2arUratoM meM kiMcit mAtra ar3acana nahIM AegI aura jaba ve phala Apa apane Apa khA jAoge to ar3acana aaegii| yadi Ama kA per3a apane phala khuda khA jAe to usakA jo mAlika hogA, vaha kyA karegA? use kATa degA na? isI taraha ye loga apane phala khuda khA jAte haiN| itanA hI nahIM Upara se fIsa mA~gate haiM / eka arjI likhane ke bAIsa rupaye mA~gate haiN| jisa deza meM 'phrI oNpha kosTa' vakAlata karate the aura Upara se apane ghara bhojana karAkara vakAlata karate the, vahA~ yaha dazA huI hai| yadi gA~va meM jhagar3A huA ho, to nagaraseTha una do jhagar3anevAloM se kahatA, 'bhaiyA candUlAla Aja sAr3he dasa baje Apa ghara AnA aura nagInadAsa, Apa bhI usI samaya ghara aanaa|' aura nagInadAsa kI jagaha yadi koI maz2adUra hotA yA kisAna hotA, jo lar3a rahe hote to unako ghara bulA letaa| donoM ko biThAkara, donoM ko sahamata karavA detaa| jisake paise cukAne hoM, use thor3e naqada dilavAkara, bAkI ke kiztoM meM dene kI vyavasthA karavA detaa| phira donoM se kahatA, 'calo, mere sAtha bhojana karane baiTha jaao|' donoM ko khAnA khilAkara ghara bheja detA / haiM Aja aise vakIla ? isalie samajho aura samaya ko pahacAnakara clo| aura yadi khuda, khuda ke lie hI kare, to marate samaya duHkhI hotA hai| jIva nikalatA nahIM aura baMgale moTara chor3akara jA nahIM pAtA ! aura yaha lAipha yadi paropakAra ke lie jAegI to Apako koI bhI kamI nahIM rhegii| kisI taraha kI Apako ar3acana nahIM aaegii| ApakI jo-jo icchAe~ haiM, ve sabhI pUrI hoMgI aura aise uchala-kUda karoge, to eka bhI icchA pUrI nahIM hogii| kyoMki vaha rIti, Apako nIMda hI nahIM Ane degii| ina seThoM ko to nIMda hI nahIM AtI hai, tIna-tIna, cAra-cAra dina taka so hI nahIM pAte, kyoMki lUTapATa hI kI hai, jisa - tisa kI / kleza rahita jIvana praznakartA: paropakArI manuSya logoM ke bhale ke lie kahe to bhI loga vaha samajhane ke lie taiyAra hI nahIM haiM, usakA kyA? 20 dAdAzrI : aisA hai ki yadi paropakAra karanevAlA sAmanevAle kI samajha dekhe to vaha vakAlata kahalAtI hai| isalie sAmanevAle kI samajha dekhanI hI nahIM caahie| yaha Ama kA per3a hai, vaha phala detA hai| taba vaha Ama kA per3a apane kitane Ama khAtA hogA? praznakartA: eka bhI nhiiN| dAdAzrI : to ve sAre Ama kisake lie haiM? praznakartA: dUsaroM ke lie| dAdAzrI : hA~, taba vaha Ama kA per3a dekhatA hai ki yaha luccA hai ki bhalA hai, aisA dekhatA hai? jo Ae aura le jAe usake ve Ama, mere nhiiN| paropakArI jIvana to vaha jItA hai| praznakartA: para jo upakAra kare usake Upara hI loga doSAropaNa karate haiM, phira bhI upakAra karanA ? dAdAzrI : hA~, vahI dekhane kA hai na! apakAra para upakAra kare vahI saccA hai| aisI samajha loga kahA~ se lAe? aisI samajha ho taba to phira kAma hI ho gayA ! yaha paropakArI kI to bahuta U~cI sthiti hai, yahI sAre manuSya jIvana kA dhyeya hai / aura hindustAna meM dUsarA dhyeya, aMtima dhyeya mokSaprApti kA hai| praznakartA: paropakAra ke sAtha 'igoiz2ama' kI saMgati hotI hai? dAdAzrI : hamezA paropakAra jo karatA hai, usakA 'igoiz2ama' normala hI hotA hai, usakA vAstavika 'igoiz2ama' hotA hai aura jo korTa meM Der3ha sau rupaye fIsa lekara dUsaroM kA kAma karate hoM, unakA 'igoijama' bahuta bar3hA huA hotA hai| arthAt jo 'igoiz2ama' bar3hAne kA nahIM hotA, vaha 'igoiz2ama' bahuta bar3ha gayA hotA hai|

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2. yoga-upayoga paropakArAya 21 isa jagat kA kudaratI niyama kyA hai ki Apa apane phala dUsaroM ko deMge to kudarata ApakA calA legii| yahI guhya sAinsa hai / yaha parokSa dharma hai| bAda meM pratyakSa dharma AtA hai, Atmadharma aMta meM AtA hai| manuSya jIvana kA hisAba itanA hI hai! arka itanA hI hai ki mana-vacana-kAyA dUsaroM ke lie vAparo / otokok 3. duHkha vAstava meM hai? 'rAiTa bilIfa' vahA~ duHkha nahIM praznakartA: dAdA, duHkha ke viSaya meM kucha khie| yaha duHkha kisameM se utpanna hotA hai? dAdAzrI : Apa yadi AtmA ho to AtmA ko duHkha hotA hI nahIM kabhI bhI aura Apa caMdUlAla ho to duHkha hotA hai| Apa AtmA ho to duHkha hotA nahIM, ulTe duHkha ho, vaha khatama ho jAtA hai| 'maiM caMdUlAla hU~' vaha ' roMga bilIfa' hai| yaha merI vAipha hai, ye merI madara haiM, phAdara haiM, cAcA haiM, yA maiM eksaporTa-imporTa kA vyApArI hU~, ye sabhI taraha-taraha kI roMga bilIfa haiN| ina sabhI roMga bilIfoM ke kAraNa duHkha utpanna hotA hai| yadi roMga bilIfa calI jAe aura rAiTa bilIfa baiTha jAe to jagat meM koI duHkha hai hI nhiiN| aura Apake jaise (khAte-pIte sukhI ghara ke) ko duHkha hotA nahIM hai| yaha to saba binA kAma ke nAsamajhI ke duHkha hai / duHkha to kaba mAnA jAtA hai? duHkha kise kahate haiM? isa zarIra ko bhUkha lage, taba phira khAne kA ATha ghaMTe- bAraha ghaMTe na mile taba duHkha mAnA jAtA hai| pyAsa lagane ke bAda do-tIna ghaMTe pAnI nahIM mile to vaha duHkha jaisA lagatA hai| saMDAsa lagane ke bAda saMDAsa meM jAne nahIM de, to phira use duHkha hogA ki nahIM hogA ? saMDAsa se bhI adhika, ye pezAbaghara haiM. ve saba baMda kara deM na to loga sabhI zora macAkara rakha deN| ina pezAbagharoM kA to mahAna duHkha hai logoM ko / ina sabhI duHkhoM ko duHkha kahA jAtA hai| praznakartA : yaha saba ThIka hai, parantu abhI saMsAra meM dekheM to dasa

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3. duHkha vAstava meM hai? meM se nau logoM ko duHkha hai| dAdAzrI : dasa meM se nau nahIM, haz2Ara meM do loga sukhI hoMge, thor3ebahuta zAMti meM hoNge| bAkI saba rAta-dina jalate hI rahate haiN| zakkarakaMda bhaTThI meM rakhe hoM, to kitanI tarapha se sikate haiM? praznakartA : yaha duHkha jo kAyama hai, usameM se phAyadA kisa taraha uThAnA cAhie? dAdAzrI : isa duHkha para vicAra karane lage, to duHkha jaisA nahIM lgegaa| duHkha kA yadi yathArtha pratikramaNa karoge to duHkha jaisA nahIM lgegaa| yaha binA soce ThokamaThoka kiyA hai ki yaha duHkha hai, yaha duHkha hai! aisA mAno na, ki Apake vahA~ bahuta samaya kA purAnA sophAseTa hai| aba Apake mitra ke ghara sophAseTa ho hI nahIM, isalie vaha Aja nayI taraha kA sophAseTa laayaa| vaha ApakI patnI dekhakara aaiiN| phira ghara Akara Apako kahe ki Apake mitra ke ghara para kitanA suMdara sophAseTa hai aura apane yahA~ kharAba ho gae haiN| to yaha duHkha AyA! ghara meM duHkha nahIM thA vaha, dekhane gae vahA~ se duHkha lekara aae| Apane baMgalA nahIM banavAyA ho aura Apake mitra ne baMgalA banavAyA aura ApakI vAipha vahA~ jAe, dekhe, aura kahe ki kitanA acchA baMgalA unhoMne bnvaayaa| aura hama to binA baMgale ke haiM! vaha daHkha AyA!!! yAnI ki ye saba duHkha khar3e kie hue haiN| ___ maiM nyAyAdhIza hoU~ to sabako sukhI karake sajA kruuN| kisI ko usake gunAha ke lie sajA karane kI Ae. to pahale to maiM use pA~ca varSa se kama sajA ho sake aisA nahIM hai, aisI bAta kruuN| phira vakIla kama karane kA kahe, taba maiM cAra varSa, phira tIna varSa, do varSa, aise karate-karate aMta meM chaha mahIne kI sajA kruuN| isase vaha jela meM to jAe. para sukhI ho| mana meM sukhI ho ki chaha mahIne meM hI pUrA ho gayA. yaha to mAnyatA kA hI duHkha hai| yadi use pahale se hI, chaha mahIne kI sajA hogI, aisA kahane meM Ae to use vaha bahuta jyAdA lge| kleza rahita jIvana ___ 'pemenTa' meM to samatA rakhanI cAhie yaha Apako, gaddI para baiThe hoM vaisA sukha hai, phira bhI bhoganA nahIM Ae taba kyA ho? assI rupaye mana ke bhAvavAle bAsamatI ho usake aMdara retI DAlate haiN| yaha duHkha AyA ho to use z2arA kahanA to cAhie na, 'yahA~ kyoM Ae ho? hama to dAdA ke haiN| Apako yahA~ AnA nahIM hai| Apa jAo dUsarI jagaha / yahA~ kahA~ Ae Apa? Apa ghara bhUla ge|' itanA unase kaheM to ve cale jAte haiN| yaha to Apane bilakula ahiMsA karI(!) du:kha Ae~ to unheM bhI ghusane deM? unheM to nikAla bAhara karanA cAhie, usameM ahiMsA TUTatI nahIM hai| duHkha kA apamAna kareM to ve cale jAte haiN| Apa to usakA apamAna bhI nahIM krte| itane adhika ahiMsaka nahIM honA caahie| praznakartA : duHkha ko manAe~ to nahIM jAegA? dAdAzrI : naa| use manAnA nahIM caahie| use paTAe~ to vaha paTAyA nahIM jA sake aisA hai| use to A~kheM dikhAnI par3atI haiN| vaha napuMsaka jAti hai| yAnI usa jAti kA svabhAva hI aisA hai| use aTAne-paTAne jAe~ to vaha jyAdA tAliyA~ bajAtA hai aura apane pAsa hI pAsa AtA jAtA hai| 'vArasa aho mahAvIranA, zUravIratA relAvajo, kAyara bano nA koI dI, kaSTo sadA kNpaavjo|' hama ghara meM baiThe hoM, aura kaSTa Ae~, to ve hameM dekhakara kA~pa jAe~ aura samajheM ki hama yahA~ kahA~ A pha~se! hama ghara bhUla gae lagate haiM ! ye kaSTa hamAre mAlika nahIM, ve to naukara haiN| yadi kaSTa hamase kA~pe nahIM to hama 'dAdA ke' kaise? kaSTa se kaheM ki, 'do hI kyoM Ae? pA~ca hokara aao| aba tumhAre sabhI pemenTa kara duuNgaa|' koI hameM gAliyA~ de to apanA jJAna use kyA kahatA hai? "vaha to 'tujhe' pahacAnatA hI nhiiN|" ulTe 'tujhe' 'use' kahanA hai ki 'bhAI koI bhUla huI hogI, isIlie gAliyA~ de gyaa| isalie zAMti rkhnaa|' itanA kiyA ki terA 'pemenTa' ho gayA! ye loga to kaSTa Ate haiM to zora macA dete haiM ki 'maiM mara gayA!' aisA bolate haiN| maranA to eka hI bAra hai aura

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3. duHkha vAstava meM hai? kleza rahita jIvana dAdAzrI : vaha to khuda khar3A kiyA huA hai, isalie jitanA bar3A karanA ho utanA ho sakatA hai, cAlIsa gunA karanA ho to utanA ho| bolate haiM sau-sau bAra ki 'maiM mara gayA?' are jIvita hai aura kisalie mara gayA hU~, aisA bolatA hai? marane ke bAda bolanA na ki maiM mara gyaa| z2indA kabhI mara jAtA hai? 'maiM mara gayA' yaha vAkya to sArI z2indagI meM bolanA nahIM hai| sacce duHkha ko jAnanA cAhie ki duHkha kise kahate haiM? isa bacce ko maiM mAratA hU~ to bhI vaha rotA nahIM aura ha~satA hai, usakA kyA kAraNa hai? aura Apa use sirpha eka capata lagAo to vaha rone lagegA. usakA kyA kAraNa hai? use lagA isalie? nA, use lagane kA duHkha nahIM hai| usakA apamAna kiyA usakA use duHkha hai| ise duHkha kaheM hI kaise? du:kha to kise kahate haiM ki khAne kA na mile, saMDAsa jAne kA na mile, pezAba karane kA na mile. vaha daHkha kahalAtA hai| yaha to sarakAra ne ghara-ghara meM saMDAsa banavA die haiM, nahIM to pahale gA~va meM loTA lekara jaMgala meM jAnA par3atA thaa| aba to beDarUma meM se uThe ki ye rahA saMDAsa! pahale ke ThAkara ke vahA~ bhI nahIM thI. aisI suvidhA Aja ke manuSya bhoga rahe haiN| ThAkura ko bhI saMDAsa jAne ke lie loTA lekara jAnA par3atA thaa| usane julAba liyA ho to ThAkura bhI daudd'taa| aura sAre dina aisA ho gayA aura vaisA ho gayA, aise zora macAte rahate haiN| are, kyA ho gayA para? yaha gira gayA, vaha gira gayA, kyA gira gayA? binA kAma ke kisalie zora macAte rahate ho? ye duHkha haiM, ve ulTI samajha ke haiN| yadi sahI samajha phiTa kareM to du:kha jaisA hai hI nhiiN| yaha apanA paira paka gayA ho to hameM patA lagAnA cAhie ki mere jaisA duHkha logoM ko hai ki kyA? aspatAla meM dekhakara Ae~ taba vahA~ patA cale ki ahoho! duHkha to yahIM hai| mere paira meM jarAsA hI lagA hai aura maiM nAhaka duHkhI ho rahA huuN| yaha to jA~ca to karanI par3egI na? binA jA~ca kie du:kha mAna leM to phira kyA ho? Apa sabhI puNyavAnoM ko du:kha ho hI kaise? Apa puNyavAna ke ghara meM janme haiN| thor3I hI mehanata se sAre dina kA khAnA-pInA milA karatA hai| ....nizcita karane jaisA 'projekTa' ina manuSyoM ko jIvana jInA bhI nahIM AyA, jIvana jIne kI cAbI hI kho gaI hai| cAbI bilakula kho gaI thI, to aba vApisa kucha acchA huA hai| ina aMgrejoM ke Ane ke bAda loga khada ke kaTTara saMskAroM meM se DhIle par3e haiM, isalie dUsaroM meM dakhala nahIM karate, aura mehanata karate rahate haiN| pahale to sirpha dakhala hI karate the| ye loga phijUla mAra khAte rahate haiN| isa jagat meM ApakA koI bApa bhI UparI nahIM hai| Apa saMpUrNa svataMtra ho| ApakA projekTa bhI svataMtra hai, para ApakA projekTa aisA honA cAhie ki kisI jIva ko Apase kiMcit mAtra duHkha na ho| ApakA projekTa bahuta bar3A karo, sArI duniyA jitanA kro| praznakartA : vaha saMbhava hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, merA bahuta bar3A hai| kisI bhI jIva ko duHkha na ho usa taraha se maiM rahatA huuN| praznakartA : para dUsaroM ke lie to vaha saMbhava nahIM na? dAdAzrI : saMbhava nahIM, para usakA artha aisA nahIM ki saba jIvoM ko duHkha dekara apanA projekTa krnaa| aisA koI niyama to rakhanA cAhie na ki kisI ko kama se kama duHkha ho? aisA projekTa kara sakate haiM n| maiM Apako bilakula asaMbhava hai, vaha to karane ko nahIM kahatA n| ...mAtra bhAvanA hI karanI hai praznakartA : kisI ko duHkha hI nahIM, to phira hama dUsaroM ko duHkha deM to use du:kha kisa prakAra se hotA hai? praznakartA : sabako khuda kA duHkha bar3A lagatA hai na?

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3. duHkha vAstava meM hai? 4. faimili ArgenAijezana dAdAzrI : duHkha usakI mAnyatA meM se gayA nahIM na? Apa mujhe dhaula mAro to mujhe duHkha nahIM hogA, parantu dUsare ko to usakI mAnyatA meM dhaula se du:kha hai, isIlie use mAroge to use duHkha hogA hii| roga bilIfa abhI taka gaI nahIM hai| koI hameM dhaula mAre to hameM duHkha hotA hai, usa levala se dekhanA caahie| kisI ko dhaula mArate samaya mana meM AnA cAhie ki mujhe dhaula mAre to kyA ho? hama kisI ke pAsa se rupaye dasa haz2Ara udhAra le Ae, phira apane saMjoga palaTa gae, isalie mana meM vicAra Ae ki paise vApisa nahIM dUM to kyA honevAlA hai? usa ghar3I hameM nyAya se jA~ca karanI cAhie ki 'mere yahA~ se koI paise le gayA ho aura mujhe vApisa na de to kyA hogA mujhe?' aisI nyAyabuddhi caahie| aisA ho to mujhe bahuta hI du:kha hogaa| isI prakAra sAmanevAle ko bhI duHkha hogaa| isalie mujhe paise vApisa dene hI haiN|' aisA nizcita karanA cAhie aura aisA nizcita karo to phira de skoge| praznakartA : mana meM aisA hotA hai ki ye dasa karor3a kA AsAmI hai, to hama use dasa hajAra nahIM deM to use koI takalIpha nahIM hogii| dAdAzrI : use takalIpha nahIM hogI, aisA Apako bhale lagatA ho, para vaisA hai nhiiN| vaha karor3apati, usake beTe ke lie eka rupaye kI vastu lAnI ho taba bhI soca-samajhakara lAtA hai| kisI karor3apati ke ghara Apane paise idhara-udhara rakhe hue dekhe haiM? paisA haraeka ko jAna kI taraha pyArA hotA hai| apane bhAva aise hone cAhie ki isa jagat meM apane mana-vacanakAyA se kisI jIva ko kiMcit mAtra du:kha na ho| praznakartA : para usa taraha se sAmAnya manuSya ko anusaraNa karanA muzkila par3atA hai na? dAdAzrI : maiM Apako Aja hI usa prakAra kA vartana karane kA nahIM kahatA huuN| mAtra bhAvanA hI karane ko kahatA huuN| bhAvanA arthAt ApakA nishcy| yaha to kaisI lAipha? 'phaimili ArgenAijezana' kA jJAna hai Apake pAsa? hamAre hindustAna meM 'hAu Tu ArgenAiz2a faimili' vaha jJAna hI kama hai| faoNrenavAle to faimili jaisA samajhate hI nhiiN| ve to jemsa bIsa sAla kA huA, taba usake mA~bApa viliyama aura merI, jemsa se kaheMge ki 'tu tere alaga aura hama do totA-mainA alaga!' unheM faimili ArgenAiz2a karane kI bahuta Adata hI nahIM na? aura unakI phaimili to sApha sApha hI kaha detI hai| merI ke sAtha viliyama ko nahIM jamA, taba phira DAyavorsa kI hI bAta ! aura hamAre yahA~ to kahA~ DAyavorsa kI bAta? apane to sAtha-sAtha hI rahanA hai, kalaha karanA aura vApisa sonA bhI vahIM para, usI rUma meM hI! yaha jIvana jIne kA rAstA nahIM hai| yaha faimili lAipha nahIM khlaatii| are! apane yahA~ kI bur3hiyAoM ko jIvana jIne kA tarIqA pUchA hotA to kahatIM ki ArAma se khAo-pIo, jaldabAjI kyoM karate ho? insAna ko kisa cIz2a kI nesesiTI hai, usakI pahale jA~ca karanI pdd'e| dUsarI saba annesesittii| ve ananesesiTI kI vastue~ manuSya ko ulajhAtI haiM, phira nIMda kI goliyA~ khAnI par3atI haiN| ye ghara meM kisalie lar3AiyA~ hotI haiM? baccoM ke sAtha kyoM bolAcAlI ho jAtI hai? vaha saba jAnanA to paDegA na? yaha laDakA sAmane bole aura usake lie DaoNkTara ko pUche ki kacha batAie. para vaha kyA davAI batAe? usakI hI patnI usake sAmane bolatI ho na! yaha to sArI jindagI rUI kA sarve karatA hai, koI lauMga kA sarve karatA hai, kucha na kucha sarve karate haiM, para aMdara kA sarve kabhI bhI nahIM kiyaa|

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4. phaimili ArgenAijezana 29 seTha ApakI sugaMdha Apake ghara meM AtI hai ? praznakartA: sugaMdha matalaba kyA ? dAdAzrI : Apake ghara ke saba logoM ko Apa rAz2I rakhate ho? ghara meM kalaha hotI nahIM na? praznakartA: kalaha to hotI hai| roz2a hotI hai| dAdAzrI : taba kisa taraha ke paidA hue Apa ki patnI ko zAMti nahIM dI, baccoM ko zAMti nahIM dI, are! Apane khuda ko bhI zAMti nahIM dI! Apako mokSa meM jAnA ho to mujhe Apako DA~TanA par3egA aura Apako devagati meM jAnA ho to dUsarA sarala rAstA Apako likha duuN| phira to maiM Apako 'Aie seTha, padhArie' aisA khuuNgaa| mujhe donoM bhASAe~ AtI haiN| yaha bhrAMti kI bhASA me~ bhUla nahIM gayA huuN| pahale 'tuMDe tuMDe matirbhinnA' thI, vaha abhI tumaDe tumaDe matirbhinna ho gaI hai! tuMDa gae aura tumaDe rahe ! saMsAra ke hitAhita kA bhI koI bhAna nahIM hai| aisA saMskAra siMcana zobhA detA hai? mA~-bApa ke taura para kisa taraha rahanA usakA bhI bhAna nahIM hai| eka bhAI the khuda kI patnI ko bulAte haiM, 'are, munne kI mammI kahA~ gaI ?' taba munne mammI aMdara se bolatI hai, 'kyoM, kyA hai?' taba bhAI kaheM, 'yahA~ A, jaldI jaldI yahA~ A, dekha dekha tere bacce ko ! kaisA parAkrama karanA AtA hai, are dekha to sahI!! munne ne paira U~ce karake merI jeba meM se kaise dasa rupaye nikAle! kaisA hoziyAra ho gayA hai munnA !!' ghanacakkara, aise kahA~ se paidA hue? ye bApa bana baiThe ! zarama nahIM AtI? isa bacce ko kaisA uttejana milA, vaha samajha meM AtA hai ? baccA dekhatA rahA ki maiMne bahuta bar3A parAkrama kiyA ! aisA to zobhA detA hai? kucha niyamavAlA honA cAhie na? yaha hindustAna kA manuSyapana isa taraha luTa jAe, vaha zobhA detA hai hameM? kyA bolane se bacce ko acchA enkarejamenTa milatA hai aura kyA bolane se use nukasAna hotA hai, usakA 30 kleza rahita jIvana bhAna to honA cAhie na? yaha to anaTesTeDa phAdara aura anaTesTeDa madara haiN| bApa mUlI aura mA~ gAjara, phira bolo bacce kaise baneM? ve thor3e hI seba baneMge? premamaya DIliMga - bacce sudhareMge hI eka bApa ne apane bacce ko thor3A-sA hI hilAyA aura baccA phaTa par3A, aura bApa ko kahane lagA ki merA aura ApakA nahIM jmegaa| phira bApa bacce ko kahane lagA ki bhAI maiMne tujhe kucha bhI kharAba nahIM kahA, tU kisalie gussA hotA hai? taba maiMne bApa se kahA ki, 'aba kisalie kamarA dhote ho? pahale hilAyA hI kisalie ?' kisI ko hilAnA mata, ye pake hue phUTa (kakar3I jaisA phala) hai| kucha bolanA mt| merI bhI cupa aura terI bhI cupa / khA-pIkara maz2e karo / praznakartA : yaha baccA kharAba lAina para car3ha jAe to mA~-bApa kA farz2a hai na ki use vApisa mor3anA cAhie? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, ki mA~-bApa hokara use kahanA cAhie, para mA~-bApa haiM hI kahA~ Ajakala? praznakartA: mA~-bApa kise kahA jAtA hai? dAdAzrI : mA~-bApa to ve kahalAte haiM ki baccA kharAba lAina para calA gayA ho, phira bhI eka dina mA~-bApa kaheMge, 'bhAI, ye hameM zobhA nahIM detA, yaha tUne kyA kiyA?' taba dUsare dina se usakA baMda ho jaae| aisA prema hI kahA~ hai? ye to prema binA ke mA~-bApa / yaha jagat prema se hI vaza meM hotA hai| ina mA~-bApoM ko baccoM para kitanA prema hai? jitanA gulAba ke paudhe para mAlI kA prema hotA hai utanA ! inheM mA~-bApa hI kaise kahA jAe? ansarTiphAiDa phAdara aura ansarTiphAiDa mdr| phira bacce kI kyA sthiti ho? asala meM to pahale TesTiMga karavAkara sarTiphikeTa prApta karane ke bAda hI zAdI karane kI chUTa honI caahie| parIkSA meM pAsa hue binA, sarTiphikeTa ke binA gavarnamenTa meM bhI naukarI para nahIM lete haiM, to isameM sarTiphikeTa

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32 4. phaimili ArgenAijezana bagaira zAdI kaise kara sakate haiM? yaha mA~ aura bApa banane kI jimmedArI deza ke pradhAnamaMtrI kI jimmedArI se bhI adhika hai| pradhAnamaMtrI se bhI U~cA pada hai| praznakartA : sarTiphAiDa phAdara-madara kI paribhASA kyA hai? dAdAzrI : ansarTiphAiDa mA~-bApa yAnI khuda ke bacce khuda ke kahe anusAra calate nahIM, khuda ke bacce khuda para bhAva rakhate nahIM, parezAna karate haiM! taba mA~-bApa ansarTiphAiDa hI kahalAeMge na? ...nahIM to mauna rakhakara 'dekhate' raho eka siMdhI bhAI Ae the, ve kahane lage ki, eka beTA aisA karatA hai aura eka vaisA karatA hai, unako kaise sudhAranA cAhie? maiMne kahA, 'Apa aise bacce kisalie lAe? bacce acche chA~Takara hameM nahIM lAne cAhie?' ye hAphUja ke Ama saba eka hI taraha ke hote haiM, ve saba mIThI dekhakara, cakhakara saba lAte haiN| para Apa do khaTTe le Ae, do bigar3e hue lAe, kasaile lAe, do mIThe lAe, phira usake rasa meM koI barakata AegI kyA? phira lar3AI-jhagar3A kareM usakA kyA artha? hama khaTTA Ama lekara Ae phira khaTTe ko khaTTA jAnanA usakA nAma jnyaan| hameM khaTTA svAda AyA use dekhate rahanA hai| aise isa prakRti ko dekhate rahanA hai| kisI ke hAtha meM sattA nahIM hai| avasthA mAtra kudaratI racanA hai| usameM kisI kA kucha calatA nahIM, badalatA nahIM aura vApisa vyavasthita hai| praznakartA : mArane se bacce sudharate haiM yA nahIM? dAdAzrI : kabhI bhI sudharate nahIM, mArane se kucha sudharatA nahIM hai| isa mazIna ko mArakara dekho to? vaha Ta jaaegii| vaise hI ye bacce bhI TUTa jaaeNge| Upara se acche khAse dikhate haiM, para aMdara se TUTa jAte haiN| dUsaroM ko enkareja karanA nahIM AtA to phira mauna raho na, cAya pIkara cupcaap| sabake mu~ha dekhatA jA, ye do putale kalaha kara rahe haiM, unheM dekhatA jaa| yaha apane kAbU meM nahIM hai| hama to isake jAnakAra hI haiN| kleza rahita jIvana jise saMsAra bar3hAnA ho use isa saMsAra meM lar3AI-jhagar3A karanA cAhie, sabhI karanA caahie| jise mokSa meM jAnA ho usako hama, 'kyA ho rahA hai' use 'dekho', aisA kahate haiN| isa saMsAra meM DA~Takara kucha bhI sudharanevAlA nahIM hai| ulTe mana meM ahaMkAra karatA hai ki maiMne bahuta ddaaNttaa| DA~Tane ke bAda dekho to mAla thA vaisA hI hotA hai, pItala kA ho vaha pItala kA aura kA~se kA ho to kA~se kA hI rahatA hai| pItala ko mArate raho to use jaMga lage bagaira rahatA hai? nahIM rhtaa| kAraNa kyA hai? taba kahe, jaMga lagane kA svabhAva hai uskaa| isalie mauna rahanA caahie| jaise sinemA meM nApasaMda sIna Ae to usase kyA hama jAkara paradA tor3a DAlate haiM? nahIM, use bhI dekhanA hai| saba hI. pasaMda hoM aise sIna Ate haiM kyA? kucha to sinemA meM kursI para baiThe-baiThe zora macAte haiM ki 'aya | mAra DAlegA, mAra DAlegA!' ye bar3e dayA ke Dibbe dekha lo| yaha to saba dekhanA hai| khAo, pIo, dekho aura maje karo! ....khuda kA hI sudhArane kI z2arUrata praznakartA : ye bacce zikSaka ke sAmane bolate haiM, ve kaba sudhareMge? dAdAzrI : jo bhUla kA pariNAma bhugatatA hai usakI bhUla hai| ye guru hI ghanacakkara paidA hue haiM ki ziSya unake sAmane bolate haiN| ye bacce to samajhadAra hI haiM, para guru aura mA~-bApa ghanacakkara paidA hue haiM ! aura bar3ebUr3he purAnI bAteM pakar3akara rakhate haiM, phira bacce sAmanA kareMge hI na? Ajakala mA~-bApa kA cAritra aisA hotA nahIM hai ki bacce sAmanA nahIM kre| ye to bar3e-bUDhoM kA cAritra kama ho gayA hai, isIlie bacce sAmanA karate haiN| AcAra, vicAra aura uccAra meM pojiTiva (sulaTA) badalAva hotA jAe to khuda paramAtmA ho sakatA hai aura ulTA badalAva ho to rAkSasa bhI ho sakatA hai| loga sAmanevAle ko sudhArane ke lie saba phrekcara kara DAlate haiN| pahale khuda sudhareM to dUsaroM ko sudhAra sakate haiN| para khuda ke sudhare binA sAmanevAlA kisa taraha sudharegA? isIlie pahale ApakA khuda kA bagIcA

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4. phaimili ArgenAijezana sa~bhAlo, phira dUsaroM kA dekhane jaao| ApakA sa~bhAloge taba hI phalaphUla mileNge| daqhala nahIM, 'eDajasTa' hone jaisA hai saMsAra kA matalaba hI samasaraNa mArga, isalie niraMtara parivartana hI hotA rahatA hai| jaba ki ye bar3e-bUr3he purAne jamAne se hI lipaTe rahate haiN| are! jamAne ke anusAra kara, nahIM to mAra khAkara mara jaaegaa| jamAne ke anusAra eDajasTamenTa lenA caahie| merA to cora ke sAtha, jeba kATanevAle ke sAtha, sabake sAtha eDajasTamenTa ho jAtA hai| cora ke sAtha hama bAta kareM to vaha bhI samajhatA hai ki ye karuNAvAle haiN| hama cora ko 'ta galata hai' aisA nahIM kahate, kyoMki usakA vaha 'vyU poinTa' hai| jaba ki loga use nAlAyaka kahakara gAliyA~ dete haiN| taba ye vakIla kyA jhUThe nahIM hai? 'bilakula jhUThA kesa bhI jitA dUMgA', aisA kahate haiM, to ve Thaga nahIM kahalAe~ge? cora ko luccA kahate haiM na, isa bilakula jhUThe kesa ko saccA kahatA hai, usakA saMsAra meM vizvAsa kisa taraha kiyA jAe? phira bhI usakA calatA hai na? kisI ko hama galata nahIM kahate haiN| vaha usake vyU poinTa se karekTa hI hai| para use saccI bAta samajhAte haiM ki yaha corI karatA hai, usakA phala tujhe kyA aaegaa| ye bUr3he loga ghara meM Ae~ to kaheMge, 'yaha lohe kI alamArI? yaha reDiyo? yaha aisA kyoM hai? vaisA kyoM hai?' aise daqhala karate haiN| are, kisI yuvaka se dostI kr| yaha to yuga hI badalatA rhegaa| usake binA ye jIe~ kisa taraha? kucha nayA dekheM, isalie moha hotA hai| nayA nahIM ho to jIe~ hI kaise? aisA nayA anaMta AyA aura gayA, usameM Apako dakhala nahIM karanI hai| Apako ThIka nahIM lage to vaha Apa mata kro| yaha AiskrIma aisA nahIM kahatI Apako ki hamase bhaago| hameM nahIM khAnA ho to nahIM khaaeN| yaha to bUr3he loga una para cir3hate rahate haiN| ye matabheda to z2amAnA badalA usake haiN| ye bacce to z2amAne ke anusAra karate haiN| moha yAnI nayA-nayA utpanna hotA hai aura nayA hI nayA dikhatA hai| hamane bacapana se buddhi se bahuta hI soca liyA ki yaha jagat ulTA ho rahA hai yA sIdhA ho rahA hai, kleza rahita jIvana aura vaha bhI samajhA ki kisI ko sattA hI nahIM hai isa jagat ko badalane kii| phira bhI hama kyA kahate haiM ki jamAne ke anusAra eDajasTa ho jAo! beTA nayI hI TopI pahanakara Ae to aisA nahIM kaheM ki aisI kahA~ se le AyA? isase to, eDajasTa ho jAe~ ki itanI acchI TopI? kahA~ se lAyA? kitane kI AI? bahuta sastI milI? aise eDajasTa ho jaae| ye bacce sArA dina kAna para reDiyo lagAkara nahIM rakhate? kyoMki yaha rasa nayA-nayA udaya meM AyA hai becAre ko! yaha usakA nayA DevalapamenTa hai| yadi Devalapa ho gayA hotA, to kAna para reDiyo lagAtA bhI nhiiN| ekabAra dekha lene ke bAda vApisa chuAtA hI nhiiN| navIna vastu ko eka bAra dekhanA hotA hai, usakA hamezA ke lie anubhava nahIM lenA hotA hai| yaha to kAna kI nayI hI indriya AI hai, isalie sArA dina reDiyo sunatA rahatA hai! manuSyapana kI usakI zurUAta ho rahI hai| manuSyapana meM hajAroM bAra AyA huA manuSya aisA-vaisA nahIM krte| praznakartA : baccoM ko ghUmane-phirane kA bahuta hotA hai| dAdAzrI : bacce koI hamase ba~dhe hue nahIM haiN| saba apane-apane baMdhana meM haiM, hameM to itanA hI kahanA hai ki 'jaldI aanaa|' phira jaba Ae~ taba 'vyvsthit'| vyavahAra saba karanA, para kaSAya rahita krnaa| vyavahAra kaSAya rahita huA to mokSa, aura kaSAya sahita vyavahAra-vaha sNsaar| praznakartA : hamArA bhatIjA roz2a nau baje uThatA hai, kucha kAma ho nahIM paataa| dAdAzrI : hama use or3hAkara kaheM ki ArAma se so jA bhaaii| usakI prakRti alaga hai, isalie dera se uThatA hai aura kAma adhika karatA hai| aura mUrkha cAra baje kA uThA ho taba bhI kucha na kre| maiM bhI haraeka kAma meM hamezA leTa hotA thaa| skUla meM ghaMTI bajane ke bAda hI ghara se bAhara nikltaa| aura hamezA mAsTarajI kI DaoNTa sunatA thaa| aba mAsTarajI ko kyA patA ki merI prakRti (svabhAva) kyA hai? haraeka kA 'rasTana' alaga, 'pisTana' alaga-alaga hotA hai|

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36 kleza rahita jIvana 4. phaimili ArgenAijezana praznakartA : para dera se uThane meM Disiplina nahIM rahatA hai na? dAdAzrI : yaha dera se uThatA hai isIlie Apa kalaha karo, vaha hI Disiplina nahIM hai| isIlie Apa kalaha karanA baMda kara do| Apako jojo zaktiyA~ mA~ganI hoM, ve ina dAdA ke pAsa se roz2a sau-sau bAra mA~ganA, saba mileNgii| aba ina bhAIsAba ko samajha meM AyA isalie unhoMne to hamArI AjJA pAlakara bhatIje ko ghara meM sabhI ne kucha bhI kahane kA baMda kara diyaa| haphte ke bAda pariNAma yaha AyA ki bhatIjA apane Apa hI sAta baje uThane laga gayA aura ghara meM sabase jyAdA acchI taraha kAma karane laga gyaa| sudhArane ke lie 'kahanA' baMda karo isa kAla meM kama bolanA, usake jaisA kucha bhI nahIM hai| isa kAla meM bola patthara jaise lageM, aise nikalate haiM, aura haraeka kA aisA hI hotA hai| isIlie bolane kA kama kara denA acchaa| kisI ko kucha bhI kahane jaisA nahIM hai| kahane se adhika bigar3atA hai| use kaheM ki gAr3I para jaldI jA, to vaha dera se jAtA hai| aura kucha na kaheM to TAima para jAtA hai| hama nahIM hoM to saba cale aisA hai| yaha to khuda kA jhUThA ahaMkAra hai| jisa dina se baccoM ke sAtha kaca-kaca karanA Apa baMda karoge usa dina se bacce sudhreNge| Apake bola acche nahIM nikalate, isIlie sAmanevAlA cir3hatA hai| Apake bola vaha svIkAratA nahIM hai, ulTe ve bola vApisa Ate haiN| hama to bacce ko khAne kA, pIne kA banAkara deM aura apanA farja pUrA kareM, dUsarA kucha kahane jaisA nahIM hai| kahane se phAyadA nahIM. aisA ApakA sAra nikalatA hai na? bacce bar3e hue haiM, ve kyA sIr3hiyoM para se gira jAte haiM? Apa apanA Atmadharma kisalie cUkate ho? ye baccoM ke sAtha kA to rileTiva dharma hai| vahA~ bekAra mAthAkUTa karane jaisA nahIM hai| kalaha karate ho, usase to mauna rahoge to adhika acchA rhegaa| kalaha se to khuda kA dimAga bigar3a jAtA hai aura sAmanevAle kA bhI bigar3a jAtA hai| praznakartA : bacce unakI jimmedArI samajhakara rahate nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : jimmedArI 'vyavasthita' kI hai, vaha to usakI jimmedArI samajhA huA hI hai| Apako use kahanA, AyA nahIM isIlie gar3abar3a hotI hai| sAmanevAlA mAne, taba hamArA kahA huA kAma kaa| yaha to mA~-bApa bolate haiM pAgala jaisA, phira bacce bhI pAgalapana hI kareMge n| praznakartA : bacce tucchatA se bolate haiN| dAdAzrI : hA~, para vaha Apa kisa taraha baMda karoge? yaha to AmanesAmane baMda ho na to sabakA acchA hogaa| eka bAra mana viSailA ho gayA, phira usakI liMka zurU ho jAtI hai| phira mana meM usake lie graha baMdha jAtA hai ki yaha AdamI aisA hI hai| taba hameM mauna lekara sAmanevAle ko vizvAsa meM lene jaisA hai| yaha bolate rahane se kisI kA sudharatA nhiiN| sudhArane kA to 'jJAnI puruSa' kI vANI se sudharatA hai| baccoM ke lie to mA~-bApa kI jokhimadArI hai| hama nahIM boleM, to nahIM calegA? clegaa| isalie bhagavAna ne kahA hai ki jIte jI hI mare hue ke jaise rho| bigar3A huA sudhara sakatA hai| bigar3e hue ko kATa nahIM denA caahie| bigar3e hue ko sudhAranA vaha hamase ho sakatA hai, Apako nahIM karanA hai| Apako hamArI AjJA ke anusAra calanA hai| vaha to jo sudharA huA ho vahI dUsaroM ko sudhAra sakatA hai| khuda hI sudhare nahIM hoM, to dUsaroM ko kisa taraha sudhAra sakeMge? baccoM ko sudhAranA ho to hamArI isa AjJA ke anusAra clo| ghara meM chaha mahIne kA mauna lo| bacce pUche taba hI bolanA aura vaha bhI unheM kaha denA ki mujhe na pUcho to acchaa| aura baccoM ke lie ulTA vicAra Ae to usakA turanta hI pratikramaNa kara denA caahie| rileTiva samajhakara upalaka rahanA baccoM ko to nava mahIne peTa meM rakhanA, phira calAnA, ghUmAnA, choTe

