Jain Dharm aur Vidhva Vivaha 02

Author(s): Savyasachi
Publisher: Jain Bal Vidhva Sahayak Sabha Delhi
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/010349/1

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vaTa na0 13 jainadharma aura vidhavA-vivAha ( dUsarA bhAga ) ethamavAra 6000 -- zrIyut " savyasAcI" prkAzaka--- maMtrI jaina bAlavidhavA- sahAyaka sabhA darIyA kalaoN, DheDalI 20 mudraka - "caitanya" prinTiGa presa. bijanaura (yU0pI0) } sana 163110 { mUlya 1=J

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askaay'aa lA0 jauharImala jaina sarrAfa mantrI jaina bAla vidhavAsahAyaka sabhA, darIbA kalaoN, dehalI U TERRATHI mudrazAnticandra jaina, "caitanya" prinTiGga presa, vijanaura (yU0 pI0) :

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zuddhAzuddhi-patra pRSTha 20 20 zuddha Gopa TApa 28 yadatrAyaM ve puruSatva-madonmatta ke liye vRSala niyama siMho 41 41 41 pakti azaddha 16 DIpa 16 TIe 26 padatrAyaM 13 vaha puruSa madonmatta . meM 17 vRSAla 4 nimaya 16 siMho 20 yAtyAnazca 22 saepa 21 khada hI 17 cAhiye 11 ceTTaka 18 bhokI 4 yukti se jItane para 15 sandhera 25 ka - nAvI yAtyanizca sa para 71 cAhiye chedaka bhoktrI yukti se najItane para andhera 176 180 navAbI

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pRSTha pakti azuddha 182 23 mUlAkAra 182 7 mulApAra 183 6 mUlApAra 185 7 kubhi 188 5 Adi 163 204 206 1 211 1 vyAkhyAmyAyaH 213 20 sukhAvasthaivimuktA 214 12 cisakA 227 12 saddhA 226 niroga 226 8 niroga 1 13 15 vyabhicAra nahIM hai zrapatiranyA praproga zuddha mUlAcAra mUlAcAga mulAcAra phubhi anAdi vyabhicAra bhI nahIM hai apanirabhyAM prayoga vyAkhyAsyAmaH sukhAvamvairvimuktA jisakA rudrA nIroga nIroga

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* Avazyaka nivedana * - - jaina mamAja aura hinda mamAja kI ghaTI kA muraya kAraNa vidhavAvivAha se ghRNA karanA va usako vyabhicAra yA pApa mamamanA hai| lAkhoM hI saMtAna bina vivAhe kumAre raha jAte hai, kyoMki unako nyAya nahIM miltii| isaliye ve jaya marate haiM naya apane gharoM meM saTA ke liye tAle lagA jAte haiN| udhara vidhura purura apane paka jIvana meM kaI 2 yAra zAdiyAM karate haiM, vRddha hone para bhI nahIM cUkate hai, jisakA phala yaha hotA hai ki bahuta mI yuvAna vidhavAe~ binA sanAna raha jAtI hai| koI jo dhanavAna honI hai ve gAMda le lenI hai zeSa aneka niHsaMtAna marakara apane gharameM nAlA de jAtI haiN| isa taraha kuvAre puruSoM ke kAraNa va bahusaMnyaka vidhavAoM ke kAraNa jaina samAja tathA hindU mamAja bar3e vega se ghaTa rahA hai| jahAM 25 varSa pahale 100 ghara the vahAM aba 40-50 hI ghara pAe jAne haiN| jaipura meM 25 va 30 varSa pahale jainiyoM ke 3000 ghara the, aba mAtra 1800 hI raha gapa hai| udhara yuvAna vidhavAoM ko anekoM gupta pApoM meM phaMsakara ghora vyabhicAra va hiMsA ke pApa meM sananA par3atA hai| ve brahmacarya pha bhAra ko na maha sakane ke kAraNa patita ho jAnI haiN| yaha saba vRthA hI kaSTa va hAni uThAI jA rahI hai, kevala

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[kha] isa hI vicAra se ki vidhavAvivAha kI iz2Az2ata jaina siddhAMta va hindU zAstra nahIM detA / hindu zAstroM meM to atharvaveda va mmRtiyoM meM punarvivAha kA spaSTa kathana hai / jaina siddhAnta dvArA yaha siddha hai yA zrasiddha isa prazna ko mAnanIya vairipura campatarAya jI ne uThAyA thA / usakA samAdhAna 'savyasAcI' mahodaya ne caDI hI akATya va prauDha yuktiyoM ke dvArA dekara yaha siddha kara diyA thA ki vidhavAvivAha kanyA vivAha ke samAna hai va isase gRhadharma meM koI bAdhA nahIM AtI hai| yaha saba samA dhAna 'jainadharma aura vidhavAvivAha' nAmaka Traka meM prakAzita ho cukA hai / isa samAdhAna para paNDita zrIlAlajI pATanI alIgaDha tathA paM0 vidyAnanda zarmA ne zrAkSepa uThAe the - unakA bhI samAdhAna ukta savyasAcIjI ne 'jaina jagata' meM prakAzita kara diyA hai | vahI saba samAdhAna isa pustaka meM diyA jAtA hai, jise paDhakara pAThakagaNa niHzaka ho jAyeMge ki vidhavAvivAha na to vyabhicAra hai aura na pApa hai - mAtra kanyAvivAha va vidhuravivAha ke samAna eka nIti pUrNa laukika kArya hai itanA hI 'nahIM - yaha usa abalA ko vyabhicAra va hiMsA ke ghora pApoM se bacAne vAlA hai / sarva hI jaina va hiMdU bhAiyoM ko ucita hai ki isa pustaka ko Adi se anta taka par3heM / unakA citta bilakula mAnalegA ki vidhavAvivAha niSiddha nahIM hai kintu vidheya hai / pAThakoM ko ucita hai ki bhArata meM jo gupta vyabhicAra va - hiMsA vidhavAoM ke kAraNa ho rahI hai usako dUra karAve - L

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[ga] usakA upAya yahI hai ki hara eka kuTumya apane 2 ghara meM jo ko vidhayA ho jAya usase ekAnta meM yAna kreN| yadi uma ko bAnatrIta meM va usake rahana sahana ke Dhaga se pratIta ho ki yaha brAhmavayaM vrata ko pAla legI naya to use vairAgya ke sAdhanoM meM rakha denA cAhiye aura jo koI kaheM ki vaha pUrNa brahmacarya nahIM pAla mAnI hai naya jo umaU marakSaka ho-cAhe pitA ghara vAle cAhe zrasura ghara vAle unakA yaha pavitra kartavya hai ki umakA kanyA ke mamAna mAnakara usakA vivAha yogya puruSa ke mAya kara de / yo lajjA ke kAraNa apane manakA hAla spaSTa nahIM kahanI hai| unake maMgnakoM kA kartavya hai ki usakI zakti ke anumAra usake jIvana kA nirNaya krdeN| samAja kI rakSA cAhane vAlA mantrI - -

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* dhanyavAda * isa haika ke chapavAne ke liye nimnalikhita mahAnubhAvoM ! ne sahAyatA pradAna kI hai, jinako sabhA hArdika dhanyavAda detI hai, sAtha hI samAja ke anya strI puruSoM se nivedana karatI hai ki va bhI nimna zrImAnoM kA anukaraNa karake aura apanI dukhita bahinoM para tarasa khAkara isI prakAra sahAyatA pradAna karane kI udAratA dikhalA : 25) lA0 dhanakumAra jI jaina kAnapura / 21) guptadAna ( eka jaina ) kAnapura / 20) guptadAna (eka vakIla) lkhnuu| 10 lA0 rAmajIdAsa saTara bAjAra dehlii| 10) cA0 ulaphatarAya iMjIniyara dehlii| 10) vA0 mahAvIra prasAda dehalI / 10) lA0 kizanalAla dehlii| 10) lA0 gulAbasiMha vajIrImala dehlii| 10 lA0 bholAnAtha mukhatAra vulndshhr| 10) vA0 mAIdayAla cI0 e0 Anarsa ambAlA / 10 lA0 kezarImala zrIrAma dehalI / 10) lA0 lalatAprasAda jaina amrohaa| 10) bA0 pacamalAla jaina tahamIladAra jabalapura / 10) lA0 vizambhara dAsa gArgIya jhaaNsii| 10) guptadAna (eka bAbU sAhaba ) dehlii| 10) guptadAna (eka bAvU sAhaba ) kerAnA / 10) guptadAna ( eka ThekedAra sAhaba ) dehlii| 10) guptadAna ( eka raIsa sAhava ) vijanaura / 5)guptadAna (eka sarrAfa) dehlii| 5) guptadAna ( eka jaina ) gohAnA /

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vidhavAvivAha aura jainadharma! -restarctor.. AkSepoM kA muMha tor3a uttara sabase pahilI aura mudde kI yAta meM pAThakoM se yaha kaha denA cAhatA hU~ ki mere khayAla se jainadharma pAralaukika unnati ke liye jitanA sarvottama hai unanA hI laukika unnati ke liye suvidhAjanaka hai| samAja kI unnati ke liye aura samAja kI rakSA ke liye aisA koI bhI rItirivAja nahIM hai joki jainadharma ke pratikUla ho / jainadharma kisI ghUsakhora va anyAyI majisTreTa kI taraha pakSapAta nahIM karatA jisase puruSoM ke sAtha vaha riyAyata kare aura triyoM ko pIsa DAle / triyoM ke liye aura zUdroM ke liye usane vahI suvidhA dI hai jo ki puruSAM ke liye aura dvijoM ke liye / jainadharma kI aneka khabiyoM meM ye + isa paigamApha ke pratyeka vAkya kA meM acchI taraha vicAra kara likha rahA huuN| isameM maiMne uttejanA yA atizayokti se kAma nahIM liyA hai| isake kisI cAya yA zabda ke liye agara koI nayA Andolana uThAnA par3e to maiM usake liye bhI naiyAra hai| agara koI mahAzaya zrAkSepa karane kA kae kareM to baDI kRpA hogI, kyoMki isa bahAne se eka Andolana ko khar3A karane kA maukA mila jaaygaa| -lekhaka

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donoM khaviyA~ bahuta bar3I khatriyA~ haiM / sAmAjika-rakSA aura unnatike sAtha bhAtmika-rakSA aura unnatike liye suvidhA denA aura kisIke adhikArako na chInanA, ye donoM bAte agara jaina. dharma meM na hogI to kisa dharma meM hogI? agara kisI dharma meM ye donoM bAteM nahIM hai to yaha ina donoM bAtoM kA durbhAgya nahIM hai, kintu usadharmakA hIdurbhAgya hai / yaha smaraNa rakhanA cAhiye ki dharmagranthoM meM'na likhI hone se acchI bAtoM kI kImata nahIM ghaTatI, kintu acchI bAteM na likhI hone se dharmagranthoM kI kImata ghaTatI hai| pratyeka strI puruSa ko kizora avasthA se lekara yuvA avasthA ke anta taka vivAha karane kA janmasiddha adhikAra hai| purupa isa adhikAra kA upayoga mAtrA se adhika karatA rahe aura striyoM ko jarUrata hone para bhI na karane de; itanA hI nahIM kintu vaha apanI yaha nAdirazAhI dharma ke nAma para usameM bhI jainadharma ke nAma para--calAve, isa andhera kA kucha ThikAnA hai ! mujhe to unakI nirlajatA para Azcarya hotA hai ki jo puruSa apane do do cAra cAra vivAha kara lene para bhI vidhavAoM ke punarvivAhako dharmaviruddha kahane kI dhRSTatA karate hai| jisa kAmadeva ke zrAge ve naGge nAcate haiM, vRddhAvasthAmeM bhI vivAha karate hai, eka kasAI kI taraha kanyAe~ kharIdate haiM, usI 'kAma' ke AkamaNale java eka yuvatI vidhavA dukhI hotI hai aura apanA vivAha karanA cAhatI hai to ye karatA aura nirlajjatA ke avatAra dharmaviruddhatA kA Dara dikhalAte haiN| yaha kaisI bezaramo hai ! , vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI kahate haiM ki puruSoM ko punavivAha kA adhikAra hai aura striyoM ko nahIM / aise atyAcAra.

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pUrNa ahavAra ke ye loga zikAra ho rahe haiM, jaba ki vidhavA. vivAha ke samarthaka isa viSaya meM striyoM ko puruSoM ke samAna adhikAra denA cAhate haiN| vidhavAvivAha ke samarthaka, puruSa hone para bhI apane vizeSAdhikAra, vinA striyoM kI preraNA ke choDanA cAhate hai| striyoM ke duHkha se unakA hRdaya dravita hai; imIliye svArthI puruSoM ke virodha karane para bhI ve isa kAma meM lage haiN| apamAna tiraskAra zrAdi kI bilakula parvAha nahIM krte| vidhavAvivAha-samarthakoM kI isa nisvArthatA, udAratA, tyAga, dayA, mahanazIlatA, vartavyapagayaNanA aura dhArmikatA ko vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI kATajanma tapa tapane para bhI nahIM pA makte / ye svArtha ke putale jaba vidhavAvivAha samarthakoM ko mvArthI kaha kara "ulTA cAra kAnavAla ko DaoNTe" kI kahAvata caritArtha karate hai taba inakI dhRSTatA kI parAkASThA ho jAnI hai| zaitAna jaya ulaTa kara Izvara se hI zaitAna kahane lagatA hai taba usa kI zaitAniyata kI sImA prAjAtI hai| vidhavAvivAha kevigedhI zaitAniyana kI aisI hI sImA para pahuMce hai| samAla ke bhItara chipI huI isa zaitAniyata ko dUra karane ke liye,maiMne vidhavAvivAha ke samarthana meM vairiera capata. gayajI ke praznoM ke uttara diye the| usake khaDana kA prayAsa jaina gaz2aTa dvArA do mahAzayoM ne kiyA hai eka to paM0 zrIlAla jI alIgar3ha, dUsare pa0vidyAnandajI gamapura, / una donoM lekhoM ko anAvazyaka rUpase baDhAyA gayA hai| lekha meM vyaktitva ke apara baDI asabhyatA ke sAtha AkramaNa kiyA gayA hai / asa. bhyatA se peza thAne meM koI bahAdurI nahIM hai| isalie asabhya zabdoM kA uttara meM isa lekha meM na duuNgaa| una donoM lekhakoM se jahAM kucha bhI khaDana nahIM bana paDA hai vahA~ unhoMne "chichi.", "dhika dhika", "yaha to ghRNita hai",

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( 4 ) Adi zabdoM kI bharamAra kI hai| aise zabdoM kA mI uttara na diyA jAyagA / vidyAnandajI ne mere legna ke uddharaNa zradhare adhUre liye haiM aura kahIM kahIM atyAvazyaka uddharaNa choDa diyA hai / isa viSaya meM to maiM paM0 zrIlAla jI ko dhanyavAda daMgA jinhoMne mere pUre uddharaNa lene meM udAratA dikhalAI / uddharaNa adharA hone para bhI aisA avazya honA cAhiye jimase pAThaka ulaTA na smjhleN| dono lekha lambe lambe haiN| unameM bahuta sI aimI pAne bhI hai jinakA vidhavAvivAha ke prazna se sambandha nahIM hai, parantu donoM mahAzayoM ke santoSArtha maiM una bAtoM para bhI vicAra kruuNgaa| isase pAThakoM ko bhI itanA lAbha jarUra hogA ki ve jainadharma kI anyAnya vAto se bhI paricita ho jAyeMge / mega vizvAsa hai ki vaha paricaya anAvazyaka na hogaa| campatarAyajI ke 31 praznoM ke uttara meM jo kucha mene likhA thA usake khaNDana meM donoM mahAzayoMne jo kucha likhA hai, usakA sAra maine nikAla liyA hai| nIce unake eka eka AkSepa kA alaga alaga samAdhAna kiyA jAtA hai| pahile zrIlAlajI ke prAkSepoM kA, phira vidyAnandajI ka AkSepoM kA samAdhAna phiyA gayA hai ! maiM virodhiyoM se nivedana karatA hU~ yA caileja detA hU~ ki unase jitanA bhI AkSepa karate bane, khuzIse kreN| maiM uttara dene ko taiyAra huuN| pahalA prazna AkSepa (a)-samyaktva kI dhAtaka sAta prakRtiyoM meM cAra anantAnubandhI kaSAyeM bhI zAmila haiN| vidhavAvivAha ke liye jitanI tIvra kaSAya kI jarUrata hai vaha anantAnubandhI ke , udaya ke binA nahIM ho sktii| jaise parastrIsevana anantAnubadhI

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ke udaya ke binA nahIM ho sakanA / imaliye jaba vidhavAvivAha meM anantAnubandhI kA udaya mA gayA to samyatva naSTa hogyaa| samAdhAna (a)-jaya strI ke mara jAne para, puruSa dasarA vivAha karatA hai nI tIna rAgI nahIM kahalAtA, taba puruSa ke mara jAne para strI agara dUmaga vivAha kare to usake nIna rAga kAmAndhatA kyoM mAnI jAyagI? yadi koI puruSa eka strI ke rahate hue bhI 66 hajAra vivAha kare yA striyA~ rakpe to usa kA yaha kAma yinA notra gaganahIM holaanaa| lekina 664z2Ara patriyoM ke tovagaga le bhI samyaktvakA nAza nahIM hotA, balki vaha brahmacaryAzuvatI bhI raha sastA hai / jaba itanA nIvra gaga mI mamyaktva kA nAza nahIM kara sakatA taya pani mara jAne para eka puruSa se zAdI karane vAlI vidhavA kA samyaktva yA zrA vrata kaise naSTa hogA? aura aNuvrata dhAraNa karane vAlI vidhavA aimI panita kyoM mAnI jAyagI ki jimase use grahaNa karane vAle kA bhI namyatva naSTa ho jAve? vidhavAvivAha se vyabhicAra utanA hI dUra hai, jitanA ki kumArI vivAha se / jaise vivAha hone ke pahile kumAra aura kumAriyoM kA mabhoga bhI vyabhicAra hai, kintu vivAha hone ke bAda una donoM kA sabhoga vyabhicAra nahIM kahalAtA, usI taraha vivAha hone ke pahile agara vidhavA sammAMga kare to vyabhicAra hai, parantu vivAha ke bAda hone vAlA sambhoga vyabhicAra nahIM hai / gRhasthoM ke liye vyabhicAra kI paribhASA yahI hai ki-"jisake sAtha vivAha na dumA ho usake sAtha sambhoga krnaa"| yadi vivAha ho jAne para bhI vyabhicAra mAnA jAyagA to vivAha kI prathA bilakula nikammI ho jAyagI aura zrAjanma brahmacAriyoM ko choDa kara mamI vyabhicArI sAbita hoNge|

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tIvratA mandatA kI dRSTi se sakyAya pravRtti chaH bhAgoM meM baoNTI gaI hai, jinheM hamaNa, nIla, kApota, pIta, padma, eka zabdoM se kahate hai| inameM sabase jyAdA tIvra kRSNa lezyA hai| lekni kRSNa lezyA ke ho jAne para bhI samyatva kA nAza nahIM hotaa| isIliye gommaTasAra meM likhA hai "ayadoti cha lessAnI" arthAt avirata samyagdRSTi jIva taka chahoM lezyAe~ hotI hai| agara vidhavAvivAha meM kRSNa lezyArUpa pariNAma bhI hote to bhI sasyatva kA nAza nahIM ho sakatA thaa| phira to vidhavAvivAha meM zubha lezyA rahatI hai, taba samyaktatva kA nAza kaise hogA? AkSepaka ne parastrIsevana anantAnubandhI ke udaya se batalAyA hai / yaha bAta bhI anucita hai| maiM parastrIsevana kA samarthana nahIM karatA, kintu AkSepaka kI zAstrIya nAma: majhI ko dUra kara denA ucita hai / parastrI sevana apratyAkhyA. nAvaraNa kapAyake udayase hotA hai| kyoMki apratyArayAnAvaraNa kapAya dezavata-aNuvrata kI ghAtaka hai aura aNuvata ke ghAta hone para hI parastrI sevana hotA hai / AkSepaka ko yaha jAnanA cAhiye ki aNuvatI, pAMca pApoM kA tyAgI hotA hai na ki avirata smygdRsstti| khaira ! mujhe vyabhicAra kI puSTi nahIM karanA haiN| vyabhicAra aura vidhavAvivAha meM var3A antara hai| vyabhi. cAra apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa aura vidhavA vivAha pratyArayAnAbaraNa kaSAya ke udaya se hotA hai| aisI hAlata meM vidhavA mere pahile lekha meM isa jagaha apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa rUpa gayA hai| pAThaka sudhArakara pratyAkhyAnAvaraNa krle|-lekhk

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vivAhako anantAnuvandhIke udayase mAnanA aura usase samya. patva nAza kI bAta kahanA bilakula mithyA hai| AkSepa (A)-parastrI sevana sapta vyasanoM meM hai| sabhyakvI sapta vyasana sebI nahIM hotaa| vidhavAvivAha parastrIsevana hai| isaliye trikAlameM samyaktvoke nahIM ho sktaa| samAdhAna--parastrI-sevana vyasanoM meM zAmila jarUra hai, parantu parastrI sevI hone se hI korDa parastrI vyasanI nahIM ho jaataa| parastrI sevana vyasana kA tyAga pahilI pratimA mAnA jAtA hai, parantu parastrI levana pahilI pratimA bhI ho sakatA hai, kyoMki parastrIsevana kA tyAga dusarI pratimA meM mAnA gayA hai| yahAM pApaka ko vyasana aura pApa kA antara samajhanA caahiye| avirata samyagdRSTi ko pahilo pratimA kA dhAraNa karanA anivArya nahIM hai| isa liye saptavyasana kA tyAga bhI anivArya na kahalAyA / hA~, abhyAsa ke rUpa meM vaha bahuta sI bAtoM kA tyAga kara sakatA hai, parantu isa se vaha tyAgI yA vatI nahIM kahalA sakatA / aura, samyastvI parastrI-sevI rahe / yA parastrI-tyAgI, parantu samyaktva kA vidhavA vivAhase koI virodha nahIM hosakatA, kyoMki vidhavA vivAha parastrI sevana nahIM hai| yaha bAta meM "a" nambara ke samAdhAna meM siddha kara cukA hai| . prAkSepa (i) yaha niyama karanA ki sAtaveM naraka meM , samyaktva naSTa nahIM hotA, lekhaka kI akSatA hai| kyA vahA~ / sAyika samyaktva ho jAtA hai ? narakoM meM nArakI apane kiye / hue pApoM kA phala bhogate haiN| yadi vahAM mI ce vidhavAvivAha se adhika pApa-karane vAle Thahara jAyeM to usa kie hue pApa kA phala kahA~ bhoge?

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samAdhAna-sAtaye naraka meM samyaktva naSTa na hone kI vAta meM niyama karane kI bAta AkSepakane apane manase ghuseDa dI hai| sAtaye naraka ke nArakI ke na to samyaktva hone kA niyama hai na sadA sthira rahanekA / yAta itanI hI hai ki sAta naraka kA nArakI zrIpazamika aura vAyopazamika samyaktva paidAkara sakatA hai aura vaha samyaktva (bAyopazamika) kucha kama tetIsa sAgara taka raha sakatA hai / tAtparya yaha ki vahA~ kI paramakRSNa lezyA aura rogapariNAmo se itane samaya taka usake samyaktva kA nAza nahIM hotaa| usake samya. svakA kabhI nAza hI nahIM hotA-yaha maiMne nahIM khaa| sAnave naraka ke nArakI eka dUsare ko pAnI meM pela dete hai, mADa meM bhUja dete hai, Are se cIra DAlate hai, garama kaDAhI meM pakA DAlate haiM ! kyA aise kara kAmoM se bhI vidhavAvivAha kA kAma burA hai ? kyA unake ina kAmoM se pApa bandha nahIM hotA ? sAtaveM naraka ke nArakI yadi pApI na hote to ve tiryaJcagatimeM hI kyoM jAte ? aura unakA vaha pApa itanA jabardasta kyoM hotA. ki unheM eka bAra phira kisI na kisI naraka meM Ane ke liye bAdhya karatA? tatvArthasArake isa zloka para vicAra kIjiye na labhante manuSyatva saptamyA nirgatAH kssiteH| tiryaktve ca samutpadya narakaM yAnti te punaH // 14 // arthAt-sAtave naraka se nikalA huA jIva manuSya nahIM ho sakatA / tiryaJca gati meM paidA hokara use phira naraka meM hI jAnA par3atA hai| kyA vidhavAvivAha karane vAloM ke liye bhI zAstra meM aisA kahIM vidhAna hai ? AkSepaka kI yaha bAta par3ha kara ha~sI zrAtI hai ki sAtaveM naraka ke nArakI yadi z2yAdA pApa kareMge to phala kahA~ bhogeMge 1 tatvArthasAra ke upayukta zloka meM bata

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( 6 ) lAyA huyA vidhAna yA phala bhogane ke lipa kama hai ? hAM to sAna naraka ke nAgthI jIvana bhara mAra kATa karate hai aura unakA pApa yahA~ taka yaha jAnA hai ki niyama se unheM niryaJca gati meM hI jAnA par3atA hai aura phira niyama se unha naraka meM hI lauTanA paDatA hai / me pApiyoM meM bhI samyaktva kucha kama netIma sAgara arthAta pani hone ke bAda ne mAMgA ke kucha samaya pahile nara sadA raha sakatA hai| bara "mamyanya vidhavAvicAra karane vAle ke nahIM raha sktaa| balihArI hai isa mamajhadArI kii| prAraMpa ()-nArakriyA satavyasana kI sAmagrI nahIM himazina madhyanayana ho yora hokara bhI haTa jaaye| lH gh shaasn naa gaan dbignaanniaa ii niy'm kuda bhI mUlya nahIM rkhtaa| samAdhAna----yApaka ke bahAnese yA tAtparya nikalatA hai ki agara narakoM meM mata vyasana kI mAmagrI hotI to mamya patya na hotA aura TUTa jAtA (nae hojaataa)| vahAM mana vyasana kI sAmagrI nahIM hai isalie manyakta hotA hai aura hokara nahIM ghaTatA hai (naSTa nahIM hotA hai naraka meM mamyaktva ke naSTa na hone kI yAna jaba hamane kahI thI, taba zrApa vigaDe the| yahA~ yahI thAna prApane svIkAra karalI hai| kaisI agata sana. kaMnA hai| mAna narama dRSyAMna ne yaha bAta acchI taraha middha ho jAtI hai ki jaya parama kRpA leNyA ghAlA kara karmA, ghora pApI nArakI samyaktvI raha sakatA hai to vidhavA-vivAha vAlA-jo ki aggunanI bhI ho sakatA hai-samyaktvI kyoM nahIM raha sakatA? prAraMpa (3)-pA~coM pApoM meM eka hai sAlpI hiMsA,

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( 10 ) so saMkalpI hiMsA karane vAlA zrAseTa vAloM kI taraha sapta vyasanI hai| usake kabhI samyaktva nahIM hosakatA / bhalA jahA~ prazama- savega ho gaye hA~ vahA~ saMkalpI hiMsA honA trikAla meM mI sambhava nahIM hai / - samAdhAna -- yahA~ para prakSepaka vyasana aura pApake bheda ko bhUla gayA hai / pratyeka vyasana pApa hai, parantu pratyeka pApa vyalana nahIM hai / isaliye pApa ke sadbhAva se vyasana ke sadbhAva kI kalpanA karanA zrAcAra zAstra se anabhijJatA pragaTa karanA hai | zrakSepaka agara apanI pArTI ke vidvAnoM se bhI isa vyApya vyApaka sambandhako samajhane kI veza karegA to samajha sakegA / prakSepaka ke matAnusAra saptavyasana kA tyAga darzana pratimA ke pahile hai, jaba ki saMkalpI hiMsA kA tyAga dUsarI pratimA meM haiM / isase siddha huA ki darzana pratimA ke pahale aura sAticAra hone se darzana pratimA meM bhI saptabhyasana ke na hone para bhI saMkalpI hiMsA hai| kyA AkSepaka itanI moTI bAta bhI nahIM samajhatA ? 'prazama savega hojAne se saMkalpI hiMsA nahIM hotI' yaha bhI zrAtapaka kI samajha kI bhUla hai / prazama saMvegAdi to caturtha guNasthAna meM ho jAte haiM, jabaki maMkalpI trasa hiMsA kA tyAga pA~caveM guNasthAnameM hotA hai| isase siddha huA ki caturtha guNasthAna meM - jahA~ ki jIva samyaktvI hotA hai- prazama savegAdi hone para bhI saGkalpI trasa hiMsA hotI hai / qhaira, prakSepaka yahaoN para bahuta bhUlA hai / use gommaTasAra Adi granthoM se zraviratasamyagdaSTi aura dezavirata ke antara ko samajha lenA cAhiye / AkSepa (U) - jaba puruSa ke strI veda kA udaya hotA hai, taba vivAhAdi kI sUjhatI hai / malA apratyAsthAnAvaraNa kaSAya vedanIya se kyA sambandha hai ?

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samAdhAna-strIveTa ke udaya se vivAhAdi kI mRjhatI hai-mAnepaka kI yaha bAta pAThaka dhyAna meM rasva kyoMki bhAge isI vAkya ke virodha meM svayaM dhAnepaka ne vakavAda kiyA hai| aura, strIveTe ke udaya se vivAha kI nahIM, sambhoga kI icchA hotI hai| sambhoga kI icchA hone para agara apratyArayAnA. varaNa kA udayAbhAvI kSaya hotA hai to vaha aNuvrata dhAraNa kara ksiI kumArI se yA vidhavA se vivAha kara letA hai| agara apratyAkhyAnAgharA kA udayAmAvI kSaya na hokara udaya hI hotA hai to vaha vyabhicArI hone kI bhI parvAha nahIM karatA / beTa kA udaya to vivAha aura vyabhicAra donoM ke liye samAna kAraNa hai, parantu apratyArayAnAvaraNa kA udayanaya, athavA pranyAkhyAnAvaraNa kA udaya, vyabhicAra se dUra rakha kara use vivAha ke bandhana meM rakhatA hai| isaliye vivAha ke liye apranyA. khyAnAvaraNake udayAbhAvI nAya kA nAma vizeSa rUpa meM liyA jAtA hai| vetrAga AkSepara itanA bhI nahIM samajhanA zivima karma prakRtikA kArya kyA hai ? phira bhI sAmanA karanA cAhatA hai ! Azcarya! pApa (R-gajavAtiya vivAha lakSaNa majaisezanyA kA nAma nahIM hai vaise hI strI pulpakA nAma nahIM hai| phira strI puruSa kA vivAha kyA likhA? strI strI kA kyoM na likhA? samAdhAna-rAjaghAtika ke vivAha lakSaNameM cAritramoha ke udaya kA ullekha hai ! cAritra mAha meM strIveda pulyaveTa bhI hai / strIveda ke udaya se strI, strI ko nahIM cAhatI-puruSa kI cAhatI hai| aura purupada ke udaya se puruSa,purupa ko nahIM cAhatA-strIko cAhatA hai / isaliye vivAha ke liye strI aura puruSa kA honA anivArya hai| yogyatA kI duhAI dekara yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatAki strIveda ke udaya se kumAra kehI sAtha ramaNa

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( 12 / karane kI icchA hotI hai aura vaha kumArI ko ho honI hai| 'ilI taraha puruSaveda ke udaya me yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki purupa ko kumArI ke sAtha hI ramaNa karane kI icchA hotI haividhavA ke sAtha nahIM hotii| matalaba yaha ki strIpuruSa vedo. daya ke kArya meM strI puruSa kA honA Avazyaka hai, kumAra kumArI kA honA Avazyaka nahIM hai| isIliye gajavAnika ke lakSaNa ke artha meM stropuruSa kA nAma liyA-kumAra kumArI kA nAma nahIM liyaa| AkSepa (la)-ntrI veda ke udaya se no strI mAtra se bhoga karane kI nirargala pravRtti honI hai| yaha vivAha nahIM haivyabhicAra hai| jahA~ maryAdA rUpa kanyA purupa meM svIkAratA hai vahI vivAha hai / kAmasevana ke liye donoM baddha hote hai / 'maiM kanyA tuma hI puruSa se maithuna karUMgI aura maiM puruSa tuma hI kanyA se maithuna karUMgA graha svIkAranA kisa kI hai? javanaka ki kumAra avasthAmeM donoM brahmacArI haiN| yahA~ samayakI avadhi nahIM hai, ataH yaha kanyA puruSa kI svIkAratA yAvajjIva hai| samAdhAna-sirpha strIveda ke udaya ko koI vivAha nahIM kahatA / usase to kAma lAlasA hotI hai / usa kAma lAlasA ko maryAdita karane ke liye vivAha hai / isaliye strIveda ke udaya ke vinA vivAha nahI kahalA sakanA aura strovedake udaya hone para bhI kAma lAlasA kA maryAdita na kiyA jAya to bhI vivAha nahIM kahalA sakatA / kAma lAlasA ko maryAdita karane kA matalaba yaha hai ki saMsArako samasta striyoMse kAma lAlasA haTAkara kisI eka strI meM niyata krnaa| vaha strI cAhe kumArI ho yA vidhavA, agara kAma lAlasA vahIM baddha ho gaI hai to maryAdA kI rakSA ho gaI / saikaDI kanyAoM ke sAtha vivAha karate rahane para bhI kAma lAlasA maryAdita kahalAtI rahe aura

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(13) mamamna striyoM kA tyAga karake eka vidhavA meM kAma lAlasA ko baddha karane se bhI kAma lAlasA maryAdita na mAnI jAve, hama nAsamajhI kA kucha ThikAnA bhI hai ? 'prAkSepaka ke kathanAnusAra jaise kanyA 'tuma hI puruSa' sa maithuna karane kI pratimA karanI, umI naraha puruSa bhI to "tumahI kanyA" le maithuna karane kI pratimA karanA hai| purupa nA vidhura ho jAne para yA mapanoka hone para bhI aneka striyoM ka sAtha vivAha karatA rahe-phira bhI usako 'nama hI kanyA kI pranizA banI rahe aura strI, pati ke mara jAne ke bAda bhI kisI eka purupa se vivAha kare nA unane meM hI 'tuma hI puruSa vAlI praninA naSTa ho jAye ! yAdare 'tumAhI! yA 'tumI ' kA 'hI' nI yaDA vicitra hai jo eka tarapha no maikaDaoN bAra mAre jAne para bhI banA rahatA hai aura dUsarI narafaz2agamA kA lagate ho samApta ho jAtA hai ! kyA zrAkSe. paka isa yAna para vicAra karegA ki jaba usake zabdoM ke anu mAra hI strI aura puruSa donoM kI pratimA yAvajjIva thI to punarvivAha meM strI, pranitAcyuta kyoM kahI jAtI hai aura puruSa kyoM nahIM manA jAnA ? yahA~ bAnepaka ko apane 'yAvajjIva' aura 'dI kA bilakula nyAla hI nahIM rhaa| isIliye apanI dhuna meM magna hokara yaha kataraphA TigarI denA huA kahatA hai AkSepa (0)-jaya yAyajIva kI pratimA kanyA karatI hai to phira pani phe marajAne para vaha vidhavA huI to yadi purupA. nnara grahaNa karanI hai no akAlaiTeca pragIta lakSaNa se usakA vivAha nahIM kahA jA sktaa| vaha vyabhicAra hai| mapAdhAna-ThIka hanI nagara zrAkSepaka ke zandAnusAra kahA jA sakatA hai ki jaya yAvajjIva kI pranizA puruSa karatA hai to phira patnI ke mara jAna para vaha vidhura huzrA / so yadi

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vaha dUsarI kanyA grahaNa karatA hai to praznaka deva praNIta lakSaNa se usakA vivAha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / vaha vyabhicAra hai| yadi itane para bhI puruSa kA punarvivAha vivAha hai, vya. bhicAra nahIM hai, torIkA punarvivAda bhI vivAha hai, vyabhicAra nahIM hai| zrAkSepaka ke zabda hI pUrvAparaviruddha hone se usake vaktavya kA khaDana karate hai / cakAne kI dRSTi ke samAna haka taraphA to hai hii| zrAkSepa (ai)-rAjavArtika ke mAdhyameM vivAha ke lie kanyA zabda kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai| yaha bAta legnaka svayaM mAnate hai| samAdhAna-kanyA zabda kA artha 'vivAha yogya strI haivivAha ke prakaraNa meM dUsarA artha ho ho nahIM sakatA / yaha yAta hama pahile lekha meM liddhakara cuke hai, yahA~ bhI zrAge siddha kreNge| parantu "tubhyatu durjanaH" isa nyAya kA avalambana karake hamane kahA thA ki kanyA zabda, kanyA ke anya vizeSaNoM kI bhaoNti Adarza yA bahulatA ko lekara grahaNa kiyA gayA hai| isIlie vAttika meM jo vivAha kA lakSaNa kiyA hai una meM kanyA zabda nahIM hai / TIkA meM kanyA vivAha kA dRSTAnta diyA gayA hai, isa se kanyA kA hI varaNa vivAha kahalAyegA, yaha bAta nahIM hai| akalaGka deva ne anyatra bhI isI zailI se kAma liyA hai| ve vArtika meM lakSaNa karate haiM aura usakI TIkA meM bahulatA ko lekara kisI dRSTAntakA isa taraha milA dete haiM jaise vaha lakSaNa hI ho| akalaGka deva kI isa zailI kA eka udAharaNa aura dekhiye savRttasya prakAzanam rahobhyAkhyAna (vArtika ) strI pusAbhyAM ekAnte'nuSThitasya kriyAvizeSasya prakAzana yat raho.

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(15 ) bhyAlyAnaM naTeTinavyaM (bhApya ) / vArnika meM rahobhyAkhyAna' kA artha kiyA gayA hai kisI kI gupta pAna pragaTa karanA' parantu bhAjya meM yadulanA kI apekSA likhA gayA hai ki 'strI purupa ne jo ekAMta meM kArya kiyA ho usakA prakAzita karanA' rahobhyAkhyAna hai| bhASya ke anumAra 'strI puruSa' kA ullekha nAcArya prabhAcandrane ratnakaragaDakI TokAma,zrAzAdharajIne apane sAgAradharmAmRta meM bhI kiyA hai / zrAcArya pUjyapAda bhI isI taraha likha cuke haiN| isa vivecanale bhAna paka narIkhe loga to yahI artha nikAleMge ki 'strI-puruSa kI gupta bAna pragaTa karanA rahobhyArayAna hai| anya logoM kI gupta bAta pragaTa karanA rahobhyAkhyAna nahIM hai| parantu vidyAnanTi gvAmI ne zloka vArtika meM jo kucha likhA hai usase yAta dUsarI hI ho jAtI hai| "maMvRtamya prakAzanaM homyArayAnaM, strI puruSAnuSThita gupta kriyA vizeSa prakAzanavat' arthAt gupta kriyA kA prakAzana, rahobhyArayAna hai / jaise ki strI-puruSa kI gupta bAta kA prakAzana / yahA~ strI puruSa kA nAma udAharaNa rUpameM liyA gayA hai| isase sage kI gupta yAna kA prakAzana karanA bhI rahobhyAsyAna khlaayaa| yahI bAta gayacandra granthamAlA se prakAzita natvArtha bhASya meM bhI milatI haiM-"strI pusayo paraspareNAnyasyavA" mere kahane kA sAra yaha hai ki jaise rahobhyAkhyAna kI paribhASA meM bahulatA ke kAraNa dRSTAMta rUpa meM 'strI puruSa' kA ummeNa kara diyA hai usI taraha vivAha kI paribhASA meM mUlameM kanyA-zabda na hone para bhI, yahulanA ke kAraNa udAharaNa rUpa meM kanyA-zabdakA ullekha huzrA hai| jisakA anukaraNa rahobhyA. khyAna kI paribhASA ke 'strI puruSa' zabda kI taraha dUsaroM ne bhI kiyA hai| parantu vidyAnandi svAmI ke zabdoMse yaha bAta sAfa

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jAhira hotI hai ki rahomyAsyAna kA 'rahaH' strI puruSa meM hI kaida nahIM hai aura na vivAha kA 'varaNa' kanyA meM hI kaida hai| isIliye zloka vAnika meM vivAhazI paribhASA meM 'nyA'zabda kA ullekha hI nahIM hai| isa jagasI bAta ko samajhAne ke liye hameM inanI paktiyA~ likhanI par3I hai| para kareM dhayA ? ye yAne paka loga itanA bhI nahIM samajhate ki kisa grantha kI lekhana zailI kisa Dhaga kI hai / ye loga 'dharma-viruddha, dharma-viruddha' cillAne meM jitanA samaya barabAda karate haiM utanA agara zAstroM ke manana karane meM lagAve to yogyatA prApta hone ke sAtha satya kI prApti bhI ho / parantu inheM satya kI paravAha ho taba to! AkSepa--(zrI) jo dene ke adhikArI he ve saba upa. lakSaNale pitR sadRza hai / unake mamAna kanyAke sthAnameM vidhavA joDanA sarvathA asaMgata hai| kyoMki vidhavA ke dAna karane kA adhikAra kisI ko nahIM hai| agara puruSa kisI ke nAma vasIyata kara jAya to yaha kalpanA sthAna pA sastI haiN| pitA ne kanyA jAmAtA ko dI, agara jAmAtA phira kisI dUsare puruSako denA cAhe to nahIM dasakatA hai.phira dUArA kauna de sakatA hai? ' samAdhAna-jisa prakAra dene ke adhikArI upalanaNa se pitR sadRza hai usI prakAra vivAha yAgya sabhI striyA~ kumArI sadRza hai, isa meM na koI viSamatA hai na asahanatA / zrApaka kA hRdaya itanA patita hai ki vaha striyoM ko gAya, bhaiMsa yAdi kI taraha sampatti yA dene lene kI cIja samajhatA hai| isIlie vaha likhatA hai "kanyA pitA kI hai, pitA na ho tojo kuTumbI ho vehI usake khAmI hai" lekina jaina zAstroM ke anusAra pitA vagairaha usake saMrakSaka hai-khAmI nhii| strI koI sampatti nahIM

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( 17 ) hai yahA~ taka ki vaha pati kI bhI sampatti nahIM hai / sampatti, icchAnusAra svAmI ko nahIM chor3a sakatI, jayaki strI apane 'pati' ko choDa sakatI hai| yahI kAraNa hai ki agniparIkSA ke bAda sItAjI ne rAma ko choDakara dInA lelI / gamacandra prArthanA karate hI rhgye| kyA sampatti isa taraha mAlika kI upekSA kara sakatI hai ? striyoM ko sampatti kahakara apanI mAM bahinoM kA ghora apamAna karane vAle mI jainI kahalAte hai, yaha Azcarya kI yAta hai| yadi striyA sampatti hai to svAmI ke marane para unakA dUsarA svAmI honA hI cAhiye, kyoMki sampatti lAvArisa nahIM rahatI hai| triyoM ko sampatti mAna lene para to vidhavAvivAha kI AvazyakatA aura bhI jyAdA ho jAtI hai / hama pUrate haiM ki pati ke mara jAne para vidhavA, lAvArisa sampatti banatI hai yA usakA koI svAmI bhI hotA hai| yadi AkSepaka use lAvArisa sampatti mAnatA hai taba to gavarnamenTa una vidha. vAnAko hathiyA legI, kyoMki 'asvAmikrasya dravyasya dAyAdo medinI patiH' arthAt lAvArisa sampatti kA uttarAdhikArI rAjA hotA hai| kyA dhAnepaka kI yaha manzA hai ki jainasamAja kI vidhavAe~ agrejoko deDhI jAyeM ? yadi ve kisIkI saMpatti haiM to prakSepaka batalAye ki ve kisakI sampatti hai ? jaise vApa kI anya sampatti kA svAmI usakA beTA hotA hai, kyA usI prakAra vaha apanI mAM kA mI svAmI bane ? kucha bhI ho, striyoM ko sampatti mAnane para unakA koI na koI mvAmI avazya siddha hotA hai aura usI ko adhikAra hai ki vaha usa vidhavA ko kisI yogya puruSa ke liye dede| isa taraha triyoMko sampatti mAnane kA siddhAMta jagalI. pana se bharA hone ke sAtha vidhavAvivAha-virodhiyoM ke liye

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( 18 } AtmaghAtaka hai| paka tarapha to prAkSepaka kahanA hai ki pinAko dI kanyA jAmAtA kI sampatti hai, dUsarI tarapha kahatA hai ki jAmAnA bhI kisI ko denA cAhe to nahIM de sakatA / jaya ki sampatti hai taba kyoM nahIM de sakatA ? kyA imase yaha nahIM siddha hotA ki strI kisI kI lampatti nahIM hai ? striyoM ko sampatti mAnane vAle kanyA vikraya ke sAtha bhAryA vikraya, mAtR-vikraya kI kuprathAoM kA bhI mRtrapAna karane hai| prera, sniyA~ kisI kI sampatti ho cAhe na ho, donoM hI zravanyAoM meM vidhavAoM ko vivAha kA adhikAra rahatA hai / isa naraha vivAha yogya samaM striyA~ upalakSaNase kumArI sahaza hai| jaise kanyA ke sabhI sarakSaka upalakSaNa se pitRsdsh| AkSepa (zrI)-panyA nAma strI sAmAnya kA bhI hai, hama mI ise svIkAra karate haiM / vizvalocana koSa ho kyA, hema aura meTinI koSa bhI aisA likhate hai, parantu jahA~ jamA sambandha hogA, zabda kA artha bhI vahA~ vaimA mAnanA hogaa| samAdhAna-jaba pApaka kanyA kA artha strI-mAmAnya svIkAra karatA hai aura vivAha ke prakaraNa meM meM kanyA zabda kA artha 'vivAha yogya strI' karatA hU~ to isameM sambandha viruddhatA yA prakaraNaviruddhatA kaile ho gaI ? vivAha ke prakaraNa meM vivAha yogya strI ko prakaraNa-viruddha kahanA buddhi kA adbhuta paricaya denA hai| bhojana karate samaya saindhava zabdakA artha ghoDA karanA prakaraNa-viruddha hai, kyoMki ghoDA khAne kI cIz2a nahIM hai, parantu vivAhayogya strI to vivAha kI cIja hai / vaha vivAha ke prakA raNa meM prakaraNa-viruddha kaise ho sakatI hai ? AkSepaka kahegA ki vivAha to kumArI kA hI hotA hai, isaliye kanyA kA kumArI artha hI prakaraNa-sagata hai / parantu yaha to zrAkSepapha kI managardata bAta hai, jainadharma ke anusAra to kumArI aura vidhavA

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(16) donoM kA vivAha ho sakatA hai| isaliye sudhArakoM ke liye "vivAha yogya strI artha" hI prakaraNa-sahata hai| zrAkSepaka ke samAna sudhAraka loga to jainadharma ko tilAJjali de nahIM skte| AkSepa (zra)-sAhalagati I muha se sutArAko kanyA kahalAkara kavi ne sAhitya kI chaTA dikhalAI hai / usako dRSTi meM vaha nyA samAna hI thI / sAhasagati ke bhAvoM meM sutAga kI kAmavAsanA sUcita karane ke liye kavi ne nArI bhAryA yAdi na likara kanyA zabda likhA / yadi aisA bhAva na hotA to kanyA na linakara ragaDA lipa denaa| samAdhAna-kavine ragaDA isaliye na likhA ki sutArA taba gaiDa nahIM huyo / sAharAgati sugrIvase laDakara yA use mAra kara sunAga nahIM chInanA cAhatA thA-yaha dhokhA dekara chInanA cAhatA thA / imIliye usanaM rUpa-parivartinI vidyA sisa kI AvazyakatA hone para lar3anA par3A yaha bAta dUsarI hai| sara ! janaka sugrIva marA nahIM taba taka sunArA ko raoNDa kase kahA jA sakatA thaa| dadhyAcetami zamAmidagdhI niHsAra maansH| knopAyenatAM kanyAlapsye nivRtidAyinI // 10 // 14 // yaha zloka dhamane yaha siddha karane ke liye uddhata kiyA thA ki kanyAzabda kA 'strI sAmAnya' artha bhI hai aura isake udAharaNa mAhityame milate hai / prAkSepaka ne hamAre donoM proM ko svIkAra kara liyA hai, taba samajhameM nahIM AtA ki vaha usa artha ke samarthana ko kyoM asvIkAra karatA hai / yaha zloka vidhavAvivAha ke samarthana ke liye nahIM diyA hai| sirpha kanyA.zamda ke artha kA khulAsA karane ke liye diyA hai, jo artha AkSepaka ko mAnya hai| nArI, bhAryA na likhakara kanyA likhane se kAmavAsanA

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( 30 ) kaise sUcita huI ? ra kanyA kA artha kumArI vA jAve taba to mAryAharaNa kI apekSA vanyAharaNa meM kAmavAsanA kama hI mAlUma hotI hai / asalI bAta yaha hai ki sahamati vidyAvara ho putrI kI mAtA ho jAne para bhI lutArA kI praudA nahIM mAnanA thaa| usakI dRSTi usa samaya bhI vaha parama sundarI thI. usa maiM vivAha yogya mI ke saba guNa maujUda the| isIliye usane sutArA ko kanyA kahA / lunAga meM isa samaya bhI vivAhayogya strI ke samAna noMdaryAdi the, isaliye kavine use kanyA kahalA kara yaha bAta aura mI mApha karadI hai ki vivAhayogya strIzI kanyA kahate hai | agara kavi kI yaha zrartha zrabhimata na hotA to isa jagaha vaha 'vAlA zabda kA prayoga karanA jisame mAhasagati kI kAmAturatA kA citra aura adhika khila jAnA / khaira, jarA vyAkaraNa kI dRSTile mI hameM kanyA zandra para vicAra karanA hai | vyAkaraNa meM pulliMga zundroM se strIliMga banAne ke kaI tarIke hai / kahIM DIp, kahIM TIpU, kahIM na ( hiMdI meM) Adi pratyaya lagAye jAte haiM to kahIM zabda rUpa bilakula badala jAtA hai| jaise putra putrI zrAdi zabdoM meM pratyaya lagAye jAte haiM jabaki mAtA pitA, bhAI bahina meM zabda hI badala diyA jAnA hai| bhAI aura bahina donoM zabdoM kA eka artha hai: zrantara itanA hai ki bhAI zabda se puruSa jAtIya kA bodha hotA hai jabaki bahina zabda se strI jAtIya kaa| isI taraha vara aura kanyA zabda haiN| donoM kA artha eka hI hai; antara itanA hI he ki eka se puruSa kA bodha hotA hai dUsare se strI kA / apane vivAha ke samaya pratyeka puruSa vara kahA jAtA hai, cAhe usakA Ho - pahilA citrAha ho, cAhe dUsarA / aisA nahIM hai ki pahile vivAha ke samaya 'vara' kahA jAya aura dUsare vivAha ke samaya ghara na

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! 26 } kahA jAya / nathA hara eka kumAra ko vara nahIM vaha sakate / isI prakAra apane vivAha ke samaya pratyeka mI 'eat' kahI jAtI hai, cAhe vaha usakA pahilA vivAha ho cAhe dusarA aisA nahIM ho sakatA ki pahile vivAha ke samaya vaha kyA kahI jAya aura dUsare vivAha ke samaya na kahI jAya / matalaba yaha ki vivAha karAne vAnI pratyeka strI kyA hai aura vivAha na karAne vAlI kumArI bhI kanyA nahIM hai / granya prakaraNa meM s ke bhale hI dUsare artha ho, parantu vivAha ke prakaraNa meM ardhAna varaNa keka meM kA vivAha karAne vAlI strI' zrartha hI ho sakatA hai / isI artha ko dhyAna meM rakha kara kavi ne sahamati ke muMha se sunAga kA kyA kahalAyA hai| isI prayoga se kavi ne banA diyA hai ki kavi kI vAcya vAcaka sambandha kA kaisA sUna paricaya hai / efore ne apane isa sUkSma jJAna kA paricaya anyatra mI diyA hai ki jisa se siddha hotA hai ki vivara, kyA zada kA artha 'vivAha karane vAlI strI' yA 'grahaNa ko jAne vAlI trI' karate hai | yahA~ para for ne kA prayoga kisI sAdhAraNa pAtra ke muMha se nAke eka va vijJAnI muni ke mu~ha se karAyA hai| rAjA kuNDalamagiData ne piMgala brAhmaNa kI strI kA harA kara liyA thA | janmAntara kI kathA sunAte samaya zravavijJAnI munirAja isa ghaTanA kA ullekha ina zabdoM meM karate hai harasiMgalAt kanyAM tathA kuDala maDitaH / padatrAyaM purA vRttaH sambandha parikIrtitaH // 30-133 // madhan- kuDalamaNDita ne pila brAhmaNa kI strI

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(22) kA haraNa kiyA / yaha vAta pahile hI ( pannapugaNa meM) kahI (kuNDalamaNDita ne piMgala kI strI kA hI haraNa kiyA thA, kisI kumArI kA nhiiN| yaha bAta pAThaka panapugaNa meM dekha sakate hai / yahAM bhI vaha zloka diyA jAtA hai --- bharatasthe vidagdhAraye pure kuNDalamaNDitaH / adhArmiko'harakAMnAM piMgalasyamanaH priyAM // // 30 // 66 // isa zloka meM jisa kA ullekha kAntA zabda se kiyA gayA hai, usI kA 133 ve zloka meM kanyA zabda saM kiyA gayA hai| ina ghaTanAoM kI anya bAtoM se hameM koI matalaya nahIM / hameM to AkSepaka ke haTha ke kAraNa ina kA ullekha karanA par3A hai| isa se hameM sirpha yahI siddha karanA hai ki kanyA zabda kA artha 'grahaNa-varaNa karane yogya strI' hai| isa lie "kanyAvaraNaM vivAhA" aisA kaha kara jo vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha karanA cAhate haiM, ve bhUlate haiN| __ AkSepa-(a) kanyA zabda kA artha nArI bhI hai, isaliye devAganAoM ke liye 'deva-kanyA zabda kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai / yaha nahIM ho sakatA ki jo strI dUsaga pati kare, vahI kanyA kahalAve / vidhavA hokara dUsarA pati grahaNa karane vAlI bhI kanyA kahalAtI ho so sAre sammAna meM kahIM nahIM dekhA jAtA / jina yoropa zrAdi dezo meM yA jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavA-vivAha cAlU hai, una meM bhI vivAha ke pUrva laDakiyoM ko kanyA mAnA jAtA hai aura vivAha ke bAda badhU aadi| samAdhAna-kumArI ke atirikta anya striyoM (sadhavA,

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( 23 ) vidhavA) ko bhI kanyA kaha sakate haiM, yaha bAta thApa pahile svIkAra kara cuke haiM aura yahA~ bhI svIkAra kara rahe haiM / yahI yAta hama siddha karanA cAhate haiM / 'jo dUsarA pati grahaNa kare vahI kanyA hai' yaha to hamArA kahanA nahIM hai| hama to yaha kahanA cAhate haiM ki vaha bhI kanyA hai; isa artha ko Apa bhI svIkAra karate haiN| DaoN sAhasagati vidyAdhara aura kuNDalamaNDita ke dRzanna se yaha bAta avazya mAlUma hotI hai ki jaba koI puruSa kisI strI ko grahaNa karanA cAhatA hai, tabhI prAyaH vaha kanyA kahI jAtI hai| anya avasthAoM meM akumArI ko kanyA kahane ke udAharaNa prAyaH nahIM milte| ina udAha raNoM se tathA vara aura kanyA zabda kI samAnArthakatA se yaha bAta sAfa mAlUma hotI haiM ki kanyA kA artha vivAha karAne vAlI yA vivAha-yogya strI hai| yogepa kA udAharaNa dekara to thApa ne apanA hI virodha kiyA hai| Apa ne kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI strI bhI kiyA hai, jaba ki yogepa kA udAharaNa dekara zrApa graha siddha karanA cAhate haiM ki avivAhitA ko hI kanyA kahate haiM / parantu Apa ne zudhdoM kA prayoga aisA kiyA hai, jisa se hamArI bAta siddha hotI hai| Apa kA kahanA hai ki - yoropa meM vivAha ke pahile lar3akiyoM ko kanyA mAnA jAtA hai| isa para hamArA kahanA hai ki agara koI bAlavidhavA dUsarA vivAha kare to usa vivAha ke pahile bhI vaha kanyA kahalAyegI | yaha to zrApa bilakula hamAre sarIkhI bAta kaha gaye | Apane yaha to kahA nahIM hai ki prathama vivAhaka pahile kanyA kahalAtI haiM aura dUsare vivAha ke pahile kanyA nahIM phahalAnI ! qhaira / ya isa tarka vitarka ke bAda sIdhI bAta para Aiye / yoropa meM bhAratIya bhASA ke kanyA zrAdi zabdoM kA prayoga nahIM hotA /