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7 4. phaimili ArgenAijezana hoM taba tk| phira chor3a dene kaa| ye gAya-bhaiMsa bhI chor3a dete haiM na? baccoM ko pA~ca varSa taka TokanA par3atA hai, phira TokanA bhI nahIM cAhie aura bIsa sAla ke bAda to usakI patnI hI use sudhaaregii| hameM sudhAranA nahIM hotA kleza rahita jIvana salAha denI, parantu denI hI par3e taba hamArI taraha 'abadha' ho gayA to kAma hI ho gyaa| baddhi kAma meM lI to saMsAra khar3A ho gayA vaapis| ghara ke loga pUche, tabhI javAba denA cAhie hameM, aura usa samaya mana meM ho ki yaha nahIM pUche to acchA, aisI hameM mannata mAnanI caahie| kyoMki na pache to hameM yaha dimAga calAnA nahIM pdd'egaa| aisA hai na, ki hamAre ye purAne saMskAra saba khatama ho gae haiN| yaha duSamakAla jabaradasta phailA huA hai, saMskAramAtra khatama ho gae haiN| manuSya ko kisI ko samajhAnA AtA nahIM hai| bApa beTe ko kucha kahe to beTA kahegA ki majhe ApakI salAha nahIM sananI hai| taba salAha denevAlA kaisA aura lenevAlA kaisA? kisa taraha ke loga ikaTThe hue ho? ye loga ApakI bAta kyoM nahIM sunate? saccI nahIM, islie| saccI ho, to suneMge yA nahIM suneMge? ye loga kisalie kahate haiM? Asakti ke kAraNa kahate haiN| isa Asakti ke lie to loga khuda ke janma bigAr3ate haiN| aba, isa bhava meM to saMbhAla le baccoM ke sAtha upalaka (satahI, Upara Upara se, suparaphlaasa) rahanA hai| asala meM to khuda kA koI hai hI nhiiN| isa deha ke AdhAra para mere haiN| deha jala jAe to koI sAtha meM AtA hai? yaha to jo merA kahakara chAtI se cipakAte haiM, unako bahuta upAdhI hai| bahuta bhAvukatA ke vicAra kAma lagate nhiiN| beTA vyavahAra se hai| beTA jala jAe to ilAja karavAe~, para hamane koI rone kI zarta rakhI hai? sautele bacce hoM to goda meM biThAkara dUdha pilAte haiM? nA! vaisA rkhnaa| yaha kaliyuga hai| rileTiva' saMbaMdha hai| rileTiva ko rileTiva rakhanA cAhie, 'riyala' nahIM karanA caahie| yaha riyala saMbaMdha hotA to bacce se kaheM ki tU sudhare nahIM taba taka alaga rh| para yaha to rileTiva saMbaMdha hai isalie - eDajasTa evriivher| yaha Apa sudhArane nahIM Ae ho, Apa karmoM ke zikaMje meM se chUTane ke lie Ae ho| sudhArane ke badale to acchI bhAvanA kro| bAkI koI kisI ko sudhAra nahIM sktaa| vaha to jJAnI puruSa sudhare hue hote haiM, ve dUsaroM ko sudhAra sakate haiN| isalie unake pAsa le jaao| yaha bigar3ate haiM kisalie? ukasAne se| sAre varlDa kA kAma ukasAne se bigar3A hai| isa kutte ko bhI cher3o to kATa khAtA hai, kATa letA hai| isalie loga kutte ko cher3ate nahIM hai| ina manuSyoM ko cher3e to kyA hogA? ve bhI kATa khaaeNge| isIlie mata chedd'naa| yaha hamAre eka-eka zabda meM anaMta-anaMta zAstra samAe hue haiM! ye samajhe aura sIdhA cale to kAma hI nikAla de! ekAvatArI huA jAe, aisA yaha vijJAna hai ! lAkhoM janma kama ho jAe~ge! isa vijJAna se to rAga bhI ur3a jAtA hai aura dveSa bhI ur3a jAtA hai aura vItarAga huA jAtA hai| agurulaghu svabhAva kA ho jAtA hai, isalie isa vijJAna kA jitanA lAbha uThAyA jAe utanA kama hai| saba 'vyavasthita' calAtA hai, kucha bhI bolane jaisA nahIM hai| 'khuda kA' dharma kara lene jaisA hai| pahale to aisA samajhate the ki hama calAte haiM, isalie hameM bujhAnA par3atA hai| aba to calAnA hameM nahIM hai na? aba to yaha bhI laTTa aura vaha bhI laTTa! rakho na pIDA yahIM se| pyAlA phaTe. kar3hI Dhula jAe, patnI bacce ko DA~TatI ho, taba bhI hama isa taraha Ter3he phirakara ArAma se baiTha jaaeN| hama dekheM taba ve kaheM na ki Apa dekha rahe the aura kyoM nahIM bole? aura na ho to hAtha meM mAlA lekara pherane lageM. taba vaha kahegI ki ye to mAlA meM hai| chor3o na! hameM kyA lenA-denA? zamazAna meM nahIM jAnA ho to kaca-kaca karo! isalie kucha bolane jaisA nahIM hai| yaha to gAyeM-bhaiMseM bhI unake baccoM ke sAtha unake tarIke se bhoMbhoM karate haiM, adhika nahIM bolate! aura ye manuSya to TheTha taka bolate hI rahate haiN| bole vaha mUrkha kahalAtA hai, sAre ghara ko khatama kara DAlatA hai| usakA kaba pAra Ae? anaMta janmoM se saMsAra meM bhaTake haiN| na kisI kA

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4. faimili ArgenAijezana kleza rahita jIvana maaregaa| yaha to rileTiva sagAIyA~ haiM, isameM se kaSAya khar3e hote haiN| isa rAga kaSAya meM se dveSa kaSAya khar3A hotA hai| khuzI meM uchalanA hI nahIM hai| yaha khIra uphane, taba cUle meM se lakar3A nikAla lenA par3atA hai, usake jaisA hai| .... phira bhI ucita vyavahAra kitanA? praznakartA : baccoM ke bAre meM kyA ucita hai aura kyA anucita, vaha samajha meM nahIM aataa| bhalA kiyA, na khuda kA bhalA kiyaa| jo manuSya khuda kA bhalA kare vahI dUsaroM kA bhalA kara sakatA hai| saccI sagAI yA parAyI pIr3A? beTA bImAra ho to hama ilAja saba karavAe~, para sabakucha upalaka apane baccoM ko kaise mAnane cAhie? sautele| baccoM ko mere bacce kahA aura baccA bhI merI mA~ kahatA hai, para aMdara lambA saMbaMdha nahIM hai| isIlie isa kAla meM sautele saMbaMdha rakhanA, nahIM to mAre gae smjhnaa| bacce kisI ko mokSa meM le jAnevAle nahIM hai| yadi Apa samajhadAra hooge to bacce samajhadAra hoNge| baccoM ke sAtha lAr3a-pyAra to kiyA jAtA hogA? yaha lAr3a-pyAra to golI mAratA hai| lAr3a-pyAra dveSa meM badala jAtA hai| khIMca-tAnakara prIta karake calA lenA caahie| bAhara 'acchA lagatA hai aisA kahanA caahie| para aMdara samajheM ki jabaradastI prIti kara rahe haiM. yaha nahIM hai saccA sNbNdh| beTe ke saMbaMdha kA kaba patA calatA hai? ki jaba hama eka ghaMTA use mAre, gAliyA~ deM, taba vaha kaladAra hai yA nahIM, usakA patA calatA hai| yadi ApakA saccA beTA ho, to Apake mArane ke bAda bhI vaha Apako Apake paira chUkara kahegA ki bApUjI, ApakA hAtha bahuta du:kha rahA hogA! aisA kahanevAlA ho to sacce saMbaMdha rkheN| para yaha to eka ghaMTA beTe ko DA~TeM to beTA mArane daur3egA! yaha to moha ko lekara Asakti hotI hai| 'riyala beTA' kise kahA jAtA hai? ki bApa mara jAe to beTA bhI zamazAna meM jAkara kahe ki 'mujhe mara jAnA hai|' koI beTA bApa ke sAtha mara jAtA hai Apake muMbaI meM? yaha to saba parAyI pIr3A hai| beTA aisA nahIM kahatA ki mujha para saba luTA do, para yaha to bApa hI beTe para saba laTA detA hai| yaha apanI hI bhUla hai| hameM bApa kI taraha sabhI farz2a nibhAne haiN| jitane ucita hoM utane sabhI farz2a nibhAne haiN| eka bApa apane beTe ko chAtI se lagAkara aise dabA rahA thA, usane khUba dabAyA isalie beTe ne bApa ko kATa liyA! koI AtmA kisI kA pitA-putra ho sakatA hI nahIM hai| isa kaliyuga meM to mA~ganevAle, lenadAra hI beTe banakara Ae hote haiM! hama grAhaka se kaheM ki mujhe tere binA acchA nahIM lagatA, tere binA acchA nahIM lagatA to grAhaka kyA karegA? dAdAzrI: jitanA sAmane calakara karate haiM vaha saba jarUrata se jyAdA aklamaMdI hai| vaha pA~ca varSa taka hI karane kA hotA hai| phira to beTA kahe ki bApUjI mujhe fIsa do| taba hama kaheM ki bhAI paisA yahA~ nala meM nahIM AtA hai| hameM do dina pahale se kahanA caahie| hameM udhAra lekara Ane paDate haiN| aisA kahakara dUsare dina dene caahie| bacce to aisA samajha baiThe hote haiM ki nala meM pAnI AtA hai vaise bApUjI pAnI hI dete haiN| isalie baccoM ke sAtha aisA vyavahAra rakhanA ki unase sagAI banI rahe aura ve sira para na car3ha baiThe, bigar3eM nhiiN| yaha to beTe ko itanA adhika lAr3a karate haiM ki beTA bigar3a jAtA hai| atizaya lAr3a to hotA hogA? isa bakarI ke Upara pyAra AtA hai? bakarI meM aura baccoM meM kyA pharka hai? donoM hI AtmA haiN| atizaya lAr3a nahIM aura ni:spRha bhI nahIM ho jAnA caahie| beTe se kahanA cAhie ki koI kAmakAja ho to pchnaa| maiM baiThA hU~ taba taka koI aDacana ho to puuchnaa| ar3acana ho tabhI. nahIM to hAtha DAleM nhiiN| yaha to beTe kI jeba meM se paise nIce gira rahe hoM to bApa zora macA detA hai, 'are caMdU, are caMdU / ' hama kisalie zora macAe~? apane Apa pUchegA taba patA clegaa| isameM hama kalaha kahA~ kare? aura hama nahIM hote to kyA hotA? 'vyavasthita' ke tAbe meM hai| aura binA kAma ke dakhala karate haiN| saMDAsa bhI vyavasthita ke tAbe hai, aura ApakA Apake pAsa hai| khuda ke svarUpa meM khuda ho, vahA~ puruSArtha hai| aura khuda kI svasattA hai| isa pudgala meM puruSArtha hai hI nhiiN| pudgala prakRti ke adhIna hai| baccoM kA ahaMkAra jAge usake bAda use kucha kaha nahIM sakate aura

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41 4. phaimili ArgenAijezana hama kisalie kaheM? Thokara lagegI to siikheNge| bacce pA~ca varSa ke hoM taba taka kahane kI chUTa hai aura pA~ca se solaha varSavAle ko kabhI do capata mAranI bhI pdd'e| para bIsa varSa kA javAna hone ke bAda usakA nAma taka nahIM le sakate, eka akSara bhI nahIM bola sakate, bolanA vaha gunAha khlaaegaa| nahIM to kisI dina baMdUqa mAra degaa| praznakartA : ye 'anusarTiphAiDa phAdara' aura 'madara' bana gae haiM isalie yaha paz2ala khar3A huA hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, nahIM to bacce aise hote hI nahIM, bacce kahe anusAra cale aise hote haiN| yaha to mA~-bApa hI ThikAne bagaira ke haiN| z2amIna vaisI hai, bIja vaisA hai, mAla bekAra hai! Upara se kahate haiM ki merA beTA mahAvIra honevAlA hai! mahAvIra to hote hoMge? mahAvIra kI mA~ to kaisI hotI hai? bApa jarA Ter3hA-mer3hA ho to cale para mA~ kaisI hotI hai? praznakartA : baccoM ko gar3hane ke lie yA saMskAra ke lie hameM koI vicAra hI nahIM karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : vicAra karane meM koI parezAnI nahIM hai| praznakartA : par3hAI to skUla meM hotI hai para gar3hane kA kyA? dAdAzrI : gar3hanA sunAra ko sauMpa denA cAhie, unake gar3hanevAle hote haiM ve gddh'eNge| beTA paMdraha varSa kA ho taba taka use hameM kahanA cAhie, taba taka hama jaise haiM vaisA use gar3ha deN| phira use usakI patnI hI gar3ha degii| yaha gar3hanA nahIM AtA, phira bhI loga gar3hate hI hai na? isalie gar3hAI acchI hotI nahIM hai| mUrti acchI banatI nahIM hai| nAka DhAI iMca kA honA cAhie, vahA~ sAr3he cAra iMca kA kara dete haiN| phira usakI vAipha AegI to kATakara ThIka karane jaaegii| phira vaha bhI use kATegA aura kahegA, 'A jaa|' farz2a meM nATakIya raho yaha nATaka hai! nATaka meM bIvI-baccoM ko khuda ke kAyama ke kara leM to kyA cala sakegA? hA~, nATaka meM bolate haiM, vaise bolane meM parezAnI kleza rahita jIvana nahIM hai| yaha merA bar3A beTA, zatAyu thaa|' para saba upalaka, suparaphluasa, naattkiiy| ina sabako saccA mAnA usake hI pratikramaNa karane par3ate haiN| yadi saccA na mAnA hotA to pratikramaNa karane hI nahIM paDate, jahA~ satya mAnane meM AyA vahA~ rAga aura dveSa zurU ho jAte haiM, aura pratikramaNa se hI mokSa hai| ye dAdAjI dikhAte haiM, usa AlocanA-pratikramaNa-pratyAkhyAna se mokSa hai| yaha saMsAra to tAyafA (phajItA) hai bilakala, maz2Aka jaisA hai| eka ghaMTe yadi beTe ke sAtha lar3eM to beTA kyA kahegA? 'Apako yahA~ rahanA ho to maiM nahIM rhuuNgaa|' bApa kahe, 'maiM tujhe jAyadAda nahIM duuNgaa|' to beTA kahe, 'Apa nahIM denevAle kauna?' yaha to mAra-Thokakara leM aise haiN| are! korTa meM eka beTe ne vakIla se kahA ki, 'mere bApa kI nAka kaTe aisA karo to maiM tujhe tIna sau rupaye jyAdA duuNgaa|' bApa beTe se kahatA hai ki, 'tujhe aisA jAnA hotA, to janma hote hI tujhe mAra DAlA hotA!' taba beTA kahe ki, 'Apane mAra nahIM DAlA vahI to Azcarya hai na!' aisA nATaka honevAlA ho to kisa taraha mAroge! aise-aise nATaka anaMta prakAra ke ho cuke haiM, are! sunate hI kAna ke parade phaTa jaaeN| are! isase bhI kaI taraha-taraha kA jaga meM huA hai isalie ceto jagat se| aba 'khuda ke' deza kI ora mur3o, 'svadeza' meM clo| paradeza meM to bhUta hI bhUta hai| jahA~ jAo vhaaN| kutiyA baccoM ko dUdha pilAtI hai vaha z2arUrI hai, vaha koI upakAra nahIM karatI hai| bhaiMsa kA bachar3A do dina bhaiMsa kA dUdha nahIM pIe bhaiMsa ko bahuta du:kha hotA hai| yaha to khuda kI g2araz2a se dUdha pilAte haiN| bApa beTe ko bar3A karatA hai vaha khuda kI g2araz2a se, usameM nayA kyA kiyA? vaha to farja hai| baccoM ke sAtha 'glAsa vida kera' praznakartA : dAdA, ghara meM beTe-beTiyA~ sunate nahIM haiM, maiM khUba DA~TatA hU~ phira bhI koI asara nahIM hotaa| dAdAzrI : yaha relave ke pArsala para lebala lagAyA huA Apane dekhA hai? 'glAsa vida kera', aisA hotA hai na? vaise ghara meM bhI 'glAsa vida kera'

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4. phaimili ArgenAijezana rakhanA caahie| aba glAsa ho aura use Apa hathaur3e mArate raho to kyA hogA? vaise, ghara ke logoM ko kA~ca kI taraha sa~bhAlanA caahie| Apako usa baMDala para cAhe jitanI bhI cir3ha car3hI ho, phira bhI use nIce pheMkoge? turanta par3ha loge ki 'glAsa vida kera'! ghara meM kyA hotA hai ki kucha huA to Apa turanta hI beTI ko kahane laga jAte ho, 'kyoM ye parsa kho DAlA? kahA~ gaI thI? parsa kisa taraha kho gayA?' yaha Apa hathaur3e mArate rahate ho| yaha 'glAsa vida kera' samajhe to phira svarUpajJAna nahIM diyA ho, taba bhI samajha jaae| isa jagat ko sudhArane kA rAstA hI prema hai| jagat jise prema kahatA hai vaha prema nahIM hai, vaha to Asakti hai| ye beTI ko prema karate ho, para vaha pyAlA phor3e to prema rahatA hai? taba to cir3ha jAte haiN| matalaba, vaha Asakti hai| beTe-beTiyA~ haiM, unake Apako saMrakSaka kI taraha, TrasTI kI taraha rahanA hai| unakI zAdI karane kI ciMtA nahIM karanI hotI hai| ghara meM jo ho jAe use 'karekTa' kahanA, 'inkarekTa' kahoge to koI phAyadA nahIM hogaa| galata dekhanevAle ko saMtApa hogaa| ekalautA beTA mara gayA to karekTa hai, aisA kisI se nahIM kaha skte| vahA~ to aisA hI kahanA par3e ki, bahuta galata ho gyaa| dikhAvA karanA pdd'egaa| DrAmeTika karanA pdd'egaa| bAkI aMdara to karekTa hI hai, aisA karake cleN| pyAlA jaba taka hAtha meM hai taba taka pyAlA hai! phira gira par3e aura phUTa jAe to karekTa hai aisA kahanA caahie| beTI se kahanA ki sa~bhAlakara dhIre se lenA para aMdara karekTa hai aise kahanA / krodha bharI vANI na nikale taba phira sAmanevAle ko nahIM lgegii| mu~ha para bola deM, kevala vahI krodha nahIM kahalAtA hai, aMdara kur3he vaha bhI krodha hai| yaha sahana karanA vaha to Dabala krodha hai| sahana karanA yAnI dabAte rahanA, vaha to eka dina spriMga kI taraha uchalegA taba patA clegaa| sahana kisalie karanA hai? isakA to jJAna se hala lA denA hai| cUhe ne mUcheM kATI vaha 'dekhanA ' hai aura 'jAnanA' hai, usameM ronA kisalie? yaha jagat dekhane-jAnane ke lie hai| 44 kleza rahita jIvana ghara, eka bagIcA eka bhAI mujhe kahate haiM ki, dAdA, ghara meM merI patnI aisA karatI hai, vaisA karatI hai| taba maiMne kahA ki, 'patnI ko pUcho ki vaha kyA kahatI hai?' vaha kahatI hai ki merA pati aisA bekAra hai| binA akkala kA hai| aba isameM Apake akele kA kyA karane ko khojate ho? taba ve bhAI kahate haiM ki merA ghara to bigar3a gayA hai| bacce bigar3a gae haiN| bIvI bigar3a gaI hai| maiMne kahA, 'bigar3a nahIM gayA kucha bhI Apako vaha dekhanA nahIM AtA hai| ApakA ghara Apako dekhate AnA caahie|' ApakA ghara to bagIcA hai| satyuga, tretA aura dvAparayuga meM ghara yAnI kheta jaise hote the| kisI kheta meM kevala gulAba hI, kisI kheta meM kevala caMpA, kisI meM kevar3A, aisA thA / aba isa kaliyuga meM kheta nahIM rahe, bagIce bana gae haiN| isalie eka gulAba, eka mogarA aura eka camelI ! aba Apa ghara meM bujurga, gulAba hoM aura meM sabako gulAba banAne phirate ho, dUsare phUloM se kahate ho ki mere jaisA kyoM nahIM hai| tU to sapheda hai| terA sapheda phUla kyoM AyA? gulAbI phUla lA / aise sAmanevAle ko mArate rahate ho! are ! phUla ko dekhanA to siikho| Apako itanA taka karanA hai ki yaha kaisI prakRti hai? kisa prakAra kA phUla hai ? phala-phUla Ae, taba taka paudhe ko dekhate rahanA hai ki yaha kaisA paudhA hai? mujhameM kA~Te haiM aura isameM nahIM haiN| merA gulAba kA paudhA hai, isakA gulAba kA nahIM hai| phira phUla Ae~, taba hama jAneM ki ohoho ! yaha to mogarA hai| isalie usake sAtha mogare ke hisAba se vyavahAra rakhanA caahie| camelI ho to usake hisAba se vartana rakhanA caahie| sAmanevAle kI prakRti ke anusAra vartana rakhanA caahie| pahale to ghara meM bUr3he hote the taba phira unake kahe anusAra bacce calate theM, bahue~ calatI thiiN| jaba ki kaliyuga meM alaga-alaga prakRtiyA~ haiM, ve kisI se mela khAte nahIM, isalie isa kAla meM to ghara meM sabakI prakRti ke svabhAva ke sAtha eDajasTa hokara hI kAma lenA caahie| vaha eDajasTa nahIM hogA to rilezana bigar3a jAe~ge / isIlie bagIce ko sa~bhAlo aura gArDanara bana jaao| vAipha kI alaga prakRti hotI hai, beToM kI alaga, beTiyoM kI alaga-alaga prakRti hotI

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45 4. phaimili ArgenAijezana haiN| isalie haraeka kI prakRti kA lAbha utthaao| yaha to rileTiva saMbaMdha haiM, vAipha bhI rileTiva hai| are! yaha deha hI rileTiva hai na! rileTiva matalaba usake sAtha bigAr3o to ve alaga ho jAe~ge! kisI ko sudhArane kI zakti isa kAla meM khatama ho gaI hai| isalie sudhArane kI AzA chor3a do, kyoMki mana-vacana-kAyA kI ekAtmavRtti ho tabhI sAmanevAlA sudhara sakatA hai, mana meM jaisA ho, vaisA vANI meM nikale aura vaisA hI vartana meM hoM tabhI sAmanevAlA sudhre| abhI to aisA hai nhiiN| ghara meM haraeka ke sAtha kaisA vyavahAra rakhanA usakI normeliTI lA do| usameM mUrcchita hone jaisA hai hI kyA? kitane to bacce 'dAdA, dAdA' kaheM, taba dAdAjI aMdara malakate haiM ! are! bacce 'dAdA, dAdA' na kare to kyA 'mAmA, mAmA' kareM? ye bacce 'dAdA. dAdA' karate haiM, para aMdara samajhate haiM ki dAdA yAnI thor3e samaya meM mara jAnevAle haiM ve, jo Ama aba bekAra ho gae haiM, nikAla pheMkane jaise haiM, unakA nAma dAdA! aura dAdA aMdara malakatA hai ki maiM dAdA banA! aisA jagat kleza rahita jIvana eka bhI baccA na ho aura bacce kA janma ho to vaha ha~sAtA hai, pitA ko bahuta AnaMda karavAtA hai| jaba vaha jAtA hai, taba rulAtA hai utanA hii| isalie hameM utanA jAna lenA hai ki Ae haiM ve jAe~ge, taba kyA-kyA hogA? isIlie Aja se ha~sanA hI nhiiN| phira jhaMjhaTa hI nahIM na! yaha to kisa janma meM bacce nahIM the? kutte, billI, saba jagaha bacce-bacce aura bacce hI sIne se lagAe haiN| isa billI ko bhI beTiyA~ hI hotI haiM na? vyavahAra normeliTIpUrvaka honA cAhie isalie haraeka meM normeliTI lA do| eka A~kha meM prema aura eka A~kha meM kaThoratA rkhnaa| kar3AI se sAmanevAle ko bahuta nukasAna nahIM hotA, krodha karane se bahuta nukasAna hotA hai| kar3AI yAnI krodha nahIM, lekina phuphakAra / hama bhI kAma para jAte haiM taba phuphakAra mArate haiN| kyoM aisA karate ho? kyoM kAma nahIM karate? vyavahAra meM jisa taraha jisa bhAva kI jarUrata ho, vahA~ vaha bhAva utpanna na ho to vaha vyavahAra bigar3A huA khlaaegaa| eka vyakti mere pAsa AyA vaha baiMka kA menejara thaa| vaha mujhase kahatA hai ki mere ghara meM merI vAipha ko aura baccoM ko maiM eka akSara bhI kahatA nahIM huuN| maiM bilakula ThaMDA rahatA hai| maiMne unase kahA, 'Apa aMtima prakAra ke bekAra manuSya ho| isa duniyA meM kisI kAma ke nahIM ho aap|' vaha vyakti mana meM samajhA ki maiM aisA kahU~gA, taba phira ye dAdA mujhe bar3A inAma deNge| are bevakUpha, isakA inAma hotA hogA? beTA ulTA karatA ho, taba use hama 'kyoM aisA kiyA? aba aisA mata krnaa|' aise nATakIya bolanA caahie| nahIM to beTA aisA hI samajhegA ki hama jo kucha kara rahe haiM vaha karekTa hI hai| kyoMki pitAjI ne eksepTa kiyA hai| aisA nahIM bole, isalie to sira para savAra ho gae haiN| bolanA saba hai para nATakIya! baccoM ko rAta ko baiThAkara samajhAe~, bAtacIta kareM, ghara ke sabhI konoM meM kacarA to sApha karanA par3egA na? baccoM ko z2arA-sA hilAne kI hI jarUrata hotI hai| vaise saMskAra to hote haiM, para hilAne kI z2arUrata hotI hai| unako hilAne meM koI gunAha hai? are! pApA ko bhI baccA jAkara mIThI bhASA meM kahe ki 'pApAjI, calo, mammI cAya pIne bulA rahI hai|' to pApA aMdara aisA khuza hotA hai, aisA malakatA hai, jaise sA~Da mlkaayaa| eka to bAlabhASA, aura mIThItotalI bhASA, usameM bhI pApAjI kahate haiM... isIlie vahA~ to prAima minisTara ho to usakA bhI koI hisAba nhiiN| ye to mana meM kyA hI mAna baiThA hai ki mere alAvA koI pApA hI nahIM hai| are pAgala ! ye kutte, gadhe, billI, nire pApA hI hai n| kauna pApA nahIM hai? ye saba kalaha usIkI hai na? samajhakara koI pApA na bane, aisA koI cAritra kisI ke udaya meM Ae to usakI to AratI utAranI pdd'e| bAkI sabhI pApA hI banate haiM na? baoNsa ne oNphisa meM DA~TA ho, aura ghara para beTA 'pApA, pApA' kare taba usa ghar3I saba bhUla jAtA hai aura AnaMda hotA hai| kyoMki yaha bhI eka prakAra kI madirA hI kahalAtI hai, jo sabakucha bhulA detI hai!

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kleza rahita jIvana 4. phaimili ArgenAijezana praznakartA : dAdA, merA beTA paMdraha sau rupaye mahIne kamAtA hai, maiM riTAyarDa hU~, usake sAtha rahatA huuN| aba beTA aura baha majhe Tokate rahate haiM ki Apa aisA kyoM karate ho? bAhara kyoM jAte ho? isalie maiM unako kahanevAlA hU~ ki maiM ghara meM se calA jaauuNgaa| dAdAzrI : khilAte-pilAte haiM acchI taraha se? praznakartA : hA~, daadaa| dAdAzrI : taba phira calA jAU~gA aisA nahIM bolte| aura kabhI kahane ke bAda meM jAne kA nahIM ho pAe, to apane bola khuda ko hI nigalane pdd'e| praznakartA : taba phira mujhe unheM kucha bhI nahIM kahanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : bahuta huA to dhIre se kaheM ki aisA karo to acchA, phira mAnanA na mAnanA ApakI marajI kI bAta hai| ApakI dhaula sAmanevAle ko lage aisI ho aura usase sAmanevAle meM badalAva hotA ho tabhI dhaula mAranA aura yadi vaha polI dhaula mAroge to vaha ulTA viphregaa| usase uttama to dhaula nahIM mAranI vaha hai| ghara meM cAra bacce hoM, unameM se do kI koI bhUla nahIM ho taba bhI bApa unako DA~TatA rahatA hai aura dUsare do bhUla karate hI rahate hoM, phira bhI unheM kucha nahIM krtaa| yaha saba usake pUrva ke rUTakaoNz2a ke kAraNa hai| usakI to AzA hI mata rakhanA praznakartA : baccoM ko ciraMjIvI kyoM kahate hoMge? dAdAzrI : ciraMjIvI nahIM likheM to dUsare zabda ghusa jaaeNge| yaha beTA bar3A ho aura sukhI ho, hamArI arathI uThane se pahale use sukhI dekheM aisI bhAvanA hai na? phira bhI aMdara mana meM aisI AzA hai ki yaha baDhApe meM sevA kre| ye Ama ke per3a kyoM ugAte haiM? Ama khAne ke lie| para Aja ke bacce, ve Ama ke per3a kaise haiM? unameM do hI Ama Ae~ge aura bApa ke pAsa se dUsare do Ama maaNgeNge| isalie AzA mata rkhnaa| eka bhAI kahate haiM ki merA beTA kahatA hai ki Apako mahIne ke sau rupaye bhejUM? taba ve bhAI kahate haiM ki maiMne to use kaha diyA ki bhAI, mujhe tere bAsamatI kI z2arUrata nahIM hai, mere yahA~ bAjarA ugatA hai| usase peTa bharatA hai| yaha nayA vyApAra kahA~ zurU kareM? jo hai usameM saMtoSa hai| 'mitratA', vaha bhI 'eDajasTamenTa' praznakartA : baccoM ko mehamAna mAneM? dAdAzrI : mehamAna mAnane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| ina baccoM ko sudhArane ke lie eka rAstA hai, unake sAtha mitratA kro| hamane to bacapana se hI yaha rAstA cunA thaa| isalie itane choTe bacce ke sAtha bhI mitratA hai aura pacAsI sAla ke bUr3he ke sAtha bhI mitratA! baccoM ke sAtha mitratA kA sevana karanA caahie| bacce prema DhU~Dhate haiM, para prema unako milatA nahIM hai| isalie phira unakI muzkileM ve hI jAneM, kaha bhI nahIM sakate aura saha bhI nahIM skte| Aja ke yuvAoM ke lie rAstA hamAre pAsa hai| isa jahAja kA mastUla kisa tarapha lenA, vaha hameM aMdara se hI rAstA milatA hai| mere pAsa prema aisA utpanna huA hai ki jo bar3hatA nahIM aura ghaTatA bhI nhiiN| bar3hatAghaTatA hai vaha Asakti kahalAtA hai| jo bar3he-ghaTe nahIM vaha paramAtma prema hai| isIlie cAhe vaha manuSya vaza meM ho jAtA hai| mujhe kisI ko vaza meM karanA nahIM hai, phira bhI prema meM harakoI vaza meM rahA karatA hai, hama to nimitta haiN| kharA dharmodaya hI aba praznakartA : isa nayI prajA meM se dharma kA lopa kisalie hotA jA rahA hai? dAdAzrI : dharma kA lopa to ho hI gayA hai, lopa honA bAkI hI nahIM rhaa| aba to dharma kA udaya ho rahA hai| lopa ho jAtA hai, taba udaya kI zurUAta hotI hai| jaise isa sAgara meM bhATA pUrA ho, taba Adhe ghaMTe meM

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4. phaimili ArgenAijezana 10 jvAra kI zurUAta hotI hai| usI taraha yaha jagat calatA rahatA hai| jvArabhATA niyama ke anusaar| dharma ke binA to manuSya jI hI nahIM sktaa| dharma ke alAvA dUsarA AdhAra hI kyA hai manuSya ko? ye bacce to darpaNa haiN| baccoM ke Upara se patA calatA hai ki hamameM kitanI bhUla hai| bApa rAtabhara soe nahIM aura beTA ArAma se sotA hai, usameM bApa kI bhUla hai| maiMne bApa se kahA ki, 'isameM terI hI bhUla hai| tUne hI pichale janma meM beTe ko sira para car3hAyA thA, bahakAyA thA, aura vaha bhI terI kisI lAlaca kI khaatir|' yaha to samajhane jaisA hai| yaha ansarTiphAiDa phAdara aura anusarTiphAiDa madara kI kokha se bacce janme haiM, usameM ve kyA kareM? bIsa-paccIsa varSa ke hoM, taba bApa bana jAte haiN| abhI taka unakA hI bApa una para cillA rahA hotA hai! yaha to rAmabharose phAdara bana jAte haiN| isameM baccoM kA kyA doSa? ye bacce hamAre pAsa sArI bhUleM kabUla karate haiM, corI karI ho, taba bhI kabUla kara lete haiN| AlocanA to gaz2aba kA puruSa ho vahIM para hotI hai| hindustAna kA kisI adbhuta sTeja meM badalAva ho jaaegaa| saMskAra prApta karavAe, vaisA cAritra cAhie praznakartA : dAdA, gharasaMsAra pUrA zAMtimaya rahe aura aMtarAtmA kA jatana ho aisA kara diijie| dAdAzrI : gharasaMsAra zAMtimaya rahe utanA hI nahIM, magara bacce bhI hamArA dekhakara adhika saMskArI hoM, aisA hai| yaha to saba mA~-bApa kA pAgalapana dekhakara bacce bhI pAgala ho gae haiM, kyoMki mA~-bApa ke AcAra-vicAra paddhati anusAra nahIM hai| pati-patnI bhI bacce baiThe hoM tabhI cher3akhAnI karate haiM, isalie bacce bigar3eM nahIM to aura kyA hogA? baccoM meM kaise saMskAra par3ate haiM? maryAdA to rakhanI cAhie na? ina aMgAroM kA kaisA oN lagatA hai? choTA baccA aMgAro kA oN rakhatA hai na? mA~-bApa ke mana phrekcara ho gae haiM, mana vihvala ho gae haiN| vANI cAhe jaisI bolate haiN| sAmanevAle ko duHkhadAyI ho jAe vaisI vANI bolate haiM, isIlie bacce bigar3a jAte haiN| hama aisA boleM kleza rahita jIvana ki pati ko duHkha ho aura pati aisA bole ki hameM duHkha ho| yaha to saba paz2ala khar3A ho gayA hai| hindustAna meM aisA nahIM hotaa| parantu yaha kaliyuga kA nimitta hai, isalie aisA hI hotA hai| usameM bhI yaha eka gajaba kA vijJAna nikalA hai, to jise milegA usakA kAma nikala jaaegaa| isalie sadbhAvanA kI ora mor3o praznakartA : bacce Ter3he caleM, to kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : bacce Ter3he rAste jAe~, taba bhI hameM use dekhate rahanA hai aura jAnate rahanA hai| aura mana meM bhAva taya karanA hai aura prabhu se prArthanA karanI cAhie ki isa para kRpA kro| hameM to jo huA vahI karekTa kahanA caahie| jo bhugate usIkI bhUla hai| huA vahI karekTa kahakara calo to hala aaegaa| bhagavAna ne kahA, 'tu sudhara to terI hAz2irI se saba sudhregaa|' ___choTe beTe-beTiyoM ko samajhAnA cAhie ki subaha nahA-dhokara sUryapUjA kareM aura roja saMkSepa meM boleM ki mujhe tathA jagat ko sadbuddhi do, jagat kA kalyANa kro| itanA hI bolo to vaha saMskAra mile kahalAe~ge, aura mA~-bApa kA karmabaMdhana chuuttaa| yaha to saba anivArya hai| mA~-bApa ne pA~ca hajAra kA udhAra lekara beTe ko par3hAyA ho, phira bhI kisI dina beTA uddhatAI kare to bolakara batAnA nahIM cAhie ki hamane tujhe pddhaayaa| vaha to hama DyUTI bAunDa the, farja thaa| farz2a thA, vaha kiyaa| hameM apanA farz2a nibhAnA

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra matabheda meM samAdhAna kisa prakAra? kAla vicitra A rahA hai| dhiyoM para A~dhiyA~ AnevAlI haiM! isalie sAvadhAna rhnaa| ye jaise pavana kI A~dhiyA~ AtI haiM na vaise kadarata kI A~dhI A rahI hai| manuSyoM ke sira para bhArI muzkileM haiN| zakarakaMda bhaTThI meM bhunatA hai, vaise loga bhuna rahe haiN| kisake AdhAra para jI rahe haiM, usakI khuda ko bhI samajha nahIM hai| apane ApameM se zraddhA bhI calI gaI hai! aba kyA ho? ghara meM vAipha ke sAtha matabheda ho jAe to usakA samAdhAna karanA AtA nahIM hai, baccoM ke sAtha matabheda khaDA ho jAe to usakA samAdhAna karanA nahIM AtA hai aura ulajhana meM rahatA hai| praznakartA : pati to aisA hI kahatA hai na ki vAipha samAdhAna kare, maiM nahIM kruuNgaa| dAdAzrI : haM... yAnI ki limiTa pUrI ho gii| vAipha samAdhAna kare aura hama samAdhAna na kareM to apanI limiTa ho gaI prii| kharA puruSa ho na to vaha aisA bole ki vAipha khuza ho jAe aura aise karake gAr3I Age bddh'aae| aura Apa to paMdraha-paMdraha dinoM taka, mahInoM taka gAr3I khar3I rakhate ho, vaha nahIM cltaa| jaba taka sAmanevAle kA mana kA samAdhAna nahIM hogA taba taka Apako muzkila hai| isIlie samAdhAna karanA caahie| praznakartA : sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna ho gayA, kisa taraha kahA jAegA? sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna ho jAe, para usameM usakA ahita hotA ho to? dAdAzrI : vaha Apako dekhanA nahIM hai| sAmanevAle kA ahita ho, kleza rahita jIvana vaha to sAmanevAle ko dekhanA hai| Apako sAmanevAle kA hitAhita dekhanA hai, para Apa hita dekhanevAle meM, ApameM zakti kyA hai? Apa apanA hI hita nahIM dekha sakate, phira dUsare kA hita kyA dekhate ho? saba apanIapanI zakti ke anusAra hita dekhate haiM, utanA hita dekhanA caahie| para sAmanevAle ke hita kI khAtira TakarAva khar3A ho, aisA nahIM honA caahie| praznakartA : sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna karane kA hama prayatna kareM, para usameM pariNAma alaga hI AnevAlA hai, aisA hameM patA ho to usakA kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : pariNAma kucha bhI Ae, hameM to 'sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna karanA hai' itanA nizcita rakhanA hai| 'samabhAva se nikAla' karane kA nizcita karo, phira nikAla ho yA na ho vaha pahale se dekhanA nahIM hai| aura nikAla hogaa| Aja nahIM to dUsare dina hogA, tIsare dina hogA, gAr3hA ho to do varSa meM, tIna varSa meM yA cAra varSa meM hogaa| vAipha ke RNAnubaMdha bahuta gAr3ha hote haiM, baccoM ke gAr3ha hote haiM, mA~-bApa ke gAr3ha hote haiM, vahA~ jarA jyAdA samaya lagatA hai| ye saba apane sAtha ke sAtha hI hote haiM, vahA~ nikAla dhIredhIre hotA hai| para hamane nizcita kiyA hai ki jaba ho taba hameM samabhAva se nikAla karanA hai', isalie eka dina usakA nikAla hokara rahegA, usakA aMta aaegaa| jahA~ gAr3ha RNAnubaMdha hoM, vahA~ bahuta jAgRti rakhanI par3atI hai, itanA choTA-sA sA~pa ho para sAvadhAna, aura sAvadhAna hI rahanA par3atA hai| aura yadi bekhabara raheM, ajAgrata raheM to samAdhAna hotA nhiiN| sAmanevAlA vyakti bola jAe aura hama bhI bola jAe~, bola gae usameM harja nahIM hai parantu bola jAne ke pIche hameM 'samabhAve nikAla' karanA hai aisA nizcaya rahA huA hai isalie dveSa rahatA nahIM hai| bolA jAnA vaha pudgala kA hai aura dveSa rahanA, usake pIche khuda kA AdhAra rahA huA hai| isalie hameM to 'samabhAve nikAla' karanA hai, aise nizcita karake kAma karate jAo, hisAba cukatA ho hI jaaeNge| aura Aja mA~ganevAle ko nahIM diyA jA sakA to kala diyA jAegA, holI para diyA jAegA, nahIM to divAlI para diyA jaaegaa| para mA~ganevAlA le hI jaaegaa|

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra isa jagat ko cukatA karane ke bAda arathI meM jAte haiN| isa bhava ke to cukatA kara DAlatA hai hI cAhe jisa rAste, phira naye bA~dhe ve alg| aba hama naye bA~dhate nahIM hai aura purAne isa bhava meM cukatA ho hI jAnevAle haiN| sArA hisAba cukatA ho gayA isalie bhAI cale arathI lekara! jahA~ kisI bhI khAte meM bAkI rahA ho, vahA~ thor3e dina adhika rahanA pdd'egaa| isa bhava kA isa deha ke AdhAra para saba cukatA hI ho jAtA hai| phira yahA~ jitanI gA~TheM DAlI hoM, ve sAtha meM le jAtA hai aura phira vApisa nayA hisAba zurU hotA hai| kleza rahita jIvana hai ki TakarAva TAlanA hai| apane mana para asara bilakula ho nahIM phira bhI kucha asara acAnaka ho gayA, taba hama samajheM ki sAmanevAle ke mana kA asara apane Upara par3A, isIlie hameM khisaka jAnA caahie| ve saba TakarAva haiN| vaha jaise-jaise samajhate jAoge, vaise-vaise TakarAva ko TAlate jAoge, TakarAva TAle usase mokSa hotA hai| yaha jagat TakarAva hI hai, spaMdana svarUpa hai| eka vyakti ko san ikyAvana meM yaha eka zabda diyA thaa| TakarAva TAla' kahA thA aura aise usako samajhAyA thaa| maiM zAstra par3ha rahA thA, taba usane mujhe Akara kahA ki dAdA, mujhe kucha diijie| vaha mere vahA~ naukarI karatA thA, taba maiMne usase kahA, 'tujhe kyA deM? tU sArI duniyA ke sAtha lar3akara AtA hai, mArapITa karake AtA hai|' relve meM bhI laDAI-jhagar3A karatA hai, yoM to paisoM kA pAnI karatA hai aura relve meM jo niyamAnusAra bharanA hai, vaha nahIM bharatA aura Upara se jhagar3A karatA hai, yaha saba maiM jAnatA thaa| isalie maiMne use kahA ki tU TakarAva ttaal| dasarA kucha tujhe sIkhane kI jarUrata nahIM hai| vaha Aja taka abhI bhI pAlana kara rahA hai| abhI Apa usake sAtha TakarAva karane ke naye-naye tarIke DhU~Dha nikAlo, taraha-taraha kI gAliyA~ do, phira bhI vaha aise khisaka jaaegaa| ...isalie TakarAva TAlo isalie jahA~ ho vahA~ se TakarAva ko ttaalo| yaha TakarAva karake isa loka kA to bigAr3ate haiM parantu paraloka bhI bigAr3ate haiM ! jo isa loka kA bigAr3atA hai, vaha paraloka kA bigAr3e binA rahatA hI nahIM! yaha loka sudhare, usakA paraloka sudharatA hai| isa bhava meM hameM kisI bhI prakAra kI ar3acana nahIM AI to samajhanA ki parabhava meM bhI aDacana hai hI nahIM aura yahA~ ar3acana khar3I kI to ve saba vahA~ para hI AnevAlI haiN| praznakartA : TakarAva meM TakarAva kareM to kyA hotA hai? dAdAzrI : sira phUTa jAtA hai! eka vyakti mujhe saMsAra pAra karane kA rAstA pUcha rahA thaa| use maiMne kahA ki TakarAva ttaalnaa| mujhe pUchA ki TakarAva TAlanA matalaba kyA? taba maiMne kahA ki hama sIdhe cala rahe hoM aura bIca meM khaMbhA Ae to hameM ghUmakara jAnA cAhie yA khaMbhe ke sAtha TakarAnA cAhie? taba usane kahA, 'nA! TakarAe~ge to sira phUTa jaaegaa|' yaha patthara aise bIca meM par3A huA ho to hameM kyA karanA cAhie? ghUmakara jAnA caahie| yaha bhaiMsa kA bhAI rAste meM bIca meM Ae to kyA karoge? bhaiMsa ke bhAI ko pahacAnate ho na Apa? vaha AtA ho to ghUmakara jAnA par3atA hai, nahIM to sira mAre to toDa DAle sb| vaise hI manuSya bhI kucha aise A rahe hoM to ghUmakara jAnA par3atA hai| vaisA hI TakarAva kA hai| koI manuSya DA~Tane Ae, zabda bamagole jaise Ate hoM taba hameM samajha jAnA isalie TakarAva TAlo, TakarAva se yaha jagat khar3A huA hai| use bhagavAna ne baira se khar3A huA hai, aisA kahA hai| haraeka manuSya, are jIva mAtra baira rakhatA hai| jyAdA kucha huA ki baira rakhe bagaira rahatA nahIM hai| vaha phira sA~pa ho, bicchU ho, baila ho yA bhaiMsA ho, koI bhI ho, parantu baira rakhatA hai| kyoMki sabameM AtmA hai| Atmazakti sabhI meM eka-sI hai| kyoMki yaha pudgala kI kamajorI ke kAraNa sahana karanA par3atA hai| parantu sahana karane ke sAtha hI vaha baira rakhe bagaira rahatA nahIM hai aura agale janma meM vaha unakA baira vasUlatA hai vApisa! sahana? nahIM, solyuzana lAo praznakartA : dAdA, TakarAva TAlanA Apane jo kahA hai, matalaba sahana karanA aisA artha hotA hai na?