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( 24 ) irejI meM kanyA ke badale M14s ( misa ) zabda kA prayoga hotA hai, parantu kanyA zabda kA artha jaba kumArI kiyA jAyagA tabhI usakA paryAya zabda Miss ( misa ) hogA, jaba nArI artha kiyA jAyagA tatra Miss ( mila ) zabda usakA paryAyavAcI nahIM bana sakatA / asalI bAta to yaha hai ki 'vara' zrIra 'kanyA' isakA ThIka hiMdI anuvAda hogA 'dUlhA' aura 'dulhana' | jisa prakAra 'dulhA' ko 'vara' kahate hai usI prakAra dulhina ko 'kanyA' kahate haiM / vara zabda kA gharejI anuvAda haiM Bride. groom ( brAiDanama); isaliye kanyA zabda kA anuvAda hogA Buide (brAiDa) / vivAha ke prakaraNa meM kanyA zabda kA dulhina arthAt Bride artha lagAnA hI ucita hai / jisa prakAra bhojana ke samaya saindhava zabda kA ghor3A artha karanA pAgalapana hai, usI prakAra vivAha ke prakaraNa meM kanyA zabda kA kumArI artha karanA pAgalapana hai / usa samaya to kanyA zabdakA dulhina artha hI honA cAhiye / vaha dulhina kumArI bhI ho sakatI hai aura vidhavA bhI ho sakatI hai| isaliye kanyA zavdake kAraNa vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha nahIM kiyA jA sakatA / AkSepa - (ka) sabhI deviyoM ko dUsare devoM ke sAtha nahIM rahanA par3atA / devI jise cAhe usI deva ko apanA pati nahIM vanA sakatI, parantu apane niyogI ko hI pati banA sakatI hai| deviyoM ke dRSTAnta se vidhavAvivAha kI puSTi na karanA cAhiye / dRSTAnta jisa viSaya kA hai puSTi bhI vaisI karegA / devAGganA dUsarI gati hai / ve rajasvalA nahIM hotIM, garbhadhAraNa nahIM karatIM, una ke palaka nahIM girate, jaba ki manuSyanI kI ye bAteM hotI hai / 1 I samAdhAna-sabhI deviyoM ko dUsarA pati nahIM karanA paDatA, parantu jina deviyoM kA pati mara jAtA hai ve pati ke

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( 5 ) sthAna para paidA hone vAle anya deva ko pani banA letI hai, yaha yAta no bilakula natya hai| jaisA ki prAdipugaNa ke nimna likhita logoM se mAlama hotA hai :bhImaH mAdhuH pure paDagekiMgayAM cAtiyAtanAn / ___-parva04Alo0 34H / ganye zikarodyAne paMcamamAna pUjita / tasthivA~snaM mamAganya catabo devayApitaH // 46 // 346 baMditvAdharmamAvagarya paapaaddhmmtpnimtH| trilokezavadAmmAkaM paniH konyA bhaviSyati // 4350 // puNDarIkapura ke ziyaMkara nAmaka bagIce meM mIma nAmaka sAdhu ko ghAniyA kI ke nAza karane se kaMbala bAna huaa| una ke pAsa cAra devAinAeM aaii| yandanA kI, dharma sunaa| phira pUchA-he trilokeza! pApakarma ke udaya me hamAga pani mara gayA hai, isaliye kahiye ki hamAga damaga pani kauna hogA? graha vAna TumarI hai ki bahunaso devAnAoM ko vidhavA nahIM honA paDanA, imame dusarA pati nahIM karanA pdd'taa| parantu jinheM karane kI jarurata hotI hai ve dUsare pani kA tyAga nahIM kara detii| hA~, devAnanAe~ dUsare deva ko nahIM pakaDatI, apane niyogI kA hI par3atI haiM: so yaha bAta karmabhUmi meM bhI hai / madhyaloka meM bhI niyogI ke sAtha hI dAmpatyalambandha hotA hai| hA~, devagati meM niyogI puruSa aura niyoginI strI kA cunAva (niyoga= niyukti) va hI kara detA hai jabaki karma. bhRmi meM niyogI aura niyoginI ke liye puruSArtha karanA paDanA haiN| so isa prakAra kA puruSArtha vidhavAoMke liye hI nahIM karanA par3atA, kumAriyoM ke liye bhI karanA par3atA hai| devakRta aura prayatnakRta niyoga kI bAta se hameM kucha matalaba nhiiN| dekhanA yaha hai ki devagati meM deviyA~ eka deva ke marane para

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( 26 ) dUmarA deya prApta kara letI hai| inanA hI nahIM, dUsare deva ko prApta kAma kI lAlamA itanI bar3ha jAtI hai ki ve thoDI dera mI zAnta na baiTha kara kevalI bhagavAna ke pAsa pUchane jAtI hai| kevalI bhagavAna bhI dUsare pati ke viSaya meM uttara dete haiN| agara dUsare pati ko grahaNa karanA pApa hAnA no ve deviyA~ dharma zravaNa karane ke bAda kevalI bhagavAna meM aisA prazna na karatI / aura na kevalI bhagavAn ke pAma se isa kA uttara milatA / jaba kevalI bhagavAn ne unheM dharma munAyA to usameM yaha bAta kyoM na sunAI ki dUsaga pati karanA pApa hai ? kyA isase yaha bAta sApha nahIM ho jAtI ki jainadharma meM vidhavA. vivAha ko vahI sthAna prApta hai jo kumArIvivAha ko prApta hai| itane para bhI jo loga vidhavAvivAha ko dharmaviruddha samajhate haiM vaha purupa madonmatta, mithyAdRSTi nahIM to kyA hai ? devAMganA dUsarI gati meM haiM aura unake zarIra meM gsa raktAdi nahIM hai, to kyA hubhA ? jainadharma nA saba jagaha hai| mithyAtva aura dugacAra zarIra ke vikAra nahIM, AtmA ke vikAra haiN| isa liye zarIra kI guNagAthA se adharma, dharma nahIM bana sakatA / yahA~ dharma adharma kI mImAMsA karanA hai, hADa maoNsa kI nhiiN| hADa mAMsa to sadA apavitra hai, vaha na to punarvivAha se apa. vitra hotA hai aura na punarvivAha ke binA pvitr| agara yaha kahA jAya ki devagati meM aisA hI rivAja hai, isaliye vahA~ pApa nahIM mAnA jAtA; vidhavA deviyoM ko grahaNa karane vAle bhI kSAyika samyagdRSTi hote haiM aura dUsare deva ko grahaNa karane vAlI deviyoM, strI hone se kSAyika samyaktva to nahIM pA lakanI, parantuvAkI donoM prakAra ke samyaktva prAptakara sakatI hai| yadi rivAja hone se devagati meM yaha pApa nahIM hai to yahA~ bhI punaH vivAha ke rivAja ho jAne para pApa nahIM kahalA sktaa|

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( 27 ) AkSepa-(kha) dIkSAnvaya kriyA meM jo puruSa dIkSA le rahA hai, usakA vivAha umI kI strI ke sAtha hotA hai| isase vidhavAvivAha kaise siddha hogayA? samAdhAna-jo loga kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI karate haiM aura kumArI ke mivAya kisI dUsarI strI kA vivAha honahIM mAnane, unako muMhatoDa uttara dene ke liye hamane dIkSA. nvaya kriyA kA vaha zloka udhata kiyA hai / dIkSita manuSya bhane hI apanI strI ke sAtha vivAha karatA ho, parantu usa kI strI kanyA hai ki nahIM? yadi kanyA nahIM hai to 'kanyAvaraNaM vivAhaH' isa paribhASA ke anusAra vaha vivAha hI kaise kahA jA sakatA hai ? lekina jinasenAcArya ne use vivAha kahA hai| agara vaha strI, vivAha hone ke kAraNa kanyA mAnI jAsakatI hai no vidhavA bhI kanyA mAnI jA sakatI hai| savA to kanyA kahanA sake aura vidhavA kanyA na kahalA sake yaha nahIM ho sastA / zrAkSepa (ga)-nyAe~ jisa prakAra zahinI padminI Adi hotI hai, usI prakAra puruSa bhii| jaba strI puruSa samAna guNavAle nahIM hone taya manamya, mannAnAdi kA abhAva hotA hai| isaliye mAgAradharmAmRta meM kanyA ke liye nirdIpa vizeSaNa diyA hai| tama ina mahatvapUrNa zabdoM kA bhAva hI nahIM smjh| samAdhAna-samAna guNavAle strI puruSa hone se lAbha hai| parantu hamAga kahanA yaha hai ki agara zAlinI zrAdi bhedoM kI samAnanA nahIM pAI jAya to vivAha dharmaviruddha kahalAyagA yA nahIM ? yadi dharmaviruddha kahalAyagA nava Ajakala ke phI sadI 10vivAha dharmaviruddha ThahareMge, kyoMki ina bhedoM kA vicAra hI nahIM kiyA jaataa| anya prakAra ke vRdavivAhAdi anamelavivAha mI dharmaviruddha uhareMge / phira kevala vidhavAvivAha ke pIche

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( 28 ) itanA tUphAna macAnA kisa kAma kA ? yadi zranamela zrAdi vivAha dharmaviruddha nahI hai to vidhavAvivAha bho dharmaviruddha nahIM hai / isaliye jisa prakAra 'nirdoSa' vizeSaNa sadapA ke vivAha ko dharmaviruddha nahIM ThaharA sakatA, usI prakAra 'kanyA' vizeSaNa vidhavA ke vivAha kA dharmaviruddha nahIM ThaharA sakatA / isake liye hamane pahile lekha meM khulAsA kara diyA hai ki 'kanyA aura vidhavA meM karuNAnuyoga kI dRSTi meM kucha antara nahIM hai jisase kanyA aura vidhavA meM judI judI dA zrAmAe~ banAI jAyeM' / isa anuyoga sambandhI prazna kA zrApa kucha uttara nahIM de sake / AkSepa (gha ) - jaina siddhAnta meM kanyA kA vivAha honA hai, yaha spaSTa likhA hai / vidhavA ko AryikA hone kA yA vaidhavya dIkSA dhAraNa karane kA spaSTa vidhAna hai / isaliye vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna vyabhicAra ko puSTi hai / samAdhAna - kanyA zabda kA artha 'vivAha karAne vAlI strI' yA 'dulhina' hai ( strI sAmAnya Apane bhI mAnA hai / ) / dulhina kumArI bhI ho sakatI hai aura vidhavA bhI ho sakatI hai, isaliye jaina siddhAnta kI AjJA se vidhavAvivAha kA kucha virodha nahIM / zAstroM meM to aneka taraha kI dIkSAoM ke vidhAna haiM, parantu jo loga dIkSA grahaNa nahIM karate. ve dharmabhraSTa nahIM kahalAte / jinameM virakti ke bhAva paidA hue ho, kapAyeM zAMta hogaI hoM, ve kabhI bhI dIkSA le sakatI hai| parantu jaba virakti nahIM haiM, kapAyeM zAnta nahIM hai, taba jabardastI unasa dIkSA nahIM livAI jA sakatI / 'jyoM jyoM upazamata kapAyA, tyoM tyo tina tyAga batAyA ' kA siddhAnta zrApako dhyAna meM rakhanA cAhiye / isa viSaya kI prAya sabhI bAteM pahile kahI jA cukI hai| AkSepa (Ga) - prabodhasAra meM likhA hai ki 'kanyA kA

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( 2 ) duvArA vivAha nahIM hotA / yazasti meM likhA hai ki ekabAra jo kyA strI banAI jAnI hai vaha vivAha dvArA phira dubArA strI nahIM banAI jAnI' / zrAdipurANa meM kIrti kahate haiM 'ki maiM una vivavA sulocanA kA kyA karU~gA' / nItivAkyAmuna meM zreSTa grahoM meM bhI kanyA kA pakacAra vivAha mAnA jAtA hai / samAdhAna - jainagaz2aTa meM zloka nahIM chapane isa kI zrAMTa lekara paDita loga khUba manamAnI garne hA~ka liyA karate haiM / agara zloka dene lage to sArI pola khula jAya / ra, prabodha mAra meM to kisI bhI jagaha ke 24 nambara ke zloka meM hameM fararfarane kA niSedha nahIM milA / yazastilaka ke loka ke artha karane meM zrApaka ne jAna bUjhakara dhokhA diyA hai / z2arA vahA~ kA prakaraNa zrI va zloka dekhiye / kisa taraha kI mUrti meM devakI sthApanA karanA cAhiye, isake uttara meM somadeva likhate haiM ki viSNu zrAdikI mUrti meM zrahanna kI sthApanA na karanA caahiye| jaise--jaba taka koI strI kisI kI patnI hai taba taka usa meM ( pamparigrahe ) svastrI kA mahatva nahIM kiyA jA sakatA / kanyAjana meM svantrI kA malpa karanA cAhiye / gutrantRnikalA. nyAjana ivocitaH / navAgantara saMkrAnte yathA paraparigrahe // matalaba yaha ki mUrti kA zrAkAra dUsarA ho aura nyApanA kisI anya kI kI jAya to vaha ThIka nahIM / hanumAna kI mUrti meM gaNeza kI vyApatA aura gaNeza kI mUrti meM jinendra ko sthApanA anucita hai / parantu mUrti kA AkAra badalakara agara sthApanA ke anurUpa banA diyA jAya taya vaha sthApanA ke pratikula nahIM rahatIM / zranya malaviyoM meM to pattharoM ke Dhera aura pahAr3oM taka kI devatA kI pUrti mAna lene haiM / isaliye kyA

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( 30 ) pattharoM ke Dhera meM se yA pahADa meM se kisI patthara kI jinendramUrti banA lenA anucita ho jAyagA ? sthApanA meM sirpha itanA hI dekhanA cAhiye ki vartamAna meM yaha patthara zrAkArAntarasaMkrAnna to nahIM hai / pahile si zrAkArameM thA, isake vicAra kI koI jarUrata nahIM hai / isI prakAra vartamAna meM jo kisI dUsare puruSa kI strI hai use svastrI nahIM banAnA cAhiye, jaise ki nighyana meM aneka puruSa eka hI strI ko apanI apanI patnI banAte haiM yA jaise ki hiMdU zAstroM meM dropadI ke viSaya meM prasiddha hai / parantu jo zrI vidhavA ho gaI hai vaha to kumArI ke samAna kisI kI patnI nahIM he / vaha AkArantirasakrAnta arthAt kisI kI patnI bhI z2arUra, parantu aba nahIM hai / isaliye usameM svapatnItvakA saGkalpa anu. cita nahIM hai / zrakSepaka ne prakaraNa ko chipAkara, kanyA zabdakA artha bhulAkara, z2abaradastI bhUtakAla ke rUpako vartamAna kA rUpa dekara yA to khuda dhokhA khAyA hai yA dUsaroM ko dhokhA diyA hai / zrAcArya somadeva ke vAkyoM se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karanA duHsAhasa hai / jo zrAcArya zraNuvatI ko vezyAsevana taka kI khulAsI dete hai ve vidhavAvivAha kA nayA virodha kareMge ? balki dUsarI jagaha khuda unhoMne strI ke punarvivAha kA samarthana kiyA hai| nItivAkyAmRta meM ve likhate hai ki- 'vikRta patyU dvApi punarvivAhamarhatIti smRtikArAH' arthAt zAstrakAra kahate haiM ki jisa strI kA pati vikArI arthAt sadoSa ho, vaha strI bhI punarvivAha kI adhikAriNI hai| isa vAkya ke uttara meM kucha loga kahA karate haiM ki yaha to dUsaroM kI smRtiyoM kA havAlA haisomadeva jI isase sahamata nahIM hai / parantu somadeva jI agara sahamata na hote to unheM isa havAle kI jarUrata kyA thI ? yadi somadevajI ne vidhavAvivAha kA khaMDana kiyA hotA aura khaMDana ke liye yaha vAkya likhA hotA taba to kaha sakate the ki ve

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vidhavAvivAha se sahamata na the, parantu jaba vidhavAvivAha kA ve khaNDana nahIM karate aura vidhavAvivAha Adi ke samarthaka vAkya ko uddhata karate haiM to mUrkha se markha bhI kaha sakatA hai ki somadeva jI vidhavAvivAha ke pakSapAtI the| dUsarI bAta yaha hai kismRti zabda se arjanoM ke dharmazAstra hI grahaNa nahIM kiye jA sakate / jainazAgya bhI zrati smRti zrAdi zabdoM se kahe gaye haiM, jaimAki nAdipugaNa ke 44 ve parva meM kahA gayA hai manAtano'sti mArgo'yam zratismRtipa bhaapitH| vivAhavidhi bheTeSu bariSTohi trayavaraH // 4 // 32 // yahA~ para jaina zAstroM kA ullekha ani smRti zabda ne duA hai / aura bhI aneka sthAnoM para aimA hI zabda vyavahAra dekhA jAtA hai| manalaba yaha ki nItivAkyAmRta meM jo strI ke punarvivAha kA samarthaka vAkya pAyA jAtA hai usase lomadeva jI to punarvivAha samarthaka Thaharate hI hai. sAtha hI anya jainAcAryoM ke dvAgamI isakA mamarthana hotA hai| aise somadevAcArya ke yazastilaka ke zloka se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha siddha karane kI kuceSTA karanA dunAhama nahIM to kyA hai ? pAThaka aba jarA akIni ke vAkya para vicAra kreN| jaya mulIcagAne jayakumAra ko vara liyA taba arkakIrtike mitra durmarpaNa ne arkakrIna ko samajhAyA ratna glepa kanyaiva tatrApyeca kanyakA / / tattvAM svagRhamAnIya dauSTya pazyAsya durmateH // 44 // 5 // ratnoM meM kanyAratna hI zreSTha hai; usameM bhI yaha kanyA (pAThaka yaha bhI khayAla rakkhe ki jayakumAra ko vara lene para bhI sulocanA kanyA kAhI jA rahI hai) aura bhI adhika zreSTha hai| isaliye tuma use apane ghara lAkara usa durbuddhi kI duTatA dekho (badalA lo)|

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( 32 ) durmarpaNa kI bAto meM zrAkara arkIrti jayakumAra ko mAra kara usakI varamAlA chInane ko utArU ho gayA / isI. liye vaha kahatA hai ki dvidhA bhavatu vA mA vA valaM tena kimaashugaaH| mAlA pratyAnayiSyati jayavakSo vibhidyame // 44 / 64 // arthAt senA do bhAgoM meM baTa jAya cAhe nahIM, mega usa se kyA ? mere to vANa jayakumAra kA vakSasthala cIrakara varamAlA lauTA lAyeMge / pAThaka vicAra kareM ki varamAlA ko chIna lenA sulocanA ko grahaNa kara lenA thA, jisake liye arkakIrti taiyAra huA thaa| niHsandeha yaha kAma vaha jayakumArase IdhyAke kAraNa kara rahA thA / parantu arkakIrti kA anavadyamati nAmakA mantrI jAnatA thA ki sulocanA sarIkhI gajakumArI apanI icchA ke viruddha kisI ko nahIM vara sakatI / isIliye tathA anya prApa. ttiyoM kI AzaGkA se usane arkakIrti ko samajhAyA ki 'tuma cakravartI ke putra hokara ke bhI kyA anartha kara rahe ho? tumhI se nyAya kI rakSA hai aura tamhI aise anyAya kara rahe ho! tuma isa yaga ke parastrIgAmiyoM meM pahile nambara ke parastrIgAmI mata vno'| paradArAmilApasya prAthamyaM mA vRthA kRthaaH| avazyamAhatApyepAna kanyAte bhaviSyati // 44 // 47 // anavadyamati kIvAte sunakara arkakIrti lajita to huA. parantu jayakumAra se badalA lene kA aura sulocanA chInane kA usane pakkA nizcaya kara liyA thA, isaliye yuddha kA progrAma na badalA / hA~, apanI naitika saphAI dene ke liye usane apane mantrI ko nimnalikhita vAkya bola kara jhaoNsA avazya diyA - .

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( 33 ) nAha sulocanArthyAmi matrI makaraigyam / parAsura dhunaivasyAtki me vidhAtA // mujhe sulocanAme kucha matalaba nahIM, yaha ghamaNDI jayakumAra mere bANoM se mara jAya / mujhe usa vidhavA se kyA lenA hai ? + basa, atyAcArI arkIrtikI yaha yAna hI zrIlAlajI ke lie zrAgama bana baiThI hai / zrakSepaka prakaraNa ko chipA kara isa prakAra samAja ko dhokhA denA cAhatA hai / durmaNa ne jaba sulocanA kI, kanyAratna kahakara prazansA kI, tava zrarkakIrti se nahIM kahA gayA ki maiM usa vidhavA kA kyA karU~gA ? usa samaya to mu~ha meM pAnI zrA gayA thaa| anavadyamati kI phaTakAra se kahane lagA ki maiM vidhavA sulocanA ko grahaNa na karU~gA- maiM to sirpha badalA lenA cAhatA hai / arkakIrti kI yaha kAMge cAla thI tathA usase yaha nahIM mAlUma hotA ki vaha vidhavA hone ke kAraNa usako grahaNa nahIM karanA cAhatA thA / usane to parastrIharaNa ke anyAya se nirlipta rahane kI saphAI dI thI / prakaraNa ko dekhakara koI bhI samajhadAra kaha sakatA hai ki isase vidhavAvivAha kA khaNDana nahIM hotA / nItivAkyAmRta ke vAkya se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karanA baDI bhArI dhokhebAjI hai / nItivAkyAmRta unhIM sAMma deva kA banAyA huA hai jo vidhavAvivAha kA anumodana karate hai / taba somadeva ke vAkya se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha kaise ho sakatA hai ? jima vAkya se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha kiyA jAtA hai use zrakSeipaka ne samajhA hI nahIM hai, yA samajha kara chipAyA hai| yaha vAkya yaha hai-. sakRtpariNayana vyavahArAH sacchUdrAH / arthAt acche zuddha ve haiM jo eka hI bAra vivAha karate

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( 34 ) haiM, arthAt eka hI strI rakhate hai / yaha niyama usa samaya ke liye thA jaba anuloma vivAha kI pRthA jora para thii| uccavarNI, zudra kI kanyAe~ lete the, lekina zUdroM ko dete na the| aisI hAlata meM zudra puruSa bhI agara bahupattI rakhane lagate taba to zuddhoM ke liye kanyAeN milanA bhI muzkila ho jaataa| isaliye unheM aneka patnI rakhane kI manAI kI gii| jo zudra aneka striyA~ rakhate the ve acchUdra kahe jAte the / eka prakAra se yaha niyama bhaGga karane kA daNDa thA / zrAkSepaka ne striyoMke punarvivAha na karane kI bAna na mAlUma kahA~ se khIMca lI ? usa vAkya kI samkUna TIkA se zrakSepaka kI yaha cAlAkI spaSTa ho jAtI hai TIkA - "ye sacchUdrAH zobhanazudrA bhavanti te sakRtpari rAyanAH ekavAraM kRtavivAhAH, dvitIya na kurvannItyarthaH / tathA ca hArItaH dvibhAryoyotrazadraH syAvRpAlaH sa divi zrutaH / mahatvaM tasya no mAvi zUdra jAti samudbhavaM / " arthAt - jo acche zUdra hote hai ve eka hI bAra vivAha karate haiM, dUsarA nahIM karate haiM / yahI bAta kahI bhI hai ki do patnI rakhane vAlA zUdra vRSAla kahalAtA hai-- use zUdra jAti kA mahatva prApta nahIM hotA / 'zUdroM ko bahuta patnI na rakhanA cAhiye', aile zrarthavAle vAkya kA 'kisI ko vidhavAvivAha na karanA cAhiye' aisA artha karanA sarAsara dhokhebAjI hai / yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki zrakSepaka ko isakA patA nahIM hai, kyoMki trivarNacAra kI parIkSA meM zrIyuta jugala kizora jI mustAra ne isakA khUba khulAsA kiyA hai / isa prakAra pahile prakSepaka ke samasta AkSepa bilakula nirbala haiM / 'aba dUsare AkSepaka ke AkSepoM para vicAra kiyA jAtA hai /

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( 35 ) zrApa (ca)-yaTi vivAha zAdI se manyava kA koI manyantra nahIM to kyA pArasI, aMgreja leDI. yavananyA Adi ke sAtha vivAha karane para bhI mamyaktva kA nAza nahIM hotA? yadi nahIM hotA to zAstroM meM vihita samadattikA kyA artha hogA? samAdhAna - pArasI agareja AdinoArya hai. samyaktva kA nAza no cha mahinAmAka mAtha zAdI karane parabhI nahIM honA / cakravartI kI 32 hajAra mleccha patniyoM ke dRSTAnta se yaha vAna bilakula spaSTa hai / cakravaniyoM meM zAlinAtha, kunyu nAtha, agnAtha. ina tIna tIrthadageM kA bhI samAveza hai| anya aneka jainI gajAoM ne bhI mleccha aura anArya triyoM ke sAtha vivAha kiyA hai| hAM vivAha meM inanI bAta kA vivAra yathAnAdhya avazya karanA cAhiye ki strI jaina. dharma pAlane vAlI ho athavA jainadharma pAlana gane lage / isa se dharmapAlana meM mumotA hotA hai| isIliye samadati meM sAdharmI ke sAtha roTI beTI vyavahAra kA upadeza diyA gayA hai / agara koI pArasI, atuja yA yavana mahilA jainadharma dhAraNa karale to usake sAtha vivAha karane meM koI doSa nahIM hai| purAne jamAne meM nA aisI ajaina kanyAoke mAtha mI gAThI honI thI, phira jenazI to bAta hI kyA hai ? AcAra zAstroM meM laukti aura pAralaukika zrAcArga kA vidhAna rahatA hai| una kA pAlana karanA samyagdRSTi kI yogyatA aura icchA para nirbhara hai| una zrAcAra niyamoM ke pAlana karane se samya. panta zrAtA nahIM hai aura pAlana na karanese jAtA nahIM hai| isa lie prAcAra niyamoM ke anukUla yA pratikUla kisI bhI mahi. lAsa zAdI karane se mamyaktra kA nAza nahIM hotaa| AkSepa (da)-sarAga samyaktva kI apekSA bInagaga samyattva vizeSa grAha hai| phira bhI vInagaga samyaktvI meM prazama

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savega anukampA Astikya guNa jarUra prakaTa hone caahiye| nizcaya aura vyavahAra donoM kA khayAla rakhanA cAhiye / vyavahAra, nizcayakA nimitta kAraNa nahIM-upAdAna kAraNa hai| samAdhAna-samyagdRSTi meM prazama samvegAdi honA cAhiye to raheM / samyagdRSTi vidhavAvivAha karate hupa bhI prazama mamvega anukampA AstikyAdi guNa rakha sakatA hai| prazama se gaga, dveSa kama ho jAte haiM, samvega se samAra se bhaya ho jAnA hai| itane parabhI vaha hajAge mleccha kanyAzrose vivAha kara sakatA hai,vaDe 2yuddhakara sakatA hai aura narakama ho to parama kRSNA lezyA vAlAraudrapariNAmI banakara hajAro nArakiyoMse laDasakatA hai ! tavabhI usa ke samyaktvakA nAza nahIM hotaa| usake prazama saMve. gAdi bana sakate hai, to vidhavAvivAha vAle ke kyoM nahIM bana sakate ? vyavahAra nizcaya kA kAraNa hai| parantu vidhavAvivAha bhI to vyavahAra hai / jisa prakAra kumArI vivAha dharma se dRDha rahane kA kAraNa hai usI prakAra vidhavAvivAha bhI hai| vyavahAra to dravya kSetra kAla bhAva ke bheda se aneka bheda rUpa hai| vyavahAra ke eka bheda se usI ke dUsare bheda kI jaoNca karanA vyavahArakAntavAdI vana jAnA hai / nizcaya ko kasauTI vanA kara vyavahAra kI parIkSA karanA cAhiye / jo vyavahAra nizcaya anukUla ho vaha vyavahAra hai, jo pratikUla ho vaha vyavahArAbhAsa hai| vidhavA-vivAha nizcaya samyaktva ke anukUla athavA avi. ruddha hai| isaliye vaha saccA vyavahAra hai / vyavahAra samyaktva ke anya cinhoM ke sAtha bhI usa kA koI virodha nahIM hai| vyavahAra ko nizcaya kA upAdAna kAraNa kahanA kArya kAraNa bhAva ke jJAna kA divAlA nikAla denA hai| vyavahAra parAzrita hai aura nizcaya vAzrita / jyA pagazrita, svAzrita kA upAdAna ho sakatA hai ? yadi vyavahAra nizcaya kA upAdAna

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( 37 ) kAraNa hai to vaha middhoM meM bhI honA cAhiye, kyoMki unake bhI nizcaya-samyaktva hai| parantu middhoM meM rAgAdi pariNati na hone se sarAga samyaktva ho nahIM sktaa| taba vaha upAdAna kAraNa kaise kahalAyA ? yadi vyavahAra nizcaya ko pUrvottara paryAya mAna kara upAdAna upAdeya bhAva mAnA ho to donoM kA sAhacarya ( sAtha rahanA ) batalAnA vyartha hai / nathA isa dRSTi se to samyaktva ke pahile rahane vAlI mithyAtva paryAya bhI upAdAna kAraNa khlaaygii| taba samyaktva kI upAdAnatA meM mahatva hI kyA raha jAyagA? khaira, hamArA kahanA no yahI hai ki vidhavAvivAha nizcaya samyaktva aura vyavahAra samyakva ke prazamAdi guNoM ke viruddha nahIM hai / imaliye vyavahAra samyaktva kI duhAI dekara bhI usa kA virodha nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| mAkSepa (ja)-vivAhoM kI aSTa prakAra kI saMkhyA se vAhya hone ke kAraNa aura isIliye bhagavat pratipAdita na hone ke kAraNa kyA prAstikya samyagdRSTi vidhavAvivAha ko mAnya ThaharA sakatA hai? samAdhAna-vivAha ke pATha bhedoM meM to bAlavivAha, vRddha vivAha, yuvatIvivAha, sajAtIyavivAha, vijAtIyavivAha, anulomavivAha, pratilomavivAha, sagotravivAha, vigotra vivAha, kumArIvivAha, vidhavAvivAha, zrAdi kisI nAma kA ullekha nahIM hai taba kyA ye lava Astikya ke viruddha hai ? taba to kumArI vivAha bhI Astikya ke viruddha kahalAyA, kyoMki pATha bhedoM meM kumArI vivAha kA bhI nAma nahIM hai| agara kahA jAya ki kumArIvivAha, sajAtIya vivAha Adi vivAhoM ke uparyukta pATha ATha bheda hai to bala, vidhavAvivAha ke bhI uparyukta ATha bheda siddha hue| jese kumArIvivAha

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zATha taraha kA ho sakatA hai usI prakAra vidhavAvivAha bhI pATha taraha kA dAnakatA hai| AkSepa (jha)-samyagdRSTi jIva meM gaga daMpa ko utsTatA kA kSayopazama ho gayA hai| uma ke vana nimaya na mahI, parantu mbaspAcaraNa cAritra to hai, jo samAra se bhayabhIta, madyamAMma zrAdi se virakta, vidhavAvivAha zAdi gaga-pravRti se pacAnA hai / yadi usa svarapAcaraNa cAritra na mAnA jAya to ghAra duniyA bhara ke sabhI ro karma karake bhI samyamayI banA rhegaa| samAdhAna-mvarUpAcaraNa to nArakyioM meM bhI hotA hai, paoNcoM pApa karane vAloM ke bhI hotA hai, kRpAleNyA vAloM ke bhI hotA hai| taba vidhavAvivAha se hI umpa kA payA vigaMdha haiM / samyagdarzana, bheTa vijJAna, svarUpAcaraNa cAritra, ye mahanara hai ? isaliye jo bAta eka ke lie kahI gaI hai vahI tInoM liye samajhanA cAhiye / anantAnubandhI udaya kSaya se sva. rUpAcaraNa hotA hai| isa viSaya meM lena ke prArambha meM pAnapa nambara '' kA samAdhAna dekhanA caahiye| prAkSepa (na)-sAnave naraka meM samyastva naSTa na hone kI bAta Apa ne kahA~ se likhI ? samAdhAna-isakA samAdhAna pahile kara cuke hai| devI AkSepa namvara 'I' kA smaadhaan| AkSepa (2)-samyagdRSTi jIva paJca pApopasevI nahIM hotA, kintu upabhogI hotA hai arthAt usako rucipUrvaka paJca pApoM meM pravRtti nahIM hotii|"paap to sadA sarvathA ghora pApa. bandhana kA hI kAraNa hai / phira to samyaccI ko bhI ghora pApa bandha siddha ho jAyagA aura samyaktvIko bandhakA honA karane para amRtacandra sUri ke "jisa dRSTi se samyagdRSTi hai usa dRSTi se bandha nahIM hotA" isa vAkya kA kyA artha hogA? /

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( 8 ) mamAghAna-hamane samyaktvI ko paJcapApopasevI nahIM likhA hai, paoNtra pAra karane vAla likhA hai / bhale hI vaha upabhoga ho|uskii rucipUrvaka pravRttito pAra meM hI kyA, puNya meM bhI nahIM hotii| vaha no donoM ko heya aura zuddha pariNati ko upAdeya mAnatA hai| usakI ruci na no kumArI-vivAha meM hai na vidhavAvivAha meM, kintu apratyAkhyAnAvaraNAdi kapAyoM ke udaya me vaha arucipUrvaka jaise kumArIvivAha karatA hai usI prakAra vidhavAvivAha bhI karatA hai| usakI aruci vidhavAvivAhako gaMke aura kumArI vivAha ko na roke, yaha kaise hA sakatA hai ? AkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki "pApa to sadA sarvathA ghora pApabandhakA kAraNa hai", natra to samyagdRSTi ko bhI ghora pApabandha kA kAraNa hogA; kyoMki vaha bhI pApopabhogo hai| lekina AkSepaka samyagdReiko ghora pApa yandha nahIM maantaa| na usa kA 'sadA sarvathA' zabda ApahI paNDita ho jAtA hai| amRta. candra kA havAlA dekara to zrAkSa'paka ne bilakula UTapaTaoNga bakA hai, jisa se vidhavAvivAha virodha kA koI tAllaka nhiiN| samyaktva to yandha kA kAraNa hai hI nahIM, kintu usake sAtha rahane vAlI kapAya bandha kA kAraNa jarUra hai| yahI kAraNa hai ki avirata samyagdRSTi 77 prakRtiyoM kA bandha karatA hai jina meM yahabhAga pApa prakRtiyoM kA hai| mamyaktva aura svarUpAcaraNa hone se usa ke 16+ 2541 prakRtiyoM kA bandha rukatA hai| samyagdRSTi jIva agara vidhavAvivAha kare to usake ina 41 prakRtiyoM kA bandha nahIM hogaa| hAM, bAkI prakRtiyoMkA bandhaho sakegA / so vaha no kumArI vivAha karane para bhI ho sakegA aura vivAha na karane para bhI ho sakegA / hamArA kahanA to yahI hai ki jaba samyagdRSTi jIva-aruci pUrvaka hI sahI

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( 40 ) paoNcA pApa kara sakatA hai, kumArIvivAha kara sakatA hai, taba vidhavAvivAha bhI kara sakatA hai| AkSepa (8)-vidhavAvivAha isIlie adharma nahIM hai ki vaha vivAha hai balki isa lie adharma hai ki zrAgama viruddha hai| "koI pravRtyAtmaka kArya dharma nahIM hai' yaha likhanA sarvathA asadgata aura ajJAnatApUrNa hai| vivAhako nivRttyAtmaka mAnanA bhI vyartha hai / agara nivRtyAtmaka hotA to paoNca guNasthAna ke bheToM meM nivRttispa brahmacarya pratimAkI zrAvazyakatAhI kyA thI ? samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha bhAgamaviruddha nahIM hai, yaha hama siddha kara cuke hai aura Age bhI kreNge| yahA~ hamArA kahanA yahI hai ki agara vivAha adharma nahIM hai to vidhavAvivAha bhI adharma nahIM hai| agara vidhavAvivAha adharma hai to vivAha bhI adharma haiN| saca pUchA jAya to jainadharma ke anusAra koI bhI pravRtyAtmaka kArya dharma nahIM hai| kyoMki dharma kA matalaba hai ratnatraya yA samyakcAritra / samyakcAritrakA lakSaNa zAstrakAroM ne "vAhyAbhyantara kriyAoM kI nivRtti" kiyA hai| jaise ki"saMsAra kAraNa nivRttimpratyAgUrNasya jJAnavataH vAhAbhyantara kriyA vizeSo paramaH samyakcAritram (gajavArtika aura sarvArthasiddhi) bhavahetu prahANAya vahirabhyantarakriyAvinivRttiH paraM samyak cAritram mAnino matam / -zloka vArtika / vahiramaMtara riyA roho bhavakAraNa paNAsaTTham / gANissa ja jiNutta taM paramam sammacArittam // drvysNgrh| caraNAnuyoga zAstroM meM bhI isI taraha kA lakSaNa hai

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hiMsA nRtIyabhyo maithanasaMvA parigrahAbhyAMtra / pApaprapAlikAbhyo vigatiH saMjasya cAritram // 46 // -ratnakaraNDazrAvakAcAra / yAdA pramANa dene kI z2arUrata nahIM / prAyaH sarvatra cAritra kA lakSaNa nivRtyAnmaka hI kiyA hai / hA~!vyavahAniya se pravRtyAtmaka lanaNa kA bhI ullekha milatA hai| jaise asuhATo vigivittI muha pabittIya jANa cAri / vadasamiTi guttinaya vavahAragayATujie maNiya // -dravyasaMgraha / yahA~ para azubha se nivRtti aura zubha meM pravRtti ko vya. vahAranaya se cAritra kahA gayA hai| parantu vyavahAranaya se kahA gayA cAritra, vAstavika cAritra nahIM hai / kyoMki vyavahAniya kA viSaya abhUtArtha (avAstavika) hai / amRtacandrAcArya ne isa kA bahuta hI acchA khulAsA kiyA hai nizcayamiha bhUtArtha vyavahAraM varNayantya bhUtArtham / bhUtArtha bodhavimukhaH prAyaH matroM'pi sNsaarH|| abudhamya bodhanArtha munIzvaga varNayantya bhRnArtham / vyavahArameva calamavaiti yastamya dezanA nAsti // mANavaka eva siMhoM yathA bhayatyanavagIta mihamya / vyavahAra evAhi tathA nizcayanAM pAtyAnazcayakSamya // vyavahAra nizcayo yaH prabudhyatatvena mavati mdhysthH| prApnoti dezanAyAH saepaphalamavikalaziSyaH // arthAna-vAstaviktA kA viSaya karane vAlA nizcayanaya hai aura vAstavikatAko viSaya karane vAlA vyavahAranaya hai / prAyaH samasta saMmAra cAmtavikatA ke mAna se rahita hai| alpabuddhi vAle jIvoM ko samajhAne ke liye vyavahAranaya kA kathana kiyA jAtA hai / jo vyavahAranaya ko hI pakke raha jAtA hai

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(12) usakA upadeza denA vyartha hai| jaise jimane siha nahIM dekhA vaha karatA zUratA vAle vyakti ko hI siMha samajha jAtA hai, usI prakAra jo nizcaya ( vAstavika ) ko nahIM jAnatA vaha vyavahAra (avAstavika ) ko hI nizcaya samajha jAtA hai / jo vyavahAra aura nizcaya una donoM ko samajhakara madhyasya honA hai, vahI upadeza kA pUrNa phala prApta karatA hai| matalaba yaha ki vyavahAra cAritra, vAstava meM cAritra nahIM hai vaha to cAritra ke prApta karane kA eka jariyA hai, jo ki alpabuddhi vAloM ko samajhAne ke liye kahA gayA hai| hA~, yahA~ para prAcArya yaha bhI kahate haiM ki manuSya ko ekAntavAdI na bananA caahiye| yahI kAraNa hai ki hamane anekAnta rUpa meM vivAha kA vivecana kiyA hai| arthAt vAratavikatA kI dRSTi se (nizcayanaya se) vivAha dharma nahIM hai, kyoMki vaha pravRttirUpa hai aura upacAra se dharma hai / parantu yaha upacarita dhArmikatA sirpha kumArI vivAha meM hI nahIM hai vidhavAvivAha meM bhI hai / kyoMki donoM meM parastrI arthAt avivAhita strI se nivRtti pAI jAtI hai / pAThaka dekheMge ki hamArA viSecana kitanA zAstrasammata aura anekAnta se pUrNa hai, jabaki AkSepaka bilkula vyavahAraikAntavAdI banagayA hai| isIliye "pravRtyAtmaka kArya dharma nahIM hai" nizcayanaya ke isa kathana ko yaha sarvathA (1) asagata samajhatA hai? hamane vivAha ko upacarita dharma siddha karane ke liye kathacinivRtyAtmaka siddha kiyA thaa| jisa prakAra kisI manujya ko zera kahane se vaha zera nahIM hojAtA, kintu zera ke kucha guNoM kI kucha samAnatA usameM mAnI jAtI hai, usI prakAra vyavahAra cAritra, cAritra na hone para bhI unameM cAritrako kala samAnatA pAyI jAtI haiN| cAritrameM to zubha aura azubha donoM

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se nivRtti pAyI jAtI hai aura vyavahAra cAritra meM azubha se hI nivRtti pAyI jAtI haiM / vyavahAra cAritra kI cAritra ke sAtha yahI aAMzika samAnatA hai / yahI kAraNa hai ki vyavahAra cAritra bhI cAritra kahA gayA | jaya vivAha, vyavahAra dharma hai to usameM kisI na kisI rUpameM nivatyAtmakatA honA caahiye| isIliye hamane kahA hai ki vivAha se parastrIsevana rUpa azubha pariNati se nivRtti hotI hai| yaha nivRtti kumArIvivAha se bhI hotI hai aura vidhavAvivAha se bhI hotI hai| "vivAha agara nivRtyAtmaka hai no brahmacarya pratimAkyoM banAI!"-Ane pakakA yaha kathana to baDA vicitra hai| are bhAI vivAha meM jitanI nivRtti hai usa se jyAdaH nivatti brahmacarya meM hai / pahalI klAsa meM bhI zikSA dI jAtI aura dUsarI meM bhI dI jAtI hai to kyA yaha kahA jAsakatA hai ki pahilI klAsa meM zikSA dI jAtI hai to dUsarI zyoM banAI ? agara koI pUche ki muni to chaTha guNasthAna meM bana jAtA hai, phira sAtavaoN kyoM banAyA ? pA~ca pApoM kA tyAga to aNuvratoM meM ho jAtA hai phira mahAnata kyoM banAye ? sAmAyika aura prAMSadhopavAsa no dUsarI pratimA meM dhAraNa kiye jAne hai phira ina nAmoM kI tImage cauthI pratimA kyoM banAI ? vyabhicAra aura parigraha kA tyAga to brahmavargaNuvrata aura parigraha parimANa bana meM ho jAtA hai phira sAtavIM aura dazamI pratimA kyoM banAI ? no ina saba praznoM kA kyA uttara diyA jAyagA? uttara yahI diyA jAyagA ki pahilI avasyAoM meM thoDA tyAga hai aura dhAge kI avasthAoM meM jyAdaH tyAga hai| yahI uttara vivAha ke viSaya meM hai / vivAha meM thoDA tyAga hai-brahmacarya meM jyATa tyAga hai| deva pUjA Adi pravRtyAnmaka hai parantu jaba ve dharma kahe

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( 48 ) jAte hai naba nivRtyAtmaka bhI hote hai| una meM kudevapUjA tathA anya azama pariNatiyoM meM nitti pAyI jAtI hai| isI se ve mI vyavahAra dharma kahe gaye hai| isa vivecana sa pAThaka samajha gaye hoMge ki vidhavAvivAha meM kumArIvivAha ke bagayara nivRtti kA praNa pAyA jAtA hai| imaliye dAnoM eka hI nagaha ka vyavahAra dharma hai / aApa (Da) yaha likhanA mahAjhUTha hai ki vivAha ke sAmAnya lakSaNa meM kanyA zabda kA ullekha nahIM hai / 'kanyA kA hI vivAha hotA hai kyA isa dalIla ko jhUTha bolakara yo hI uDA denA cAhiye ? samAdhAna-hamane kanyA zabda ko uDAyA nahIM hai, balki isa zabda ke Upara to hamane bahuna joradAra vicAra kiyA hai| gajavAnika nathA anya proM meM jo kanyA gabdakA prayoga kiyA gayA hai, usake viSaya meM hama zrIlAlajo ke AkSepoM ke uttara dete samaya likha cuke hai| isake liye AkSepa nambara '' kA samAdhAna paDha lenA caahiye| AkSepa (Dha)-zrApa trivarNAcAra ko pramANa mAnakara ke bhI usI ke pramANa dete hai, lekina jima trivarNAcAra meM TaTro pezAva jAne kI kriyA para bhI kaDI nigarAnI rakhI gaI hai, usI meM vidhavAvivAha kI siddhi kaise ho sakatI hai? samAdhAna-trivarNAcAra ko hama apramANa mAnate hai, parantu vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI to pramANa mAnate haiM, isaliye unheM samajhAne ke liye usakA ullekha kiyA hai| kisI IsAI ko samajhAne ke liye bAibila kA upayoga karanA, musalamAna ko samajhAne ke liye kugana kA upayoga karanA, hindU kA samajhAne ke liye veda kA upayoga karanA jisa prakAra ucita hai, usI mAra sthitipAlakoM ko samajhAne ke liye trivarNAcAra kA

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(45 ) upayoga karanA ucita hai| 'TTI pezAba kI nigarAnI rakhane vAlA vidhavAvivAha kA samarthana nahIM kara sakatA' yaha no bilakula hAsyAspada yukti hai| Aja bhI dakSiNa prAnta meM TaTTI pezAva tathA anya kriyA-kAMDa para uttara prAnta kI apekSA karDa guNI nigarAnI rakhI jAtI hai| phira bhI vahA~ vidhavAvivAha aura talAka kA zrAma rivAja hai| khaira, trivarNAcAgmeM vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna hai, yaha vAta 27 veM prazna ke uttara meM siddha kI gaI hai / usI praznake zrApa samAdhAnoM meM isa para vicAra kiyA jaaygaa| AkSepa (ga)-kanyA zabda kA artha "vivAha yogya strI" kyoM kiyA jAya ? pitA zabda kA artha nI 'gurujana' hotA hai jaimA ki zramarakopa meM likhA hai 'sthAnipekAdikRdguru, para ntu kumArI ke atirikta kanyA zabda kA prayoga na to hamAre kahIM dekhane meM AyA hai na sunA hI hai| dhanakSaya nAmamAlA meM 'kanyA panirvagaH' likhA hai, 'strI patirvara kyoM nahIM ? samAdhAna--kanyA zabda kA 'vivAha yogya strI' artha kyoM kiyA jAya, isa kA samAdhAna prAkSepa 'o' ke samAdhAna meM dekhiye / kanyA zabda kA kumArI ke atirikta artha zrApa ne nahIM dekhA sunA no isa meM hamArA kyA aparAdha hai ? yaha Apa ke jJAna kI kamI hai| zrApa ke sahayogI pa0 zrIlAla jI ne no yaha artha dekhA hai| una ke kathanAnusAra hI zrApa vizlalocana, hema aura medinI kopa dekha ddaaliye| parantu isake pahile kopa dekhane kI kalA sIkha lIjiye, kyoMki isI prakaraNa meM amarakopa dekhane meM Apa ne ghaDI galatI kI hai| amarakopa meM likhA hai ki 'pitrAdirgaru' arthAt pitA, mAtA, mAtA, mAmA Adi guru hai, parantu Apa artha karate hai ki pitA mAtA, bhrAtA zrAdi pitA hai| Apa ko samajhanA cAhiye ki

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( 46 ) pitA jyAdi ko guru kaha sakate haiM, parantu saba taraha ke guruoM ko pitA nahIM kaha sakate / kanyA kA vizeSaNa 'pitRdattA' haiM na ki 'gurudattA' jisase ki amarakoSa ke anusAra zrApa vistRta artha kara skeN| isaliye yahA~ pitRzabda upalakSaNa hai / isI prakAra kanyA zabda bhI upalakSaNa hai / nAmamAlA meM 'strI pativaraH' na kahane kA kAraNa yaha hai ki pratyeka strI kA pati ghara nahIM kahalAtA, kintu jo kanyA arthAt jo vivAha yogya strI ( dulhina ) hotI haiM usI ke pati ko vara ( dulhA ) kahate hai / 'strI patirvaH' kaha dene se sabhI mastrIka puruSa jIvana bhara ke liye vara arthAt dUlhA kahalAne lagate / AkSepa (ta) - zramarakopa meM 'punabhU' zabda kA artha kiyA hai 'dubArA vivAha karane vAlI strI' aura kavi samrAT dhanaJjaya ne punarbhU zabda ko vyabhicAriNI striyoM ke nAmoM meM DAlA hai| dhanaJjaya, akalaGka aura pUjyapAda kI kATi ke hai, kyoMki nAmamAlA meM likhA hai " pramANamakalaGkasya pUjyapAdasya lakSaNaM / dvisandhAna kaveH kAvyam ratnatrayama pazcimam " nAmamAlA ke pramANa se siddha hai ki strI kA punarvivAha vyabhicAra hai / samAdhAna - dhanaJjayajI kavi the, parantu unakA koSa saMskRta sAhitya ke saba koSoM se choTA aura nIce ke darje kA hai / Upara jo ina kI prazaMsA meM zloka uddhRta kiyA gayA hai vaha khuda hI inhIM kA banAyA hai| isa taraha apane mu~ha se prazaMsA karane se hI koI bar3A nahIM ho jaataa| dhanaJjaya ko pUjyapAda yA akalaGka kI koTi kA kahanA una donoM zrAcAryoM kA apamAna karanA hai / dhanaJjaya yadi sarvazreSTha kavi bhI hote to bhI kyA kalaGkAdi ke samAna mAnya ho sakate the ? gA~dhI jI saba se bar3e netA hai, gAmA saba se baDA pahalavAna hai aura gauhara sarva zreSTha gAyikA hai to kyA gA~dhIjI gAmA aura gauhara kI ijjata

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( 47 ) barAvara ho gaI ? mAnyatA ke liye sirpha sarvazreSTanA nahIM dekho jAtI, parantu yaha bhI dekhA jAtA hai ki vaha zreSThatA kima viSaya meM hai| dhanaJjaya eka acche pariDana yA kavi the to kyA ve pUjyapAda aura akalara ke samAna prAcArya aura tatva bhI the, jisa se siddhAnta ke viSaya meM una kA nirNaya mAnA jAya ? khaira! aba hama mUla viSaya para Ate haiN| amarakopakArane pUna zabda kA artha kiyA hai "dubAga vivAha karane vAlI strI" | pUnarbha kA isaga nAma didhipU bhI hai| jisa brAhmaNa natriya yA vaizya kI strI, punarbha honI hai use agnedidhiSu kahate hai ( isa se yaha bhI siddha hotA hai ki pahile z2amAne meM brAhmaNa kSatriya vaizya meM bhI strI punarvivAha hotA thA ) / amarakopakAra ne pUnarbha kA 'duvAga vivAha karane vAlI strI' artha to kriyA, parantu use vyabhicAriNI nahIM maanaa| vyabhicAriNI ke unhoMne puzcalI, dharpiNI, bandhakI, sanI, kulaTA, itvarI zrAdi nAma tA batAye parantu punarbha nAma nahIM btaayaa| jo kopakAra punarbha zabda kA uparyata artha karatA hai vaha to vyabhicAriNo use likhatA nahIM, kintu jimane (dhanaaya ne ) punarbha zabda kA artha hI nahIM batAyA vaha use vyabhicAriNI kahanA hai ! isase mAlUma hotA hai ki amarakopakAra ke artha se dhanaJjaya kA artha vilakula judA hai| amarakoSakAra ke manase punarbhu zabda kA artha hai 'duvAga vivAha karane vAlI strI' aura dhanaJjaya ke mata se punarbhU zabda kA artha hai vyabhicAriNI / ye no eka zabda ke do jude de artha hue / isase duvArA vivAha karane vAlI strI vyabhicAriNI kaise siddha huI ? go zabda kA artha gAya bhI hai, svarga bhI hai, pRthvI bhI hai, ityAdi aura bhI aneka artha hai / aba koI kahe ki amuka zrAdamI mara kara varga gayA, to kyA isa kA yaha artha hogA ki vaha gAya meM gayA ?

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kyoMki svarga ko go kahate hai aura go kA artha gAya hai / jigna prakAra go zabda ke 'gAya' aura 'svarga' ye donoM artha hone para bhI 'gAya' ko svarga nahIM kaha sakate usI prakAra puna zanTa ke 'duvAga vivAha karane vAlI' aura 'vyabhicAriNI' ye donoM artha hone para bhI duvArA vivAha karane vAlI ko vyabhicAriNI nahIM kaha sakte / do andhakAroM kI dRSTi meM puna zabda ke ye jude suDhe artha hai / ina juda sudaM zroM ko paryAyavAcI samajha jAnA akla kI khabI hai |haa, agara zramarakopa meM likhA hunA punabhU zabda kA artha nAmamAlA meM hotA aura phira vahA~ umaM vyabhicAriNI kA paryAyavAcI batalAyA hotA no dhanaJjaya ke mata se punarvivAha vyabhicAra siddha hotA / athavA zramarozakAra ne hI agara puna zabda ko vyabhicAriNI zanda kA paryAya. vAcI likhA hotA to bhI punarvivAha ko vyabhicAra kahane kI gujAiza hotii| parantu na to amarakozakAra punarbha ko nyabhicAriNI likhate hai, na nAmamAlAkAra amarakoza sarIkhA punabhU kA artha hI karate haiM / isaliye punabhU zabda ke viSaya meM donoM lekhakoM ke jude juDhe artha hI samajhanA caahiye| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki 'punarbhU tIna taraha kI hotI hai1 akSatayoni,2. kSatayoni, 3. vyabhicAriNI (Tekho minAkSarA zabda phlpa ma, yA hindI zabdasAgara ) / ho sakatA hai ki dhanaJjaya kavi ne tIsare bheda ko dhyAna meM rakha kara punarbha ko vyabhicAriNI kA paryAyavAcI likhA ho / isa prakAra choTI choTI galatiyoM nAmamAlA meM bahuta pAI jAtI hai / jase-dhAnu. phakA artha hai dhanuSa calAne vAlA, parantu nAmamAlAmeM dhAnuka ko bhIla kA paryAyavAcI zabda likhA hai / lekina na to sabhI bhIla, dhAnuSka ho sakate haiM aura na sabhI dhanuSa calAne vAle bhIla ho sakate haiN| agara nAmamAlAkAra ke artha ke anusAra

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( 46 ) prayoga kiyA jAya to dhanuSa calAne vAle tIrthaGkara cakravartI zrAdi sabhI rAjA mahArAjA mIla kahalAyeMge | isI prakAra naukara ke paryAyavAcI zabdoM meM zutra-jIvI likhA hai / lekina sabhI naukara zastrajIvI nahIM hote / zutrajIvI to sirpha sipA hiyoM ora sainikoM ko kaha sakate hai parantu sainika aura naukara kA eka hI artha karanA nAmamAlA kI hI vicitratA hai / dUsare koSoM meM na to punarbhU kA paryAya zabda vyabhicAriNI likhA haiM, na dhAnuSka kA paryAya zabda bhIla likhA hai aura na sainika kA paryAya zabda sevaka likhA hai / isa prakAra kI choTI moTI bhUta * nAmamAlAmeM darjanoM udAharaNa mila sakate hai / jo nAmamAlA kI ina truTiyoM para dhyAna na denA cAhate hoM ve uparyukta cheTTaka ( pairAgrApha) ke kathanAnusAra punarbhU zabda ke artha karane meM amarakozakAra aura nAmamAlAkAra kA matabheda sama / isaliye punarvivAhitA ko vyabhicAriNI nahIM kahA jA sakatA / isake bAda kSepaka ne sAhasagati vidyAdhara nathA 'dharma saMgraha zrAvakAcAra' ke kanyA zabda para ajJAnatA pUrNa vivevana kiyA hai, jisakA vistRta uttara thAkSepa 'zraM' 'a' aura "ka" meM diyA jAcukA hai| isI taraha dIkSAnvaya kriyA ke punavivAha kA vivecana zrAkSepa naM0 'kha' meM kiyA gayA hai| zrAkSepaka ne vakavAda to bahuta kiyA, parantu vaha itanI bhI bAta nahIM samajha pAyA ki dIkSAntraya kriyA ke punarvivAha kA ullekha kyoM kiyA gayA thaa| dIkSAnvaya kriyAke punarvivAha se hama vidhavAvivAha siddha nahIM karanA cAhate, kintu yaha batalAnA cAhate hai ki vivAhitA strI bhI, agara usakA phira vivAha ho to (bhale hI apane pati ke hI sAtha ho) kanyA kahalAtI hai| agara kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI hI kiyA jAyagA to dIkSAncaya kriyAmeM 1

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( 50 ) dIkSitA strIkA apane pati ke sAtha punarvivAha kaise ho sakegA, kyoMki prAkSa paka kanyA kA hI vivAha mAnatA hai| AkSepa (tha)-jainAcAryoM kI sampUrNa kathanI naya vivakSA para hai| unhoMne (1) vizvalocana meM "kanyA kumArikA nAryaH" likhA hai / yadyapi yaha bilkula sIdhA sAdA hai aura isameM naya pramANake vAroM kI kucha AvazyakatA nahIM hai phira bhI nItikAra ne kahA hai-'arthI dopaM na pshyni'| jo ho ! jAni apekSA (gazi bheTauSadhIbhidA ) nAri (?) ke sAtha kanyA, kumArI kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai| hamAre artha ko middha karane vAlA aza 'jagat meM baDe (1) vArIka TAipa meM chApA gayA hai / itanA chala ! kucha khaupha hai ? samAdhAna-kopa ke strI vAcI kanyA zabda kA jaba kucha bhI khaNDana na ho sakA no uparyana pralApa kiyA gayA hai / zrAkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki kanyA aura strI kI jAni eka hai, isaliye donoM ko sAtha likha diyA hai| ThIka hai, magara bhAryA aura bhaginI bhI to sajAtIya hai, vApa aura beTA bhI to sajAtIya hai, no ina sabake viSaya meM ghuTAlA kara denA caahiye| isa bakavAda se zrAkSepaka ne apane kopa dekhane kI kalA ke ajJAna kA punaH pradarzana kiyA hai / vizvalocana, eka anekArtha koza hai| anya kozoM ke samAna usameM paryAyavAcI zabdoM kI lAina khar3I nahIM kI jAtI hai| usameM to yaha batAyA jAnA hai ki eka zabda ke juDhe jude kitane artha hai / kanyA zabdake kumArI, nArI, rAzibheda Adi jude jude artha haiN| agara AkSepaka ko koza dekhane kA z2arA bhI mAna hotA to vaha itanI bhUla na karatA / TAipa kI bAta to vahI vicitra hai / lekhaka, jisa bAna para pAThako kA dhyAna z2yAdaH AkarSita karanA cAhatA hai use vaha anDara lAina kara denA hai aura presa vAle use blAka

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( 51 ) [ moTe ] TAipa meM chApate hai| isa bAta meM AkSepaka ko chala gapha dine bhUta najara A rahe hai / yaha pAgalapana nahI to yA hai ? nArA AkSepaka aima aisa jabaradasta ( 1 ) se vidhavAvivAha kA gaThana karane calA hai / narka (!) kanyA ke viSaya meM itanA likhA jAcukA hai ki va aura likhane kI jarUrata nahIM hai| sAgAndharmAmRta ke nirdoSA vizeSaNa para jo zrApa ne liyA hai usakA samAdhAna 'ga' meM kiyA gayA hai| AkSepa (da) - zAyada yAtrI karuNAnuyoga kA lakSaNa bhI nahIM mAlUma hai| kahI karuNAnuyAga meM gRhasya cAritra kI Apa bhI dekhane meM bhAI hai| varuNAnuyAga meM to lokAto vibhAga Adi kA varNana rahatA hai| karuNAnuyoga zrIra AgA gA gA ? * samAdhAna- isa zrApa se mAluma hotA hai ki zAkSepaka zrI zAstramAna zrama aura hai / pAThazAlAzrI ke choTe 2 tundra jitanA jJAna rakhate hai utanA jJAna vecAre zrApakakA milA hai aura usI ke bala para vaha apane kAna samajhatA hai ! zAsaka hama malAha dete hai ki vaha mAtramArgaprakAza ka AThaye adhikAra meM karuNAnuyoga kA prayojana" aura "karuNA nuyoga ke vyAgyAna kI paddhati' nAmaka vivecanoM kA svAdhyAya vara jAya / vahA~ ke kuna uddharaNa hama yahA~ nIce deta hai :-- $ f "bahuri karuNAnuyoga viSe jIvana kI vA karmani kI vizeSatA vA trilokAdi kI racanA nirUpaNa kari jIvana kA dharmaviSa lagAye hai / je jIva dharmaviSai upayoga lagAyA cAheM, te jIvana kA guNasthAna mArgaNA Adi vizeSa para karmani kA kAraNa avasthA phala kauna kauna ka kaise kaise pAiye, ityAdi 1 i

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( 52 ) vizeSa bhara triloka viSa naraka svargAdika ThikAne pahicAni pApa ne vimukha hoya dharma vipe lAge haiM / "bahuri karaNAnuyoga vipe chadmasthAna kI pravRtti ke anu. sAra (AcAraNa) varNana nAhI / kevalajJAna gamya (zrAtma pari. NAma) padArthanikA nirUpaNa hai| jaise-koI jIva no dravyAdika kA vicAra kareM hai vA vratAdika pAle haiM, parantu aMtaraMga samyaka cAritra nahIM tAtai unako mithyAdRSTi avatI kahiye hai / bahuri kaiI jIva dravyATika kA vA vratAdika kA vicAra-rahita hai anya kAryAni viSai pravate haiM vA nidrAdi kari nirvicAra hoya rahe haiM, parantu unake namyaktAdi zakti kA sadbhAva hai nAte una ko samyaktI vA vratI kahiye hai / bahuri koI jIva ke kapAyani kI pravRtti no dhanI hai para vAkai antaraGga kapAya-zakti thArI hai novAko mandakaSAI kahiye haiN| para koI jIva ke kapAyani kI pravRtti to thorI hai para vAkai antaraGga kapAya-zakti dhanI hai no vAko tIvra kaSAyI kahiye hai| "bahuri kahIM jAkI vyakti to kichu na bhAsai no bhI sUkSma zakti ke sadbhAvate tAkA tahA~ astitva kahyA / jaise mani ke abrahma kArya kichU nAhIM to bhI navama guNasthAna paryanta maithuna sajJA khii"| "bahuri karaNAnuyoga samyagdarzana jJAna cAritrAdika dharma kA nirUpaNa karma prakRtInikA upazamAdikra kI apekSA liye sUkSma zakti jaise pAiye taise guNasthAnAdi vinirUpaNa kara hai"| ina uddharaNoM se pAThaka samajha jAyeMge ki karaNAnuyoga meM cAritrAdika kA bhI nirUpaNa rahatA hai / haoN, karaNAnuyogakA + jaise dakSiNa ke shaantisaagrjii| -sampAdaka -

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( 53 ) vivecana bhAvoM ke anusAra hai aura caraNAnuyoga kA vivecana vAyakriyA ke anumAra / baraNAnuyoga kA muni va pAyaka karaNAnuyoga kA mithyAdhi ho sakatA hai / bhAvoM ke mudhAra ke liye kiyA hai pradhAna karaNAnuyoga ke dharma ke liye naraNAnuyoga kA dharma / vivAha meM puruyako kAmalAlasA bhanya triyoM se ghaTa kara eka hImo meM kendrIbhUta hojAtI hai / isa prakAra kA phandrIbhRna honA kumAge-vivAha se bhI haiM aura vidhavA-vivAha se bhI hai, imaliye karaNAnuyoga kI gaMpekSA kumArI-vivAha yora vidhavAvivAda meM kucha pharka nahIM haiN| imaliye kumArI vivAha aura vidhavAvivAha ke liye judI judI pAtrAeM nahIM manAI jAmanI na banAI gaI hai / agara pAnepaka karaNAnuyAMga kambApa ko samajhane kI ceSTA karegA to use saccI kA yaha bAta samajha meM bhaajaaygii| sAnapa (gha)-vidhayA ke liye bhAcAra-zAstra meM spaSTa baMdhaya dIjA kA vidhAna hai| samAdhAna-sAkSepa kA uttara nambara 'ba' meM diyA gayA hai| emabATa pAnegA ne mamyatya andha kA kAraNa hai yA nadIma viSaya para anAvazyaka vivaMcana kiyA hai, jisakA vidhavAvivAhama koI nAmaka nahIM hai| hA~, yaha bAta hama pahile nimnAra meM kAra cuke ki samyanavI vidhavA vivAha kara sknaa| dUsarA prazna dumA prazna ke uttara meM koI aisI dhAna nahIM hai jisakA uttara pahile prazna ke uttara meMna AgayA ho / isaliye yahA~ para vizeSa na likhA jAyagA / punarvivAha karane vAlA samyakavI

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( 54 ) hone para svarga jArAktA hai yA nahIM-hama para zrIlAlajI to kahate haiM ki vaha sIdhA naraka nigodakA pAtra hai. jabaki vidyA nanda likhate haiM ki udAnIna vRtti rakhane para ravarga jA sakatA haiN| isa taraha dAnI zrApaka paka dugnare ko kATate hai| donoM zrAna pakoMke zrAna pI para nimna meM vicAra kiyA jAtA hai : AkSepa ( ka )-punarvivAha karane vAlA mokSa to nava jAya, java vaha raoNDa pIchA choDe / bhAva hI munivrata nahIM hote| vidhavAvivAda se saMtAna hogI vaha ga~Da kA maoNDa phira kisI kA Daga vngaa| (zrIlAla) / vidhavAvivAha satAna mona kI adhikAriNI nahIM hai / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna- gaeNDa, saoNDa, laMDaga zAdi zabdoM kA uttara denA vRthA hai / vidhavAvivAha kI santAna mokSa jA sakatI haiN| java vyabhicAra jAta sudRSTi mokSa jA sakatA hai, taba aura kI vAta hI kyA hai ? vidhavAvivAha karane ke bAda munivrata dhAraNa kara sakatA hai aura mokSa bhI jA sakatA hai / isama to vivAda hI nahIM hai| AkSepa ( kha )-punarvivAha karane vAle asacchada hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-pahile prazna ke uttara meM isakA samAdhAna kara cuke haiN| dekho na0-(Ga) AkSepa (ga) sAgAradharmAmRta meM likhA hai ki sva. dAra-satoSI para strI kA kabhI grahaNa nahIM krtaa| vidhavA kA parastrItva kisa pramANa se httegaa| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-isa kA samAdhAna usI sAgAradharmAmRta meM hai| vahA~ likhA hai ki khadAra-satopI parastrI-gamana aura vezyAgamana nahIM karatA / yahA~ para granthakAra ne kanyA (kumArI) ko bhI parastrI meM zAmila kiyA hai (kanyAtu mAvikAtvA.

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( 55 ) pitrAdi parananpratyAhAmanAyenyanyamtrI nA na viziSyate) / jaba zyA bhI parambI hai zrAra vivAha dvArA upa kA parastrIya dUra kara diyA jAtA hai nara kanyA ke samAna vidhavA kA bhI para mtrIva dara kara diyA jaavegaa| zathavA jaigne vidhura kA parapuru'panca dara hotA hai isI prakAra vidhavA kA parastrIya dUra ho jaaygaa| gaira, jara mAgAradharmAmRta kI bAna cala paDI hai naba hama bhI kucha nigna denA cAhate haiN| vidhavAvivAhavirodhI, apane zramAna timira ko iTA kara jaga dekheN| nAgAradharmAmRta meM vezyAmecI ko bhI brAhmacaryANuvatI mAnA hai, voripranyakAra ke mana se vezyA, para-khI nahIM hai| unakA kahanA hai ki "yastu badAgbasAdhAraNa striyo'pi vanayitumazaktaH pagdAganya cayani so'pi brahmANuvanIpyane" athAMna jo vastroM ke samAna vezyA ko bhI choDane meM asamartha mi parastrI kAhI tyAga karatA hai vaha bhI brahmacayAMNuvatI nakA matalaba yaha hai ki vezyA, parastrI nahIM hai, kyoMki usa kA koI nAmI maujUda nahIM hai / yadi aisI vezyA kA maMghana karane vAlA pAvatI ho sakatA hai to vidhavAse vivAha pharane vAlA pyA TANavanI nahIM ho sakatA ? vezyA, parastrI nahIM hai, kintu yaha pUrNarUpa me mbastrI bhI nA nahIM hai| parantu jima vidhavA ke sAtha vivAha kara liyA jAnA hai, vaha no pUrNapaNe baratI hai| kAnUna vezyAmbastrI nahIM kahalAnI, jabaki punarvivAhinA myastrI kahalAnI hai| inane para bhI agara vezyAnI dvinIra zreNI kA apavratI kahalA sakanA hai to vidhavAvivAha karane vAlA prathama zreNI kA aNuvatI kahalo sakatA hai| mAgAradharmAmRna meM jahaoNitvariphAgamana ko brahmacaryANuvrata

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( 56 ) kA aticAra siddha kiyA hai vahA~ likhA hai ki "cAsya mAryAdinA pareNa kiJcitkAla paggRihInAM vezyAM gacchato bhagaH katha. citparadAratvAttasyAH / lokatu paradAravAsTerna bhaMgaH iti bhagAbhaga rUpoticAraH" / isa vAkya para vicAra kiijiye| jahA~ bhaga hI bhaMga hai vahA~ anAcAra mAnA jAtA hai| jahA~ abhaga hI hai vahA~ vrata mAnA jAtA hai / jahA~ bhaga aura lAbhaga donoM hai vahA~ aticAra mAnA jAtA hai| Upara ke vAkya meM vezyA-sevana ko bhaMga aura amarUpa mAna kara aticAra siddha kiyA gayA hai / yahA~ dekhanA itanA hI hai ki bhanna aMza kyA hai aura amana aMza kyA hai ? aura unameM se kaunamA praza vidhavAvivAha meM pAyA jAtA hai ? granthakAra kahate hai ki vezyAsaMvana meM cUta kA bhaga isaliye honA hai ki vaha dUsaroM ke dvArA grahaNa kI jAtI hai| matalaba yaha ki vezyA ke pAsa bahuta se purupa jAte hai aura sabhI paisA de dekara use apanI apanI strI banAte hai / isaliye vaha paraparigRhotA huI aura usake sevana se cUta kA bhaGga huzrA / lekina loka meM vaha parantrI nahIM mAnI jAtI (kyoMki paisA lene para bhI pUrNarUpa se vaha kisI kI strI nahIM banatI) / isaliye usa ke sevana meM vrata kA abhaGga (rakSA) huA / pAThaka dekheM ki vidhavAvivAha meM vana kA abhaGga (rakSA) hI hai, bhaGga bilakula nahIM hai / loka vyavahAra le, kAnUna kI dRSTi se, tathA parastrI sevana meM jo sakleza hotA hai vaha sakleza na hone se punarvivAhitA svastrI hI hai, isaliye isa levana meM vezyAlevana kI apekSA kaI gaNI vata. rakSA (abhahAMza ) hai / sAtha hI vezyA meM to paraparigrahI. tatA hai kintu isa meM nAmamAtra ko bhI paraparigRhItatA nahIM hai| jaba koI manuSya vezyA ke pAsa jAtA hai taba vaha usa kA pUrNa adhikArI nahIM bana sakatA, kyoMki utanA

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( 57 ) adhikAra mare puNyoM ko bhI prApta hai / lekina punarvivAhitA ke Upara dUsare kA zilakula adhikAra nahIM rhtaa| isaliye vezyAmavana meM to prabhA ke sAtha meM mana hai, lekina punarvivAhitA meM amana kI anada hai| isaliye vezyA sevana ati. cAra hai aura punarvivAha bana hai| anAcAra donoM hI nahIM hai| mAgAradharmAmRta kA yaha kathana vidhavAvivAha kA pUrNa samarthana karanA hai| hama pAThakoM se raddhanAsAtha kahate hai ki agale sAgAra. dharmAmRna meM hI kyA, rinI bhI jainamandha meM-jo ki bhagavAna mahAvIra ke parama pavitra aura uza siddhAntoM ke anusAra banA ho-vidhavAvivAda kA samarthana hI milegaa| kintu use sama. jhane ke liye viveka aura ni:pakSanA kI jarUrata hai| zrAkSepa (gha)-candrAmA apane niMdya satya kI jIvana bhara nindA karatI rahI ( vidyAnanda ) jaya usa duSTa kA sAtha chuTa gayA taya zreSThamArga dhAraNa karane se svarga gaI / vaha vacchA se vyabhicAra na karatI thI, kintu usa para madhu balAtkAra karatA thA1 (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-madhu ne candrAmA ke sAtha balAtkAra kiyA thA yA donoM hI isase prasanna the, yaha bAta pradyumnacarita ke nimnalikhita zlokoM se mAlUma ho jAtI hai :cAmimmaparihAsapacAmina tathA mamanunIya sa reme / jAnamamya ca yathA caritArtha yauvanaM ca madano vimavazca |766 // locanAntaka nirIkSaNamantaHkRjitaM ca hasinaM ca nddhmyaaH| cumvitaMtra dhitutaJca rata vyAjahAra nugtotmaghagagam // 770 // gItanRtyaparihAsyakathAmiciMkAjalavanAnla vihaarH| tapratI ratimunnArNava magnI jamatarna samaya' samatItam // 7 // 17 // madhu ne candrAmA ko mIThI mIThI aura haMsIlI bAtoM

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( ys ) se khuza karake ramaNa kiyA jisase usakA yauvana maTana aura vibhava saphala ho gayA / candrAbhA kA dekhanA, kilorle karanA, haMsanA, cUmA lenA, kAma krIDA karanA zrAdi se unakA surato. tsava raMga jamane lagA / gAnA, nAcanA, haeNsI dillagI karanA, vApikA ke jala meM aura vanoM meM bihAra karanA zrAdi se ve sukha meM magna ho gaye / unheM jAnA huA samaya mAlUma bhI na paDA / Sui samudra pAThaka dekheM ki kyA vaha calAtkAra thA ? khaira, madhu ko vAna cAI hai to eka bAta aura suniye / madhu thA to parastrI sevaka aura usakA yaha pApa vikhyAta bhI ho gayA thA / phira bhI usake yahA~ eka dina vimalavAhana munirAja zrAhAra lene ke liye zAye - smaraNa rahe ki isa samaya bhI madhu candrAbhA ke sAtha rahatA thA to usane muni ko dAna diyA / prAtukaM nRpatinA vidhipUrva sayatAya varadAnamadAyi / tena cAnnaphalataH sahasaiva citrapaJcaka mavApi dugapam // 7 // 65 // rAjA madhu ne munirAja ke liye AhAra dAna diyA, jisase turanta hI paMca zrAzcarya hue| pAThaka dekheM ki eka parastrIsevI, muni ko AhAra detA hai jisako zrAcArya mahArAja varadAna (utkRSTadAna) kahate haiM aura usase turanta paMca Azcarya bhI hote hai / isase na to muni ko pApa lagatA hai na madhu ko / paJca zrAcarya isakA pramANa hai| itanA hI nahIM, balki usa parastrIsevI kA na khAne ke bAda hI vimalavAhana muniko kevala jJAna paidA huaa| agara Ajakalake DhoMgI muniyoMke sAtha aisIghaTanA ho jAve to ve durabhimAna ke putale zuddhi ke nAma para aeNDiyA taka nikAla nikAla kara dhone kI ceSTA kareMge aura becAre dAtAko to naraka nigoda ke sivAya dUsarI jagaha bhejeMge hI nahIM / qhaira, aba Age dekhiye / rAjA madhu naura candrAbhA

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( 48 ) donoM marakA solaha varga meM deva hue. (isa ghaTanA se naraka ke ThekedAra paMDitoM vaDAkaTa honA hogaa| isa para zrAkSe. paka kA kahanA hai ki vaha svarga gaI mAM zreSTa-mArga ke avalaMbana se gaI.parantu imame itanA to mAlUma hogayA ki parastrIsavI ko zreSThamArga avalambana karane kA adhikAra hai-vyabhicAriNI mtrI bhI pAryikA ke vrata le sakatI hai| usakA yaha kArya dharmaH viruddha nahIM hai / anyathA use acyuna varga meM devatva kaise prApta hotA? hamArA yaha kahanA nahIM hai ki vivAha karane se hI koI svarga jAtA hai| svarga ke liye to nadanurUpa zreSTha mArga dhAraNa karanA paDegA / hamArA kahanA to yahI hai ki vidhavAvivAha kara lene se zreSTha mArga dhAraNa karane kA adhikAra yA yogyatA nahIM china jaatii| aApakoM kA kahanA to yaha hai ki punarvivAha vAlA mamyagdRSTi nahIM ho sakatA, parantu madhu ke dRSTAnta se to yaha siddha hogayA ki punarvivAha vAlA to kyA, parastrIsevI bhI sampattI hI nahIM, muni taka bana sakatA hai| prazna tIsarA "vidhavAvivAha se niryaJca aura narakagatikA vadha honA hai yA nahIM"-isa tIsare prazna ke uttara meM hamane jo kucha kahA thA usa para AkSepakoM ne koI aisI bAta nahIM kahI hai, jisakA uttara diyA jAya ? zrApakoM ne yAra bAra yahI duhAI dI hai ki vidhavAvivAha dharma viruddha hai, vyabhicAra hai, isaliye usa se visaMghAda kuTilatA hai, usase naraka tiryaJcagati kA bandha hai| lekina isa kadhanameM anyonyAzraya dopa hai| kyoMki jaba vidhavA. vivAha dharmaviruddha siddha ho taba usase visaMvAdAdi siddha ho /

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jaba vinavAdAdi siddha hI, nava vaha dharmaviruddha siddha ho / ra nAmamAtra ke zrAkSayoM kA uttara denA bhI hama ucita samajhate hai| AkSepa ( ka ) gajula zAdikrInapazcaryAtrA ke dRSTAnna zAstroM meM pAye jAte hai / agara unheM koI vivAda kA upadeza denA to unakI unnati meM mandeha thaa| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-ganula Adi ke samAna yAla brahmacAriNI brAhmoDhavI, sundarI devI, nIlIbAI zrAdi ke dRSTAnta bhI to zAstroM meM pAye jAte haiN| isaliye payA yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatA ki agara kumArIvivAha kA upadeza hotA to brAhmI Adi kI tarakkI kaise hotI? agara kumAgavivAha ke upadeza rahane para bhI bAlabrahmacAriNI mila lakatI hai nA punarvivAha kA upadeza rahane para bhI vaivavya-dIkSA lene vAlI zrIra prAyikA mana kara ghora tapazcaryA karane vAlI kyoM na mileMgI? zrAkSepaka ko rAjuladevI kI kathAkA pUrA patA hI nahIM hai / jainiyoM kA baccA baccA jAnatA hai ki neminAthake donA lene para rAjula ke mAtA, pitA, sakhiyA~ tathA anya kuTumbiyoM ne unheM kisI dUsare rAjakumAra ke sAtha vivAha kara lene ko gvUva hI samajhAyA thaa| phira bhI unanaM vivAha na kiyA / Anepaka ko samajhanA cAhiye ki rAtula sonI dRr3hamanasvinI deviyA~ kisI ke upadeza anupadeza kI parvAha nahIM karatI / agara unheM vivAha karanA hotA to saba loga rokane rahate, phira bhI ve vivAha kara letI / aura unheM vivAha nahIM karanA thA no saba loga bhAgraha karate rahe phira bhI unane kisI ke kahane kI parvAha nahIM kii| AkSepa (kha)-paDita loga zreSThamArga kA upadeza dete hai, isaliye visavAdI nahIM haiM / jabarana vyabhicAra kI zikSA dene vAle kucha apaDeTa lIDarsa visaMvAdI hai / (vidyAnanda)

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( 66 ) mamAghAna-zreSTha mArga kA upadeza denA buga nahIM hai, parantu jo usa zreSThamArga kA avalambana nahIM kara sakate unako usase unamtI zreNI ke mArga meM mI na calane denA mata ke nAma para manavAlA ho jAnA hai / yayA vidhavAvivAha kA upadeza brahma caryakA ghAtaka hai ? yadi hA~, no gRhasthadharma kA vidhAna bhI manidharma kA ghAtaka kahalAyagA / pahilI Adi pratimAoM kA vidhAna bhI dUsarI zAdi pratimAoM kA cAtaka kahalAyagA / yadi gAmdhadharma Adi kA upadeza dene vAle, baJcaka. nAstika, pAkhaMTI, pApopaTeSTA, pApa paMtha meM phaimAne vAle yAdi nahIM hai no vidhavAvivAha ke pracAraka mI vaJcaka yAdi nahIM haiN| kyoMki jima prakAra pUrNa saMgama ke abhAva meM avirani ne haTAne ke liye gRhasthadharma (viratAvirana) kA upadeza hai usI prakAra pUrNa brahmacarya ke abhAva meM, vyabhicAra se dUra rakhane ke liye vidhavA. vivAda kA upadeza hai| jaba vidhavA-vivAha zrAgamaviruddha hI nahIMhai naya umameM visavAda phaisA ? aura usakA upaTeza bhI vyabhicAra kI zikSA kyoM? vidhavAvivAha ke upadezaka z2abara. dastI Adi kabhI nahIM karate na ghe bahiSkAra prAdi kI dhamakiyA~ dene haiN| ye saba pApa no vidhavAvivAha-virodhI pagiDatoM ke hI mira para savAra hai| Apa (ga)-vidhavAvivAha meM vezyA-sevana kI taraha prArambha gale hI kama ho, parantu parigraha-mamatvapariNAmakumArI vivAda se anarayAna guNA hai| (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-yadi vidhavAvivAhameM asaMkhyAta guNA mamava hai no vidhuravivAda meM bhI asaMrayAtaguNA mamatva mAnanA pddegaa| kyoMki jisa prakAra vidhayA para yaha doSAropaNa kiyA jAnA hai ki use eka puruSa se santoSa nahIM duzrA, usI prakAra vidhura ko mI eka ratrI se mantoSa nahIM huzrA; isIliye vaha

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bhI doSI kahalAyA / vAstavika bAta to yaha hai ki na pidhura vivAha meM jyAdaH mamatya pariNAma hai aura na vidhavAvivAha meN| haoN, agara koI strI paka hI samaya meM do pati rakkhe athavA koI puruSa eka hI samaya meM do striyA~ ramye tI mamanya pariNAma (rAga pariNati ) jyAdaH bahalAyagA / agara kisI ne yaha pratijJA lI ki maiM 200) rupaye jyAdA na ramvegA aura aba yadi vaha 201) ravaye no usa kI gagapariNati meM vRddhi mAnI jAyagI / lekina agara vaha 200) meM se eka rupayA sarca karade phira dusarA eka rupayA peTA karake 200) karale to yaha nahIM kahA jAyagA ki tU dusarA nayA rupayA lAyA hai, imaliye terI pratijJA bhaha ho gaI aura mamatva pariNAma baDha gyaa| kisI ne eka ghoDA rakhane kI pratimA lI, durbhAgya se vaha mara gayA: isaliye usane dUsaga ghoDAsarIdA / yahA~ para bhI vaha pratimA cyuta yA adhika rAgI (parigrahI ) nahIM kahA jA sktaa| isI prakAra eka pati ke mara jAne para dUsaga vivAha karanA, yA eka patnI ke marajAne para dUsaga vivAha karanA adhika rAga (parigraha ) nahIM kahA jA sakatA / hA~, pati ke yA patnI ke jIvita rahate dUsaga vivAha karanA, avazya hI adhika rAgI honA hai / parantu paNDitoM ke aMdhera nagarI ke nyAyA nusAra purupa to eka sAtha hajAroM striyoM ke rakhane para bhI adhika parigrahI nahIM hai aura strI, eka pati ke mara jAne para dUsarA vivAha karane se, hI, asaMkhyAta guNI parigrahazAlinI haiM ! kaisA adbhuta nyAya hai ? vidhavAvivAha meM prArambha kama hai, parantu isakA kAraNa guNDoM kA tamAzA nahIM hai / tamAze ke liye to jyAdaH prArambha kI jarUrata hai / vidhavAvivAha tamAzA nahIM hai isaliye Arambha kama hai| asalI bAta to yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha meM zAmila

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( 63 ) hone vAle puruSa dharma, dayAlu, vivekI aura dravya kSetra kAla bhAva ke mAnA hote hai, isaliye usameM kisI bhI taraha ke DhoMga aura kurUDhiyoM ko sthAna nahIM miltaa| isIliye usameM Arambha kama hotA hai| isa taraha vidhavAvivAhameM vivAdarUpatA hai, alpa Arambha hai, adhika parigraha nahIM hai, vezyAsevana jaisA nahIM hai / vezyA sevana yA parastrI-sevana se vidhavAvivAha meM kyA pharaka hai, yaha bAna hama pahile patalA cuke hai / zrAkSepa (gha) --jaya vidhavAvivAha hone lageMge, taba baDe baDe moTe moTe puruSatvahIna puruSoM kI hatyAe~ hoMgI ora talAqa kA bAjAra garma hogA / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna - zrakSepaka ke kathana se mAlUma hotA haiM ki samAja meM bahuta se bar3e bar3e moTe moTe puruSa aise haiM jo napunsaka hokara bhI strI rakhane kA zauka rakhate haiN| agara yaha bAta saca hai to eka aise qAnUna kI baDI AvazyaktA hai jisase paise dhRSTa, beImAna, nirlaja aura dhokhebAja napuMsakoM kI Ajanma kAle pAnI kI sajA dI jA sakeM, jo napunsaka hote hue bhI eka strI ke jIvana ko barbAda kara dete haiM, use jIte jI jIvana bhara jalAte haiM-unakA aparAdha to mRtyudaNDa ke lAyaka haiM / cipa denA pApa hai, parantu aise pApiyoMko viSa denA aisA pApa hai jo sammavya kahA jAsakatA hai| ni sandeha aise pApI, zrImAnoM meM hI hote haiN| kyoMki pahile to garIboM meM aise napunsaka hote ho nahIM hai / agara koI huA mI, to jaba puruSatva hone para bhI garIboM ke vivAha meM kaThinAI hai to puruSatvahIna hone para to vivAha hI kaise hogA ? zrImAn loga to paise ke bala para vivAha karA lete hai | agara ve vivAha na karAve nA loga yohI kahane lage ki kyA maiAsAhiva napunsaka hai ? isaliye ve feere gate he aura apane ghara meM darjI, sunAra, lodI 1

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( 64 ) zrAdi kisI bhI jAti kA gunDA naukara rakha lete hai jisase zrImatIjI kI kAmavAsanA zAnta hotI rahatI hai, tathA una ke to nahIM unake nAma ke bacce paidA hote rahate hai / aisI hAlata meM vipa dene kI bhI kyA jarUrata haiM ? agara zrImatI jI pativratA nikalI to ve viSa hI kyoM deMgI? vidhavAvivAha hone para talAka kA rivAja calAnA na calAnA apane hAtha meM hai / zatAbdiyoM se strI jAti ke Upara hama nArakIya atyAcAra karate bhArahe haiN| zrAye dina kauTumvika atyAcAroM se striyoM kI AtmahatyA ke samAcAra milate haiN| unake Upara itane atyAcAra kiye jAte hai jitane pazuoM para bhI nahIM kyei jAte / kasAI ke pAsa jAne vAlI gAya to dasa pandraha minaTa kaSTa sahatI hai aura usa samaya use z2yAdA nahIM to cillAne kA adhikAra avazya rahatA hai| lekina nArIrUpI gAyako to jIvanabhara yantraNAe~ sahanA par3atI hai aura use cillAne kA bhI adhikAra nahIM hotaa| purupa to rAta rAtabhara raDI aura parastriyoMka yahA~ paDA rahe, varSoM taka apanI patnIkA muMha na dekhe, phirabhI apanI patnIko jIvanabhara gulAma rakhanA cAhe, yaha andhera kavataka calegA? hamArA kahanA to yahI hai ki agara puruSa, apane atyAcAroM kA tyAga nahI karatA to talAka prathA jarUra calegI / agara puruSa inakA tyAga karatA hai to talAka prathA na clegii| AkSepa (Ga)-vidhavAvivAha vAloM ko vidhavA kA vivAha karake bhI zaGkA lagI huI hai to pahile se hI vidhavA se kyoM nahIM pUchaliyA jAtA ki terI tRpti kitane manuSyoM se hogI? samAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki vidhavAvivAha koI pApa nahIM hai| haoN, vidhavAvivAha ke bAda koI dUsarA (hiMsA jhUTha corI kuzIla Adi) pApa kare to use pApa bandha hogA / so

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( 5 ) to kumArI vivAhaka vAda aura manivepa lene ke bAda bhI hotA hai / hamAre isa vaktavya ke Upara AkSepaka ne Upara kA (3) behadA aura aprAmahika zrAkSepa kiyA hai / khaira, usapara hamAga kahanA hai ki strI to yahI cAhatI hai ki eka hI pati ke sAtha jIvana vyatIta ho jAya / parantu jaba vaha marajAtA hai to vivaza hokara use dUsare vivAda ke liye taiyAra honA par3atA hai / vivAha ke samaya vaha vicArI kyA batalAe ki kitane puruSoM se tRpti hogI 1 vaha to eka hI puruSa cAhatI hai| hA~, yaha praza to una nirlajoM se pUcho, jo ki eka tarapha to vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karate hai aura dUsarI tarapha jaba pahilI strIko jalAne ke liye maraghaTa meM jAte haiM to vahIM dUsare vivAha kI carcA karane lagate hai aura isI taraha cAra cAra pA~ca pA~ca striyA~ haDapa karake kanyAkuraMgI kesarI kI upAdhi prApta karate hai / athavA una dhRSThoM se pUcho jo vidhavAvivAhavAloM kA bahiSkAra karane ke liye to baDA garjana tarjana karate haiM, parantu khuda eka maMtrI ke rakhate hue bhI dumarI strI kA hAtha pakaDane meM lajjita nahIM hote| deva kI satAyI huI vicArI vidhavA se kyA pUchate ho ? zagaciyoM ko bhI mAta karane vAlI asabhyatA aura kasAiyoM ko bhI mAta karane vAlI karatA ke bala para vicArI vidhavAoM kA hRdaya yayoM jalAte ho| cothA prazna cauthe prazna ke uttara meM to donoM hI AkSepaka bahuta burI naraha se laDakhaDAte hai / isa prazna ke uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki parastrIsevana, vezyAsevana aura binA vivAha ke pattI banA lenA, ye vyabhicAra kI tIna zreNiyA~ hai| vidhavAvivAha kisI meM bhI zAmila nahIM ho sakatA / kumArI bhI parastrI hai, lekina

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vivAha se myamtrI bana jAtI hai / unI prakAra vidhavA bhI vivAha se vastrI bana jAtI hai / zrIlAla jI ne vyabhicAra kI uparyukta tIna zreNiyA~ svIkAra kI, java ki vidyAnanda usa ke viruddha hai / hara bAta ke uttara meM donoM prakSepaka yahI kahate haiM ki "vidhavAvivAha dharmaviruddha hai, kanyA kA hI vivAha honA , haiM Adi" / ina saba bAtoM kA vadha vivecana ho cukA hai| AkSepa (ka)-vidhavA kabhI bhI damaga pani nahIM karegI jabataka kAmAdhikya na ho / lokalajJA zrAdi ko tilAJjalI de jo dUsare pati ko karane meM nahIM hicakatI, vaha usa dusare kare hue pati meM santoSa rakkhe, asambhava hai| ana. usakA nImaga cothA aura jAra puruSa bhI honA sambhava hai| ataeva vaha bhI eka prakAra vezyAsaMgama jaisA huaa| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-eka manuSya agara pratidina prAdha sera anAja khAtA hai, isa taraha mahIne meM 15 sera anAja khAne para yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki yaha bar3A agorI hai, pandraha pandraha sera anAja khA jAtA hai| isI prakAra eka strI agara eka samayameM eka pati rakhatI hai aura usake svargavAsa hone para apanA dUsarA vivAha kara letI hai to use aneka pati vAlI nahIM kaha sakate jisase usameM kAmAvizya mAnA jAve / eka sAtha do pati rakhane meM yA eka sAtha do patnI rakhane meM kAmA. dhikya kahA jA sakatA hai / isa dRSTise puruSoM meM hI kAmAdhi. . kya pAyA jA sakatA hai| dUsarI bAta yaha ki AkSepaka kAmAdhikya kA artha hI nahIM samajhA / mAnalIjiye ki eka strI ne yaha pratijJA lI ki mahIne meM sirpha eka dina (Rtu kAla ke bAda ) kAma sevana kalagI / vaha isa pratijJA para dRr3ha rhii| aisI hAlata meM agara vaha vidhavA ho jAve aura phira vivAha karale aura isake bAda

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( 67 ) mI vaha pUrva pratijJA para dRDha rahe to usameM kAmAdhikya ( kAma kI adhikatA ) nahIM kahA jA sakatA / aura dUsarI strI jo savA hI vanI rahI aura pratidina yA do do cAra cAra dina meM kama sevana karatI hai usameM kAmAdhikya hai| kAma kI adhikatA kAmAdhikya hai, na ki kAma ke sAdhanoM kA parivartana / isaliye pati yA patnI ke badala jAne se kAmAdhikya nahIM kahA jA sktaa| lokalajA ke nAma para anyAya yA atyAcAra sahanA pApa hai / dharmaviruddha kArya meM lokalalA se DaranA cAhiye, lekina zrakha mU~dakara loka kI bAnoM ko dharmasaMgata mAnanA mUrkhatA hai / jo kAma yahA~ lokalajA kA kAraNa hai vahI anyatra lokalajJA kA kAraNa nahIM hai / kahIM kahIM to dharmAnukUla kAma bhI lokalajA ke kAraNa hojAte haiM jaise, zrantarjAtIya vivAha, cAglaoNka meM vivAha, striyoM ke dvArA bhagavAna kI pUjA, prajJAla, gA~vo dharmopadeza denA pardA na karanA, vastrAbhUSaNoMmeM parivartana karanA, nirbhIkatA se bolanA, strIzikSA, atyAcArI zAsaka yA paca i free tear di / kisa kisa yAta meM lokalajA kA vicAra kiyA jAyagA ? z2amAnA to aisA guz2ara cukA hai ki jainadharma dhAraNa karane se hI lokanindrA hotI thI, digambara vepa dhAraNa karane se nindA hotI thI / tA kyA use choDa denA cAhiye ? aura zrAjakala bhI aise loga paDe hue hai-jinameM zrakSepaka kA bhI samAveza hai - jo ki bhagavAna mahAvIra kI jayantI mAnanA bhI nindanIya samajhate hai / jaba aise dharmAnukUla kAryoM kI nindA karane vAle maujUda hai taba lokanindA kI kahA~ taka parvAha kI jAya ? isake atirikta dharmaviruddha kArya bhI loka-prazaMsA ke kAraNa ho jAte haiM yA loka- nindA ke kAraNa nahIM hote| jaise- sIthiyana jAti meM pratyeka puruSa kA pratyeka

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strI para aura pratyeka strI kA pratyeka puruSa para samAna adhikAra rahatA hai, isase vahA~ saba puruSa apane ko mAI 2 samajhate haiN| cIna meM bhI phUvI ke rAjatvakAla naka aisA hI niyama thaa| isI taraha AyarleNDa kI kelTika jAti ke bAre meM bhI hai| pheliksa areviyA meM aura korambA jAti meM bhI aisA hI niyama thA | oNsTreliyA meM vivAha ke pahile mamAgama karanA burA nahIM samajhA jAtA thaa|vaivilon meM pratyeka strIko vivAha ke vAda vhInasa ke mandira meM baiThakara kisI aparicita AdamI ke sAtha sahavAsa karanA paDatA thA / java naka vaha aisA na kare, tava naka vaha ghara nahIM jA sakatI thI / armIniyana jAti meM kumArI striyA~ vivAha ke pahile vezyAvRtti taka karatI haiM para. ntu isameM lokalajjA nahIM samajhI jAtI / prAcIna gema meM vivAha ke pahile yadi koI laDakI vyabhicAravRtti se paisA paidA nahIM kara pAtI thI to use bahuta lajjita honA par3atA thaa| cipacA jAti meM agara kisI puruSa ko yaha mAlUma ho ki usakI strI kA abhI taka kisI puruSa se samAgama nahIM huA to vaha apane ko prabhAgA samajhatA thA aura apanI strI ko isaliye tuccha samajhatA thA ki vaha eka bhI puruSa kA cittAkarpaNa na kara skii| voTiyAka logoM meM agara kisI kumArI ke pIche navayuvako kA dala na cale to usake liye yaha bar3e apamAna kI bAta samajhI jAtI hai| vahA~ para kumArAvasthA meM hI mAtA banajAnA baDe saubhAgya aura sanmAna kI bAta mAnI jAtI hai| isa viSaya meM isI prakAra ke adbhuta niyama ciyeve, kemaigmaTa, kakI, kicanaka, reDa inDiyana, cukacI, eskimo, DakoTA, mauMgolakArena, DoDA; reDa kArena, TehiTiyana, Adi jAtiyoM meM tathA isake atirikta kameska Daila,

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(66) alITasa, uttarI eziyA, TahITI, maikaroneziyA, kaiNDona Adi deza aura dvIpoM ke nivAsiyoM meM bhI pAye jAte haiN| isaliye jo loga lokalajA aura lokAcAra kI duhAI dekara kartavyAkartavya kA nirNaya karanA cAhate haiM ve murkha hai| hamAre kRpamarAhaka paNDita bAra bAra cillAyA karate haiM-"kyojI, aisA bhI kahIM hotA hai ?" unheM jAnanA cAhiye ki yaha "kahIM" aura 'loka' tumhAre ghara meM hI sImita nahIM haiN| 'kahIM kA kSetra va 'loka' bahuna baDe aura vicitra hai, aura unheM jAnane ke liye vistRta adhyayana kI jarUrata hai| lokAcAra, kSetra kAla kI apanA vividha aura parivartanazIla hai, isaliye usa ko kasoTI banAnA murkhatA hai| hama to kahate hai ki agara vidhavAvivAha dharmaviruddha hai no vaha lokalajA kA viSaya ho yA na hA, vaha tyAgane yogya hai aura agara vaha dharmaviruddha nahIM hai no logoM ke cakavAda kI cintA na karake use apanAnA caahiye| dharmAnukala samAjaranA aura nyAya ke liye agara lokalajA kA sAmanA karanA paDe to usako jItanA paripaha vijaya ke samAna zreyaskara hai| isake bAda punarvivAhitAoM ke viSaya meM AkSepaka ne jo zabda likhe haiM ve dhRpatA ke sUtraka haiN| agara punarvivAhitA ke tIsarA cauthA aura jAra puruSa honA bhI sambhava hai to punavivAhita puruSa ke tIsarI cauthI paoNcI tathA aneka rakhaila mAzUkA honA sambhava hai| isa nagaha punarvivAha karane vAlAAkSepakake kathanAnusAra maeNDayA hai / zrAkSepaka kI sambhAvanA kA kucha ThikAnA bhI hai / eka sAtha haz2AroM striyaoN rakhane vAlA puruSa to santoSI mAnA jAya aura punarvivAha karake eka hI puruSa ke sAtha rahane vAlI strI asantuSTa mAnI jAya, yaha AkSepaka kI andhera nagarI kA nyAya hai / pAThaka dekheM ki

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( 70 ) AkSepaka se jaba vidhavAvivAha ke virodha meM kucha kahate nahIM bana paDA taba usane yaha behUdA bakravAda zurU kara diyA hai| AkSepa (kha)-vivAha to kanyA kA hotA hai so bhI kanyAdAna pUrvaka / vaha vidhavA na kanyA hai na usakA koI dene vAlA / jisakI thI vaha cala basA."vaha kisI ke liye vasIyata kara gayA nahIM, aba dene kA adhikArI kauna ? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-ina zrAkSapoM kA samAdhAna prathama prazna ke uttara meM kara cuke haiM / dekho, 'e' 'pe'o' 'gh'| hamAre vive. cana se siddha hai ki strI sampatti nahIM hai| jaya sampatti nahIM hai to usakI vasIyata karane kA adhikAra kise hai / kanyA. dAna bhI anucita hai / yaha jabardastI kA dAna hai; ata kudAna hai| isaliye prAcArya somadeva ne kudAnoM kI nindA karate hue likhA hai : hiraNyapazu bhUmInAmkanyAzayyAnavAsasAm / dAnavahuvidhaizcAnyairna pApa mupazAmyati // caoNdI, pazu, jamIna, kanyA, zayyA, anna, vastra Adi dAnoM se pApa zAnta nahIM hotaa| agara vivAha kA lakSaNa kanyAdAna hotA to vaha kudAna meM zAmila kabhI na kiyA jAtA / yaha bAta paNDinoM ke mahAmAnya trivarNAcAra meM bhI pAyI jAtI hai : kanyAdasti suvarNa vAji kapilA dAsI tilAsyandana / 'kSmA gehe prativaddhamatra dazadhA dAnaM daridrapsitam // tIrthAnte jinazItalasya sutarAmAvizvakAra svayaM / lubdho vastuSu bhUtizarma tanayo-saumuNDazAlAyanaH // kanyA, hAthI, suvarNa, ghor3A, gAya, dAsI, tila, ratha, z2amIna, ye daridroM ko iSTa daza prakAra ke dAna haiM, jina kA,

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{ 71 ) gItalanAtha ke tIrtha ke anta meM bhRtizarmA ke putra muNDazAlAyana ne bhAviSkAra kiyA thaa| sameM siddha hai ki nyAdAna, jaina dharma meM nahIM hai| zItalanAtha nyAmI ke pahile kanyAdAna kA rivAja hI nahIM thaa| to kyA umare pahine vivAha na hotA thA ? taya to RSabhadeva, bhagna, jayakumAra sunoyanA Adi kA vivAha na mAnanA pddegaa| nyAdAna ko vivAha mAnane se gAndharva zrAdi vivAha, vivAha na bhlaayeNge| zrIkRSNa kA rukANI mAya jo vivAha huzrA thA usameM kanyAdAna kahA~ thA? kyA vaha vivAda nAjAyaz2a thA? smaraNa rahe kisI vivAha ke phalambanapa, rukmaNI jI ke garbha meM nannayamAnagAmI prayamna kA janma huA thA / ra, isa viSaya meM dama pahile yahuna kuza lina cuke hai / muraya yAna yaha kinyAdAna vivAda kA lakSaNa nahIM hai| bhAsapa (ga)-puruSa bhotA hai, strI bhojya hai| puruSa jaya aneka bhAjyoM ke mAMgane kI zakti rakhanA hai naya kyoM nahIM paka bhovya meM amAgha meM mare bhojya ko bhoge / (zrIlAla) mamAghAna-puruSa mAtA hai parantu vaha mojya bhI hai| isI prakAra strI govyadai parantu yaha bhoktI ( bhogane vAlI) bhI hai| isaliye bhAjyAstroM ke abhAva meM, pampa ko adhikAra hai ki yaha damage bhAgyazrI prApta kare, isI prakAra bholya. pApa ke abhAva meM strI ko adhikAra hai ki vaha damarA bhAjya. puruSa prApta kare / zakti kA vicAra kiyA jAya to purupa meM jinanI striyoM ko bhogane kI tAkata hai usase bhI jyAdaH parayoM kI mAMgane kI nAkana strI meM hai| jahAM bhAjyabhojaka sambandha hotA hai vahA~ yaha yAta dekhI jAtI hai ki mAMga se mojaka ko sukhAnubhava hotA hai aura bhojya ko nahIM hotaa| rathI pamaya ke bhIga meM to donoM ko

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( 72 ) sukhAnubhava hotA hai, isaliye unameM se kisI eka ko bhojya yA kisI eka ko mojaka nahIM kaha sakate / asala meM donoM hI bhojaka haiN| agara strI ko bhojaka na mAnA jAyagA to striyoM ke liye kuzIla nAma kA pApa hI nahIM rahegA, kyoMki kuzIla karane vAlA ( bhojaka) to puruSa hai na ki strI / isa liye strI kA kyA doSa hai ? hiMsA karane vAlA hiMsaka kahalAtA hai na ki jisakI hiMsA kI jAya vaha / corI karane vAlA cora kahalAtA hai na ki jisakI corI kI jAya vaha / isaliye jo vyabhicAra karane vAlA hogA vahI vyabhicArI kahalAyagA na ki jisake sAtha vyabhicAra kiyA jAya vaha / isaliye striyA~ saikaDo puruSoM ke sAtha sambhoga karane para bhI vyabhicAra pApa karane vAlI na kahalAyeMgI, kyoMki ve bhojaka (bhoga karane vAlI) nahIM hai| agara striyoM ko vyabhicAra kA dopa lagatA hai to kahanA cAhiye ki unameM bhI bhoktRtva hai| bhoktRtva ke lakSaNa para vicAra karane se bhI striyoM meM bhoktRtva mAnanA paDatA hai| dUsarI vastu kI tAkata ko grahaNa karane kI zakti ko bhoktRtva kahate hai (para dravyavIryAdAna. sAmathyaM bhoktRtvlkssnnm-raajvaartik)| strI puruSa ke bhogameM hameM vicAranA cAhiye ki kauna kisakI tAkata grahaNa karatA hai aura kauna apanI zaktiyoM ko jyAdA varvAda karatA hai| vivAra karate hI hameM mAlUma hogA ki bhoktRtva strI meM hai na ki puruSa meM, kyoMki sambhoga kArya meM puruSa kI z2yAda zakti naSTa hotI hai| dasarI cAta yaha hai ki strIke rajako puruSa grahaNa nahIM kara pAtA balki puruSa ke vIrya ko strI grahaNa karaletI hai / rAjavArtika ke lakSaNAnusAra, grahaNa karanA hI bhoktRtva hai| strIko jUMThI thAlIka samAna batalAkara bhojya ThaharAnA avacita haiM, kyoMki puruSa ko bhI ganne ke samAna Thahaga kara

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( 73 ) bhojya siddha kara diyA jAyagA / yadi eka puruSa ke sagama se mtrI gUMThI ho jAtI hai to eka strIke sagama se puruSa bhI gUMThA ho jAtA hai / isaliye agara gUMThI strI ko sevana karane vAlA cAMDAla yA kuttA hai to jUMThe puruSako sevana karane vAlI cAMDAlina yA kutiyA hai / agara dumarI bAta ThIka nahIM to pahilI bAta bhI ThIka nahIM hai| bhojya bhojakaka sambandha meM yaha dhyAna meM rakhanA cAhiye phiyaha upabhoga kA prakaraNa hai| bhojana vagairaha to moga haiM aura vastra vagairaha upabhoga haiM / strI ke liye puruSa upabhoga sAmagrI hai aura puruSa ke liye strI upabhoga sAmagrI hai| isaliye yahA~ ghuTI thAlI zrAdi bhoga sAmagrI kA udAharaNa ThIka nahIM ho saphtA hai| upabhoga meM yaha niyama nahIM hai ki eka sAmagrI kA eka hI vyakti upabhoga kare / jisa vistara para eka AdamI so letA hai usI para agara dUsarA leTajAve to vaha gUMThA khAnevAlA yA usake samAna na khlaayegaa| eka sAvuna kI caTTI kA cAra zrAdamI upayoga kara sakate haiM / isI prakAra kursI, Tebula, palaMga, caukI, moTaragAr3I, relagADI, caTAI, sAikila, motI, mANika Adi vastuokA aneka zrAdamI upayoga kara sakate haiM, lekina isase koI jUMThana khAne vAle ke samAna nahIM khlaataa| isaliye agara thor3I dera ke liye strI ko bhojya (upabhogasAmagrI) mAna liyA jAya to bhI usake punarvivAha ko ghRNita nahIM kahA jA sktaa| jisa samaya mAtA. apane bacce kI sevA karatI hai, usa samaya mAtA bacce kI upabhoga sAmagrI hai, isaliye kyA mAtA aba dUsare bacce kI sevA nahIM kara sakatI? kyA vaha jUMThI ho gaI ? eka naukara apane mAlika ke hAtha paira Adi davAtA (savAhana karatA) hai to kyA vaha jUMThA hogayA ? bhoga sAmagrI

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( 74 ) aura upabhoga sAmagrImeM bar3A pharaka hai, yaha sadA mmaraNa rakhanA cAhiye / upabhoga sAmagrI dUsare ke liye ghRNita nahIM hojaatii| haoN, agara ekAdha cIja thoDI bahuta ghRNita kahalAve bhI, to yaha niyama kadApi nahIM karAyA jA sakatA ki upabhoga sAmagrI ho jAne se ghRNita ho hI gaI / kyoMki aisA mAnane se kursI caukI zrAdi kA duvArA upayoga karanA bhI ghRNita kahalAne lgegaa| AkSepa (gha)-ainA kahIM na dekhA sunA hogA ki eka strI ke aneka puruSa ho, jisa prakAra eka puruSa ke aneka striyA~ hotI hai yaha siddhAnta kitanA aTala hai ? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-AkSepaka ke siddhAnta kI aTalatA kA tibbata meM-jise prAcInakAlameM triviSTapa yA svarga kahate thedivAlA nikalA huA hai / vahA~ para eka strIke eka sAtha cAra cAra cha chaH pati hote hai / aura amerikA, igleDa Adi dezoM meM eka puruSa ko eka se adhika patnI rakhane kA adhikAra nahIM hai / prAkRtika bAta yaha hai ki eka puruSa aura eka strI kA dAmpatya sambandha ho / hA~, agara zaktikA durupayoga karanA ho to eka puruSa aneka strI rakha sakatA hai aura eka strI aneka puruSa rakha sakatI hai / aTala niyama kucha bhI nahI hai / agara thoDI dera ke liye AkSepaka kI bAta mAnalI jAya ki eka strI eka hI puruSa rakha sakatI hai tomI usake punarvivAha kA adhi. kAra china nahIM jAtA / eka zrAbhUSaNa eka samaya meM eka hI AdamI ke kAma meM A sakatA hai / kyA isIliye phira koI usakA upayoga nahIM kara sakatA ? strI to ratna hai / ratna eka samaya meM eka hI AdamI kI zobhA bar3hAtA hai, lekina samayAntara meM dUsare ke kAma meM bhI AtA hai| AkSepa()-eka puruSa aneka striyoM se eka varSa meM

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aneka manlAna utpanna kara sakatA hai parantu para strI, aneka puruSoM ko bhI rakhakara eka mantAna meM adhika paidA nahIM kara mstii| (zrIlAta) mamAyAna-yadi aisA hai to bdhiyoga punarvivAha turata cAlu kara denA cAhiye, bhale hI puruSoM kA panaryivAha roka diyA jAya / yayoMki aneka mannAna paidA karane ke liye no paka puruSa hI kAphI hai: imaliye yahuna puruSa kumAra yA vidhura raheM to santAna saMkhyA kI dRSTi meM koI hAni nahIM hai, kinta strI to eka bhI kumArI yA vidhayA na raha jAnA cAhiye kyoMki una vaidhavya yA kaumArya se saMnyA ghaTa jaaygii| yaha kahA~ kA nyAya hai ki jisakI hameM adhika z2arUrata hai yaha no vyartha paDI rahe aura jimakI thor3I jarUgna hai ummako DyATaH kadara kI jaay| prakRti ne jo strI puruSa ke bIca meM antara utpanna kara diyA hai, umase mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhuravivAra ko apanA vidhavAvivAha kA guNA Avazyaka hai| zrApa (ca)-patra viSaya mamAna nahIM huA karate / eka hI sambhoga kriyA se ghI ko garbhadhAraNa zrAdi aneka kae marane paDhane de aura puruSa ko kucha nahIM / aba kahA~ gaye mamAna banAne vAle nyAyatIrtha jI? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-strI puruSoM meM zArIrika mamAnatA nahIM hai isaliye unake adhikAroM meM bhI viSamatA honA cAhiye aura uma viSamatA meM parayoM ko adhika adhikAra milanA cAhiye yaha nahIM kahA jaasktaa| agara koI kahe ki strI puruSa meM zArIrika viSamanA hai. isaliye purupa ke marane para mdhI kI bhojana karane kA bhI adhikAra nahIM hai ( ume bhUkhA raha kara mara jAnA hI ucita hai), to kyA yaha Tanina hai ? prakRtiviruddha viSamatA paidA karane kA hame kyA adhikAra hai ? hA~, agara