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 56 kleza rahita jIvana dAdAzrI : TakarAva TAlane kA matalaba sahana karanA nahIM hai| sahana karoge to kitanA karoge? sahanA karanA aura spriMga dabAnA, vaha donoM eka jaisA hai| spriMga dabAI haI kitane dina rahegI? isalie sahana karanA to sIkhanA hI mata, solyuzana lAnA siikho| ajJAna dazA meM to sahana hI karanA hotA hai| phira eka dina spriMga uchale vaise saba girA de, para vaha to kudarata kA niyama hI aisA hai| aisA jagat kA niyama hI nahIM ki kisI ke kAraNa hameM sahana karanA pdd'e| jo kucha sahana karanA par3atA hai dUsaroM ke hisAba se, vaha apanA hI hisAba hotA hai| parantu hameM patA nahIM calatA ki yaha kauna-se khAte kA, kahA~ kA mAla hai? isIlie hama aisA samajhate haiM ki isane nayA mAla udhAra denA zurU kiyaa| nayA koI detA hI nahIM, diyA huA hI vApisa AtA hai| apane jJAna meM sahana nahIM karanA hotA hai| jJAna se jA~ca lenA cAhie ki sAmanevAlA 'zuddhAtmA' hai| yaha jo AyA hai vaha mere hI karma ke udaya se AyA hai, sAmanevAlA to nimitta hai| phira hameM yaha jJAna iTaselpha hI pajala saoNlva kara degaa| praznakartA : usakA artha aisA huA ki mana meM samAdhAna karanA cAhie ki yaha mAla thA vaha vApisa AyA aisA na? dAdAzrI : vaha khuda zuddhAtmA hai aura usakI prakRti hai| prakRti yaha phala detI hai| hama zuddhAtmA haiM, vaha bhI zuddhAtmA haiN| aba donoM ko 'vAyara' kahA~ lAgU par3atA hai? vaha prakRti aura yaha prakRti, donoM Amane-sAmane saba hisAba cukA rahe haiN| usameM isa prakRti ke karma kA udaya hai isalie vaha kucha detA hai| isIlie hameM kahanA ki yaha apane hI karma kA udaya hai aura sAmanevAlA nimitta hai, vaha de gayA isalie apanA hisAba cokhA ho gyaa| yaha solyuzana ho, vahA~ phira sahana karane kA rahatA hI nahIM na? sahana karane se kyA hogA? aisA spaSTa nahIM samajhAoge to eka dina vaha spriMga kuudegii| kUdI huI spriMga Apane dekhI hai? merI spriMga bahuta kUdatI thii| kaI dinoM taka maiM bahuta sahana kara letA thA aura phira eka dina spriMga uchale to sabhI ur3Akara rakha duuN| yaha saba ajJAna dazA kA, mujhe usakA khayAla hai| vaha mere lakSya meM hai| isalie to kaha detA hU~ na ki sahana karanA sIkhanA mt| vaha ajJAnadazA meM sahana karane kA hotA hai| apane yahA~ to vizleSaNa kara denA hai ki isakA pariNAma kyA, usakA pariNAma kyA, khAte meM niyama anusAra kA dekha lenA cAhie, koI vastu khAte kI bAhara kI hotI nahIM hai| hisAba cuke yA kaoNz2ez2a par3e? praznakartA : nayA lena-dena na ho vaha kisa taraha hogA? dAdAzrI : nayA lena-dena kise kahate haiM? kaoNjeja ko nayA lenadena kahate haiM, yaha to iphekTa hI hai sirpha! yahA~ jo-jo hotA hai vaha saba iphekTa hI hai aura kaoNjez2a adarzanIya hai| indriyoM se kaoNjez2a dikhate nahIM hai, jo dikhate haiM ve saba iphekTa hai| isalie hameM samajhanA cAhie ki hisAba cukate ho gyaa| nayA jo hotA hai, vaha to aMdara ho rahA hai, vaha abhI nahIM dikhegA, vaha to jaba pariNAma AegA tb| abhI vaha to hisAba meM likhA nahIM gayA hai, noMdhabahI meM se abhI to bahIkhAte meM aaegaa| praznakartA : pichalevAle pakkI bahI kA abhI AtA hai? dAdAzrI : haaN| praznakartA : yaha TakarAva hotA hai, vaha 'vyavasthita' ke AdhAra para hI hotA hogA na? dAdAzrI : hA~, TakarAva hai vaha 'vyavasthita' ke AdhAra para hai, parantu aisA kaba kahalAegA? TakarAva ho jAne ke baad| hameM TakarAva nahIM karanA hai', aisA apanA nizcaya ho| sAmane khaMbhA dikhe, taba phira hama samajha jAe~ ki khaMbhA AyA hai, ghUmakara jAnA par3egA, TakarAnA to nahIM hai| para isake bAvajUda bhI TakarA jAe~ taba hameM kahanA cAhie ki vyavasthita hai| pahale se hI 'vyavasthita hai' mAnakara caleM taba to 'vyavasthita' kA durupayoga huA khlaaegaa|

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Ve 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra _ 'nyAya svarUpa', vahA~ upAya tapa praznakartA : TakarAva TAlane kI, 'samabhAve nikAla' karane kI hamArI vRtti hotI hai, phira bhI sAmanevAlA vyakti hameM parezAna kare, apamAna kare, to kyA karanA cAhie hameM? dAdAzrI : kucha nhiiN| vaha apanA hisAba hai, to hameM usakA 'samabhAve nikAla' karanA hai aisA nizcita rakhanA caahie| hameM apane niyama meM hI rahanA cAhie, aura hameM apane Apa apanA paz2ala saoNlva karate rahanA caahie| praznakartA : sAmanevAlA vyakti apanA apamAna kare aura hameM apamAna lage, usakA kAraNa apanA ahaMkAra hai? dAdAzrI : saca meM to sAmanevAlA apamAna karatA hai, taba hamArA ahaMkAra pighalA detA hai, aura vaha bhI vo DrAmeTika ahNkaar| jitanA eksesa ahaMkAra hotA hai vaha pighalatA hai, usameM kyA bigar3a jAnevAlA hai? ye karma chUTane nahIM dete haiN| hameM to choTA baccA sAmane ho taba bhI kahanA cAhie, aba chuTakArA kr| Apake sAtha kisI ne anyAya kiyA aura Apako aisA ho ki mere sAtha yaha anyAya kyoM kiyA, to Apako karma bNdhegaa| kyoMki ApakI bhUla ko lekara sAmanevAle ko anyAya karanA par3atA hai| aba yahA~ kahA~ mati pahu~ce? jagat to kalaha karake rakha detA hai! bhagavAna kI bhASA meM koI nyAya bhI karatA nahIM hai, aura anyAya bhI karatA nahIM hai| karekTa karatA hai| aba ina logoM kI mati kahA~ se pahu~ce? ghara meM matabheda kama hoM, tor3aphor3a kama ho, AsapAsavAloM kA prema bar3he to samajheM ki bAta samajha meM aaii| nahIM to bAta samajha meM AI nhiiN| jJAna kahatA hai ki tU nyAya khojegA to tU mUrkha hai ! isalie usakA upAya hai, tapa! kisI ne Apake sAtha anyAya kiyA ho to vaha bhagavAna kI bhASA meM karekTa haiM, jise saMsAra kI bhASA meM galata kiyA aisA kheNge| kleza rahita jIvana yaha jagat nyAyasvarUpa hai, gappa nahIM hai| eka macchara bhI aise hI Apako chue aisA nahIM hai| macchara ne chuA isalie ApakA koI kAraNa hai| bAkI yoM hI eka spaMdana bhI Apako chue aisA nahIM hai| Apa saMpUrNa svataMtra ho| kisI kI dakhala ApameM nahIM hai| praznakartA : TakarAva meM mauna hitakArI hai yA nahIM? dAdAzrI : mauna to bahuta hitakArI kahalAtA hai| praznakartA : parantu dAdA, bAhara mauna hotA hai, parantu aMdara to bahuta ghamAsAna cala rahA hotA hai, usakA kyA ho? dAdAzrI : vaha kAma kA nahIM hai| mauna to sabase pahale mana kA caahie| uttama to, eDajasTa evarIvhera praznakartA : jIvana meM svabhAva nahIM milate isalie TakarAva hotA hai na? dAdAzrI : TakarAva hotA hai usakA hI nAma saMsAra hai! praznakartA : TakarAva hone kA kAraNa kyA hai? dAdAzrI : ajnyaantaa| praznakartA : sirpha seTha ke sAtha hI TakarAva hotA hai aisA nahIM hai, sabake sAtha hotA hai, usakA kyA? dAdAzrI : hA~, sabake sAtha hotA hai| are! isa dIvAra ke sAtha bhI hotA hai| praznakartA : usakA rAstA kyA hogA? dAdAzrI : hama batAte haiM, phira dIvAra ke sAtha bhI TakarAva nahIM hogaa| isa dIvAra ke sAtha TakarAtA hai usameM kisakA doSa? jise lagA usakA

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60 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra doss| usameM dIvAra ko kyA? cikanI miTTI Ae aura Apa phisala jAe~ usameM bhUla ApakI hai| cikanI miTTI to nimitta hai| hameM nimitta ko samajhakara aMdara u~galiyA gar3A denI par3atI haiN| cikanI miTTI to hotI hI hai, aura phisalA denA, vaha to usakA svabhAva hI hai| praznakartA : para kalaha khar3A hone kA kAraNa kyA hai? svabhAva nahIM milatA, isalie? dAdAzrI : ajJAnatA hai islie| saMsAra usakA nAma ki koI kisI kA kisI se svabhAva milatA hI nhiiN| yaha 'jJAna' mile usakA eka hI rAstA hai, 'eDajasTa evriivher'| koI tujhe mAre phira bhI tujhe usake sAtha eDajasTa ho jAnA hai| praznakartA : vAipha ke sAtha kaI bAra TakarAva ho jAtA hai| mujhe Uba bhI hotI hai| dAdAzrI : Uba ho utanA hI nahIM, para kucha to jAkara samudra meM DUba marate haiM, brA~DI pIkara Ate haiN| sabase bar3A duHkha kisakA hai? DisaeDajasTamenTa kA, vahA~ eDajasTa evarIvhera kareM, to kyA harja hai?! praznakartA : usameM to puruSArtha caahie| dAdAzrI : kucha bhI puruSArtha nahIM, merI AjJA pAlanI hai ki 'dAdA' ne kahA hai ki eDajasTa evriivher| to eDajasTa hotA rhegaa| bIvI kahe ki 'Apa cora ho|' to kahanA ki 'yu Ara krektt|' aura thor3I dera bAda vaha kahe ki 'nahIM, Apane corI nahIM kii|' taba bhI, 'yu Ara karekTa' kheN| aisA hai, brahmA kA eka dina, utanI apanI pUrI z2indagI hai ! brahmA ke eka dina kA jInA, aura yaha kyA dhA~dhalI? zAyada yadi hameM brahmA ke sau varSa jIne ke hote taba to hama samajheM ki ThIka hai, eDajasTa kyoM ho? 'dAvA kara' kheN| para yaha to jaldI pUrA karanA ho usakA kyA karanA par3egA? kleza rahita jIvana eDajasTa ho jAe~ yA dAvA dAyara kara, kaheM? para yaha to eka dina hI hai, yaha to jaldI pUrA karanA hai| jo kAma jaldI pUrA karanA ho use kyA karanA par3atA hai? eDajasTa hokara choTA kara denA cAhie, nahIM to khiMcatA hI jAtA hai yA nahIM khiMcatA? bIvI ke sAtha lar3eM to rAta ko nIMda AegI kyA? aura subaha nAztA bhI acchA nahIM milegaa| hamane isa saMsAra kI bahuta sUkSma khoja kI hai| aMtima prakAra kI khoja karake hama ye saba bAteM kara rahe haiN| vyavahAra meM kisa taraha rahanA cAhie, vaha bhI dete haiM aura mokSa meM kisa taraha jA sakate haiM. vaha bhI dete haiN| ApakI ar3acaneM kisa taraha se kama hoM, vahI hamArA hetu hai| ghara meM calana chor3anA to par3egA na? ghara meM hameM apanA calana nahIM rakhanA cAhie, jo vyakti calana rakhatA hai use bhaTakanA par3atA hai| hamane bhI hIrAbA se kaha diyA thA ki hama khoTA sikkA haiN| hameM bhaTakane kA pusAtA nahIM hai na! nahIM calanevAlA sikkA ho usakA kyA kareM? use bhagavAna ke pAsa baiThA rahanA hotA hai| ghara meM ApakA calana calAne jAo to TakarAva hotA hai na? hameM to aba 'samabhAve nikAla' karanA hai| ghara meM patnI ke sAtha 'phrenDa' kI taraha rahanA caahie| ve ApakI 'phrenDa' aura Apa unake 'phrendd'| aura yahA~ koI noMdha karatA nahIM ki calana terA thA yA unakA thaa| myunisipAliTI meM noMdha hotI nahIM aura bhagavAna ke vahA~ bhI noMdha hotI nahIM hai| hameM nAzte ke sAtha kAma hai yA calana ke sAtha kAma hai? isalie kauna-se rAste nAztA acchA milegA vaha DhU~Dha nikaalo| yadi myunisipAliTIvAle noMdha rakha rahe hote ki kisakA calana ghara meM hai, to maiM bhI eDajasTa nahIM hotaa| yaha to koI bApa bhI noMdha karatA nahIM hai| hamAre paira duHkhate hoM aura bIvI paira dabA rahI ho, usa samaya koI Ae aura yaha dekhakara kahe ki ohoho! ApakA to ghara meM calana bahuta acchA hai| taba hama kaheM ki, 'nA, calana unakA hI calatA hai| aura yadi

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61 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra Apa kaho ki hA~, hamArA hI calana hai, to vaha paira dabAne kA chor3a degii| usase behatara to hama kaheM ki nA, unakA hI calana hai| praznakartA : use makkhana lagAyA nahIM kahA jAegA? dAdAzrI : nA, vaha sTreTa ve kahalAtA hai, aura dUsare saba Ter3he-mer3he rAste kahalAte haiN| isa dUSamakAla meM sukhI hone kA, yaha maiM kahatA hU~ vaha, alaga rAstA hai| maiM isa kAla ke lie kaha rahA huuN| hama apanA nAztA kisalie bigAr3eM? subaha meM nAztA bigar3e, dopahara meM nAztA bigar3e, sArA dina bigdd'e| riekzanarI prayatna nahIM hI kie jAe~ praznakartA : dopahara ko vApisa subaha kA TakarAva bhUla bhI jAte haiM aura zAma ko vApisa nayA ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha hama jAnate haiM, TakarAva kisa zakti se hotA hai, vaha Ter3hA bolatI hai usameM kauna-sI zakti kAma kara rahI hai| bolakara vApisa eDajasTa ho jAte haiN| vaha saba jJAna se samajha meM Ae aisA hai, phira bhI eDajasTa honA cAhie jagat meN| kyoMki haraeka vastu enDavAlI hotI hai| aura zAyada vaha lambe samaya taka cale, phira bhI Apa use helpa nahIM karate, adhika nukasAna karate ho| apane Apako nukasAna karate ho aura sAmanevAle kA bhI nukasAna hotA hai! use kauna sudhAra sakegA? jo sudharA huA ho vahI sudhAra skegaa| khuda kA hI ThikAnA nahIM ho vaha sAmanevAle ko kisa taraha sudhAra sakegA? praznakartA : hama sudhare hue hoM to sudhAra sakeMge na? dAdAzrI : hA~, sudhAra skoge| praznakartA : sudhare hue kI paribhASA kyA hai? dAdAzrI : sAmanevAle manuSya ko Apa DA~Ta rahe hoM taba bhI use usameM prema dikhe| Apa ulAhanA de, taba bhI use ApameM prema hI dikhe kI kleza rahita jIvana ahoho! mere phAdara kA mujha para kitanA prema hai! ulAhanA do, parantu prema se do to sudhreNge| ye kaoNleja meM yadi prophesara ulAhanA dene jAe~ to prophesaroM ko saba maareNge| sAmanevAlA sudhare, usake lie hamAre prayatna rahane caahie| para yadi prayatna riekzanarI hoM, vaise prayatno meM nahIM par3anA caahie| hama use jhir3akeM aura use kharAba lage vaha prayatna nahIM khlaataa| prayatna aMdara karane cAhie, sUkSma prakAra se! sthUla taraha se yadi hameM nahIM karanA AtA ho to sUkSma prakAra se prayatna karane caahie| adhika ulAhanA nahIM denA ho to thor3e meM hI kaha denA cAhie ki hameM yaha zobhA nahIM detA hai| basa itanA hI kahakara baMda rakhanA caahie| kahanA to par3atA hai para kahane kA tarIkA hotA hai| ...nahIM to prArthanA kA eDajasTamenTa praznakartA : sAmanevAle ko samajhAne maiMne apanA puruSArtha kiyA, phira vaha samajhe yA nahIM samajhe vaha usakA puruSArtha? dAdAzrI : itanI hI jimmedArI hamArI hai ki hama use samajhA sakate haiN| phira vaha nahIM samajhe to usakA upAya nahIM hai| phira hameM itanA kahanA hai ki dAdA bhagavAna ! inako sadbuddhi denaa| itanA kahanA pdd'egaa| kucha use Upara nahIM laTakA sakate, gappa nahIM hai| yaha 'dAdA' kA eDajasTamenTa kA vijJAna hai, AzcaryakArI eDajasTamenTa hai yh| aura jahA~ eDajasTa nahIM ho pAe, vahA~ usakA svAda to AtA hI rahegA na Apako? yaha DisaeDajasTamenTa yahI mUrkhatA hai| kyoMki vaha jAne ki apanA svAmitva maiM choDUMgA nahIM, aura merA hI calana rahanA caahie| to sArI z2indagI bhUkhA maregA aura eka dina 'poijana' par3egA thAlI meN| sahaja calatA hai, use calane do na! yaha to kaliyuga hai ! vAtAvaraNa hI kaisA hai? isalie bIvI kahe ki Apa nAlAyaka ho, to kahanA 'bahuta acchaa|' praznakartA : hameM bIvI 'nAlAyaka' kahe, vaha to ukasAyA ho aisA lagatA hai|

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 63 dAdAzrI : to phira hameM kyA upAya karanA cAhie? tU do bAra nAlAyaka hai, aisA use kahanA hai ? aura usase kucha hamArA nAlAyakapana miTa gayA? hama para muhara lagI, matalaba hama do bAra muhara lagAe~? phira nAztA bigar3e, sArA dina bigdd'e| praznakartA: eDajasTamenTa kI bAta hai, usake pIche bhAva kyA hai phira kahA~ pahu~canA hai? dAdAzrI : bhAva zAMti kA hai, zAMti kA hetu hai| azAMti paidA nahIM karane kA kImiyA hai / 'jJAnI' ke pAsa se eDajasTamenTa sIkheM eka bhAI the| ve rAta ko do baje na jAne kyA-kyA karake ghara Ate hoMge, usakA varNana karane jaisA nahIM hai| Apa samajha jaao| taba phira ghara meM sabane nizcaya kiyA ki inako DA~TeM yA ghara meM nahIM ghusane deM? kyA upAya kareM? ve usakA anubhava kara aae| bar3e bhAI kahane gae to usane bar3e bhAI se kahA ki, 'Apako mAre bagaira choDUMgA nhiiN|' phira gharavAle sabhI mujhe pUchane Ae ki, 'isakA kyA kareM? yaha to aisA bolatA hai|' taba maiMne gharavAloM ko kaha diyA ki kisI ko use eka akSara bhI kahanA nahIM hai| Apa bologe to vaha jyAdA uddaMDa ho jAegA, aura ghara meM ghusane nahIM doge to vaha vidroha kregaa| use jaba AnA ho, taba Ae aura jaba jAnA ho, taba jaae| hameM rAiTa bhI nahIM bolanA hai aura roMga bhI nahIM bolanA hai, rAga bhI nahIM rakhanA hai aura dveSa bhI nahIM rakhanA hai, samatA rakhanI hai, karuNA rakhanI hai| taba tIna-cAra varSoM bAda vo bhAI acche ho ge| Aja vo bhAI meM bahuta madada karatA hai| jagat nikammA nahIM hai, parantu kAma lenA AnA caahie| sabhI bhagavAna haiM, aura haraeka alaga-alaga kAma lekara baiThe haiM, isalie nApasaMda jaisA rakhanA mt| Azrita ko kucalanA, ghora anyAya praznakartA : merI patnI ke sAtha merA bilakula banatA nahIM hai| cAhe 64 kleza rahita jIvana jitanI nirdoSa bAta karU~, merA saca ho phira bhI vaha ulTA samajhatI hai| bAhara kA jIvana saMgharSa calatA hai, para yaha vyakti saMgharSa kyA hogA? dAdAzrI : aisA hai, manuSya khuda ke hAtha ke nIcevAle manuSyoM ko itanA adhika kucalatA hai, itanA adhika kucalatA hai ki kucha bAkI hI nahIM rkhtaa| khuda ke hAtha ke nIce koI manuSya AyA ho, phira vaha strI ke rUpa meM ho yA puruSa ke rUpa meM ho, khuda kI sattA meM AyA use kucalane meM kucha bAkI hI nahIM rkhte| ghara ke logoM ke sAtha kalaha kabhI bhI nahIM karanI caahie| usI kamare meM par3e rahanA hai vahA~ kalaha kisa kAma kI? kisI ko parezAna karake khuda sukhI ho jAe~, aisA kabhI bhI nahIM hotA, aura hameM to sukha dekara sukha lenA hai| hama ghara meM sukha deM to hI sukha milegA aura cAya-pAnI bhI ThIka se banAkara deMge, nahIM to cAya-pAnI bhI bigAr3akara deNge| kamaz2ora pati patnI para sUramA / jo apane saMrakSaNa meM hoM, unakA bhakSaNa kisa taraha kiyA jAe? jo khuda ke hAtha ke nIce AyA ho usakA rakSaNa karanA, vahI sabase bar3A dhyeya honA caahie| usase gunAha huA ho to bhI usakA rakSaNa karanA caahie| ye pAkistAnI sainika abhI saba yahA~ kaidI haiM, phira bhI unheM kaisA rakSaNa dete haiM ! taba ye to ghara ke hI hai na! ye to bAharavAloM ke sAmane myAU~ ho jAte haiM, vahA~ jhagar3A nahIM karate aura ghara para hI saba karate haiN| khuda kI sattA ke nIce ho, use kucalate rahate haiM aura UparI ko sAhaba - sAhaba karate haiN| abhI yaha pulisavAlA DA~Te to sAhaba - sAhaba kahegA aura ghara para vAipha saccI bAta kahatI ho, taba use sahana nahIM hotA aura use DA~TatA hai, 'mere cAya ke kapa meM cIMTI kahA~ se AI?' aisA karake gharavAloM ko DarAtA hai| usake badale to zAMti se cIMTI nikAla le na ! gharavAloM ko DarAtA hai aura pulisavAle ke sAmane kA~patA hai ! aba yaha ghora anyAya kahalAtA hai| hameM yaha zobhA nahIM detaa| strI to khuda kI sAjhedAra kahalAtI hai| sAjhedAra ke sAtha kleza? yaha to kleza hotA ho vahA~ koI rAstA nikAlanA par3atA hai, samajhAnA par3atA hai| ghara meM rahanA hai to kleza kisalie?

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 65 sAinsa samajhane jaisA praznakartA : hameM kleza nahIM karanA ho, parantu sAmanevAlA Akara jhagar3e to kyA kareM? usameM eka jAgrata ho parantu sAmanevAlA kleza kare to vahA~ to kleza hogA hI na? dAdAzrI : isa dIvAra ke sAtha lar3e, to kitanA samaya lar3a sakegA? isa dIvAra ke sAtha eka dina sira TakarA jAe to hameM usake sAtha kyA karanA cAhie? sira TakarAyA isalie hamArA dIvAra ke sAtha meM jhagar3A ho gayA, taba phira hameM dIvAra ko mAranA cAhie? usI taraha ye khUba kleza karavAtA ho, to ve saba divAreM haiN| usameM sAmanevAle kA kyA dekhanA ? hameM apane Apa samajha jAnA cAhie ki yaha dIvAra jaisI hai, aisA samajhanA cAhie / phira koI muzkila nahIM / praznakartA: hama mauna raheM to sAmanevAle para ulTA asara hotA hai ki inakA hI doSa hai, aura ve adhika kleza karate haiN| dAdAzrI : yaha to hamane mAna liyA hai ki maiM mauna rahA isalie aisA huaa| rAta ko manuSya uThA aura bAtharUma meM jAte samaya aMdhere meM dIvAra ke sAtha TakarA gayA, to vahA~ hama mauna rahe isalie vaha TakarAI ? mauna raho yA bolo, use sparza nahIM karatA hai, koI lenA-denA nahIM hai| hamAre mauna rahane se sAmanevAle para asara hotA hai, aisA kucha hotA nahIM, yA apane bolane se sAmanevAle para asara hotA hai aisA bhI kucha hotA nahIM hai| onlI sAinTiphika sarakamasTenziyala eviDensa, mAtra vaijJAnika sAMyogika pramANa haiN| kisI kI itanI-sI bhI sattA nahIM hai| itanI-sI sattA bagaira kA jagat hai, usameM koI kyA karanevAlA hai? isa dIvAra ke pAsa yadi sattA hotI to inheM bhI sattA hotI! isa dIvAra se hameM jhagar3ane kI sattA hai? usI taraha sAmanevAle ke sAtha cIkhane-cillAne kA kyA artha? usake hAtha meM sattA hI nahIM hai vahA~ ! isIlie Apa dIvAra jaise bana jAo na ! Apa patnI ko jhir3akate rahate ho, to usake aMdara bhagavAna baiThe haiM ve noMdha karate haiM ki yaha mujhe jhir3akAtA hai| aura Apako vaha jhir3akAe taba Apa 66 kleza rahita jIvana dIvAra jaise ho jAo to Apake aMdara baiThe bhagavAna Apako helpa kreNge| jo bhugate usakI hI bhUla praznakartA: kucha aise hote haiM ki hama cAhe jitanA acchA vyavahAra kareM phira bhI ve samajhate nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : ve na samajhate hoM to usameM apanI hI bhUla hai ki vaha samajhadAra kyoM nahIM milA hameM? usakA saMyoga hameM hI kyoM milA? jisajisa samaya hameM kucha bhI bhugatanA par3atA hai, vaha bhugatanA apanI hI kA pariNAma hai| praznakartA: to hameM aisA samajhanA cAhie ki mere karma hI aise haiM? dAdAzrI : bezaka / apanI bhUla ke binA hameM bhugatanA hotA nahIM hai| isa jagat meM aisA koI nahIM ki jo hameM thor3A bhI, kiMcit mAtra duHkha de aura yadi koI duHkha denevAlA hai to vaha apanI hI bhUla hai| tattva kA doSa nahIM hai, vaha to nimitta hai| isalie bhugate usakI bhUla / koI strI aura puruSa donoM khUba jhagar3a rahe hoM aura phira hama una donoM ke so jAne ke bAda cupacApa dekhane jAe~ to vaha strI to gaharI nIMda so rahI ho aura puruSa aise idhara-udhara karavaTeM badala rahA ho to hameM samajhanA cAhie ki isa puruSa kI bhUla hai sArI, yaha strI bhugata nahIM rahI hai| jisakI bhUla ho vahI bhugatatA hai| aura usa ghar3I yadi puruSa so rahA ho aura strI jAga rahI ho to samajhanA ki strI kI bhUla hai| 'bhugate usakI bhUla / ' yaha vijJAna to bahuta bar3A sAinsa hai| maiM jo kahatA hU~, vaha bahuta sUkSma sAinsa hai jagat sArA nimitta ko hI kATane daur3atA hai| miyA~- bIvI bahuta bar3A, vizAla jagat hai, parantu yaha jagat khuda ke rUma ke aMdara hai itanA hI mAna liyA hai aura vahA~ bhI yadi jagat mAna rahA hotA to acchA thaa| para vahA~ bhI vAipha ke sAtha laTThabAz2I karatA hai ! are ! yaha nahIM hai

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kleza rahita jIvana 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra terA pAkistAna! patnI aura pati donoM par3osI ke sAtha lar3a rahe hoM, taba donoM ekamata aura ekajuTa hote haiN| par3osI ko kahate haiM ki Apa aise aura Apa vaise| hama samajheM ki yaha miyA~-bIvI kI TolI abheda TolI hai, namaskAra karane jaisI hai| phira ghara meM jAe~ to bahana se z2arA cAya meM cInI kama par3I ho, taba phira vaha kahegA ki maiM tujhe roz2a kahatA hU~ ki cAya meM cInI z2arA jyAdA ddaal| para terA dimAg2a ThikAne nahIM rhtaa| yaha dimAga ke ThikAnevAlA ghanacakkara! tere hI dimAg2a kA ThikAnA nahIM hai na! are, kisa taraha kA hai tU? roz2a jisake sAtha saudebAjI karanI hotI hai, vahA~ kalaha karanI hotI hai? ApakA kisI ke sAtha matabheda hotA hai? praznakartA : hA~, par3atA hai bahuta baar| dAdAzrI : vAipha ke sAtha matabheda ho jAtA hai? praznakartA : hA~, bahuta bAra par3atA hai| dAdAzrI : vAipha ke sAtha bhI matabheda hotA hai? vahA~ bhI ekatA na rahe to phira aura kahA~ rakhanI hai? ekatA yAnI kyA ki kabhI bhI matabheda na pdd'e| isa eka vyakti ke sAtha nizcita karanA hai ki ApameM aura majhameM matabheda nahIM pdd'e| itanI ekatA karanI caahie| aisI ekatA kI hai Apane? praznakartA : aisA kabhI socA hI nhiiN| yaha pahalI bAra soca rahA jhagar3A karo, para bagIce meM kleza Apako karanA ho to bAhara jAkara kara AnA caahie| ghara meM yadi jhagar3A karanA ho, taba usa dina bagIce meM jAkara khUba lar3akara ghara AnA caahie| parantu ghara meM apane rUma meM lar3anA nahIM hai', aisA niyama bnaanaa| kisI dina hameM lar3ane kA zauka ho jAe to bIvI se hama kaheM ki calo, Aja bagIce meM khUba nAztA-pAnI karake, khUba jhagar3A vahA~ para kreN| loga rokane Ae vaise jhagar3A karanA caahie| para ghara meM jhagar3A nahIM honA caahie| jahA~ kleza hotA hai vahA~ bhagavAna nahIM rhte| bhagavAna cale jAte haiN| bhagavAna ne kyA kahA hai? bhakta ke vahA~ kleza nahIM hotaa| parokSa bhakti karanevAle ko bhakta kahA hai aura pratyakSa bhakti karanevAle ko bhagavAna ne 'jJAnI' kahA hai, vahA~ to kleza ho hI kahA~ se? para samAdhi hotI hai! isalie kisI dina lar3ane kI bhAvanA ho, taba hameM patirAja se kahanA cAhie ki 'calo hama bagIce meM jaaeN|' baccoM ko kisI ko sauMpa denaa| phira patirAja ko pahale se hI kaha denA ki maiM Apako pablika meM do dhaula mArU~ to Apa hNsnaa| loga bhale hI dekheM, hamArI hNsii-mjaak|' loga AbarU noMdhanevAle, ve jAneM ki kabhI inakI AbarU nahIM gaI to Aja gii| AbarU to kisI kI hotI hogI? yaha to DhaMka-DhaMkakara AbarU rakhate haiM becAre! ....yaha to kaisA moha? AbarU to use kahate haiM ki naMgA phire taba bhI suMdara hI dikhe! yaha to kapar3e pahanate haiM, taba bhI suMdara nahIM dikhte| jAkeTa, koTa, nekaTAI pahanate haiM, taba bhI baila jaisA lagatA hai! kyA hI mAna baiThe haiM apane Apa ko! dusare kisI ko pUchatA bhI nahIM hai| patnI ko bhI pachatA nahIM ki yaha nekaTAI pahanane ke bAda maiM kaisA lagatA hU~! AIne meM dekhakara khuda hI khuda kA nyAya karatA hai ki bahuta acchA hai, bahuta acchA hai| aise-aise karake bAla sa~vAratA jAtA hai| aura striyA~ bhI biMdI lagAkara AIne meM khuda ke dAdAzrI : hA~, vaha socanA to par3egA na? bhagavAna kitanA socasocakara mokSa meM gae! matabheda pasaMda hai? praznakartA : naa| dAdAzrI : matabheda hoM taba jhagar3e hote haiM, ciMtA hotI hai| isa matabheda meM aisA hotA hai to manabheda meM kyA hogA? manabheda ho taba DAyavorsa lete haiM aura tanabheda ho, taba arathI nikalatI hai|

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 69 khuda hI nakhare karatI hai| yaha kisa taraha kI rIti kahalAe? kaisI lAipha? bhagavAna jaisA bhagavAna hokara yaha kyA dhA~dhalI macAI hai? khuda bhagavAna svarUpa hai| kAna meM lauMga DAlate haiM, ve khuda ko dikhate haiM kyA? ye to loga hIrA dekheM, isalie pahanate haiN| aisI jaMjAla meM pha~se haiM, taba bhI hIrA dikhAne phirate haiM! are, jaMjAla meM phaMse hue manuSya ko zauka hotA hogA? jhaTapaTa ukela lAo na! pati kahe to pati ko acchA dikhAne ke lie phno| seTha do hajAra ke hIre ke lauMga lAe hoM aura paiMtIsa hajAra kA bila lAe to seThAnI khuza ho jAtI hai| lauMga khada ko to dikhate nahIM hai| seThAnI se maiMne pUchA ki rAta ko so jAte ho taba kAna ke lauMga nIMda meM bhI dikhate haiM yA nahIM? yaha to mAnA huA sukha hai, roMga mAnyatAe~ haiM, isalie aMtarazAMti hotI nahIM hai| bhAratIya nArI kise kahate haiM? ghara meM do hajAra kI sAr3I Akara par3I huI ho, to pahanatI hai| yaha to pati-patnI bAjAra meM ghUmane gae hoM aura dukAna meM haz2Ara kI sAr3I rakhI huI ho to sAr3I strI ko khIMcatI hai aura ghara AtI hai, taba bhI mu~ha caDhA haA hotA hai aura kalaha karatI hai| use bhAratIya nArI kaise kahA jAe? ....aisA karake bhI kleza TAlA 70 kleza rahita jIvana ki vaha kyA car3ha baiThanevAlI thI? usake pAsa hathiyAra nahIM, kucha nhiiN| maiMne kahA ki hamAre hindUoM ko to Dara lagatA hai ki bIvI car3ha baiThegI to kyA hogA? isIlie aise jhUlA nahIM ddaalte| taba miyA~bhAI bolate haiM ki yaha jhUlA DAlane kA kAraNa Apa jAnate haiM? mere to ye do hI kamare haiN| mere pAsa koI baMgalA nahIM, ye to do hI kamare haiM aura usameM bIvI ke sAtha lar3AI ho to maiM kahA~ soU~gA? merI sArI rAta bigdd'egii| isalie maiM bAhara sabake sAtha lar3a AtA hU~ para bIvI ke sAtha kliyara rakhatA huuN| bIvI miyA~ se kahegI ki subaha gozta lAne ko kaha rahe the, to kyoM nahIM lAe? taba miyA~bhAI naqada javAba detA hai ki kala laauuNgaa| dUsare dina subaha kahatA hai, 'Aja to kidhara se bhI le aauuNgaa|' aura zAma ko khAlI hAtha vApisa AtA hai, taba bIvI khUba akulAtI hai para miyA~bhAI khUba pakke, to aisA bolate haiM, 'yAra merI hAlata maiM jAnatA hU~!' vaha aise bIvI ko khuza kara detA hai, jhagar3A nahIM krtaa| aura hamAre loga to kyA kahate haiM, 'tU mujha para dabAva DAlatI hai? jA, nahIM laanevaalaa|' are, aisA nahIM bolte| ulTe terA vajana TUTatA hai| aisA tU bolatA hai, isalie tU hI dabA huA hai| are, vaha tujhe kisa taraha dabAe? vaha bole, taba zAMta rahanA, para kamajora bahuta cir3acir3e hote haiN| isIlie vaha cir3he, taba hameM cupa rahakara usakI rikArDa sunanI caahie| hindU to mUla se hI klezI svabhAva ke haiN| isalie kahate haiM na ki hindU bitAte haiM jIvana kleza meM! para musalamAna to aise pakke ki bAhara jhagar3akara Ae~, para ghara meM bIvI ke sAtha jhagaDA nahIM krte| aba to kaI muslima loga bhI hindUoM ke sAtha rahakara bigar3a gae haiN| para hindU se bhI jyAdA isa bAre meM mujhe to ve loga samajhadAra lge| are kucha muslima to bIbI ko jhUlA bhI jhulAte haiN| hamArA kaoNnTrekTara kA vyavasAya, usameM hameM musalamAna ke ghara bhI jAne kA hotA thA, hama usakI cAya bhI pIte the! hameM kisI ke sAtha judAI nahIM hotii| eka dina vahA~ gae hue the, taba miyA~bhAI bIbI ko jhUlA DAlane lgaa| taba maiMne usase pUchA ki Apa aisA karate ho to vaha Apake Upara car3ha baiThatI nahIM hai? taba vaha kahane lagA jisa ghara meM jhagar3A nahIM hotA, vaha ghara uttama hai| are jhagar3A ho para vApisa use manA le, taba bhI uttama kahalAe ! miyA~bhAI ko eka dina khAne meM TesTa nahIM Ae to miyA~ cir3hate haiM ki tU aisI hai, vaisI hai| aura sAmane yadi patnI cir3he to khuda cupa ho jAtA hai aura samajha jAtA hai ki isase visphoTa hogaa| isIlie hama apane meM aura vaha usmeN| aura hindU to visphoTa karake hI rahate haiN| baniye kI pagar3I alaga, dakSiNI kI alaga aura gujarAtI kI alaga, suvarNakAra kI alaga, brAhmaNa kI alaga, haraeka kI alg| cUlhecUlhe kA dharama alg| sabhI ke vyU poinTa alaga hI haiM, mela hI nahIM khaate| para jhagar3A na kareM to acchA /

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72 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra matabheda se pahale hI sAvadhAnI apane meM kaluSita bhAva rahA hI na ho, usake kAraNa sAmanevAle ko bhI kaluSita bhAva nahIM hogaa| hama nahIM cir3he taba ve bhI ThaMDe ho jAte haiN| dIvAra jaise ho jAnA cAhie, taba phira sunAI nahIM degaa| hameM pacAsa sAla ho gae para kabhI bhI matabheda hI nahIM huaa| hIrAbA ke hAtha se ghI dula rahA ho, taba bhI maiM dekhatA hI rahatA huuN| hameM to usa samaya jJAna hAjira rahatA hai ki ve ghI DholeM hI nhiiN| maiM kahU~ ki Dholo taba bhI nahIM ddholeN| jAna-bUjhakara koI ghI DholatA hogA? naa| phira bhI ghI DhulatA hai, vaha dekhane jaisA hai, isalie apane dekho! hameM matabheda hone se pahale jJAna oNna da momenTa hAz2ira rahatA hai| _ 'merI hAlata maiM hI jAnatA hU~ bole, isalie bIvI khuza ho jAtI hai aura hamAre loga to hAlata yA kucha bhI kahate nahIM haiN| are terI hAlata kaha to sahI ki acchI nahIM hai| isalie khuza rhnaa|' sabakI hAjirI meM, sUryanArAyaNa kI sAkSI meM, purohita kI sAkSI meM zAdI kI thI, taba purohita ne saudA kiyA ki 'samaya varte sAvadhAna' to tujhe sAvadhAna rahanA bhI nahIM AyA? samaya ke anusAra sAvadhAna rahanA caahie| purohita bolate hai 'samaya varte sAvadhAna' vaha purohita samajhe, zAdI karanevAlA kyA samajhe? sAvadhAna kA artha kyA hai? taba kahe, 'bIvI ugra ho gaI ho, vahA~ tU ThaMDA ho jAnA, sAvadhAna ho jaanaa|' aba donoM jane jhagar3eM taba par3osI dekhane Ae~ge yA nahIM Ae~ge? phira tamAzA hogA yA nahIM hogA? aura phira vApisa ikaTThe nahIM honA ho to ldd'o| are, ba~TavArA hI kara ddaalo| taba kaheM, 'nA, kahA~ jAe~ge?' yadi vApisa eka honA hai to phira kisalie laDate ho? hameM aise sAvadhAna nahIM honA cAhie? strI to samajho, jAti aisI hai ki nahIM badalegI, isIlie hameM badalanA pdd'egaa| vaha sahaja jAti hai, vaha badale aisI nahIM hai| patnI cir3he aura kahe, 'maiM ApakI thAlI lekara nahIM AnevAlI, Apa khuda aao| aba ApakI tabiyata acchI ho gaI hai aura calane lage ho| kleza rahita jIvana aise to logoM ke sAtha bAteM karate ho, ghUmate-phirate ho, bIDiyA~ pIte ho aura Upara se TAima ho taba thAlI mA~gate ho| maiM nahIM AnevAlI!' taba hama dhIre se kaheM, 'Apa nIce thAlI meM nikAlo maiM A rahA huuN|' vaha kahatI hai, 'nahIM aanevaalii|' usase pahale hI hama kaheM ki maiM A rahA hU~, merI bhUla ho gaI lo| aisA kareM to kucha rAta acchI biite| nahIM to rAta bigdd'e| ve TiTakArI mArate yahA~ so gae ho aura yaha patnI yahA~ TiTakArI mAra rahI hotI hai| donoM ko nIMda AtI nahIM hai| subaha vApisa cAya-pAnI hotA hai, taba cAya kA pyAlA paTakakara rakhakara, TiTakArI karatI hai yA nahIM karatI? vaha to yaha patnI bhI turanta samajha jAtI hai ki TiTakArI kii| yaha kalaha kA jIvana hai| sAre varlDa meM ye hindU bitAte haiM jIvana kleza meN| kleza bagaira kA ghara, maMdira jaisA jahA~ kleza ho, vahA~ bhagavAna kA vAsa nahIM rahatA hai| isalie hama bhagavAna se kaheM 'sAhaba, Apa maMdira meM rahanA, mere ghara AiegA nahIM!' hama maMdira aura adhika banAe~ge, parantu ghara AiegA nahIM!' jahA~ kleza na ho, vahA~ bhagavAna kA vAsa nizcita hai| usakI maiM Apako gAranTI detA hU~ aura kleza to buddhi aura samajha se khatama kiyA jA sake aisA hai| matabheda Tale utanI jAgRti to prAkRtika guNa se bhI A sakatI hai, utanI buddhi bhI A sake aisA hai| jAna liyA, usakA nAma ki kisI ke sAtha matabheda na pdd'e| mati pahu~catI nahIM, isalie matabheda hote haiN| mati phula pahuMce, to matabheda nahIM hoN| matabheda, ve TakarAva haiN| vIkanesa haiN| koI jhaMjhaTa ho gaI ho to Apa thor3I dera citta ko sthira karo aura vicAra karo to Apako sUjha pdd'egii| kleza huA isalie bhagavAna to cale jAeMge yA nahIM cale jAeMge? praznakartA : cale jaaeNge| dAdAzrI : bhagavAna kucha vyaktiyoM ke yahA~ se jAte hI nahIM, parantu kleza hotA ho, taba kahate haiM, 'calo yahA~ se, hameM yahA~ acchA nahIM lgegaa|' isa kalaha meM mujhe nahIM pasaMda AegA, isalie derAsara aura maMdiroM meM jAte

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 73 haiN| ina maMdiroM meM bhI vApisa kleza karate haiN| mukaTa, jevara le jAte haiM taba bhagavAna kahate haiM ki yahA~ se bhI calo ab| to bhagavAna bhI taMga A gae aMgrejoM ke samaya meM kahate the na ki, 'deva gayA DuMgare, pIra gayA mkke|' (devI-devatA gae pahAr3a para aura pIra cale gae makkA / ) apane ghara meM kleza rahita jIvana jInA caahie| itanI to hama meM kuzalatA honI caahie| dUsarA kucha nahIM Ae to use samajhAnA cAhie ki kleza hogA to apane ghara meM se bhagavAna cale jAe~ge, isalie tU nizcaya kara ki hamAre yahA~ kleza nahIM karanA hai| aura hameM nizcita karanA hai ki kleza nahIM karanA hai| nizcita karane ke bAda kleza ho jAe to samajhanA ki yaha hamArI sattA ke bAhara huA hai| isIlie hameM, vaha kleza karatA ho taba bhI oDhakara so jAnA caahie| vaha bhI thoDI dera bAda so jAegA, aura hama bhI sAmane javAba dene lageM to? ulTI kamAI, kleza karAe muMbaI meM eka U~ce saMskArI kuTuMba kI bahana ko maiMne pUchA ki ghara meM kleza to nahIM hotA na? taba usa bahana ne kahA, 'roz2a subaha kleza ke nAzte hI hote haiM!' maiMne kahA, 'taba Apake nAzte ke paise bace, nahIM?' bahana ne kahA, 'nahIM, vaha bhI vApisa breDa nikAlanI, aura breDa para makkhana cupar3ate jaanaa|' matalaba phira kleza bhI calatA hai aura nAztA bhI calatA hai ! are, kisa taraha ke jIva ho? praznakartA : kucha logoM ke ghara meM lakSmI hI usa prakAra kI hogI isalaei kleza hotA hogA? dAdAzrI : yaha lakSmI ke kAraNa hI aisA hotA hai| yadi lakSmI nirmala ho, to saba acchA rahatA hai, mana acchA rahatA hai| yaha lakSmI aniSTavAlI kleza rahita jIvana ghara meM ghusI hai, usase kleza hotA hai| hamane bacapana meM hI nizcita kara liyA thA ki ho sake taba taka khoTI lakSmI ghusane hI nahIM denI hai| phira bhI saMjogAdhIna ghusa jAe to use dhaMdhe meM hI rahane denA hai, ghara meM nahIM ghusane denA hai, isalie Aja chAsaTha varSa hue para khoTI lakSmI ghusane nahIM dI hai, aura ghara meM kabhI bhI kleza khar3A huA nahIM hai| ghara meM nizcita kiyA huA thA ki itane paise se ghara calAnA hai| vyApAra lAkhoM rupayA kamAtA hai, parantu yaha paTela sarvisa karane jAe~ to kyA tankhvAha milegI? bahuta huA to cha sau-sAta sau rupaye mileNge| vyApAra, vaha to puNya kA khela hai| mujhe naukarI meM milate utane hI paise ghara meM kharca kara sakate haiM, dUsare to vyApAra meM hI rahane dene caahie| inkama TaiksavAle kI ciTThI Ae to hameM kahanA cAhie ki, 'vaha jo raqama thI vaha bhara do|' kaba kauna-sA 'aTaika' ho usakA koI ThikAnA nahIM aura yadi ve paise kharca kara die to vahA~ inkama TaiksavAloM kA 'aTaika' AyA to hamAre yahA~ vo vAlA 'aTaika' AegA! sabhI jagaha aTaika ghusa gae haiM na! yaha jIvana kaise kahalAe? Apako kyA lagatA hai? bhUla lagatI hai yA nahIM lagatI? vaha hameM bhUla miTAnI hai| prayoga to karake dekho kleza na ho aisA nizcita karo na! tIna dina ke lie to nizcita karake dekho na! prayoga karane meM kyA parezAnI hai? tIna dina ke upavAsa karate haiM na, tabiyata ke lie? vaise hI yaha bhI nizcita to karake dekho| hama ghara meM saba loga ikaTThe hokara nizcita kareM ki 'dAdA bAta karate the, vaha bAta mujhe pasaMda AI hai, to hama Aja se kleza mittaaeN|' phira dekho| dharma kiyA (!) phira bhI kleza? jahA~ kleza nahIM vahA~ yathArtha jaina, yathArtha vaiSNava, yathArtha zaiva dharma haiN| jahA~ dharma kI yathArthatA hai, vahA~ kleza nahIM hotaa| ye ghara-ghara kleza hote haiM to vahA~ dharma kahA~ gayA? saMsAra calAne ke lie jo dharma cAhie ki kyA karane se kleza nahIM ho, itanA hI jo A jAe, taba bhI dharma prApta kiyA mAnA jaaegaa| A .

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kleza rahita jIvana aisA janmA hI nhiiN| hindustAna meM prakRti nApI nahIM jA sakatI, yahA~ to bhagavAna bhI bhulAve meM A jaaeN| faoNrena meM to eka dina usakI vAipha ke sAtha saccA rahA to sArI z2indagI saccA hI rahatA hai! aura yahA~ to sArA dina prakRti ko dekhate raheM, phira bhI prakRti nApI nahIM jA sktii| yaha to karma ke udaya ghATA karavAte haiM, nahIM to ye loga ghATA uThAe~ge? are, mareM phira bhI ghATA nahIM hone deM, AtmA ko eka tarapha thor3I dera baiThAkara phira mreN| 'palaTakara' matabheda TAlA dAdAzrI : bhojana ke samaya Tebala para matabheda hotA hai? praznakartA : vaha to hotA hai na? 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra kleza rahita jIvana jInA vahI dharma hai| hindustAna meM yahA~ saMsAra meM hI khuda kA ghara svarga banegA to mokSa kI bAta karanI cAhie, nahIM to mokSa kI bAta karanI nahIM, svarga nahIM to svarga ke naz2adIka kA to honA hI cAhie na? kleza rahita honA cAhie, isalie zAstrakAroM ne kahA hai ki, 'jahA~ kiMcit mAtra kleza hai vahA~ dharma nahIM hai|' jela kI avasthA ho vahA~ Diprezana nahIM, aura mahala kI avasthA ho vahA~ elivezana nahIM, aisA honA caahie| kleza rahita jIvana huA isalie mokSa ke naz2adIka AyA, vaha isa bhava meM sukhI hotA hI hai| mokSa haraeka ko caahie| kyoMki baMdhana kisI ko pasaMda nahIM hai| parantu kleza rahita huA, taba samajhanA ki aba naz2adIka meM apanA sTezana hai mokSa kaa| ...taba bhI hama sulTA kareM eka baniye se maiMne pUchA, 'Apake ghara meM jhagar3e hote haiM?' taba usane kahA, 'bahuta hote haiN|' maiMne pUchA, 'usakA tU kyA upAya karatA hai?' baniye ne kahA, 'pahale to maiM daravAje baMda kara AtA huuN|' maiMne pUchA, 'pahale daravAje baMda karane kA kyA hetu hai?' baniye ne kahA, 'loga ghusa jAe to ulTA jhagar3A bar3hAte haiN| ghara meM jhagar3e phira apane Apa ThaMDA par3a jAtA hai|' isakI buddhi saccI hai, mujhe yaha pasaMda aayaa| itanI bhI akkalavAlI bAta ho to use hameM eksepTa karanA caahie| koI bholA manuSya to ulTe daravAjA baMda ho to khola Ae aura logoM se kahe. 'Ao, dekho hamAre yahA~!' are. yaha to tAyafA kiyA! ye laTThabAjI karate haiM usameM kisI kI jimmedArI nahIM, apanI khuda kI hI jokhimadArI hai| ise to khuda hI alaga karanA pdd'egaa| yadi tU kharA samajhadAra puruSa hogA to loga ulTA DAlate raheMge aura ta salTA karatA rahegA to terA hala aaegaa| logoM kA svabhAva hI ulTA DAlanA vaha hai, tU samakitI hai to loga ulTA DAleM to hama sIdhA kara DAleM. hama to ulTA DAleM hI nhiiN| bAkI, jagat to sArI rAta nala khullA rakhe aura maTakA ulTA rakhe, aisA hai! khuda kA hI sarvasva bigAr3a rahe haiN| ve samajhate haiM ki maiM logoM kA bigAr3a rahA huuN| logoM kA to koI bigAr3a sake aisA hai hI nahIM, koI dAdAzrI : kyoM, zAdI karate samaya aisA karAra kiyA thA? praznakartA : naa| dAdAzrI: usa samaya to karAra yaha kiyA thA ki 'samaya varte saavdhaan|' ghara meM vAipha ke sAtha 'tumhArA aura merA' aisI vANI nahIM honI caahie| vANI vibhakta nahIM honI cAhie, vANI avibhakta honI caahie| hama avibhakta kuTuMba ke haiM na? hameM hIrAbA ke sAtha kabhI bhI matabheda par3A nahIM, kabhI bhI vANI meM 'merA-terA' huA nhiiN| para eka bAra hamAre bIca matabheda par3a gayA thaa| unake bhAI ke vahA~ pahelI beTI kI zAdI thii| unhoMne mujhase pUchA ki, 'unheM kyA denA hai?' taba maiMne use kahA ki, 'Apako ThIka lage vaha, para ghara meM ye taiyAra cA~dI ke baratana par3e hue haiM, ve de dIjie! nayA banavAnA mt|' taba unhoMne kahA ki, 'Apake nanihAla meM to mAmA kI beTI kI zAdI ho to bar3e-bar3e thAla banAkara dete haiM!' ve mere aura Apake zabda bole taba se hI maiM samajha gayA ki Aja AbarU gaI apnii| hama eka ke eka vahA~ merA-terA hotA hogA? maiM turanta hI samajha gayA aura turanta hI palaTa gayA,

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77 78 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra mujhe jo kahanA thA usa para se pUrA hI maiM palaTa gayA, maiMne unase kahA, maiM aisA nahIM kahanA cAhatA huuN| Apa cA~dI ke baratana denA aura Upara se pA~ca sau eka rupaye denA, unheM kAma lgeNge|' 'haM... itane sAre rupaye to kabhI die jAte hoMge? Apa to jaba dekho taba bhole ke bhole hI rahate ho, jisa kisI ko dete hI rahate ho|' maiMne kahA, 'vAstava meM mujhe to kucha AtA hI nhiiN| dekho, yaha merA matabheda par3a rahA thA, para kisa taraha se sa~bhAla liyA palaTakara! aMta meM matabheda nahIM par3ane diyaa| pichale tIsa-tIsa varSoM se hama meM nAma mAtra kA bhI matabheda nahIM huA hai| bA bhI devI jaise haiN| matabheda kisI jagaha para hamane par3ane hI nahIM die| matabheda par3ane se pahale hI hama samajha jAte haiM ki yahA~ se palaTa DAlo, aura Apa to dAe~ aura bAe~, donoM tarapha hI badalanA jAnate ho ki aise peca car3heMge yA aise peca cddh'eNge| hameM to satraha lAkha taraha ke peca ghumAne Ate haiN| parantu gAr3I rAste para lA dete haiM, matabheda hone nahIM dete| apane satsaMga meM bIseka haz2Ara loga aura cAreka hajAra mahAtmA haiM, para hamArA kisI ke sAtha eka bhI matabheda nahIM hai| judAI mAnI hI nahIM maiMne kisI ke sAtha! jahA~ matabheda hai vahA~ aMzajJAna hai aura jahA~ matabheda hI nahIM, vahA~ vijJAna hai| jahA~ vijJAna hai, vahA~ sarvAMzajJAna hai| senTara meM baiThe, tabhI matabheda nahIM rhte| tabhI mokSa hotA hai| para DigrI Upara baiTho aura hamArA-tumhArA' rahe to usakA mokSa nahIM hotaa| niSpakSapAtI kA mokSa hotA hai| samakitI kI nizAnI kyA? taba kahe, ghara meM saba loga ulTA kara DAleM phira bhI khuda sIdhA kara ddaale| sabhI bAtoM meM sIdhA karanA vaha samakitI kI nizAnI hai| itanA hI pahacAnanA hai ki yaha mazInarI kaisI hai, usakA 'phyUz2a' ur3a jAe to kisa taraha se 'phyUz2a' ThIka karanA hai| sAmanevAle kI prakRti ke sAtha eDajasTa hote AnA caahie| hameM to sAmanevAle kA 'phyUja' ur3a jAe, taba bhI hamArA eDajasTamenTa hotA hai| para sAmanevAle kA eDajasTamenTa TUTe to kyA ho? 'phyUz2a' gyaa| isalie phira to vaha dIvAra se TakarAtA hai, daravAjoM se TakarAtA hai, para vAyara TUTatA nahIM kleza rahita jIvana hai| isIlie koI phyUz2a DAla de to vApisa rAste para Ae, nahIM to taba taka vaha ulajhatA rahatA hai| saMsAra hai isIlie ghAva to par3anevAle hI haiM na? aura patnI bhI kahegI ki aba ghAva bhareMge nhiiN| parantu saMsAra meM par3e haiM, isIlie vApisa ghAva bhara jAte haiN| mUrcchitapanA hai na? moha ke kAraNa mUrchA hai| moha ke kAraNa ghAva bhara jAte haiN| yadi ghAva nahIM bharate. taba to vairAgya hI A jAtA na?! moha kisakA nAma kahalAtA hai? sabhI, anubhava bahuta hue hoM parantu bhUla jAtA hai| DAyavorsa lete samaya nizcita karatA hai ki aba kisI strI se sAtha zAdI nahIM karanI, phira bhI vApisa sAhasa karatA hai| _...yaha to kaisA pha~sAva? zAdI nahIM karoge to jagat kA bailensa kisa taraha rahegA? zAdI kara n| bhale hI zAdI kare! 'dAdA' ko usameM harja nahIM hai, parantu harja nAsamajhI kA hai| hama kyA kahanA cAhate haiM ki saba karo, parantu bAta ko samajho ki haqIqata kyA hai| bharata rAjA ne teraha sau rAniyoM ke sAtha pUrI jindagI nikAlI aura usI bhava meM mokSa prApta kiyA! teraha sau rAniyoM ke sAtha !!! isalie bAta ko samajhanA hai| samajhakara saMsAra meM raho, sAdhu hone kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| yadi yaha nahIM samajha meM AyA to sAdhu hokara eka kone meM par3e rho| sAdhu to jise strI ke sAtha saMsAra meM rAsa nahIM AtA ho vaha banatA hai| aura strI se dUra rahA jA sakatA hai yA nahIM aisI zakti sAdhane ke lie eka kasarata hai| saMsAra to TesTa ekjAminezana hai| vahA~ TesTeDa honA hai| lohA bhI TesTeDa hue bagaira calatA nahIM hai to mokSa meM anaTesTeDa calatA hogA? isalie mUrcchita hone jaisA yaha jagat nahIM hai| mUrchA ke kAraNa jagat aisA dikhatA hai| aura mAra khA-khAkara mara jAte hai ! bharata rAjA ke teraha sau rAniyA~ thIM, taba unakI kyA dazA hogI? yahA~ ghara meM eka rAnI ho taba bhI

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80 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra phajItA karavAtI rahatI hai, taba teraha sau rAniyoM meM kaba pAra Ae? are, eka rAnI jitanI ho to mahAmuzkila ho jAtA hai! jItI hI nahIM jaatii| kyoMki matabheda par3e ki vApisa gar3abar3a ho jAtI hai! bharata rAjA ko to teraha sau rAniyoM ke sAtha nibhAnA hotA thaa| ranivAsa se gujareM, to pacAsa rAniyoM ke mu~ha car3he hue hote| are, kitanI to rAjA kA kAma tamAma kara dene ke lie ghUmatI thIM! mana meM socatI ki phalAnI rAniyA~ unakI khuda kI haiM aura ye praayii| isalie rAstA kucha kreN| kucha kareM, vaha rAjA ko mArane ke lie, parantu vaha rAniyoM ko prabhAvahIna karane ke lie| rAjA ke Upara dveSa nahIM, parantu una dUsarI rAniyoM para dveSa hai| parantu usameM rAjA to gayA aura tU bhI to vidhavA hogI na? taba kahe ki 'maiM vidhavA hoU~gI para use bhI vidhavA kara dUM taba sahI!' yaha hameM to sArA tAdRzya dikhA karatA hai| ye bharata rAjA kI rAnI kA tAdRzya hameM dikhA karatA hai ki una dinoM kaise mu~ha car3hA huA hogA! rAjA kaisA pha~sA huA hogA? rAjA ke mana meM kaisI ciMtAe~ hogI, vaha sabhI dikhatA hai! eka rAnI kA yadi teraha sau rAjAoM ke sAtha vivAha huA ho to rAjAoM kA mu~ha nahIM cddh'taa| puruSa ko mu~ha car3hAnA AtA hI nhiiN| AkSepa, kitane duHkhadAyI! saba hI taiyAra hai, parantu bhoganA AtA nahIM hai| bhogane kA tarIkA AtA nahIM hai| muMbaI ke seTha bar3e Tebala para khAnA khAne baiThate haiM, para khAnA khAne ke bAda, Apane aisA kiyA, Apane vaisA kiyA, merA dila tU jalAtI rahatI hai binA kAma ke| are bagaira kAma ke to koI jalAtA hogA? nyAyapUrvaka jalAtA hai| binA nyAya ke to koI jalAtA hI nhiiN| ye lakar3I ko loga jalAte haiM, para lakar3I kI alamArI ko koI jalAtA hai? jo jalAne kA ho use hI jalAte haiN| aise AkSepa dete haiN| yaha to bhAna hI nahIM hai| manuSyapana bebhAna ho gayA hai, nahIM to ghara meM to AkSepa die jAte hoMge? pahale ke samaya meM ghara ke vyakti eka-dUsare para AkSepa lagAte nahIM the| are, lagAnA ho taba bhI nahIM lagAte the| mana meM aisA samajhate the ki AkSepa lagAU~gA kleza rahita jIvana to sAmanevAle ko duHkha hogA, aura kaliyuga meM to capeTa meM lene ko ghUmate haiN| ghara meM matabheda kyoM honA cAhie? khar3akane meM, jokhimadArI khuda kI hI praznakartA : matabheda hone kA kAraNa kyA hai? dAdAzrI : bhayaMkara ajJAnatA! are saMsAra meM jInA nahIM AtA, beTe kA bApa honA nahIM AtA, patnI kA pati honA nahIM aataa| jIvana jIne kI kalA hI AtI nhiiN| yaha to sukha hone para bhI sukha bhoga nahIM sakate hai| praznakartA : parantu baratana to ghara meM khar3akeMge na? dAdAzrI : baratana roja-roja khar3akAnA kise rAsa AegA? yaha to samajhatA nahIM, isIlie rAsa AtA hai| jAgRta ho, use to eka matabheda par3e to sArI rAta nIMda hI nahIM Ae! ina baratanoM ko (manuSyoM ko) spaMdana haiM, isalie rAta ko sote-sote bhI spaMdana kiyA karatA hai, ye to aise haiM, Ter3he haiM, ulTe haiM, nAlAyaka haiM, nikAla dene jaise haiM ! aura una baratanoM ko koI spaMdana hai? hamAre loga samajhe binA hA~ meM hA~ milAte haiM ki do baratana sAtha meM ho to khar3akeMge! ghanacakkara, hama kyA baratana haiM? yAnI hameM khar3akanA cAhie? ina 'dAdA' ko kisI ne kabhI bhI khar3akate hue dekhA nahIM hogA! sapanA bhI nahIM AyA hogA aisA!! khar3akanA kisalie? yaha khar3akanA to apanI khuda kI jokhimadArI para hai| khar3akanA kyA kisI aura kI jokhimadArI para hai? cAya jaldI AI nahIM ho to hama Tebala ko tIna bAra ThokeM to jokhimadArI kisakI? isake badale to hama buddha banakara baiThe rheN| cAya milI to ThIka, nahIM to dekheMgA oNphisa meN| kyA burA hai? cAya kA bhI koI kAla to hogA na? yaha jagat niyama ke bAhara to nahIM hogA na? isalie hamane kahA hai ki 'vyvsthit'| usakA TAima hogA taba cAya milegI, Apako ThokanA nahIM pdd'egaa| Apa spaMdana khar3e nahIM karoge to vaha Akara khar3I rahegI, aura spaMdana khar3e karoge taba bhI aaegii| parantu spaMdana ke, vApisa vAipha ke khAte meM hisAba jamA hogA ki Apa usa dina Tebala Thoka rahe the na!

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82 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra prakRti pahacAnakara sAvadhAnI rakhanA puruSa ghaTanAoM ko bhUla jAte haiM aura striyoM kI noMdha sArI jindagI rahatI hai, puruSa bhole hote haiM, bar3e mana ke hote haiM, bhadrika hote haiM, ve bhUla jAte haiM becaare| striyA~ to bola bhI jAtI hai phira ki usa dina Apa aisA bole the, vaha mere kaleje meM ghAva lagA huA hai| are bIsa varSa hue phira bhI noMdha tAjI? beTA bIsa varSa kA ho gayA, zAdI ke lAyaka ho gayA, phira bhI abhI taka vaha bAta rakhI huI hai? sabhI cIjeM sar3a jAe~, para inakI cIja nahIM sdd'ii| strI ko hama logoMne diyA ho to vaha asala jagaha para rakha chor3atI hai, kaleje ke aMdara, isIlie denA-karanA nhiiN| nahIM dene jaisI cIz2a hai ye| sAvadhAna rahane jaisA hai| isalie zAstroM meM bhI likhA hai ki, 'ramA ramAr3avI sahelI che, vipharI mahAmuzkela che' (ramA ko khela khilAnA AsAna hai, biphare taba mahAmuzkila hai|') biphare to vaha kyA kalpanA nahIM karegI, vaha kahA nahIM jA sktaa| isalie strI ko bAra-bAra nIcA nahIM dikhAnA caahie| sabjI ThaMDI kyoM ho gaI? dAla meM badhAra ThIka se nahIM kiyA, aisI kica-kica kisalie karatA hai? bAraha mahIne meM ekAdha dina ekAdha zabda ho to ThIka hai. yaha to roz2a! 'bhAbho bhAramAM to vahu lAjamAM' (sasura garimA meM to bahU zarma meM), hameM garimA meM rahanA caahie| dAla acchI nahIM banI ho, sabjI ThaMDI ho gaI ho, taba vaha niyama ke adhIna hotA hai| aura bahuta ho jAe taba dhIme rahakara bAta karanI ho to kareM kisI samaya, ki yaha sabjI roz2a garama hotI hai, taba bahuta acchI lagatI hai| aisI bAta kareM to vaha usa Takora ko samajha jAtI kleza rahita jIvana aura yaha ghor3I usakA nyAya kise kahane jAe? ghor3I para baiThanA tujhe nahIM AtA, usameM terI bhUla hai yA ghor3I kI? aura ghoDI bhI baiThane ke sAtha hI samajha hI jAtI hai ki yaha to jaMgalI jAnavara baiThA, ise baiThanA AtA nahIM hai ! vaise hI ye hindustAnI striyA~, yAnI Arya nAriyA~, unake sAtha kAma lenA nahIM Ae to phira ve girA hI deMgI na? eka bAra pati yadi strI ke Amane-sAmane ho jAe to usakA prabhAva hI nahIM rhtaa| apanA ghara acchI taraha calatA ho, bacce par3ha rahe hoM acchI taraha, koI jhaMjhaTa nahIM ho, aura hameM usameM ulTA dikhA aura binA kAma ke Amane-sAmane ho jAe~, isalie phira apanI akkala kA kImiyA strI samajha jAtI hai ki isameM barakata nahIM hai| yadi hamArA prabhAva nahIM ho to ghor3I ko sahalAe~ taba bhI usakA prema hameM milegaa| pahale prabhAva par3anA caahie| vAipha kI kucha bhUleM hama sahana kare to usa para prabhAva par3atA hai| yaha to binA bhUla ke bhUla nikAleM to kyA ho? kucha puruSa strI ke saMbaMdha meM zora macAte haiM. ve saba galata zora hotA hai| kucha sAhaba aise hote haiM ki oNphisa meM karmacArI ke sAtha daqhala karate rahate haiN| saba karmacArI bhI samajhate haiM ki sAhaba meM barakata nahIM hai, para kareM kyA? puNya ne use baoNsa kI taraha baiThAyA hai vhaaN| ghara para to bIvI ke sAtha paMdraha-paMdraha dina se kesa penDiMga par3A hotA hai| sAhaba se pUche, 'kyoM?' to kaheM ki usameM akkala nahIM hai| aura vaha akkala kA borA! beceM to cAra Ane bhI nahIM aaeN| sAhaba kI vAipha se pUche to ve kaheMgI ki jAne do na unakI baat| koI barakata hI nahIM hai unmeN| striyA~, mAnabhaMga ho use sArI z2indagI bhUlatI nahIM haiN| TheTha arathI meM jAne taka vaha rIsa sAbUta hotI hai| vaha rIsa yadi bhulAI jAtI ho to jagat sArA kaba kA hI pUrA ho gayA hotaa| nahIM bhulAyA jAe aisA hai isalie sAvadhAna rhnaa| sArA sAvadhAnI se kAma karane jaisA hai| strIcaritra kahalAtA hai na? vaha samajha meM A sake aisA nahIM hai| phira striyA~ deviyA~ bhI haiM ! isalie aisA hai ki unheM deviyoM kI taraha dekhoge to Apa devatA bnoge| bAkI Apa to murge jaise rahoge, hAthI aura murge jaise! DIliMga nahIM Ae, to doSa kisakA? aTThAraha sau rupaye kI ghor3I le, phira bhAI Upara baiTha jaae| bhAI ko baiThanA nahIM Ae aura use cher3ane jAe, taba ghor3I ne kabhI bhI vaisI cher3akhAnI dekhI nahIM ho isalie khar3I ho jAtI hai| taba mUrkha gira jAtA hai| Upara se vaha logoM ko kahatA kyA hai ki ghor3I ne mujhe girA diyaa|

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kleza rahita jIvana zora macAe~ ki kar3hI khArI ho gaI, khArI ho gaI, to saba binA samajha kA 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra hAthIbhAI Ae aura murgAbhAI Ae! yaha to logoM ko rAma honA nahIM hai aura ghara meM sItAjI ko khojate haiN| pagale. rAma to tajhe naukarI para bhI nahIM rkheN| isameM inakA bhI doSa nahIM hai| Apako striyoM ke sAtha DIliMga karanA nahIM AtA hai| Apako vyApAriyoM ko grAhakoM ke sAtha DIliMga karanA nahIM AegA to vaha Apake pAsa nahIM aaeNge| isalie apane loga nahIM kahate ki selsamena acchA rakho? acchA, darzanIya, hoziyAra selsamena ho to loga thor3A bhAva bhI jyAdA de dete haiN| usI prakAra hameM strI ke sAtha DIliMga karate AnA caahie| strI ko to eka A~kha se devI kI taraha dekho aura dUsarI A~kha se usakA strI caritra dekho| eka A~kha meM prema aura dasarI A~kha meM kar3akAI rakho tabhI belensa raha paaegaa| akelI devI kI taraha dekhoge aura AratI utAroge to vaha ulaTI paTarI para car3ha jAegI, isalie belensa meM rkhnaa| 'vyavahAra' ko 'isa' taraha se samajhane jaisA hai| puruSa ko strI kI bAta meM hAtha nahIM DAlanA cAhie aura strI ko paruSa kI bAta meM hAtha nahIM DAlanA caahie| haraeka ko apane-apane DipArTamenTa meM hI rahanA caahie|| praznakartA : strI kA DipArTamenTa kauna-sA? kisa-kisameM puruSoM ko hAtha nahIM DAlanA cAhie? dAdAzrI: aisA hai, khAne kA kyA karanA, ghara kaise calAnA, vaha saba strI kA DipArTamenTa hai| gehU~ kahA~ se lAtI hai, kahA~ se nahIM lAtI vaha hameM jAnane kI kyA jarUrata hai? vaha yadi hameM kahatI hoM ki geha~ lAne meM majhe ar3acana par3a rahI hai to vaha bAta alaga hai| parantu hameM vaha kahatI na hoM, rAzana batAtI nahIM hoM, to hameM usa DipArTamenTa meM hAtha DAlane kI jarUrata hI kyA hai? Aja dUdhapAka banAnA, Aja jalebI banAnA, vaha bhI hameM kahane kI z2arUrata kyA hai? TAima AegA taba vaha rkhegii| unakA DipArTamenTa vaha unakA svataMtra hai| kabhI bahuta icchA huI ho to kahanA ki, 'Aja laDDU bnaanaa|' kahane ke lie manA nahIM karatA parantu dUsarI Ter3hI-mer3hI, bekAra kA yaha relavelAina calatI hai, usameM kitanI sArI kAryavAhI hotI hai! kitanI jagahoM se noMdha AtI haiM, khabareM AtI haiM, unakA pUrA DipArTamenTa hI alg| aba usameM bhI khAmI to AtI hI hai na? vaise hI vAipha ke DipArTamenTa meM kabhI khAmI bhI A jAtI hai| aba hama yadi unakI khAmI nikAlane jAe~ to phira ve hamArI khAmI nikAleMgI, Apa aisA nahIM karate. Apa vaisA nahIM krte| aisA khata AyA aura vaisA kiyA aapne| yAnI ki vaha baira vasUlatI hai| maiM ApakI kamI nikAleM to Apa bhI merI kamI nikAlane ke lie betAba hote haiN| isalie kharA manuSya to ghara kI bAtoM meM hAtha hI na ddaale| vaha puruSa kahalAtA hai| nahIM to strI jaisA hotA hai| kucha manuSya to ghara meM jAkara mircI ke Dibbe meM dekhate haiM ki do mahIne hue mircI lAe the, vaha itanI hI dera meM pUrI ho gaI? are, mircI dekhatA hai to kaba pAra AegA? vaha jisakA DipArTamenTa ho use ciMtA nahIM hotI? kyoMki vastu to kharca hotI rahatI hai aura kharIdI bhI jAtI hai| para yaha to binA kAma ke jyAdA aklamaMda banane jAtA hai| phira patnI bhI samajhatI hai ki inakI cavannI gira gaI hai| mAla kaisA hai, vaha strI samajha jAtI hai| ghor3I samajha jAtI hai ki Upara baiThanevAlA kaisA hai, vaise hI strI saba samajha jAtI hai| isake badale to 'bhAbho bhAramAM to vaha lAjamAM' puruSa garimA meM nahIM rahe to bahU kisa taraha lAja meM rahe? niyama aura maryAdA se hI vyavahAra zobhA degaa| maryAdA pAra mata karanA aura nirmala rhnaa| praznakartA : strI ko puruSa kI kisa bAta meM hAtha nahIM DAlanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : puruSa kI kisI bhI bAta meM dakhala nahIM DAlanA caahie| dukAna meM kitanA mAla lAe? kitanA gayA? Aja dera se kyoM Ae? use phira kahanA par3atA hai ki Aja nau baje kI gAr3I cUka gyaa| taba patnI kahegI ki aise kaise ghUmate ho ki gAr3I cUka jAte ho? isalie phira pati cir3ha jAtA hai| usake mana meM hotA hai ki aise bhagavAna bhI pachanevAle hote