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( 76 ) prakRti ne koI aisI dhipamatA paidA kI honI jisase punarvivAha kA niSedha mAlUma hotA to kahane ko guMjAiza thI / agara vidhavA ho jAne se strI kA mAsikadharma ruka jAtA, strItva ke cinha naSTa ho jAte yA vigaDa jAte to kucha zravazya hI strI ke punarvivAha kA adhikAra chInA jAtA / AkSepaka ne jo viSamatA banalAI hai usase to striyoM kohI vizeSa adhikAra milane cAhiyeM, kyoMki kartavya aura adhikAra ye eka hI sikke ke do pRSTha (bAjU) hai / isaliye nyAyocita bAta yaha hai ki jahA~ kartavya adhika hai vahA~ zradhikAra bhI adhika hai santAnotpatti meM striyoM kA jitanA kartavya hai usakA zatAMza kartavya bhI puruSoM kA nahIM hai; isaliye striyoM ko jyAdaH adhikAra milanA cAhiye / strI sampatti hai, isake khaNDana ke liye dekho prazna pahilA samAdhAna 'thro' / strI yAvajIva pratikSA karatI hai aura puruSa bhI karatA haiN| khulAse ke liye dekho prazna pahilA samAdhAna e (1- pa ) | zramarakoSa aura dhanaJjayanAmamAlA ke punarbhU zabda kA khulAsA '1 - ta' meM dekhiye / vivAha grATha prakAra ke hai; unameM vidhavAvivAha nahIM hai - isakA uttara zrAkSapa " 1 - ja " meM dekhiye ! zrAkSepa (cha) -- vyabhicAra kI tIna zreNiyA~ ThIka nahIM haiM / rakhaila ke sAtha sambhoga karanA parastrIsevana kI koTi kA hI pApa hai / rakhaila aura vidhavAvivAha meM kucha bheda nahIM hai / parastrIsevana ko vyabhicAra mAna lene se vidhavAvivAha bhI pApa siddha ho gayA; isaliye savyasAcI nigrahasthAna pAtra hai / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna -- vyabhicAra kI tIna zreNiyoM zrIlAla jI ne

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( 7 ) mAnI hai. vidyAnanda nahIM mAnate hai / saura, parastrIsevana meM vezyAsevana se adhika pApa hai jabakri gvaila strI ke sAtha sambhoga vezyAledhana se choTA pApa hai| isakA kAraNa saMkleza kI nyUnatA hai| parastrIsevana meM vezyAleSana kI apekSA isaliye z2yAdA sazatA hai ki usameM parastrI ke kuTumbiyoM kA tathA par3osiyoM kA bhaya rahatA hai, aura jyAda. mAyAnagara karanA par3atA hai / vezyAsevana meM ye donoM bAteM kama rahatI haiM / rakhaila strI meM ye donoM pAte bilakula nahIM rahatI hai / vyabhicAra ko una donoM zreNiyoM se yaha zreNI bahuta choTI hai, yaha yAta bilakula spaSTa hai| isa nIsarI zreNIko vyabhicAra isaliye kahA hai ki aisI strI se paidA hone vAlI santAna apanI santAna nahIM kahalAtI; aura inakA paraspara sambandha samAja kI anumani ke binA hI hotA hai aura samAja kI anumati ke binA hI chUTa jAtA hai / vidhavAvivAha meM ye doSa bhI nahIM pAye jaate| isase mantAna apanI kahalAtI hai| binA samAja ko sammati ke na yaha sambandha hotA hai na TanA hai| vyabhicAra kA isase koI tAlluka nhiiN| vivAha ke samaya jaise anya kumAriyA~ kanyA (dulahina) kahA nAtI hai, usI prakAra vivAha ke samaya vidhavA bhI kanyA kahA lAtI hai| vyabhicAra kI nIna zreNiyA~ aura vidhavAvivAha kA unase yAhara rahanA itanA spaSTa hai ki vizeSa kahane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / jaba vidhavAvivAha parastrIsevana nahIM hai nava parastrI. sevanako vyabhicAra mAna lenese vyabhicAra kaise siddha hogayA ? bhAkSepaka, yahA~ para anigraha meM nigraha kA prayoga karake mbaya niranuyojyAnuyoga nigrahasthAna meM gira gayA hai| AkSepa (ja)-jahA~ kanyA aura vara kA vivAhavidhi ke pUrva sambandha ho jAtA hai vaha gAMdharva-vivAha hai / isameM kanyA ke sAtha pravIcAra hotA hai; isaliye vyabhicAra zreNI se halakA

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( ) hai / kuntI kA pAraDa ke sAtha pahile gAndharvavivAha ho cukA thaa| bAda meM usa adharmadoSa ko dUra karane ke liye nahIM, kiMtu apanI kumArI kanyA kA vivAha karanA mAtA pitA kA dharma hai ila nIti vAkya ko pAlane ke liye unane apanI kumArIkanyA kuntI kA vivAha kiyaa| gAndharva vivAha ke adharma ke doSa ko dUra karane ke liye unheM kuntI kA vivAha nahIM karanA par3A, kintu pArADu ko pAna cunanA paDA / isaliye vivAha vyabhicAra-doSa ko dUra karane kA abhyartha sAdhana nahIM hai / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-AkSepaka ne yahA~ para baDA vicitra pralApa kiyA hai / imane kahA thA ki vivAha ke pahile agara kisI kmArI se sambhoga kiyA jAyagA to vyabhicAra kahalAyagA. agara vivAha ke bAda sambhoga kiyA jAyagA to vyabhicAra na kahA jaaygaa| matalaba yaha ki vivAha se vyabhicAra doSa dUra hotA hai / isa vaktavya kA uttara AkSepaka se na banA / isaliye unane kahA ki vivAha ke pahile kisI kamArI ke sAtha saMbhoga karanA vyabhicAra hI nahIM hai| taba to paDita loga jisa cAhe kumArI laDakI ke sAtha sabhoga kara sakate hai, kyoMki unakI dRSTi meM yaha vyabhicAra nahIM hai| tArIfa yaha hai ki vyabhicAra na mAnane para bhI ise adharma mAnate haiN| vyabhicAra to yaha hai nahIM, bAkI cAra pApoM meM yaha zAmila kiyA nahIM jA sakatA, isaliye aba kaunasA adharma kahalAyA ? AkSepaka ne gAndharva vivAha ke lakSaNa meM bhUla kI hai / pravIcAra karanA vivAha kA anyatama phala hai, na ki vivAha / gAMdharva vivAha meM vara kanyA eka dUsare se pratijJAbaddha hojAte haiM, tava pravIcAra hotA hai / vivAha ke pahile pANDa aura kuntI kA jo saMsarga huA thA vaha vyabhicAra hI thaa| agara vaha vyabhicAra na hotA to usa saMsarga se paidA hone

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( 76 ) 1 vAlI santAna ( ka ) chipAkara nadI meM na bahAvI jaatii| hama kaha cuke haiM ki vyabhicAra se jo santAna paidA hotI hai vaha nAjAyaz2a kahalAtI haiM aura vivAha se jo santAna paidA hotI haiM vaha jAyaja kahalAtI hai / karNaM nAjAyaja santAna the, isaliye ve bahAdiye gaye / aura isIliye pANDu kuntI kA prathama saMyoga vyabhicAra kahalAyA na ki gAndharva vivAha / zraya hameM dekhanA cAhiye ki vaha kaunasA kAraNa haiM jisase kunnI ke garbha se utpanna karNa to nAjAyaja kahalAye, kintu yuddhiSThira zrAdi jAyaz2a kahalAye, zrarthAt jisa sasarga se karNa paidA hue vaha vyabhicAra kahalAyA zrIra jisase yuddhiSThira paidA hue vaha vya vicAra na kahalAyA / kAraNa spaSTa hai ki prathama saMsarga ke samaya vivAha nahIM huA thA aura dvitIya sasarga ke samaya vivAha ho gayA thA / isase bilakula spaSTa hai ki vivAha se vyabhicAra kA doSa dUra hotA hai / isaliye vivAha ke pahile kisI vidhavA se saMsarga karanA vyabhicAra hai aura vivAha ke vAda (vidhavAvivAha hone para) saMsarga karanA vyabhicAra nahIM hai / zrAkSepaka ke kathanAnusAra agara pAgaDu kuntI kA prathama sayoga gAndharva vivAha thA to karNa nAjAyaz2a saMtAna kyoM mAne gaye ? unako chipAne kI koziza kyoM kI gaI ? kRSNajI ne bhI rukmaNI kA haraNa karake devanaka parvata ke Upara unake sAtha gAndharva vivAha kiyA thA, parantu rukmaNIputra pradyumna to nahIM chipAye gye| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki jaba pANDu kuntIkA gAMdharvavivAha ho gayA thA to unake mAtA pitA ne kuntI kA dUsarI are faare ( punarvivAha ) kyoM kiyA ? kyA vivAhitA kA vivAha karanA bhI mAnA pitA kA dharma hai ? aura kyA tatra bhI vaha kanyA banI rahI ? yadi hA~, to vidhavA kA vivAha karanA

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( 20 ) mAtA pitA yA,samAja kA dharma kyoM nahIM? aura vaha kanyA bhI kyoM nahIM? prAkSepaka ke hozahavAla to yahA~ taka vigaDa hupa hai ki eka baccA paidA kara dene ke bAda bhI kuntI ko kumArI kanyA batalA rahe haiN| jaba eka bacce kI mAM kumArI kanyA ho sakatI hai tava vecArI vidhavA, kumArI kanyA nahIM, sirpha 'kanyA' kyoM nahIM ho sakatI 1 panyA ke sAtha kumArI vizeSaNa lagA kara AkSepaka ne yaha svIkAra kara liyA hai ki kanyA kumArI bhI hotI hai aura akumArI (vidhavA) bhI hotI hai| AkSepa (jha)-kumArI jaise svastrI banAyI jA sakatI hai usa prakAra vidhavA nahIM banAyI jA sktii| kyoMki kumArI parastrI nahIM hai| Apa kumArI ko parastrI kahane kA sAhasa kyoM kara gaye ? vaha to strI bhI nahIM hai / bhAvI ntrI hai| samAdhAna-kumArI, strI to avazya hai, kyoMki vaha puruSa athavA napusaka nahIM hai / parantu zrAna paka ne strI zabda kA bhAryA artha kiyA hai / isaliye usI para vicAra kiyA jAtA hai / AcAra zAstroM meM brahmacaryANuvatI ko kumArI ke sAtha sambhoga karane kI manAI hai, isaliye kumArI parastrI hai| apanI strI ke sivAya anya striyoM ko parastrI kahate haiN| isa liye bhI kumArI parastrI hai / kuntI ko apanI satAna chipAnA paDI; isaliye bhI siddha hotA hai ki kumArI paramtrI hai| rAja. niyamoM ke anusAra bhI kumArI parastrI hai / kalpanA kara lo, agara pANDu aNuvatI hote to vivAha ke binA kuntI ke sAtha sambhoga karane se unakA aNuvrata kyA naSTa na hotA? jainazAstro ke anusAra unakA aNuvrata avazya naSTa hotA / lekina vivAha karake agara sambhoga karate to unakA aNuvata naSTa nahIM hotaa| kyA isase yaha nahIM mAlUma hotA ki vivAha ke dvArA parastrI,

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( 1) svamtrI bana gaI hai| khaira ! agara AkSepaka kI yahI maMzA hai ki kumArI ko parastrI na mAnA jAya, kyoMki vartamAna meM vaha kimI kI strI nahIM hai-bhAvI strI hai, to inameM bhI hameM koI aitagaja nahIM hai| parantu aisI hAlata meM vidhavA mI parastrI na kahalA. yagI, kyoMki vartamAna meM vaha kinI kI strI nahIM hai / jisakI thI vaha to mara gayA, isaliye vaha to bhRta-strI haiN| isaliye kumArI ke samAna vaha khamtrI banAI jA sakatI hai| zrAkSepa (a)-vivAha kisI apekSA se vyabhicAra ko dUra karane kA kAraNa kahA bhI jA sakatA hai| kintu kahA jA sakatA hai vivAha hii| vidhavA sambandha bhI vivAha sanA hI nhiiN| samAdhAna-zAstroM meM jo vivAha kA lakSaNa kiyA gayA hai yaha vidhavAvivAha meM jAtA hai| yaha bAta hama prathama prazna meM kanyA zabda kA artha karate samaya likha pAye hai| loka meM bhI vidhavAvivAha zabda kA pracAra hai, isaliye saMjJA kA prazna nirarthaka hai / ima AkSepa ko likhane kI jarUrata hI nahIM thI, parantu yaha isaliye likha diyA hai ki zrAkSepaka ne yahA~ para vivAha ko vyabhicAra dUra karane kA kAraNa mAna liyA hai / isaliye vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra nahIM hai| AkSepa (2)-vivAha to vyabhicAra kI ora rujU kagane vAlA hai, anyathA bhagavAna mahAvIra ko kyA sUjhI thI jo unhoM ne brahmacaryavrata pAlA? samAdhAna-vivAha to vyabhicAra kI ora rujU karAne vAlA nahIM hai, anyathA zrIRSamaTeva zrAdi tIthaMkaroM ko kyA sUjhI thI jo vivAha kagayA ? sabhI tIrthaMkaroM ko kyA sUjhI thI jo brahmacaryANuvrata kA upadeza diyA? prAcAryoM ko kyA sUjhI thI ki pugaNoM ko vivAha kI ghaTanAoM se bhara diyA aura

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( 2 ) vivAhavidhi ke viSaya meM prakaraNa ke prakaraNa likhe ? vivAha pUrNabrahmacarya kA virodhI hai, brahmacaryANuvrata kA vAdhaka yA vya. bhicAra kA sAdhaka nahIM hai| agara yaha bAta mAnalI jAya to akelA vidhavAvivAha hI kyA, kumArI vivAha bhI vyabhicAra khlaaygaa| agara vyabhicAra hone para bhI kumArI vivAha vidheya hai no vidhavAvivAha bhI vidheya hai| AkSepa (8)-purupa isI bhava se mokSa jA sakate haiM, puruSoM ke ucca sasthAna saMhanana hote hai, unake zizna mUche hotI hai / striyoM meM ye bAteM nahIM haiM, isaliye unheM puruSoM ke samAna punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai / lakSaNa, prAkRti, svabhAva, zakti kI apekSA bhI mahAn antara hai| samAdhAna-Ajakala ke puruSa na no mokSa jA sakate haiM, na striyoM se adhika sahanana rakha sakate hai| isaliye inheM bhI punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM honA cAhiye / saMsthAna to striyoM ke bhI puruSoM ke samAna sabhI ho sakate hai (dekho gommaTasAra krmkaaNdd)| puruSoM ke zizna mUche hotI haiM aura striyoM ke yoni aura stana hote haiM / AkSepaka ke samAna koI yaha bhI kaha sakatA hai ki puruSoM ko punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai, kyoMki unake yoni aura stana nahIM hote| liGga aura mUche aisI cIja nahIM haiM jinake Upara punarvivAha kI chApa khudI rahatI ho / devoM ke aura tIrthaMkarAdiko ke mUche nahIM hotI, phira bhI unake adhikAra nahIM chinate / dAr3hI ke bAla aura meM che to saundarya kI vighAtaka aura utane sthAna kI malInatA kA kAraNa haiN| unase vizeSAdhikAra milane kA kyA sambandha ? khaira, viSamatA ko lekara striyoM ke adhikAra nahIM chIne jA sakate / saMsAra kA pratyeka vyakti viSama hai / sUkSma viSamatA ko alaga karadeM to sthUla viSamatA bhI bahuta haiM / parantu viSamatA

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ke kAraNa adhikAra chInanA anyAya hai / agara yaha niyama banAyA jAya ki jo itanA vidvAna ho use itane vivAha karane kA adhikAra hai aura jo vidvAna nahIM hai use vivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai, to kyA yaha ThIka hogA ? dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki jisa viSaya kA adhikAra hai unI viSaya kI samatA, vipamanA, yogyatA, ayogyatA kA vicAra karanA cAhiye / kisI ke paira meM coTa dhAgaI hai to bahuta se bahuta vaha jUnA nahIM pahinegA, parantu vaha kapar3a bhI na pahine, yaha kahA~ kA nyAya hai ? kisI bhI adhikAra ke viSaya meM prAya cAra bAtoM kA vicAra kiyA jAtA hai / yogyatA, AvazyaktA, mAmAjika lAbha, svaarthtyaag| punarvivAha ke viSaya meM bhI hama inhIM bAtoM para vicAra kreNge| striyoM meM punarvivAha kI yogyatA to hai hI, kyoMki punarvivAha meM bhI ve santAna paidA kara sakatI hai / saMbhogazakti. rajodharma tathA gArhasthyajIvana ke anya kartavya karane kI kSamatA una meM pAI jAtI hai / zrAvazyaktA mI hai, kyoMki vidhavA ho jAne para bhI unakI kAmavAsanA jAgrata rahatI hai, jisake sImita karane ke liye vivAha karane kI z2arata hai| isI taraha santAna kI icchA bhI rahatI hai, jinake liye vivAha karanA cAhiye / vaidha. vyajIvana bahuna pagazrita, aArthika kaSTa, zoka, cintA aura saMklezamaya tathA nigadhikAra hotA hai, isaliye bhI una ko punarvivAha kI zrAvazyaktA hai| kucha inIginI vidhavAoM ko chor3a kara bAkI vidhavAtroM kA jIvana samAja ke liye mAra sarIkhA hotA hai / vaidhavyajIvana ke bhItara kaiTa ho jAne se bahuta se puruSoM ko striyA~ nahIM miltii| isaliye unakA jIvana duHkhamaya yA patita ho jAtA hai / samAja kI saMrayA ghaTatI hai / vidhavAvivAha se ye samasyAeM adhika aMzo meM hala ho jAtI hai. isanniye vidhavAvivAha se sAmAjika lAma

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( 4 ) hai / svArthatyAga to z2yAdA hai hI, kyoMki striyA~ sevAdharma kA pAlana jyAdaha karatI hai| santAnotpatti me striyoM ko jitanA kae sahanA paDatA hai, usakA zatAMza bhI puruSoM ko nahIM sahanA paDatA / vivAha hote hI strI apane pitRgRha kA tyAga kara detI hai / matalaba yaha ki cAhe vivAha ke viSaya meM vicAra kIjiye, cAhe vivAhake phala ke bAre meM vicAra kIjiye, striyoM kA svArthatyAga puruSoM ke svArthatyAga se kaI guNA jyAdaha hai| striyoM meM puruSoM se vipamatA jarUra hai, parantu vaha viSamatA una bAtoM meM koI truTi upasthita nahIM karatI, jo ki punarvivAha ke adhikAra ke liye zrAvazyaka hai, balki vaha viSamatA adhikAra baDhAne vAlI hI hai / kyoMki puruSa vidhura ho jAne para to kisI taraha gArhasthyajIvana gaurava ke sAtha bitA sakatA hai, sAtha hI Arthika svAtantrya aura suvidhA bhI rakha sakatA hai, parantu vidhavA kA to sAmAjika sthAna gira jAtA hai aura usakA Arthika kaSTa bar3ha jAtA hai| isaliye vidhuravivAha kI apekSA vidhavAvivAha kI jyAda AvazyaktA hai| aura svArthatyAga meM striyA~ jyAdA hai hI, isaliye vidhuroM ko vivAha kA adhikAra bhale hI na ho, parantu vidhavAoM ko to avazya honA caahiye| AkSepa (Da)-strI paryAya niMdya hai| isaliye uccaparyAya (puruSaparyAya) prApta karane ke liye tyAga karanA cAhiye / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-strIparyAya niMdya hai, athavA atyAcArI puruSa samAja ne sahasrAbdiyoM ke atyAcAroM se use niMdya banADAlA hai. isakI mImAMsA hama vicArazIla pAThako para chor3a dete hai / agara AkSepaka kI bAta mAnalI jAya to puruSoM kI apekSA striyoM ko punarvivAha kI suvidhA jyAdaH milanA cAhiye, kyoM.

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( 5 ) ki puruSoM ko apanI uccanA ke lihAz2a se jyAdaH tyAga karanA cAhiye / munipada zreSTha hai aura zrAvakapada nIcA / aba koI kahe ki muni ucca hai, isaliye unheM raNDIvAz2I karane kA bhI adhikAra haiM ! gRhastha ko to munipada prApta karanA hai, isaliye use ragaDIvAjI na karanA cAhiye ? kyA uccatA ke nAmapara muniyoM ko aise adhikAra denA ucita hai ? yadi nahIM, to puruSoM ko bhI uccatA ke nAma para punarvivAha kA adhikAra na rakhanA cAhiye / athavA striyoM kA adhikAra na chInanA caahiye| isI yukti ke bala para hama yaha bhI kaha sakate hai ki triyA~ adhika nirvala aura niHsahAya hai, isaliye striyoM ko puruSoM kI apekSA jyAdA suvidhA denA cAhiye / Apa (da)-viSaya-mogoM kI svacchandanA haraeka ko TeDhI jAya to vairAgyakA kAraNa bahuta hI kama milA kara choTo avasthA kI vidhavA kA darzana honA karmavaicitrya kA sUcaka hai, isase udAsInatA AtI hai / (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-puruSa no eka sAtha yA krama se haz2AroM striyA~ rakkhe, phira bhI vairAgya ke kAraNoM meM kamI na ho aura strI ke punarvivAha mAtra se vaigagya ke kAraNa bahuta kama raha jAyeMyaha no vicitra bAta hai ! kyA saMsAra meM dukhoM kI kamI hai jo vairAgya utpanna karane ke liye naye duHnna banAye jAte haiM ? kyA aneka taraha kI yImAriyA~ dekhakara vairAgya nahIM ho sakatA ? phira cikitsA kA pravandha kyoM kiyA jAtA hai ? yadi Aja jeniyoM ke vaigagya ke liye saMsAra ko duznI banAne kI jarUrata hai to jainadharmameM aura bAsurIlIlAmeM kyA aMtara raha jAyagA? yaha to gaidradhyAna kI prakarpatA hai| jinako vairAgya paidA karanA hai unheM, saMsAra vairAgya ke kAraNoM se bharA par3A hai| meghoM aura vijJaliyoM kI kSaNabhaMguratA, dina rAna mRtyu kA daurA, aneka

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( 86 ) taraha kI bImAriyoM Adi vairAgya kI ora jhukAne vAlI haiM / purANoM meM aise kitane manuSyoM kA ullekha hai jinheM bAlavidha vAoM ko dekhakara vairAgya paidA huA ho ? karmavaicitraya kI sUcanA purAya aura pApa donoM se milatI haiN| vidhavA ke dekhane se jahA~ pApa karma kI vicitratA mAlUma hotI hai vahA~ vidhavAvivAha se puNya karma kI vicitratA mAlUma hotI hai / jisa prakAra eka strI mara jAne para puNyodaya se dUsarI strI mila jAtI hai, usI prakAra eka puruSa ke mara jAne para bhI purAyodaya se dUsarA puruSa mila jAtA hai| vairAgya ke liye bAlavidhavAzrI kI sthiti cAhanA aisI nirdayatA, kra ratA aura rudratA hai ki jisakI upamA nahIM miltii| pA~cavA~ prazna isa prazna kA sambandha vidhavAvivAha se bahuta kama hai / isa viSaya meM hamane likhA thA ki vezyA aura kuzIlA vidhavA ke mAyAcAra meM antara hai / kuzItA vidhavA kA mAyAcAra bahuta hai / haoN, vyaktigata dRSTi se kisI ke antaraGga bhAvoM kA nirNaya honA kaThina hai / isa viSaya meM zrAkSepakoM ko koI jyAda aitarAz2a nahIM hai, parantu 'virodha to karanA hI cAhiye' yaha soca kara unane virodha kiyA hai / AkSepa ( ka ) - vezyA, mAyA-mUrti hai / vyabhicAra hI usakA kArya hai / vaha aharniza mAyA mUrti hai / kintu yaha niyama nahIM hai ki kuzIlA janmabhara kuzIlA rahe / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - yahA~ yaha prazna nahIM hai ki pApa kisakA jyAda hai ? prazna mAyAcAra kA hai| jo kArya jitanA kiyA jAtA hai usameM utanA hI jyAda: mAyAcAra hai / vezyA chupAkara isa kArya ko chupAkara nahIM karatI, jabaki kuzIlA ko chupAkara

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( 7 ) karanA par3atA hai| vyabhicAra ke liye nahIM, kintu paisoM ke liye vezyA kRtrima prema karake kisI zrAdamI ke sAtha mAyAcAra karatI hai jabaki kuzIlA vidhavA apane pApa ko surakSita rakhane ke liye sArI samAja ke sAtha mAyAcAra karatI hai / apane vyabhicAra ko chupAne ke liye aisI nAgyiA muniyoM ko sevA suzrUSA meM Age Age rahatI hai, deva pUjA Adi ke kAryoM meM agresara banatI haiM, napa zrAdi ke DhoMga karatI haiM jisase loga unheM dharmAtmAbAI kaheM aura unakA pApAcAra bhUle raheM / smaraNa rahe ki vyAghra se gomukhavyAghra bhayAnaka hotA hai / vezyA agara vyAtrI hai to kuzIlA gomukhavyAtrI hai| sambhava hai koI strI janmabhara kuzIlA na rahe / parantu yaha bhI mambhava hai ki koI zrI janmamara vezyA na rahe / jaba taka koI kuzIlA yA vezyA hai, tabhI taka usakI AtmA kA vicAra karanA hai| AkSepa (kha)-prazna meM mAyAcAra kI dRSTi se antara pUchA gayA hai ataH pApa-kArya kI dRSTi se antara batalAnA prazna ke bAhara kA viSaya hai / ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki, "jaba hama vezyAsevana aura parastrIsevana ke pApa meM antara yatalA sakate haiM taba donoM ke mAyAcAra meM bhI antaravatalA sakane haiN|" isameM anya pApa se mAyAcAra kA patA nahIM lagAyA hai. parantu anya pApa ke samAna mAyAcAra ko bhI apane jJAna kA viSaya banalAyA hai| yaha bhUla to zrAkSepaka ne svayaM kI hai| unane likhA hai-"vyabhicAra eka pApa-patha hai / usapara jo jitanA Age baDhagayA vaha utanA hI adhika sarva dRSTi se pApI evaM mahAmAyAvI hai|' pApa ke antara se mAyA kA antara dikhalA kara dhAnepaka vaya viSaya ke bAhara gaye haiN| zrApa (ga)-savyasAcI ne zrAntarika mAvoM kA nirNaya

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> kaThina liyA hai phira mI mAyAcAra kI tulanA kI hai| ye para spara viruddha vAna kaisI ? mana kA hAla to manaHparyayajJAnI hI jAna sakate hai | ( vidyAnantra ) samAdhAna- mana:paryayajJAnI kI mana kI yAtrA pratyakSa hotA hai lekina parIkSa prApti to mana se bhI ho sakatI hai| vacana, zrAcaraNa tathA mukhAkRti zrAdi se mAnasika bhAvoM kA anumAna kiyA jAnA hai| zAkSepakane svayaM likhA hai ki "kisa. kA mAyAcAra kisa samaya vika hai mAM bhagavAna hI jAne, parantu vezyA se adhika kabhI kuzIlA kA mAyAcAra buni pramANa se siddha nahIM hotA / " kyA yaha vAkya likhate samaya AkSepaka ko mana:paryayajJAna thA ? yadi nahIM to bhagavAna ke jJAna kI bAta unane kaise jAnatI ? AkSepa (gha) - kuzIlA, pativratA ke caipa meM pApa nahIM karatI / jahA~ pati pAniyata hogA vahA~ to kuzItabhAva ho hI nahI sakate | ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - zrakSepaka pativratA ke veSa aura pAvita ke antara ko bhI na samajha sake / vezyAe~ bhI sItA sAvitrI Adi kA pArTa lekara pativratA kA veSa dhAraNa karatI haiM, parantu kyA ve isI se pativratA hotI hai ? kyA kuzIlAoM kA koI judA veSa hotA hai ? AkSepa (Ga) - kuzIlA haz2Ara gupta pApa ratI hai, parantu jina-mArga ko dUSita nahIM karatI / isaliye vivAhita vidhavA aura vezyA se kuzIlA kI kakSA U~cI kahI gaI haiN| ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - vivAhitavidhavA aura vezyAle kuzIlA kI 'kakSA kisa zAstra meM U~cI kahI gaI hai ? jarA pramANa dIjiye !

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( 6 ) hamane vidhavAvivAda ko dhArmika middha kara diyA hai. isaliye vivAhita vidhavA jinamArga pina karane vAlI nahIM kahI jA sktii| prathayA jaya taka vidhavAvivAha para yaha vAdavivAda cala rahA hai taya taka vidhavAvivAda kI dhArmikatA yA adhArmikatA kI duhAI na denA cAhiye / nahIM no anyonyAzraya zrAdi dAra paayeNge| isa zrAkSepa se yaha bAta acchI taraha siddha hotI hai ki paNDinAU jainadharma ke anusAra koI strI raNDI bana jAya yA hajAra gupta pApa kareM to jinamArga dUpina nAhI hotA aura chinAla yanajAya to bhI nahIM hotA. navajAta baccoM ke prANa nele nI bhI nahIM hotA, lekina agara yaha kisI eka puruSa ke sAtha dAmpatya bandhana sthApita karale to becAre paDi. tAU jainadharma kI mauta ho samajhiye / vAstava meM aise jainadharma ko vyabhicAra pantha samajhanA cAhiye / bhAlepa (ca)-indriyatRpti karane meM hI prasannatA mAnate ho to Apa zIkse cArvAka ho jAzrI ! (vidyAnandra) samAdhAna-ragaDo yanAne ke liye, hajAroM gupta pApa karane ke liye dharmadhurandhara kahatAkara loDeyAz2I karane ke liye, na pAhatyA karane ke liye agara koI cArvAka nahIM ghanatA to vidhavAvivAha ke liye cArvAka banane kI kyA z2arUrata hai ? yadi jainadharma meM indriyatRpti ko bilakula sthAna nahIM hai to avirata samyagdRSTi ke liye "No indriyesu virado" arthAt 'avirata samyagdRSTi jIva pA~ca indriya ke viSayoM se virakta nahIM hotA kyoM likhA hai ? jainI loga komala vistara para kyoM sote hai ? svAdiSTa bhojana kyoM karate haiM? laDako vayoM ke hone para bhI vivAha kyoM karate hai ? kyA yaha indriya viSaya nahIM hai ? athavA kyA aise saba jainI cArvAka hai ? puruSa jaya dusarA vivAha karatA hai to kyA vairAgya kI bhAvanA ke

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(80) liye strI lAtA hai ? yA paNDitoM ke veda trivarNAcAra ke anu. sAra yoni pUjA ke liye lAtA hai ? kyA yaha indriya-viSaya nahIM hai ? kyA vidhavAvivAha meM hI ananta indriya-viSaya ekatrita ho gaye haiM ? kyA tumhArA jainadharma yahI kahatA hai ki puruSa to manamAne bhoga bhoge, manamAne vivAha kareM, usase vItarAgatA ko dhakkA nahIM lagatA, parantu vidhavAvivAha se laga jAtA hai ? imI ko kyA "choDo choDo kI dhuna" kahate hai ? AkSepa (cha)-kuzIlA apane pApoM ko mArga-prema ke kAraNa chipAtI hai| * 'vaha bhrUNahatyA karatI hai phira bhI vivAhita vidhavA yA vezyA se acchI hai / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-agara mArga-prema hotA to gupta pApa kyoM karatI? bhraNahatyAe~ kyoM karatI? kyA inase jinamArga pita nahIM hotA ? yA ye bhI jainamArga ke aGga hai ? cora chipAkara dhana haraNa karatA hai, yaha bhI mArgaprema khlaayaa| aneka dharma: dhurandhara lauDevAz2I karate haiM, parastrI sevana karate haiM, yaha bhI mArgaprema kA hI phala samajhanA cAhiye ! matalaba yaha ki jo manuSya samAja ko jitanA adhika dhokhA dekara pApa kara letA hai vaha utanA hI adhika mArgapremI kahalAyA ! vAhare mArga! aura bAhare mArgapremI! vyabhicAriNI strI vezyA kyoM nahIM banajAtI ? isakA uttara yaha hai ki vezyAjIvana sirpha vyabhicAra se hI nahIM zrAjAtA / usake liye aneka kalAe~ cAhiye, jinakA ki durupayoga kiyA jA sake athavA jina kalAoM ke jAla meM aneka zikAra phaMsAe jAsake / kucha duHsAhasa bhI cAhiye, kucha nimitta bhI cAhiye, kucha svAvalambana aura nirbhayatA bhI caahiye| jinameM ye bAteM hotI haiM ve vezyAe~ bana hI jAtI haiM / Aja jo bhAratavarSa meM lAkho vezyAyeM pAI jAtI haiM

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(61) unameM se zrAdhI se adhika vezyAe~ aisI hai jo eka samaya kula-vadhue~ thIM / ve samAja ke dharmaDhogI narapizAcoM ke dhakka khAkara vezyAe~ vanI haiN| vyabhicAriNI strI punarvivAha kyoM nahIM karatI? isakA kAraNa yaha hai ki punarvivAha to vaha taya kare jaba umameM brahmacaryANuvata kI bhAvanA ho, jainadharma kA sathA jJAna ho / jo strI naye naye yAra cAhatI ho, use punaH vivAha kaise acchA laga sakatA hai ? athavA vaha taiyAra bhI ho to jina dharmAtmAoM ne use apanA zikAra banA rakhA hai ve kva usakA piMDa choDeMge? punarvivAha se to zikAra hI nikala jaaygaa| striyoM kI amAnatA aura puruSoM kA svArtha hI striyoM ko vidhavAvivAha ke pavitra mArga se haTAkara vyabhicAra kI tarapha le jAtA hai| chaThA prazna kuzIlA bhraNahatyAkAriNI ko aura kRtakArita anumoTanA se usake sahayogiyoM ko pApa-bandha hotA hai yA nahIM ? hamake uttarameM hamane kahA thA ki hotA hai aura jo loga vidhavA. vivAha kA virodha karake aisI paristhati paidA karate hai una ko bhI pApa kA bandha hotA hai / isake uttara meM Ane pakoM ne jo yaha likhA hai ki "vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra hai, usameM akalakadeva praNIta lakSaNa nahIM jAtA, zrAdi" isakA uttara prathama prazna ke uttara meM acchI taraha diyA jA cukA hai| prAkSepa (ka)-vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI vyabhicAra ko pApa kahate hai to pApa karane vAle cAhe striyA~ ho cAhe puruSa, vaha save hI pApI hai / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-aisI hAlata meM jaba vidhavAvivAha pApa he to vidhuravivAha bhI honA cAhiye yA donoM hI na honA

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( 62 ) caahiye| kyoMki jaba pApa hai to 'sarva hI pApI hU~ / vyabhicAra meM to zrApa sarva hI pApI vanalAve zrIra punavivAha meM vidhuvivAha ko dharma batalAve aura vidhavAvivAha ko pApa, yaha kahA~ kA nyAya hai ? 1 AkSepa (ja) ra corI karatA hai / gavarnamenTa dagaDa detI hai isameM gavarnamenTa kA kyA aparAdha ? ( zrImAna ) samAdhAna varnamenTa ne arthopArjana kA adhikAra nahIM chInA hai / vyApAra se zrIra naukarI yA mikSA se manuSya apanA peTa bhara sakatA hai / gavarnamenTa agara arthopArjana ke rAste to avazya hI use corI kA pApa lagegA | vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI, vidhavA ko pati prApta karane ke mArga ke virodhI haiM, isaliye unheM vyabhicAra yA nRNahatyA kA pApa avazya lagatA hai / yadi sthitipAlaka loga banalAve ki amuka upAya se vidhavA pani prApta karale aura vaha upAya susAdhya ho, phira bhI koI vyabhicAra kare to avazya sthitipAlakoM ko vaha pApa na lagegA | parantu jaba ye loga kisI bhI taraha se pati prApta nahIM karane dete to isase siddha hai ki ye loga bhrUNahatyA aura vyabhicAra ke poSaka haiN| agara koI lagkAra vyApAra na karane de. naukarI na karane de, bhIkha na mA~gane de aura phira kahe ki - "tuma corI bhI mata karo, upavAsa karake hI jIvana nikAla Dho" to pratyeka AdamI kahegA ki yaha sarakAra badamAza hai, isakI manzA corI karAne kI hai| aisI hI badamAza sarakAra ke samAna zrAjakala kI pacAyate tathA sthitipAlaka loga haiM / isameM itanI bAta aura vicAranA cAhiye ki agara koI sara kAra corI kI apekSA vyApArAdi karane meM jyAda daNDa de to usa sarakAra kI badamAzI bilkula naMgI ho jaaygii| usI prakAra sthitipAlakoM kI cAlAkI bhI naMgI ho jAtI hai. --

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( 3 ) kyoMki ye loga kahate hai ki vyabhicAra bhale hI karalo, parantu vidhavAvivAha mata kage ! vidhavAvivAha karane ke pahile paMDina udayalAla jo me eka bujurga paNDita jI ne kahA thA ki-"tuma use strI ke rUpa meM yoM hI rakhalo, umaphe mAtha vivAha kyoM karate ho?" zrApa ke mahayogI vidyAnanda jI ne pA~ca prazna ke uttara meM likhA hai ki'yapi kuzIlA naNahatyA karanI hai kintu phira bhI jinamArga me bhaya jAtI hai / umameM svAbhimAna lajA hai| isaliye vaha vidhavAvivAhita yA gheNyA meM acchI hai"-kyA aba bhI sthinipAlaka loga vyabhicArapAMgakatA kA kalaka chipA sakate hai? uma sarakAra ko kyA kahA jAya jo coroM ko prazaMsA karatI hai aura vyApAriyoM ko nindA ? AkSepa (ga) yadi kisI ko strI nahIM milatI to kyA vyA dharma ke nAma para mara de deM? vidhavAvivAha ke pracAra ho jAne para bhI sabhI pulyoM ko striyA~ na mila jAya~go to kyA strI vAle loga eka eka vagaTe ko striyA~ de deNge| mamAdhAna-sudhArakoM ke dharmAnusAra striyoM kA denA lenA nahIM bana sakatA, kyoMki striyA sampatti nahIM hai / haoN, mpinipAtaka pagidanoM ke manAnusAra ghaTe do ghaTe yA mahInoM varSoM liye strI dI jAnakanI hai, pyoMki unake matAnusAra yaha Tena lene kI vastu hai, mojya hai, sampatti he / puruSa kI icchA ke anusAra nAcane ke sivAya usakA koI vyaktitva nahIM hai| ra, logoM kA yaha kartavya nahIM hai ki ve striyA~ de deM, parantu unakA itanA kartavya avazya hai ki koI purupa strI prApna karatA ho yA korDa myo pani prApta karatI ho to unake mArga meM gar3e na aTakAveM / yaha kahanA ki "vinayA apane bhAgyodaya se panidAna huI, koI zyA kareM" mUrkhatA pAra pakSapAta hai| mAgyo

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( 4 ) daya se to vidhura bhI banatA hai aura sabhI vipattiyA~ AtI hai| unakA ilAja kiyA jAtA hai| vidhura kA dusarA vivAha kiyA jAtA hai / isI taraha vidhavA kA bhI karanA cAhiye / isakA uttara hama pahile bhI vistAra se de cuke hai / "puruSatvahIna purupoM kI sikAra hogI" isa zrAkSapa ke samAdhAna ke liye dekho "3 gh"| AkSepa (gha)-vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM ko pApiyoM kI kakSA meM kisa zrAgama yuktitarka ke AdhAra para zrApane ghasITa liyA ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-isakA uttara Upara ke ( kha ) nambara meM hai| usase siddha hai ki kArita aura anumodana ke sambandha saM vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI bhrUNahatyAre hai| AkSepa (Da)-paNDita loga pAgama kA avarNavAda nahIM karanA cAhate / ve to kahate hai ki paraloka kI bhI sudha liyA kro| samAdhAna-jina paNDitoM ke viSaya meM yaha bAta kahI jArahI hai, ve vecAre ajJAnatamasAvRna jIva zrAgama ko samajhane hI nhiiN| ve to rUDhiyoM ko hI dharma yA zrAgama samajhate haiM aura rUr3hiyoM ke bhaDAphoDa ko Agama kA avarNavAda / paraloka kI sudha dilAne kI bAta to vicitra hai| jo loga khuda to cAra 2 paoNca paoNca aurane hajama kara jAte hai aura bAlavidhavAoM se kahate hai ki paraloka kI sudha liyA karo! una dhRSThosa kyA kahA jAya ? jo khuda to ha~sa ha~sa kara khAte ho aura dUsaroM se kahate ho ki "bhagavAn kA nAma lo? isa zarIra ke popane meM kyA rakkhA hai ? yaha to pudgala hai"-unakI dharatA pradarzanI kI vastu hai / ve isa dhRSTatA se upadeza nahIM dete, Adeza karate haiM, jabardastI dUsaroM ko bhUkhoM rakhate hai / kyA yaha paraloka kI

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( 5 ) sudha striyoM ke liye hI hai ? madoM ke liye nahIM? phira jainadharma z2abardastI tyAga kagane kI bAta kahA~ kahatA hai ? usakA no kahanA hai ki "jyA jyoM upazamana paayaa| tyo tyo tina tyAga bnaayaa|' AkSepa (ca)-paNDitoM ke kaThoratApUrNa zAsana aura pakSapAtapUrNa upadezoM ke kAraNa striyA~ na rAhatyA nahIM karatA, parantu jo unake upadeza se nikala bhAgatI haiM ye vyabhicAri. riNayA~ hI yaha pApa karatI haiN| samAdhAna-isa bAta ke nirNaya ke liye eka dRSTAnta rakhanA cAhiye / cAra vidhavAe~ haiM / do sudhAraka aura do sthinipAlaka / eka sudhAraka aura eka sthitipAlaka vidhavA no pUrNa brahmacarya pAla sakatI hai aura bAkI kI eka eka nahIM pAla sakatI / pahilI se sudhAraka kahate haiM ki 'yahina! agara tuma pavitratA ke sAtha brahmacarya pAlana karane ko taiyAra ho to eka brahmacArIke samAna hama ApakI pUjA karate haiM aura agara tuma nahIM pAla sakatI ho to zrAnA do ki hama aApake vivAha kA Ayojana kara deN|" vaha bahina kahatI hai ki abhI meM brahmacarya pAlana kara sakatI hai, isalie apanA punarvivAha nahIM caahtii| jaba maiM apane manako vaza meM na rakha sakeMgI no punavivAha kA vicAra pragaTa kara duuNgii| dUsarI bahinase yahI bAna kahI jAtI hai to vaha vivAha ke liye taiyAra ho jAtI hai aura usakA vivAha kara diyA jAtA hai| usake vivAha ko paNDita loga ThIka nahIM samajhate-sudhAraka ThIka samajhate haiN| parantu jaba vaha vahina vivAha kaga lenI hai to use saMtAna ko chipAne kI koI jarUrata nahIM raha jAtI jisame vaha praNahatyA kare / isa naraha sudhAraka pakSa meM no donoM taraha kI vidhavAoM kA pUrNa nirvAha hai| aba sthitipAlakA meM dekhiye ! unakA kahanA

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( 66 ) hai ki 'vidhavA vivAha ghora pApa hai, kyoMki striyA~ jUThI thAlI ke samAna hai| aba ve kisI ke kAma kI nhiiN'| donoM bahanoM ko yaha apamAna cupacApa mahalenA paDatA hai, jisa meM pahilI bahina to brahmacarya se jIvana bitAtI hai aura dUsarI vaidhavyakA DhoMga karatI hai| usakI vAsanAe~ pragaTa na ho jAyeM, isaliye vaha vidhavA vivAha vAloMko gAntiyoM detI hai| isaliye paMDita loga usakI baDI prazaMsA karate hai / parantu vaha becArI apanI vAsanAoM ko damana nahIM kara pAtI, isaliye vyabhicAra ke mArga maiM calI jAtI hai| phira garbha raha jAtA hai / zrava vaha socatI hai ki vidhavAvivAhavAloM ko maiMne Aja taka gAliyA~ dI haiM, isaliye jaba mere baccA paidA hogA to koI kyA kahegA ? isa liye vaha garbha girAne kI ceSTA karatI hai| gira jAtA hai to ThIka, nahIM giratA hai to vaha paidA hote hI bacce ko mAraDAlatI hai / vaha bIca bIca meM punarvivAha kA vicAra karatI hai, lekina pariDato kA yaha vaktavya yAda zrAjAtA hai ki "vidhavAvivAha se to jinamArga dUSita hotA hai lekina vyabhicAra yA bhrUNahatyA se jinamArga dUSita nahIM hotA", isaliye vaha vyabhicAra aura bhrUNahatyA kI tarapha jhuka jAtI hai / sudhAraka bahina ko to aisA maukA hI nahIM hai jisase use apanA dAmpatya chipAnA par3he aura bhrUNahatyA karanA paDe / usake agara santAna paidA hogI to vaha harSa manAyagI jabaki sthinipAlaka bahina hAya 2 karegI aura usakI hatyA karane kI tarakIba socegii| isase pAThaka samajha sakate hai ki hatyArA mArga kauna hai aura dayA kA mArga kauna hai ? hama yahA~ eka hI bAta rakhate hai ki koI strI vidhavAvivAha aura gupta vyabhicAra meM se kisa mArga kA avalamvana karanA cAhatI hai / sudhAraka loga vidhavAvivAha kI salAha

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( 7) data hai| aba pariDatoM se hama pUchate haiM ki unakI kyA salAha hai ? agara ve gupta vyabhicAra kI salAha dete hai, to usake bhItara bhrUNahatyA kI malAha bhI zAmila hai kyoMki bhrUNahatyA na karane para vyabhicAra gupta na raha makamA / isaliye isa salAha sa paNDitoM ko bhraNahatyA kA dopo honA hI pdd'egaa| agara va vidhavAvivAha kI salAha dete hai nA bhrUNahatyA ke pApa se baca sakate hai| yadi gheima pApa se bacanA cAhate hai to unheM vidhavAvivAha kA vyabhicAra aura bhraNahatyA se bhI vuga kahane kI bAna prAyazcitta ke sAtha vApisa lenA cAhiye / aisI hAlata meM ye paNDita sudhArakoM se juTe nahIM raha skte| kyoMki sudhAraka lAMga bhI vyabhicAra prAdi kI apekSA vidhavAvivAha ko acchA samajhate hai, pUrNabrahmacarya meM vidhavAvivAha ko acchA nahIM samajhate / usa vaktavya se siddha ho jAtA hai ki paNDita loga bhraNahatyA Adi kA pracAra bullamakhullA bhale hI na karate ho parantu unake siddhAnta hI aise hai ki jimmasa bhraNahatyA kA samarthana tA hotA hI hai sAtha hI usako uttejana bhI milatA hai| aura yaha pApa vidhavAvivAha karane vAlI bahinoM ko nahIM karanA paDatA, balki unheM karanA paDanA hai jo paNDinoM ke kathanAnusAra vidhavAvivAha ko gAliyA~ detI hai yA usase dUra rahatI haiN| AkSepa (cha)-zrApa lignate hai ki sthitipAlako meM sabhI bhrUNahatyA pasanda nahIM karate parantu phIsadI nabve karate haiM / isa parampara vigaMdhI vAkya kA kyA matalaba ? samAdhAna-isa AkSepa meM AkSepaka ne apane bhASAvimAna kA hI nahIM, mASAmAna kA bhI divAlA nikAla diyA hai| pUNAMza ke niSedha meM alpAMza kI vidhi bhI unheM paraspara viruddha mAlUma honI hai| agara kArDa kaheM ki mere pAsa pRga rupayA to nahIM hai, caudaha zrAne hai / nI bhI AkSepaka yahI

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(8 ) kaheMge ki jaba tumane rupaye kA niSedha kara diyA to caudaha zraAna kI vidhi kyoM karate ho ? zyoMki caudaha pAne nA rupaye ke bhItara ho hai| yaha virAdha nahIM. virodha pradarzana ko bomAge hai| 'eka ke hAne para do nahIM haiM' (sattve'pi dvayaM nAsti) ke samAna 'dona hAne para eka hai' ko yAna bhI parampara viruddha nahIM hai / kheda hai ki AkSepaka ko inanA sA bhI bhASAjJAna nahIM hai| AkSepa (ja)-machalI kI apekSA bakarA grAhya hai yA bakarA kI apekSA machalI ? niddhAntadRSTi se dAnoM hI nhiiN| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha aura bhrUNahatyA ina dAnoM meM samAnatA nahIM hai kintu nara-tamatA hai| aura aisI naratamanA hai jaisI ki vidhuravivAha aura narahatyA meM hai| isaliye machalI aura bakare kA dRSTAnta viSama hai / jahA~ taratamanA nahIM vahA~ cunAva nahIM ho sakatA / trasahimA aura sthAvara hilA, aMgu. vrata aura mahAvana ke samAna vyabhicAra aura vidhavAvivAha meM cunAva ho sakatA hai jaisA ki vidhugavivAha aura vyabhicAra meM hotA hai| AkSepa (jha) cANakya ne kahA hai ki gajA aura paNDita eka hI bAra bolate haiM kanyA eka hI bAra dI jAnI hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-hamane vidhavAvivAha ko nyAyocita kahA hai| usakA virodha karane ke liye Upara kA nItivAkya uddhata kiyA gayA hai| AkSepaka ne bhUla se nyAya aura nIti kA eka hI artha samajha liyA hai / asala meM nIti zabda ke, nyAya se atirikta tIna artha haiM / (1) kAnUna, (2) cAla, Dhaga, paoNlisI. (3)rIni virAja / ye tInoM hI bAte nyAya ke viruddha bhI ho sakatI hai| dakSiNa ke eka rAjya meM aisA kAnana

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( 88 ) hai ki lar3akA bApa kI sampatti kA mAlika nahIM hotaa| yaha kAnUna hai parantu nyAya nahIM / prajA meM phUTa DAlakara manamAnA zAsana karane kI paoNlisI, nIti hai, parantu yaha nyAya nahIM hai| isI taraha "milajula kara paJcoM meM rahiye, prANa jaoNya sA~cI nahIM kahiye' kI nIti hai parantu yaha nyAya nahIM hai / yoropa meM DyUala kA rivAja thA aura kahIM kahIM aba bhI hai, parantu yaha nyAya nahIM kahA jA sakatA, kyoMki isameM sabala kA hI nyAya kahalAtA hai / 'jisakI lAThI usakI bhaisa' yaha bhI eka nIti hai parantu nyAya nahIM / isaliye nItivAkya kA uddharaNa dekara nyAyocitatA kA virodha karanA vyartha hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki cANakya ne khuda striyoM ke punavivAha ke kAnUna banAye haiM jinakA ullekha 27 ve prazna meM kiyA gayA thaa| isa lekha meM bhI Age kiyA jaaygaa| yahA~ sirpha eka vAkya udhRta kiyA jAtA hai-'kuTumbaddhilope vA sukhAvasthaivimuktA yatheSTa vindena jIvinArtham / arthAt kuTumba kI sampatti kA nAza hone para athavA samRddha bandhuvA~dhayoM se chAI jAne para kAI trI, jIvananirvAha ke liye apanI icchA ke anusAra anya vivAha kara sakatI hai| cANakyanIti kA ullekha karane vAlA jaga isa vAkya para bhI vicAra kare / sAtha hI yaha bhI khyAla meM rakkhe ki aisa aise darjanoM vAkya cANakya ne likhe haiM / jaba hama donoM vAkyoM kA samanvaya karate haiM taba cANakyanIti ke zloka se punarvivAha kA z2arA bhI virodha nahIM hotaa| uma zloka se itanA hI mAlUma hotA hai ki vApa ko cAhiye ki vaha apanI putrI eka hI bAra deve / vidhavA hone para yA kuTumbiyoM ke nAza hone para dene kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / usa samaya taka use itanA anubhava ho jAtA hai ki vaha svayaM apanA punarvivAha kara sakatI hai| isaliye pitA ko

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(100) phira kauTumbaka adhikAra na banAnA caahiye| agara cANakya nIti ke usa cAya kA yaha artha na hotA to cANakya ke anya vAkyoM se samanvaya hI na ho paataa| AkSepa (ba)-Apane kahA ki 'agara hama khUba svA. diSTa bhojana kareM aura dUsaroM ko eka TukaDA bhI na khAne haiM no unheM svAda ke liye nahIM to kSudhAzAMti ke liye corI karanI hI paDegI / aura isakA pApa hameM bhI lgegaa| isI taraha bhrUNahatyA kA pApa vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM ko lagatA hai" parantu kauna kisa ko kyA nahIM jAne detA? kAnipheyAnu. prekSA meM likhA hai ki 'upakAra nathA apakAra zubhAzubha karma hI kare hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-upakAra apakAra no karma karane hai parantu karmoM kA udaya nokarmoM ke binA nahIM pAtA / bAhyanimittoM ko nokarma kahate haiM (dekho gAmmaTa sAra krmkaanndd)| azubha karmoM ka nokarma bananA pApa hai| pazu to apane karmodaya se mAga jAnA hai parantu karmodaya ke nokarma kulAI ko pApa kA bandha hotA hai yA nahIM ? vidhavA ko pApakarma ka udaya se pati nahIM milatA, parantu jo loga pati nahIM milana dene tre no usI kasAI ke samAna usa pApa karma ke nokarma hai| yadi kArtikayAnuprekSA kA aisA hI upayoga kiyA jAya to paNDita loga guTTa bA~dha kara DAkA DAlanA, triyoM ke sAtha balAtkAra karanA Adi kA zrIgaNeza karade aura jaba koI pUche ki aisA kyoM karate ho? to kaha de-"hamane kyA kiyA ? upakAra tathA apakAra to zubhAzubha karma hI kare he'| isa taraha se rAjadarADa Adi kI bhI koI jarUrata nahIM rahegI kyoMki "upakAra apakAra zubhAzubha karma hI kare hai" / khaira sAhiba ! aisAhI shii| taba to jisa vidhavA kA kodaya AyagA usakA panamA

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( 101 ) ho jAyagA / na zrAyagA na ho jAyagA / isameM una dampati ko tathA sudhArakoM ko kosane kI kyA jarUrata ? kyoMki yaha saba to "zubhAzubha karma hI kare hai" / vAha re ! 'kare hai' | AkSepa ( Ta ) - karma kI vicitratA hI to vairAgya kA kAraNa hai| una dhAnoM para tarasa AnA hai isaliye hama unheM zAnti se isa karmakRta vidhiviDambanA ko sahalene kA upadeza dete haiM / " ( vidyAnanda ) - samAdhAna -- jI hA~, aura jaba yaha vidhiviDambanA upadezadAtAoM ke sira para AtI hai taba ve svayaM kAmadeva ke zrAge naMge nAcate hai, maraghaTa meM hI naye vivAha kI bAtacIta karate hai ! yaha vidhiviDambanA sirpha striyoM ko sahanA cAhiye / na sahI jAya to gupta pApa karake Upara se mahane kA DhoMga karanA cAhiye / parantu puruSoM ko isake mahane kI jarUrata nahIM / kyoMki dharma puruSoM ke liye nahIM hai| ve to pApa se bhI mukti prApta kara sakate haiM / athavA yahA~ kI zrAdana ke anusAra mukti kA jhA~TA pakar3a kara use vaza meM kara sakate haiM / unheM pApa-puNya ke vicAra kI jarUrata kyA hai ? vairAgya ke lie karmavicitratA kI z2arUrata hai| isaliye Avazyaka hai ki saikaDoM manuSya bhUkhoM mAre jaoNya, garama kaDAhA~ meM pakAe jaoNya, bImAroM kI cikitsA banda kara dI jAya / isa se asurakumAroM ke avatAra paNDitoM ko aura paJcoM ko vairAgya paidA hogaa| acchA ho, ye loga eka kasAIkhAnA khola hai jisa meM kamAI kA kAma ye svayaM kreN| jaba inakI durI khAkara becAre dIna pazu cillAyeMge aura tar3apeMge, taba zravazya hI unake khUna meM se vairAgya kA satva khIMcA jaaskegaa| agara kisI jagaha vidhavAoM kI kamI ho to puruSoM kI hatyA karake vidhavAe~ paidA kI jaoNya | kyoMki unake karuNa krandana aura

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( 102 ) A~suoM meM se vairAgya kA dohana bahuta acchA hotA hai / yaha vairAgya na mAlUma kaisA aDiyala TaTTU hai ki zrAtA hI nahIM hai ! idhara jainasamAja meM muphtakhoroM kI itanI kamI hai aura jaina samAja ke pAsa itanA dhana hai ki sUjhanA hI nahIM ki kise khilAyeM yA kaise kharca kareM ! sAtavA~ prazna isameM pUchA gayA thA ki zrAjakala kitanI vidhavAe pUrNa pavitratA ke sAtha vaidhavyavrata pAlana kara sakatI haiM / isakA uttara hamane diyA thA ki vRddhavidhavAoM ko choDakara bAkI vidhavAoM meM se phI sadI pA~ca / yahA~ pUrNa pavitratA ke sAtha vaidhavya pAlane kI bAta hai / ro dhokara verAgya pAlana karane vAlI to zrAdhI yA AdhI se bhI kucha jyAdA nikala sakatI hai / zrakSepakoM ne uttara kA matalaba na samajhakara vakavAda zuru kara diyaa| zrIlAla jI hamase pUchate haiM ki : AkSepaka - zrApa ko vyabhicAriNiyoM kA jJAna kahA~ se huA ? kyA vyabhicAriyoM kA koI aDDA hai jo qhabara detA hai yA gavarnameNTa riporTa nikalatI hai ? samAdhAna - mAlUma hotA hai zrakSepaka bhUgarbha meM se vilakula tAz2e nikale haiM / anyathA Apa kisI bhI zahara ke kisI bhI mohalle meM cale jAiye aura jarA bhI gaura se jA~ca kIjiye, ApakI buddhi Apako riporTa dedegii| isa riporTa kI jaoNca kA hamane eka acchA tarIkA batalAyA thA-vidhuroM kI jaoNca / striyoM meM kAma kI adhikatA batalAI jAtI hai / agara hama samAnatA hI mAnale to vidhuroM kI kamajoriyoM se hama vidha vAoM kI kamaz2oriyoM kA ThIka anumAna kara sakate haiM / vRddha vidhuroM ko choDakara aise kitane vidhura hai jo punarvivAha kI J

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( 103 ) koziza na karate ho ? kisI prAnta meM yA zahara meM jA~ca karanI jAya to mAlUma hogA ki cAlIsa paitAlisa varSa se kama umara meM vidhura hokara thapane punarvivAha kI koziza na karane vAle vidhura phIsadI pA~ca se bhI kama haiN| jahA~ para vidhuravivAha ke samAna vidhavAvivAha kA bhI pUrNa pracAra hai vahA~ kI riporTa se bhI isa bAta kA samarthana hogaa| kyA aisI spaSTa jA~ca kI vRSTatA kahate haiM ? isa vaktavya se vidyAnandajI ke zrApoM kA bhI uttara ho jAtA hai| hA~ ! unake bahuta se zrAkSepa prakaraNa ke bAhara hogaye hai, parantu unakA bhI uttara diyA jAtA hai jisame kahane kI bhI guMjAiza na raha jAye / zrAkSepa ( kha ) - kyA madhya meM mokSa jAne kI nAkRta nahIM hai ? tAnAvaraNa kA sadbhAva kaima ghaTina hogA ? rAjacArtika dekhiye ! (vidyAnanda) --- samAdhAna - zrakSepaka ne gajavArtika gaura se nahIM dekhaa| gajavAnika meM likhA hai ki dravyArthinaya se to abhavya maiM aante kI zakti hai, parantu paryAyArthikanaya se nahIM hai | isaliye vyArthikanaya se to striyoM meM vaidhavya pAlana zrI to kyA, jJAnAdika zrI bhI zakti kahalAyI / aisI hAlana maiM to prazna kI kArDa z2arUrata hI nahIM rahatI / aura jaba prazna kiyA gayA hai to siddha hai ki paryAyArthikanaya kI apekSA hai, aura usa naya se zramavya meM muktiyogyatA nahIM hai / jarA rAjavArtika ke isa vAkya para bhI vicAra ke jiye - "samyakvAdiparyAyavyaktiyogAhoM yaH sa bhavyaH tadviparIto'vyaH" zrarthAt jisameM samyaktvAdi kI pragaTa karane kI yogyatA ho use bhavya kahate haiM usase viparIta ko zramavya / matalaba yaha hai ki karane kI zakti azakti kI apekSA se bhavya zrama

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(104) vya kA bheda hai| hamane mokSa jAne taka kI bAta kahI hai, zakti rUpa meM maujUda rahane kI nhiiN| khaira, yahA~ isa carcA meM kucha matalaba nahIM hai| agara AkSepaka ko isa viSaya kI vizeSatA kA amimAna hai to ve svatantra carcA kreN| hama unakA samA. dhAna kara deNge| AkSepa (ga)-Ajakala mI strIjAni ko pacama guNa sthAna ho sakatA hai aura puruSoM ko saptama guNasthAna / isaliye avasthA kA bahAnA banAnA adhamanA saM bhI adhama hai| samAdhAna-guNasthAnoM kI carcA uThAkara AkSepaka ne apane pairoM para Apa hI kulhADI mArI hai / kyA prAnapaka ne vicAra kiyA hai ki manuSyoM meM paJcama guNasthAna ke manuSya kitane hai ? kula manuSya 26 aGka pramANa hai aura paJcama guNa. sthAnavAle manuSyoM kI saMkhyA 6 aGkapramANa / vIsa aGka jyAdA hai / 16 aGka ke dama saha hote haiM bIsa aGkaka 100 sala hue| arthAt paoNcave guNasthAna ke manuSyoM se kula manuSya sI saha guNe hai / sau saha manuSyoM meM eka manuSya paJcama guNasthAnavartI hai / isa carcA se to sau meM pA~ca to kyA eka yA AdhA bhI nahIM baiThatA ! phira samajha meM nahIM AtA ki paoNtra guNasthAna meM jIva hone se durAcAriyoM kA niSedha kaise ho gayA ? ananta siddhoM ke hone para bhI unase anantaguNe sasArI hai| asaMkhya samyagdRSTiyoM ke hone para bhI anantAnanta mithyAdRSTi he / isaliye pA~ca sadAcAriNI striyoM ke hone se kyA 65 duga. cAriNI nahIM ho sakatI 1. phira hamane tA vRddhAoM ko alaga rakkhA hai aura yuvatI vidhavAoM meM bhI 65 ko durAcAriNI nahIM, kintu pUrNa vaidhavya na pAlane vAlI batalAyA hai| sItArAjula Adi satiyoM ke dRSTAnta se AkSepaka kI nahIM, kintu hamArI bAta siddha hotI hai / satItva ke gIta gAne

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( 105 ) dhAle batalAyeM ki Aja kitanI striyA~ agni meM baiThakara apane sanItva kI pagenA de sakatI hai ? sItA aura rAjula Aja no asAdhAraNa hai hI, paranta usa jamAne meM bhI anAdhAraNa thiiN| AkSepakane jyotiHprasAda jI Adi kA udAharaNa dekara siddha kiyA hai ki vidhura bhI brahmacarya se rahate haiM / isa siddha karane kI dhuna meM Apa apane asalI pana ko kho baiThe / agara jyotiHprasAdajI Adi vidhuro ke rahane para bhI phI sadI 65 vidhura apane punarvivAha kI koziza karate haiM arthAt niDhoSa vaidhurya kA pAlana nahIM kara pAte to zuddha vaidhavya pAlana karane vAlI aneka vidhavAoM ke rahane para bhI phI sadI 5 vidhavAe~ zuddha vaidhavya pAlana nahIM kara paatii| AkSepa (1)-vidhugaMka mamAna vidhavAoM ke vivAha ko pAnA kauna de? kyA hama chamamya loga? zAstroM meM bahuvivAha kA ullekha pAyA jAnA hai| zAstrakA puruSa hone se pakSapAtI nahIM kaha jAsakate, kyoMki nyAya aura siddhAnta kI racanAe~ guruparampaga se hai / yadi unheM puruSatva kA abhimAna hotA to zudroM kA pUjanapravAla, mahAvata grahaNa Adi se vaMcita kyoM rakhate ? yadi brAhmaNatvakA pakSapAna banAyA jAya tA unane hInA. cArI brAhmaNa kA guhA meM bhI buga kyA kahA ? isaliye pakSa. pAna kA iljAma lagAnA pazunA aura damanIya avicAratA hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-hamAre uttarameM hama viSayakA paka akSara bhI nahIM hai aura na ghumA phigakara hamane kisI para pakSapAta kA rajAma lagAyA hai| yaha hariNa kA mAMta zera ko jagAnA hai / prArambha meM hama yaha kaha denA cAhate hai ki Apakane jaina zAstroM kI jaisI bAjAe~ samajhI hai vaisI nahIM hai / jaina zAstra to pUrNa brahmacarya kI prAmA dete hai, lekina jo loga pUrNa

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(106) brahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara sakane unake liye kucha nIcI zreNI kA (vivAha zrAdi kA) upadaMza dete haiM / ina nIcI zreNiyoM meM kisa jamAne ke adhikAMza manuSya kima zreNI kA kima rUpa meM pAlana kara sakate haiM isa bAta kA bhI vicAra rakhA jAtA hai| bhAgnavarpa, ticcana aura vartamAna yogaya kI paristhitiyoM meM yahA pharka hai| bhAratavarSa meM eka pani, aneka paniyA~ rakha sakanA hai / tibbata meM eka panI aneka pani rasa makanI hai| yogapa meM pani, aneka patniyoM nahIM rakha sakatA, na pannI aneka pati rakha sakatI hai| Aropa meM agara eka patnI ka rahane hue koI dUsarI patnI se vivAha karale no vaha jela meM bheja diyA jaaygaa| kyA aisI paristhiti meM prAcArya, yAgaMpiyana puruSoM ko bahuvivAhakI AjJA deMge ? jenAcAyoM kI dRSTima bhI vahA~ kA bahuvivAha anA. cAra kahalAyagA / parantu bhArata ke liye puruSoM kA bahuvivAha anicAra hI haagaa| niyata ke liye niyokA bahuvivAha aticAra haagaa| nAtaparya yaha hai ki pUrNa brahmavayaM meM utara kara mamAja kA naitika mAdhyama' ( ifidium) jima zreNI kA rahatA hai usI kA prAcArya brahmacaryANuvrata kahate haiN| yahI kAraNa hai ki somadeva aura AzAgharajI ne vezyAsaMvo ko bhI aNuvatI mAna liyA hai| isameM Azcarya kI kucha vAna nahIM hai kyoMki yaha nA jude jude samaya aura jude sthAnoM ke samAja kA mAdhyama hai / isa viSaya meM inanI bAta dhyAna meM rakhane kI hai ki mAdhyama cAhe jo kucha rahA ho parantu unakA lakSya pUrNa brahmacarya rahA hai| isa liye bahupatnIka manuSya ko unane anicArI kahA hai / dekhiye sAgAradharmAmRta TIkA "yadA tu khadArasantuSTo viziSTasanto. pAbhAvAt anyatkalana pariNayati tadA'pyasyAyamaticAga syAta" arthAta viziSTa santoSa na hone ke kAraNa jo dasarI strI sAtha vivAha karatA hai usako brahmacaryANuvana meM doSa lagatA hai|

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(107) amala cAna to yaha hai ki brahmacaryANuvrata bhI paka taraha kA parigrahaparimANana hai. parigraha parimANa meM sampatti tathA anya bhAgApamAMga ko vanAoM kI maryAdA kI jAtI hai| brahma carya meM kAma sebana mambandhI upabhogamAmagrI kI magaMdI kI jAtI hai / parantu jima prakAra ahimA ke bhItara cAgaM cana zAmila hone para bhI paTanA ke liye unakA annaga vyAkhyAna kiyA jAnA hai usI prakAra brahmanAMguvana meM parigraha parimANa bata meM alaga jyAgyAna kiyA gayA hai| parigraha parimANavanameM parigraha kI mAMTA kI jAtI hai, paranta vaha parigraha ktinA honA cAhiye yaha bAna pratyaka vyani meM unya netrakAlagAva para nirbhara hai / maryAdA bA~dha lene para samrATa bhI aparigrahANuvratI hai aura moTAzunya mAdhAra nimagA bho pUrNa parigrahI hai / brahmacayAMvana ke liye prAcArya ne kaha diyA ki apanI kAma. vAsanA kI mImita gaaura vivAha ko kAmavAsanA sImAmA niyana kara diyA / jo vaivAhika bandhana ke bhItara rahakara kAma. mevana karanA cada ghAyacaryAraNavanI hai / yaha bandhana kitanA dInA yA gADhA ho yaha sAmAjira paristhiti aura vaiyaktika mAdhanoM ke Upara nirbhara hai / yahA~ para eka puruSa kA aneka striyoM ke mAtha vivAha ho sakatA hai aura vivAha hI maryAdA hai isaliye vaha brahmacaryANuvI khlaayaa| tighyata meM eka strI aneka puruSoM ke sAtha eka sAtha hI vivAha kara maratI hai aura vivAha hI mayAMdA hai isaniya vahA~ para aneka pati vAtI strI bhI agubrahmacAriNI hai| zragubrahmacarya kA bhaMga vahI hAgA jahA~ avivAhita ke mAthAmAdi meghana kiyA jaaygaa| isase sApha mAlUma hotA hai ki aAyata ke liye prAcArya eka aneka kA bandhana nahIM DAlane, ve vivAda kA bandhana DAlate hai / mAmAjika paristhiti aura sAdhana mAmagrI meM jo jinane vivAha kara saka

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(108) ume vahI aNuvana kI sImA hai| eka pati yA aneka pati kA prazna sAmAjika yA rAjakIya paristhiti kA prazna hai na ki dhArmika prshn| Upara, niccana kA udAharaNa dekara bahupatitva kA ullekha kara cukA hai| aura bhI aneka chATI choTI jAtiyoM meM yaha rivAja hai / agara aitihAsika dRSTi se dekhA jAya to eka dina sasAra ke adhikAMza dezoM meM bahupatitva kI prathA pracalita thii| bAta yaha hai ki mAtA kA mahatva pinA se adhika hai| mAnA ko hI lekara kuTumba kI racanA honI hai| isaliye eka samaya mAtRvaza arthAt mAnA ke hI zAsana kI vidhi pracalina thii| usa mamaya bahupanivivAha arthAt eka strI ke kaI pati hone kI prathA bhI zurU ho gaI / eziyA kI kucha prAcIna jAtiyoM meM aba bhI isa prathA ke cinha pAye jAte haiN| kaI patiyoM meM se jo sabase balavAna aura rakSA karane meM samartha hotA thA dhIre dhIre usakA zrAdara adhika hone lagA arthAt paTTarAnI ke samAna paTTapati kA rivAja claa| jo balavAna aura patnI kA z2yAdA pyArA honA thA vahI acchI taraha gharamai raha pAnA thaa| yahI rivAja agarez2o ke hasaveDa Husband zabda kA mUla hai| isa zabda kA asalI rUpa haiM Hus buandi arthAt ghara meM rahane vaalaa| saba patiyoM meM jo patnI ke sAtha ghara para rahatA thA vahI dhIre dhIre gRhapati yA hasabaiMDa kahalAne lagA, aura zakti hone sa dhIre dhIre ghara kA pUrga prAdhipatya usa ke hAtha meM AgayA / ghara kI mAlikI ke bAda jaba kisI puruSa ko jAni kI saradArI milI to puruSoM kA zAsana zurU huA, aura bahupatitva ke sthAna para bahupatnItva kI prathA cala pddii| hindu zAstroM meM draupadI ko paoNca pati vAlI kahA~ hai aura use mahAsatI bhI mAnA hai / male hI yaha kathA kalpita

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(106) ho parantu mAranavarSa meM bhI eka samaya bahupatitva ke sAtha satIsva kA nirvAha hotA thA, isa bAta kI sUcaka avazya haiN| jainasamAja meM thI ki nahIM, yaha judA prazna hai parantu bhAratavarSa meM avazya thii| matalaba yaha hai ki bahupanitva aura bahupatnItva kI prathA sAmayika hai| dharma kA usake sAtha koI sambandha nhiiN| dharma no aNuvratI kA avivAhita ke sAtha sabhoga karane kI manAI karatA hai| vivAhita puruSa yA strI, eka ho yA aneka, dharma kI dRSTi meM aNuvratanAzaka nahIM hai / hA~, dharma no manuSya ko pUrNabrahmacarya kI narapha jhukAtA hai isaliye bahupatnItva aura yahupatitva ke sthAna meM eka patitva, ora eka patnItva kA acchA samajhanA hai aura jisakA pracAra adhika sambhava hA usI para adhika jora denA hai| inanA hI nahIM, eka patnItva ke bAda bhI vaha sabhoga kI gekathAma karatA hai| jaise parva ke dina meM viSaya sevana mata karo ! RtusnAna divasa ke sivAya anya divasoM meM mana kage! aadi| muniyoM ke liye jaisA brahmacarya hai ArthikAoM ke liye bhI vaisA hai| brahmacAriyoM ke liye jaisA hai, brahmacAriNiyoM ke liye bhI vaisA hai / bAko puruSoM ke liye jaisA hai, bAkI striyoM ke liye bhI vaisA hai / sAmayika paristhiti ke anumAra puruSoM aura striyoM ne jisa prakAra pAlana kiyA AcAryoM ne unI prakAra usakA ullekha kiyaa| prAcArya no bahupatnItva aura bahupatitva donoM nahIM cAhate the| ve to pUrNabrahmacarya ke poSaka the| agara vaha na ho sake to ekapatitva aura ekapatnItva cAhate the| z2abaradastI se ho yA aura kisI naraha se ho, triyoM meM bahupatitva kI prathA java nahIM thI nava ve usakA ullekha karake pIche khisakane kA mArga kyoM batalAte ? pichale

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( 110 ) jamAne meM jaba vidhavAvivAda kI prathA na rahI yA kama ho gaI taba isa prathA kA ullekha bhI na kiyA gyaa| yadi isI taraha bahupatnItva kI prathA naSTa ho jAtI to zrAcArya isa prathA kA bhI ullekha na karate / mAdhyama jitanA U~cA hojAya utanA hI acchA hai / agara paristhitiyoM ne striyoM kA brahmacaryaviSayaka mAdhyama puruSoM se U~cA kara diyA thA to isase striyoM ke adhikAra nahIM china jAte / kama se kama dharma to unake vi kAroM meM bAdhA nahIM DAlanA / puruSa samAja kA mAdhyama to strI samAja se nIcA hai| isaliye puruSoM ko to striyoM se kucha kahane kA adhikAra hI nahIM haiM / zrava yahA~ eka prazna yaha khar3A hotA hai ki fasarfavAha kA pracAra karake striyoM kA vartamAna mAdhyama kyoM girAyA jAtA hai ? isake kAraNa nimnalikhita hai / ( 1 ) yaha mAdhyama striyoM ke Upara jabaradastI lAdA gayA he, aura lAdane vAle puruSa hai jo ki isa dRSTi se bahuta gaM hue hai | isaliye yaha tyAga kA paricAyaka nahIM kintu dAsatA kA paricAyaka hai / isaliye jaba taka puruSa mamAja isa mAdhyama para calane ko taiyAra nahIM hai taba taka striyoM se jabardastI isa mAdhyama kA palavAnA anyAya hai, aura anyAya kA nAza karanA dharma hai / " ( 2 ) mAdhyama vahI rakhanA cAhiye jisakA pAlana sahUliyata ke sAtha ho sake / pratidina hone vAlI bhrUNahatyAe~ aura prati samaya hone vAle gupta vyabhicAra Adi se patA lagatA hai ki striyA~ isa mAdhyama meM nahIM raha sakatIM / 1 4 ( 3 ) Arthika kaSTa ; ghora apamAna, tathA anya aneka pattiyoM se vaidhavya jIvana meM dharmadhyAna ke badale zrArtadhyAna kI hI pracuratA hai / (4) strI aura puruSa ke mAdhyama meM itanI viSamatA hai J H

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( 111 ) ki puruSasamAja kA aura strIsamAja kA adhaHpatana ho rahA hai / isa samaya donoM kA mAdhyama samAna honA cAhiye / isake liye puruSoM ko bahupatnItva kI prathA kA tyAga karane kI aura triyoM kA vidhavAvivAha kI jarUrata hai| 1 (5) janasaMkhyA kI dRSTi se samAja kA mAdhyama hAnikArI hai / bhAratavarSa meM striyoM kI sarayA kama hai, puruSoM meM bahuvivAha hotA hai, phira phIsadI 17 striyA~ asamaya meM vidhavA ho jAtI hai. isaliye aneka puruSoM ko, vinA strI ke rahanA paDatA hai| unameM se adhikAMza kumArgagAmI ho jAte haiN| agara vidhavAvivAha kA pracAra ho tA yaha kamI pUrI ho sakatI haiM tathA anaka kuTumyoM kA sarvanAza hone se bhI bacAva ho sakatA hai / (6) bahupatitva ra bahupatnItva kI prathA, sImita hAne para itanI vistRta hai ki usameM viSaya vAsanAoM kA nANDava ho sakatA hai| sAmUhika rUpameM isakA pAlana hI nahIM hosakanA isaliye ye donoM prathAe~ tyAjya haiM / kintu zrapatitva aura apasnItva kI prathA itanI sakucita hai ki manuSya unameM paira bhI nahIM pasAra sakatA / aura sAmUhika rUpameM isakA pAlana bhI nahIM hAMsakatA | isaliye kumAra aura kumAriyoM kA vivAha kara diyA jAtA hai / apatitva kI prathA se jisa prakAra kumAriyoM kI hAni ho sakatI hai vahI hAni vidhavAthoM kI hA rahI hai isaliye unake liye bhI kumAriyAM ke samAna ekapatitva prathA kI AvazyakatA hai / jaba ki bahupatnItva aura bahupatitva taka brahmacaryAzuvRta kI sImA hai taba eka panitvarUpa vidhavAvivAha kI prathA, na to aNuvanakI virodhinI hosakatI hai aura na AcAyoM kI zrAnAzrI zAzA pratikula ho sakatI hai / yahA~ pAThaka vidhavA

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(112) vivAha ko bahupatitva kI prathA na samajhe / eka sAtha aneka patiyoM kA rakhanA bahupatitva hai / paka kI mRtyu ho jAne para dusaga pati rakhanA paka patitva hI hai kyoMki isameM eka sAtha bahupati nahIM hote| pAThaka isa lambe vivecana se Uba to gaye hoga, parantu isase "vidhavAvivAha kI zrAzA kauna de?", "pugaNoM meM bahuvivAha kA ullekha pAyA jAnA hai" Adi AkSepoM kA pUrA samAdhAna ho jAtA hai| zAstroMke kathana kI anekAntanA mAlUma ho jAtI hai| sAtha hI brahmacaryANuvata kA rahasya mAluma ho jAtA hai / AkSepakane pakSapAta ke ilz2Ama kA pazutA aura damanIya avicAratA likhA hai / khera, jainadharma to itanA udAra hai ki usapara vinA iljAma lagAye vidhavAvivAha kA samarthana ho jAtA hai / parantu jo loga jainazAstroM ko vidhavAvivAha kA virodhI samajhate hai yA jainazAstroM ke nAma para bane hue. jaina dharma ke viruddha kucha granthoM ko jainazAstra samajhate hai unase hama do do bAteM kara lenA cAhate haiN| ye do bAteM hama apanI tarapha sa nahIM, kintu unake vakIla kI haisiyata se kahate hai jinako AkSepakane pazu batalAyA hai| zrAkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki "nyAya aura siddhAntakI raca. nAe~ guru.parampaga se hai', parantu unameM svakalpita vicAroM kA sammizraNa nahIM huA, yaha nahIM kahA jA sktaa|maannikyndi Adi prAcAryone pramANa ko apUrvAgrAhI mAnA hai aura dhArA. vAhika jJAnako apramANa / parantu prAcArya vidyAnandIne gRhIta. magRhItaM vA svArtha yadi vyavasyati, tatra loka na zAstreSu vija. hAti pramANatAm-kahakara dhArAvAhika ko apramANa nahIM mAnA hai / aisA hI akalaGkadevane likhA hai (dekho zlokavArtika. laghIyastraya, yA nyAyapradIpa) dharmazAstrameM to aura bhI jyAdA

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( 113) andhera hai| raviSeNa kahate haiM ki sItA janaka kI putrI thI / gamako vanavAsa milA thaa| ve ayodhyA meM rahate the| guNabhadra kahate haiM sItA gavaNa kI putrI thI / rAma ko vanavAsa nahIM milA thaa| ve banArasa meM rahate the| donoM kathAnakoM ke sthUla sUkSma aMzAmeM pUrva pazcima kA sA pharaka hai| kyA yaha guruparamparA kA phala hai ? koI lekhaka kahanA hai ki maiM bhagavAna mahA. vIra kA hI upadeza kahatA hai to kyA isIse guruparampaga siddha hogaI ? yadi guruparampaga surakSita rahI tI kathAnakoM meM itanA bheda kyoM ? zrAvakoM ke mUlaguNa kaI taraha ke kyoM ? kyA isa se yaha nahIM mAlUma hotA hai ki aneka lekhakAne dravya kSetra kA. lAdi kI dRSTise aneka taraha kA kathana kiyA hai| anekoM ne jainadharma viruddha aneka lokAcAroM ko jinavANI ke nAma se lisa mAga hai, jaise sAmasena zrAdi bhaTTArakAne yonipUjA Adi kI ghRNita ghAteM likhI hai / isIliye to mokSamArgaprakAza meM likhA hai ki "kAU satyArtha padanika samUharUpa jaina zAstrani viSe amatyArthapada milAvai parantu jina zAstra ke padaniviya tA pAya miTAvane kA ghAlokika kArya ghaTAyane kA prayojana hai| aura uma pApI ne jo asatyArtha pada milAye haiM tini vipai kapAya popane kA vA novika kArya sAdhane kA prayojana hai / pese prayA. jana milatA nAhI, nAteM parIkSA kari zAnI ThigAvate bhI nAhI, koI marsa hoya sohI jaina zAkha nAma kari ThigA hai|" kahiye ! agara guru parampaga meM aisA kacarA yA viSa na mila gayA hotA to kyoM likhA jAtA ki mUrkha hI jaina zAstra ke nAma se ugAye jAte hai / tAtparya yaha hai ki guru paramparA ke nAma para baiThe rahanA mRkhatA hai| jenI ko to koI zAstra tabhI pramANa mAnanA cAhiye jaba vaha jaina siddhAnta se milAna khAtA hai / agara vaha milAna na khAne to zrRta

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( 194) kevanI ke nAma meM hI kyA na likhA gayA ho, una kacare meM DAla denA cAhiye / dhRtoM kI dhRtanA kA chipAnA ghora mithyAtva kA pracAra karanA hai / jaina sihAntoM ke viruddha jAne para bhI aise zAstroM kA mAnanA ghAra mithyAtvI yanajJAnA haiN| garu parampaga hai kahA~ ? zvetAmbara yaha hai ki hamAre mUtra bhagavAna mahAvIra ka kahe hue hai / digambara kahate haiM ki kunda kunda se lekara bhaTTArako aura anya aneka pAMgApandhiyoM naka ke banAye hue anya bIrabhagavAna kI vANI hai| aba kahiye ! kisakI guru parampaga ThIka hai ? yo nA sabhI apane bApa ke gIta gAte haiM parantu inane sahI sanyAsatya kA nirNaya nahIM ho jAtA / yahA~ to guruparampaga ke nAma para makkhI haoNkane baiThA na rahanA par3egA / samasta mAhitya ko mAkSI lekara apanI buddhi se jainadharma ke mUla siddhAnna svAjane paDeMge aura unhoM siddhAntoM kA kalauTI banAkara svarNa aura pInala kI parInA karanA paDegI, aura dhRto nathA pakSapAniyoM kA bhagaDAphoDa karanA pddegaa| yaha kahanA ki "prAcIna lekhakoM meM pakSapAtI dhUrta nahIM hue" bilakula dhokhebAjI yA amAnatA hai| mAnA ki bahuta se lekhakoM ne prApekSika kathana kiyA hai jaisAki imI prakaraNa meM Upara kahA jA cukA hai parantu dhoDe bahuta nire pakSa. pAtI, utsUtravAdI aura kulajAni mada ke pracAraka ghora mithyAtvI bhI hue haiN| agara kisI lekhaka ne yaha liyA ho ki "puruSa to eka sAtha hajAgeM striyA~ rakhane para bhI aNuvratI hai parantu strI, paka pani ke mara jAne para bhI dUsarA pani rakhe no ghora vyabhicAriNI hai usako punarvivAha kA adhikAra hI-nahIM hai" to kyA pakSapAna na kahalAyagA ? pakSapAta ke kyA sIMga hote haiM ? yaha puruSatva kI unmattatA kA tAMDava nahIM to kyA hai ? puruSoM ne zUdra puruSoM ko bhI kucalA hai, isase to

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(115 ) sirpha yahI miDa hotA hai ki unameM puruSaca kI unmattatA ke sAtha dvitantra kI unmattanA bhI thii| "unanaM puruSoM ko bhI kucalA imaliya striyoM ko nahIM kucalA" yaha nahIM kahA jAmakanA / mumannamAna zrApama meM bhI lar3anaM hai, kyA imaliga unakA hinduoM meM na lar3anA mida ho jAnA hai ? kahA jAtA hai ki "unane dugavArI dvijoM kI bhI to nindA kI hai, isaliye va vidugavAra meM hI nindA hai"| yadi aisA hai nA dugacArgahA kI aura dugacAriNI striyoM kI hI nindA karanA cAhiye / strImAtra kI aura zuTa mAtra ko nIcA kyoM divAyA jAtA hai ? amerikA meM apagadhI lAga dagaDa pAne hai aura caMhuna saM isI nAmamAtra ke prAgaya para imaliye jalA diye jAta hai ki zI hai, nA yA yaha ucina hai ? apagatriyoM ko dagaha dene se kyA niraparAdhiyoM kA samAnA jAyaz2a hA jAnA hai ? prAcIna lekhakoM ne agara duganAgiyoM kA kucalA hai nA sirpha isIlie unakA zoka aura striyoM kI kutra. lanA jAyaz2a nahIM pahalA mknaa| yaha panapAna pizAca, uma mamaya bilakula nagA ho jAtA hai jaba durAcArI dvija ke adhikAra, sadAcArI zuddha aura madAnAriNI mahilA se jyAdA samajha jAna hai / duga. vArI dina agara jIna pAlakaoNkI mAra mArakara vAjAya no mI umara muni banane kA zrIra mAna jAne kA adhikAra nahIM chinanA (dekhA padmapurANa moTAna kI kathA ) / parantu gar3ha sninA mI madAcArga kyoM na ho, unakA zrAmavikAsa kitanA hI kyoM na ho gayA hA yaha mugi bhI nahIM bana sktaa| jhUThA, cAhA, vyabhitrArga aura lubhA dvija agara bhagavAna kI pUjA kare nA koI hAni nahIM. parantu zuddha zrArammatyAgI yA uddiSTa tyAgI hI kyoM na ho, vaha jina pUjA karane kA adhikArI

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( 116 ) nahIM | kyA sadAcAra yA cAritra kI yahI prazasA hai ? kyA isI kA nAma ni pakSanA hai ? strI hA yA zUdra ho pratyeka jIva ko UcA se U~cA dharma pAlane kA adhikAra hai| jo unake adhikAroM ko chInate haiM ve sirpha pakSapAnI hI nahIM DAkU hai / manuSya jAti ke duzmana hai / ve cAhe pUrva puruSoM ke vepa meM hAM, cAhe zrAcArya ke pa ma hA~, cAhe aura kimI raMga meM raMge ho, unakA nAma sirfa unake nAma para thUkane ke liye hI lenA cAhiye / pAThaka dekheM ki pakSapAta kA doSa lagAnA satya hai yA nahIM ! hameM yaha vakAlata isaliye karanI paDI hai ki zrAja vuddhi aura viveka se kAma lene vAloM kA bhrama pazu kahA jAtA hai / kauna zrama pazu hai, isakA nirNaya pAThaka hI kareMge / navamA prazna / "vivAha ke binA, kAmalAlasA ke kAraNa jo sakleza pariNAma hote hai, una meM vivAha hone se kucha nyUnatA zrAtI he yA nahIM ?" isa prazna ke uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki saMkleza pariNAmoM ko kama karane ke liye vivAha kiyA jAtA hai aura isa meM bar3I bhArI saphalatA milatI hai| hamane sAgAradharmmA. mRta aura puruSArthasiddhayupAya ke zlokoMse apane pakSa kA sama rdhana kiyA thA / zrakSepaka kaI jagaha to hamAre bhAva ko samajha nahIM pAye aura bAkI jagaha una se uttara nahIM bana par3A / AkSepa (ka) -- jaba vRhmacaryAzrama pUrNa kara yuvA 16 varSa kA hotA hai taba pitAdi usa kA vivAha karate hai / aisI avasthA meM na kisI ke vivAhaka binA saMkleza pariNAma hote hai na kucha hotA hai / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna - kAmalAlasA rUpa saklezake binA kisI kA

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(117 ) vivAha karanA gajavArtika ke lakSaNa ke anusAra vivAha hI nahIM kahalA makatA / jaise jvara na hone para ghara kI auSadhi denA hAnikAraka hai, usI prakAra kAma vAsanAke binA usakA vivAha kara denA hAnikAraka hai / usa se no natrIna kAmajvara paidA ho jaaygaa| khaira, agara 16 varSa ke yavA meM kAmavAsanA nahIM hai to kyA 20-30 varSa ke usa vidhura meM bhI nahIM hai, jA vivAha ke liye apanI sArI zaki lagA rahA hai ? vivAha ke hojAne para yaha thor3I bahuta nizcintanA kA anubhava karatA hai yA nahIM? yahI nizcintanA nA sakleza pariNAmoMkI nyUnatA hai| jima prakAra vidhuravivAhase maMjeza pariNAmoM meM nyUnatA honI hai usa prakAra vidhavAvivAhase bhI makkaiza pariNAmoM meM nyUnatA honI hai, isaliye vidhavAvivAha ge vidheya hai / AkSepa (kha)-jina purupoM ke sarvazA vivAha hone kI zrAzA nahIM hai, una kA kAma naSTa jaisA hojAnA hai| una kI icchA bhI nahIM honI / jaise kisI ne bAlU khAnA chADa diyA no unakA mana pAluproM para nahIM calanA / gatrimeM jalatyAgiyoM ko pyAsa nahIM lagatI / punaH punaH kAma na sevana karane sa kAma nae ho jAtA hai / jima vidhavA kA puruSamA kI AzA nahIM hAnI, usakA mana vikRna nahIM hotaa| samAdhAna--pAkSepa kyA hai, pAgala ke pralApa hai| napu. maka ko vivAha aura kAmabhAMgakI pAzA to nahIM hotI parantu usakI kAmavedanA ko zAstrakAroM ne saba se adhika tIvra banalAyA hai| yadi sAdhana na milane se yahmacarya hone lagatA nI vidhura aura vidhavAoM meM vyabhicAra kyA hotA ? AlU bAha denA eka bAta hai aura bhAlU na milanA dUsarI bAta hai / bRhma carya eka bAta hai aura durbhAgyavaza vidhavA yA vidhura ho jAnA, marI yAna hai / rAtri meM jalatyAgiyoM ko pyAsa nahIM lagatI,

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( 118 ) isakA kAraNa yaha hai ki ve saMdhyA ko hI loTe do loTe pAnI gaTaka jAyA karate hai / ra ! vidhavA hone se jinakI kAmavAsanA naSTa ho jAye unameM vivAha kA anurodha nahIM kiyA jAnA parantu jo kAmavAsanA para vijaya prApta nahIM kara sakatI hai unheM avazya hI vivAha kara lenA cAhiye / zrApa ( ga ) - kAma zAnti ko vivAha kA mukhya ude zya batAnA mUrkhatA hai / zuddha sanmAnotpatti va gRhastha dharma kA dAnAdikArya yahI mukhya uddezya hai / zranapatra kAma gauNa hai, mukhya dharma hI hai / (zrIlAnta ) ..... samAdhAna pika yahA~ itanA pAgala hogayA hai ki use kAma meM aura kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti meM kucha nahI nahIM mAlUma hotA | hamane kAmavAsanA zrI nivRtti ko mukhya phala kahA hai na ki kAma kA / zrara kAmavAsanA kI nivRttitrAM dharmarUpa kahA hai | dharma agara mukhya phala hai to kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti hI mukhya phala kahalAyI / isameM virodha kyA hai ? putrAM tpatti Adi ko mukhyaphala kahane ke pahile prakSepaka gara hamAre ina zabdoM para dhyAna detA to use isa taraha nirgata ---- pralApa na karanA paDatA f mAna lIjiye ki kisI manuSya meM munivRta dhAraNa karane kI pUrNa yogyatA hai / aisI hAlata meM agara vaha kisI zrAcArya ke pAsa jAve tA ve use muni banane kI salAha deMge yA zrAvaka bana kara putrotpatti kI salAha deMge" ? yaha kaha kara hamane amRtacandra zrAcArya ke tIna zloka uddhRta karake batalAyA thA ki aisI avasthA meM AcArya muni cUta kA hI upadeza deMge / munivRtta dhAraNa karane se bacce paidA nahIM ho sakate, parantu kAmalAlasA kI pUrNa nivRtti hotI hai| isase mAlUma hotA hai ki jainadharma bacce paidA karane para jora nahIM

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( 196) denA, kintu kAmalAlamA kI nivRtti para jora detA hai| pUrNa nivRtti meM asamartha hone para prAMzika nivRtti ke niyaM vivAha hai / ulama santAna prAdi ko bhI pUrti ho jAtI hai / parantu mukhya uddezya nI kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti hI rahA / amRtacaMdra ka padyAne gaha viSaya bilakula spaSTa kara diyA hai| phira bhI zrApa ko padyoM kI upayogitA samajha meM nahIM pAnI / ThIka hai, samajhane kI amla mI to cAhiye / AkSepa (gha)-vivAhako gRhampAzramakA mUla kara dharma, artha, kAma rUpa no niyata kara diyA, parantu isame zrApa hA zappaDa khAlI / jaya kAma gRhasthAzrama rUpa hai naya uma kI zAnti kNe? pAma zAnti sa no gRhasthAzrama uDhanA hai / kAma nivRtti dharma grora pravRttiko kAma kahanA kaisA? paviSaya meM yaha kalpanA kyA? aura artha ima kA mAdhaka kyA ? phala nAM vivAha ke tIna hai, unaTA artha mAyakSa kyA pahA? mAdhya ko sAyaka yanATiyA? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-yahA~ no zrApaka bilakula ekAvarakA ho gayA hai| isaliye hamAre na kahane para bhI umane kAma ko gRhamyAzramakapa samajha liyA hai| kAma ko pUrNarUpa meM zAnti ho jAya nA gRhamyAzrama uha jAyagA aura muniyAdhama paajaaygaa| agara kAma kI nivRtti jaga bhI na ho nAM bhI gRhasthAzrama uDa jAyagA, kyoti premI hAlana meM vahA~ vyabhicArAdi doSoM kA dogdoga ho jAyagA / agara kAma kI AMzika niyatti ho arthAt pAdAra viSayaka kAma kI, nivRttirupa myahAra mannApa ho nA gRhasthAzrama banA rahatA hai| zrApaka pemA jaDyudikA dhAnepakane pene hI kaTaka aura eka vacanAtma zabdoM kA jahA~ nahA~ prayoga kiyA hai| isaliye hameM bhI "zaTam prati

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( 120 ) hai ki yaha abhI taka yaha nahIM samajha pAyA hai ki kAmavAsanA kI bhAMzika nivRttikA matalaba khadArasantopa yA svapanisantApa hai| jo loga svadAgsantoSa ko vivAha kA mukhya phala nahIM mAnate ve jainadharma se bilakula anamiza nire vuddha hai / vecArA / zrIlAla, kAma nivRtti arthAt paradAra nivRtti yA parapuruSanivRtiko dharma, aura svadArapravRttiko kAma kahanemeM cakita hotA hai| bAhare zrIlAla ke pANDitya ! gRhasthAzrama, dharma artha kAma tInoM kA sAdhaka hai, parantu una tInoM meM bhI paraspara sAdhya sAdhakatA ho sakatI hai| jaise- dharma, artha kAma kA sAdhaka hai, artha, kAmakA sAdhaka hai zrAdi / khaira, hamAga kahanA itanA hI hai ki kumArI vivAha ke jo jo phala hai ve saba vidhavA vivAhase bhI milate haiM, isaliye vidhavAvivAha bhI vidheya hai / AkSepa (Ga)-jo puruSa viSayoM ko na choDa sake vaha gRhasthadharma dhAraNa kare / yahA~ viSaya zabda se kevala kAma kI hI sUjhI! (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-viSaya to pA~cau indriyoM ke hote hai, parantu una saba meM yaha pradhAna hai| kyoMki isakA jItanA sabase adhika kaThina hai| jisane kAma ko jIta liyA use anya viSayoM ko jItane meM kaThinAI nahIM pdd'tii| isaliye kAma kI maryAdA karane vAlA eka svatantra aNuvrata kahA gayA hai| anya mAgopabhoga sAmagriyoM ke vrata ko to guNavrata yA zikSAvata meM DAla diyA hai / usakA sAticAra pAlana karate hue bhI vatI raha sakatA hai, parantu brahmacaryANuvrata meM aticAra lagane se khUna pratimA naSTa ho jAtI hai / kyA isase saba viSayoM meM kAma viSaya kI pradhAnatA nahIM mAlUma hotI ? grandhakAroM ne isa zAdhyamAcaret" isa nIti ke anusAra aisA hI prayoga karanA par3A hai| -svysaacii|

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( 121 ) pradhAnatA kA spaSTa ullekha kiyA hai 'viSayAn iSTakAminyAdIn ' - sAgAradharmAmRta TIkA / kyA isase kAma kI pradhAnatA nahIM mAlUma hotI ? vivAha ke prakaraNa meM to yaha pradhAnatA aura bhI adhika mAnanIya hai, kyoMki kAma viSaya ko sImita karane (zrAMzika nivRtti) ke liye hI vivAha kI zyAvazyakatA | rasanendriya ghrANendriya zrAdi ke viSayoM ko sImita karane ke liye vivAha kI jarUrata nahIM hai| vivAha ke binA anya indriyA~ ucca khala nahIM hotIM, sirpha yahI indriya ucchRMkha hotI hai / isaliye mAgAndharmAmRta TIkA meM paravivAha karaNa nAma ke aticAra kI vyAkhyA meM patra patroM ke vivAha kI Ava zyakatA lAte hue kahA hai ki 'yadi kanyAnivAdA na kAryate tadA svandacAriNo syAt tatazca kulasamagrattokavirodhaH syAt vinivivAhAtu patiniyatastrItvena na tathA syAt / papa nyAyaH putre'pi vikalpanIyaH' arthAt 'agara apanI putrI kA vivAha na kiyA jAyagA to vaha svacchandacAriNA ho jAyagI, parantu vivAha kara dene se vaha eka pati meM niyata ho jAyagI / isaliye svacchandacAriNI na hogI / yahI bAta putra ke liye bhI samajha lenA cAhiye arthAt vivAha se vaha svacchandanArI na hogA' / yahA~ putra putrI ke liye bAta kahI gaI hai vaha vidhavA putrIke liye bhI lAgU hai / zrakSepaka meM agara thoDI jo kala hogI to vaha ina pramANoM se samajha sakegA ki vivAha kA mukhya uddezya kyA hai, aura vaha vidhavAvivAha se bhI pUrNa rUpameM siddha hotA hai / sAgAradharmAmRta ke isa ullekha se zrAkSepa nambara 'ka' kA bhI samAdhAna hotA hai / AkSepa (ca ) -- samAja kI apekSA se santAnotpatti ko mukhya batalAnA bhUla hai / samAja meM 1-2 laTake na hue na

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(122) sahI, parantu vivAha vAle ke na hue no TamakA no ghara ho caupaTa hai| samAdhAna-tyAga ke gauna gAne vAloM kI yahA~ pAla gvula gii| unake DhAMgA kA bhagaDAphoDa hogyaa| are mAI! ghara, gRhiNI ko kahate he gRhaM hi gRhiNImA:-mAgAradharmAmRna / laDakA na hone se na gRhiNI maregI, na gRhI maregA, na dAnoM ke brahmacaryANuvana meM bAdhA zrAyagI, na mahAvana dhAraNa karane kA adhikAra china jAyagA / manuSya jIvana ke jo vAstavika uddezya haiM unakA papha bhI mAdhana naSTa na hogaa| kyA imI kA nAma caupaTa ho jAnA hai ? yanAvaTI dharma ke veSa meM gge dae DhoMgiyoM ! kyA yahI tumhAga jIvana maryasva hai? hA~, mannAna ke na hone se samAja kI hAni hai. kyoMki samAja mokSa nahIM jAtI na muni banatI hai / agara vaha muni bana jAya to naSTa ho jAya / eka eka do do milakara hI to samAja hai / santAna ke abhAva meM samAja naTa ho sakatI hai, parantu santAna ke prabhAva meM vyakti to mokSa taka jAmakatA hai| zraya samajho ki manlAna kisake liye mukhya phala kahalAyA ? kyA inane mpaTa pramANa ke rahate hue bhI tumhArA mukhya gauNa kA prazna banA huA hai ? AkSepa (cha)-kumArI aura vidhavA ko strI samAna samajhakara mamAna karttavya bananAnA bhUla hai / mAtA yahina vadhU sabhI strI hai, parantu vahina mAtA abhAjya hai, vadhU bhojya hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-bhojya-bhojaka sambandha kI nIca aura barvara kalpanAkA hama samAdhAnakara cuke haiN| jo hamArI bahina hai vaha hamAre bahineu kI vahina nahIM hai / jo hamArI mAtA hai vaha hamAre pitA ko mAnA nahIM hai / hamArI vadhR dUsare kI vadhU nahIM hai / isaliye yaha bhojyAbhojyatA ApekSika hai / sarvathA

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( 123 ) abhAjyatA kisI meM nahI hai / bahina mAtA Adi ye nAtedArI ke zabda hai, isaliye nAtedArI ko apetA se inakI bhojyAbhA. jyatA kI kalpanA kI hai| kumArI aura vidhavA ye avasthA. vizeSa ke zabda hai, imaliye inakI bhAjyAbhAjyatA avasthA ke Upara nirbhara hai| jayanA kumArI yA vidhavA hai taba taka amojya he jaya usa kamArI yA vidhavA kA vivAha ho jAyagA taba vaha bhojya hojAyagI / bhojya to badhU hai, phira bhale hI vaha kumArI rahI ho yA vidhavA / mAtRtva aura bhaganItva sambandha janma se magaNa taka sthAyI hai / kaumArya aura vaidhavya aise sambandha nahIM haiN| unako badalakara vadhU kAmambandha sthApita kiyA jAtA hai| strI hone se hI koI bhojya nahIM hojAtI, vadhU hone se bhojya hotI haiN| mAtRtva, bhaganItva amiTa hai, kaumArya aura vaidhavya zramiTa nahIM hai / imaliye mAtA aura bhaginI ke sAtha vivAha nahIM kiyA jAsakatA kintu kumArI yA vidhavA ke mAtha kiyA jA sakatA hai / Apaka ke bhAkSepako agara hama vidhura. vivAha niSetra ke liye lagAve to Apaka kyA uttara DhaMgA ? dekhiye-pAtapa-"kumAra aura vidhura ko puruSa mamAna mamajhakara samAna kartavya batalAnA bhUla hai / pitA, bhAI, pani sabhI puruSa hai, parantu bhAI aura pinA abhojya hai, pani mAjya hai"| zrAnapaka ke pAsa isakA kyA uttara hai ? vahI uttara use vidhavAoM ke liye lagA lenA cAhiye / AkSepa (ja)-vidhavAvivAha ke pakSapAtI bhI apane ghara kI vidhavAoM ke nAma para muMha sakoDa lete hai| samAdhAna-yaha koI Avazyaka nahIM hai ki pratyeka vidhavA kA vivAha jarUra karanA caahiye| agara koI vidhavA vivAha nahIM karanA cAhatI to sudhAraka kA yaha kartavya nahIM hai ki vaha z2abardastI vivAha karadeM / jabardastI vivAha karane kA

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( 124 ) rivAja to nAdirazAha ke avatAra sthitipAlakI ke ghara meM hotA hai| agara vAstava meM kisI sudhAraka meM apane ghara meM prAtrazyaka hone para bhI vidhavAvivAha ko kAryarUpa meM pariNata karane kI zakti nahIM hai to usakI yaha kamajorI hai / vaha naiSTika sudhA. gka nahIM hai, sirpha pAkSika sudhAraka hai / jima prakAra pAnika zrAvakoM ke hone se naiSTika zrAvakoM kA prabhAva nahIM kahA jA sakatA aura na veniTanIya ho sakate haiM, umI naraha pAkSika sudhArakoM ke hone sa naiSThika sudhArakoM kA prabhAva nahIM kahA jAsakatA aura na unakI niMdA kI jAsakatI hai| AkSepa (jha)-vidhavAvivAha yUrupiyano eva mohamaDanoM (musalamAnoM) meM bhI anivArya nahIM hai, kyoMki yaha nIca prathA haiN| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna yoropa meM no kumArI aura kumAroM kA vivAha bhI anivArya nahIM hai / phraoNsa meM to isa kaumArya kA rivAja itanA bar3ha gayA hai ki vahA~ janasaMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai| dUsare dezoM meM bhI kaumArya kA kAphI rivAja hai| isaliye vivAha bhI eka nIca prathA kahalAI / zrAkSapaka ko abhI kucha mAlama hI nahIM hai / vidhavAvivAha anivArya na hone ke kaI kAraNa hai / eka kAraNa yaha hai ki vidhavA aura vidhura hote hote kisI kA AdhA jIvana nikala jAtA hai va kisI kA tIna caturthAMza yA isase bhI jyAdA jIvana nikala jAtA hai, aise logoM ko isakI AvazyaktA kA kama anubhava hotA hai| isaliye ve loga vivAha nahIM krte| nIcatA ke Dara se vahA~ vidhavAvivAha nahIM rukte| agara kisI jagaha vidharavivAha nIca prathA nahIM kahalAtA aura vidhavAvivAha nIca prathA kahalAtA hai to isase sirpha itanA hI siddha

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(125 ) hotA hai ki vahA~ ke loga nIva mithyAtvI, ghora atyAcArI, mahAn pakSapAtI aura atyanta maDhAMca haiN| ina durgaNoM kA anukaraNa karake jainiyoM ko aile madAMdha pApI kyoM bananA cAhiye? Apa (Ja) laoNrDa ghaganoM meM kanaI vidhavAvivAha nahIM hotA / vidhavAvivAha se ucca nIca kA bheda na rhegaa| mamAdhAna-laoNrDa ghagane kA matalaba zrImanta dhagane me hai / laoNrDa koI jAti nahIM hai| sAdhAraNa zrAdamI bhI zrImanna aura maharddhika banakara laoNrDa bana sakate hai / ina bhava meM vidhavA vivAha hotA hai| hA~ sAdhAraNa vidhavAoM ko apanA laoNrDa ghagane kI vidhavAe~ kucha kama sakhyA meM vivAha karAtI haiN| yaha uccatA nIcanA kA prazna nahIM, kintu sAmpattika prazna hai / laoNrDa ghagane kI apAra sampatti chor3akara vivAha kaganA unheM ucina nahIM jaeNcanA / jinheM jeMcanA hai ve vivAha kaga hI lenI hai| dakSiNa ke DeDha lAkha jainiyoM meM, AryasamAjiyoM meM, brahmasamA. jiyoM meM, vidhavAvivAha honA hai parantu ve bhaMgI camAra nahIM kahalAte / / AkSepa (Ta)-sUrajamAna kA jIvadayA kI pukAra macA. kara vidhavAvivAha ko kartavya banalAnA anucita hai / jIvadayA dharma hai, na ki zarIra dayA / mandira banavAnA dharma hai aura pyAU lagavAne se adharma hai| agara koI vyabhicAriNI kAmabhikSA mA~ge to vaha nahIM dI jaasktii| jo dayA dharmavaddhi kA kAraNa hai, vahIM vAstavika dayA hai| (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-becArA AkSepaka dAna ke bhedoM ko bhI na samajhA / use jAnanA cAhiye ki AtmaguNoM kI unnati ko lakSya meM lekara jo dAna diyA jAtA hai vaha pAtradAna hai, na ki dayAdAna / DhayAdAna no zarIra ko lakSya meM lekara ho diyA'

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( 126) jAtA hai. phira bhale hI usase dharma kiyA jAya yA na kiyA jAya / zrApaka pyAU lagavAne ko adharma kahatA hai, parantu sAgAradharmAmRta meM pyAU aura satra ko sthApita karane kA upa. deza diyA gayA hai "satramapyanukampyAnAM sRjedanujighRkSayA / satramatrapradAnasthAnaM, apizabdAtprapAMca" // arthAt-dIna prANiyoM ke upakAra kI icchA se satra (bhojanazAlA jahA~ garIvoM ko muphta meM bhojana karAyA jAtA hai ) aura pyAU khole / dAna, gRhasthoM kA mukhya kartavya hai / jaba AkSepaka dAna ke viSaya kA sAdhAraNa jJAna bhI nahIM rakhatA to gRhasthadharma kaise nimAtA hogA ? jo gRhastha pyAsoM ko pAnI pilAne meM bhI adharma samajhatA hai vaha nirdaya tathA kara jIva jainI kaise kahalA sakatA hai ? / vyabhicAriNi ko kAmabhikSA nahIM dI jAsakatI, parantu zrAkSepaka ke matAnusAra vyabhicAriyoM ko kAmamikSA dI jA sakatI hai, kyoMki agara dvitIya vivAha karAne vAlI strI vyabhicAriNI hai, to dvitIya vivAha karAne vAlA puruSa bhI vyabhicArI hai ! kyA puruSa kA dUsarA vivAha dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai ? yadi hA~, to strI kA dUsarA vivAha mI dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai, jisakI siddhi pahile vistAra se kI jA cukI hai| jo cAra cAra striyoM ko nigalajAne vAle ko to dharmA. smA samajhatA ho, kintu punarvivAha karane vAlI striyoM ko vyabhicAriNI kahatA ho, usakI dhRSTatApUrNa nIcatA kA kucha ThikAnA bhI hai ! AkSepaka svIkAra karatA hai aura hama bhI kaha cuke haiM ki vivAhakA lakSya kAmazAnti, khadArasantoSa, sva-patisantoSa ' arthAt brahmacaryANuvrata hai| vivAha kAmabhikSA nahIM hai| kyA

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(127 ) AkSepaka apanI bahina beTiyoM ke vivAha ko kAmabhikSA samajhatA hai ? yadi nahIM, to vidhavAzrI ke vivAha ko kAmabhikSA nahIM kaha sakate / vidhavAnI kA vivAha dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai, yaha bAta hama pahile siddha kara cuke haiN| AkSepa (Tha)-vivAha se kAmalAlasA ghaTatI hai, isa kA eka bhI pramANa nahIM diyA / vivAha hone para bhI kAmalAlasA naTa nahIM huI, ulTo bar3hI hai, jaise rAvaNAdika kii| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-pAvAlagopAla prasiddha vAtako zAstra pramANoM kI z2arUrata nahIM honI / phira bhI pramANa cAhiye to AzAdhara jI ke ina zabdoM para dhyAna dIjiye ki agara putra putrI kA vivAha na kiyA jAyagA tA ve svacchandacArI hA jAyeMge (dekho prAkSapa 'Ga) / vivAha se agara kulasamayalAkavirodhI yaha mvacchandAcAra ghaTatA hai to yaha kyA kAmalAlasA kA ghaTanA na kahalAyA? vivAha hone para mI agara kisI kI kAmalAlasA naSTa nahIM hotI to isake liye hama kaha cuke haiM ki upAya 100 meM dasa jagaha asaphala bhI hotA hai| tIrthadaroM ke upadeza rahane para bhI agara abhavya kA uddhAra na ho, sUrya ke rahane para bhI agara ullU ko na dikhe to isameM tIrthaGkara kI yA sUrya kI upayogitA naTa nahIM hotI hai| isI taraha vivAha ke hone para agara kisI kA durAcAra na ruke to isase usakI upayogitA kA prabhAva nahIM kahA jA sakatA / AkSapaka ne yahA~ vyabhicAra doSa dikhalAkara nyAyanabhijJatA kA paricaya diyA hai| isa dRSTi se to tIrthadara aura sUrya kI upayogitA bhI vyamicarina kahalAI / zrAkSepaka ko jAnanA cAhiye ki kAraNa ke sadbhAva meM kArya ke prabhAva hone para vyabhicAra nahIM hotA, kintu kArya ke sadbhAvameM kAraNa ke prabhAva hone para vyabhi

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( 128 ) cAra hotA hai / ani kAraNa hai, parantu usake hone para bhI agara sa nikale to ni aura dhunoM kA kArya kAraNabhAva vyabhiafta nahIM kahalAtA | hamane isI bAta ke samarthana meM kahA thA ki "cikitsA karane para bhI loga marate hai, zAstrI hone para bhI loga dharma nahIM samajhate" / isa para Apa kahate hai ki "vaha cikitsA nahIM, cikitsAbhAsa hai, vaha zAstrI, zAstrI nahIM hai" / bahuta ThIka, hama bhI kahate hai ki jisa vivAha ke bAda kAma lAlasA zAnta nahIM huI, kintu baDhI hai, vaha vivAha nahIM, citrAhAbhAsa hai | vAstavika vivAha to kAmalAlasA ko avazya zAMta kregaa| isaliye vidhavAvivAha se bhI kAmalAlasA kI zAMti hotI hai / AkSepa (Da) - yaha koI niyama nahIM ki vivAha ke binA pratyeka vyakti ko dekhakara pApavAsanA jAgRta ho jAya / vAsupUjya kalaGka Adi ke vivAha nahIM hue| kyA sabhI zrasayamI the ? - samAdhAna - kAmalAlasA kI aAMzika zAMti ke lie vivAha eka auSadhi hai / vAsupUjya yAdi brahmacArI the| unameM kAmalAlasA thI hI nahIM, isaliye unheM vivAha kI bhI jarU rata nahIM thI / "amuka zrAdamI saqhta bImAra hai| agara usakI cikitsA na hogI to marajAyagA " - isa ke uttara meM agara yaha kahA jAya ki - vaidya ke pAsa to sau dosau AdamI jAte haiM, bAqI kyoM nahIM marajAte ? to kyA yaha uttara ThIka hogA ? are bhAI ! bImAra ko zrauSadhi cAhiye, nIrogako auSadhi nahIM cAhiye | isI taraha kAmalAlasA vAle manuSya ko usa kI zrAMzika zAMti ke lie vivAha kI AvazyakatA hai, na ki brahma* cArI ko / isase eka bAta yaha bhI siddha hotI hai ki vivAha kA mukhya uddezya laDake bacce nahIM haiM / bAlabrahmacAriyoM ke

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( 129) santAna nahIM hotI, phira bhI ve vivAha nahIM krte| kyoMki unhoMne vivAha kA mukhya uddezya vivAha ke binA hI pUrNa kara liyA hai| mukhya uddezya kI pUrti hone para gauNa uddezya kI pUrti ke liye kArya nahIM kiyA jaataa| AkSepa (8)-kAmavAsanA ke zAnta na hone ke kAraNa vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI, vidhavAvivAhakA virodha nahIM karate, kintu unase vigaMdha karAne kA kAraNa hai bhagavAna mahAvIra kA pAgama | Apa uttara de| Apake pramANa hameM jaeNce to hama prApa ke Andolana meM ApakA hAtha bttaayeNge| mamAdhAna-navamaoN prazna bhagavAna ke Agama ke vicAra kA nahIM thaa| usakA vicAra to pahile praznoM meM acchI taraha hogyaa| isameM to yaha pachAgayA hai ki vivAhase kAmalAlasA ke pariNAmoM meM nyUnatA pAtI hai yA nahIM ? yadi pAtI hai to vidhavAvivAha zrAvazyaka aura ucita hai / yadi nahIM AtI to vidhavAvivAha anAvazyaka hai| isIliye hamane yukti aura zAstra pramANoM se siddha kiyA hai ki vivAha se saklezatA kamatI hotI hai| yukti aura tarka ke calapara hamAre aAndolana meM vahI zAmila hogA jo matyapriya hAMgA, prAtmoddhAra kA icchuka hogA, dezasamAja kA rakSaka hogA / savyasAcI, Take ke gulAmoM kI parvAha nahIM krtaa| jisa prakAra prAcIna savyasAcI ne kRSNa kA bala pAkara apane gAgaDIva dhanupa se nikale hue vANA se kaurava dala kA avasAna kiyA thA usI prakAra Adhunika savyasAcI bhagavAna mahAvIra kA cala pAkara apana zAna gAgaDIva se nikale hue tarUpo vANoM se sthitipAlaka dala kA avasAna kregaa| AkSepa (Na) sanyasAcI mahodaya kI dRSTi meM vyamicAra ko rokane kA upAya vivAhamArga ko ur3AnA hai / Apako

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(130) kucha hoza bhI hai ki zrApa Upara papA kucha likha pAya ! pahile usa jalAkara gyAka para DAlo naya marI thAna krnaa| samAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki "yami vivAha hone para bhI kinhIM logoM kI kAmayAmanA zAnna nAhIMnI nA same vidhavAvivAda kA niSedha kameko mAnA phiranI vivAha mAtra phA niSedha honA caahiye|' pATaka, de dimAgamA vaktavya yA vivAha mArga ko uDAne kA hai ?manI vidhavA. vivAha aura kumAge vivAda donoM ke samartha hai| parantu jo loga jisa kAraNa se vidhavAvivAda anAvazyaka samajhate hai, unheM umI kAraNa R kumArganiyAda bhI anAvazyaka mAnanA paDegA / zramalI yAta to yaha mizagara zimI jagaha vivAda (kumArIvidyAha yA vidhavAvivAra) kA phanna na mile to kyA vivAhaprathA uDA denA cAhiye ? hamArA kahanA hai ki nahIM uDAnA cAhiye / jaba ki zAkSapakAnA hai, ki uDA denA cAhiye, kyoMki zrAkSepaka ne vidhavAvivAha kI prathA uDA dene ke liye usakI nimphAlanA kA jikara kiyA hai / aisI niSphalatA kumArI vivAha meM meM ho sakatI hai, isaliye AkSepaka ka kathanAnusAra vaha prathA bhI uDA dene lAyaka hrii| AkSepa (ta)- AdipugaNa, mAgAradharmAmRta, pa0 medhAvI, paM0 udayalAlajI, zItalaprasAdajI, dayAcanda gAyalIya Adi ne putrotpatti ke liye hI, vivAha kAmabhoga kA vidhAna kiyA hai, kAmavAsanA kI pUrti ko kAmukatA batalAyA hai| samAdhAna-kAmalAlasA kI pUrti kAmukatA bhale hI ho parantu kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti kAmukatA nahIM hai / mvanIramaNa ko kAmakatA bhale hI kahA jAya. parantu parastrItyAga kAmakatA nahIM hai| yaha kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti hai| hamane zAkhapramANoM se siddha kara diyA hai ki pUrNa brahmacarya pAlana karane kI prasa.