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kleza rahita jIvana isa jhaMjhaTa meM haiM, aise saMsAra bhI phojadArI hI hai| isalie usameM bhI sarala ho jAnA caahie| ghara para bhojana kI thAlI AtI hai yA nahIM AtI? praznakartA : AtI hai| dAdAzrI : bhojana cAhie to milatA hai, palaMga cAhie to bichA dete haiM, phira kyA? aura khaTiyA na bichAkara de to vaha bhI hama bichA leM aura hala laaeN| zAMti se bAta samajhAnI par3atI hai| Apake saMsAra ke hitAhita kI bAta kyA gItA meM likhI hotI hai? vaha to khuda hI samajhanI par3egI na? 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra to unheM maartaa| para yahA~ kyA kare aba? yAnI binA kAma ke dakhala karate haiN| bAsamatI ke cAvala acche pakAte haiM aura phira aMdara kaMkar3a DAlakara khAte haiM ! usameM kyA svAda Ae? strI-puruSa ko eka-dUsare ko helpa karanI caahie| pati ko ciMtA-varIz2a rahatI hoM, to use kisa prakAra vaha na ho, aisA strI ko bolanA caahie| vaise hI pati ko bhI patnI muzkila meM na par3e aisA dekhanA caahie| pati ko bhI samajhanA cAhie ki strI ko bacce ghara para kitanA parezAna karate hoMge! ghara meM TUTa-phUTa ho to puruSa ko cillAnA nahIM caahie| para phira bhI loga cillAte haiM ki pichalI bAra sabase acche eka darjana kapa-rakAbI lekara AyA thA, Apane ve saba kyoM phor3a DAle? saba khatama kara diyaa| isase patnI ke mana meM lagatA hai ki maiMne tor3a DAle? mujhe kyA ve khA jAne the? TUTa gae to Ta gae, usameM maiM kyA karU~? mI kAya karU~?' khegii| aba vahA~ bhI ldd'aaii-jhgdd'aa| jahA~ kucha lenA nahIM aura denA nhiiN| jahA~ lar3ane kA koI kAraNa hI nahIM, vahA~ bhI lar3anA? hamAre aura hIrAbA ke bIca koI matabheda hI nahIM par3atA thaa| hameM unake kAma meM hAtha hI nahIM DAlanA kabhI bhii| unake hAtha se paise gira gae hoM, hamane dekhe hoM, phira bhI hama aisA nahIM kahate ki Apake paise gira ge| unhoMne dekhA yA nahIM dekhA? ghara kI kisI bAta meM hama hastakSepa nahIM karate the| ve bhI hamArI kisI bAta meM dakhala nahIM karatI thiiN| hama kitane baje uThate haiM, kitane baje nahAte haiM, kaba Ate haiM, kaba jAte haiM, aisI hamArI kisI bAta meM kabhI bhI ve hameM nahIM pachatI thii| aura kisI dina hameM kaheM ki Aja jaldI nahA lenaa| to hama turanta dhotI ma~gavAkara nahA lete the| are, apane Apa hI tauliyA lekara nahA lete the| kyoMki hama samajhate the ki ye 'lAla jhaMDI' dikhAte haiM, isalie koI Dara hogaa| pAnI nahIM AnevAlA ho yA aisA kucha ho taba hI ve hameM jaldI nahA lene kA kaheMgI, isIlie hama samajha jaate| isalie thor3A-thor3A vyavahAra meM Apa bhI samajha lo na, ki kisI ke kAma meM hAtha DAlane jaisA nahIM hai| phojadAra pakar3akara hameM le jAe phira vaha jaisA kahe vaisA hama nahIM kareMge? jahA~ biThAe vahA~ hama nahIM baiTheMge? hama samajheM ki yahA~ hai taba taka __ hasabainDa matalaba vAipha kI bhI vAipha (pati yAnI patnI kI patnI) yaha to loga pati hI bana baiThe haiM! are, vAipha kyA pati bana baiThanevAlI hai? hasabainDa yAnI vAipha kI vaaiph| apane ghara meM jora se AvAja nahIM honI caahie| yaha kyA lAuDa spIkara hai? yaha to yahA~ cillAtA hai to galI ke nukkar3a taka sunAI detA hai| ghara meM gesTa kI taraha rho| hama bhI ghara meM gesTa kI taraha rahate haiN| kudarata ke gesTa kI taraha yadi Apako sukha na Ae to sasurAla meM kyA sukha AnevAlA hai? 'mAra' kA phira badalA letI hai praznakartA : dAdA, merA mijAz2a haTa jAtA hai, taba merA hAtha kitanI bAra patnI para uTha jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : strI ko kabhI bhI mAranA nahIM caahie| jaba taka zarIra maz2abUta hogA ApakA taba taka cupa rahegI, phira vaha Apa para car3ha baitthegii| strI ko aura mana ko mAranA vaha to saMsAra meM bhaTakane ke do sAdhana hai| ina donoM ko mAranA nahIM caahie| unake pAsa se to samajhAkara kAma lenA par3atA hai| hamArA eka mitra thaa| use maiM jaba dekhU taba patnI ko eka tamAcA

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 87 lagA detA thA, usakI z2arA-sI bhUla dikhe to mAra detA thaa| phira maiM use akele meM samajhAtA ki ye tamAcA tUne use mArA para usakI vaha noMdha rkhegii| tU noMdha nahIM rakhatA para vaha to noMdha rakhegI hii| are, yaha tere choTe-choTe bacce, tU tamAcA mAratA hai taba tujhe Tukura-Tukura dekhate rahate haiM, ve bhI noMdha rkheNge| aura ve vApisa, mA~ aura bacce ikaTThe milakara isakA badalA leNge| ve kaba badalA leMge? terA zarIra DhIlA par3egA tb| isalie strI ko mArane jaisA nahIM hai| mArane se to ulTe hameM hI nukasAnadAyaka, aMtarAyarUpa ho jAte haiN| Azrita kisa kahA jAtA hai? khUMTe se baMdhI gAya hotI hai, use mAreM to vaha kahA~ jAe? ghara ke loga khUMTe se bA~dhe hue jaise haiM, unheM mAreM to hama Tucce khlaaeNge| unheM chor3a de aura phira mAra, to vaha tujhe mAreMge yA phira bhAga jaaeNge| bA~dhe hue ko mAranA, vaha zUravIra kA mArga kaise kahalAe ? vaha to nirbala kA kAma khlaae| ghara ke manuSya ko to tanika bhI duHkha diyA hI nahIM jAnA caahie| jisameM samajha na ho ve gharavAloM ko duHkha dete haiN| phariyAda nahIM, nikAla lAnA hai praznakartA: dAdA, merI phariyAda kauna sune? dAdAzrI : tU phariyAda karegA to tU phariyAdI ho jaaegaa| maiM to jo phariyAda karane Ae, use hI gunahagAra mAnatA huuN| tujhe phariyAda karane kA samaya hI kyoM AyA? phariyAda karanevAlA z2yAdAtara gunahagAra hI hotA hai| khuda gunahagAra hotA hai to phariyAda karane AtA hai| tU phariyAda karegA to tU phariyAdI bana jAegA aura sAmanevAlA AropI bana jaaegaa| isalie usakI dRSTi meM AropI tU tthhregaa| isIlie kisI ke viruddha phariyAda nahIM karanI caahie| praznakartA: to mujhe kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : 've' ulTe dikheM to kahanA ki ve to sabase acche manuSya << kleza rahita jIvana hai, tU hI galata hai| aise, guNA ho gayA ho to bhAga kara denA cAhie aura bhAga ho gayA ho to guNA kara denA caahie| yaha guNA-bhAga kisalie sikhAte haiM? saMsAra meM niber3A lAne ke lie| vaha bhAga karatA ho to hama guNA kareM, tAki rakama ur3a jaae| sAmanevAle manuSya ke lie vicAra karanA ki usane mujhe aisA kahA, vaisA kahA vahI gunAha hai| yaha rAste meM jAte samaya dIvAra se TakarAe~ to use kyoM DA~Tate nahIM hai? per3a ko jar3a kyoM kahA jAtA hai? jise coTa lagatI hai ve saba hare per3a hI haiN| gAya kA paira apane Upara par3e to hama kyA kucha kahate haiM? aisA hI saba logoM kA hai| jJAnI puruSa sabako kisa taraha mApha kara dete haiM? ve samajhate haiM ki ye becArA samajhatA nahIM hai, pair3a jaisA hai| aura samajhadAra ko to kahanA hI nahIM par3atA, vaha to aMdara turanta pratikramaNa kara DAlatA hai| sAmanevAle kA doSa hI nahIM dekheM, nahIM to usase to saMsAra bigar3a jAtA hai| khuda ke hI doSa dekhate rahane caahie| apane hI karma ke udaya kA phala hai yaha! isalie kucha kahane kA hI nahIM rahA na ? saba anyonya doSa dete haiM ki Apa aise ho, Apa vaise ho| aura sAtha meM baiThakara Tebala para bhojana karate haiN| aise aMdara baira baMdhatA hai, isa baira se duniyA khar3I rahI hai| isIlie to hamane kahA hai ki 'samabhAve nikAla' krnaa| usase baira baMda hote haiN| sukha lene meM pha~sAva bar3hA saMsArI miThAI meM kyA hai? koI aisI miThAI hai ki jo ghar3Ibhara bhI Tike ? adhika khAI ho to ajIrNa hotA hai, kama khAI ho to aMdara lAlaca rahatA hai| adhika khAe to aMdara taraphar3AhaTa hotI hai| sukha aisA honA cAhie ki taraphar3AhaTa na ho| dekho na, ina dAdA ko hai na aisA sanAtana sukha! sukha mile usake lie loga zAdI karate haiM, taba ulTA adhika

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra kleza rahita jIvana pha~sAva lagatA hai| mujhe koI helpara mile, saMsAra acchA cale, aisA koI pArTanara mile isalie zAdI karate haiM na? saMsAra aise AkarSaka lagatA hai parantu aMdara ghusane ke bAda ulajhana hotI hai, phira nikalA nahIM jaataa| lakkar3a kA laDDU jo khAe vaha bhI pachatAe, jo na khAe vaha bhI pchtaae| zAdI karake pachatAte haiM, magara pachatAne se jJAna hotA hai| anubhavajJAna honA cAhie na? yoM hI kitAba par3heM to kyA anubhavajJAna hotA hai? kitAba par3hakara kyA vairAga AtA hai? vairAga to pachatAvA ho taba hotA hai| isa taraha zAdI nizcita hotI hai eka lar3akI ko zAdI hI nahIM karanI thI, usake gharavAle mere pAsa use lekara aae| taba maiMne use samajhAyA, zAdI kie binA cale aisA nahIM hai, aura zAdI karake pachatAe binA cale aisA nahIM hai| isalie yaha saba ronA-dhonA rahane de aura maiM kahatA hU~ usake anusAra tU zAdI kara le| jaisA vara mile vaisA, parantu vara to milA n| kisI bhI prakAra kA dulhA cAhie, tAki logoM kA u~galI uThAnA Tala jAe na! aura kisa AdhAra para dulhA milatA hai vaha maiMne use smjhaayaa| vaha lar3akI samajha gaI, aura mere kahe anusAra zAdI kara lii| parantu phira pati jarA dekhane meM acchA nahIM lgaa| parantu usane kahA ki mujhe dAdAjI ne kahA hai isalie zAdI karanI hI hai| usa lar3akI ko zAdI karane se pahale jJAna diyA, aura phira to usane mere eka bhI zabda kA ullaMghana nahIM kiyA aura vaha laDakI ekadama sukhI ho gii| lar3ake lar3akI ko pasaMda karane se pahale bahuta mInamekha nikAlate hai| bahuta U~cI hai, bahuta nIcI hai, bahuta moTI hai, bahuta patalI hai, z2arA kAlI hai| ghanacakkara, yaha kyA bhaiMsa hai? lar3akoM ko samajhAo ki zAdI karane kA tarIkA kyA hotA hai ! tujhe jAkara lar3akI ko dekha AnA aura A~kha se AkarSaNa ho vahA~ apanI zAdI nizcita hai aura AkarSaNa na ho to hameM baMda rakhanA hai| 'jagat' baira vasUlatA hI hai yaha to 'aise phira, vaise phira' karatA hai ! eka lar3akA aise bola rahA thA use maiMne to bahuta ddaaNttaa| maiMne kahA, 'terI madara bhI bahU banI thii| tU kisa taraha kA manuSya hai?' striyoM kA itanA adhika ghora apamAna ! Aja lar3akiyA~ bar3ha gaI haiM, isalie striyoM kA apamAna hotA hai| pahale to ina bevakUphoM kA ghora apamAna hotA thaa| usakA ye badalA lete haiN| pahale to pA~ca sau bevakUpha-rAjA lAina meM khar3e rahate the aura eka rAjakumArI varamAlA pahanAne nikalatI thI, aura ve bevakUpha garadana Age rakhakara khar3e rahate the! rAjakumArI Age khisaka jAtI ki use kATo to khUna bhI na nikale! kitanA ghora apamAna! are, rakho yaha zAdI karane kA! usase to zAdI nahIM karI ho vaha acchA! aura Ajakala to laDakiyA~ bhI kahane lagI haiM ki jarA aise phiroM to? Apa jarA kaise dikhate ho? dekho, hamane isa taraha dekhane kA sisTama nikAlA to yaha hAla ho gayA hai apanA? isase to sisTama hI nahIM banAte to kyA burA thA? yaha hamane laphar3A DAlA to hameM vaha laphar3A bddh'aa| isa kAla meM hI, pichale pA~ceka haz2Ara varSoM se puruSa kanyA lene jAtA haiN| usase pahale to bApa svayaMvara racAte the aura usameM ve sau bevakUpha Ae hue hote the! usameM se kanyA eka bevakUpha ko pAsa karatI thI ! isa taraha pAsa hokara zAdI karanI ho, usase to zAdI nahIM karanA acchaa| ye sabhI bevakUpha lAina meM khar3e rahate the, usameM se kanyA varamAlA lekara nikalatI thii| saba ke mana meM lAkhoM AzAe~ hotIM, ve garadana Age rakhA karate! isa taraha apanI pasaMda kI patnI lAe~, usase to janma hI na lenA acchA! isIse Aja ve bevakUpha striyoM kA bhayaMkara apamAna karake baira vasala rahe haiM! strI ko dekhane jAtA hai taba kahatA hai, 'aise phira, vaise phir|' 'kaoNmanasensa' se 'solyuzana' AtA hai maiM sabako aisA nahIM kahatA ki Apa saba mokSa meM clo| maiM to aisA kahatA hU~ ki jIvana jIne kI kalA siikho| kaoNmanasensa to thor3A

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra bahuta to sIkho logoM ke pAsa se! taba seThaloga mujhe kahate haiM ki hamameM kaoNmanasensa to hai| taba maiMne kahA, 'kaoNmanasensa hotA to aisA hotA hI nhiiN| tu to murkha hai|' seTha ne pUchA, 'kaoNmanasensa matalaba kyA?' maiMne kahA, 'kaoNmanasensa yAnI evarIvhera eplikebala-thyoriTikalI eja vela eja prekttiklii|' cAhe jaisA tAlA ho, jaMga lagA huA ho yA cAhe jaisA ho para cAbI DAleM ki turanta khula jAe usakA nAma koNmnsens| Apake to tAle khulate nahIM haiM, jhagar3e karate ho aura tAle tor3ate ho! are, Upara bar3A hathaur3A mArate ho! matabheda ApameM par3atA hai? matabheda matalaba kyA? tAlA kholanA nahIM AyA, vaisA kaoNmanasensa kahA~ se lAe? merA kahane kA yaha hai ki pUrI tIna sau sATha DigrI kA kaoNmanasensa nahIM hotA parantu cAlIsa DigrI, pacAsa DigrI kA to AtA hai na? vaisA dhyAna meM rakhA ho to? eka zubha vicAraNA para car3hA ho to use vaha vicAraNA yAda AtI hai aura vaha jAgRta ho jAtA hai| zubha vicAraNA ke bIja par3e, phira vaha vicAraNA zurU ho jAtI hai| para yaha to seTha sAre dina lakSmI ke aura lakSmI ke vicAroM meM hI ghUmatA rahatA hai! isalie mujhe seTha se kahanA par3atA hai, 'seTha Apa lakSmI ke pIche par3e ho? ghara pUrA tahasa-nahasa ho gayA hai| beTiyA~ moTara lekara idhara jAtI haiM, beTe udhara jAte haiM aura seThAnI isa tarapha jAtI hai| seTha, Apa to hara taraha se luTa gae haiM!' taba seTha ne pUchA, 'mujhe karanA kyA?' maiMne kahA, 'bAta ko samajho n| kisa taraha jIvana jInA yaha smjho| sirpha paisoM kI hI pIche mata pdd'o| zarIra kA dhyAna rakhate raho, nahIM to hArTa phela hogaa|' zarIra kA dhyAna, paisoM kA dhyAna, beTiyoM ke saMskAra kA dhyAna, saba kone bahArane haiN| eka konA Apa buhArate rahate ho, aba baMgale meM eka hI konA bahArate raheM aura dUsare saba tarapha kacarA par3A ho to kaisA lage? sabhI kone bahArane haiN| isa taraha to jIvana kaise jIyA jAe? kleza rahita jIvana bAhara kahIM bhI jhagar3A hI hone nahIM detaa| isa maMbaI meM matabheda binA ke ghara kitane? matabheda hotA hai, vahA~ kaoNmanasensa kaise kahalAegA? ghara meM 'vAipha' kahe ki abhI dina hai to hama 'nA, abhI rAta hai' kahakara jhagar3ane lageM to usakA kaba pAra AegA? hama use kaheM ki hama tujhase binatI karate haiM ki rAta hai, z2arA bAhara jA~ca kara n|' taba bhI vaha kahe ki 'nA, dina hI hai|' taba hama kaheM, 'yU Ara karekTa / mujhase bhUla ho gii|' to hamArI pragati zuru ho, nahIM to isakA pAra Ae aisA nahIM hai| yaha to 'bAipAsara' (rAhagIra) haiM sbhii| 'vAipha' bhI 'bAipAsara' hai| rileTiva, aMta meM dagA samajha meM AtA hai ye sabhI 'rileTiva' sagAiyA~ haiN| isameM koI 'riyala' sagAI hai hI nhiiN| are, yaha deha hI rileTiva hai na! yaha deha hI dagA hai, to usa dage ke sage kitane hoMge? isa deha ko hama roz2a nahalAte-dhulAte haiM, phira bhI peTa meM du:khe to aise kaheM ki roz2a terA itanA dhyAna rakhatA hU~, to Aja jarA zAMta raha na? taba vaha ghar3Ibhara bhI zAMta nahIM rhtaa| vaha to AbarU le letA hai| are, ina battIsa dA~toM meM se eka du:khatA ho na taba bhI vaha cIkheM mrvaaeN| sArA ghara bhara jAe utane to sArI z2indagI meM dAtuna kie hoMge, roz2a dAtana ghisate rahe hoMge, phira bhI ma~ha sApha nahIM hotaa| vaha to thA vaise kA vaisA hI vaapis| yAnI yaha to dagA hai| isalie manuSya janma aura hindustAna meM janma ho, U~cI jAti meM janma ho, aura yadi mokSa kA kAma nahIM nikAla liyA to tU bhaTaka mraa| jA terA sabakucha hI bekAra gayA! kucha samajhanA to par3egA na? bhale mokSa kI z2arUrata sabako nahIM ho, para kaoNmanasensa kI jarUrata to sabako hai na? yaha to kaoNmanasensa nahIM hone se ghara kA khA-pIkara TakarAva hote haiN| saba kyA kAlAbAjAra karate haiM? phira bhI ghara ke tIna logoM meM zAma taka taiMtIsa matabheda par3ate haiN| isameM kyA sukha milA? phira DhITha banakara jItA hai| aisA svamAna binA kA jIvana kisa kAma kA? usameM bhI maijisTreTa sAhaba korTa meM sAta varSa kI sajA Thokakara Ae hote haiM, kaoNmanasensavAlA ghara meM matabheda hone hI nahIM detaa| vaha kaoNmanasensa kahA~ se lAe? vaha to 'jJAnI puruSa' ke pAsa baiThe, 'jJAnI puruSa' ke caraNoM kA sevana kare taba kaoNmanasensa utpanna hogaa| kaoNmanasensavAlA ghara meM yA

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra para ghara meM paMdraha-paMdraha dina se kesa penDiMga par3A hotA hai| patnI ke sAtha abolA hotA hai! taba apane maijisTreTa sAhaba se pUche ki 'kyoM sAhaba?' taba sAhaba kahate haiM ki patnI bahuta kharAba hai, bilakala jaMgalI hai| aba patnI se pUche, 'kyoM, sAhaba to bahuta acche AdamI haiM na?' taba patnI kahegI, 'jAne do na nAma, roTana (sar3A huA) AdamI hai|' aba aisA sune taba se hI nahIM samajha jAe~ ki yaha sArA polampola hai jagat? isameM karekTanesa jaisA kucha bhI nahIM hai| vAIpha yadi sabjI maha~ge dAma kI lAI ho to sabjI dekhakara mUrkha cillAtA hai, 'itane mahaMge bhAva kI sabjI to lI jAtI hogI? taba patnI kahegI, 'yaha Apane mujha para aTaika kiyaa|' aisA kahakara patnI Dabala aTaika karatI hai| aba usakA pAra kaise Ae? vAipha yadi maha~ge bhAva kI sabjI le AI ho to hama kaheM, 'bahuta acchA kiyA, mere dhanyabhAga!', bAkI mere jaise lobhI se itanA maha~gA nahIM lAyA jaataa|' kleza rahita jIvana hai! binA sarTiphikeTa ke pati hone gayA, pati hone kI yogyatA kA sarTiphikeTa honA cAhie, tabhI bApa hone kA adhikAra hai| yaha to binA adhikAra ke bApa bana gae aura vApisa dAdA bhI banate haiM ! isakA kaba pAra AegA? kucha samajhanA caahie| rileTiva meM to jor3anA yaha to 'rileTiva' sagAIyA~ haiN| yadi 'riyala' sagAI ho na, taba to hamArA jida para ar3a jAnA kAma kA ki tU sudhare nahIM taba taka maiM apanI jida para ar3A rhuuNgaa| para yaha to rileTiva! rileTiva matalaba eka ghaMTA yadi patnI ke sAtha jamakara lar3AI ho jAe to donoM ko DAyavorsa kA vicAra A jAtA hai, phira usa vicArabIja kA peDa banatA hai| hameM yadi vAipha kI z2arUrata ho to vaha phAr3atI rahe to hameM silate jAnA hai| tabhI yaha rileTiva saMbaMdha TikegA, nahIM to TUTa jaaegaa| bApa ke sAtha bhI rileTiva saMbaMdha hai| loga to riyala sagAI mAnakara bApa ke sAtha z2ida para ar3a jAte haiN| vaha sudhare nahIM, taba taka jida para ar3anA? ghanacakkara, aise karate-karate sudharate hue to bUr3hA mara jaaegaa| usase to usakI sevA kara aura becArA baira bA~dhakara jAe usase acchA to use zAMti se marane de na! usake sIMga use bhaarii| kisI ke bIsa-bIsa phuTa laMbe sIMga hote haiN| usameM hameM kyA bhAra? jisake hoM use bhaar| hameM apanA farz2a nibhAnA hai isIlie z2ida para mata ar3anA, turaMta bAta kA hala lA do| usake bAvajUda bhI sAmanevAlA vyakti bahuta lar3e to kaheM ki maiM to pahale se hI bevakUpha hU~, mujhe to aisA AtA hI nahIM hai| aisA kaha diyA isase vaha Apako chor3a degaa| cAhe jisa rAste chUTa jAo aura mana meM aisA mata mAna baiThanA ki saba car3ha baiTheMge to kyA karU~gA? ve kyA car3ha baiTheMge? car3ha baiThane kI kisI ke pAsa zakti hI nahIM hai| ye saba karma ke udaya se laTTa nAca rahe haiN| isalie jaise-taise karake Aja kA zakravAra kleza binA kA nikAla DAlo, kala kI bAta kala dekha leNge| dUsare dina koI paTAkhA phUTane kA huA to cAhe jisa taraha se use DhaMka denA, phira dekha leNge| aise dina bitAne caahie| hama eka vyakti ke vahA~ Thahare the| taba unakI patnI dara se paTakakara cAya rakha gii| maiM samajha gayA ki ina donoM ke bIca koI a~jhaTa haI hai| maiMne una bahanajI ko bulAkara pUchA, 'paTakA kyoM?' to ve kahatI hai ki nA, aisA kucha nahIM hai| maiMne use kahA, 'tere peTa meM kyA bAta hai yaha maiM samajha gayA huuN| mere pAsa chupAtI hai? tUne paTakakara diyA to terA pati bhI mana meM samajha gayA ki kyA haqIqata hai| sirpha yaha kapaTa chor3a de cupacApa, yadi sukhI honA ho to|' puruSa to bhole hote haiM aura ye striyA~ to cAlIsa varSa pahale bhI yadi pA~ca-paccIsa gAliyA~ dI hoM, to ve kahakara batAtI haiM ki Apa usa dina aisA kaha rahe the| isIlie sa~bhAlakara strI ke sAtha kAma nikAla lene jaisA hai| strI to apane pAsa kAma nikalavA legii| para hameM nahIM aataa| strI sAr3I lAne ko kahe Der3ha sau rupaye kI, to hama paccIsa adhika deN| taba chaha mahInoM taka to calegA ! samajhanA pdd'egaa| lAipha matalaba to kalA hai! yaha to jIvana jIne kI kalA nahIM ho aura patnI lAne jAtA

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra kleza rahita jIvana vaha sudharA huA kaba taka Tike? ye hama kisI ko kabhI bhI DA~Tate nahIM haiM, phira bhI hamArA tApa bahuta lagatA hara eka bAta meM hama sAmanevAle ke sAtha eDajasTa ho jAe~ to kitanA AsAna ho jaae| hameM sAtha meM kyA le jAnA hai? koI kahegA ki bhAI use sIdhA kro| are, use sIdhA karane jAegA to tU Ter3hA ho jaaegaa| isalie vAipha ko sIdhA karane jAnA mata, jaisI ho use karekTa kheN| hameM usake sAtha kAyama kA sAtha ho to alaga bAta hai| yaha to eka janma ke bAda jAne kahA~ bikhara pdd'eNge| donoM ke maraNakAla alaga, donoM ke karma alg| kucha bhI lenA bhI nahIM aura denA bhI nahIM! yahA~ se to kisake yahA~ jAegI usakI kyA khabara? hama sIdhI kareM to agale janma meM jAegI kisI aura ke bhAgya meM! praznakartA : usake sAtha karma baMdhe hoM to dUsare janma meM mileMge to sahI na? dAdAzrI : mileMge, para dUsarI taraha se mileNge| kisI kI aurata banakara hamAre yahA~ bAta karane aae| karma ke niyama haiM na! yaha to Thaura nahIM aura ThikAnA bhI nhiiN| koI hI puNyazAlI manuSya aise hote haiM ki jo kucha bhava sAtha meM rheN| dekho na, neminAtha bhagavAna, rAjula ke sAtha nau bhava se sAtha hI sAtha the na ! aisA ho to bAta alaga hai| yaha to dUsare bhava kA hI ThikAnA nahIM hai| are, isa bhava meM hI cale jAte haiM na! use DAyavorsa kahate haiM na? isI bhava meM do pati karatI hai, tIna pati karatI hai! eDajasTa ho jAe~, taba bhI sudhare isalie Apako unheM sIdhA karanA nahIM hai| ve Apako sIdhA kare nhiiN| jaisA milA vaisA sone kaa| prakRti kisI kI, kabhI bhI sIdhI hotI nahIM hai| kutte kI duma Ter3hI kI Ter3hI hI rahatI hai, isalie hama sa~bhalakara cleN| jaisI ho vaisI bhale hI ho, 'eDajasTa evriivher'| dhamakAne kI jagaha para Apane nahIM dhamakAyA, usase vAipha adhika sIdhI rahatI hai| jo gussA nahIM karatA usakA tApa bahuta sakhta hotA hai| praznakartA : to phira vaha sIdhI ho jAegI? dAdAzrI : sIdhA hone kA mArga hI pahale se yaha hai| vaha kaliyuga ke logoM ko pusAtA nahIM haiM, para usake bagaira chuTakArA bhI nahIM hai| praznakartA : magara vaha muzkila bahuta hai| dAdAzrI : nA, nA vaha muzkila nahIM hai, vahI AsAna hai| gAya ke sIMga gAya ko bhaarii| praznakartA : hameM bhI vaha mAratI hai na? dAdAzrI : kisI dina hameM laga jAtA hai| sIMga mArane Ae to hama aise khisaka jAte haiM, vaise yahA~ para bhI khisaka jAnA hai ! yaha to muzkila kahA~ AtI hai? merI zAdI kI huI aura merI vaaiph| are, nahIM hai vAipha aura ye hasabainDa hI nahIM to phira vAipha hotI hogI? yaha to anAr3I ke khela haiM! AryaprajA kahA~ rahI hai Ajakala? sudhArane ke badale sudharane kI z2arUrata praznakartA : 'khuda kI bhUla hai' aisA svIkArakara patnI ko sudhAra nahIM sakate? dAdAzrI : sudhArane ke lie khuda hI sudharane kI jarUrata hai| kisI ko sudhArA hI nahIM jA sakatA hai| jo sudhArane ke prayatnavAle haiM, ve saba ahaMkArI hai| khuda sudharA matalaba sAmanevAlA sudhara hI jaaegaa| maiMne aise bhI dekhe haiM ki jo bAhara saba sudhArane nikale hote haiM aura ghara meM unakI vAipha ke sAmane AbarU nahIM hotii| madara ke sAmane AbarU nahIM hotii| ye kisa taraha ke manuSya haiM? pahale tU sudhr| maiM sudhArU~, maiM sudhArU~ vaha galata igoiz2ama hai| are! terA hI to ThikAnA nahIM, phira tU kyA sudhAranevAlA hai? pahale khuda samajhadAra hone kI z2arUrata hai| 'mahAvIra' mahAvIra hone kA hI

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra prayatna karate the aura usakA itanA prabhAva par3A hai! paccIsa sau sAla hone para bhI unakA prabhAva jAtA nahIM hai| hama kisI ko sudhArate nahIM haiN| kise sudhArane kA adhikAra? Apako sudhArane kA adhikAra kitanA hai? jisameM caitanya hai, use sudhArane kA Apako kyA adhikAra hai? yaha kapar3A mailA ho gayA ho to use hameM sApha karane kA adhikAra hai| kyoMki vahA~ sAmane se kisI bhI taraha kA riekzana nahIM hai| aura jisameM caitanya hai, vaha to riekzanavAlA hai, use Apa kyA sudhAroge? yaha prakRti khuda kI hI sudharatI nahIM hai, vahA~ dUsare kI kyA sudhAranI? khuda hI laTU hai| ye saba Topsa haiN| kyoMki ve prakRti ke adhIna hai| puruSa huA nhiiN| puruSa hone ke bAda hI puruSArtha utpanna hotA hai| yaha to puruSArtha dekhA hI nahIM hai| vyavahAra nibhAnA, eDajasTa hokara praznakartA : vyavahAra meM rahanA hai to eDajasTa ekapakSIya to nahIM honA cAhie na? dAdAzrI : vyavahAra to usakA nAma kahalAtA hai ki 'eDajasTa' ho jAe~ yAnI ki par3osI bhI kaheM ki, 'saba ghara meM jhagar3e haiM, parantu isa ghara meM jhagar3A nahIM hai|' usakA vyavahAra sabase acchA mAnA jAtA hai| jisake sAtha rAsa nahIM Ae, vahIM para zakti vikasita karanI hai, rAsa Ae vahA~ to zakti hai hii| nahIM rAsa Ae vaha to kamaz2orI hai| mujhe sabake sAtha kaise rAsa A jAtA hai? jitane eDajasTamenTsa leMge utanI zaktiyA~ bar3hegI aura azaktiyA~ TUTatI jaaeNgii| saccI samajha to dUsarI sabhI samajha ko tAle lageMge taba hI hogii| kleza rahita jIvana par3atI hai| isa vyavahAra meM ekapakSIya, ni:spRha ho gae hoM to Ter3he khlaaeNge| hameM z2arUrata ho, taba sAmanevAlA Ter3hA ho phira bhI use manA lenA par3atA hai| ye sTezana para majadUra cAhie to vaha AnAkAnI kara rahA ho, taba bhI use cAra Ane kama-jyAdA karake bhI manA lenA par3atA hai, aura na manAe~ to vaha baiga apane sira para hI DAlegA na? 'DonTa sI laoNja, plIja seTala' (kAnUna mata dekhanA, kRpayA samAdhAna karo). sAmanevAle ko 'seTalamenTa' lene ke lie kahanA, 'Apa aisA karo, vaisA karo', aisA kahane ke lie TAima hI kahA~ hotA hai? sAmanevAle kI sau bhUleM hoM, taba bhI hameM to khuda kI hI bhUla kahakara Age nikala jAnA hai| isa kAla meM laoN (kAnUna) to dekhA jAtA hogA? yaha to aMtima stara para A gayA hai| jahA~ dekho vahA~ dauDAdaur3a aura bhaagmbhaag| loga ulajha gae haiN| ghara jAe to vAipha cillAtI hai, bacce cillAte haiM, naukarI para jAe to seTha cillAtA hai, gAr3I meM jAe to bhIr3a meM dhakke khAtA hai, kahIM bhI caina nahIM hai| caina to cAhie na? koI laDane lage to hameM usake Upara dayA rakhanI cAhie ki ahoho! ise kitanI adhika becainI hogI ki vaha lar3a par3atA hai! becaina ho jAte haiM, ve saba kamajora haiN| praznakartA : bahuta bAra aisA hotA hai ki eka samaya meM do logoM ke sAtha eka hI bAta para 'eDajasTamenTa' lenA hotA hai, to usI samaya saba ora kisa taraha le sakate haiM? dAdAzrI : donoM ke sAtha liyA jA sakatA hai| are, sAta logoM ke sAtha bhI lenA ho, taba bhI liyA jA sakatA hai| eka pUche, 'merA kyA kiyA?' taba kaheM, 'hA~ bhAI, tere kahe anusAra kruuNgaa| dUsare ko bhI aisA kaheMge, 'Apa kahoge vaisA kruuNgaa|' 'vyavasthita' ke bAhara honevAlA nahIM hai, isalie cAhe jaise jhagar3A khar3A mata krnaa|' yaha to sahI-galata kahane se bhUta parezAna karate haiN| hameM to donoM ko eka jaisA kara denA hai| ise acchA kahA isalie dUsarA galata ho gayA, isalie phira vaha parezAna karatA hai| para donoM kA miksacara kara DAleM isase 'jJAnI' to sAmanevAlA Ter3hA ho taba bhI usake sAtha 'eDajasTa' ho jAte haiN| 'jJAnI puruSa' ko dekhakara cale to sabhI taraha ke 'eDajasTamenTsa' karane A jaaeN| usake pIche sAinsa kyA kahatA hai ki vItarAga ho jAo, rAga-dveSa mata kro| yaha to aMdara kucha Asakti raha jAtI hai, isalie mAra

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100 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra phira asara nahIM rhegaa| eDajasTa aivarIvhera kI hamane khoja kI hai| sahI kaha rahA ho usake sAtha aura galata kaha rahA ho usake sAtha eDajasTa ho| hameM koI kahe, 'ApameM akkala nahIM hai, to hama usake sAtha turanta eDajasTa ho jAe~ aura use kaheM ki yaha to pahale se hI nahIM thI, abhI kahA~ tU khojane AyA hai? tujhe to Aja usakA patA calA, para maiM to bacapana se hI jAnatA huuN|' aisA kaheM isalie jhaMjhaTa miTa gaI na? phira vaha hamAre pAsa akkala DhUMDhane hI nahIM aaegaa| aisA nahIM kareM to 'apane ghara' kaba pahu~ca pAe~ge? hama yaha sarala aura sIdhA rAstA batA dete haiM aura ye TakarAva kyA roja-roja hote haiM? vaha to jaba apane karma kA udaya ho taba hotA hai, utanA hI hameM eDajasTa karanA hai| ghara meM lIlA (patnI) ke sAtha jhagar3A huA ho to jhagar3A hone ke bAda lIlA ko hoTala meM le jAkara, khAnA khilAkara khuza kareM, aba tA~tA nahIM rahanA caahie| ___eDajasTamenTa ko hama nyAya kahate haiN| Agraha-durAgraha, vaha koI nyAya nahIM khlaataa| kisI bhI prakAra kA Agraha nyAya nahIM hai| hama kisI kA Agraha nahIM pkdd'te| jisa pAnI se ma~ga galeM usase galA leM. aMta meM gaTara ke pAnI se bhI galA leM!! ye DAkU mila jAe~ usake sAtha DisaeDajasTa hoM to ve maareNge| usake badale hama nizcita kareM ki usake sAtha eDajasTa hokara kAma lenA hai| phira use pUche ki bhAI terI kyA icchA hai? dekha bhAI hama to yAtrA karane nikale haiN| use eDajasTa ho jAte haiN| yaha bA~drA kI khAr3I badabU mAre to use kyA lar3ane jAte haiM? vaise hI ye manuSya badabU mArate haiM, unheM kucha kahane jAnA cAhie? badabU mAranevAle sabhI khAr3iyA~ kahalAte haiM aura sugaMdhI Ae ve bAg2a kahalAte haiN| jo-jo badabU mArate haiM, ve saba kahate haiM ki Apa hamAre sAtha vItarAga rho| yaha eDajasTa evarIvhera nahIM hogA to pAgala ho jAoge sb| sAmanevAle ko cher3ate rahoge, usase hI ve pAgala hote haiN| isa kutte ko eka kleza rahita jIvana bAra cher3eM, dUsarI bAra, tIsarI bAra cher3eM taba taka vaha hamArI AbarU rakhatA hai, para phira bahuta cher3achAr3a kareM to vaha bhI kATa letA hai| vaha bhI samajha jAtA hai ki yaha roja cher3atA hai, yaha nAlAyaka hai, bezarma hai| yaha samajhane jaisA hai| jhaMjhaTa kucha bhI karanI nahIM hai, eDajasTa evriivher| nahIM to vyavahAra kI gutthiyA~ rokatI haiM pahale yaha vyavahAra sIkhanA hai| vyavahAra kI samajha ke binA to loga taraha-taraha kI mAra khAte haiN| praznakartA : adhyAtma meM to ApakI bAta ke bAre meM kucha kahane kA hI nahIM hai| parantu vyavahAra meM bhI ApakI bAta TaoNpa kI bAta hai| dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, ki vyavahAra meM Topa kA samajhe binA koI mokSa meM gayA nahIM hai, cAhe jitanA bAraha lAkha kA AtmajJAna ho para vyavahAra samajhe binA koI mokSa meM gayA nhiiN| kyoMki vyavahAra chur3avAnevAlA hai na? vaha na chor3e to Apa kyA karoge? Apa zuddhAtmA ho hI, parantu vyavahAra chor3e taba na? Apa vyavahAra ko ulajhAte rahate ho| jhaTa-paTa niber3A lAo na! ina bhaiyA se kahA ho ki 'jA, dukAna se AiskrIma le aa|' para vaha Adhe rAste se hI vApisa A jaae| hama kaheM, 'kyoM?' to vaha kahe, 'rAste meM gadhA mila gayA isalie, apazukana ho gyaa|' aba ise aisA ulTA jJAna huA hai, vaha hameM nikAla bAhara karanA cAhie na? use samajhAnA cAhie ki bhAI, gadhe meM bhagavAna rahe hue haiM, isalie apazukana kucha hotA nahIM hai| tU gadhe kA tiraskAra karegA to usameM rahe hue bhagavAna ko pahu~catA hai, usase tujhe bhayaMkara doSa lagatA hai| vApisa aisA nahIM honA caahie| isa taraha se yaha ulTA jJAna huA hai| isake AdhAra para eDajasTa nahIM ho sakate haiN| ___ kAunTarapulI-eDajasTamenTa kI rIti hameM pahale apanA mata nahIM rakhanA caahie| sAmanevAle se pUchanA cAhie ki isa bAre meM ApakA kyA kahanA hai? sAmanevAlA apanA pakar3akara