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( 131) marthanA meM hI gRhasya dharma aGgIkAra karanA cAhiye / amRtacaMdra jI aura pAzAdharajI ke zloka hama likha cuke hai / phira bhI Adapaka kA pUchanA hai ki pramANa batAo ! khaira, aura bhI pramANa liijiye| sAgAradharmAmRna ke dvitIya adhyAya kA prathama zloka"tyAjyAnajana" prAdi pahile hI likhA jA cukA hai / 'yadi kanyA vivAho na kAryate' Adi uddharaNa zrAkSapa (Da) meM dekhaa| 'viSayasukhopabhogenaiva cAritramohodayodesya zakyapratIkAratvAt tadvAreNaiva tammADhavAtmAnamiva sAdharmikamapi viSayebhyo nyuparamayet / viSayeSu sukhabhrAntikarmAbhimunapAkajAm / hitvAtadupagogena tvAjayettAmbavatparAn / ' arthAt-cAritramoha kA jaya tIva udaya hotA hai to viSayasumna ke upabhoga se hI usakA pratIkAra (nivRtti) ho sakatA hai, isaliye unakA upabhoga karaka nivRtta ho aura dUsare ko nivRtta kre| sukhabhrAnti haTAne kA yaha vaktavya vivAha kI AvazyakatA ke liye kahA gayA hai / ra, aura bhI aise pramANa diye jAsakate haiM / nivRttimArgapradhAna jainadharmameM nivRttiparaka pramANoM kI kamI nahIM hai / yahA~ para mukhya bAta hai mamanvaya kI, arthAt jaba vivAha kA uddezya kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti arthAt prAMzika brahmacarya hai taba putrotpatti kA ullekha prAcIna lekhakoM ne kyoM kiyA ? nAsamajha logoM se to kyA kahA jAya, parantu samajhadAra samajhate haiM ki putrotpattikA ullekha bhI kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti ke liye hai / jainadharma prathama to kahatA hai ki pUrNa brahmacarya paalo| agara itanA na ho sake to vivAha karake AMzika nivRtti (pagdAranivRtti) karI / parantu lakSya to pUrNa nivRtti hai isaliye dhIre dhIre usake nivRtti-aMza bar3hAye jAte

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( 132 ) haiM aura usase kahA jAnA hai ki tumheM santAna ke liye hI sambhoga karanA cAhiye / jaba usakA yaha bAta samajha meM zrA jAtI hai taba vaha RtusnAna ke dina hI kAma sevana karatA hai / isa taraha prati mAsa 26 dina usaka brahmacarya se zrInane lagate haiM / zrAcAryoM ne paradAranivRtti ke bAda svastrI-sambhoga-nivRtti kA bhI yathAsAdhya vidhAna banalAyA hai| isaliye kahA hai " santA nArthamRtAveva" / arthAt santAna ke liye RtukAlama ho sevana kare / isase pAThaka samajha gaye hoMge ki santAna kI bAta bhI kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti ko baDhAne ke liye hai / zrAcAryoM ne jahAM santAna ke utpAdana, lAlana, pAlana zrAdi kI bAteM likhI hai usakA prayojana yahI hai ki "jaba tuma AMzika pravRtti aura prAMzika nivRtti ke mArga meM Aye ho to paropakAra Adi gauNa uddezoM kA bhI khayAla rakho, kyoMki ye kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti rUpa mukhya uddeza ko bar3hAne vAle haiM, sAtha hI paropakAra rUpa bhI hai / " yadi annaprApti kA mukhya uddezya siddha ho gayA hai tA bhI bhUsA kI prApti kA gauNa uhezya bhI choDane yogya nahIM hai / AkSepa (tha) - kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti to vezyAsevana, parastrIsevana se bhI ho sakatI hai, phira vivAha kI AvazyakatA hI kyA ? samAdhAna --- kAmalAlasA ke jisa aMzakI nivRtti karanA hai, vaha vezyA sevana aura parastrIsevana hI haiN| isI kAmalAlasA se bacane ke liye to vivAha hotA hai| isase vivAha kA lakSya zrAMzika brahmacarya yA svadArasannopa kaise siddha ho sakatA hai ? isase pAThaka samajheMge ki hamAre kathanAnusAra vivAha maje ke liye nahIM hai, parantu tIvra cAritra moha ke udaya ko zAMta karane ke liye peyopadhi ke samAna kucha bhoga bhogane paDate hai jaisA

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( 133 ) ki amRnacandra zrAcArya aura AzAdharajI ne kahA hai, jo ki hama likha cuka hai / strIpuruSa ka adhikAra bheTa ke viSaya meM kahA jA cukA hai| vidhavAvivAha ko jahara Adi kahanA yakti se jInane para gAliyoM para zrAjAnA hai| AkSepa (da)-yadi vivAha se hI kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti mAnalI jAya to brahmacarya prAdi vratoM kI kyA AvazyakatA hai, kyoMki brahmacarya kA bho nI kAma kI niyutti ke liye upadeza hai? samAdhAna-abhI taka bhAra kAmalAlamA kI nivRtti ko burA samajhane the| isake samarthakoM ko Apane pAgala, mohI, nityanigAMdiyA (nigodiyA), jJAnI, raha, nAte pATi likha mArA thA / yahA~ Apane ise brahmacarya kA sAdhya banA diyA hai| saMga, kucha to ThikAne para zrAe / aba unanA aura samajha lIjiye ki vivAha, brahmacarya mAvata kA mukhya sAdhaka hai| imaliye vivAha aura brahmacaryatrata ke lakSya meM koI virodha nahIM hai / brahmacaryavana antarajasAdhaka hai, vivAha vAghamAdhaka, isa liye koI nirarthaka nahIM hai| eka sAdhya ke aneka sAdhaka hote hai| AkSepa (gha)-jinakI kAmalAlasA prayala hai, ve binA upadeza ke hI svayameva isa patha ko pakaDa lenI haiN| phira Apa kyoM apanA ahita karate hai ? samAdhAna-jinakI kAmalAlasA prabala hai, ve abhI khaya. meva vidhavAvivAha ke mArga ko nahIM pakar3atI, ve vyabhicAra ke mArga ko pakaDatI hai / usako nivRtti ke liye vidhavAvivAha ke aAndolana kI jarUrata hai| vivAha na kiyA jAye no kumAriyA~ bhI apanA mArga hu~Dha leMgI, lekina vaha vyabhicAra kA mArga hogA / isaliye loga unakA vivAha kara dene haiM / phala yaha

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(134) hotA hai ki vyabhicAra mArga bahuta kucha ruka jAtA haiM / ThIka yahI bAta vidhavAoM ke liye hai| dasavA~ prazna 'kyA vidhavA ho jAne se hI Ajanma brahmacarya pAlana kI zakti AjAtI hai ? isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki 'nhiiN'| dUsare AkSepaka (vidyAnanda) ne bhI hamArI yaha bAta svIkAra karalI hai parantu pahile Ane paka kahate hai ki yaha dhRSTatA hai| isakA matalaba yaha nikalA ki saMsAra meM jitanI vidhavA huI hai ve saba vyabhicAriNI hai| zrAkSapaka kI isa mUrkhatA ke liye kyA kahA jAya ? pratyeka vidhavA brahmacarya nahIM pAla sakatI hai-isakA to yahI artha hai ki koI koI pAla sakatI hai, jinake pariNAma ciraktirUpa ho| isaliye hamane likhA thA ki yaha vAta pariNAmoM ke Upara nirbhara hai / parantu zrIlAla, na to pariNAmoM kI bAta samajhA, na usa vAkya kA matalava / zrIlAla yaha bhI kahatA hai-'sarAgatA se muni meM bhraSTatA nahIM AtI, na para puruSa se ramaNarUpa bhAva se vidhavA bhraSTa hotI hai| hama apane zabdoM meM isakA uttara na dekara AkSapaka ke parama sahayogI pa0 makkhanalAla ke vAkyoM meM likhate haiM:. "sarAgatA se vidhavAeM zIlabhraSTa jarUra khlaayeNgii| muni bhI sarAgatA se bhraSTa mAnA jAtA hai / " aba ye donoM dosta Apasa meM nibaTa leN| donoM hI zrAkSa pakoM ne eka hI bAta para vizeSa jora diyA hai| "vidhavAvivAha adharma hai; usako koI tIsarA mArga nahIM hai, vidhavA kA vivAha nahIM ho sakatA, use vivAha nahIM, karAva yA dharejA kahate haiM / Apa ke pAsa kyA yakti pramANa hai ? Apa apanI icchA se hI vidhavAvivAha kA upadeza kyoM

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(135) karane ho?" zrAdi / ina saba bAnoM kA uttara pahile acchI naraha diyA jA cukA hai| aba vArabAra uttara dene kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| hA~, aba do zrApa raha jAte haiM jinakA uttara denA hai| inameM anya prAkSepoM kA bhI samAveza ho jAtA hai| AkSepa (ka) pratyeka manuSya meM to zarAba ke tyAgane kI zakti kA pragaTa honA bhI anivArya nahIM hai naba kyA zarAya pI lenA cAhiye ? samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha kI jaisI aura jinanI upayo. gitA hai vaisI yadi zagava kI bhI ho to pI lenA caahiye| (1) vidhavAvivAha parastrIsevana yA parapuruSasevana se bacAtA hai| isaliye aNuvana kA sAdhaka hai| kyA zarAba aNuvana kA sAdhaka haiM ? (2) vidhavAvivAha se bhra rAhatyA rukatI hai| kyA zarAba se bhraNa yA koI hatyA rukanI hai ? (3) jainazAstroM meM jaise vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha nahIM pAyA jAtA, kyA vaimA zagava kA niSedha nahIM pAyA jAtA? (4) puruSasamAja apanA punarvivAha karatI hai aura striyoM ko nahIM karane denA cAhatI / kyA isI taraha puruSa samAja zarAba pItI hai aura kyA striyoM ko nahIM pIne denA cAhatI? (5) jisa vidhavA ke santAna na ho aura use santAna kI AvazyakatA ho to use vidhavAvivAha anivArya hai / kyA isI taraha zarAba bhI kisI aise kArya ke liye anivArya hai ? (6) kisI ko vaidhavya jIvana meM Arthika kaSTa hai, isaliye vidhavAvivAha karanA cAhatI hai, kyA zarAba bhI Arthika kaSTa ko dUra kara sakatI hai ?

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(136) (7) vidhavAvivAha se jo sAmAjika aura dhArmika lAbha hamane siddha kiye haiM, kyA zagaya se bhI ve yA vaise lAma Apa siddha kara sakate haiM? . (0) vidhavA jisa taraha hIna dRSTi se dekhI jAtI hai, kyA usI taraha zagaya na pIne vAle dekhe jAte hai ? yadi madyapAna meM lAbha ho to jisameM usake tyAga karane kI zakti nahIM hai usako usaza vidhAna kiyA jAsakatA hai, anyathA nhiiN| pUrNa brahmacarya kI zakti pragaTa na honA vidhavAvivAha kA eka kAraNa hai / jaba taka anya kAraNa na mile taba taka vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna nahIM kiyA jAtA hai| usake anya kAraNa maujUda nahIM hai isIliye usakA vidhAna kiyA gayA hai / AkSepa (kha)-kAryoM kI bahutasI jAtiyA~ haiM-(1) munidharmaviruddha zrAvakAnurUpa (2) gRhasthaviruddha munianurUpa (3) ubhayaviruddha (4) ubhayaanurUpa / vivAha prathama bheda samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha bhI vivAha hai isaliye vaha munidharma ke viruddha hone para bhI zrAvakAnurUpa hai / zrApa vidhuravivAha ko vivAha mAnate aura vidhavAvivAha ko vivAha nahIM mAnate-yaha bilakula pakSapAta aura mithyAtva hai / hama pahile vidhavAvivAha ko vivAha siddha kara cuke haiN| balAdvaidhavya kI zikSA jainadharma kI zikSA nahIM ho sktii| AcAryoM ne vidhavAvivAhakA kahIM niSedha nahIM kiyaa| hA~, dhUrtatA aura mUrkhatA purAne jamAne meM bhI thii| sambhava hai Ajakala ke paNDitoM ke samAna koI ajJAnI aura dhUrta huzrA ho aura usane jainadharma ke viruddha, jainadharma ke nAma para hI kucha aMTa saMTa likha mArA ho| parantu aisI

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( 137 ) kupustakoM ko purAne jamAne kA jainagaz2aTa hI samajhanA caahiye| vAstava meM koI jaina grantha vidhavAvivAha kA virodhI nahIM ho sakatA aura na koI prasiddha jaina grantha hai hii| nAnA taraha kI dIkSAe~ jo zAstroM meM pAI jAtI hai ve vizeSa cUtiyoM ke liye hI hai-mAdhAraNa aNuvatiyoM ke liye nhiiN| vRddhoM ko muni banate na dekhakara hama meM calamalina Adi doSa kaise paidA hoMge? isase to yahI siddha hotA hai ki jaba vRddha loga bahmacarya se nahIM raha pAte aura unakA brahmacarya se na rahanA inanA nizcita hai ki bhaThyAhu ne pahile se hI kaha diyA hai. taba viSayAe~ brahmacarya se kaise raheMgI? madayAhu zrutakevalI ne vRddhoM ke muni na hone kI vizeSa bAna to kahI, parantu vidhavAoM ke vivAha kI vizeSa vAna na kahI , isase mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhavAvivAda prAcInakAla saM calA pAtA hai| yaha kAI aisI vizeSa aura anucita bAna na thI jisakA ki candragupta ko dusvapna hotA aura mar3havAhu zrutaphevalI usakA phala kahate / jo cAhe, jaise cAhe, vicAra karale, use svIkAra karanA paDegA ki gRhasyoM ke liye jainadharma meM vidhavAvivAha virodha kI paramANu bagavara mI gumAyaza nahIM hai| isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA hai ki dharmaviruddha kArya kisI hAlata meM ( umasa bar3hakara dharmaviruddha kArya anivArya hone para) kartavya ho sakatA hai yA nahIM ? isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki ho sakatA hai / yaha yAta aneka udAharaNoM se bhI samajhAI thii| vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra hai Adi bAtoM kA uttara hama de cuke hai| AkSepa (ka)-jo kArya dharmaviruddha hai, vaha trikAla meM mI (kadApi) dharmAnukUla nahIM ho sakatA / pA~ca pApoM ko dharmAnukUla siddha kIjiye / (zrIlAla, vidyAnanda)

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(13) samAdhAna-yadi isa viSaya meM zAstrArtha kI dRSTi se likhA jAya naca to jaise ko taisA hI uttara diyA jAsakatA hai| jenazAstroM meM no kisI apekSA se gadhe ke sIMga kA bhI astitva siddha kiyA gayA hai / parantu hameM pAThakoM kI jijJAsA kA bhI khayAla hai isaliye tadanukUla hI uttara diyA jAnA hai| paoNca pApA meM hiMsA mukhya hai / parantu dravya kSetra kAla bhAva kI apekSA sa vaha dhAnukUna arthAt kartavya ho jAno hai / jaise-yuddha meM hiMsA hAtI hai, parantu sItA kI dharmarakSA ke liye rAmacandra ne agaNita prANiyoM kI hiMmA gaI / aNu. vatI yuddha meM jAte hai, aisA zAstroM meM spaSTa kayana hai / zUkarana muniko rakSA karane ke liye siMha ko mAra DAlA aura khuda bhI marA, puNyavaya kiyA aura svarga gayA / mandira banavAne meM nadhA anya bahuta se parApakAra ke sAmma kAryoM meM hiMsA hAnI hai parantu vaha puNyabandha kA kAraNa kahI gaI hai| jina amRtacandra zrAcArya kI duhAI AkSepaka ne dI hai, ve hI kahate haiM avidhAyApi hi hiMsA hiMsAphalabhAjana bhavatyekaH / kRtvApyaparo hiMsAM hiMsAphalabhAjana na syAt // kamyApi dizati hinA, hiMsAphalamekameva phlkaale| anyamya saiva hiMsA dizayahiMsAphala viphalam // hiMsAphalamaparasya tu dadAtyahimA tu pariNAme / itarasya punahiMsA dizayahiMsAphala nAnyat // eka AdamI hiMsA na karake bhI hiMsAmAgI hAnA hai, dUsarA hiMsA karake bhI hiMsAbhAgI nahIM hotA / kisI kI hiMsA, hiMsAphala denI hai, kisI kI hiMsA, ahiMsAphata detI hai| kisI kI ahiMsA, hiMsA phala detI hai kisI ki ahiMsA ahiMsAphala detI hai| kyA isase yaha bAta nahIM siddha honI ki kahIM hiMsA bhI

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( 136 ) kartavya ho jAtI hai aura kahIM ahiMsA bhI ananya ho jAtI hai ? agachedana pApa hai parantu pAlakoM ke karNaleTa Adi meM pApa nahIM mAnA jAtA / kisI matI ke pIche kucha madamAza par3e hoM to usake satItva kI rakSA ke liye jhUTha bolanA yA usaM chipA lenA (cArI) bhI anucita nahIM hai / paravivAhakaraNa aNuvrata kA dUpaNa hai parantu apanI santAna kA vivAha karanA yA vyabhicAra kI tarapha jhukne vAloM ko vivAha kA upadeza denA paNa nahIM hai| parigraha pApa hai parantu dhopakaraNoM kA rakhanA pApa nahIM hai / isa taraha pA~cI hI pApa apekSA bheda se kartavyAkartavya rUpa hai| prAkSepaka eka tarapha to yaha kahate hai ki dharmaviruddha kArya trikAla meM bhI dharmAnukula nahIM ho sakatA parantu marI tarapha, trikAla kI bAna jAne dIjiye eka hI kAla meM, kahane hai ki punarvivAha vidhavA ke liye dharmaviruddha hai aura vidhura ke liye dharmAnukala hai / kyA yahA~ para eka hI kArya dravyAdi catuSTaya meM se dRzyaapekSA vividharUpa nahIM kahA gayA hai / ye hI loga kahate hai ki aSTadravya se jinapUjana dharma hai, parantu bhagI agara: ainA kare to dharma iva jAyagA / yadi jina pUjana kisI bhI taraha zradharma nahIM ho sakatA to bhaMgI ke liye dharma kyoM hA jAyagA ? matalaba yaha hai ki dravya kSetra kAla mAtra kI apekSA lekara eka kArya ko vividharUpa meM ye khuda mAnate haiN| isIliya saptama pratimA ke nIce vivAha (male hI vaha vidhavAvivAha ho) dharmAnukUla hai / bahmacarya pratimA se lekara yaha dharmaviruddha hai| prAkSepa (kha)-vivAha kriyA svaya sadA sarvadA sarvathA dhArmika hI hai / hA~! pAtra apAtra ke bheda se use dharmaH viruddha kaha diyA jAtA hai|

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(140) samAdhAna-----jahA~ pAtra (dravya ) apAna kI apekSA hai vahA~ sarvathA zabda kA prayoga nahIM honA hai / sudhAraka yahI no kahate hai ki dravya (pAtra) kSetra kAla bhAva kI apekSA se kimI kArya kI dharmAnukUlatA yA dharmaviruddhanA kA nirNaya karanA cAhiye / isaliye eka pAtra ke liye jo dharmaviruddha hai dUmare ke liye vahI dharmAnukUla ho sakatA hai| brahmacarya pranimA dhAraNa karane vAlI vidhavA kA vivAha dharmaviruddha hai, anya vidhavAoM ko dharmAnukUla hai / yahI to pAtrAdi kI apekSA hai| AkSepa (ga)- savyasAcI ne vivAha ko dharmAnukUla arthAt dhArmika to mAna liyA / sAlabhara pahile to use mAmAjika, sAmAjika cillAte the| samAdhAna-brahmacarya pratimA se nIce kumAra kumArI aura vidhavA vidhura ke liye vivAha dharmAnukUla hai-yaha maiM sadA se kahatA huuN| parantu dharmAnukula aura dhArmika eka hI bAta nahIM hai / vyApAra karanA, ghUmanA, bhojana karanA, pezAba karanA Adi kArya dharmAnukUla tA hai parantu dhArmika nahIM hai| dharma kA aGga honA eka bAta hai aura dharmamArga meM bAdhaka na honA dUsarI bAta hai| AkSepa (gha)-bahuna anartha ko rokane ke liye thor3A anartha karane kI AjJA jainadharma nahIM detaa| + samAdhAna-maiM pahile hI likha cukA hU~ ki eka anartha ko rokane ke liye dUsarA anartha mata karo parantu mahAna anartha rokane ke liye alpa anartha kara sakate ho / vyabhicAra anartha rokane ke liye hI to vivAha anartha kiyA jAtA hai / jinane pravRtyAtmaka kArya hai ve saba anartha yA pApa ke aMza hai| jaba ve kArya adhika anarthoM ko rokane vAle hote he taya ve anartha yA pApa zabda se nahIM kahe jAte / parantu hai to ve pApa

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(141) hI / sAdhAraNa pApa kI no bAta hI kyA hai parantu aNuvrata naka pApa kahA jAsakatA hai (aNuvana arthAt thoDA vana arthAt vAkI pApa) jaba aNuvana kI yaha bAta hai naya zrogeM kI to vAna hI kyA hai ? prANadaNDa sarIkhA kArya bhI jainasamrAToM ne adhika anarthoM ko rokane ke liye kiyA hai / nirvikalpa avasthA ke pahile jitane kArya hai ve maba bahu anadhoM ko rokane vAle thoDe anartha hI hai / prakRtavAna yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha se vyami cAra Adi anarthI kA nigedha hotA hai isaliye vaha grAhya hai| AkSepa (Ga)-jo puNya hai vaha madA puraya hai| jo pApa hai vaha sadA pApa hai| mamAdhAna-nava no punarvivAha, vidhuge ke liye agara puNya hai no vidhavAoM ke liye bho puNya khlaayaa| AkSepa (ca)-vastrIsevana pApa nahIM, purAya hai / isI. liye vaha khadArasaMtoSa aNuvana kahalAtA hai| samAdhAna-~mbadArasaMcana aura svadArasaMtoSa meM bar3A antara hai / vadArasevana meM ambadAranivRtti kA bhAva hai| sevana meM sirpha pravRtti hai / svadArasatoSa, aNuvratI kA hI hogaa| mbadAralevana no avigna aura mithyAtvI bhI kara sakatA hai| AkSepa (cha)-penAbheTa lagAkara to zrApa siddhA kI apekSA snAtakoM (bahanoM) ko bhI pApI kheNge| / samAdhAna-kula zrAdi kI apekSA pulAka Adi pApI kahe jAsakate haiM kyoMki pulAka zrAdi meM pAye haiM / koI jIva tabhI pApI kahalA sakatA hai jaba ki usake kapAya ho| kapAyarahina jIva pApI nahIM kahalAtA / ahana kaSAyAnIta hai| prAkSepa (ja)-yadi dharmaviruddha kArya bhI grAhya svIkAra kiye jaoNya taba tyAjya kauna se hoMge ? samAdhAna-dharmaviruddha kArya, jisa apekSA se dharmAnu

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( 142) kula siddha hoMge unI apekSA se grAhA hai| bAkI apekSAoM se agrAhya / pratyeka padArtha ke sAtha saptabhagI lagAI jAmakatI haiN| agara nAstibhaMga lagAte samaya koI kahe ki pratyeka padArtha ko yadi nAstirUpa kahoge to amitarUpa kise kahoge? tava isakA uttara yahI hogA ki apekSAntara se yahI padArtha agnirUpa bhI hogaa| isI prakAra eka kArya kimI apekSA se grAhya, kisI apekSA se agrAhA hai| jo loga pUrNabrahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara sakate unakI vidhavAvivAha grAhya hai| pUrNa brahmacAriyoM ko agraahy| bArahavA~ prazna __ "choTe choTe dudhamuMhe baccoM kA vivAha dharmaviruddha hai yA nahIM" ? isa prazna ke uttara meM hamane aise vivAha ko dharmaviruddha kahA thA, kyoMki usameM vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM jAnA / jaba vaha vivAha hI nahIM to usase paidA huI santAna karNa ke samAna nAjAyaja kahalAI / isaliye aise nAmamAtra ke vivAha ke ho jAne para bhI vAstavika vivAha kI AvazyakatA hai| AkSepa (ka)-gadgabAhusahitAmeM likhA hai ki kanyA 12 kI aura vara solaha varSa kA honA caahiye| isase kama aura adhika vikAra hai / ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-madrabAhu zrutakvalI the / digambara sampra. dAya meM unakA banAyA huA koI grantha nahIM hai| unake do hajAra varSa bAda eka ajJAnI dhUrta ne unake nAma se eka jAlI grantha banAyA aura usapara bhadrabAhu kI chApa lagAdI / saira, purANoM meM zAyada hI koI vivAha 12 varSa kI umara meM kiyA huA milegaa| dharmazAstra to yaha kahatA hai ki jitanI adhika umara taka brahmacarya rahe utanA hI acchA / dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki ThIka

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(143) bAraha varSa pUre hone kA niyama pala nahIM mAnA / ye paNDita loga zAradA bila ke virodha meM kahA karate haiM ki 14 varSa kI umara rakkhI jAyagI nA sAina na milane se 17 varSa kI umara hojAyagI / parantu cAraha varSake niyama ke anusAra bhI to sAita na milane para 15 varSakI umara hojaaygii| puruSoM ke liye 16 varSa se z2yAdA umara meM vivAha na karane kA vidhAna kiyA jAya no vidhura vivAha ora bahuvivAha banda hI hAjAyeM, jisake ki ye paNDita himAyanI hai|| AkSepa (kha) bAlavivAha ko dharmaviruddha aura nAjA. yaja kagara dene se striyA~ chInI jAyeMgI (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-triyA~ chInI na jAya~gI parantu una donoM ko phira sacA vivAha karanA pdd'egaa| isase koI nAjAyaja vivAha (vAlavivAha) ke liye prAyojana na kregaa| AkSepa, ga)-agara bhUla se mAtA pitA ne bAlavivAha kara diyA to vaha TUTa nahIM sktaa| bhUla sa viSa de diyA jAya no bhI maranA par3egA, dhana corI calA jAya to baha gayA hI kahalAyagA (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-vipa dene para cikitsA ke dvAga use haTAne kI cetA kI jAtI hai| corI hone para cora ko daNDa dena kI aura mAla barAmada karane kI koziza kI jAtI hai| bAlavivAha ho jAne para phira vivAha karanA mAno corI kA mAla barAmada karanA hai| AkSepaka ke udAharaNa hamArA hI pakSa samarthana karate haiN| AkSepa (gha)-gAMdharva vivAha kA udAharaNa yahAM lAgU nahIM honA kyoMki yahA~ brAhmavivAha kA prakaraNa hai / (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki vivAha meM kisI khAsa vidhiko AvazyakatA nahIM / gAMdharva vivAha meM zAstrIya vidhi

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nahIM hai phira bhI vaha vivAha hai / isa dAya kA nivAraNa prAna. paka na kara sakA to kahanA hai ki yaha brAhmavivAha kA prakaraNa hai / parantu hamAga kahanA yaha hai ki brAhmavivAha ke atirikta bAkI vivAha, sAkSepaka ke matAnusAra vivAha hai ki nahIM? yadi ve vivAha he aura unameM phimI khAma vidhikI AvazyakatA nahIM hai to hamArA yaha vaktavya niddha ho jAtA hai ki vivAha meM kisI khAsa vidhi kI zrAvazyakatA nahIM hai| AkSepa (Da)-choTI pAyavAlI. vivAhitA strI se utpanna santAna ko varNa ke namAna kahanA unmatta pralApa hai| (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna nyAyazAstra kI varNamAlA se zunya AkSepaka ko yahA~ samAnatA nahIM dInatI / yaha unakI mUrkhatA kehI anurUpa hai| karNa ke janma meM yadi koI doSa thA to yahI ki ve avivAhitA kI santAna the| bAlavivAha jaba vivAda hI nahIM hai taba usase paidA hone vAlI santAna avivAhitA kI santAna kahalAI isameM viSamatA kyA hai ? AkSeSa (ca)-dudhamuhe kA artha vivAda ke viSaya meM nAsamajha karane se to zaGkarAcArya bhI dudhamuhe va halAye kyoMki isI carcA meM ve maNDana mizra kI strI se hAra the| agara tatkAlIna samAja unakA vivAha kara detA to zrApakI najara meM nAjA yaja hotaa| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-agara zaGkarAcArya vivAha ke viSaya meM kucha nahIM jAnate the to unakA vivAha ho hI nahIM sakatA thaa| samAja jabardastI unakA vivAha karAne kI ceSTA karatI to vaha vivAha to nAjAyaja hotA hI, sAtha hI samAja ko bhI pApa lagatA / vivAha ke viSaya meM zaGkarAcArya ko dudhamuhA kahanA anucita nahIM hai| nyAyazAstra meM 'vAlAnAm bodhAya' ko TIkA

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(145 ) meM zAla zanna kA yahI artha kiyA jAtA hai ki jisane vyAkaraNa kAvya kopATi no paDha liye parantu nyAya na paDhA ho| isI taraha vivAha ke prakaraNa meM mo samajhanA cAhiye / isa viSaya meM zrAnepaka ne zurU meM bhI bhUla khAI hai / vAstava meM zaGkarAcArya vivAha ke viSaya meM anamina nahIM the| ve kAmazAstra meM anabhita the aura isI viSaya meM ve parAjita huga the| vivAha meM kAmavAsanA meM aura kAmazAstra meM ghaDA aMtara hai| yaha bAna pAne eka ko samajha lenA caahiye| AkSepa (cha)-pahile garbhasya putrapatriyoM ke bhI vivAha hote the aura ve nAjAyaja na mAne jAte the| vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-uma AkSepa se tIna yAne dhvanita hotI hai-(1) purAne jamAne meM Ajakala kI mAnI hu vivAhavidhi pracalita nahIM thI kyoMki ina vivAhavidhi meM kanyA ke dvAga siddhamaMtra kI sthApanA kI jAnI hai, saptapadI hotI hai, tathA vara kanyA ko aura bhI kiyA karanI par3atI he jo garbhastha varakanyA nahIM kara saste / (2) garbha meM agara donoM tarapha putra ho aura mAtA pitA ke bacana hI vivAha mAne jaoNya aura ve nAjAyaz2a na hona ke no putra putroM meM bhI vivAha khlaayaa| athavA yahI kahanA cAhiye ki vaha vivAha nahIM thaa| mAtA pinA ne sirpha sambhava hone para vivAha hone kI bAta kahI thii| (3) jaba garbha meM vivAha ho jAnA thA taya garbha meM hI laDakI sadhavA khlaayii| duryodhana aura kRSNa meM bhI aisI bAta cIta huI thii| duryodhana ke putrI udadhikumAge huI jo garbha meM hI pradyumna kI patnI kahalAyI / parantu pradyumna kA haraNa ho gayA thA isaliye mAnukumAra ke sAtha vivAha kA Ayojana huA / garbhasya vivAha ko zrAkSepaka nAjAyaja mAnate nahIM hai isaliye yaha udadhikumArI ke punarvivAha kA Ayojana kaha

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laayaa| isaliye aba zrAkSepaka ko yA no bAlavivAha nAjA. yaja mAnanA cAhiye yA strI punarvivAha jAyaja / cAlavivAha ko nAjAyaja siddha karane meM kimI gvAma pramANa ke dene kI jarurata nahIM hai / vivAha kA lakSaNa na jAne se hI vaha nAjAyaja ho jAtA hai| prAkSapa (ja)-zrAzcarya hai ki karNa ko zrApa vAlavivAha kI santAna kaha kara nAjAyaja kaha rahe hai / vaha no gAndharva vivAha kI santAna hone se nAjAyaja mAnA gayA hai| samAdhAna-kucha uttara na sUjhane para apanI tarapha se jhUTI vAta likhakara usakA khaNDana karane laganA zrAkSepaka kI zrAdata mAluma honI hai, yA AkSepaka meM hamAre vAzya ko samabhane kI yogyatA nahIM hai| hamane karNa ko avivAhitA kI santAna kahA hai aura bAlavivAha meM vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM jAtA isaliye usakI santAna bhI avivAhitA kI santAna kahalAyI / karNa meM aura bAlavivAha kI mantAna meM avivA. hitajanyanA kI apekSA samAnanA huI / isase karNa ko cAla. vivAha ko santAna samajha lenA zrAdeSaka kI akla kI khUbI hai| AkSepaka ko upamA, upameya, upamAna samAna dharma kA bilakula jJAna nahIM mAlUma hotaa| karNa agara. gAndharva vivAha kI santAna hote to unheM chipAkara bahA dene kI z2arUrata na hotI, athavA pA~coM paoNDava bhI nAjAyaz2a hote / agara yaha kahA jAya ki karNa janma ke bAda kuntI kA vivAha kiyA gayA thA to mAnanA par3egA ki karNa-janma ke pahile kuntI kA gAndharvatrivAha nahIM huA, athavA karNa janma ke bAda usakA punarvivAha huzrA aura eka baccA paidA karane para bhI vaha kanyA kahalAI / agara kanyA nahIM kahalAI to vivAha kaise huA?

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( 147 ) AkSepa ( jha ) - vivAha kA cAritra mohanIya ke udaya ke sAtha na to zranvaya haiM na vyatireka / samAdhAna - yaha vAkya likhakara zrAkSa paka ne akalaGkAcArya kA virodha to kiyA hI hai sAtha hI nyAyazAstra meM prasA dhAraNa ajJAnatA kA paricaya bhI diyA hai / zrakSa epaka anvaya vyatireka kA svarUpa hI nahIM samajhatA / kArya kAraNa kA jahA~ zravinAgAva batalAyA jAtA hai vahA~ kAraNa ke sadbhAva meM kArya kA sadbhAva nahIM batAyA jAtA kintu kArya ke sadbhAva meM kAraNa kA sadbhAva batalAyA jAtA hai / kAraNa maiM kArya kA sadbhAva ho bhI sakatA hai aura nahIM bhI ho sakatA hai | cAritra Shi sadbhAva moha ke udaya ( kAraNa ) rahane para vivAha ( kArya ) ho sakatA hai aura nahIM bhI ho sktaa| arthAt vyabhicAra vag2airaha bhI ho sakatA hai | parantu vivAha ( kArya ) ke sadbhAva meM cAritra moha kA udaya (kAraNa) tAM anivArya hai / agara vaha na ho to vivAha nahIM ho sakatA / yaha vyatireka bhI spaSTa khnyuM I 1 cAritramoha ke udaya kA phala sabhoga kriyA kA jJAna nahIM hai | jJAna to jJAnAvaraNa ke kSayopazama kA phala hai | cAritra mohodaya to kAmalAlasA paidA karatA hai| agara use parimita karane ke nimitta mila jAte hai to vivAha ho jAtA hai, anyathA vyabhicAra hotA hai| zrAkSa paka ne yahA~ apanI zrAdata ke anu sAra apanI tarapha se 'ho' joDa diyA hai / arthAt 'cAritra moha kA udaya hI' kahakara khaNDana kiyA hai, jaba ki hamane 'hI' kA prayoga hI nahIM kiyA hai| jaba cAritramoha ke udaya ke sAtha sadya kI bAta bhI kahI hai taba 'hI' zabda ko jabardastI ghuseDanA baDI mAge dhUrtatA hU~ / rasta ne sadya aura cAritramoha likhA hai / AkSepaka ne usakA zramiprAya nikAlA hai 'upabhogAntarAya' /

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(148 ) kyA gajaba kA abhiprAya hai ! zrAkSapaka ke ye zabda bilakula unmatta pralApa hai -"vivAha sAtA-vedanIya zrora upamAgAnta. rAya ke nayopazama se hotA hai-cAritramAha ke udaya se nahIM, isIliye unhoMne cAritramohodayAt ke pahile sadvedya pada DAla diyA hai|" cAritramoha ke pahile sadvedya pada DAla diyA, isase eka ke badale meM do kAraNa hogaye parantu cAritramoha kA niSedha kaise ho gayA aura usakA artha upabhogAntagaya kaisa bana gayA ? AkSepa (a)-vivAha kA upAdAna kAraNa cAritramoha kA udaya nahIM hai kintu vara vadhu hai / samAdhAna hamane vahA~"cAritramoha ke udaya se hone vAle rAgapariNAma" kahA hai| yaha pariNAma hI to vivAha kI pUrva avasthA hai aura pUrva avasthA ko zrApa svayaM upAdAna kAraNa mAnate haiN| vistRta kAmavAsanA kA paricita kAmavAsanA ho jAnA hI vivAha hai| Apane upacAra se pariNAmI (ghara kanyA) ko upAdAna kAraNa kaha diyA hai, parantu pariNAma ke vinA pariNAmI vara kanyA nahIM ho sakate / bAlavivAha meM vara kanyA hote hI nahIM, do bacce hote hai 1 jaba pariNAma nahIM tava pari. NAmI kaise ? yahA~ AkSepaka anigraha meM apratimA nAmaka nigraha kahakara niranuyojyAnuyoga nAmaka nigrahasthAna meM jAgirA hai| AkSepa (2)-jaba Apa vivAha ke liye niyata vidhi mAnate haiM taba usake binA vivAha kaisA ? niyata vidhi zabdakA kucha qhayAla bhI hai yA nahIM? samAdhAna-gAMdharvavivAha ko zrApa vivAha mAnate ho / zrApakI dRSTi meM bhale hI vaha adharma vivAha ho, parantu hai to vivAha hii| isa vivAha meM zrApa bhI niyata vidhi nahIM mAnate phira bhI vivAha kahate haiN| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki kisI niyata

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(144) vidhi kA upayoga karanA na karanA icchA ke Upara nirbhara hai| kisI eka nagara me damA nagara ko yAtrA karane ke liye relagAr3I calatI hai / isa taraha yAtriyoM ke liye relagADI niyata karaTI gaI hai parantu isakA matalaba yaha nahIM hai / ki vahA~ moTara se,ghor3a se yA apane paigala yAtrA nahIM ho sktii| relagADI ko yAtrA ke sAdhanoM meM mukhyatA male hI dedI jAya parantu una anivArya nahIM kaha skte| isI taraha niyata zAstravidhiko male hI koI mukhya samajhe parantu anivArya nahIM kaha sakate / anivArya no bAritramoha zrAdi hI hai| relagADI ke abhAva meM yAtrA ke samAna vivAha vidhi ke abhAva meM bhI vivAha ho sakatA hai| AkSepa (8)-pradyumna ko gAMdharva vivAha se paidA huA kahanA dhRSTatA hai| gAMdharva vivAhajAna hai karNa, isa se ve nAjAyaz2a hai| samAdhAna-karNa ke viSaya meM hama pahile likha cuke haiM aura isa prazna ke zrAkSapa'ca' ke samAdhAna meM bhI likha cuke hai| karNa vyabhicArajAta he gAdharva vivAhotpanna nhiiN| rukmiNI kA agara gAMdhavivAha nahIM thA to batalAnA cAhiye ki kauna mA vivAha thA / prArambha ke cAra vivAhoM meM zrApa loga kanyA dAna mAnate hai| raivatakagiri ke Upara kanyAdAna kisane kiyA thA? vahA~ to rukamaNo, kRSNa aura baladeva ke sivAya aura koI nahIM thaa| gAMdharva vivAha meM "svecchayA anyonyasambandha" hotA hai / rukmaNI ne mI mAtA pitA Adi kI icchA ke viruddha apanI icchA se sambandha kiyA thaa| gAMdharva vivAha vyabhicAra nahIM hai jisase pradyumna vyabhicArajAna kahalA sake / yahA~ para AkSepaka apane sAthI AkSepaka ke sAtha bhI bhir3a gayA hai| vidyAnanda kahate haiM---gAMbavivAha, vivAhavidhi

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(150) zUnya adharma vivAha hai isa se utpanna saMtAna mokSa nahI jA. sakatI / javaki zrIlAla jI kahate hai-"gAMdharva vivAha bhI zAstrIya hai ataH usase utpanna saMtAna kyoM na mokSa jaay| jaya do jhUThe milate haiM taba isI taraha parampara viruddha vakte hai| terahavA~ prazna kyA sudhAraka aura kyA bigADaka Ajataka sabhI ghAla. vivAha ko guDA guDI kA khela kahate rahe hai / hamane aise vara vadhU ko nATakIya kahA hai / aisI hAlata meM usakA vaidhavya bhI nATakIya rahegA / vAstava meM to vaha kumArI hI rhegii| isa. liye patnItva kA jabataka anubhava na ho taba taka vaha patnI yA vidhavA nahIM kahalA sktii| ApakoM meM itanI akla kahA~ ki ve patnItva ke anubhava meM aura lambhAga ke anubhava meM bheTa samajha sake / pahilA sAkSepaka (zrIlAla) kahatA hai ki sapta. padI ho jAne se hI vivAha hojAtA hai| parantu kisI bAlikA se tote kI taraha saptapadI raTavA kara kahalA denA yA usa kI tarapha se bola denA hI to saptapadI nahIM hai| saptapadI kA kyA matalaba hai aura usase kyA jimmedArI pA rahI hai isakA anu. bhava to honA cAhiye / yahI to patnItva kA anubhava hai / bAlavivAha meM yaha bAta ( yahI saptapadI) nahIM ho sakatI isaliye usake ho jAne para bhI na koI pati patnI banatA hai na vidhavA vidhura / uparyukta patnItva ke anubhava ke bAda aura sambhoga ke pahile vara mara jAya to vadhU vidhavA ho jAyagI, aura usakA vivAha punarvivAha hI kahA jaaygaa| parantu nAsamajha avasthA meM jo vivAhAnATaka hotA hai usase koI patnI nahIM bntii| AkSepa (ka)-vivAha ko sthApanA nikSepakA viSaya kahanA sacamuca vidvattA kA nagA nAca hai / taya to vyabhicAra bhI vivAha khlaaygaa| (vidyAnanda )

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' (151 ) samAdhAna--jahA~ vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM jAnA aura phira bhI loga vivAha kI kalpanA karate haiM no kahanA hI paDegA ki vaha vivAha sthApanA nikSepa se hai, jaise ki nATaka meM sthApanA kI jAtI hai| zrAkSa paka kA kahanA hai ki vyamicAra meM bhI sthApanAnikSepa se parastro meM mbastrI kI sthApanA karalI jaaygii| parantu yahI vAna no hamAga pakSa haiM / sthA. panA no vyabhicAra meM bhI ho sakatI haiM parantu vyabhicArI vara badhU nahIM kahalA sakate / isa taraha nAsamajha bAlaka bAlikAoM meM bhI vara vadhU kI sthApanA ho sakatI hai parantu ve bAmnava meM vara vadhU nahIM kahalA makane / caudahavA~ prazna isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA hai ki patnI banane ke pahile kyA koI vidhavA ho sakatI hai aura vrata grahaNa karane meM vratI ke bhAvoM kI z2arUrata hai yA nahIM ? isakA matalaba yaha hai ki aAjakala vivAha nATaka ke dvAga bahunasI bAlikAe~ patnI banA dI jAtI hai parantu vAstava meM ve patnI nahIM honI / unako (uma nATakIya pati ke mara jAne para vidhavA na kahanA cAhiye / vana grahaNa karane meM bhAvoM kI jarUrata hai| bAlavivAha meM vivAhAnukUla bhAva hI nahIM hote| isaliye uma vivAha se koI kisI taraha kI pratikSA meM nahIM bNdhtaa| zrIlAla ne ve hI puganI yAne hI hai, jisakA dhava (pani) mara gayA hai vaha vidhavA avazya kahI jAyagI Adi / parantu yahA~ to yaha kahA gayA hai ki vaha nATakIya pani vAstavika pani hI nahIM hai| phira usakA magnA kyA aura jInA kyA ? usakA pani kyA aura patyannara kyA? AkSepa (ka)-ATha varSa kI umara meM jaba bana liyA

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( 152) jA sakatA hai taba // yA varSa kI umara meM bhAvapUrvaka vivAha kyo na mAnA jAne ? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-imale mAlUma hotA hai ki zrApaka ATha varSa se kama umara ke vivAha ko avazya hI nAjAyaja samajhanA hai| khaira, aba hama pUchate hai ki jaba pATha varSa meM vrata grahaNa kiyA jA sakatA hai taba pAne paka ke managaDhanta zAntrakAroM ne vivAha ke liye bAraha varSa kI umara kyoM raksI ? pATha varSa kI kyoM nahIM rakhI ? imale mAlUma hotA hai ki mAdhAraNa vrata grahaNa karane kI apekSA vaivAhika bana grahaNa karane meM vizeSa yogyatA kI AvazyakatA hai| prArthAn paripuSTa zarIra, gArhasthya jIvana ke bhAra samhAlane kI yogyatA aura hRdaya meM uThatI huI vaha kAmavAsanA jisake niyamita karane ke liye vivAha zrAva. zyaka hai, avazya honA cAhiye / agara kisI alAdhAraNa vyakti meM AThavarSa kI umara meM hI ye bAteM pAI jaoNya to vaha cAlavivAha na kahalAyagA, aura ina bAtoM na hone para zinanI bhI umara meM vaha vivAha ho, vaha nAjAyaja kahalAyagA / bhale hI tumhAre managaDhanta zAstrakAra 12 varpa kA gaga pratApate rheN| eka bAta yaha bhI hai ki zAstroM meM zrATha varSa kI umara meM vrata grahaNa karane kI yogyatA kA nirdeza hai| parantu isakA yaha matalaba nahIM hai ki pratyeka aATha varSa kA cAlaka, muni yA zrAvaka ke vrata grahaNa kara sakatA hai, yA ATha varSa se adhika umara meM vrata grahaNa karane vAlA manuSya pApI ho jaaygaa| ATha varSa kI umara meM kevalajJAna taka batalAyA hai parantu kyA isI lie haraeka AdamI kA isa umara meM kevalajJAnItva manAyA jAne lage ? kahA jAyagA ki alI umara ho jAne se kyA hotA hai ? anya antaraGga pahiraha nimitta to milanA cAhiye / vasI vivAha ke viSaya meM bhI hamArA yahI kahanA

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( 153 ) hai ki akelI umara ho jAne se kyA hotA hai, usake liye anya antaraGga eirdra nimitta to milanA cAhiye / yadi vivAha ke liye ve nimitta 14 varSa kI umara ke pahile nahIM milate to usaka pahile hone vAle vivAha ( nATaka) nAjAyaja hai / isaliye una vivAhoM ke nimitta se savA vidhavA zabda kA prayoga na karanA cAhiye / AnaMda ( kha ) - zramaropakAra ne pANigRhItI ko patnI kahA hai, isaliye pANigRhotA bAlikA cAhe vaha 1 varSa kI na ho avazya hI pativiyoga hone para vivA kahalAyagI | ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - pANigRhItI kA agara zabdArtha hI liyA jAya taba to vivAha nATaka ke pahile hI ve vA vidhavA kahalAne lagegI kyoMki choTI 2 vAstikAoM ke hAtha cArya, bhAI aura par3osiyoM ke dvArA pakar3e hI jAyA karate haiN| agara pANigRhInI kA matalaya vivAhitA hai to mAtA pitA ke dvArA kisI se hAtha pakaDA dene hI se bAlavivAhitA nahIM kahI jAmastI hai| isIliye eka varSa kI bAlikA kisI bhI hAlata meM vidhavA yA sadhavA nahIM kahalA sakatI / vidhavAvivAha, dhArmika dRSTi se vyabhicAra hai-isa bAta kA uttara pahile acchI taraha aneka bAra diyA jA cukA hai / zrakSepa ( ga ) - grahaNa karane meM vratIke bhAvoMkI jarU rata hai bhI aura nahIM bhI hai| chaH varSa ke bacce ko pAnI chAna kara pIne kA na dilA diyA zrIra tIsa varSa ke AdamI ne bana nahIM liyaa| inameM kauna acchA hai ? kyA usa bacce kA purAyabandha na hogA ? samAdhAna - zrAkSa paka ne 'dhanagrahaNa karane meM bhAvoM kI