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 101 rakhe to hama hamArA chor3a deN| hameM to itanA hI dekhanA hai ki kisa rAste sAmanevAle ko du:kha na ho| apanA abhiprAya sAmanevAle para thopanA nahIM hai| sAmanevAle kA abhiprAya hameM lenA hai| hama to sabake abhiprAya lekara 'jJAnI' hue haiN| maiM merA abhiprAya kisI para thopane jAU~ to maiM hI kaccA par3a jaauuN| apane abhiprAya se kisI ko du:kha nahIM honA caahie| tere rivolyuzana aThAraha sau hoM aura sAmanevAle ke chaha sau hoM, aura tU terA abhiprAya usa para thopane jAe to sAmanevAle kA iMjana Ta jaaegaa| usake sabhI giyara badalane pdd'eNge| praznakartA : rivaoNlyuzana matalaba kyA? dAdAzrI : yaha vicAroM kI jo spIDa hai vaha hara eka kI alaga hotI hai| kucha huA ho taba vaha eka minaTa meM to kitanA hI dikhA detA hai, usake sabhI paryAya eTa-e-TAima dikhA detA hai| ye bar3e-bar3e presiDenToM ko minaTa ke bAraha sau-bAraha sau rivaoNlyuzansa ghUmate haiN| taba hamAre pA~ca haz2Ara hote haiN| mahAvIra ke lAkha rivaoNlyuzansa ghUmate the| yaha matabheda par3ane kA kAraNa kyA hai? ApakI vAipha ke sau rivaoNlyuzansa ho aura Apake pA~ca sau rivaoNlyuzansa hoM aura Apako bIca meM kAunTarapulI DAlanA AtA nahIM hai isalie cinagAriyA~ ur3atI haiM, jhagar3e hote haiN| are! kitanI bAra to iMjana bhI TUTa jAtA hai| rivaoNlyuzana samajhe Apa? ye maz2adUra se Apa bAta karo to ApakI bAta use pahu~cegI nhiiN| usake rivaoNlyuzana pacAsa hote haiM aura Apake pA~ca sau hote haiM, kisI ke haz2Ara hote haiM, kisI ke bAraha sau hote haiN| jaisA jisakA DevalapamenTa ho usa anusAra rivaoNlyuzansa hote haiN| bIca meM kAunTarapulI DAlo taba hI use ApakI bAta phuNcegii| kAunTarapulI matalaba Apako bIca meM paTTA DAlakara apane rivaoNlyuzansa kama kara dene pdd'eNge| maiM haraeka vyakti ke sAtha kAunTarapulI DAla detA huuN| sirpha ahaMkAra nikAla dene se kAma ho aisA nahIM hai, kAunTarapulI bhI haraeka ke sAtha DAlanI par3atI hai| isalie to hamArA kisI ke sAtha matabheda hI nahIM hotA na! hama samajhate haiM ki isa vyakti ke itane hI rivaoNlyuzansa haiN| isalie usa anusAra maiM kAunTarapulI 102 kleza rahita jIvana lagA detA huuN| hameM to choTe baccoM ke sAtha bhI bahuta rAsa AtA hai| kyoMki hama unake sAtha cAlIsa rivaoNlyuzansa kara dete haiM isalie use merI bAta pahu~catI hai, nahIM to vaha mazIna TUTa jaae| praznakartA : koI bhI, sAmanevAle ke levala para Ae taba hI bAta hotI hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, usake rivaoNlyuzansa para Ae taba hI bAta hotI hai| yaha Apake sAtha bAtacIta karate hue hamAre rivaoNlyuzansa kahIM ke kahIM jAkara Ate haiM ! pUre varlDa meM ghUma Ate haiN| kAunTarapulI Apako DAlanA nahIM AtA, usameM kama rivaoNlyuzanavAle iMjana kA kyA doSa? vaha to ApakA doSa ki Apako 'kAunTarapulI' DAlanA nahIM AtA hai| ulTA kahane se kalaha huI..... praznakartA : pati kA bhaya, bhaviSya kA bhaya, eDajasTamenTa lene nahIM detA hai| vahA~ para 'hama use sudhAranevAle kauna?' vaha yAda rahatA nahIM, aura sAmanevAle ko cetAvanI ke rUpa meM bola diyA jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha to 'vyavasthita' kA upayoga kare, 'vyavasthita' phiTa ho jAe to koI parezAnI ho aisA nahIM hai| phira kucha pUchane jaisA hI nahIM rhe| pati Ae taba thAlI aura pATA rakhakara kaheM ki calie bhojana ke lie| unakI prakRti badalanevAlI nahIM hai| jo prakRti hama dekhakara, pasaMda karake, zAdI karake lAe, vaha prakRti aMta taka dekhanI hai| taba kyA pahale dina nahIM jAnate the ki yaha prakRti aisI hI hai? usI dina alaga ho jAnA thA na? mu~ha kyoM lagAyA adhika? isa kica-kica se saMsAra meM koI phAyadA hotA nahIM hai, nukasAna hI hotA hai| kica-kica yAnI kalaha, isalie bhagavAna ne use kaSAya kahA hai| Apa donoM ke bIca meM problema bar3heM vaise alaga hotA jAtA hai| problema solva ho jAe~ phira alaga nahIM rhtaa| judAI se du:kha hai| aura sabhI ko problema khar3e honevAle haiN| Apako akele ko hote haiM aisA nahIM hai| jitanoM

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104 kleza rahita jIvana 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 103 ne zAdI kI hai unheM problema khar3e hue bagaira rahate nhiiN| karma ke udaya se jhagar3e calate rahate haiM, magara jIbha se ulTA bolanA baMda kro| bAta peTa kI peTa meM hI rakho, ghara meM yA bAhara bolanA baMda kara praznakartA : to phira kucha kahanA hI nahIM cAhie? dAdAzrI : kaho, para samyak kahanA, yadi bolanA Ae to| nahIM to katte kI taraha bhauMkate rahane kA artha kyA? isalie samyak kahanA caahie| praznakartA : samyak matalaba kisa taraha kA? dAdAzrI : 'ohoho! Apane isa bacco ko kyoM pheMkA? kyA kAraNa hai usakA?' taba vaha kahe ki, 'jAna-bUjhakara maiM koI thor3e pheMkU~gA? vaha to mere hAtha meM se chaTaka gayA aura gira pdd'aa|' praznakartA : vaha to, usane galata bolA na? aho! vyavahAra kA matalaba hI... praznakartA : prakRti na sudhare, parantu vyavahAra to sudharanA cAhie na? dAdAzrI : vyavahAra to logoM ko AtA hI nhiiN| vyavahAra kisI dina AyA hotA na, are, Adhe ghaMTe meM bhI AyA hotA to bhI bahuta ho gayA! vyavahAra to samajhe hI nahIM haiN| vyavahAra matalaba kyA? upalaka (satahI, Upara Upara se, suparaphluasa)! vyavahAra kA matalaba satya nahIM hai| yaha to vyavahAra ko satya hI mAna liyA hai| vyavahAra meM satya matalaba rileTiva sty| yahA~ ke noTa sacce hoM yA jhUThe hoM donoM 'vahA~' ke sTezana para kAma lagate nahIM haiN| isalie chor3a na ise, aura hama 'apanA' kAma nikAla leN| vyavahAra matalaba diyA huA vApisa karanA, vh| abhI koI kahe ki, 'caMdUlAla meM akkala nahIM hai|' to hama samajha jAe~ ki yaha diyA huA vApisa AyA! yaha jo samajho to vaha vyavahAra khlaae| Ajakala vyavahAra kisI ko hai hI nhiiN| jise vyavahAra, vyavahAra hai usakA nizcaya, nizcaya hai| ...aura samyak kahane se kalaha zama jAtA hai praznakartA : kisI ne jAna-bUjhakara yaha vastu pheMka dI, to vahA~ para kyA eDajasTamenTa lenA cAhie? dAdAzrI : yaha to pheMka diyA, para baccA pheMka de taba bhI hameM dekhate' rahanA hai| bApa bacce ko pheMka de to hameM dekhate rahanA hai| taba kyA hameM pati ko pheMka denA cAhie? eka ko to aspatAla jAnA par3A aba vApisa do aspatAla khar3e karane? aura phira jaba usakA calegA taba vaha hameM pachAr3a degA, phira tIna aspatAla khar3e ho ge| dAdAzrI : ve jhUTha boleM, vaha hameM dekhanA nahIM hai| jhUTha boleM yA saca boleM vaha usake adhIna hai, vaha apane adhIna nahIM hai| vaha usakI marajI meM Ae aisA kreN| use jhUTha bolanA ho yA hameM khatama karanA ho, vaha usake tAbe meM hai| rAta ko apanI maTakI meM jahara DAla de to hama to khatama hI ho jAe na! isalie jo hamAre tAbe meM nahIM hai vaha hameM dekhanA nahIM hai| samyak kahanA Ae to kAma kA hai ki bhAI isameM kyA Apako phAyadA huA? to vaha apane Apa kabUla kregaa| samyak kahanA nahIM aura Apa pA~ca sera kA doge to vaha dasa sera kA degA! praznakartA : kahanA nahIM Ae to phira kyA karanA cAhie? cupa baiThanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : mauna raheM aura dekhate raheM ki kyA hotA hai? sinemA meM baccoM ko paTakate haiM, taba kyA karate haiM hama? kahane kA adhikAra hai sabakA, para kalaha bar3he nahIM usa taraha se kahane kA adhikAra hai| bAkI, jo kahane se kalaha bar3hatA ho vaha to mUrkha kA kAma hai| Takora, ahaMkArapUrvaka nahIM karate praznakartA : vyavahAra meM koI galata karatA ho use Takora to karanI

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106 kleza rahita jIvana dAdAzrI : narama nahIM par3eM to hameM kyA karanA hai? hameM to kahakara chUTa jAnA hai, phira kyA upAya? kabhI na kabhI kisI dina narama pdd'egaa| DA~Takara narama karo to vaha usase kucha narama hogA nhiiN| Aja narama dikhegA, para vaha mana meM noMdha rakha chor3egA aura hama jaba narama hoMge usa dina vaha saba vApisa nikaalegaa| yAnI jagat bairavAlA hai| niyama aisA hai ki baira rakhe, aMdara paramANu saMgraha karake rakhe, isalie hameM pUrA kesa hI hala kara denA prakRti ke anusAra eDajasTamenTa... praznakartA : hama sAmanevAle ko abolA tor3ane kA kaheM ki merI bhUla ho gaI, aba mAfI mA~gatA huuN| taba bhI usakA dimAg2a adhika car3heM to kyA kareM? 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 105 par3atI hai| usase use duHkha hotA hai, to kisa taraha usakA nikAla kareM? dAdAzrI : vyavahAra meM Takora karanI par3atI hai, parantu usameM ahaMkAra sahita hotA hai, isalie usakA pratikramaNa karanA caahie| praznakartA : Takora nahIM kareM to vaha sira para car3hatA hai? dAdAzrI : TokanA to par3atA hai, para kahanA AnA caahie| kahanA nahIM Ae, vyavahAra nahIM Ae, taba ahaMkAra sahita Takora hotI hai| isalie bAda meM usakA pratikramaNa karanA caahie| Apa sAmanevAle ko Toko taba sAmanevAle ko burA to lagegA, parantu usakA pratikramaNa karate rahoge taba phira chaha mahIne, bAraha mahIne meM vANI aisI nikalegI ki sAmanevAle ko mIThI lgegii| abhI to TesTeDa vANI cAhie, anTesTeDa vANI bolane kA adhikAra nahIM hai| isa taraha se pratikramaNa karoge to cAhe jaisA hogA, phira bhI sIdhA ho jaaegaa| yaha abolA to bojhA bar3hAe praznakartA : abolA rakhakara, bAta ko TAlane se usakA nikAla ho sakatA hai? dAdAzrI : nahIM ho sktaa| hameM to sAmanevAlA mile to kaise ho? kaise nahIM? aise kahanA caahie| sAmanevAlA jarA zora macAe to hameM z2arA dhIre rahakara samabhAva se nikAla karanA caahie| usakA nikAla to karanA hI par3egA na, jaba-taba? bolanA baMda karoge usase kyA nikAla ho gayA? usase nikAla hotA nahIM hai, isalie to abolA khar3A hotA hai| abolA matalaba bojhA, jisakA nikAla nahIM huA usakA bojhaa| hama to turanta use khar3A rakhakara kaheM, 'khar3e raho na, hamArI koI bhUla ho to mujhe kho|' merI bahuta bhUleM hotI haiN| Apa to bahuta hoziyAra, par3he-likhe, isalie ApakI nahIM hotI, para maiM par3hA-likhA kama hU~ isalie merI bahuta bhUleM hotI haiN| aisA kaheM taba phira vaha khuza ho jAtA hai| praznakartA : aisA karane se vaha narama nahIM par3e to kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : taba hama kahanA baMda kara deN| use aisA koI ulTA jJAna ho gayA hotA hai ki 'bahuta name naadaan'| vahA~ phira dUra rahanA caahie| phira jo hisAba hoe vaha khraa| parantu jitane sarala ho na vahA~ to hala lA denA caahie| hama, ghara meM kauna-kauna sarala haiM aura kauna-kauna Ter3he haiM, aisA nahIM samajhate? praznakartA : sAmanevAlA sarala nahIM ho to usake sAtha hameM vyavahAra tor3a DAlanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : nahIM tor3anA caahie| vyavahAra tor3ane se TUTatA nahIM hai| vyavahAra tor3ane se TUTe aisA hai bhI nhiiN| isalie hameM vahA~ mauna rahanA cAhie ki kisI dina cir3hegA taba phira apanA hisAba pUrA ho jaaegaa| hama mauna rakheM taba kisI dina vaha cir3he aura khuda hI bole ki Apa bolate nahIM, kitane dinoM se cupacApa phirate ho! aise cir3he yAnI hamArA kAma ho jaaegaa| taba kyA kareM phira? yaha to taraha-taraha kA lohA hotA hai, hameM saba pahacAna meM Ate haiN| kucha ko bahuta garama kareM to mur3a jAtA hai| kucha ko bhaTThI meM rakhanA par3atA hai phira jaldI se do hathauDe mAre ki sIdhA ho gyaa| ye to taraha-taraha ke lohe haiM ! isameM AtmA vaha AtmA hai, paramAtmA hai aura

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107 108 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra lohA vaha lohA hai| ye sabhI dhAtu haiN| saralatA se bhI sulajha jAe praznakartA : hameM ghara meM kisI vastu kA dhyAna rahatA nahIM ho, gharavAle hameM dhyAna rakho, dhyAna rakho kahate hoM. phira bhI na rahe to usa samaya kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : kucha bhI nahIM, gharavAle kaheM, 'dhyAna rakho, dhyAna rkho|' taba hameM kahanA ki hA~, rkhuNgaa| hameM dhyAna rakhane kA nizcita karanA hai| phira bhI dhyAna na rahA aura kuttA ghusa gayA taba kaho ki mujhe dhyAna nahIM rhtaa| usakA hala to lAnA par3egA na? hameM khada bhI kisI ne dhyAna rakhane kA sauMpA ho aura hama dhyAna rakheM, phira bhI nahIM rahA to kaha dete haiM ki bhAI yaha nahIM raha sakA hmse| aisA hai na hama bar3I umra ke haiM, aisA dhyAna na rahe to kAma ho| bAlaka jaisI avasthA ho to 'samabhAve nikAla' acchA hotA hai| hama to bAlaka jaise haiM, isalie hama jaisA hotA hai vaisA kaha dete haiM, aise bhI kaha dete haiM aura vaise bhI kaha dete haiM, bahuta bar3appana kyA karanA? kasauTI Ae vaha puNyavAna kahalAte haiM ! isalie ukela lAnA, jhaka nahIM pakar3anI hai| hameM apane Apa apanA doSa kaha denA caahie| nahIM to ve kahate ho taba hameM khuza honA cAhie ki 'ohoho! Apa merA doSa jAna gae! bahuta acchA kiyA! ApakI buddhi hama jAnate nhiiN| ....sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna karAo na? koI bhUla hogI. to sAmanevAlA kahatA hogA na? isalie bhUla khatama kara DAlo na! isa jagata meM koI jIva kisI ko takalIpha de sakatA nahIM hai, aisA svataMtra hai, aura takalIpha dete haiM vaha parva kI dakhala kI huI thI islie| usa bhUla ko miTA do phira hisAba rahegA nhiiN| _ 'lAla jhaMDI' koI dhare to samajha jAnA ki isameM apanI koI bhUla hai| yAnI hama logoM ko use pUchanA cAhie ki bhAI 'lAla jhaMDI' kyoM kleza rahita jIvana dikhAte ho? taba vaha kahe ki, 'Apane aisA kyoM kiyA thA?' taba hama usase mAfI mA~ga leM aura kaheM ki 'aba tU harI jhaMDI dikhAegA na?' taba vaha hA~ khegaa| hameM koI lAla jhaMDI dikhAtA hI nhiiN| hama to sabhI kI harI jhaMDI dekhate haiM, usake bAda Age calate haiN| koI eka vyakti bhI lAla jhaMDI nikalate samaya dikhAe to use pUchate haiM ki bhAI tU kyoM lAla jhaMDI dikhAtA hai? taba vaha kahe ki Apa to usa tArIkha ko jAnevAle the para pahale kyoM jA rahe ho? taba hama use samajhAte haiM ki, 'yaha kAma A par3A isIlie jabaradastI jAnA par3a rahA hai!' taba vaha sAmane se kahegA ki taba to Apa jAo, jAo, koI parezAnI nahIM hai| yaha to terI hI bhUla ke kAraNa loga lAla jhaMDI dikhAte haiN| para yadi tU usakA khulAsA kare to jAne deNge| para yaha to koI lAla jhaMDI dikhAe taba phira mUrkha zora macA detA hai, 'jaMgalI, jaMgalI, beakkala, lAla jhaMDI dikhAtA hai?' aise DA~TatA hai| are, yaha to tUne nayA khar3A kiyaa| koI lAla jhaMDI dikhAtA hai arthAt 'dera iz2a samathiMga roNg|' koI aise hI lAla jhaMDI dikhAtA nhiiN| jhagar3A, roz2a to kaise pusAe? dAdAzrI : ghara meM jhagar3e hote haiM? praznakartA : haaN| dAdAzrI : mAilDa hote haiM yA vAstava meM hote haiM? praznakartA : vAstava meM bhI hote haiM, parantu dUsare dina bhUla jAte haiN| dAdAzrI : bhUla nahIM jAo to karoge kyA? bhUla jAe~ to bhI vApisa jhagar3A hotA hai na? bhUleM na hoM to vApisa jhagar3A kauna kare? bar3e-bar3e baMgaloM meM rahate haiM, pA~ca jane rahate haiM, phira bhI jhagar3A karate haiN| kudarata khAne-pIne kA detI hai, taba loga jhagar3A karate haiM ! ye loga jhagar3e, kleza, kalaha karane meM sUramA haiN|

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 109 jahA~ lar3AI-jhagar3e haiM, vaha aMDaraDevalapDa prajA hai| sAra nikAlanA AtA nahIM isalie lar3AI-jhagar3e hote haiN| jitane manuSya haiM utane dharma alaga-alaga haiN| para khuda ke dharma kA maMdira banAe kisa taraha? bAkI dharma to haraeka ke alaga haiN| upAzraya meM sAmAyika karate haiM, vaha bhI haraeka kI alaga-alaga hotI haiN| are, kitane to pIche baiThe-baiThe kaMkar3a mArA karate haiM, vaha bhI unakI sAmAyika karate haiM na? isameM dharma rahA nahIM, marma rahA nhiiN| yadi dharma bhI rahA hotA to ghara meM jhagar3e nahIM hote| hote to vaha mahIne meM ekAdha bAra hote| amAvasa mahIne meM eka dina hI AtI hai na? praznakartA : haaN| dAdAzrI : ye to tIsoM dina amaavs| jhagar3e meM kyA milatA hogA? praznakartA : nukasAna milatA hai| dAdAzrI : ghATe kA vyApAra to koI kare hI nahIM na! koI kahatA nahIM ki nukasAna kA vyApAra karo! kucha naphA kamAte to hoMge na? praznakartA : jhagar3e meM AnaMda AtA hogA! dAdAzrI : yaha dUSamakAla hai isalie zAMti rahatI nahIM hai, vaha jalA huA dUsare ko jalAe taba use zAMti hotI hai| koI AnaMda meM ho, vaha use acchA nahIM lagatA, isalie palItA dAgakara vaha jAe, taba use zAMti hotI hai| aisA jagat kA svabhAva hai| bAkI, jAnavara bhI vivekavAle hote haiM, ve jhagar3ate nahIM haiN| kutte bhI haiM, ve khuda ke muhallevAle hoM unake sAtha aMdara-aMdara nahIM jhagar3ate haiN| bAhara ke muhallevAle Ae~ taba saba sAtha milakara unake sAtha lar3ate haiN| jaba ki ye mUrkha aMdara-aMdara lar3ate haiN| ye loga vivekazUnya ho gae haiN| 'jhagar3AprUpha' ho jAne jaisA hai praznakartA : hameM jhagar3A nahIM karanA ho, hama kabhI bhI jhagar3A hI 110 kleza rahita jIvana nahIM karate hoM phira bhI ghara meM saba sAmane se roz2a jhagar3e karate raheM to vahA~ kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : hameM jhagar3AprUpha ho jAnA caahie| jhagar3AprUpha hoMge tabhI isa saMsAra meM raha paaeNge| hama Apako jhagaDAprapha banA deNge| jhagaDA karanevAlA bhI Uba jAe aisA hamArA svarUpa honA caahie| varlDa meM koI bhI hameM Dipresa na kara sake aisA caahie| hamAre jhagar3AprUpha ho jAne ke bAda jhaMjhaTa hI nahIM na? logoM ko jhagaDe karane hoM, gAliyA~ denI ho taba bhI harja nahIM aura phira bhI bezarma nahIM kahalAe~, ulTe jAgRti bahuta bddh'egii| bairabIja meM se jhagar3oM kA udbhava ___ pahale jo jhagar3e kie the unake baira ba~dhate haiM aura ve Aja jhagar3e ke rUpa meM cukAe jAte haiN| jhagar3A ho, usI ghaDI baira kA bIja par3a jAtA hai, vaha agale bhava meM ugegaa| praznakartA : to vaha bIja kisa taraha se dUra ho? dAdAzrI : dhIre-dhIre 'samabhAve nikAla' karate raho to dUra hogaa| bahuta bhArI bIja par3A ho to dera lagegI, zAMti rakhanI pddegii| apanA kucha bhI koI le letA nahIM hai| khAne kA do TAima milatA hai, kapar3e milate haiM, phira kyA cAhie? kamare ko tAlA lagAkara jAe, para hameM do TAima khAne kA milatA hai yA nahIM milatA, utanA hI dekhanA hai| hameM baMda karake jAe taba bhI kucha nahIM, hama so jaaeN| pUrvabhava ke baira aise ba~dhe hue hote haiM ki hameM tAle meM baMda karake jaaeN| baira aura phira nAsamajhI se ba~dhA huaa| samajhavAlA ho to hama samajha jAe~ ki yaha samajhavAlA hai, taba bhI hala A jaae| aba nAsamajhIvAlA ho vahA~ kisa taraha hala aae| isalie vahA~ bAta ko chor3a denI caahie| jJAna se, bairabIja chUTe aba baira saba chor3a dene haiN| isIlie kabhI hamAre pAsa se svarUpajJAna

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra prApta kara lenA tAki sabhI baira chUTa jaaeN| isI bhava meM hI saba baira chor3a dene haiM, hama Apako rAstA dikhaaeNge| saMsAra meM loga Ubakara mauta kisalie DhU~Dhate haiM? ye upAdhiyA~ pasaMda nahIM haiM, islie| bAta to samajhanI par3egI na? kaba taka muzkila meM par3e rahoge? yaha to kIr3e-makoDoM jaisA jIvana ho gayA hai| nirI taraphar3AhaTa, taraphar3AhaTa aura trphddaahtt| manuSya meM Ane ke bAda phira taraphar3ATa kyoM ho? jo brahmAMDa kA mAlika kahalAe usakI yaha dazA! sArA jagat taraphar3AhaTa meM hai aura taraphar3AhaTa meM na ho to mUrchA meM hotA hai| ina donoM ke alAvA bAhara jagat nahIM hai| aura t jJAnaghana AtmA ho gayA to dakhala gyaa| jaisA abhiprAya vaisA asara 112 kleza rahita jIvana Apako abhiprAya vApisa badalanA nahIM ho to alaga bAta hai| abhiprAya apanA badale nahIM to apanA kiyA huA kharA hai| vApisa yadi vAipha ke sAtha baiThanevAle hI na hoM to jhagar3e vaha ThIka hai| para yaha to kala vApisa sAtha meM baiThakara bhojana karanevAle ho, to phira kala nATaka kiyA usakA kyA? vaha vicAra karanA par3egA na? ye loga tila seka-sekakara bote haiM, isalie sArI mehanata bekAra jAtI hai| jhagar3e ho rahe hoM taba lakSya meM honA cAhie ki ye karma nAca nacA rahe haiN| phira usa 'nAca' kA jJAnapUrvaka hala lAnA caahie| praznakartA : dAdA, yaha to jhagar3A karanevAle donoM vyaktiyoM ko samajhanA cAhie na? praznakartA : Dhola bajatA ho to, ciDhanevAle ko cir3ha kyoM hotI dAdAzrI : vaha to mAnA ki 'pasaMda nahIM hai islie| yaha Dhola baja rahA ho to hameM kahanA ki 'ahoho! Dhola bahata acchA baja rahA hai!' isalie phira aMdara kucha nahIM hogaa| yaha kharAba hai' aisA abhiprAya diyA to aMdara sArI mazInarI bigar3a jAtI hai| apane ko to nATakIya bhASA meM kahanA hai ki 'bahuta acchA Dhola bjaayaa|' isase aMdara chUtA nhiiN| yaha 'jJAna' milA hai isalie saba 'pemenTa' kiyA jA sakatA hai| vikaTa saMyogoM meM to jJAna bahuta hitakArI hai, jJAna kA 'TesTiMga' ho jAtA hai| jJAna kI roja 'prekTisa' karane jAe~ to kucha 'TesTiMga' nahIM hotaa| vaha to ekabAra vikaTa saMyoga A jAe to saba 'TesTeDa' ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : nA, yaha to 'saba-sabakI sNbhaalo|' hama loga sudhareM to sAmanelAvA sudharatA hai| yaha to vicAraNA hai, aura eka ghar3I bAda meM sAtha baiThanA hai to kalaha kisalie? zAdI kI hai to kalaha kisalie? Apa bIte kala ko bhulA cuke hoM aura hameM to sArI kI sArI vastu 'jJAna' meM hAjira hotI haiN| jaba ki yaha to sadvicAraNA hai aura 'jJAna' na ho use bhI kAma aae| yaha ajJAna se mAnatA hai ki vaha car3ha baitthegii| koI hameM pUche to hama kaheM ki tU bhI laTTa aura vaha bhI laTTa to kisa taraha car3ha baiThegI? vaha koI usake basa meM hai? vaha to 'vyavasthita' ke basa meM hai aura vAipha car3hakara kahA~ Upara baiThanevAlI hai? Apa jarA jhuka jAo to usa bicArI ke mana meM bhI aramAna pUrA hogA ki aba pati mere kAbU meM hai| yAnI saMtoSa ho use| zaMkA, vaha bhI lar3AI-jhagar3e kA kAraNa ghara meM adhikatara lar3AI-jhagar3e abhI zaMkA se khar3e ho jAte haiN| yaha kaisA hai ki zaMkA se spaMdana uThate haiM aura spaMdanoM ke visphoTa hote haiN| aura yadi ni:zaMka ho jAe na to visphoTa apane Apa zAMta ho jaae| patipatnI donoM zaMkAvAle ho jAe~ to phira visphoTa kisa taraha zAMta hoM? eka ko to ni:zaMka honA hI pdd'egaa| mA~-bApa ke lar3AI-jhagar3oM se baccoM ke yaha sadvicAraNA, kitanI acchI hama to itanA jAnate haiM ki jhagar3ane ke bAda vAipha ke sAtha vyavahAra hI nahIM rakhanA ho to alaga bAta hai| parantu vApisa bolanA hai to phira bIca kI sArI hI bhASA galata hai| hameM to yaha lakSya meM hI hotA hai ki do ghaMTe bAda vApisa bolanA hai, isalie usake sAtha kaca-kaca nahIM kreN| yaha to,

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra saMskAra bigar3ate haiN| baccoM ke saMskAra nahIM bigar3e isalie donoM ko samajhakara samAdhAna lAnA caahie| yaha zaMkA nikAle kauna? apanA 'jJAna' to saMpUrNa ni:zaMka banAe aisA hai| AtmA kI anaMta zaktiyA~ haiN| aisI vANI ko nibAha leM yaha tipAI lage to hama use gunahagAra nahIM mAnate, para dUsarA koI mAre to use gunahagAra mAnate haiN| kuttA hameM kATe nahIM aura khAlI bhauMkatA rahe to hama use calA lete haiM na! yadi manuSya hAtha nahIM uThAtA ho aura kevala bhauMke to nibhA lenA nahIM cAhie? bhauMkanA yAnI Tu spik| bArka yAnI bhauNknaa| 'yaha patnI bahuta bhauMkatI rahatI hai' aisA bolate haiM na? ye vakIla bhI korTa meM bhauMkate nahIM? vaha jaja donoM ko bhauMkate hue dekhatA rahatA hai| ye vakIla nirlepatA se bhauMkate haiM na? korTa meM to Amane-sAmane 'Apa aise ho, Apa vaise ho, Apa hamAre asIla para aise jhUThA Aropa lagAte ho' bhauMkate haiN| hameM aisA lagatA hai ki ye donoM bAhara nikalakara mArAmArI kareMge, parantu bAhara nikalane ke bAda dekheM to donoM sAtha meM baiThakara ArAma se cAya pI rahe hote haiM! praznakartA : vaha DrAmeTika lar3anA kahalAe na? dAdAzrI : naa| vaha totAmastI kahalAtI hai| DrAmeTika to 'jJAnI puruSa' ke alAvA kisI ko AtA nahIM hai| tote mastI karate haiM to hama ghabarA jAte haiM ki ye abhI mara jAeMge, lekina nahIM mrte| ve to yoM hI coMca mArA karate haiN| kisI ko lage nahIM aise coMca mArate haiN| hama vANI ko rikArDa kahate haiM na? rikArDa bajA karatI ho ki caMdU meM akkala nahIM, caMdU meM akkala nhiiN| taba apane ko bhI gAne laganA ki caMdU meM akkala nhiiN| mamatA ke peca kholeM kisa taraha? pUre dina kAma karate-karate bhI pati ke pratikramaNa karate rahanA caahie| eka dina meM chaha mahIne kA baira dhula jAegA aura AdhA dina ho 114 kleza rahita jIvana to mAno na tIna mahIne to kama ho jaaeNge| zAdI se pahale pati ke sAtha mamatA thI? naa| to mamatA kaba se baMdhI? zAdI ke samaya maMDapa meM AmanesAmane baiThe, taba usane nizcita kiyA ki ye mere pati aae| jarA moTe haiM, aura kAle haiN| isake bAda usane bhI nizcita kiyA ki ye merI patnI aaii| taba se merA-merA' ke jo peca ghumAe, ve cakkara ghUmate hI rahate haiN| paMdraha varSoM kI yaha philma hai, use 'nahIM haiM mere, nahIM haiM mere' karegA taba ve peca khuleMge aura mamatA ttuuttegii| yaha to zAdI huI taba se abhiprAya khar3e hue, prejuDisa khar3A huA ki 'ye aise haiM, vese haiN|' usase pahale kucha thA? aba to hameM mana meM nizcita karanA hai ki, 'jo hai, vo yahI hai|' aura hama khuda pasaMda karake lAe haiN| aba kyA pati badalA jA sakatA hai? sabhI jagaha pha~sAva! kahA~ jAe~? jisakA rAstA nahIM use kyA kahA jAe? jisakA rAstA nahIM ho usake pIche ronA-dhonA nahIM krte| yaha anivArya jagat hai| ghara meM patnI kA klezavAlA svabhAva pasaMda nahIM ho, bar3e bhAI kA svabhAva pasaMda nahIM ho, isa tarapha pitAjI kA svabhAva pasaMda nahIM ho, aise Tole meM manuSya pha~sa jAe taba bhI rahanA par3atA hai| kahA~ jAe para? isa pha~sAva se cir3ha macatI hai, para jAe kahA? cAroM tarapha bAr3a hai| samAja kI bAr3a hotI hai| samAja mujhe kyA kahegA?' sarakAra kI bhI bADeM hotI haiN| yadi parezAna hokara jalasamAdhi lene juhU ke kinAre jAe to pulisavAle pkdd'eN| are bhAI, mujhe AtmahatyA karane de na caina se, marane de na caina se|' taba vaha kahe, 'nA, marane bhI nahIM diyA jA sktaa| yahA~ to AtmahatyA karane ke prayAsa kA gunAha kiyA isalie tujhe jela meM DAlate haiN|' marane bhI nahIM dete aura jIne bhI nahIM dete, isakA nAma saMsAra! isalie raho na caina se... aura sigareTa pIkara so nahIM jAe~? aisA yaha anivAryatAvAlA jagat! marane bhI nahIM de aura jIne bhI nahIM de| isalie jaise-taise karake eDajasTa hokara TAima bitA denA cAhie tAki udhAra cuka jaae| kisI kA paccIsa varSa kA, kisI kA paMdraha varSa kA, kisI kA tIsa varSa kA, jabaradastI hameM udhAra pUrA karanA par3atA hai|

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 115 nahIM pasaMda ho taba bhI usI ke usI kamare meM sAtha meM rahanA par3atA hai| yahA~ bistara memasAhaba kA aura yahA~ bistara bhAIsAhaba kaa| mu~ha Ter3he phirAkara so jAe~, taba bhI vicAra meM to memasAhaba ko bhAIsAhaba hI Ate haiM na? chuTakArA hI nahIM hai| yaha jagat hI aisA hai| usameM bhI hameM ve akele pasaMda nahIM haiM aisA nahIM hai, unheM bhI vApisa hama pasaMda nahIM hote haiM ! isalie isameM maz2e lene jaisA nahIM hai| isa saMsAra ke jhaMjhaTa meM vicArazIla ko pusAtA nahIM hai| jo vicArazIla nahIM hai, use to yaha jhaMjhaTa hai usakA bhI patA nahIM calatA hai| vaha moTA khAtA kahalAtA hai| jaise ki kAna se baharA manuSya ho usake sAmane usakI cAhe jitanI gupta bAteM kareM, usase kyA parezAnI hai? aisA aMdara bhI baharA hotA hai saba isalie use yaha jaMjAla pusAtA hai, bAkI jagat meM maje DhU~Dhane jAtA hai to isameM to bhAI koI maz2A hotA hogA? polampola kaba taka DhaMkanI? yaha to sArA banAvaTI jagat hai! aura ghara meM kalaha karake, rokara aura vApisa mu~ha dhokara bAhara nikalatA hai!! hama pUche, 'kaise ho caMdUbhAI?' taba vaha kahe, 'bahuta acchA hai|' are, terI A~kha meM to pAnI hai, mu~ha dhokara AyA hai| para A~kha to lAla dikhatI hai na? isake badale to kaha DAla na ki mere vahA~ yaha du:kha hai| ye to sabhI aisA samajhate haiM ki dusare ke vahA~ duHkha nahIM hai| mere yahA~ hI duHkha hai| nA, are saba hI roe haiN| haraeka ghara se rokara mu~ha dhokara bAhara nikale haiN| yaha bhI eka Azcarya hai ! mu~ha dhokara kisalie nikalate ho? dhoe bagaira nikalo to logoM ko patA cale ki isa saMsAra meM kitanA sukha hai ! maiM rotA huA bAhara nikalU~, tU rotA huA bAhara nikale, sabhI rote hue bAhara nikaleM taba phira patA cala jAe ki yaha jagat pola hI hai| choTI umra meM pitAjI mara gae to zamazAna meM roterote gae! vApisa Akara nahAe, yAnI kucha bhI nahIM!! nahAne kA ina logoM ne sikhlaayaa| nahalA-dhulAkara cokhA kara dete haiM ! aisA yaha jagat hai! sabhI mu~ha dhokara bAhara nikale hue haiM, saba pakke tthg| usake badale to khulA kiyA hotA to acchaa| kleza rahita jIvana hamAre 'mahAtmAoM' meM se kucha mahAtmA khulA kara dete haiM ki 'dAdA, Aja to patnI ne mujhe maaraa|' itanI adhika saralatA kisa kAraNa se AI? apane jJAna ke kAraNa aaii| 'dAdA' ko to sArI hI bAta kahI jA sakatI haiN| aisI saralatA AI, vahIM se hI mokSa jAne kI nizAnI hii| aisI saralatA hotI nahIM hai na? mokSa meM jAne ke lie sarala hI honA hai| yaha bAhara to pati chITa chITa kiyA karatA hai| patnI kI mAra khada khA rahA ho, phira bhI bAhara kahatA hai ki, 'nA, nA, vaha to merI beTI ko mAra rahI thI!' are, maiMne khuda tujhe mAra khAte hue dekhA thA na? usakA kyA artha? miiniNgles| isase to saca saca kaha de na! AtmA ko kahA~ mArane kA hai? hama AtmA haiM, mAreMge to deha ko maareNge| apane AtmA kA to koI apamAna hI nahIM kara sktaa| kyoMki 'hameM' vaha dekhe to apamAna kare na? dekhe binA kisa taraha apamAna kare? deha ko to yaha bhaiMsa nahIM mAra jAtI? vahA~ nahIM kahate ki isa bhaiMsa ne mujhe mArA? isa bhaiMsa se to ghara kI patnI bar3I nahIM hai? usameM kyA? kisa kI AbarU jAnevAlI hai? AbarU hai hI kahA~? isa jagat meM kitane jIva rahate haiM? koI kapar3e pahanatA hai? AbarUvAle kapar3e pahanate hI nhiiN| jisakI AbarU nahIM hai, ve kapar3e pahanakara AbarU ba~kA karate haiM, jahA~ se phaTe vahA~ silate rahate haiN| koI dekha jAegA, koI dekha jAegA! are, sila-silakara kitane dina taka AbarU rakhegA? silI huI AbarU rahatI nahIM hai| AbarU to jahA~ nIti hai, pramANikatA hai, dayA hai, lagAva hai, oNblAijiMga necara hai, vahA~ hai| ... aise pha~sAva bar3hatA gayA yaha roTI aura sabjI ke lie zAdI krii| pati samajhe ki maiM kamAkara lAU~, para yaha khAnA kauna banAkara degA? patnI samajhatI hai ki maiM roTI banAtI to hU~ para kamAkara kauna degA? aisA karake donoM ne zAdI kI. aura sahakArI maMDalI bnaaii| phira bacce bhI hoMge hii| eka laukI kA bIja boyA, phira laukI lagatI rahatI hai ki nahIM lagatI rahatI? bela ke patte-patte para laukI lagatI hai| aisA ye manuSya bhI laukI kI taraha ugate rahate haiN| laukI kI bela aisA nahIM bolatI ki ye merI laukiyA~ haiN| ye manuSya akele hI