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(154) jarurata nahIM hai| isake liye kAI zAstrIya pramANa nahIM diyA / chaH varSa kA baccA agara koI acchI kriyA karanA hai to kyA zrAkSepaka ke manAnunAra vaha banI hai ? kyA prAcAryoM kA yaha likhanA ki ATha varSa se kama umra meM vrata nahIM ho sakatA jhUTha hai ? yA prakSepaka hI jainadharma meM anabhijA hai ? choTe yo meM bhI kucha bhAva to hone hI hai jisameM vaha purAyavandha yA . pApabandha karatA hai / jaba pakendriya dvIndriya zrAdi jotra bhAvarahita nahIM haiM nava yaha no manuSya hai / parantu yahA~ prazna to yaha hai ki usake bhAva, vranagrahaNa karane ke lAyaka hone haiM yA nahIM? arthAt usake ve kArya narUpa hai yA nahIM ? ho sakatA hai ki baha nIma varSa ke zrAdamI se bhI acchA ho, parantu imameM vaha vatI nahIM kahalA makatA / kalyANamandira kA jo vAkya ( yasmAkriyA praniphalanti na mAvazanyAH ) hamane udhRta kiyA hai usake pIche samasta janazAlA kA bala hai| vaha hara nagaha kI parIkSA se soraJca kA utaranA hai / zrAkSapaka hameM siddhasana ke sadabhiprAya se anabhina batalAne hai parantu vAstava meM zrAkSa paka ne mbaya kalyANamandira aura vidhApahAra ke zlokoM kA bhAva nahIM samajhA hai / donoM zlokoM ke mArmika vivecana se eka svatantra lakha ho jaaygaa| vAstava meM siddha. sena kA zloka bhaktimArga kI nagpha praraNA nahIM karatA kinnu paNDita dhanaJjaya kA zloka bhaktimArga kI tarafa preraNA karatA hai / unakA matalaba hai ki binA bhAva ke bhI agara loga bhagavAna ko namaskAra kareMge to sudhara jAyeMge / middhasena kA zloka aisI makti ko nirarthaka batalAtA hai| siddhasena kahate haiM aisI bhAvazUnya bhakti to haz2Aro bAra kI hai parantu usakA kucha phala nahIM hshraa| siddhasena ke zloka meM tathya hai, vaha samajhadAge ke liye hai aura dhanaJjaya ke zloka meM phusalAnA hai / vaha

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( 155 ) ( ajJAnI) ke liye hai| baccoM ko phusalAne kI bAtoM ko jaina siddhAnta ke samajhane kI kuJjI samajhanA mUrkhanA hai / zrAjakala zAyada hI kisI ne bhAvazUnya kriyA ko vrata kahane kI dhRSTatA kI ho| jo dharma zulkalezyAdhArI navamaceyaka jAne vAle muni ko bhI ( mAvazunya hone se ) mithyAdRpri kahatA hai, usameM bhAvazUnya kriyA se nUna batalAnA zrannavya aparAdha hai 1 AkSepa (va) - yadyapi samantabhadra svAmI ne zrabhiprAya pUrvaka tyAga karanA vrata kahA hai kintu isakA yaha artha nahIM ho sakatA ki bAlyAvasthA meM dilAe gaye niyama upaniyama saba zAstraviruddha hai / bAlyAvasthA meM diye gaye vUta kI aklaGka ne jIvana bhara pAnA / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna -- samantabhadra ke dvArA kahe gaye vUna kA lakSaNa jAnate hue bhI zrakSepaka samajhate haiM ki binA bhAva ke cUna grahaNa ho sakatA hai| isakA matalaba yaha hai ki ve jAti svabhAva ke anusAra jainadharma aura samantabhadra ke vidrohI hai yA apanA kAma banAne ke liye jainI veSa dhAraNa kiyA hai| khaira, bAlyAvasyA ke niyama zAstraviruddha male hI na ho parantu ve cUtarUpa avazya hI nahIM hai / kalaGka ke udAharaNa para to zrAkSe paka ne jaga bhI vicAra nahIM kiyA / zrakalaGka apane pitA se kahane hai ki jaba bhApane vrana lene kI bAta kahI thI taba vaha vRta ATha dina ke liye thoDe hI liyA thA, hamane to janmabhara ke liye liyA thA / isase sApha mAlUma hotA hai ki vrata lete samaya kataka kI umara itanI choTI nahIM thI ki vUna na liyA jA sake | unane bhAvapUrvaka vUna liyA thA aura usake mahatva kI aura uttaradAyitva ko samajhA thA / kyA yahI bhAvazUnya ghuna kA udAharaNa hai ? 1

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( 156) AkSepa (3)-dhUna hA prakAra ke hai-nivRttirUpa, praya. ttirUpa / zubhakarma meM pravRtti karanA bhI cUta hai / yadyapi yazcoM kI zubhakarma kI pravRtti meM kAI bhAva nahIM rahatA. phira bhI ve vatI kahe jA sakate hai / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jaba ki vUna bhAvapUrvaka hone hai taba vanoM ke bheda bhAvazUnya nahIM ho sakate / jIva kA lakSaNa cetanA, usake sava bheTa prabhedoM meM avazya jAyagA / jIva ke prabheda yadi jalacara, thalacara, nabhacara hai to isase naukA, relagAhI yA vAyuyAna, jIva nahIM kahalA sakate, kyoMki unameM jIva kA lakSaNa nahIM jAtA / isaliye bhAvazUnya koI kArya vUna kA bheda nahIM kahalA sakanA / jo phala phUla yA jala bhagavAna ko car3hAyA jAtA hai kyA vaha vratI kahalAtA hai ? yadi nahIM, to isakA kAraNa kyA bhAvazanyatA nahIM hai ? kyA bhAvazanya jinadarzanAdi kAryoM ko na kahana vAlA ekAdha pramANa bhI Apa de sakate haiM? AkSepa (ca)-samkAroM ko anAvazyaka kahanA jaina siddhAnta ke marma ko nahIM samajhanA hai / idhara Apa saMskAroM se yogyatA paidA karane kI bAta bhI kahate haiN| aisA paraspara viruddha kyoM kahate haiM ? (vidyAnanda) __ samAdhAna-bUta aura saskAroM ko eka samajha kara zrAkSepaka ke guru ne ghAra mUrkhatA kA paricaya diyA thaa| hamane donoM kA bheda samajhAyA thA jo ki aba ziSya ne svIkAra kara liyA hai| vrata aura saskAra jude jude haiM isaliye ve 'saMskAra anAvazyaka haiN| yaha artha kahA~ se nikala AyA, jisase para* sparavirodha kahA jAsake ? zrApaka yA usake guru kA kahanA no yaha hai ki "ki bAlyAvasthA meM bhI saskAra hote hai isaliye vata kahalAyA" / iso mUrkhatA ko haTAne ke liye hamane

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( 157) kahA thA ki "samkAra se hamAre Upara prabhAva par3atA hai aura vaha prabhAva prAyaH damaroM ke dvAga DAlA jAtA hai, parantu cUna dUmage ke dvArA nahIM liyA jA sktaa| saMskAra no pAtra meM zraddhA, samajha aura tyAga ke binA bhI DAle jAsakate hai parantu vana meM ina tInoM ko atyanta AvazyakatA rahanI hai" / jaba cUta aura saMskAra kA bheda itanA spaSTa hai nava bAlyAvasthA meM sa. kAro astitva banalAkara vana kA astitva batalAnA mUryatA aura dhokhA nahIM nA kyA hai ? sarakAra zrAvazyaka bhale hI ho parantu ve vana ke bheda nahIM haiN| AkSepa(cha)-zubha kArya dasage ke dvArA bhI karAye jA sakate haiM, aura unakA phala bhI pUrA pUrI hotA hai / zubha kArya meM jayagna pravRtti kaganA adharma nahIM hai| hA~, yadi koI vidhavA kaha ki maiM no vaidhavya nahIM lUMgI taba usa para jabardasto vaidhavya kA 'TIkA' mar3hanA bhI ucita nahIM hai / yadi koI vidhavA kahe ki mega vivAha ga do no vaha bhI zrAgamaviruddha hai| samAdhAna-zubha kArya karAye jA sakate hai / jo karA. yagA use kadAcit puNyayandha bhI ho sakatA hai| parantu isase yaha kahA~ siddha huA ki jimase kriyA karAI jA rahI hai vaha bhAvapUrvaka nahIM kara rahA hai| yadi koI kaganA hai aura koI bhAvapUrvaka karatA hai to use purAyabandha kyoM na hogA ? parantu yaha pugyabandha bhAvapUrvakanA kA hai| Upara bhI isa praznakA uttara diyA jA cukA hai| Apa svIkAra karate hai ki anicchApUrvaka vaidhavya kA TIkA na maDhanA cAhiye / sudhAraka bhI isase jyAdA aura kyA kahate haiM ? jaba use vaidhavya kA TokA nahIM lagA to vaha Agamaviruddha kyoM ?

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( 158 ) pandrahavA~ prazna | 12, 13, 14 ra 15 prazna bAlavivAhacipaka hai / isa meM vAlavivAha kA nAjAyaja vivAha siddha kiyA gayA hai| jo loga samyagdRSTi hai to vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI kyoM hoMge, parantu jo loga mithyAtva ke kAraNa se vidhavAvivAhA ThIka nahIM samajhate unheM cAhiye ki bAlavidhavA kahalAtI huI striyoM ke vivAha ko svIkAra kareM kyoMki bAlavidhavA vAstavika vidhavA nahIM hai| pakavAra nyAyazAstra ke eka supra siddha AcArya ne ( jo ki digambara jaina kahalAne para bhI tIvra mithyAtva ke udayase yA anya kisI laukika kAraNale vidhavAfare ke virodhI bana gaye haiM) kahA thA ki tuma bar3e mUrkha ho jo bAlavidhavAoM ko bhI vidhavA kahate ho| isI taraha ekavAra gopAladAsa jI ke mukhya ziSya aura dharmazAstra ke baDe bhArI vidvAn kahalAne vAle pariDana jI ne bhI kahA thA ki 'akSatayoni vidhavAoM ke vivAha meM nA koI doSa nahIM hai' | yahA~ para bhI vAlavivAha ke viSaya meM campatarAya jI sAhaba ne jo tanakiyoM uThAI hai unake uttaroM se yahI bAta sAbita hotI hai / vivAha kA sambandha brahmacaryAzuvata se hai| jinakA cAlyAvasthA meM vivAha hogayA ve brahmacaryAzuvrata vAlI kaise kahalA sakatI haiM ? isaliye unakA vivAhAdhikAra to kumArI ke samAna hI rakSita hai / agara ve mahAvUna yA saptama pratimA dhAraNa kareM taba to ThIka, nahIM to unheM vivAha kara lenA cAhiye / yadyapi hama kaha cuke haiM ki bAlavidhavAe~ vidhavA nahIM haiM parantu koI vidhavA ho yA vidhura, kumAra ho yA kumArI, agara vaha brahmacarya pratimA yA mahAvrata grahaNa nahIM karatA to vivAha kI icchA karane para vivAha kara lenA adharma nahIM hai|

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( 156 ) AkSepa (ka) praznakarttA kA prazna samajha kara to uttara dete| jo manuSya pravargAvana dhAraNa nahIM karanA usakA vivAha karake kyA ? vaha to mAtA bahina ko stro samajhatA hai / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna- hamAre upayukta vaktavyako par3hakara pAThaka dI vicAroM ki prazna kauna nahIM samajhA hai| jisane brahmacaryaNubana nahIM liyA hai, use zravUna dene ke liye hI tI vivAha hai| isa yApaka ne vivAda ko brahmacaryadhUna rUpa mAnA hai / yahA~ kahanA hai ki brahmacaryavUna rahina kA vivAha kyoM karanA zrarthAt brahmacaryavUna kyoM denA ? matalaba yaha ki pravRtIko cuna denA nirarthaka hai ! kaisA pAgalapana hai ! * AkSepa (kha) kyA dIkSA aura vivAha yahI do zrava sAe~ ho sakatI hai / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - jo dIkSA nahIM letA aura vivAha bhI nahIM karanA usase koI jabardastI nahIM karanA / parantu use vivAha karane kA adhikAra hai| adhikAra kA upayoga karanA na karanA usakI icchA ke Upara nirbhara hai| upayoga karane se vaha pApI na kahA jAyagA / AkSepa (ga) jaba zrApa vibura vidhavA zrAdi jila kisI ko vivAha karane kA adhikAra dene hai taba to eka varSa kI abodha baccI bhI vivAha karAveM / Apane nI bAla, vRddha, anamela vivAha kI bhI pITha ThokI / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - usase to yaha bAta kahI gaI hai ki vaidhavya, vivAha meM bAdhaka nahIM hai 11 varSa kI bacI kA vivAha to hA hI nahIM sakatA yaha hama aneka bAra kaha cuke hai / bAlavivAha kA jainadharma aura hama vivAha hI nahIM mAnate haiM / vivAha ke anya antara bahira nimitta mila jAne para koI bhI vivAha kara

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( 160) sakatA hai| hamAga kahanA to yaha hai ki vaidhavya usakA bAdhaka nahIM hai| solahavA~ prazna "jisakA garbhAzaya garbhadhAraNa ke yogya nahIM huA uma ko garbha raha jAne se prAyaH mRtyu kA kAraNa hojAtA hai yA nahIM ?" isa prazna ke uttara meM vaidyaka zAstra ke anusAra uttara diyA gayA thaa| pAkSepakoM ko bhI yaha bAta maMjUra hai / parantu usake liye 16 varSa kI avasthA kI bAta nahIM kahate / AkSepakoM ne isapara z2ora nahIM diyaa| hama apane mUla lekha meM jo kucha likha cuke hai usase jyAdA likhane kI jarUrata nahIM hai| AkSepa (ka)-santAnotpAdana ke liye harapuSTanA kI / AvazyakatA hai, umara kI nhiiN| (zrIlAla, vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-santAnotpAdana ke liye harapustAkI Ava. zyakatA hai aura haNpuratA ke liye umara kI zrAvazyakatA hai| haoN, yaha bAta ThIka hai ki umara ke sAtha anya kAraNa bhI caahiye| jinake anya kAraNa bahuta prabala ho jAte haiM unake eka do varSa pahile bhI garbha raha jAtA hai, parantu isase umara kA bandhana anAvazyaka nahIM honA, kyoMki aisI ghaTanAe~ lAkha meM ekAdha hI hotI hai| zrIlAla svIkAra karate hai ki kaI loga 20-24 varSa taka bhI santAnotpatti ke yogya nahIM hote / yadi yaha ThIka hai to zrIlAla ko svIkAra karanA cAhiye ki 12 varSa kI umara meM vivAha kA niyama banAnA yA rajasvalA hone ke pahile vivAha kara denA anucita hai / yadi vivAha aura santAnotpA. dana ke liye hRSTapuTatA kA niyama rakkhA jAya tava 12 varSa kA niyama TUTa jAtA hai aura bAlavivAha mRtyu kA kAraNa hai yaha bAta siddha ho jAtI hai|

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( 161) satrahavA~ prazna "pA~ca lAgna auratoM meM eka lAna netAlIsa hajAra vidhavA yA zomA kA kAraNa hai ?" isake uttara meM hamana kahA thA ki--"vaidhavya meM jahA~ tyAga hai vahA~ zobhA hai anyathA nhiiN| jahA~ punarvivAhakA adhikAra nahIM, vahA~ umakA tyAga ho kyA?" isa prazna kA uttara prAkSA nahIM de sake haiN| zrI lAlajI no nagAka kI bAta uThA kara gugepa ke nAyadAna mUMghane laga laya hai| 'vidhavAvivAha ghAlI U~cI nahIM ho sakatI' uma AryikA banane kA adhikAra nahIM, Adi vAkyoM meM koI pramANa nahIM hai| hama isakA pahile vivecana kara cuke hai / Age bho kreNge| AkSepa (ka)-vidhavA gRhastha hai, imaliye yaha saubhAgyavatiyoM se pUjya nahIM ho paatii| samAdhAna-gRhamya to pratmacaryapratimAdhArI bhI hai| phira bhI mAdhAraNa logoM kI apekSA ummakA vizeSa sanmAna hotA hai| isI prakAra vidhavAoM kA bhI honA cAhiye, parantu nahIM honAmakA kAraNa yahI hai ki unakA vaivya tyAgarUpa nahIM hai| agara koI vidhura vivAhayogya hone aura vivAha ke nimitta milane para bhI vivAha nahIM karatA to vaha prazamanIya hotA hai| isI prakAra punarvivAha na karane vAlo vidhavA bhI prazaM. mApAtra ho sakatI hai agara unheM punarvivAha kA adhikAra ho aura ve vivAha yogya ho to / hA~, una, vidhugeM kI prazasA nahIM hotI jo cAra paoNca bAra naka vivAda kaga cukaM de athavA vivAha kI koziza karate 2.annameM 'agUra rahe hai' kI kahAcata caritArtha karate hue, anta meM brahmacArI parigrahatyAgI zrAdi cana gaye hai / vivAha kI pUrNa sAmagrI mila jAne para bhI jo

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(162) vivAha nahIM karate ve hI prazasanIya haiM cAhe ve vidhura ho yA vidhvaa| AkSepa (kha)-punarvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM meM vaidhavya zobhA kA kAraNa hai| kyA isase siddha nahIM honA ki punarvivAha na karane vAlI zobhA kA kAraNa aura karane vAlI azAbhA kA kAraNa hai, ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-upavAsa aura bhUkhe marane kA vAhyarUpa ekasA mAlUma hotA hai, parantu donoM meM mahAn antara haiM / upavAma svecchApUrvaka hai, isaliye tyAga hai, tapa hai / bhUkhoM maranA. vivazatA se hai isaliye vaha nArako nokhA sakleza hai| eka samAja aisI haiM jahA~ khAna kI svatantratA hai| eka aisI hai jahA~ sabhI ko bhUkhoM maranA par3atA hai / pahilo samAja meM jo upa vAsa karate haiM ve prazamanIya hote haiM, parantu imIliye bhUkhoM marane vAlI samAja prazamanIya nahIM kahI jAsakatI, phira aisI hAlata meM java ki bhUkhoM marane vAle cuga cuga kara khAte ho| punarvivAha karane vAlI jAtimeM vaidhavya prazaMsanIya hai kyoMki usa meM prApya bhAgoMkA tyAga kiyA jAnA hai. punarvivAhazunya samAja meM aimI cIz2oM kA tyAga kahA jAtA hai jA aprApya haiN| taba to gadhe ke sIMga kA tyAgI bhI vaDA tyAgI kahA jAyagA / jina jAtiyoM meM punarvivAha nahIM honA unakI sabhI striyA~ (bhale hI ve vidhavA ho) punarvivAha karAne vAlI striyoM se nIcI haiM kyoMki napusaka ke vAhya brahmacarya ke samAna unake vaidhavya kA kAI mUlya nahIM hai| sArAMza yaha ki punarvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM kI vidhavAoM kA sthAna pahilA haiM (upavAsI ke samAna); panarvivAhitAoM kA sthAna dUsaga hai ( sayatAhArI ke samAna) punarvivAhazUnya jAti kI vidhavAoM kA sthAna tIsarA hai (bhUtoM marane vAloM ke smaan)|

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/ 1.63) AkSepa (ga)-vidhura aura vidhavAnoM kA agara ekasA ilAja ho to donoM ko zAstrakAroM ne mamAna prAzA kyoM nahIM dI ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jainadharma ne donoM ko samAna prAmA dI hai| isa viSaya pahile cintAgme likhA jA cukA hai| dekho''| Alepa (gha)-trIparyAya puruSaparyAya se nidha hai| isa liye jo vidhavAeM puruSoM ke namAna punarvivAha kA adhikAra cAhatI haiM, ve pahile puruSa yanane ke kArya maMyamAdika pAlana puruSa bnleN| bAda meM puruSoM ke mamAna punarvivAha kI adhikArI bane / (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-agara yaha kahA jAya ki "bhAgnavAmI niMdya haiM isaliye agara ye bagasya cAhate haiM no agrejoM kI nimbArtha sevA karake pugaya kamAyeM aura marakara agrejoM ke ghara janma na" to yaha jaisI mUrkhanA kahalAyagI isI taraha kI mInA pAneraka banAvya meM hai / vanamAna vidhavA agara mara ke puruSa na jAyeMgI to kyA paraloka meM vidhavA banane ke liye paNDita loga avatAra leMge? kyA phira vidhavA na raheMgI ? kyA imame vidhavAnoM kI mamamyA hAna ho jAyegI ? kyA bhrUNahanyAe~ na hogI ? kyA vipattigrasta logoM kI cipatti dUra karane kA yahI upAya hai ki pAralaukika sampatti kI jhUThI zrAzA se unheM magnaM diyA jAya?vara, jina vidhavAoM meM brahma carya pariNAma hai ve to pugayopArjana kareMgI parantu jo vidhacA maTA mAnamika mora zArIrika vyabhicAra karatI rahatI hai, bhAgoM ke abhAva meM dinagana ganI hai aura hAya hAya karatI hai, ve kyA pugayAMpArjana kareMgI? duHtrI jIvana vyatIta karane se hI kyA pugayabandha ho jAtA hai ? yadi hA~, nava mAnave naraka ke nArakI ko saya se baDA naembI kahanA cAhiye / yadi

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( 164 ) nahIM, to vartamAna kA vaidhavya jIvana purAyopArjaka nahIM kahalA makatA / aThArahavA~ prazna isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA thA ki jainasamAja kI sakhyA ghaTane se samAja kI hAni hai yA lAbha ? hamane saMkhyAghaTI kI bAta kA samarthana karake samAja kI hAni banalAI thii| zrI lAla to gavarnamenTa kI riporTa kA astitva hI svIkAra nahIM karate / kimvadantI ke anusAra kumbhakarNa 6 mahIne sonA thA, parantu hamArA yaha prakSepaka kumbhakarNa kA bhI kumbhakarNa nikattA / yaha janma se lekara vuDhApe taka mo hI rahA hai| khaira, vidyAnanda ne sakhyAghaTI kI bAta svIkAra karatI hai / donoM zrAkSepakoM kA kahanA hai ki sakhyA ghaTatI hai ghaTane do, jAni rasAtala jAtI hai jAne do, parantu dharma ko bacAo ! vidhavAvivAha dharma hai ki adharma - isa bAta kI yahA~ carcA nahIM hai| prazna yaha hai ki saMkhyA ghaTane se hAni hai yA nahIM ? yadi hai to use haTAnA cAhiye yA nahIM ? haraeka vicArazIla AdamI kahegA ki sakhyAghaTI rokanA caahiye| jaba vidhavAvivAha dharmAnukula hai aura usase sakhyA bar3ha sakatI hai to usa upAya ko kAma meM lAnA cAhiye | AkSepa ( ka ) - jainI loga pApI hogaye isaliye unakI sakhyA ghaTa rahI hai / samAdhAna-bAna bilakula ThIka haiN| saikar3oM varSoM se jainiyoM meM puruSatva kA mada baDha rahA hai / isa samAja ke puruSa svaya to punarvivAha karate haiM, aura striyoM ko rokate haiM, yaha zratyAcAra, pakSapAta kyA kama pApa hai ? isI pApa ke phala se inakI saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai / pUjA na karane Adi se sakhyA ghaTatI to mlecchoM kI sakhyA na baDhanA cAhiye thI /

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( 165 ) AkSepa (pa)-musalamAna loga to imaliye yaDha rahe haiM ki unheM naraka jAnA hai| aura isa nikRSTa kAla meM naraka jAne vAloM kI adhikatA hogii| ( zrIlAla ) mamAdhAna-zrApa kaha cuke haiM ki jainiyoM meM pApI ho gaye imaliye sarayA ghttii| parantu isa ghanatya se no graha mAlUma honA hai ki jainiyoM kI sarayA pApa meM bar3hanA cAhiye jimameM naramagAmI zrAdamI mila mke| isa naraka kena ne yaha bhI svIkAra kiyA hai ki "nIca kAma karane se nItra ko jinanA pApa lagatA hai usameM kaI guNA pApa ucca ko lagatA hai", arthAt jainiyoM ko jyAdA pApa lagatA hai| isa siddhAnta ke anumAra bhI jainiyoM kI saMrayA paDhanA cAhiye kyoMki isa mamAja meM paidA hone meM na pApa lagegA aura naraka jaldI bhregaa| eka narapha pApa meM maMgyA kI ghaTo banalAnA aura dUsarI tarapha pAra ma saMkhyA kI vRddhi patalAnA vicitra pAgalapana hai| zrAkSepa (ga)-vidhavAvivAha Adi ne, laMga haijA Adi meM samAja kA saphAcaTa ho jAyagA / (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha meM maphAcaTa hogA isakA uttara no yAropa amerikA Adi kI paridhini daMgo / parantu vidhavAvivAha na hona ma janamamAja maphAcaTa ho rahI hai yaha to pragaTa hI hai| yAkSepa (gha)--samAja na rahane kA Dara vRthA hai| jena. dharma to paMcamakAla ke anta taka rhegaa| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha ke na hone meM sakhyA ghaTa rahI hai / jainiyoM ko jina jAtiyoM meM punarvivAha hai unameM saMrayA nahIM ghaTa rahI hai| agara punarvivAha kA rivAja cAla na hogA to saMkhyA naSTa ho jaaygii| parantu jainadharma kA itanA hAma no

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(166) nahIM ho sakatA imase siddha hai ki vidhavAvivAha kA pracAra jarUra hokara rahegA / athavA jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja hai ve hI jAtiyA~ anta taka raheMgI rahI cintA kI bAta so jo puruSa hai use to puruSArtha para hI najara rakhanA cAhiye / koge bhavitavyatA ke bharose para baiThakara prayatna se udAsIna na honA caahiye| tIrthakara avazya mokSagAmI hote haiM phira bhI unheM mokSa ke liye prayatna karanA par3atA hai| isI taraha jainadharma paMcamakAla ke anta taka avazya rahegA parantu use taba taka rahane ke liye vidhavAvivAha kA prayatna avazya karanA caahiye| yaha chUtAchUtavicAra kA prakaraNa nahIM hai / isakA vive. cana kucha ho cukA hai| bahuta kucha Age bhI hogaa| AkSepa (Ga)-vidhavAvivAha se to bace khuce jainI nAstika ho jAyeMge, kauDI ke tIna tIna vikeNge| jainadharma yaha nahIM cAhatA ki usameM saMkhyAvRddhi ke nAma para kUDAkacarA bhara jAya / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-AkSepaka kUr3Akacaga kA virodhI hai parantu vidhavAvivAha vAloM ko kUDAkacarA tabhI kahA jAsakatA hai jaba vidhavAvivAha dharmaviruddha siddha ho / pUrvokta pramANoM se vidhavAvivAha dharmAnukUla siddha hai isaliye AkSepaka kI ye gAliyA~ nirarthaka haiN| vidhavAvivAhotpanna to vyabhicArajAta hai hI nahIM, parantu vyabhicArajAtatA se bhI koI hAni nahIM hai| vyabhicAra pApa hai (vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra nahIM hai) vyabhicArajAtatA pApa nahIM hai anyathA raviSeNAcArya aisA kyoM likhate cinhAni viTajAtasya santi nAMgeSa kAnicit / anAryamAcaran kizcinAyate nIcagocara //

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(167) vyabhicArajAnatA ke kAI cinha nahIM hote| durAcAra se hI manuSya nIca kahalAtA hai| yadi vyabhicArajAna zUTa hI kahalAtA hai to rudra bhI zudra khlaaye| jaba rudra muni banate haiM taba Apako zaha muni kA vidhAna bhI mAnanA paDaMgA / tadbhavamokSagAmI vyabhicAra jAta sudRSTi sunAra para vivaMcana no pAge hogA hii| AkSepa (3)jainadharma nahIM cAhatA ki umameM sakhyA. vRddhi ke nAma para kUDA kacarA bhara jAya / yadi 60 baDhate haiM nA 60% mukti bhI prApta kara lete haiM / jainadharma svayaM apane meM baDhA huI saMkhyA 60 ko siddhazilA para sadA ke liye sthApana kara detA hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-udAharaNa dene ke liye jisa buddhiko Ava. zyakatA hai usa taraha ko sAdhAraNa buddhi bho zrAkSepaka meM nahIM mAlUma hotI / zrAkSepaka sakhyAvRddhi ke nAma para kUDA macaga na marane kI bAta kahate hai aura udAharaNa kUDA vaga bharane kA de rahe hai / vyavahArarAzi meM maM chaH mahIne pATha samaya meM 600 jIva mAkSa jAne hai aura nityanigoda le itane hI jIva bAhara nikalate hai / jaina dharma agara 608 jIva siddhAlaya kI mejanA hai to usakI pUrti nigodiyoM se kara lenA hai / agara jainadharma kI saMkhyA ghaTane kI parvAha na hotI to vaha siddhAlaya jAne vAle jIvoM ko saMkhyApUrti nigoTiyoM sagaigve tuccha jIvoM meM karane ko unArU na ho jaanaa| ima udAharaNa se yaha vAna bhI siddha hotI hai ki jaina. dharma meM kaDe kacare ko bhI phalaphUla banAne kI zakti hai / vaha kUr3e kacare ke samAna jIvoM ko bhI mukta banAne kI himmata rakhatA hai| jainadharma usa catura kisAna ke mamAna he jo gaoNtra bhara ke kUr3e kacare kA khAda banAtA hai aura usase saphala khetI karatA

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( 168) hai / vaha mokSa bhejane ke liye devaloka meM se prANiyoM ko nahIM cunatA valki usa samUha meM se cunatA hai jisa kA adhika bhAga kUDe kacare ke samAna hai| kheta meM jitanI miTTI hai utanA anAja paidA nahIM hotA parantu isIliye yadi koI murkha kisAna yaha kahe ki jitanA anAja paidA hotA hai utanI hI miTTo rakkhA bAkI pheMkado to vaha pAgala viphala prayatna kregaa| agara hama cAhane hai ki dasa lAkha sacce jainI ho to hameM jaina mamAja meM 10-12 karoDa bhale bure jainI taiyAra rakhanA pddeNge| unameM le 10 lAkha sacca jainI taiyAra ho sakeMge / jainadharma to siddhAlaya bhejane para bhI sakhyA kI truTi nahIM sahatA aura hama kugati aura kudharma meM bheja karake bhI saMkhyAtruTi kA vicAra na kareM to kitanI markhatA hogii| unnIsavA~ prazna jaina samAja meM avivAhitoM kI kAphI saMkhyA hai| isakA kAraNa balAdvaidhavya kI kuprathA hai| jaina samAja meM kumAriyoM kI bhaMkhyA 1 lAkha 85 hajAra 514 hai jaba ki kumAroM kI saMkhyA 3 lAkha 1 hajAra 265 hai / inameM se 63246 kumAra to aise haiM jinakI umara vIsa varSa se jyAdA hai / isa umara ke ine gine kumAroM ko choDa kara bAkI kumAra avivAhita rahane vAle hI haiN| eka to kumAriyoM kI saMkhyA yoM hI kama hai parantu tIna cAra varSa taka ke lar3akoM ke liye vivAhayogya laDakyiA~ Age paidA hogI isa AzA se kumAriyoM kI saMkhyA santoSaprada mAnalI jAya to 61371 vidhura maujUda haiN| ye bhI apanA vivAha kumAriyoM se hI karate haiN| phala isakA yaha hotA hai ki 63246 puruSa bIsa varSa kI umara ke bAda bhI kumAra rahate haiN| yadi ye 61371 vidhura vidhavAoM se zAdI kareM to 20 varSa se

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( 166) adhika umara ke kumAroM kI saMkhyA 63 hajAra se adhika ke sthAna meM do hajAra se bhI kama raha jAya / jaba taka vidhavAvivAha kI suprathA kA pracAra na hogA taba taka yaha viSamatA dUra nahIM ho sktii| antajAtIya vivAha se bhI kucha subhItA ho mAtA hai kyoMki karIva 4200 kumAriyA~ aisI hai jinakI umara 20 varSa se jyAdA hogaI hai parantu unakA vivAha nahIM huA / choTI jAtiyoM meM yogya vara na milane se yaha paristhiti paidA ho gaI hai / vaDI jAniyoM ko bhI isa kaThinAI kA sAmanA karanA par3atA hai| antarjAtIya vivAha kA pracAra karane ke sAtha vidhavA vivAha ke pracAra kI mI z2arUrata hai kyoMki vidhavAvivAha ke binA avivAhitoM kI samasyA hala nahIM hosktii|| zrIlAlajI yaha svIkAra karate hai ki 'laDakA laDakI samAna hote haiM parantu loga avivAhita imaliye rahate hai ki vaM garIva hai| isa bhale AdamI ko yaha nahIM sUjhatA ki jaba laDakA laDakI samAna hai nI gargayoM ko milane vAlI laDa. kiyA~ kahA~ calI jAtI hai ? bhale zrAdamI ke laDake bhI to eka strI rakhate haiN| hA~, isakA kAraNa yaha spaSTa hai ki vidhura loga kumAriyoM ko hajama kara jAte hai / aise avivAhita kumAroM kI saMkhyA bahuta jyAdA hai jinake pAsa paccIsa pacAsa hajAra rupaye kI jAyadAda bhale hI na ho yA jo hajAra do hajAra rupaye dekara kanyA kharIdane kI himmata na rakhate hoM phira bhI jA cAra prAdamiyoM kI gujara lAyaka paidA kara lete haiN| laDakiyoM ko lakhapati lejaoNya yA karor3apati le jaoNya parantu yaha spaSTa hai ki vivAhayogya umara ke 63 hajAra kumAroM kI laDakiyoM nahIM mila rahI hai| jaba inake liye lar3akiyoM hai hI nahIM tava ye lakhapati bhale hI bana jaoNya parantu inheM avivAhita rahanA

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( 170 ) ho paDegA / agara inameM se koI vivAhita ho jAyagA to isake badale meM kisI dUsare ko avivAhita rahanA pdd'egaa| dhana se laDakiyA~ mila sakatI hai parantu dhana se laDakiyA~ bana to nahIM sakatIM / isaliye jaba taka vidhavAvivAha kI suprathA kA pracAra nahIM hotA taba taka yaha samasyA hala nahIM ho sakatI / AkSepa ( ka ) - vivAhita rahane kA kAraNa to hamane karmodaya samajha rakkhA hai / yaha ( balAghavya ) nayA kAraNa to Apane khUba hI nikaalaa| ( vidyAnanda ) - samAdhAna -- karmodaya to antara kAraNa hai aura vaha to aise hara eka kArya kA nimitta hai / parantu yahA~ to bAhyakAraNoM para vicAra karanA hai / vidhavAvivAda kA pracAra bhI apane apane karmodaya ke kAraNa hai phira zrApa loga kyoM usake virodha meM ho hallA macAte hai ? corI karanA, khana karanA, balAkAra karanA Adi aneka anyAya aura atyAcAroM kA nimitta *rmodaya hai phira zAsanavyavasthA kI kyA AvazyakatA ? kamadaya' se bImArI huA karatI hai phira cikitsA aura sevA kI kucha jarUrata haiM ki nahIM ? karmodaya se lakSmI milatI hai kira vyApArAdi kI zrAvazyakatA hai ki nahIM ? manuSyabhava daiva kI gulAmI ke liye nahIM hai prayatna ke liye hai / isaliye bhale hI karma apanI zakti zrAjamAve parantu hameM to apane prayatna se kAma lenA cAhiye / 'vidhavAvivAha kara lene para bhI koI vivAhita na kahalAyagA kyoMki vidhavAvivAha meM vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM jAtA ' isakA uttara hama de cuke hai, aura vidhavAvivAha ko feare siddha kara cuke haiN|

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( 171 ) vIsavA~ prazna yahA~ yaha pUchA gayA hai ki ye vidhAe~ na hotI to saMkhyAvRddhi hotI yA nhiiN| bahuta jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha hotA hai aura santAna bhI paidA hotI hai isaliye saMkhyAvRddhi ko bAna no nizcita hai| jahA~ vidhavAvivAha nahIM hotA vahA~ bhraNahatyA prAThi se nathA dammA vinaikayA Adi kahalAne vAlI santAna paidA hone meM vidhavAoM ke jananItva kA patA lagatA hai| vidyAnanda jI kA yaha kahanA nirarthaka pralApa hai ki agara ve bandhyA hotI no ? bandhyA honI no santAna na baDhanI sirpha brahmacaryANuvana kA pAlana honA / paranta jainasamAja kI sava vidhavAe~ bandhyA hai isakA koI pramANa nahIM hai balki unake prabandhyApana ke bahuta se pramANa haiN| zrIlAla kA yaha koga bhrama hai ki vidhavAvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM kI saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai| koI bhI AdamI-jisake oNkhe haiM-vidhavAvivAha aura santAnavRddhi kI kAryakAraNavyApti kA virodha nahIM kara sakatA / roga se, bhUkhoM mara kara yA anya kisI kAraNa se kahIM kI mRtyusaMkhyA agara vaha jAya to isa meM vidhavAvivAha kA koI aparAdha nahIM hai| usase to yathAsAdhya saMkhyA kI pUrti hI hogii| parantu balAdvaidhavya se to saMkhyA hAni hI hogii| vidhavAvivAha se vyabhicAranivRtti nahIM hotI, isakA khaNDana hama pahile kaI bAra kara cuke hai| sudRSTi kI carcA ke liye alaga prazna hai / vahIM vicAra kiyA jAyagA / AkSepa (ka)-mAtA bahina prATi se mAMga karane meM bhI santAna ho sakatI hai / (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-jisa dina mAtAoM aura vahinoM kA putra

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( 172) aura bhAI ko choDa kara duniyA meM aura koI puruSa na milegA aura puruSoM ko maoN vahina choDakara aura kAI strI na milegI, / bhAI bahina meM aura mA~ beTe meM gupta vyabhicAra kI mAtrA caDha jAvegI,bhrUNahatyAe~ hAne lageMgI, unakI kAmavAmanA ko sImita karane ke liye aura koI sthAna na rahegA, usa dina mA~ beTe aura bahina bhAI ke vivAha kI samasyA para vicAra kiyA jA sakatA hai / AkSepaka vidhavAvivAha se bar3hane vAlI sakhyA ke Upara maoN bahina ke sAtha zAdI karane kI bAta kaha kara jisa ghAra nirlajatA kA paricaya de rahA hai, kyA yaha paricaya vidhuravirgaha ke viSaya meM nahIM diyA jAsakatA ? santAna ke bahAne se apanA punarvivAha karane vAle vidhura, apanI mA~ bahina se zAdiyA~ kyoM nahIM karate ? jo uttara vidhuvivAha ke liye hai vahI uttara vidhavAvivAha ke liye hai| isa prazna meM yaha AkSepaka anya praznoM se adhika laDa. khaDAyA hai, isaliye kucha bhI na likhakara yaha asabhya kathana tathA leMDarA Adi zabdoM kA prayoga kiyA hai| AkSepa-(kha) aThArahave prazna meM Apane kahA thA ki prativarSa jainiyoM kI saMkhyA 7 hajAra ghaTa rahI hai| aba kahate haiM ki bar3ha rahI hai| aise hagjAI (ripAI) kA hama vicAra nahIM karate / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-Apake vizvAsa na karane se riporTa ko upayogitA naSTa nahIM hotI, na vastusthiti badala jAtI hai| pazu ke A~kha mIMcane se zikArI kA astitva nahIM miTa jaataa| jainiyoM kI janasakhyA prativarpa sAta hajAra ghaTa rahI hai parantu isako yaha matalaba nahIM hai ki jainiyoM ke kisI ghara meM jana. sakhyA bar3hatI nahIM hai / aise bhI ghara haiM jinameM dA se dasa zrAdamI ho gaye hoMge parantu ve ghara kaI guNe hai jinameM dasa se

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(173) do yAdamI hI raha gaye haiN| vahIM vRddhi aura kahIM hAni nA hotI hI hai parantu promuta lAna haz2Ara hAni kA hai / kitI kimI jAtima saMkhyA bar3hane se jaina samAja ko saMvAhAni kA niSedha nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| jina jAtiyoM meM vivAvivAha kA rivAja hai unameM saMkhyA nahIM ghaTatI hai, yA bar3hatI hai| sAtha hI jina jAniyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja nahIM hai unameM itanI marayA baTanI hai ki vidhavAvivAha vAlI jAniyoM kI sakhyA. vRddhi usa ghaTI ko pUrA nahIM kara paatii| AkSepa (ga) hamArI dRSTi meM to vidhavAvivAha meM bar3hane vAlI saMkhyA nirjIva hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAyAna-usakA uttara tA yugapa amerikA Adi dezoM ke nAgarikoM kI zravansA se mila jAtA hai| prAcInakAna ke vyamitrArajAna sudRSTi Adi mahApuruSa bhI aise dhAnepoM kA muMhanoDa uttara dete rahe haiN| vizeSa ke liye denI (18) AkSepa (gha)-vidhugntra ke dUra karane kA upAya zAstrA meM hai| mAra ke liye auSadha vidhAna hai amAdhya ke lie nhiiN| para hI kArya kahIM katrya aura saphana hotA hai, kahIM akarnavya aura niSphala / mamAghAna-vidhuratva pora vaivavyatire eka hI vidhAna hai. isa viSaya meM isa laza meM anekayAra likhA jA cukA hai| asAdhya ke liye auSadha kA vidhAna nahIM hai parantu asAdhya ume kahate hai jo vikisA karane para bhI dUra na ho sake / vaidhavya no vidhurastra ke samAna punarvivAha se dUra ho sakatA hai, isaliye ghaha asAdhya nahIM kahA jA saranA / eka hI kArya kahIM zrtavya aura kahIM akartavya ho jAtA hai isaliye kumAra kumAriyoM ke liye vivAha kartavya aura vidhura vidhAnoM ke liye akartavya honA cAhiye / punarvivAha yadi vidhuge ke liye apanavya nahIM hai

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(17) to vidhavAoM ke liye bhI apartavya nahIM kahA jA sktaa| AkSepa (Da)-gona jAne vAle 608,jIvoM kI saMkhyA meM kamI na pAjAya isaliye hama vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karate hai / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jainadharmAnumAchaH mahIna pATha samaya meM 60 jIva mokSa jAne kA niyama aTala hai| ummakI rakSA ke liye AkSepaka kA prayatna hAsyAmpada hai| phira AkSepaka jahA~ (bharata. kSetra meM) prayatna karatA hai vahA~ to mokSadvAra abhI banda hI hai| tIsarI bAta yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha se mokSa kA mArga vanda nahIM hotA / zAstroM kI AzAe~ jo pahile likhI jA cukI haiM aura sudRSTi kA jIvana isa bAta ke prabala pramANa haiN| AkSepa (ca) savyamAcI, tuma auratoM kI bhaoNti bilakha vilakha kara kyoM gerahe ho ? tumheM aurata kauna kahatA hai ? tuma apane Apa aurata bananA cAho tA 11 Dabala ke btaashebhendo| yahA~ se eka tAbIja bhejadiyA jaaygaa| tuma nona aurata ho na marda / savyasAcI (arjuna ) napuMsaka ho / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-AkSepakoM ko jahA~ apanI pradhAnatA kA mAtrAdhika paricaya hogayA hai vahA~ unane isI prakAra gAliyA~ dI hai / ye gAliyA~ hamane inake bhaDapana kI pola kholane ke liye nahIM likhI hai parantu inake TukaDakhorapana ko dikhAne ke liye likhI haiN| AkSepaka 1 / paise ke batAzoM meM mujhe strI banA dene ko yA duniyA meM prasiddha kara dene ko taiyAra hai| jo loga zapaise meM marda ko strI banAne ke liye taiyAra haiM ve bharapeTa roTiyA~ milane para dharma ko adharma aura adharma ko dharma kahane ke liye taiyAra ho jAye to isameM kyA Azcarya hai ! jo loga ina paMDitoM ko Tukar3oM kA gulAma kahate hai ve loga kucha narama zabdoM kA

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( 175) hI prayoga karane hai| AkSepaka ne tAbIja vaoNdhane kI bAta kaha. kara apane gupta jIvana kA paricaya diyA hai / tAvIz2a vA~yane vAle bagalAbhakta ThagoM se pAThaka aparicita na hoMge / rahI napusakatA kI bAta so yadi korabadala ko pApa kA phala cakhAne vAlA aura usI bhava se mokSa jAne vAlA arjuna napuMsaka hai to pesI napuMsakatA gaurava kI vastu hai| usa para anantapAMgApathiyoM kA puruSatva nyAchAyara kiyA jA sakatA hai| hamane eka jagaha likhA hai ki "hamane vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karake striyoM ke manupAcina adhikAroM ko haDapA imaliye Aja hameM duniyA ke sAmane aurata banake rahanA par3atA hai| kamI 2 eka AdamI ke dvArA 'hama' zabda kA prayoga samAja ke liye kiyA jAtA hai / yahA~ 'hama' zabda kA artha 'jainasamAja' mpaSTa hai / parantu jaba kucha na banA to AkSepaka ne imI para gAliyA~ denA zurU kara dii| isa taraha ke vAkya tA hama bhI zrApaka ke vaktavya meM meM uddhRta kara sakate hai| 18 ce prazna meM zrAkSapaka ne eka jagaha likhA hai ki "hama vidhavAoM ke liye tar3apa rahe haiM, unheM apanI banAne ke liye chaTapaTA rahe hai|" aba isa zrAkSepaka se koI pUche ki 'janAya ! zrApa aisI badamAzI kyoM kara rahe hai| AkSepa (cha)-yadi jainadharma kA sambandha rakta mAMsa se nahIM hai to usake bhakSaNa karane meM kyA hAni ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-hAni to malamUtra madhumadya yAdi ke bhakSaNa karane meM bhI hai to kyA jainadharma ke liye ina saya cIz2oM ke upayoga kI bhI AvazyakatA hogI? jisake bhakSaNa karane meM bhI hAni hai usako jainadharma kA prAdhAra stambha kahanA g2az2aba kA pANDitya hai / yahA~ no zrAkSapaka ke Upara hI eka prazna

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( 176 ) khaDA hotA hai ki jaba Apa rakta mAMsa meM zuddhi samajhate haiM to usake bhakSaNa karane meM kyA doSa ? AkSepa (ja) - dravyaveda (strI) pA~caveM taka kyoM ? bhAvaveda navame taka kyoM ? kyA yaha saba vicAra rakta mA~sa kA nahIM hai | ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna --- veda ko raktamAMsa samajhanA bhI adbhuta pANDitya hai / khaira, vaha prazna bhI prakSepaka ke Upara paDatA hai ki eka hI mAtA pitA se paidA hone vAle bhAI bahina kI raktazuddhi to samAna hai phira strI pA~caveM guNasthAna taka hI kyoM ? yadi striyoM meM rakta mA~sa kI zuddhi kA zrabhAva mAnA jAya to kyA unake sahodara bhAiyoM se unakI kula jAti judI mAnI jAyagI ? aura kyA sabhI striyA~ jAraja mAnI jAya~gI ? 1 AkSepa ( jha ) - binA vajra vRpabhanArAca saMhanana ke mukti prApta nahIM hotI / kahiye zarIra zuddhi meM dharma hai yA nahIM ? samAdhAna - sahanana ko bhI rakta mAMsa zuddhi samajhanA vicitra pANDitya hai | kyA vyabhicArajAtoM ke vajra vRSabhanA rAca saMhanana nahIM hotA ? kyA macchoM ke vajra vRSabhanArAca sahanana nahIM hotA ? yadi hotA hai to ina jIvoM kA zarIra brAhmI sundarI sItA zrAdi deviyoM aura paJcamakAla ke zratavalI tathA aneka zrAcAryoM ke zarIra se bhI zuddha kahalAyA kyoMki inake vajravRSamanArAca saMhanana nahIM thA / kahIM rakta zuddhi kA artha kulazuddhi jAtizuddhi karanA, kahIM sahanana karanA vikSiptatA nahIM to kyA ? AkSepa (Ja) - subhaga Adi prakRtiyoM ke udaya se puNyAtmA jIvoM ke sahanana sasthAna Adi itane priya hote haiM ki unheM chAtI se cipaTAne kI lAlasA hotI hai| ( vidyAnanda )

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( 177 ) samAdhAna-immIliye to zarIra ke sAtha jainadharma kA kucha sambandha nahIM hai / zarIra ke acche hone se use chAtI se cipaTAne kI lAlasA hotI hai parantu kisI ko chAtI se cipaTAne se mokSa nahIM milatA, mokSa dUra bhAgatA hai| dharma aura mona ke liye to yaha vicAra karanA par3atA hai ki "pala rudhira gadhamala thailI, kIkasa basAdi te mailI / navadvAra bahe ghinakArI, asa deha kareM kima yaarii||" AkSepa (2)-jahA~ rakta mAMsa kI zuddhi nahIM hai, vahA~ dharmasAdhana bhI nahIM hai, yathA varga zrAdi / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-devoM ke zarIra meM raktamAMsa kI zuddhi nahIM hai parantu azuddhi bhI to nahIM hai| yadi zarIra kA dharmase sambandha hotA to devoM ko mona bahuta jaldI miltii| samantabhadra svAmI ne AptamImAMsA meM tIrthakara bhagavAna ko lakSya karake kahA hai ki "bhagavan ! zArIrika mahatva to Apake samAna devoM meM bhI hai isaliye zrApa mahAna * nahIM haiN"| isase do vAte siddha hotI hai / pahilI to yaha hai ki paramAtmA banane ke liye yA paramAtmA kahalAne ke liye zarIra zuddhi kI bAta kahanA markhatA hai| dUsarI yaha ki devA kA zarIra mI zuddha hotA hai phira bhI ve dharma nahIM kara paate| agara 'rakta mAMsa kI zuddhi' zabda ko ho pakaDA jAya to bhogabhUmijoM ke yaha zuddhi hotI hai, phira bhI ve dharma nahIM kara pAte hai / pazuoM ke yaha zuddhi nahIM hotI kintu phira bhI ve ina sabase adhika dharma paMcamaguNasthAna aura zukla lezyA dhAraNa kara lete hai| zarIrazuddhidhArI mAMgabhUmija to sirpha cauthA guNasthAna aura pIta lezyA taka hI dhAraNa karapAte haiN| *adhyAtma pahirapyeSa vigrahAdimahodayaH / divyaH satyo divaukassvapyasti rAgAdimatsu lH|

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( 178 ) sleccha aura sudRSTi ke mokSagamana tathA pUjyapAda zrIra viSeNa zrAdi zrAcAyoM ke pramANAM ma vyabhicArajAna zrAdi bhI mokSa jA sakate haiM yaha bAta likhI jA cukI hai / ikkIsavA~ prazna | alpasakhyA hone se muniyoM ko zrAhAra meM kaThinAI honI haiM / yadyapi Ajakala muni nahIM hai, phira bhI agara muni hA~ to ve saba jagaha vihAra nahIM kara sakse kyoMki aneka prAntoM meM jainI hai hI nahIM thora jahAM hai bhI vahAM prAyaH nagaroM meM hI hai / muniyoM meM agara itanI zakti ho ki ve jahA~ cAhe jAkara naye jainI banAveM aura samAja ke Upara prabhAva DAlakara una naye jainiyoM ko samAja kA zraha svIkAra karAveM to yaha samasyA hala ho sakatI hai / parantu hara jagaha turanta hI naye jainI banAnA aura uddiSTatyAgapUrvaka unase AhAra lenA muzkila hai, isaliye jaina samAja ko bahusakhyaka hone kI AvazyakatA hai| vidhavAvivAha sakhyAvRddhi meM kAraNa hai, isaliye vidhavAvivAha munidharma ke astitva ke liye bhI zranyatama sAdhana hai / AkSepa ( ka ) - jaba mArga meM jaina janatA nahIM taba jo bhakta gRhastha apanA kAma dhandhA choDakara munisevAmeM lage uma ke samAna dUsaga purAya nahIM / muniyoM ko hAtha se roTI banAkara khAne kI salAha denA dhRSTatA hai / samAdhAna --muniyoM ko aisI salAha denA dhRSTatA hogI parantu DhoMgiyoM ko aisI salAha denA parama puNya hai / jainazAstroM ke anusAra uddiSTatyAga ke binA koI muni nahIM ho sakatA aura uddiSTatyAga isaliye karAyA jAtA hai ki ve zrArambhajanya hiMsA ke pApa se bceN| nimantraNa karane meM vizeSArambha karanA paDatA hai / uddiSTatyAga meM sAmAnya zrArambha hI rahatA hai

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( 176) mAmAnya zrorambha ke atirikta jitanA prArambha hotA thA usase bacane ke liye uddiSTatyAga kA vidhAna hai| isa jagase prArambha ke bacAne ke liye agara zrAvakoM ko ghara baTora kara muniyoM ke pIche calanA paDe aura naye naye sthAnoM meM naye taraha se nayA zrArambha karanA par3e to yaha kIDI kI rakSA ke nAma para hAthI kI hatyA karanA hai / darjanoM kuTumbI paradeza meM jAkara muniyoM ke liye inanA jyAdA prArambha kareM to isa kArya ko koI mahAmaha miyAdRSTi hI puNya mamajha sakatA hai / isakI apenA no muni kahalAne vAlA vyakti hAtha meM pakA gvAle to hI acchA hai| AkSepa (ba)-achUnoM ke hAtha lagane se jala apeya ho yaha andhera nahIM hai| * * upadeza zakyAnuSThAna kA hI hotA hai| geheM khAdya hai aura khAta anAya / ..... ...."jinake hRdaya meM bhI camAra brAhmaNa saba paka hA~ isa mue kI dRSTi meM matra sandhe hI rahegA / (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-pagiDataTala kI maDhatApUrNa mithyAtvavardhaka mAnyatA ke anusAra zuddha ke sparza meM jalAzaya kA jala bhI apaya hojAtA hai / isapara hamane kahA thA ki jalAzayoM meM to nayaM zUdroM se bhI nIca jalacara rahate hai| isapara AkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki vaha azaSayAnuSThAna hai / khaira! jalAzayoM ko jala cage ke sparza me yatrAnA azaSyAnuSThAna mahI parantu sthalacara pazuoM mparza se bacAnA to gazya hai / phira thalacara pazuoM kaM mparza me jalAzayoM kA jala apaya kyoM nahIM mAnate ? pazuoM ke mparzale peya na mAnanA aura manuSyoM ke sparza sa apaya mAnanA ghAra dhRSTatA nahIM to kyA hai ? isakA spaSTa kAraNa to yahI hai ki jinake pAge tuma jAtimada kA nagA nAca karAnA cAhate ho unhIM ke viSaya meM zrampRzyatA kI ghAta nikAlate ho /

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(10) khAta kA sparza gma gandha varNa mamI ghRNita hai| usameM kRmi Adi bhI rahate hai isaliye vaha aNAdha hai / gehU~ meM ye bugAiyA~ nahIM hai isaliya khAdya hai| kyA nAkSepaka batalAyagA ki jIvita prANiyoM ko nigala jAne vAle magara macchoM meM tathA anya azucimAjI pazutroM meM aisI kaunasI vizeSatA hai jisase vezadroM se bhI acche samajhe jAte hai| hamAre sAmana tA brAhmaNa aura zuddha donoM yagAvara hai| jA sadAcArI hai vahI ucca hai| tuma marIkha sadAcArazatruzrI aura dharmadhvasiyoM meM hI saTAcAra kA kucha mUlya nahIM hai / tuma loga zaitAna ke pujArI ho isaliye durAcArga ko itanA dhuNina nahIM samajhate jitanA zudra kA / hama loga bhagavAna mahAvIra ke upAsaka hai isaliye hamArI dRSTi meM zada bhI bhAI ke samAna hai / sirpha durAcArI niMdya hai| AkSepa (ga)-jaba taka zarIra meM jIva hai naba taka vaha hADa mAMsa nahIM ginA jAnA / (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-taba to zudra kA zarIra bhI hADa mAMsa na ginA jAyagA / phira usake hAtha ke jala le aura usase chue hue jalAzaya ke jala taka se itanI ghRNA SayoM ? vidyAnanda ne hamAre lekha meM bhASA kI galliyA~ nikAlane kI asaphala ceSTA kI hai| hindI meM vimakti cinha kahA~ lagAnA cAhiye, kahA~ nahIM, isaka samajhane ke liye AkSepaka ko kucha adhyayana karanA par3egA / 'khAne nahIM milatA'-yahA~'ko' lagAne kI koI AvazyakatA nahIM hai / agara 'ko' lagAnA aisA anivArya ho to 'maiM jAna bhI na pAyA ki usane pakaDa liyA' ima vAkya meM jAne ke sAtha 'ko' lagAnA cAhiye aura 'jAne ka bhI na pAyA' likhanA cAhiye / 'z2yAdA' 'z2yAdaha' 'jyAdaha, jyAdA inameM se kaunasA prayoga Thoka hai isa kI mImAMsA