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 117 bolate haiM ki ye merI laukiyA~ haiN| yaha buddhi kA durupayoga kiyA, buddhi para nirbhara rahI isalie manuSya jAti nirAzrita khlaaii| dUsare koI jIva buddhi para nirbhara nahIM haiN| isalie ve saba Azrita kahalAte haiN| Azrita ko du:kha nahIM hotaa| inheM hI sArA duHkha hotA hai| ye vikalpI sukhoM ke lie bhaTakA karate haiM. para patnI sAmanA kare taba usa sukha kA patA calatA hai ki yaha saMsAra bhogane jaisA nahIM hai| para yaha to turanta hI mUrcchita ho jAtA hai| moha kA itanA sArA mAra khAtA hai, usakA bhAna bhI rahatA nahIM hai| bIvI rUThI huI ho taba taka 'yA allAha paravaradigAra' karatA hai aura bIvI bolane AI taba phira miyA~bhAI taiyAra! phira allAha aura bAkI saba eka tarapha raha jAtA hai! kitanI ulajhana! aise koI du:kha miTa jAnevAle haiM? ghar3Ibhara tU allAha ke pAsa jAe to kyA du:kha miTa jAegA? jitanA samaya vahA~ rahegA utanA samaya aMdara sulagatA baMda ho jAegA jarA, para phira vApisa kAyama kI sigar3I sulagA hI kregii| niraMtara prakaTa agni kahalAtI hai, ghar3Ibhara bhI sukha nahIM hotA! jaba taka zaddhAtmA svarUpa prApta nahIM hotA, khuda kI dRSTi meM 'maiM zuddha svarUpa hU~', aisA bhAna nahIM hotA taba taka sigar3I sulagA hI kregii| zAdI meM bhI beTI kA byAha karavA rahe hoM taba bhI aMdara sulaga rahA hotA hai ! niraMtara saMtApa rahA karatA hai| saMsAra yAnI kyA? jNjaal| yaha deha lipaTA hai, vaha bhI jaMjAla hai! jaMjAla ko to bhalA zauka hotA hogA? usakA zauka hotA hai, vaha bhI Azcarya hai na! machalI pakar3ane kA jAla alaga aura yaha jAla alaga! machalI ke jAla meM se kATa-kUTakara nikalA bhI jA sakatA hai, para isameM se nikalA hI nahIM jA sktaa| TheTha arathI nikalatI hai taba nikalA jAtA hai| .....use to 'laTakatI salAma!' isameM sukha nahIM, vaha samajhanA to par3egA na? bhAI apamAna kareM, memasAhaba bhI apamAna kareM, bacce apamAna kareM! yaha to sArA nATakIya vyavahAra hai, bAkI inameM se koI sAtha meM thoDe hI AnevAlA haiM? 118 kleza rahita jIvana Apa khuda zuddhAtmA aura ye saba vyavahAra upalaka hai yAnI ki suparaphluasa karane ke haiN| khuda 'homa DipArTamenTa' meM rahanA hai aura 'faoNrena' meM 'suparaphlUasa' rahanA hai| 'suparaphlaasa' yAnI tanmayAkAra vRtti nahIM, DrAmeTika vaha / khAlI yaha 'DrAmA' hI khelanA hai| 'DrAmA' meM nukasAna huA taba bhI ha~sanA aura naphA huA taba bhI hNsnaa| 'DrAmA' meM dikhAvA bhI karanA par3atA hai, nukasAna huA ho to usakA dikhAvA karanA par3atA hai| mu~ha para bolate bhI haiM ki bahuta nukasAna huA, para bhItara tanmayAkAra nahIM hoN| hameM 'laTakatI salAma' rakhanI hai| kaI loga nahIM kahate ki bhAI, mujhe to isake sAtha laTakatI salAma' jaisA saMbaMdha hai| usI taraha sAre jagat ke sAtha rahanA hai| jise 'laTakatI salAma' pUre jagat ke sAtha A gaI, vaha jJAnI ho gyaa| isa deha ke sAtha bhI laTakatI salAma'! hama niraMtara sabhI ke sAtha 'laTakatI salAma' rakhate haiM, phira bhI saba kahate haiM ki, 'Apa hama para bahuta acchA bhAva rakhate haiN|' maiM vyavahAra sabhI karatA hU~ para AtmA meM rhkr| praznakartA : bahuta bAra bar3A lar3AI-jhagar3A ghara meM ho jAtA hai| taba kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : samajhadAra manuSya ho na to lAkha rupaye deM taba bhI lar3AIjhagar3A nahIM kare, aura yaha to binA paise lar3AI-jhagar3A karatA hai, to vaha anAr3I nahIM to kyA hai? bhagavAna mahAvIra ko karma khapAne ke lie sATha mIla calakara anArya kSetra meM jAnA par3A thA, aura Aja ke loga puNyavAna isalie ghara baiThe anArya kSetra hai! kaise dhanya bhAgya! yaha to atyaMta lAbhadAyaka hai karma khapAne ke lie, yadi sIdhA rahe to| eka ghaMTe kA gunAha, daMDa z2indagI pUrI eka ghaMTe naukara ko, bacce ko yA patnI ko jhir3akA ho-dhamakAyA ho, to vaha phira pati banakara yA sAsa banakara Apako sArI jindagI kucalate raheMge! nyAya to cAhie ki nahIM cAhie? yaha bhugatane kA hai| Apa kisI ko du:kha doge to du:kha Apake lie pUrI z2indagI kA aaegaa| eka hI ghaMTA du:kha do to usakA phala pUrI z2indagI milegaa| phira zora macAte

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 119 ho ki, 'patnI mujhe aisA kyoM karatI hai?' patnI ko aisA hotA hai ki, 'pati ke sAtha mujhase aisA kyoM hotA hai?' use bhI du:kha hotA hai, para kyA ho? phira maiMne unase pUchA ki 'patnI Apako DhU~Dha lAI thI yA Apa patnI ko ha~Dha lAe the?' taba vaha kahatA hai ki 'maiM DhU~Dha lAyA thaa|' taba usakA kyA doSa becArI kA? le Ane ke bAda ulTA nikale, usameM vaha kyA kare? kahA~ jAe phira? kacha patniyA~ to pati ko mAratI bhI hai| pativratA strI ko to aisA sunane se bhI pApa lagatA hai ki aise patnI pati ko mAratI praznakartA : jo puruSa mAra khAe to vaha strI jaisA kahalAegA na? dAdAzrI : aisA hai, mAra khAnA koI puruSa kI kamajorI nahIM hai| para usake yaha RNAnubaMdha aise hote haiM, patnI duHkha dene ke lie hI AI hotI hai vaha hisAba cukAtI hI hai| pagalA ahaMkara, to lar3AI-jhagar3A karavAe saMsAra meM lar3AI-jhagar3e kI bAta hI nahIM karanI, vaha to roga kahalAtA hai| lar3anA vaha ahaMkAra hai, khulA ahaMkAra hai, vaha pAgala ahaMkAra kahalAtA hai| mana meM aisA mAnatA hai ki 'mere binA calegA nhiiN|' kisI ko DA~Tane meM to apane ko ulTA bojhA lagatA hai. nirA sira paka jAtA hai| laDane kA kisI ko zauka hotA hogA? ___ ghara meM sAmanevAlA pache, salAha mA~ge to hI javAba denA caahie| binA pUche salAha dene baiTha jAe use bhagavAna ne ahaMkAra kahA hai| pati pUche ki 'ye pyAle kahA~ rakhane haiM?' to patnI javAba detI hai ki 'phalA~ jagaha para rakha do|' to hama vahA~ rakha deN| usake badale meM kaheM ki 'tujhe akkala nahIM, kahA~ rakhane ko tU kahatI hai?' usa para patnI kahe ki 'apanI akkala se rkho|' isakA kahA~ pAra Ae? yaha saMyogoM kA TakarAva hai| isalie laTU khAte samaya, uThate samaya TakarAyA hI karate haiN| phira laTU TakarAte haiM, chila jAte haiM aura khUna nikalatA hai| yaha to mAnasika khUna nikalatA hai na! vo khUna nikalatA ho taba to acchA, 120 kleza rahita jIvana paTTI lagAe to ruka jAtA hai| isa mAnasika ghAva para to paTTiyA~ bhI nahIM lagatIM koii| aisI vANI bolane jaisI nahIM hai ghara meM kisI se kucha kahanA, vaha sabase bar3A ahaMkAra kA roga hai| apanA-apanA hisAba lekara hI Ae haiM sabhI! hara eka kI apanI dADhI ugatI hai, hameM kisI se kahanA nahIM par3atA ki dADhI kyoM ugAtA nahIM? vaha to use ugatI hI hai| saba sabakI A~khoM se dekhate haiM, saba sabake kAnoM se sunate haiN| yaha dakhala karane kI kyA z2arUrata hai? eka akSara bhI bolanA mt| isalie hama yaha 'vyavasthita' kA jJAna dete haiN| avyavasthita kabhI bhI hotA hI nahIM hai| avyavasthita dikhatA hai vaha bhI 'vyavasthita' hI hai| isalie bAta hI samajhanI hai| kabhI pataMga gotA khAe taba DorI khIMca lenI hai| DorI aba apane hAtha meM hai| jisake hAtha meM DorI nahIM hai usakI pataMga gotA khAe, to kyA kare? DorI hAtha meM hai nahIM aura zora macAtA hai ki merI pataMga ne gotA khaayaa| ghara meM eka akSara bhI bolanA baMda kara do| 'jJAnI' ke alAvA kisI se zabda bolA nahIM jA sktaa| kyoMki 'jJAnI' kI vANI kaisI hotI hai? parecchAnusAra hotI hai, dUsaroM kI icchA ke AdhAra para ve bolate haiN| unheM kisalie bolanA par3atA hai? unakI vANI to dUsaroM kI icchA pUrNa hone ke lie nikalatI hai| aura dUsare to boleM usase pahale to sabakA adaMra se hila jAtA hai, bhayaMkara pApa lagatA hai, z2arA-sA bhI bolanA nahIM caahie| jarA-sA bhI bole to vaha kaca-kaca kahalAtA hai| bola to kise kahate haiM ki sunate rahane kA mana ho, DA~TeM taba bhI vaha sunanA acchA lge| ye to jarA bole, usase pahale hI bacce kahate haiM ki 'cAcA aba kaca-kaca karanI rahane do| binA kAma ke dakhala kara rahe ho|' DA~TA huA kaba kAma kA? pUrvagraha nahIM ho to| pUrvagraha matalaba mana meM yAda hotA hI hai ki kala isane aisA kiyA thA aura aise jhagar3A thA, isalie yaha aisA hI hai| ghara meM jhagar3e use bhagavAna ne mUrkha kahA hai| kisI ko duHkha deM, to bhI narka jAne kI nizAnI hai|

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra saMsAra nibhAne ke saMskAra-kahA~? manuSya ke alAvA dUsarA koI patipanA nahIM krtaa| are, Ajakala to DAyavaoNrsa lete haiM na? vakIla se kahate haiM ki, 'tujhe haz2Ara, do hajAra rupaye dUMgA, mujhe DAyavaoNrsa dilavA de|' taba vakIla kahegA ki 'hA~, dilavA duuNgaa|' are! tU le le na DAyavaoNrsa, dUsaroM ko kyA dilavAne nikalA hai? pahale ke samaya kI eka bur3hiyA kI bAta hai| ve cAcAjI kI terahI kara rahI thiiN| 'tere cAcA ko yaha bhAtA thA, vaha bhAtA thaa|' aisA kara-karake cAra pAI para vastue~ rakhatI jAtI thii| taba maiMne kahA, 'cAcI! Apa to cAcA ke sAtha roja lar3atI thii| cAcA bhI Apako bahuta bAra mArate the| taba yaha kyA?' taba cAcI ne kahA, 'lekina tere cAcA jaise pati mujhe phira nahIM mileNge|' ye apane hindustAna ke saMskAra ! pati kauna kahalAtA hai? saMsAra ko nibhAe use| patnI kauna kahalAtI hai? saMsAra ko nibhAe use| saMsAra ko tor3a DAle use patnI yA pati kaise kahA jAe? usane to apane gaNadharma hI kho die. aisA kahalAegA na? vAipha para gussA Ae to yaha maTakI thoDe hI pheMka doge? kucha to kapa-rakAbI pheMka dete haiM aura phira naye le Ate haiM! are, naye lAne the to phor3e kisalie? krodha meM aMdha bana jAtA hai aura hitAhita kA bhAna bhI kho detA hai| ye loga to pati bana baiThe haiN| pati to aisA honA cAhie ki patnI sArA dina pati kA mu~ha dekhatI rhe| praznakartA : zAdI se pahale bahuta dekhate haiN| dAdAzrI : vaha to jAla DAlatI hai| machalI aisA samajhatI hai ki yaha bahuta acche dayAlu vyakti hai, isalie merA kAma ho gyaa| para eka bAra khAkara to dekha, kA~TA pha~sa jaaegaa| yaha to pha~sAvavAlA hai sb| isameM prema jaisA kahA~ rahA? gharavAloM ke sAtha naphA huA kaba kahalAtA hai ki gharavAloM ko apane 122 kleza rahita jIvana Upara prema Ae, apane binA acchA nahIM lage aura kaba Ae~ge, kaba Ae~ge? aisA rahA kre| loga zAdI karate haiM para prema nahIM hai| yaha to mAtra viSayAsakti hai| prema ho to cAhe jitanA eka-dUsare meM virodhAbhAsa Ae, phira bhI prema nahIM jaataa| jahA~ prema nahIM hotA, vaha Asakti kahalAtI hai| Asakti matalaba saMDAsa! prema to pahale itanA sArA thA ki pati paradeza gayA ho aura vaha vApisa na Ae to sArI z2indagI usakA citta usImeM hI rahatA, dUsarA koI yAda hI nahIM AtA thaa| Aja to do sAla pati na Ae to dusarA pati kara letI hai, ise prema kaheMge? yaha to saMDAsa hai| jaise saMDAsa badalate haiM vaise! jo galana hai, vaha saMDAsa kahalAtA hai| prema meM to arpaNatA hotI hai| prema matalaba laganI lage vaha aura vaha sArA dina yAda AyA kre| zAdI do rUpa meM pariNamita hotI hai, kabhI AbAdI meM jAtI hai to kabhI barabAdI meM jAtI hai| prema bahuta ubhare taba vApisa baiTha jAtA hai| jo ubhare vaha Asakti hai| isIlie jahA~ ubhare usase dUra rhnaa| laganI to AMtarika honI caahie| bAhara kA baksA bigar3a jAe, sar3a jAe phira bhI prema utane kA utanA hI rhe| yaha to hAtha jala gayA ho aura hama kaheM ki, 'z2arA dhulavA do|' to pati kahe ki 'nA, mujhase nahIM dekhA jaataa|' are, usa dina to hAtha sahalAyA karatA thA, aura Aja kyoM aisA? yaha ghRNA kaise cale? jahA~ prema hai vahA~ ghRNA nahIM, aura jahA~ ghaNA hai vahA~ prema nhiiN| saMsArI prema bhI aisA honA cAhie ki jo ekadama kama na ho jAe aura ekadama bar3ha na jaae| normeliTI meM honA caahie| jJAnI kA prema to kabhI ghaTa-bar3ha nahIM hotA hai| vaha prema to alaga hI hotA hai| use paramAtmaprema kahA jAtA hai| normeliTI, sIkhane jaisI praznakartA : vyavahAra meM 'normeliTI' kI pahacAna kyA hai? dAdAzrI : saba kahate hoM ki, 'tU dera se uThatI hai, dera se uThatI hai', to hama nahIM samajha jAe~ ki yaha normeliTI kho gaI hai? rAta ko DhAI baje uThakara tU ghUmane lage to saba nahIM kaheMge ki 'itanI jaldI kyoM uThate

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 123 ho ?' ise bhI normeliTI kho DAlI khlaaegaa| normeliTI to sabhI ke sAtha eDajasTa ho jAe aisI hai| khAne meM bhI normeliTI cAhie, yadi peTa meM adhika DAlA ho to nIMda AyA karatI hai| hamArI khAne-pIne kI sabhI hI normeliTI Apa dekhanA / sone kI, uThane kI, saba hI hamArI normeliTI hotI hai| khAne baiThate haiM aura thAlI meM pIche se dUsarI miThAI rakha jAe~ to maiM aba usameM se thor3A-sA luuN| maiM pramANa badalane nahIM detaa| maiM jAnatA hU~ ki yaha dUsarA AyA, isalie sabjI nikAla ddaalo| Apako itanA saba karane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| Apako to dera se uThA jAtA ho to bolate rahanA ki yaha normeliTI meM nahIM rahA jaataa| isalie apane ko to aMdara khuda ko hI TokanA hai ki 'jaldI uThanA caahie|' vaha TokanA phAyadA kregaa| ise hI puruSArtha kahA hai| rAta ko raTate raho ki 'jaldI uThanA hai, jaldI uThanA hai|' jabaradastI jaldI uThane kA prayatna kareM, usase to dimAga bigdd'egaa| .... zaktiyA~ kitanI 'DAuna' gaI? praznakartA: pati vaha hI paramAtmA hai' vaha kyA galata hai? dAdAzrI : Aja ke patiyoM ko paramAtmA mAneM to ve pAgala hokara ghUmeM aise haiM ! eka pati apanI patnI se kahatA hai, 'tere sira para a~gAre rakhakara usa para roTiyA~ seka / ' mUla to baMdara chApa aura Upara se dArU pilAe, hai to usakI kyA dazA hogI ? puruSa to kaisA hotA hai? aise tejasvI puruSa hote haiM ki jinase haz2AroM striyA~ kA~pe / aise dekhane ke sAtha hI kA~pa utthe| Aja to pati aise ho gae haiM ki saliyA usakI patnI kA hAtha pakar3e to use vinatI karatA hai 'are saliyA chor3a de| merI bIvI hai, bIvI hai|' 'ghanacakkara, isameM saliyA se tU vinatI kara rahA hai? kisa taraha kA ghanacakkara paidA huA hai?' use to mAra, usakA galA pakar3a aura kATa khaa| aise usake paira par3A, vaha koI chor3a degA, vaisI jAta nahIM hai| taba vaha, 'pulisa, pulisa bacAo, bcaao|' karatA hai| 'are! tU pati hokara 'pulisa, pulisa' kyA kara rahA hai? pulisa 124 kleza rahita jIvana kA to kyA karanevAlA hai? tU jIvita hai yA marA huA hai? pulisa kI madada lenI ho to tU pati mata bananA / ghara kA mAlika 'hApha rAunDa' calegA hI nahIM, vaha to 'oNla rAunDa' caahie| kalama, kar3achI, barachI, tairanA, taskarI aura vivAda karanA ye chahoM / chaH kalAe~ nahIM AtIM to vaha manuSya nhiiN| cAhe jitanA gayA- bItA manuSya ho taba bhI usake sAtha eDajasTa honA Ae, dimAga khisake nahIM, taba kAma kA! bhar3akane se calegA nhiiN| jise khuda apane para vizvAsa hai use isa jagat meM sabakucha hI mile aisA hai, para yaha vizvAsa hI nahIM AtA na! kucha logoM ko to yaha bhI vizvAsa ur3a gayA hotA hai ki 'yaha vAipha sAtha meM rahegI yA nahIM rahegI? pA~ca sAla nibhegA yA nahIM nibhegA?' 'are, yaha bhI vizvAsa nahIM?' vizvAsa TUTA matalaba khatama / vizvAsa meM to anaMta zakti hai| bhale hI ajJAnatA meM vizvAsa ho| 'merA kyA hogA?' huA ki khatama ! isa kAla meM loga hakabakA gae haiM aura daur3atA-daur3atA A rahA ho aura use pUche ki, 'terA nAma kyA hai?' to vaha hakabakA jAtA hai| bhUla ke anusAra bhUlavAlA mile praznakartA : maiM vAipha ke sAtha bahuta eDajasTa hone jAtA hU~, para huA nahIM jaataa| dAdAzrI : saba hisAbavAlA hai! Ter3he peca aura Ter3hA naTa, vahA~ sIdhA naTa ghumAe~ to kisa taraha cale? Apako aisA hotA hai ki yaha strI jAti aisI kyoM? para strI jAti to ApakA 'kAunTara veTa' hai| jitanA apanA Ter3hApana utanI tteddh'ii| isalie to saba 'vyavasthita' hai, aisA kahA hai na? praznakartA: sabhI hameM sIdhA karane Ae hoM aisA lagatA hai| dAdAzrI : to sIdhA karanA hI cAhie aapko| sIdhA hue binA duniyA cale nahIM na? sIdhe nahIM hoMge to bApa kisa taraha hoMge? sIdhA ho, to bApa hotA hai|

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126 kleza rahita jIvana nhiiN| Upara se usa para apanA acchA asara hotA hai| apane sAtha dveSabhAva nahIM hotA hai, vaha to samajho ki pahalA sTepa, para phira use khabara bhI pahu~catI 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 125 zaktiyA~ khilAnevAlA cAhie yAnI striyoM kA doSa nahIM hai, striyA~ to deviyoM jaisI haiN| striyoM aura puruSoM meM, ve to AtmA hI hai, kevala pekiMga kA pharka hai| Dipharansa oNpha pekiNg| strI, vaha eka prakAra kA 'iphekTa' hai, isalie AtmA para strI kA 'iphekTa' baratatA hai| usakA 'iphekTa' apane Upara nahIM par3e taba sahI hai| strI, vaha to zakti hai| isa deza meM kaisI-kaisI striyA~ rAjanIti meM ho cukI hai! aura isa dharmakSetra meM jo strI par3I vaha to kaisI hotI hai? isa kSetra se jagat kA kalyANa hI kara ddaale| strI meM to jagat kalyANa kI zakti bharI par3I hai| usameM khuda kA kalyANa karake aura dUsaroM kA kalyANa karane kI zakti hai| pratikramaNa se, hisAba saba chUTeM patikA praznakartA : kucha loga strI se Ubakara ghara se bhAga chUTate haiM, vaha kaisA hai? dAdAzrI : nA, bhagor3e kisalie baneM? hama paramAtmA haiN| hameM bhagor3A hone kI kyA z2arUrata hai? hameM usakA samabhAve nikAla kara denA hai| praznakartA : nikAla karanA hai, to kisa taraha se hotA hai? mana meM bhAva karanA ki yaha pUrva kA AyA hai? praznakartA : usake AtmA ko pahu~catA hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, z2arUra pahu~catA hai| phira vaha AtmA usake pudgala ko bhI dhakelatI hai ki, 'bhAI, phona AyA teraa|' apanA yaha pratikramaNa hai vaha atikramaNa ke Upara hai, kramaNa para nhiiN| praznakartA : bahuta pratikramaNa karane par3ate haiM? dAdAzrI : jitanI spIDa meM hameM makAna banAnA ho utane kArIgara hameM bar3hAne caahie| aisA hai na, ki ye bAhara ke logoM ke sAtha hameM pratikramaNa nahIM hoMge to calegA, para apane AsapAsa ke aura naz2adIka ke, ghara ke loga haiM, unake pratikramaNa adhika karane haiN| gharavAloM ke lie mana meM bhAva rakhanA hai ki mere sAtha janma liyA hai, sAtha meM rahate haiM to kisI dina ye mokSamArga para aaeN| ...to saMsAra asta ho jise 'eDajasTa' hone kI kalA A gaI, vaha duniyA meM se mokSa kI ora mudd'aa| eDajasTamenTa' huA usakA nAma jJAna / jo 'eDajasTamenTa' sIkha gayA vaha tara gyaa| bhugatanA hai vaha to bhugatanA hI hai, para 'eDajasTamenTa' Ae use parezAnI nahIM AtI, hisAba sApha ho jAtA hai| sIdhe ke sAtha to harakoI eDajasTa ho jAtA hai, para Ter3he-kaThina-kar3aka ke sAtha meM, sabake hI sAtha eDajasTa honA AyA to kAma ho gyaa| mukhya vastu eDajasTamenTa hai| 'hA~' se mukti hai| hamane 'hA~' kahA phira bhI 'vyavasthita' ke bAhara kucha honevAlA hai? para 'nA' kahA to mahA upaadhii| ghara meM pati-patnI donoM nizcaya kareM ki mujhe 'eDajasTa' honA hai to donoM kA hala aae| ve jyAdA khIMce to 'hameM' eDajasTa ho jAnA hai, to hala aae| eka vyakti kA hAtha du:khatA thA, para vaha dUsare ko nahIM batAtA dAdAzrI : itane se nikAla nahIM hotaa| nikAla matalaba to sAmanevAle ke sAtha phona karanA par3atA hai, usake AtmA ko khabara denI par3atI hai| usa AtmA ke pAsa, hamane bhUla kI hai aisA kabUla-eksepTa karanA par3atA hai| matalaba pratikramaNa bar3A karanA par3atA hai| praznakartA : sAmanevAlA manuSya apanA apamAna kare taba bhI hameM usakA pratikramaNa karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : apamAna kare to hI pratikramaNa karanA hai, hameM mAna de taba nahIM karanA hai| pratikramaNa kareM isalie sAmanevAle para dveSabhAva to hotA hI

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5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 127 thA, para dUsare hAtha se hAtha dabAkara, dUsare hAtha se eDajasTa kiyaa| aisA eDajasTa ho jAe~ to hala aae| matabheda se to hala nahIM aataa| matabheda pasaMda nahIM, phira bhI matabheda par3a jAte haiM na? sAmanevAlA adhika khIMcAtAnI kare to hama chor3a deM aura or3hakara so jAe~, yadi chor3eM nahIM, donoM khIMcate raheM to donoM ko hI nIMda nahIM AegI aura sArI rAta bigdd'egii| vyavahAra meM, vyApAra meM, hisse meM kaisA sa~bhAlate haiM, to isa saMsAra ke hisse meM hameM nahIM sa~bhAla lenA cAhie? saMsAra to jhagar3e kA saMgrahasthAna hai| kisI ke yahA~ do annI, kisI ke yahA~ cavannI aura kise ke yahA~ savA rupaye taka pahu~ca jAtA hai| yahA~ ghara para 'eDajasTa' honA AtA nahIM aura AtmajJAna ke zAstra par3hane baiThe hote haiM! are rakha na eka tarapha! pahale yaha sIkha le| ghara meM 'eDajasTa' honA to kucha AtA nahIM hai| aisA hai yaha jagat ! isalie kAma nikAla lene jaisA hai| 'jJAnI' chur3avAe~, saMsArajAla se praznakartA : isa saMsAra ke sabhI khAte khoTavAle lagate haiM, phira bhI kisI samaya naphevAle kyoM lagate haiM? dAdAzrI : jo khAte khoTavAle lagate haiM, unameM se kabhI yadi naphevAlA lage to bAkI kara lenaa| yaha saMsAra dUsare kisI se khar3A nahIM huA hai| guNA hI hue haiN| maiM jo rakama Apako dikhAU~ usase bhAga kara DAlanA, isase phira kucha bAkI nahIM rhegaa| isa taraha se par3hAI kI jAe to paDho. nahIM to 'dAdA kI AjJA mujhe pAlanI hI hai, saMsAra kA bhAga lagAnA hI hai|' aisA nizcita kiyA ki tabase bhAga huA hI smjho| bAkI ye dina kisa taraha gujArane vaha bhI muzkila ho gayA hai| pati Ae aura kahegA ki 'mere hArTa meM duHkhatA hai|' bacce Ae~ aura kaheMge ki 'maiM nApAsa haA hN|' pati ko hArTa meM da:khatA hai aisA kaheM to use vicAra AtA hai ki 'hArTa phela' ho gayA to kyA hogA? cAroM ora se vicAra ghera lete haiM, caina nahIM lene dete| 128 kleza rahita jIvana 'jJAnI puruSa' isa saMsArajAla se chUTane kA rAstA dikhAte haiM, mokSa kA mArga dikhAte haiM aura rAste para car3hA dete haiM aura hameM lagatA hai ki hama isa upAdhI meM se chUTa gae! aisI bhAvanA se chur3avAnevAle milate hI haiN| yaha saba parasattA hai| khAte haiM, pIte haiM, baccoM kI zAdiyA~ karavAte haiM vaha saba parasattA hai| apanI sattA nahIM hai| ye sabhI kaSAya aMdara baiThe haiN| unakI sattA hai| 'jJAnI puruSa' 'maiM kauna hU~?' usakA jJAna dete haiM taba ina kaSAyoM se, isa jaMjAla meM se chuTakArA hotA hai| yaha saMsAra chor3ane se yA dhakke mArane se chUTe aisA nahIM hai, isalie aisI koI bhAvanA karo ki isa saMsAra meM se chUTA jAe to acchaa| anaMta janmoM se chUTane kI bhAvanA huI hai, para mArga kA jAnakAra cAhie yA nahIM cAhie? mArga dikhAnevAle 'jJAnI puruSa' caahie| jaise cikanI paTTI zarIra para cipakAI ho, to use ukhAr3eM phira bhI vaha ukhar3atI nhiiN| bAla ko sAtha meM khIMcakara ukhar3atI hai, usI taha yaha saMsAra cikanA hai| 'jJAnI puruSa' davAI dikhAe~ taba vaha ukhar3atA hai| yaha saMsAra chor3ane se chUTe aisA nahIM hai| jisane saMsAra chor3A hai, tyAga liyA hai, vaha usake karma ke udaya ne chur3avAyA hai| hara kisI ko usake udayakarma ke AdhAra para tyAgadharma yA gRhasthadharma milA hotA hai| samakita prApta ho, taba se siddhadazA prApta hotI hai| yaha saba Apa calAte nahIM haiN| krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kaSAya calAte haiN| kaSAyoM kA hI rAja hai| 'khuda kauna hai?' usakA bhAna ho taba kaSAya jAte haiN| krodha ho taba pachatAvA hotA hai, lekina bhagavAna kA batAyA huA pratikramaNa nahIM Ae to kyA phAyadA hogA? pratikramaNa Ae~ to chuTakArA hogaa| ye kaSAya caina se ghar3Ibhara bhI baiThane nahIM dete| beTe kI zAdI ke samaya moha ne ghera liyA huA hotA hai| taba mUrchA hotI hai| bAkI kalejA to sArA dina cAya kI taraha ubala rahA hotA hai ! taba bhI mana meM hotA hai

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6. vyApAra, dharma sameta 5. samajha se sohe gRhasaMsAra 129 ki 'maiM' to jeThAnI hU~ na! yaha to vyavahAra hai, nATaka khelanA hai| yaha deha chUTI isalie dUsarI jagaha nATaka khelanA hai| ye rizte sacce nahIM haiM, ye to saMsArI RNAnubaMdha haiN| hisAba pUrA ho jAne ke bAda beTA mA~-bApa ke sAtha nahIM jAtA hai| _ 'isane merA apamAna kiyA!' chor3o na! apamAna to nigala jAne jaisA hai| pati apamAna kare taba yAda AnA cAhie ki yaha to mere hI karma kA udaya hai aura pati to nimitta hai, nirdoSa hai| aura mere karma ke udaya badaleM, taba pati 'Ao, Ao' karatA hai| isalie hameM mana meM samatA rakhakara ukela lA denA hai| yadi mana meM ho ki 'merA doSa nahIM hai phira bhI mujhe aisA kyoM kahA?' isase phira rAta ko tIna ghaMTe jagatA hai aura phira thakakara so jAtA hai| bhagavAna ke UparI jo ho gae unakA kAma ho gayA aura patnI ke UparI bana baiThe, ve saba mAra khAkara mara gae haiN| UparI ho taba mAra khAtA hai| para bhagavAna kyA kahate haiM? merA UparI baneM to hama khuza hote haiN| hamane to bahuta dina UparIpana bhogA, aba Apa hamAre UparI bano to acchaa| 'jJAnI puruSa' jo samajha dete haiM, usa samajha se chuTakArA hotA hai| samajha ke binA kyA ho? vItarAga dharma hI sarva du:khoM se mukti detA hai| ghara meM to suMdara vyavahAra kara DAlanA caahie| 'vAipha' ke mana meM aisA ho ki aisA pati nahIM milegA kabhI aura pati ke mana meM aisA ho ki aisI 'vAipha' bhI kabhI nahIM milegI!! aisA hisAba lA deM taba hama sahI!!! jIvana kisalie kharca hue? dAdAzrI : yaha vyApAra kisalie karate ho? praznakartA : paise kamAne ke lie| dAdAzrI : paisA kisake lie? praznakartA : usakI khabara nhiiN| dAdAzrI : yaha kisake jaisI bAta hai? manuSya sArA dina iMjana calAyA kare, para kisalie? kucha nhiiN| iMjana ko paTTA nahIM deM, usake jaisA hai| jIvana kisalie jInA hai? kevala kamAne ke lie hI? jIva mAtra sukha ko DhU~DhatA hai| sarva duHkhoM se mukti kaise ho yaha jAnane ke lie hI jInA hai| vicAraNA karanI, ciMtA nahIM praznakartA : vyApAra kI ciMtA hotI hai, bahuta ar3acaneM AtI haiN| dAdAzrI : ciMtA hone lage ki samajhanA ki kArya bigar3anevAlA hai| jyAdA ciMtA nahIM ho to samajhanA ki kArya bigaDanevAlA nahIM hai| ciMtA kArya ke lie avarodhaka hai| ciMtA se to vyApAra kI mauta AtI hai| jisameM car3hAva-utAra ho usakA nAma hI vyApAra, pUraNa-galana hai vh| pUraNa huA usakA galana hue bagaira rahatA hI nhiiN| isa pUraNa-galana meM apanI koI milkiyata nahIM hai aura jo apanI milkiyata hai, usameM se kucha bhI pUraNagalana hotA nahIM hai, aisA sApha vyavahAra hai| yaha Apake ghara meM Apake bIvIbacce sabhI pArTanarsa haiM na?

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6. vyapAra, dharma sameta 131 praznakartA: sukha-du:kha bhugatane meM bhI haiN| dAdAzrI : Apa apane bIvI-baccoM ke abhibhAvaka kahalAte ho / akele abhibhAvaka ko kisalie ciMtA karanI? aura gharavAle to ulTA kahate haiM ki Apa hamArI ciMtA mata karanA / praznakartA: ciMtA kA svarUpa kyA hai? janma huA taba to thI nahIM aura AI kahA~ se? dAdAzrI : jaise-jaise buddhi bar3hatI hai vaise-vaise saMtApa bar3hatA hai| janma hotA hai taba buddhi hotI hai? vyApAra ke lie socane kI z2arUrata hai| para usase Age gae to bigar3a jAtA hai| vyApAra ke bAre meM dasa-paMdraha minaTa socanA hotA hai, phira usase Age jAo aura vicAroM kA cakkara calane lage, vaha normeliTI se bAhara gayA kahalAtA hai, taba use chor3a denA / vyApAra ke vicAra to Ate haiM, para una vicAroM meM tanmayAkAra hokara ve vicAra lambe caleM to phira usakA dhyAna utpanna hotA hai aura usase ciMtA hotI hai| vaha bahuta nukasAna karatI hai| cukAne kI nIyata meM cokhe raho praznakartA: vyApAra meM bahuta ghATA huA hai to kyA karU~? vyApAra baMda karU~ yA dUsarA karU~? qarz2a bahuta ho gayA hai| dAdAzrI : rUI bAz2Ara kA nukasAna koI kirAne kI dukAna lagAne se pUrA nahIM hotaa| vyApAra meM se huA nukasAna vyApAra meM se hI pUrA hotA hai, naukarI meM se nahIM hotaa| kaoNnTrekTa kA nukasAna kabhI pAna kI dukAna se pUrA hotA hai? jisa bAz2Ara meM ghAva lagA ho, usa bAz2Ara meM hI ghAva bharatA hai, vahA~ para hI usakI davAI hotI hai| hameM bhAva aisA rakhanA cAhie ki apane se kisI jIva ko kiMcit mAtra duHkha na ho| hameM eka zuddha bhAva rakhanA cAhie ki sabhI udhAra cukA denA hai, aisI yadi cokhI nIyata ho to udhAra sArA kabhI na kabhI cukatA ho jaaegaa| lakSmI to gyArahavA~ prANa hai| isalie kisI kI lakSmI apane 132 kleza rahita jIvana pAsa nahIM rahanI caahie| apanI lakSmI kisI ke pAsa rahe usakI parezAnI nahIM hai| parantu dhyeya niraMtara vahI rahanA cAhie ki mujhe pAI-pAI cukA denI hai, dhyeya lakSya meM rakhakara phira Apa khela khelo| khela khelo para khilAr3I mata bana jAnA, khilAr3I bana gae ki Apa khatama ho jaaoge| ... jokhima samajhakara, nirbhaya rahanA haraeka vyApAra udaya-astavAlA hotA hai| macchara bahuta hoM taba bhI sArI rAta sone nahIM dete aura do hoM taba bhI sArI rAta sone nahIM dete ! isalie hameM kahanA, 'he maccharamaya duniyA! do hI sone nahIM dete to sabhI Ao na !' ye saba naphA-nukasAna ve macchara kahalAte haiN| niyama kaisA rakhanA ? ho sake taba taka samudra meM utaranA nahIM, parantu utarane kI bArI A gaI to phira DaranA mt| jaba taka DaregA nahIM taba taka allAha tere pAsa haiN| tU DarA ki allA kaheMge ki jA auliyA ke pAsa ! bhagavAna ke vahA~ resakaoNrsa yA kapar3e kI dukAna meM pharka nahIM hai, para Apako yadi mokSa meM jAnA ho to isa jokhima meM mata utaranA isa samudra meM praveza karane ke bAda nikala jAnA acchaa| hama vyApAra kisa taraha karate haiM, vaha patA hai? vyApAra kI sTImara ko samudra meM tairane ke lie chor3ane se pahale pUjAvidhi karavAkara sTImara ke kAna meM phU~ka mArate haiM, 'tujhe jaba DUbanA ho taba DUbanA, hamArI icchA nahIM hai|' phira chaha mahIne meM DUbe yA do varSa meM DUbe, taba hama 'eDajasTamenTa' le lete haiM ki chaha mahIne to claa| vyApAra matalaba isa pAra yA usa pAra / AzA ke mahala nirAzA lAe bagaira rahate nahIM haiN| saMsAra meM vItarAga rahanA bahuta muzkila hai| vaha to jJAnakalA aura buddhikalA hamArI jabaradasta haiM, usase rahA jA sakatA hai| grAhakI ke bhI niyama haiM praznakartA: dukAna meM grAhaka Ae~, isalie maiM dukAna jaldI kholatA hU~ aura dera se baMda karatA hU~, yaha ThIka hai na?

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134 kleza rahita jIvana 6. vyapAra, dharma sameta dAdAzrI : Apa grAhaka ko AkarSita karanevAle kauna? Apako to dukAna jisa samaya loga kholate hoM, usI samaya kholnii| loga sAta baje kholate hoM, aura hama sAr3he nau baje kholeM to vaha galata khlaaegaa| loga jaba baMda kareM taba hameM bhI baMda karake ghara jAnA caahie| vyavahAra kyA kahatA hai ki loga kyA karate haiM vaha dekho| loga so jAe~ taba Apa bhI so jaao| rAta ko do baje taka aMdara ghamAsAna macAyA karo, vaha kisake jaisI bAta! khAnA khAne ke bAda socate ho ki kisa taraha pacegA? usakA phala subaha mila hI jAtA hai na? aisA vyApAra meM saba jagaha hai| to naukaroM ko seTha dhamakAte rahatA hai| taba hama unakI jagaha para ho to kyA hogA? vaha becArA naukarI karane AtA hai aura Apa use dhamakAte ho, to vaha baira bA~dhakara sahana kara legaa| naukara ko dhamakAnA mata, vaha bhI manuSyajAti hai| use ghara para becAre ko du:kha aura yahA~ Apa seTha hokara dhamakAo taba vaha becArA kahA~ jAe? becAre para jarA dayAbhAva to rakho! praznakartA : dAdA, abhI dukAna meM grAhakI bilakula nahIM hai to kyA karU~? dAdAzrI : yaha 'ilekTrisiTI' jAe, taba Apa 'ilekTrisiTI kaba AegI, kaba AegI' aisA karo to jaldI AtI hai? vahA~ Apa kyA karate ho? yaha to grAhaka Ae to zAMti se aura prema se use mAla denaa| grAhaka nahIM hoM, taba bhagavAna kA nAma lenaa| yaha to grAhaka nahIM hoM, taba idhara dekhatA hai aura udhara dekhatA hai| aMdara akulAyA karatA hai, 'Aja kharca sira para pdd'egaa| itanA nukasAna ho gayA', aisA cakkara calAtA hai, cir3hatA hai aura naukara ko dhamakAtA bhI hai| aise ArtadhyAna aura raudradhyAna kiyA karatA hai ! grAhaka Ate haiM, vaha 'vyavasthita' ke hisAba se jo grAhaka AnevAlA ho vahI AtA hai, usameM aMdara cakkara mata claanaa| dukAna meM grAhaka Ae to paise kA lena-dena karanA, para kaSAya mata karanA. paTAkara kAma karanA hai| yadi patthara ke nIce hAtha A jAe to hathauDA mArate ho? nA, vahA~ to daba jAe to paTAkara nikAla lenA caahie| usameM kaSAya kA upayoga kareM to baira ba~dhatA hai aura eka baira meM se anaMta khaDe hote haiN| yaha baira se hI jagat khar3A hai, vahI mUla kAraNa hai| prAmANikatA, bhagavAna kA lAisansa praznakartA : eka-do bAra phona karate haiM yA khuda kahane jAte haiN| dAdAzrI : sau bAra phona nahIM karate? praznakartA : naa| dAdAzrI : yaha lAiTa gaI taba hama to caina se gA rahe the aura phira apane Apa hI A gaI na? praznakartA : matalaba hameM ni:spRha ho jAnA hai? dAdAzrI : ni:spRha honA bhI gunAha hai aura saspRha honA bhI gunAha hai| lAiTa Ae to acchA, aisA hameM rakhanA hai, saspRha-ni:spRha rahane kA kahA hai| grAhaka Ae~ to acchA aisA rakhanA hai, bekAra bhAga-daur3a mata krnaa| 'regyulAriTI' aura bhAva nahIM bigAr3anA, vaha 'rileTiva' puruSArtha hai| grAhaka nahIM Ae~ to akulAnA nahIM aura eka dina grAhakoM ke a~Da para jhuMDa Ae~ taba sabako saMtoSa denaa| yaha to eka dina grAhaka nahIM Ae~ praznakartA : Ajakala prAmANikatA se vyApAra karane jAe~ to jyAdA muzkileM AtI haiM, vaha kyoM aisA? dAdAzrI : prAmANika prakAra se kAma kiyA to eka hI muzkila AtI hai, parantu aprAmANika rUpa se kAma kareMge to do prakAra kI muzkileM aaeNgii| prAmANikatA kI muzkila meM se to chUTA jAegA, parantu aprAmANikatA meM se chUTanA muzkila hai| prAmANikatA, vaha to bhagavAna kA bar3A 'lAisensa' hai, usa para koI U~galI nahIM utthaataa| Apako vaha 'lAisensa' phAr3a DAlane kA vicAra AtA hai?

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6. vyapAra, dharma sameta 135 ... naphA-nukasAna meM, harSa - zoka kyA? vyApAra meM mana bigar3e taba bhI naphA 66, 616 hogA aura mana nahIM bigar3e taba bhI naphA 66, 616 rahegA, to kauna sA vyApAra karanA cAhie? hamAre bar3e vyApAra calate haiM, para vyApAra kA kAgaz2a 'hamAre' Upara nahIM aataa| kyoMki vyApAra kA naphA aura vyApAra kA nukasAna bhI hama vyApAra ke khAte meM hI DAlate haiN| ghara meM to, maiM naukarI karatA hoU~ aura jitanI pagAra mile, utane hI paise detA huuN| bAkI kA naphA bhI vyApAra kA aura nukasAna bhI vyApAra ke khAte meM / paisoM kA bojhA rakhane jaisA nahIM hai| baiMka meM jamA hue taba caina kI sA~sa lI, phira jAe~ taba duHkha hotA hai| isa jagat meM kahIM bhI caina kI sA~sa lene jaisA nahIM hai| kyoMki 'TemparerI' hai / vyApAra meM hitAhita vyApAra kaunana-sA acchA ki jisameM hiMsA na samAtI ho, kisI ko apane vyApAra se duHkha na ho| yaha to kirAne kA vyApAra ho to eka sera meM se thor3A nikAla lete haiN| Ajakala to milAvaTa karanA sIkhe haiN| usameM bhI khAne kI vastuoM meM milAvaTa kare to jAnavara meM, caupayoM meM jaaegaa| cAra pairavAlA ho jAe, phira gire to nahIM na? vyApAra meM dharma rakhanA, nahIM to adharma praveza kara jaaegaa| praznakartA : aba vyApAra kitanA bar3hAnA cAhie? dAdAzrI : vyApAra itanA karanA ki ArAma se nIMda Ae, hama jaba use dhakelanA cAheM taba vaha dhakelA jA sake, aisA honA caahie| jo AtI nahIM ho, usa upAdhI ko bulAnA nahIM caahie| byAja lene meM Apatti ? praznakartA: zAstroM meM byAja lene kA niSedha nahIM hai na? dAdAzrI : hamAre zAstroM ne byAja para Apatti nahIM uThAI hai, parantu 136 kleza rahita jIvana sUdakhora ho gayA to nukasAnadAyaka hai| sAmanevAle ko duHkha na ho taba taka byAja lene meM parezAnI nahIM hai| kifAyata to 'nobala' rakhanI ghara meM kifAyata kaisI cAhie? bAhara kharAba na dikhe, aisI mitavyayatA honI caahie| kifAyata rasoI meM ghusanI nahIM cAhie, udAra kifAyata honI caahie| rasoI meM kifAyata ghuse to mana bigar3a jAtA hai, koI mehamAna Ae to bhI mana bigar3a jAtA hai ki cAvala kharca ho jAe~ge ! koI bahuta ur3AU ho to use hama kaheM ki 'nobala' kifAyata kro| G GY GY Li Di Di

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7. UparI kA vyavahAra anDarahainDa kI to rakSA karanI cAhie praznakartA : dAdA, seTha mujhase bahuta kAma lete haiM aura tanakhvAha bahuta kama dete haiM aura Upara se dhamakAte haiN| dAdAzrI : ye to hindustAna ke seTha ve to patnI ko bhI dhokhA dete haiN| parantu aMta meM arathI nikalatI hai, taba to ve hI dhokhA khAte haiN| hindustAna ke seTha naukara kA tela nikAlate rahate haiM, caina se khAne bhI nahIM dete, naukara kI tanakhvAha kATa lete haiN| pahale inkama TaiksavAle kATa lete taba vahA~ ve sIdhe ho jAte the, para Aja to inkama TaiksavAle kA bhI ye loga kATa lete haiM! 138 kleza rahita jIvana dAdAzrI : vaha hama 'jJAna' dete haiM usa samaya saba khulAsA de dete haiN| yaha tor3anevAlA kauna, calAnevAlA kauna, vaha saba 'saoNlva' kara dete haiN| aba vahA~ vAstava meM kyA karanA cAhie? bhrAMti meM bhI kyA avalaMbana lenA cAhie? naukara to 'sinsiyara' hai, vaha tor3e aisA nahIM hai| praznakartA : cAhe jitanA 'sinsiyara' ho para naukara ke hAthoM TUTa gayA to parokSa rUpa se vaha jimmedAra nahIM hai? dAdAzrI : jimmedAra hai! para hameM vaha kitanA jimmedAra hai vaha samajhanA caahie| hameM sabase pahale use pUchanA cAhie ki 'tU jalA to nahIM na?' jala gayA ho to davAI lgaanaa| phira dhIre se kahanA ki aba jaldI mata calanA Age se| sattA kA durupayoga, to... yaha to sattAvAlA apane hAtha nIcevAloM ko kucalatA rahatA hai| jo sattA kA durupayoga karatA hai, vaha sattA jAtI hai aura Upara se manuSya janma nahIM AtA hai| eka ghaMTA hI yadi apanI sattA meM Ae hue vyakti ko dhamakAe~ to sArI z2indagI kA AyuSya baMdha jAtA hai| virodha karanevAle ko dhamakAe~ to bAta alaga hai| praznakartA : sAmanevAlA Ter3hA ho to jaise ke sAtha vaisA nahIM honA cAhie? dAdAzrI : sAmanevAle vyakti kA hameM nahIM dekhanA cAhie. vaha usakI jimmedArI hai, yadi luTere sAmane A jAe~ aura Apa luTere bano to ThIka hai, para vahA~ to sabakucha de dete ho na? nirbala ke Age sabala bano usameM kyA hai? sabala hokara nirbala ke Age nirbala ho jAo to sccaa| ye oNphisara ghara para patnI ke sAtha lar3akara Ate haiM aura oNphisa meM asisTenTa kA tela nikAla dete haiN| are, asisTenTa to galata hastAkSara karavAkara le jAegA to terI kyA dazA hogI? asisTenTa kI to khAsa z2arUrata hai| jagat to pyAdoM ko, anDarahainDa ko dhamakAe aisA hai| are. sAhaba ko dhamakA na, vahA~ hama jIteM to kAma kA! jagat kA aisA vyavahAra hai| jaba ki bhagavAna ne eka hI vyavahAra kahA thA ki tere 'aMDara' meM jo AyA usakA tU rakSaNa krnaa| aMDarahainDa kA rakSaNa kareM, ve bhagavAna hue haiN| maiM choTA thA taba se hI anDarahainDa kA rakSaNa karatA thaa| abhI yahA~ koI naukara cAya kI Tre lekara Ae aura vaha gira jAe taba seTha use dhamakAte haiM ki 'tere hAtha TUTe hue haiM? dikhatA nahIM hai?' aba vaha to naukara rahA becaaraa| vAstava meM naukara kabhI kucha tor3atA nahIM hai, vaha to 'roga bilIfa' se aisA lagatA hai ki naukara ne toddaa| vAstava meM tor3anevAlA dUsarA hI hai| aba vahA~ nirdoSa ko doSI ThaharAte haiM, naukara phira usakA phala detA hai, kisI bhI janma meN| praznakartA : to usa samaya tor3anevAlA kauna ho sakatA hai?

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7. uparI kA vyavahAra 139 hama asisTenTa ko bahuta saMbhAlate haiM kyoMki usake kAraNa to apanA saba calatA hai| kucha to sarvisa meM seTha ko Age lAne ke lie khuda ko samajhadAra dikhalAte haiN| seTha kaheM ki bIsa pratizata lenaa| taba seTha ke sAmane samajhadAra dikhane ke lie paccIsa pratizata letA hai| yaha kisalie pApa kI gaThariyA~ bA~dhatA hai? 8. kudarata ke vahA~ gesTa kudarata, janma se hI hitakArI isa saMsAra meM jitane bhI jIva haiM ve kudarata ke gesTa haiM, pratyeka cIja kudarata Apake pAsa taiyAra karake detI hai| yaha to Apako kar3hApA (kur3hana, kleza)-ajaMpA (becainI, azAMti, ghabarAhaTa) rahA karatA hai, kyoMki sahI samajha nahIM hai aura aisA lagatA hai ki 'maiM karatA huuN'| yaha bhrA~ti hai| bAkI kisI se itanA bhI ho sakatA nahIM hai| yahA~ janma hone se pahale, hamAre bAhara nikalane se pahale loga sArI hI taiyAriyA~ karake rakhate haiM! bhagavAna kI savArI A rahI hai! janma lene se pahale bAlaka ko ciMtA karanI par3atI hai ki bAhara nikalane ke bAda mere dUdha kA kyA hogA? vaha to dUdha kI kuMDiyA~ Adi saba taiyAra hI hotA hai| DaoNkTara, dAIyA~ taiyAra hote haiN| aura dAI na ho to nAIna bhI hotI hI hai| para kucha na kucha taiyArI to hotI hI hai, phira jaise 'gesTa' hoM! 'pharsTa klAsa' ke hoM usakI taiyAriyA~ alaga, 'sekinDa klAsa' kI alaga aura 'tharDa klAsa' kI alaga, saba klAsa to haiM na? yAnI ki sArI taiyAriyoM ke sAtha Apa Ae haiN| to phira hAya-hAya aura ajaMpA kisalie karate ho? jinake 'gesTa' hoM, unake vahA~ para vinaya kaisA honA cAhie? maiM Apake yahA~ 'gesTa' hoU~ to mujhe 'gesTa' kI taraha vinaya nahIM rakhanA cAhie? Apa kaho ki 'Apako yahA~ nahIM sonA hai, vahA~ sonA hai', to mujhe vahA~ so jAnA caahie| do baje khAnA Ae to bhI mujhe zAMti se khA lenA caahie| jo rakhe vaha ArAma se khA lenA par3atA hai, vahA~ zora nahIM macA skte| kyoMki 'gesTa' huuN| aba yadi 'gesTa' rasoI meM jAkara kar3hI

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142 8. kudarata ke vahA~ gesTa 141 hilAne lage to kaisA kahalAe? ghara meM dakhala karane jAe~ to Apako kauna khar3A rakhegA? tujhe bAsuMdI thAlI meM rakheM to khA lenA, vahA~ aisA mata kahanA ki 'hama mIThA nahIM khAte haiN|' jitanA parosA jAe utanA ArAma se khaanaa| khArA parose to khArA khA lenaa| bahuta nahIM bhAe to thor3A khAnA, parantu khAnA jarUra! 'gesTa' ke sabhI niyama paalnaa| 'gesTa' ko rAga-dveSa nahIM karane hote haiM, 'gesTa' rAga-dveSa kara sakate haiM? ve to vinaya meM hI rahate haiM na? hama to 'gesTa' ke taura para hI rahate haiM, hamAre lie sabhI vastue~ AtI haiN| jinake vahA~ 'gesTa' ke taura para rahe hoM, unheM parezAna nahIM karanA caahie| hameM sArI cIjeM ghara baiThe AtI haiM, yAda karate hI hAz2ira hotI haiM aura hAz2ira nahIM ho to hameM parezAnI bhI nhiiN| kyoMki vahA~ 'gesTa' hue haiN| kisake vahA~? kudarata ke ghara para! kudarata kI marajI na ho to hama samajheM ki hamAre hita meM hai aura marajI usakI ho to bhI hamAre hita meM hai| hamAre hAtha meM karane kI sattA ho, to eka tarapha dAr3hI uge aura dUsarI tarapha dAr3hI nahIM uge to hama kyA kareM? hamAre hAtha meM karane kA hotA to saba ghoTAlA hI ho jaataa| yaha to kudarata ke hAthoM meM hai| usakI kahIM bhI bhala nahIM hotI, saba paddhati anusAra kA hI hotA hai| dekho cabAne ke dA~ta alaga, chIlane ke dA~ta alaga, khAne ke dA~ta alg| dekho, kitanI suMdara vyavasthA hai ! janma lete hI pUrA zarIra milatA hai, hAtha, paira, nAka, kAna, A~kheM sabakucha milatA hai, para mu~ha meM hAtha DAlo to dA~ta nahIM milate haiM, taba koI bhUla ho gaI hogI kudarata kI? nA, kudarata samajhatI hai ki janma lekara turanta use dUdha pInA hai, dUsarA AhAra pacegA nahIM, mA~ kA dUdha pInA hai, yadi dA~ta deMge to vaha kATa legA! dekho kitanI suMdara vyavasthA kI huI hai ! jaise-jaise z2arUrata par3atI hai vaise dA~ta nikala Ate haiN| pahale cAra Ate haiM, phira dhIre-dhIre dUsare Ate haiM aura ina bUr3hoM ke dA~ta gira jAte haiM to phira vApasa nahIM Ate kleza rahita jIvana para dakhalaMdAjI se duHkha mola lie rAta ko hA~DavA peTa meM DAlakara so jAtA hai na? phira kharrATeM garar3agarar3a bulavAtA hai ! ghanacakkara, aMdara patA lagA na, kyA cala rahA hai? taba kahe ki, "usameM mI kAya karU~?' aura kudarata kA kaisA hai? peTa meM pAcaka rasa, 'bAila' par3atA hai, dUsarI cIjeM par3atI hai, subaha 'blaDa' 'blaDa' kI jagaha, 'yurina' 'yurina' kI jagaha, 'saMDAsa' 'saMDAsa' ke sthAna para pahu~ca jAtA hai| kaisA paddhati anusAra suMdara vyavasthA kI huI hai! kudarata kitanA bar3A aMdara kAma karatI hai! yadi DaoNkTara ko eka dina yaha aMdara kA pacAne kA kAma sauMpA ho to vaha manuSya ko mAra DAle! aMdara meM pAcaka rasa DAlanA, 'bAila' DAlanA, Adi DaoNkTara ko sauMpA ho to DaoNkTara kyA kare? bhUkha nahIM lagatI isalie Aja jarA pAcaka rasa jyAdA DAlane do| aba kudarata kA niyama kaisA hai ki pAcaka rasa TheTha marate dama taka caleM usa anusAra DAlatI hai| aba ye usa dina, ravivAra ke dina pAcakarasa jyAdA DAla detA hai, isalie budhavAra ko aMdara bilakula pacegA hI nahIM, kyoMki budhavAra ke hisse kA bhI ravivAra ko DAla diyaa| kudarata ke hAtha meM kitanI acchI bAz2I hai! aura eka Apake hAtha meM vyApAra AyA, aura vaha bhI vyApAra Apake hAtha meM to nahIM hI hai| Apa khAlI mAna baiThe ho ki maiM vyApAra karatA hU~, isalie jhUThI hAya-hAya, hAyahAya karate ho| dAdara se senTrala TeksI meM jAnA huA, taba vaha mana meM TakarA jAegI-TakarA jAegI karake Dara jAtA hai| are! koI bApa bhI TakarAnevAlA nahIM hai| tU apane Apa Age dekhakara cl| terA farz2a kitanA? tujhe Age dekhakara calanA hai, itanA hii| vAstava meM to vaha bhI terA farz2a nahIM hai| kudarata tere pAsa se vaha bhI karavAtI hai| para Age dekhatA nahIM hai aura dakhala karatA hai| kadarata to itanI acchI hai! yaha aMdara itanA bar3A kArakhAnA calatA hai to bAhara nahIM calegA? bAhara to kucha calAne ko hai hI nhiiN| kyA calAnA hai? kudarata sabhI taraha se rakSaNa karatI hai| rAjA kI taraha rakhatI hai| parantu abhAge ko rahanA nahIM AtA, taba kyA ho? praznakartA : koI jIva ulTA kareM, to vaha bhI usake hAtha meM sattA nahIM hai?

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144 8. kudarata ke vahA~ gesTa 143 dAdAzrI : nA, sattA nahIM hai, para ulTA ho vaisA bhI nahIM hai, para usane ulTe-sulTe bhAva kie isalie yaha ulTA ho gyaa| khada ne kudarata ke isa saMcAlana meM dakhala diyA hai, nahIM to ye kaue. kutte ye jAnavara kaise haiM? aspatAla nahIM cAhie. korTa nahIM cAhie. ve loga jhagaDe kaise sulajhA dete haiM? do sA~r3a lar3ate haiM, bahuta lar3ate haiM, para alaga hone ke bAda ve kyA korTa DhU~Dhane jAte haiM? dUsare dina dekheM to ArAma se donoM ghUma rahe hote haiM! aura ina mUoM ke korTa hote haiM, aspatAla hote haiM, taba bhI ve duHkhI, du:khI aura duHkhI! ye loga roz2a apanA ronA rote haiM, inheM akarmI kaheM yA sakarmI kaheM? ye cir3iyA, kabUtara, kutte saba kitane suMdara dikhate haiM ! ve kyA sardI meM vasANaM (jar3I-bUTI DAlakara banAI gaI miThAI) khAte hoMge? aura ye mUrkha vasANuM khAkara bhI suMdara dikhate nahIM haiM, badasarata dikhate haiN| isa ahaMkAra ke kAraNa suMdara vyakti bhI badasUrata dikhatA hai| isIlie koI bhUla raha jAtI hai, aisA vicAra nahIM karanA cAhie? __... phira bhI kudarata, sadA madada meM rahI praznakartA : zubha rAste para jAne ke vicAra Ate haiM, para ve Tikate nahIM aura phira azubha vicAra Ate haiM, vaha kyA haiM? dAdAzrI : vicAra kyA hai? Age jAnA ho, to bhI vicAra kAma karate haiM aura pIche jAnA ho to bhI vicAra kAma karate haiN| khudA kI tarapha jAne ke rAste para Age jAte ho aura vApisa mur3ate ho usake jaisA hotA hai| eka mIla Age jAo aura eka mIla pIche jAo, eka mIla Age jAo aura vApisa mor3o... vicAra hI eka taraha ke rakhanA acchaa| pIche jAnA hai matalaba pIche jAnA aura Age jAnA hai matalaba Age jaanaa| Age jAnA ho use bhI kudarata 'helpa' karatI hai aura pIche jAnA ho use bhI kudarata 'helpa' karatI hai| 'necara' kyA kahatA hai? 'AI vila helpa yu'| tujhe jo kAma karanA ho, corI karanI ho to 'AI vila helpa yu'| kudarata kI to bahuta bar3I 'helpa' hai, kudarata kI 'helpa' se to yaha saba calatA hai! para tU nizcita nahIM karatA ki mujhe kyA karanA hai? yadi tU nizcita kare to kudarata tujhe 'helpa' dene ke lie taiyAra hI hai| 'pharsTa DisAiDa' ki mujhe itanA karanA kleza rahita jIvana hai, phira use nizcayapUrvaka subaha meM pahale yAda karanA caahie| Apake nizcaya ko Apako 'sinsiyara' rahanA cAhie, to kudarata Apake pakSa meM 'helpa' kregii| Apa kudarata ke 'gesTa' ho| isalie bAta ko smjho| kudarata to 'AI vila helpa yU' kahatI hai| bhagavAna kucha ApakI 'helpa' karate nahIM haiN| bhagavAna bekAra nahIM baiThe haiN| yaha to kudarata kI saba racanA hai aura vaha bhagavAna kI sirpha hAjirI se hI racA gayA hai| praznakartA : hama kudarata ke 'gesTa' haiM yA 'pArTa oNpha necara' haiM? dAdAzrI : 'pArTa oNpha necara' bhI haiM aura 'gesTa' bhI haiN| hama bhI 'gesTa' ke taura para rahanA pasaMda karate haiN| cAhe vahA~ baiThoge taba bhI Apako havA milatI rahegI, pAnI milatA rahegA aura vaha bhI 'phrI oNpha kaoNsTa'! jo adhika kImatI hai vaha 'phrI oNpha kaoNsTa' milatA rahatA hai| kudarata ko jisakI kImata hai, usakI ina manuSyoM ko qImata nahIM hai| aura jisakI kudarata ke pAsa qImata nahIM (jaise ki hIre), usakI hamAre logoM ko bahuta qImata hai|

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9. manuSyapana kI kImata qImata to, sinsiyAriTI aura maoNrAliTI kI pUre jagat kA 'besamenTa' 'sinsiyAriTI' aura 'maoNrAliTI' do para hI hai| ve donoM sar3a jAe~ to saba gira jAtA hai| isa kAla meM 'sinsiyAriTI' aura 'maoNrAliTI' hoM, vaha to bahuta bar3A dhana kahalAtA hai| hindustAna meM vaha dhana DheroM thA, para aba ina logoM ne vaha saba faoNrena meM eksaporTa kara diyA hai, aura faoNrena se badale meM kyA imporTa kiyA, vaha Apa jAnate ho? ve ye eTikeTa ke bhUta ghusa gae~! usake kAraNa hI ina becAroM ko caina nahIM rhtaa| hameM use eTikeTa ke bhUta kI kyA z2arUrata hai? jinameM nUra nahIM haiM, unake lie vaha hai| hama to tIrthakarI nUravAle loga haiM, RSimunioM kI saMtAna haiM ! tere phaTe hue kapar3e hoM, phira bhI terA nUra tujhe kaha degA ki 'tU kauna hai?' praznakartA : 'sinsiyAriTI' aura 'maoNrAliTI' kA ekjekTa artha smjhaaie| dAdAzrI : 'maoNrAliTI' kA artha kyA hai? khada ke haqa kA aura sahaja mila Ae, vaha sabhI bhogane kI chaTa hai| yaha sabase aMtima maoNrAliTI kA artha hai| maoNrAliTI to bahuta gUr3ha hai, usa para to zAstra ke zAstra likhe jA sakate haiN| para isa aMtima artha para se Apa samajha jaao| aura 'sinsiyAriTI' to jo manuSya dUsaroM ke prati 'sinsiyara' rahatA nahIM, vaha khuda apane lie 'sinsiyara' rahatA nhiiN| kisI ko thor3A bhI 'inasinsiyara' nahIM honA cAhie, usase khuda kI 'sinsiyAriTI' TUTatI hai| 'sinsiyAriTI' aura 'maoNrAliTI' - ye do vastue~ isa kAla meM hoM 146 kleza rahita jIvana to bahuta ho gyaa| are! eka ho phira bhI vaha TheTha mokSa taka le jaae| parantu use pakar3a lenA caahie| aura 'jJAnI puruSa' ke pAsa, jaba-jaba ar3acana par3e taba Akara khulAsA kara jAnA cAhie ki yaha 'maoNrAliTI' hai yA yaha 'maoNrAliTI' nahIM hai| ___'jJAnI puruSa kA rAjIpA' aura khuda kI 'sinsiyAriTI' ina donoM ke guNA se sAre kArya saphala hoM, aisA hai| 'inasinsiyAriTI' se bhI mokSa koI bIsa pratizata 'sinsiyAriTI' aura assI pratizata 'inasinsiyAriTI'vAlA mere pAsa Ae aura pUche ki 'mujhe mokSa meM jAnA hai aura mujhameM to yaha mAla hai to kyA karanA cAhie?' taba maiM use kahU~ ki, 'sau pratizata 'inasinsiyara' ho jA, phira maiM tajhe dusarA rAstA dikhAU~ ki jo tujhe mokSa meM le jaaegaa|' yaha assI pratizata kA karja usakI kaba bharapAI karegA? isase to eka bAra divAlA nikAla de| 'jJAnI puruSa' kA eka hI vAkya pakar3e taba bhI vaha mokSa meM jaae| pUre 'varlDa' ke sAtha 'inasinsiyara' rahA hogA usakA mujhe etarAja nahIM hai, para eka yahA~ 'sinsiyara' rahA to vaha tujhe mokSa meM le jAegA! sau pratizata 'inasinsiyAriTI' vaha bhI eka bar3A guNa hai, vaha mokSa meM le jAegA, kyoMki bhagavAna kA saMpUrNa virodhI ho gyaa| bhagavAna ke saMpUrNa virodhI ko mokSa meM le jAe binA chuTakArA hI nahIM! yA to bhagavAna kA bhakta mokSa meM jAtA hai yA to bhagavAna kA saMpUrNa virodhI mokSa meM jAtA hai ! isIlie maiM nAdAra ko to dikhAtA hU~ ki sau pratizata 'inasinsiyara' ho jA, phira maiM tujhe dUsarA dikhAU~gA, jo tujhe TheTha mokSa taka le jaaegaa| dUsarA pakar3AU~ tabhI kAma hogaa|

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10. Adarza vyavahAra aMta meM, vyavahAra Adarza cAhiegA Adarza vyavahAra ke binA koI mokSa meM gayA nahIM hai| jaina vyavahAra, vaha Adarza vyavahAra nahIM hai| vaiSNava vyavahAra, vaha Adarza vyavahAra nahIM hai| mokSa meM jAne ke lie Adarza vyavahAra caahiegaa| Adarza vyavahAra matalaba kisI jIva ko kiMcit mAtra du:kha nahIM ho, vaha / gharavAle, bAharavAle, ar3osI-par3osI kisI ko bhI hamAre se duHkha nahIM ho vaha Adarza vyavahAra kahalAtA hai| kleza rahita jIvana kara lenA, usakA nAma Adarza vyvhaar| hamArA Adarza vyavahAra hotA hai| hamase kisI ko ar3acana huI ho, aisA hotA nahIM hai| kisI ke khAte meM hamArI ar3acana jamA nahIM hotii| hameM koI ar3acana de aura hama bhI ar3acana deM to hama meM aura ApameM pharka kyA? hama sarala hote haiM, sAmanevAloM ko A~TI meM DAlakara sarala rahate haiN| isalie sAmanevAlA samajhatA hai ki, 'dAdA abhI kacce haiN|' hA~, kacce hokara chaTa jAnA behatara, parantu pakke hokara usakI jela meM jAnA galata, aise to kiyA jAtA hogA? hameM hamAre bhAgIdAra ne kahA ki, 'Apa bahuta bhole ho|' taba maiMne kahA ki, 'mujhe bholA kahanevAlA hI bholA hai|' taba unhoMne kahA ki, 'Apako bahuta loga chala jAte haiN|' taba maiMne kahA ki, 'hama jAna-bUjhakara chale jAte haiN|' hamArA saMpUrNa Adarza vyavahAra hotA hai| jinake vyavahAra meM koI bhI kamI hogI, vaha mokSa ke lie pUrA lAyaka huA nahIM kahA jaaegaa| praznakartA : jJAnI ke vyavahAra meM do vyaktiyoM ke bIca bheda hotA hai? dAdAzrI : unakI dRSTi meM bheda hI nahIM hotA, vItarAgatA hotI hai| unake vyavahAra meM bheda hotA hai| eka milamAlika aura usakA DrAivara yahA~ Ae, to seTha ko sAmane biThAU~ aura DAivara ko mere pAsa biThAU~. isase seTha kA pArA utara jAegA! aura pradhAnamaMtrI Ae~ to maiM khar3A hokara unakA svAgata karU~ aura unheM biThAU~, unakA vyavahAra nahIM cuuktaa| unheM to vinayapUrvaka Upara biThAU~, aura unheM yadi mere pAsa se jJAna grahaNa karanA ho, to mere sAmane nIce biThAU~, nahIM to U~ce bitthaauuN| lokamAnya ko vyavahAra kahA hai aura mokSamAnya ko nizcaya kahA hai| isalie lokamAnya vyavahAra ko usI rUpa meM eksepTa karanA par3atA hai| hama uThakara unheM nahIM bulAe~ to unako du:kha hogA, usakI jokhimadArI hamArI khlaaegii| praznakartA : bar3e hoM unheM pUjya mAnanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : bar3e matalaba umra meM bar3e aisA nahIM, phira bhI mA~jI bar3e hoM to unakA vinaya rakhanA cAhie aura jJAnavRddha hue hoM, ve pUjya mAne jAte haiN| jaina vyavahAra kA abhiniveza karane jaisA nahIM hai| vaiSNava vyavahAra kA abhiniveza karane jaisA nahIM hai| sArA abhiniveza vyavahAra hai| bhagavAna mahAvIra kA Adarza vyavahAra hotA thaa| Adarza vyavahAra ho matalaba duzmana ko bhI akharatA nahIM hai| Adarza vyavahAra matalaba mokSa jAne kI nishaanii| jaina yA vaiSNava gaccha meM se mokSa nahIM hai| hamArI AjJAe~ Apako Adarza vyavahAra kI tarapha le jAtI haiN| ve saMpUrNa samAdhi meM rakheM vaisI haiN| AdhivyAdhi-upAdhI meM samAdhi rahe aisA hai| bAhara sArA 'rileTiva' vyavahAra hai aura yaha to 'sAinsa' hai| sAinsa matalaba riyala! Adarza vyavahAra se apane se kisI ko duHkha nahIM hotA, apane se kisI ko duHkha nahIM ho utanA hI dekhanA hai| phira bhI apane se kisI ko duHkha ho jAe to turanta hI pratikramaNa kara lenaa| hamase kucha unakI bhASA meM nahIM jAyA jA sktaa| yaha jo vyavahAra meM paisoM ke lena-dena Adi vyavahAra hai, vaha to sAmAnya rivAja hai, use hama vyavahAra nahIM kahate, kisI ko du:kha nahIM honA cAhie, vaha dekhanA hai, aura duHkha huA ho to pratikramaNa

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10. Adarza vyavahAra 149 satsaMga meM se hama ghara samaya para jAte haiN| yadi rAta ko bAhara baje daravAz2A khaTakhaTAe~ to vaha kaisA dikhegA? gharavAle mu~ha para boleMge ki 'cAhe jaba Aoge to clegaa|' para unakA mana to chor3atA nahIM hai na? vaha to taraha-taraha kA dikhaaegaa| apane se unheM z2arA sA bhI duHkha kaise diyA jAe? yaha to niyama kahalAtA hai aura niyama ke AdhIna to rahanA hI par3atA hai| isI taraha do baje uThakara 'riyala' kI bhakti kareM to koI kucha bolatA hai? nA, koI nahIM puuchtaa| zuddha vyavahAra : sadvyavahAra praznakartA : zuddha vyavahAra kise kahanA cAhie? sadvyavahAra kise kahanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : 'svarUpa' kA jJAna prApta hone ke bAda hI zuddha vyavahAra zurU hotA hai, taba taka sadvyavahAra hotA hai| praznakartA: zuddha vyavahAra aura sadvyavahAra meM pharka kyA hai? dAdAzrI : sadvyavahAra ahaMkAra sahita hotA hai aura zuddha vyavahAra nirahaMkArI hotA hai| zuddha vyavahAra saMpUrNa dharmadhyAna detA hai aura sadvyavahAra alpa aMza meM dharmadhyAna detA hai| jitanA zuddha vyavahAra hotA hai, utanA zuddha upayoga rahatA hai| zuddha upayoga matalaba 'khuda' jJAtA dRSTA hotA hai, para dekhe kyA? taba kahe, zuddha vyavahAra ko dekho| zuddha vyavahAra meM nizcaya, zuddha upayoga hotA hai| kRpAludeva ne kahA hai: ' gacchamata nI je kalpanA te nahIM sdvyvhaar| sabhI saMpradAya, ve kalpita bAteM haiN| unameM sadvyavahAra bhI nahIM hai to phira vahA~ zuddha vyavahAra kI bAta kyA karanI? zuddha vyavahAra, vaha nirahaMkArI pada hai, zuddha vyavahAra spardhA rahita hai| hama yadi spardhA meM utareM to rAgadveSa hote haiN| hama to sabhI se kahate haiM ki Apa jahA~ ho vahIM ThIka ho / aura Apako koI kamI ho to yahA~ hamAre pAsa aao| hamAre yahA~ to prema kI hI barasAta hotI hai| koI dveSa karatA huA Ae phira bhI prema denA / kleza rahita jIvana kramika mArga matalaba zuddha vyavahAravAle hokara zuddhAtmA bano aura akrama mArga matalaba pahale zuddhAtmA banakara phira zuddha vyavahAra kro| zuddha vyavahAra meM vyavahAra sabhI hotA hai, para usameM vItarAgatA hotI hai| eka-do janmoM meM mokSa jAnevAle hoM, vahA~ se zuddha vyavahAra kI zurUAta hotI hai| 150 zuddha vyavahAra sparza nahIM kare, usakA nAma 'nizcaya' / vyavahAra utanA pUrA karanA ki nizcaya ko sparza nahIM kare, phira vyavahAra cAhe jisa prakAra kA ho / cokhA vyavahAra aura zuddha vyavahAra meM pharka hai| vyavahAra cokhA rakhe vaha mAnavadharma kahalAtA hai aura zuddha vyavahAra to mokSa meM le jAtA hai| bAhara yA ghara meM lar3AI-jhagar3A na kare vaha cokhA vyavahAra kahalAtA hai| aura Adarza vyavahAra kise kahA jAtA hai? khuda kI sugaMdhI phailAe vaha / Adarza vyavahAra aura nirvikalpa pada ve donoM prApta ho jAe~ phira bacA kyA? itanA to pUre brahmAMDa ko badalakara rakha de| Adarza vyavahAra se mokSArtha sadhe dAdAzrI : terA vyavahAra kaisA karanA cAhatA hai? praznakartA: saMpUrNa Adarza / dAdAzrI : bUr3hA hone ke bAda Adarza vyavahAra ho, vaha kisa kAma kA? Adarza vyavahAra to jIvana kI zurUAta se honA cAhie / 'varlDa' meM eka hI manuSya Adarza vyavahAravAlA ho to usase pUrA 'varlDa' badala jAe aisA hai| praznakartA: Adarza vyavahAra kisa taraha hotA hai? dAdAzrI : Apako (mahAtmAoM ko) jo nirvikalpa pada prApta huA hai to usameM rahane se Adarza vyavahAra apane Apa aaegaa| nirvikalpa pada prApta hone ke bAda koI daqhala hotI nahIM hai, phira bhI Apase dakhala ho jAe to Apa merI AjJA meM nahIM haiM, hamArI pA~ca AjJA Apako bhagavAna mahAvIra jaisI

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UparI kalpa goThavaNI noMdha niyANAM dhaula silaka 10. Adarza vyavahAra 151 sthiti meM rakheM aisI haiN| vyavahAra meM hamArI AjJA Apako bAdhaka nahIM hai, Adarza vyavahAra meM rakhe aisI hai| 'yaha' jJAna to vyavahAra ko kamplITa Adarza banAe aisA hai| mokSa kisakA hogA? Adarza vyavahAravAle kaa| aura 'dAdA' kI AjJA vaha Adarza vyavahAra lAtI hai| jarA-sI bhI kisI kI bhUla Ae to vaha Adarza vyavahAra nahIM hai| mokSa koI 'gappa' nahIM hai, vaha haqIqata svarUpa hai| mokSa koI vakIloM kA khojA huA nahIM hai| vakIla to 'gappa' meM se khojeM, vaisA yaha nahIM hai, yaha to haqIqata svarUpa hai| eka bhAI mujhe eka bar3e Azrama meM mile| maiMne unase pUchA ki, 'yahA~ kahA~ se Apa?' taba unhoMne kahA ki, 'maiM isa Azrama meM pichale dasa varSa se raha rahA huuN|' taba maiMne unase kahA ki, 'Apake mA~-bApa gA~va meM bahuta garIba hAlata meM aMtima avasthA meM duHkhI ho rahe haiN|' taba unhoMne kahA ki, 'usameM maiM kyA karU~? maiM unakA karane jAU~ to merA dharma karane kA raha jaaegaa|' ise dharma kaise kahA jAe? dharma to usakA nAma ki jo mA~-bApa ko bulAe, bhAI ko bulAe, sabako bulaae| vyavahAra Adarza honA caahie| jo vyavahAra khada ke dharma ko dhikkAre, mA~-bApa ke saMbaMdha ko ThukarAe, use dharma kaise kahA jAe? are! mana meM dI gaI gAlI yA a~dhere meM kie gae kRtya, ve saba bhayaMkara gunAha haiM! vaha samajhatA hai ki, 'mujhe kauna dekhanevAlA hai, aura kauna ise jAnanevAlA hai?' are, yaha nahIM hai popAbAI kA rAja! yaha to bhayaMkara gunAha hai| ina sabako a~dhere kI bhUleM hI parezAna karatI haiN| vyavahAra Adarza honA caahie| yadi vyavahAra meM atyadhika satarka hue to kaSAyI ho jAte haiN| yaha saMsAra to nAva hai, aura nAva meM cAya-nAztA saba karanA hai para samajhanA hai ki isase kinAre taka jAnA hai| isalie bAta ko smjho| 'jJAnI puruSa' ke pAsa to bAta ko kevala samajhanI hI hai, karane kA kucha bhI nahIM hai| aura jo samajhakara usameM samA gayA to ho gayA vItarAga! jaya saccidAnaMda mUla gujarAtI zabdoM ke samAnArthI zabda : baoNsa, variSTha mAlika : kAlacakra : seTiMga, prabaMdha, vyavasthA : atyaMta rAga athavA dveSa sahita lambe samaya taka yAda rakhanA, noTa karanA apanA sArA puNya lagAkara kisI eka vastu kI kAmanA karanA : hathelI se mAranA : rAhakharca, pU~jI : phajItA : satahI, Upara Upara se, suparaphluasa : kur3hana, kleza : becainI, azAMti, ghabarAhaTa gurajanoM kI kRpA aura prasannatA : jamApUMjI : maiM hU~ aura merA hai, aisA AropaNa, merApana : bhAvukatAvAlA prema, lagAva tAyafA upalaka kar3hApA ajaMpA rAjIpA silaka potAparyu lAgaNI

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nau kalameM (bhAvanAe~) 1. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA kiMcitmAtra bhI aham na dubhe (duHkhe), na dubhAyA (du:khAyA) jAye yA dubhAne (du:khAne) ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe kisI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA kiMcitmAtra bhI aham na dubhe, aisI syAdvAda vANI, syAvAda vartana aura syAdvAda manana karane kI parama zakti do| 2. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dharma kA kiMcitmAtra bhI pramANa na dubhe, na dubhAyA jAye yA dubhAne ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe kisI bhI dharma kA kiMcitmAtra bhI pramANa na dubhAyA jAye aisI syAdvAda vANI, syAdvAda vartana aura syAdvAda manana karane kI parama zakti do| 3. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI upadezaka sAdhu, sAdhvI yA AcArya kA avarNavAda, aparAdha, avinaya na karane kI parama zakti do| 4. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke prati kiMcitmAtra bhI abhAva, tiraskAra kabhI bhI na kiyA jAye, na karavAyA jAye yA kartA ke prati na anumodita kiyA jAye, aisI parama zakti do| 5. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke sAtha kabhI bhI kaThora bhASA, taMtIlI bhASA na bolI jAye, na bulavAI jAye yA bolane ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| koI kaThora bhASA, taMtIlI bhASA boleM to mujhe mRdu-Rju bhASA bolane kI zakti do| 6.he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke prati strI. paruSa yA napuMsaka, koI bhI liMgadhArI ho, to usake saMbaMdha meM kiciMtamAtra bhI viSaya-vikAra saMbaMdhI doSa, icchAe~, ceSTAe~ yA vicAra saMbaMdhI doSa na kiye jAyeM, na karavAye jAyeM yA kartA ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe niraMtara nirvikAra rahane kI parama zakti do| 7. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI rasa meM lubdhatA na ho aisI zakti do| samarasI AhAra lene kI parama zakti do| 8. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA pratyakSa athavA parokSa, jIvita athavA mRta, kisI kA kiMcitmAtra bhI avarNavAda, aparAdha, avinaya na kiyA jAye, na karavAyA jAye yA kartA ke prati anumodanA na kI jAyeM, aisI parama zakti do| 9. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe jagata kalyANa karane meM nimitta banane kI parama zakti do, zakti do, zakti do| (itanA Apa dAdA bhagavAna se mA~gA kreN| yaha pratidina yaMtravat par3hane kI cIz2a nahIM hai, hRdaya meM rakhane kI cIja hai| yaha pratidina upayogapUrvaka bhAvanA karane kI cIz2a hai| itane pATha meM samasta zAstroM kA sAra A jAtA hai|) pratikramaNa vidhi pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, dehadhArI (jisake prati doSa huA ho, usa vyakti kA nAma) ke mana-vacana-kAyA ke yoga, bhAvakarmadravyakarma-nokarma se bhinna aise he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna, ApakI sAkSI meM, Aja dina taka mujhase jo jo ** doSa hue haiM, usake lie kSamA mA~gatA huuN| hRdayapUrvaka bahuta pazcAtApa karatA huuN| mujhe kSamA kreN| aura phira se aise doSa kabhI bhI nahIM karU~, aisA dRr3ha nizcaya karatA huuN| usake lie mujhe parama zakti dIjie, zakti dIjie, zakti diijie| ** krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha, viSaya-vikAra, kaSAya Adi se kisI ko bhI duHkha pahu~cAyA ho, usa doSo ko mana meM yAda kreN| dAdA bhagavAnanA asIma jaya jayakAra ho (pratidina kama se kama 10 minaTa se lekara 50 minaTa taka jora se boleM)

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