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(181) kA yaha sthala nahIM hai| aisI aprastuta bAtoM ko uThAkara AkSe. paka, arthAntara nAmaka nigrahasthAna meM gira gayA hai / AkSepa (gha)-noTisabAjI karate karate kisakA dama nikalA jAtA hai| garmI kI bImArI mumbaI meM ho sakatI hai| yahA~ tA napAyI ThATha hai / (vidyAnanda) __ samAdhAna-noTisabAjI kA garmI kI bImArI se kyA mambandha ? aura garmI kI bImArI ke abhAva kA navAbIThATha se kyA sambandha ? ye bImAriyA~ to navAyI ThATha vAloM ko hI duA karatI haiN| hA~, isa vaktavya se yaha yAna jarUra siddha ho jAtI hai ki Apaka, samAjasevA kI zroTa meM navAcI ThATha se khara moja uDA rahA hai so jaba taka samAja andhI aura mUDha he naya taka koI bhI usake mAla meM mauja uDA sakatA hai| prAkSepa (Ta)-duniyA~ dUsaroM ke doSa dekhanI hai parantu dila khojA jAya to apane se buga kArDa nahIM hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-kyA isa bAta kA qhayAla zrAkSepaka ne sudhArakoM kA sate samaya bhI kiyA hai ? muniSiyoM ke viruddha jo hamane likhA hai vaha isaliye nahIM ki hameM kucha una garIya dIna jantuoM se dveSa hai| ve cecAre to bhUkha aura mAna kapAya ke satAye hue apanA peTa pAla rahe hai aura kaSAya kI pUrti kara rahe hai| aise nikRSTa jIva duniyA meM agaNita hai| hamAga to una saba saM mAdhyamthya bhAva hai / yahA~ jo ina DhoMgiyoM kI mamAlocanA kI hai vaha sirpha isaliye ki ina DhoMgiyoM ke poche mayA munidharma badanAma na ho jAya / anAdyavidyA ko bImArga se loga yoM hI mara rahe hai| isa apathya sevana se unakI yomArI aura na caDha jaay|

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(12) AkSepa (ca (-muniyoM ke sAtha zrAvaka samUha kA calanA nAjAyaz2a majamA nahIM hai| samAdhAna-kevalI ko choDakara aura kisI ke sAtha zrAvakasamUha nahIM clnaa| hA~, jaba bhaTTArakoM kI sRSTi huI aura unameM se jaba pichale bhaTTArakoM ne dharmasaMvA ke sthAna meM, samAja se pUjA karAnA aura navAcI ThATha se rahanA hI jIvana kA dhyeya banAyA taya avazya hI unane aisI AzAe~ gaha DAlI jisase unheM nAvavI ThATha se rahane meM subhItA ho / prAcIna logoM ke mahatva baDhAne ke bahAne unane apane svArtha kI puSTi kI / pIche bhole manuSyoM ne use apanA liyaa| AkSepa (cha)-gaTI to zrAThavIM pratimA dhArI bhI nahIM bnaataa| phira muniyoM se aisI bAta kahanA to asabhya jozakI carama sImA hai / (vidyAnanda) ___ samAdhAna-jina asabhya DhoMgiyoM ke liye roTI banAne kI bAta kahI gaI hai ve muni, zAThacI pratimAdhArI yA pahilI pratimAdhArI to dUra, jainI bhI nahIM hai, nikRSTa midhyAdRSTi hai / dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki prArambha tyAga meM prArambhatyAga to honA cAhiye / parantu ye loga peTapUjA ke liye jaisA ghora prArambha karAte haiM use dekhakara eka uddiSTatyAgI to kyA ArammatyAgI bhI zaramindA ho jaaygaa| vizeSa ke liye dekho 21-ka / zAnta ke viSaya meM 21-kha meM vicAra kiyA gayA hai| AkSepa (ja)-muniyoM ke liye agara kevala aprAsuka bhojana kA hI vicAra kiyA jAtA to mRlAdhAra Adi meM 16 udgama doSa aura 46 antarAya TAlane kA vidhAna kyoM hai ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-doSa aura antarAya ke bheda prabheda jo matA. dhAra Adi meM ginAye gaye haiM ve tIna bAtoM ko lakSya karake /

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( 183) 1 bhojana aprAsuka no nahIM hai, 2 muni ko koI kapAya bhogA. kAMkSA zrAdi no utpanna nahIM hotI hai, udAtA meM dAtA ke yogya guNa haiM ki nhiiN| bhojana ke viSaya meM to prAsukatA ke sivAya aura koI vizeSaNa DAlane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / zuddha jala me prAsukanA kA bhaGga hojAtA hai yA koI aura doSa upasthita ho jAnA hai, isa bAta kA vidhAna bhI mUlAdhAra meM nahIM hai| bhojya ke viSaya meM jinane dopa likhe gaye hai ve sirpha isIliye ki kisI naraha se vaha aprAmuka to nahIM hai / jAnimada kA nagA nAca dikhAne ke liye jala ke viSaya meM avicArayanya zarte to ina maTAndha DhoMgiyoM kI hI hai / jainadharma kA unake sAtha kucha bhI mambandha nahIM hai| vAIsavA~ prazna / isa praznakA sambandha bhI bAlavivAha se hai / isa viSayameM pahile bahuta kucha likhA jA cukA hai| isa viSayameM prAnapakA kA likhanA bilakula hAmyAspada hai| zrantu AkSepa (ka)-vivAha karake jo brahmacarya pAlana kareM vaha avazya puNya kA hetu hai| (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-jyA vivAha ke pahile brahmacarya pApa kA hetu hai ? brahmacarya ko kisI mamaya pApa kahanA kAmakITanA kA paricaya denA hai| AkSepa(kha) jinendra kI prAcAkA maga karanA pApa hai| bArahavarSa meM vivAha karane kI jinendrAhA hai| (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-jinendra, vivAha ke liye kama se kama umara kA vidhAna kara sakate hai, parantu jyAdA se jyAdA umara kA nhiiN| 12 varSa kA vidhAna jinendra kI prAthA nahIM hai / kucha lekhakoM ne mamaya dekhakara aise niyama banAye hai, aura ye krama se

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( 184) kama umara ke vidhAna hai| anyathA 16 varSa se adhika umara ke kumAra kA vivAha bhI pApa honA cAhiye / aisI tuccha aura brahmacarcaviruddha prAmAtraoM ko jinendra kI prAmA batalAnA jinandrakA avarNavAda karanA hai| AkSepa (ga)-jo brahmacarya bhI na le aura saMskAra bhI samaya para na kare vaha avazya pApI hai / bAhmI Adine to jIvana bhara vivAha nahIM kiyA isaliye una kA brahmacarya pApa nahIM hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-saMskAra, bUtAdi kI yogyatA prApta kagane liye hai| jaba manuSya pUrNa brahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara sakatA taba aAMzika vrahmacarya ke pAlana kagane ke liye vivAhakI zrAva. zyakatA hotI hai| vivAha samjhAra pUrNabrahmacarya kI yogyatA prApta nahIM karAtA isaliye jabataka koI pUrNabrahmacarya pAlana karanA cAhatA hai tabataka use vivAha saMskAra kI AvazyakatA nahIM hai| zAstroM meM aisI saikaDaoN kumAriyoM ke ullekha hai jinane vaDI umara meM, yuvatI ho jAne para vivAha kiyA hai| vizalyA-vivAha ke samaya 'zAtoDharI diggajakumbhazo. bhistanadvayAnUtanayauvanasthA' arthAt gajakumbhake samAna stanavAlI thii| padmapurANa 65-74 / / jayacandrA-sUryapurake rAjA zakradhanukI putrI jayacandrA ko apane Apa aura guNoM kA vaDA ghamaNDa thaa| isaliye pitA ke kahane para bhI usa ne kisI ke sAtha zAdI na karAI / anta meM vaha hariSeNa ke Upara rIjhI aura apanI sakhoke dvArA sotaM samaya hariSeNa kA haraNa karA liyaa| phira hariSeNa se vivAha karAyA / vaivAhika khAtavya aura umara ke bandhana ko na mAnane kA yaha acchA udAharaNa hai / padmapurANa - parva /

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( 2=5 ) padmA- -gAnA, bajAnA sIla rahI thii| zrIgaTa dekhA nAM mohita hogaI aura mAnA vinAdi kI corI se zrIkaNTha ke sAtha cala dii| pitA ne zrIkaNThakA pIchA kiyA kintu laDAI ke avasara para padmA ne kahA diyA ki maiM apanI ucchA le AI hai, maiM inhIM ke sAtha vivAha karu~gI / zrantameM pitA calA gayA aura isane zrIkaNThase vivAha kara liyaa| parva padmapurANa / aJjanA -- vivAha ke samaya 'kumakumbhani mastanI' gaja kumbhake samAna stana vAlI arthAt pUrNa yuvatI zrI / padmapurA 15-17 / - kekayA--gAnA nAcanA zrAdi aneka kalAoM meM pravINa, dazaratha kI yuddha meM sahAyatA denevAlI kekayA kA varNana jaisA padmapurANa 24 meM parva meM vistAra se milatA hai vaha 12 varSa kI lar3akI ke lie zrasambhava hai / kumAriyA~ - candravardhana vidyAdhara kI ATha taDakiyA~ / sItA svayasra ke samaya inane lakSmaNa kA mana hI mana vara liyA thA parantu vivAha usa samaya na ho paayaa| jaba lakSmaNa gavaNa se yuddha kara rahe the usa samaya mI ye lakSmaNa ko dekhane phuNcii| yuddha ke bAda vivAha huA | ye eka hI mAnA se paidAIzrI isaliye agara choTI kI umara 12 varSa kI ho nI baDI kI umara 16 kI jarura hogii| phira sItA svayamvara ke samaya jinane mana hI mana lakSmaNa kA vagya kiyA usakA usa samaya vivAha na huA, kaI varSa bAda aria ke vAha huA, usa samaya taka unakI umara aura bhI jyAdA yaha gaI / ATha gandharva kanyAe~ -- eka hI mAnA meM paidA huI isa liye inakI umara meM antara thA / parantu ye eka sAtha rAmacandra

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(16) se vivAhI gaI / vivAha ke yogya umara ho jAne para icchita vara ke na milane se inheM vATa dekhate rukanA pdd'aa| laDAsandarI-hanumAna ke sAtha imane ghora yuddha kiyaa| pamapurANa ke 53 parva meM umakA caritra par3hane meM isakI proDhatA kA patA lagatA hai| purANoM meM aise saikar3oM ullekha milate hai jiname cuvanI. vivAha kA pUrNa samarthana hAtA hai| kanyAe~ kArDa pranizA kara letI yA kisI qhAsa puruSa ko cuna letI jisake kAraNa unheM varSoM bATa dekhanI paDatI thI / aisI avasthA meM 12 varSa kI umara kA niyama nahIM ho sktaa| kanyAoM ke jaise varNana milate hai unase bhI unake yauvana aura paripakvabuddhitA kA paricaya milatA hai jA 12 varSa kI umara meM asambhava hai| ina udAharaNoM se yaha vAna bhI siddha ho jAtI hai ki pugane samaya meM kanyA ko svatantratA thI aura unheM pati pasaMda karane kA adhikAra thA / usa svatantratA aura pasandagI kA vigaMdha karane vAle zAstravirAdhI aura dharmalopI hai| AkSepa (gha)-yadi brahmacarya kI itanI himAyata karamA hai nA vidhavA ke liye brahmacarya kA hI vidhAna kyoM nahIM banAyA jAtA? samAdhAna-cAhe kumAriyA~ ho yA vidhavAe~ ho hama donoM ke liye valAd brahmacarya aura balAvivAha burA samajhate hai| jo vidhavAe~ brahmacarya se rahanA cAha, rahe / jo vivAha karanA cAhe, vivAha kreN| kumAriyoM ke liye bhI hamArA yahI kahanA hai / kumArI aura vidhavA jaya taka brahmacarya se raheMgI nava naka puNyabandha hogaa| AkSepa (Ga)- jo loga yaha kahate hai ki jitanA brahmacarya pala sake utanA hI acchA hai ve brahmacarya kA artha ho

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( 1=7 ) nahIM samajhate / brahmacarya kA artha majabUrI se maithuna kA zrabhAva nahIM hai kintu zrAtmA kI thora Rju hone ko brahmacarya kahate haiM / koI kanyA manameM kisI sundara vyakti kA citavana kara rahI hai| kyA Apa use brahmacAriNI samajhate haiM ? I ( vidyAnanda samAdhAna - kitanI acchI bAta hai ! mAlUma hotA hai chipI huI sudhArakatA asAvadhAnI se chalaka paDI hai / yahI bAta to sudhAraka kahate haiM ki vidhavAoM ke maithunAbhAva ko ve brahmacarya nahIM mAnate kyoMki yaha vidhavAoM ko majabUrI se karanA paDatA hai aura yaha majabUrI nirupAya hai / kumAriyoM ke liye yaha bAta nahIM hai / unheM majabUrI se brahmacarya pAlana nahIM karanA pdd'taa| phira unake liye vivAha kA mArga khulA huA haiM / vivAha sAmagrI rahane para bhI agara koI kumArI vivAha nahIM karatI to usakA kAraNa brahmacarya hI kahA jAsakatA hai| vidhavAoM ko agara vivAha kA pUrNa adhikAra ho aura phira bhI agara ve vivAha na kareM to unakA vaidhavya brahmacarya kahalAyagA | AkSepa (ca) sabako eka ghATa pAnI pilAnA -- eka uDe se haoNkanA nItiviruddha hai / samAdhAna-eka ghATa se pAnI pilAyA jAtA hai aura eka DaNDe se bahuta se pazu hAMke jAte hai| jaba eka ghATa zrIra eka DarAr3e se kAma calatA hai taba usakA virodha karanA phijUla hai| kumAra kumArI aura vidhuroM ko jina paristhitiyoM ke kAraNa vivAha karanA paDatA hai ve paristhitiyoM yadi vidhavA ke liye bhI maujUda hai to ve bhI vivAhaghATa se pAnI pI sakatI haiN|

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naIsavA~ prazna / rasa prazna rAsambandha vijAnIya vicAra adhi| bijAnI ra vigrAha pa viSaya meM ranamAlimA nA cala hai ki patra jo kucha likhA jAya badama pipayaga hogaa| AkSepa (4)-mAmaya pahane hai ki jAniyA~ yAdi hai / (zrIlAla vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jAtiyA~ dA nAda bhI hai-malirana, akalpina / pandriya prAdi zAspina jAniyA~ i / bAkI brAhmaNa kSapriyAH kalpina tAnigaM hai| pandriya zAdi akalpita nAni anAdi hai| karigna jAniyAM anAdi nahIM hai anyathA inako racanA RSamadeva ne kI yA bhagna nakIyaha bAta zAstroM meM kyoM nignI hotI ? aApa (gna nAmajandra midAntavanAnI ne 12 baraya jAtiyA~ kahI hai| (zrIlAla ) mamAdhAna-yAtevaka agara kisI pAThazAlA ma jAkara gommaTamAra paDhale nA vaha nemicandrakA namakane lgegaa| nami. candra ne mirpha paoNtra hI jAtiyoM kA ulaMna kiyaa| 12 khagya jAtiyoM kA ullekha banAne ke liye hama zrAneeka ko cunautI dene hai / 32 lanna koTI kuloM kA ullagna nemicandra ne z2arUra kiyA hai parantu una kuloM ko jAni samajha lenA ghora mUrkhatA kA paricaya denA hai| gommaTamAra TIkA meM hI kula bheTI kA artha zarIganpAdaka vargaNAprakAra kiyA gayA hai / arthAt zarIra banane ke liye jitanI taraha kI vargaNAeM lagatI hai utane hI kula hai / eka ho yonise paidA hone vAle zArgageM kula lAkhoM hote haiM kyoMki yonibheDase kulake bheTa lAgdo guNe he aura eka hI jAni-meM cAhe vaha kalpina hA yA akalpita-lAkhoM

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( 186) naraha kI yoniyA~ honI hai| isaliye yoni yA kunna ko jAniyA~ kahanA bilakula murkhanA hai| zAstramAga ne bhI yAnibhena aura kunabheTI bha jAni nahIM kahA / nAkiyoM meM jAtibheda nahIM hai phira bhI lAjo yoniyoM aura manuSya ko apanA duguna meM bhI "pradhika kula hai| yAkSepa (ga)-kAlakI palaTanA anumAra jAtiyoMkI samAgI yadala gaI / (vidyAnanda ) mamAdhAna-nA pugane nAma milanA cAhiye yA anya vi.sIpa meM inakA ullaMndra jhAnA cAhiye / AkSepa (gha)-jAni eka zabda hai, usakA vAcya zugara guNampa no sanAdi ananta hai| agara paryAyasapanA dhrauvya kyA hai / jo dhovya hai vahI jAniyAM kA jIvana hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-nazanA kA jAti kahate haiN| sadRzanA guNa paryAya di mamI meM ho sakatI hai| dravya guNa kI marazanA anAdi haiM aura paryAya kI madazanA sAdi hai / vartamAna jAniyA~ (jinameM vivAha kI carcA hai)tA na guNampa hai na pryaayaa| vanAM bilakula liAna hai| nAmanita pa meM adhika inakA mahatva nahIM hai / yadi inakA paryAyakA mAnA jAya to inakA mUla jIva mAnanA paDegA / hamAlaya Ane paka ke zabdAnumAra 'jIvanya jAni kahalAyagI / jIya ko eka jAti mAna kara ummakA pudgala dharma adharma ma vivAha karane kA niSedha kiyA jAya tA kArDa Apatti nahIM hai| jima pracAra kalAniyA, agAlI, bihAga, lakhanavI, kAnapurI Adi meM anAditva nahIM hai usI prakAra ye jAtiyA~ haiN| yadi AkSepaka kA ula ina upajAniyAM ko anAdi

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(160) ananta mAnatA hai, chaThe kAla meM bhI ye jAtiyA~ banI rahatI hai to yaha mAnanA hI par3egA ki vijAtIya vivAha Adi se ina jAtiyoM kA nAza nahIM ho sakatA / jaba jAti kA nAza karanA asambhava hai to usakI rakSA karane kI cintA mUrkhatA hai| AkSepa (Ga)-anumAnataH ina jAtiyoM kA navInatva prasiddha hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-mogabhUmiyoM meM jAtibheda nahIM thaa| RSamadeva ne tIna jAtiyA~ bnaaii| bharata ne cauthI / isase itanA to siddha ho gayA ki ye bharata ke pIche kI hai| inake yAda kisI anya tIrthakarAdi ne inakI racanA kI ho aimA ullekhna kahIM nahIM hai| hA~, aitihAsika pramANa itanA avazya milatA hai ki huenasaMga ke jamAne meM bhArata meM sirpha 36 jAniyA~ thI aura bhAja karIva 4 hajAra hai| isase mAlUma hotA hai ki pichale DeDha do hajAra varSoM meM jAtiyoM kA jvAra prAtA rahA hai usI se ye jAtiyA~ banI hai| jaba taka jainiyoM kA sAmAjika cala rahA taba taka ina jAtiyoM kI sRSTi karane kI jarUrata ho hI nahIM sakatI thii| bAda meM inakI sRSTi huI hai| caubIsavA~ prshn| isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA thA ki vidhavAvivAha se inake kauna kauna adhikAra chinate haiN| yaha bAta hamane aneka pramANoM se siddha kI hai ki inake koI adhikAra nahIM chinate / parantu zrIlAla ne to bilakula pAgalapana kA paricaya diyA hai| yaha bAta usake AkSepo se mAlUma ho jaaygii| AkSepa (ka)-jo adhikArI hokara adhikAra sambandhI kriyA nahIM karatA vaha dhikkArI bana jAtA hai|

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( 161) samAdhAna-koI isa AkSepaka se pUche ki tujhe muni banane kA adhikAra hai yA nahIM? yadi hai, no nU muni kyoM nahIM banatA ? ava tujhe dhikkArI kahanA cAhiye ? kyA Apaka inanA bhI nahIM samajhatA ki manuSya ko dharma karane kA pUrNa adhikAra hai parantu dharma utanA hI kiyA jAsakatA hai ki jitanI zakti hotI hai / (vizeSa ke liye jainajagat varSa 4 aGka 7 meM 'yogyatA aura adhikAra' zIrSaka lekha dekhanA cAhiye / ) "yArupavAle mAMsabhakSI hai isaliye jo hindusthAnI yorupa jAte haiM unakA ve apamAna karane hai kyoMki yorupa jAne vAle bhAratIya dharmakarmazUnya hai"| zrIlAla ke ina zabdoM ke viSaya meM kucha kahanA vRthA hai / bhAratIya chUnALUna choDa dete haiM yA popa paNDinoM kI zrAkSA meM nahIM calate isaliye unakA vilAyata ke loga apamAna karate hai, aisA kahanA jaya. dasta pAgalapana ke sivAya aura kyA kahA jA sakatA hai ? Alepa (ba)-sumukha Adi ke dRSTAnta se vyabhicAra kI puSTi nahIM hotI / ve no tyAga karake uttama gati gye| dAnAdi karake uttamagati pAI / isameM konasA Azcarya hai ? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-dharma se hI uttama gati milatI hai, parantu isa siddhAnta ko tuma loga kahA~ mAnate ho| tumhArA to kahanA hai ki aisA AdamI muni nahIM bana sakatA. dAna nahIM de sakatA, yaha nahIM kara sakatA, vaha nahIM kara sakatA / aba tuma yaha svIkAra karate ho ki vyabhicArI bhI dAna de sakatA hai, mani yA AryikA ke vrata le sakatA hai| yahI to hama kahate haiN| vivAha se yA vyabhicAra se mokSa kAI nahIM maantaa| tumhAre kahane se bhI yaha siddha ho jAtA hai / jainadharma ke anu

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( 162 ) mAra bhI una jAtiyoM ke koI adhikAra nahIM china skte| suTi ke liye alaga prazna haiM / vidyAnandajI kI bahutasI bAtoM kI zAlocanA prathama prazna meM ho cukI hai / AkSepa ( ga ) - vidhavAvivAha kI santAna kabhI mokSA. vikAriNI nahIM ho sktii| viSa kA bIja isaliye bhayaGkara nahIM hai ki vaha viSa vIja he parantu vipabIjotpAdaka hone se bhayaGkara hai | ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna- yaha vicitra vAna hai / vipavoja agara svataH mayara nahIM hai to usa ke khAne meM kArDa hAni na honI cAhiye, kyoMki peTa meM jAkara as farata paidA nahIM kara sakatA / vyabhicArI to vAstavika aparAdhI hai| usa ke nA adhikAra chine nahIM aura usa kI niraparAdha santAna kA adhikAra china jAya yaha andhera nagarI kA nyAya nahIM to kyA hai ? khai / raviSeNa AcArya ke kathanAnusAra vyabhicArajAna meM koI dUSaNa nahIM hotA / yaha hama pahile likha cuke hai| sudRSTi ke udAharaNa se bhI yaha bAta siddha hotI hai / AkSepa (gha) - savyasAcI kA yaha kahanA ki "vidhavAvivAha to vyabhicAra nahIM hai| usase kisI ke adhikAra kaise china sakate hai" 1 yaha bAta siddha karatI hai ki vyabhicAra se adhikAra chinate hai / samAdhAna- hamArI pUrI bAta uddhRta na karake zrakSepaka ne pUrI dhUrtatA kI hai| samAja kI A~khoM meM dhUna bhokanA cAhA hai| pUrI bAta yaha hai 'vyabhicArajAta sudRSTi sunAra ne muni dIkSA lI aura mokSa gyaa| yaha bAta prasidUdha hI hai| isase mAlUma hotA hai ki vyabhicAra se yA vyabhicArajAta hone se

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( 193) kisI ke adhikAra nahIM chinane / vidhavAvivAha to vyabhicAra nahIM hai / usase krimI ke adhikAra kaisa china sakate haiM ?' paccIsavA~ prazna / jina jAniyoM meM vidhavAvivAha hotA hai una meM koI muni bana sakatA hai yA nahIM? isake uttara meM dakSiNa kI jAtiyA~ prasiddha hai| zAMtisAgara kI jAti meM vidhavAvivAha kA zrAmataura para rivAja hai| mAkSepa (ka)-jina gharAnoM meM vidhavAvivAha hotAda una ghaganeke puruSa dIkSA nahIM lete ! paTela gharAnA vidhavAvivAha bilakula nahIM hotaa| koI khaMDelavAla agara vidhavA vivAha karale to samaga khaMDelavAla jAti dapina nahIM ho sktii| samAdhAna-~-zAMtisAgarakA jhuThApana acchI taraha siha kiyA jAcukA hai| sAmanA ho jAne para jaimA va muMha chipAte hai umage unakI kalAI bilakula khula jAtI hai / paTela dhaganeke viSaya meM likhA jA cukA hai / buTa zAntisAgara ke manIje ne vidhavAvivAha kiyA hai / yaha bAta jainajagat meM sapramANa nikana cukI haiN| yaha ThIka hai ki eka jaNDelavAla ke kAryase vaha jAtIya rivAja nahIM bana jAtA hai| parantu agara maikaDoM varSoMse hajAga jaNDelavAla vidhavA-vivAha karate ho, ve jAti meM bhI zAmila rahate ho, unakA geTI beTI vyavahAra saba jagaha hotA hA, nava vaha rivAja hI mAnA jAyagA / zAntisAgara jI kI jAti meM vidhavAvivAha pesA hI pracalita hai| zrAkSepa ( kha ) yadi anadhikArI hokara bhI koI dassAmani vanajAya tI manimArga kA vaha vikRta rUpa upAdeya kadApi nahIM ho sktaa| (vidyAnanda)

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( 164 ) samAdhAna - zAntisAgara kA muni bananA agara viruna rUpa hai to daloM kA muni na banane dene vAle zAntisAgara ko muni kyoM mAnate hai ? agara muni mAnate he to kisI kA muni banane kA adhikAra nahI china sakatA / honA aura sanA meM kArya kAraNabhAva hai| jahA~ honA hai vahA~ sakanA zravazya haiN| agara koI svarga jAnA hai to isase yaha bAta Apa hI siddha ho jAtI hai ki vaha svarga jA sakatA hai / jaba zAstrAM meM aisa muniyoM ke banane kA usa na haiM, unheM mokSa taka prApta huA hai taba unheM muni banana kA adhikAra nahIM haiM aisA kahanA mUrkhatA hai / sacce zAstroM meM kahIM kisIkA koI adhikAra nahIM chInA gayA / acche kAma karane kA adhikAra kabhI nahIM chInA jA sakatA / athavA narapizAca gakSasa hI aise adhikAroM ko chInane kI gustAkhI kara sakate hai / kabbIsavA~ prazna | vidhavAvivAha ke virAdhiyoM kA yaha kahanA hai ki usase paidA huI santAna mokSAvikAriNI nahIM hotI / hamAga kathana yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha se paidA huI santAna vyabhicArajAta nahIM hai aura mokSAdhikArI to vyabhicArajAna bhI hone he / zrArAdhanA kathA koSa meM vyabhicArajAta suddaSTi kA caritra isakA jabardasta pramANa hai / AkSepa ( ka ) - sudRSTi svaya apane vIrya se paidA huye the / ( zrImAla ) vivAhita puruSa se bhinnavIrya dvArA jAM lamtAma ho vaha vyabhicArajAta santati haiM / brAhmaNa, kSatrI, vaizya ina tIna varNoM kI koI strI yadi parapuruSagAminI hAM jAya to parapuruSotpanna santAna mokSa kI adhikAriNI nahIM

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(165 ) hai kyoMki vahA~ kulazuddhi kA abhAva hai / yadi usI strI ke vyabhicAriNI hone ke pahile svapati se koI santAna ho to vaha santati trividha karmoM kA kSaya karane para mukti prApta kara sakatI hai / ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-koI apane vIrya meM paTA ho jAya to usakI vyabhicArajAnatA naSTa nahIM ho jaanii| koI manuSya vezyA ke sAtha vyabhicAra kare aura zIghra hI mara kara apane hI vIrya se usI vezyA ke garbha se utpanna ho jAya to kyA yaha vyabhicArajAna na khlaaygaa| vidyAnanda kA kahanA hai ki parapuruSagAminI hone ke pahilaM utpanna huI santati kA mokSAdhi. kAra hai parantu sudRSTi kI pattI tA umakaM magna ke pahile hI parapuruSagAminI ho cukI thii| taba vaha mokSa kyoM gayA ? nimnalikhita zlokoM saM yaha bAta bilakula siddha hai ki vaha pahile hI vyabhicAriNI ho gaI thI vakrANyAM dupadhIstasyA gRhe chAtraHpravartate / tena sAI dugavAra sA kageni sma pApinA // 5 // ekaTA vimalAyAzca vAkyataH so'pi vakrakaH / supriM mAgyagamAma kurvanta kAmasaMvanam // 6 // arthAt vimalA ke ghara meM vakra nAma kA eka badamAza chAtra rahatA thA, usa pApI ke sAtha vaha vyabhicAra karatI thii| eka dina vimalA ke kahane se kAmasevana karate samaya uma vakra ne sudRSTi ko mAra ddaalaa| ___ isase mAlUma hotA hai ki sudRSTi ke marane ke pahile usakI strI vyabhicAriNI ho cukI thI, mudRSTi apanI vyabhicAriNI strI ke garbha se paidA hokara mAna gayA thaa| unake liya lajA AnA cAhiye jo hADa maoNsa meM zuddhi azuddhi kA vicAra karate hai aura jaba una vicAroM kI puSTi zAstroM se

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( 160 ) nahIM hotI to zAstroM kI bAtA ko chipAkara logoM ko pAkhA meM dhUla jhoMkate hai| grAkSepa (kha)-supi sunAra nahIM thA / ( zrIlAla, vidyaannd)| samAdhAna-purAne samaya meM prAyaH jAti ke anumAra hI loga AjIvikA karate the, isaliye pAnIvikA ke ullekha saM usakI jAti kA patA laga jAtA hai| agara kisI ko carmakAra na likhA gayA ho parantu jUte banAne kA bAta likhI ho, sAtha hI pregnI kAI bAta na linI hA jisasa baha camAra siddha na ho to yaha mAnanA hI par3egA ki vaha camAra thA / yahI bAta sudRSTi kI hai| usane rAnI kA hAra banAyA thA aura marane ke bAda dUsare janma meM bhI usane hAra bnaayaa| agara vaha sunAra nahIM thA to (1) pahile janma meM vaha hAra kyoM banAtA thA ? (2) brahmacArI nemidatta ne yaha kyoM na likhA ki vaha thA to vezya parantu sunAra kA yandhA karatA thA ? (3) dusare janma meM jaba rAjakarmacArI mara sunAge ke yahA~ cakkara lagA rahe the taba agara vaha sunAra nahIM thA tA usake yahA~ kyoM aaye| sudRSTi ke sunAra hone ke kAphI pramANa he / Aja se 16 varSa pahile jo isa kathA kA anuvAda prakAzita huyA thA aura jo sthitipAlako ke guru pa0 dhannAlAlajI ko samarpita kiyA gayA thA usameM bhI sudRSTi ko sunAra likhA hai| usakI vyabhicArajAtatA para no kisI kA sandeha ho hI nahIM sktaa| haoN, dhokhA dene vAloM kI bAta dUsarI hai| sattAIsavA~ prazna / somasena trivarNAcAra kA hama pramANa nahIM mAnate parantu

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(167) vidhavAvivAha ke vigI paNDina damako pUrNa pramANa mAnate hai, yahA~ naka ki uma pakSa ke munivepo lAga bhI use pUrNa pramANa mAnane hai / jisa prakAra kugana para apanI zradvA na hAne para bhI kisI musalamAna ko samajhAne ke liye kugana ke pramANa denA anucita nahIM hai usI prakAra trivarNAcAra kA na mAnate huye bhI mpitipAlakoM ko samajhAne ke liye usaka pramANa denA anucita nahIM hai| vivarNAcAra maMdA jagaha vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna hai aura donoM hI spaSTa hai garbhAdhAne pumavana nImantonnayana tathA / vadhuprayazane grADApunarvivAhamaMDane // --116 // pUjane kuladevyAzca kanyAdAne nathaiva ca / karmavatepa vai bhAyAM dakSiNe nRpaveSayet // --117 / / garbhAdhAna pumavana nImantonnayana badhRpraveza, vidhavAvivAha, kuladevIpUjA aura kanyAdAna ke samaya strI ko dAhinI pAra baitthaaye| isa prakaraNa se yaha bAta bilakula middha ho jAtI hai ki somasenajI ko strI punarvivAha svIkRta thaa| pIche ke lipikAga yA lipikArakA ko yaha bAta pasanda nahIM AI imaliye unane 'pagaDA' kI jagaha 'zudrA' pATha kara diyA hai / 60 pannA. lAlajI sonI ne donoM pAThoM kA ullana apane anuvAda meM kiyA thA parantu pAche la kimI ka bahakAna meM lAkara chapA huA patra phaDavA DAlA aura usake badale dUsaga patra lagavA diyaa| aba vaha phaTA huvA patra mila gayA hai jisase vAsta. vika bAta prakaTa ho gaI hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki ina zlokoM meM munidAna, pUjana, Agika, praniSThA tathA garbhAdhAnAdi saskAroM kI bAta AI hai isaliya yahA~ zaha kI bAta nahIM

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(168) AsakatI kyoMki granthakAra ke manAnumAra zradro ko ina kAryoM kA adhikAra nahIM hai / isaliye vAstava meM yahA~ raNDA puna. vivAha' pATha hI hai jaisA ki prAcIna pratiyoM se siddha hai| aba gyArahaveM adhyAya ke punarvivAha vidhAyaka zlokoM ko bhI dekha lenA cAhiye / 171 va zloka meM sAdhAraNa vivAha vidhi samApta ho gaI hai parantu granthakAra ko kucha vizeSa kahanA thA so unane 172 veM zloka se lagAkara 177 ce zloka taka kahA hai / parantu dUsarI AvRtti meM paNDitoM ne 174 ve zlokme "zratha pagmatammRtivacanam" aisA vAkya aura jAMDa diyA jo ki prathamAvRtti meM nahIM thA / khaira, ve kahIM ke ho parantu somasenajI unheM jainadharma ke anukUla samajhate hai isaliye una ko udhRta karake bhI unakA khaNDana nahIM karate / isIliye pannAlAla jI ne 172 ce zloka kI utthAnikA meM likhA hai ki "paramatake anusAra usa viSayakA vizeSa kathana karate hai jisa * kA jainamata ke sAtha koI virodha nahIM hai|' isaliye yahA~ jo pA~ca zloka uddhRta kiye jAte hai unake viSayameM koI yaha nahIM kaha sakatA ki ye to yahA~ vahA~ ke hai inase hameM kyA sambandha ? dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki somasena jI ne yahA~ vahA~ ke zlokoM se yo to ganthakA prAdhA kalevara bhara rakkhA hai, imaliye yahA~vahA~ ke zlokoM ke viSaya meM sirpha itanA hI kahA jA sakatA hai ki yaha racanA dUsaroM kI hai parantu mata to unhIM kA khlaaygaa| aura, una zlokoM ko dekhiye. vivAhe dampatI syAtAM trirAtraM brhmcaarinnau| alaMkRtA badhUzcaiva saha zayyAsanAzanau // 11-172 // vivAha hojAne ke bAda pati patnI tIna rAtri taka brahmacarya se rhe| isa ke bAda vadhU alakRta kI. jAya aura ve donoM sAtha sove sAtha baiThe aura sAtha bhojana kreN|

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( 166 ) dhvA sahaiva kurvIta nivAsa zvazurAlaye / caturthadina kecidevaM vadanti hi // 9 vara vadhU ke sAtha sasurAla meM ho nivAsa kare parantu koI koI kahate hai ki cauthe dina taka hI nivAsa kare / caturthImadhye jJAyante dAvA yadi varasya cet / dattAmapi punardadyAt pinAnyamai vidurbudhAH // 11-172 caudhI rAtri ko yadi varake dIpa (napuMsakatvAdi) mAlUma ho jAyeM to pitA ko cAhiye ki hI huI- vivAhI huI-kanyA phira se kisI dUsare ghara ko de de arthAt usa kA punarvivAha aisA buddhimAnoM ne kahA hai / pravaraikyAdidoSAH syuH patimahAdadhI yadi / saraf haredyAdanyasmA iti kecana // 11-175 agara patisagama ke bAda mAlUma par3he ki pati patni ke pravara gAtrAdi kI ekatA hai to pitA apanI dI huI kanyA kisI dUsare ko dede | kalau tu punarudvAhaM varjayediti gAntavaH / kammiMzcideza icchanti na tu sarvatra kaMcana // 11- 176 parantu gAntava RSi kahate hai ki kalikAla meM punarvivAha na kare aura koI koI yaha cAhate hai ki kahIM kahIM punarvivAha kiyA jAya saba jagaha na kiyA jAya | dakSiNa prAMnameM punarvivAhakA rivAja hone se bhaTTAraka jI ne usa prAnta ke liye yaha chUTa cAhI hai / yo to unane punarvi vAha ko zrAvazyaka mAnA hai parantu yadi dUsare prAMta ke loga punarvivAhana calAnA cAheM to maTTAraka jI kisI kisI prAnta ke liye khAsakara dakSiNa prAntakaM liye zrAvazyaka samajhate hai / pATaka dekhe ina zlokoM meM strIpunarvivAha kA kaisA z2abardasna samarthana haiM / yahA~ para yaha kahanA ki vaha puruSoM ke punarvivAha

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( 200 ) kA niSedhaka hai ghora ajJAnatA hai| 174-271 ve zlokoM meM kanyA ke punardAna yA punarvivAha kA prakaraNa hai / 1763 zloka meM punaH vivAha ke viSaya meM kucha vizeSa vidhi vanalAI gaI hai| vizeSa vidhi sAmAnyavidhi kI apekSA rapatI hai isaliye usakA navandha Upara ke Tono zlokoM se ho jAtA hai jinama ki strIpunavivAha kA vidhAna hai| 'kalau tu punarudvAha' 'kalikAla meM to punarvivAha' yahA~ para jA 'tu' zabda paDA hai vaha bhI batalAtA hai ki isakaM Upara punarvivAha kA prakaraNa rahA hai jisakA nAMzika niSedha gAlava karate haiN| yaha 'tu' zabda bhI itanA jayasta hai ki 176 ve loka kA sambandha 175 va zloka se kara detA hai aura aisI hAlanameM puruSa ke punarvivAha kI bAta hI nahIM paatii| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki purupA ke punarvivAha kA niSedha kisI kAla ke liye kisI prAcIna RSi ne nahIM kiyaa| hA~ eka patnIke rahate hue dUsarI patnIkA niSedha diyA hai| parantu vidhura hojAne para dUsarI patnIkA niSedha nahIM kiyA hai na aimI patnI ko mogapatnI kahA hai / isaliye bhogapatnI ke niSedha ko punarvivAhakA niSedha samajha lenA akSantavya zAbdika zradAna hai| matalaba yaha ki na to puruSoM kA punarvivAha niriddha hai na yahA~ usa kA prakaraNa hai, jisase 176 ve lokakA artha badalA jA sake / yaha kahanA ki hindu granthakAroM ne vidhavAvivAha kA kahIM vidhAna nahIM kiyA hai bilakula bhUla hai| niyoga aura vidhavAvivAha ke vidhAnoMse hindU smRtiyA~ bharI paDI hai / isa kA lekha amitagati zrAdi jaina granthakAroM ne bhI kiyA hai| sthitipAlaka paNDita 175 veM zloka ke patisagAdhoM' zabdoM kA bhI mithyA artha karate haiM / patisaga zabda kA pANipIDana artha karanA hada darje kI dhokhebAz2I hai / patisara-pati

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( 201) "sammAMga" yaha mIyA saccA artha hareka AdamI samajhatA hai| 174 ce zlAka ke caturthI zaTa kA mI pANipIDana artha kiyA hai ora idhara patisaha zanTa kA bhI pANipIDana artha kiyA jAya nA 175 vaoN zloka vilakula nirarthaka hojAtA hai imaliye yahA~ para pANipohana artha loka, zAstra aura granthagcamA kI dRSTi se bilakula jhUThA hai| adhaH zanda kA artha hai 'poche', parantu ye paNDita karataM hai pahilaM': parantu na to kisI kAMpa kA-pramANa dete hai aura na sAhityika prayoga batalAte hai / parantu adhaH zabda kA artha pIche yA bATa hAnA hai. isake udAharaNa nA jitanaM cAhe mileNge| jaima adhomaktaM arthAt gAMjanAnte pIyamAna jalATikam-bhojana ke anta meM piyA gayA jalATika / isI taraha "adhAlikhita loka" zabda kA artha hai 'isake bAda likhA gayA zloka' na ki 'ima pahile likhA gayA zloka' / imaliye 'panisahAdadhaH zaTa kA artha duvA 'sambhAga ke bAda jaba sambhAga ke bAda kanyA dumare ko do jAmakatI hai taba strIpunarvivAha ke vidhAna kI spaSTatA aura kyA hogI? agara 'pradhA' zabda kA artha 'pahile' bhI kara liyA jAya nAM bhI 1752 zanAka se strIpunaryivAha kA samarthana hI hotA hai| 'sammAMga ke pahile' zabda kA matalaba huA saptapadI ke bAda' kyoMki sammAga saptapadI ke bAda hAtA hai| yadi saptapadI ke pahile taka hI punardAna kI vAna unheM svIkRta hotI to ve patisaga zanTa kyoM DAlane ? matapaTI zabda hI DAlane / saptapaDhI ke hAjAne para vivAha pUrNa ho jAtA hai aura jaba saptapadI ke bAda punAna kiyA jA sakatA hai to strIpalivAha siddha ho gyaa| trivarNAcAra meM yadi ekAdha zabda hI strIpunarvivAha

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(202) sAdhaka hotA to bAta dUrI thI, parantu unane to aneka prakaraNoM meM aneka taraha se strIpunarvivAha kA samarthana kiyA hai / isa trivarNAcAra meM aisI bahuta kama vAte he jo jaina dharma ke anukUla ho / una bahuta thoDI bAtoM meM eka bAta yaha bhI hai / isaliye trivarNAcAra ke bhakto kA kama se kama vidhavAvivAha kA tA pUrNa samarthaka honA caahiye| itanA likhane ke bAda jo kucha AkSepakoM ke zrAkSepa raha gaye haiM unakA samAdhana kiyA jAtA hai| AkSepa (ka)-gAlava RSi to punarvivAha kA niSedha kara rahe haiM / Apa vidhAna kyoM samajha baiThe ? (zrIlAla, vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-gAlava RSi ne sirpha kalikAla ke liye punarvivAda kA niSedha kiyA hai| isaliye unake zabdoM se hI pahile ke yugoM meM punarvivAha kA vidhAna siddha huA / tathA isI zloka ke uttarArdha se yaha bhI siddha hotA hai ki koI zrAcArya kisI kisI deza ke liye kalikAla meM bhI punarvivAha cAhate haiM / isaliye yaha zloka vidhavAvivAha kA samarthaka hai| __ bhogapatnI Adi kI bAtoM kA khaNDana kiyA jA cukA hai| zrIlAlajI ne jo 172 veM zrAdi zlokoM kA artha kiyA hai vaha bilakula bebuniyAda tathA unakI hI pArTI ke paMDita pannAlAla jI sonI ke bhI viruddha hai| ina zlokoM meM rajasvalA hone kI bAta to eka baccA bhI na khegaa| AkSepa (kha)-manusmRti meM bhI vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha hai| samAdhAna-AkSepaka yaha bAta to mAnate hI hai ki hindu zAstroM meM paraspara virodhI kathana bahuna hai| isaliye vahAM vidhavAvivAha aura niyoga kA eka jagaha joradAra samarthana

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( 203 ) pAyA jAtA hai to dUsarI jagaha brahmacarya kI mahattA ke liye donoM kA niSedha bhI pAyA jAtA hai| nagara paristhiti kI dRSTi meM vicAra kiyA jAya to ina mavakA samanvaya ho jAtA hai| khaira, manummRti tathA anya smRniyoM meM vidhavAvivAha yA strI punarvivAha ke kAphI pramANa pAye jAte haiN| unameM se kucha ye hai yA panyA vA parityaktA vidhavA stryecchyaa| utpAdayatpuna nvA sa paunarbhava ucyate // manummati:-275 // mA neTakSanayoniH myAd ganapratyAgatApi vaa| paunarbhavana bhI sA puna saMskAramarhati // 6-176 // pati ke dvAgachoDI gaI yA viyatrA, apanI icchA se dUmare kI bhAryA ho jAya aura jo putra paidA kare vaha ponarbhava kahalA. yg| yadi vaha strI akSatayAMni ho aura dUsare pati ke sAtha vivAha kare to unakA punarvivAha samjhAra hogaa| (ponarbhavana bharnA punarvivAhAsyaM saMskAramahati ) athavA apane komAra pati ko choDakara dUsare pati ke mAtha calI jAya aura phira loTakara usI kaumAra pati ke sAtha bAjAya no unakA punarvivAha saskAra hogA / ( yahA kaumAraM patimutsRjyAnyamAzrinya punastameva pratyAgatA bhavati tadA nena kaumAreNa bhApunavivAhA. syaM sNskaarmhti)| yahAM punarvivAha ko samkAra kahA he isaliye yaha siddha hai ki vaha vyabhicArarUpa yA nidhanIya nahIM hai| hinduzAstroM ke anusAra kalikAla meM pAgazammRti mukhya hai| 'kalo pArAzagaH smRtAH' / pArAzarasmRti meM to punarvivAha minakula spaSTa hai naSTe mRte pravajita klIve ca patite ptii| pacakhApatsu nArINAM patiranyo vidhIyate 1 4-30 //

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( 204) pati ke kho jAne para, mara jAne, manyAmI hojAna, napu. maka hone tathA panita hAjAne para striyoM ko dumaga pani kara lane kA vidhAna hai| pani zabda kA 'panau' rUpa nahIM honA-yaha yahAnA nikAla kara zrolAlajI nayA anya loga 'apato' zabda nikA late hai aura apani kA artha karate haiM-jimakI sirpha gArDa huI hA / parantu yaha zaMga bhrama hai / zyoMki hama zloka ko janAcArya zrIamita gani na vidhavAvivAha ke samarthana meM hI uddhata kiyA hai / dekhiye dharmaparIkSA - patyo prajite loye pranapTe patite mRt| pacambApatsu nArINAM panignyA vidhIyate // 11-12 // marI bAta yaha hai ki agara yahA~ 'apano' nikalanA hotA to 'apatiranyA vidhIyana aimA pATha rakhanA paDanA jA ki yahA~ nahIM hai aura na chandomaga ke kAraNa yahA~ prakAra nikAlA jA sakatA hai| nIsarI vAna yaha hai ki apani zabda kA artha jisakI sirpha sagAI huI ho aimA pati' nahIM honaa| apani zabda ke isa artha ke liye kAI namanA peza karanA cAhiye / / cauthI bAta yaha hai ki pani zabda ke rupa hari lagekhe bhI calane hai / kyoMki pati kA artha jahA~ sAdhAraNataH svAmI, mAnika yaha hotA hai vahA~ mamAma meM hI ghi sanA hotI hai isaliye vahA~ 'patau' aisA rUpa nahIM bana sakanA / parantu jahA~ pati zabda kA lAkSaNika artha pati arthAt 'vivAhita puruSa' artha liyA jAya vahA~ asamAsa meM bhI ghi saMjJA ho jAtI hai jisase pato yaha rUpa bhI banatA hai| 'pati samAsa parva' isa matra kI tatvabodhinI TIkA meM gvulAsA taura para yaha bAta likha dI gaI hai aura usameM pArAzarasmRni kA "panite pano"

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( 205 ) ghAlA zloka bhI uddhana kiyA gayA hai jinase bhI mAlUma hotA hai ki yahA~ 'apanoM' nahIM hai 'pato' hai / "atha katha sItAyA pataye namaH" iti, 'na mRte pravajine klIvaM ca patinaM pto| patrambApananu nArINAM panignyA vidhIyate' ini pArAzarazca / atrAhuH patiriti AkhyAtaH patiH natkagati naTAcaSTe ini Nici Tilope anna iH ityauNAdikapratyaye NeraniTi ini NilApe ca niSpannA'yaM patiH "pani samAsaH eva ityatra na gRhyate, laakssnniktvaaditi"| pani zabda ke ghisaMzika rUpoM ke aura bhI namana milate he nathA vaidika saMskRta meM aima prayoga bahulatA se pAye jAte he / pahile hama yajurveda ke udAharaNa dete hai namo rudrAyAnanAyine kSetrANAM pataye namaH, namaH sUnAsa innya banAnAM pataye namaH / 16 / 18 / isI taraha 'kakSANAM panaye namaH' 'pattInAM pataye namaH zrAdi baTuna se prayoga pAye jAte haiN| svayaM pArAzara naM-jinake zlApha para yaha vivAda cala rahA hai-anyatra bhI ''to' prayoga kiyA hai / yathA jAgeNa janayaMdUgarbha mRta tyakta gate pto| nAM tyajedapara rASTra panitAM pApakAriNIm // 10-31 // arthAt pati ke mara jAne para yA pani sa choDI jAne para jo strI vyabhicAra se garbha dhAraNa kare usa pApinI ko deza meM nikAla denA cAhiye / arthAt pAgazarajI yaha nahIM cAhate ki koI strI vyabhicAra kre| vidhavA yA patihIna strI kA karta. nya hai ki vaha punarvivAha karale yA brahmacarya se rahe, parantu vyabhicAra kamI na kare / jA striyA~ Upara se nA vidhavAvigAhako yA unake pracArakoM ko gAliyA~ detI aura bhItara hI bhItara vyabhicAra karatI hai ve sacamuca mahApApinI hai|

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( 206 ) hemakopa meM bhI patI zabda kA prapoga huyA hai / 'dhayAM dhRta nare pato' / yahA~ para dhava aura pati zabda kA paryAyavAcI kahA hai aura pati zabdakA patA rUpa likhA hai| vyAsa smRti meM bhI pataye prayoga hai / 'dAmIvAdiekAryeSu bhAryA bhartuH sadA bhavet / tatonnasAdhanaM kRtvA panayaM vinivedya tat // 2-27 // yahA~ patike prati bhAki kartavya batalAye hai / yahA~ bhI sagAI vAlA pati artha nahIM kiyA jA sakatA hai| zazinIva himAAnAM gharmAnAnAM gvAviva / manona ramate strINAM jaga jIrNendriye ptaa|| mitralAbha-hitopadeza / isa zloka ke artha meM apanI nikAlane kI ceSTA karake zrIlAlajI ne dhokhA dene kI ceSTA kI hai / itanA hI nahIM yahA~ para bhI apanI Adata ke anusAra ulaTA cora kotavAla ko DaoNTe kI kahAvata cAratArtha kI hai / Apa kahate hai ki 'yahA~ bhI sagAI vAle (apati) bUr3he dUlhe kI bAta hai| tAjjuba yaha hai ki yahIM para yaha bAta bhI kahate jAte hai ki vivAha tI 12-16 kI umra meM huaA hogA / jaba vivAha ke samaya vara kI umra pAe 16 vatatAte haiM taba kyA vaha janma bhara to pati banA rahA aura vuDhApe meM apati bana gayA ? balihArI hai isa klAnA kI! khaira, z2arA yaha bhI dekhiye ki zloka kisa prakaraNa kA hai| kauzAmbI meM candanadAsa seTha rahatA thaa| usane buDhApe meM dhanake balase lIlAvatI nAmakI eka vaNikputrI se zAdI karalI, parantu nIlAvatI ko usa bUDhe se santopa na huA, isa. liye vaha vyabhicAriNI hokara gupta pApa karane lagI / isI mauke para yaha zloka kahA gayA hai jisameM 'patau' rUpa kA prayoga /

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( 207) hai / aba pAThaka hI moceM ki kyA vaha buTTA lagAI vAlA dUlhA thA? zrIlAlajI dhotrA no dete hI hai parantu usake bhItara kucha maryAdA rahe to acchA hai| khera, ye maya pramAlA itane jyAdA jabardasta hai ki 'pato' rUpa meM kisI ko sandeha nahIM raha sktaa| isaliye pAgazara ne vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna kiyA hai, yaha spaSTa hai / isaka atirikta manusmRti ke pramANa diye gaye hai / AvazyakatA hone para aura bhI pramANa diye jA sakate haiN| jaina vidvAna yaha kaha sakate hai ki hama hinda smRtiyA~ nahIM mAnate parantu unheM yaha kabhI bhUlakara bhI na kahanA cAhiye ki unameM vidhavAvivAhakA vidhAna nahIM hai / hinda pugaNa aura hindU smRniyA~ vidhavA. vivAha kI pUrNa samarthaka hai| AkSepa (ga)nAnyammin vidhavA nArI niyAtavyA dvijAtibhiH / anyanmin hi niyujAnA dharma hanyu sanAtanaH / / nohAhi mantrepa niyogaH kAya'te kvacit / na vivAhavidhAyukta vidhavAveTana punaH / / manusmRtika ye donoM zloka vidhavAvivAhaka viruddha hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-hama kaha cuke he paristhiti ke anusAra aneka taraha kI prAmA paka hI smRtimeM pAI jAtI hai / isaliye agara eka pustaka meM eka viSaya meM vidhi nipedha hai to usakA samanvaya karane ke liye apekSA iMoNr3hanA cAhiye / anyathA jisa manusmRti meM strI punarvivAha kI AjJA hai aura use saMskAra kahA hai usI meM usakA vigaMva kaisA? smRtiyoM meM samanvaya aura mukhyagauNanAkA bahA mUlya hai / khera, parantu ina zlokoM kAMnAM zrIlAlajInaM ThIka ThIka nahIM samajhA hai anyathA ye zloka

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( 200 ) kamI uddhRta na kiye jAne / pAThaka inake artha para vicAra kare, pUrvApara sambandha dekhe aura niyoga tathA vidhavAvivAha ke bheTa kA smjhe| ye zloka niyogaprakaraNa ke hai| niyAMga meM santAnotpatti ke liye sirpha paka bAra sabhAMga karane kI AjJA hai| niyoga ke samaya donoM meM sammAMga kriyA bilakula nirmita hokara karanA pahanI hai tathA kisI bhI taraha kI rasikatA se dUra rahanA par3atA hai / deviya jyeSTho yavIyasI mAryoM yavImAnvAgrajastriyam / patito bhavato gatyA niyuktAvapyanApadi ||6-58 // agara vidhavA ke mantAna ho (anApadi-santAnAbhAva binA) to usakA jyeSTha yA devara niyAga kare to pani hA jAte haiN| devarAhA sapiMDAhA striyA smpniyuktyaa| prajepsitAdhigantavyA santAnasya parikSaye // 4-16 // santAna ke nAza hAjAne para gurujanoM ko prAzAma vidhipUrvaka devara se yA aura sapiMDa se (kuTumbI se) icchita satAna paidA karanA caahiye| (zrAvazyakatA hAne para eka meM adhika santAna paidA kI jAtI hai / hindu purANAM ka anumAra dhRtarASTra pAMDu aura vidura niyogaja santAna hai)| vidhanAyAM niyuktamtu ghRtAto ghAnyato nishi| ekamutpAdayetputraM na dvitIyaM kathacana // 6-60 // vidhavA meM (AvazyakatA hone para saghatrAmeM bhI) satAna ke liye niyukta puruSa, sAre zarIra meM ghI kA lepa kara mauna rakkhe aura eka hI putra paidA kre| vidhavAyAM niyogArthe nivRtte tu yathAvidhi / guruvaza snuSAvaJca vartayAtAM paramparam // 6-62 //

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( 206 ) niyoga kArya pUrA ho jAne para phira bhaujAI yA bahU ke mamAna pavitra sambandha rakkhe / niyaktI tI vidhi hitvA vartayAtAM tu kAmataH / tAvumI patitI myAtAM snupAgagarutalpagI / / 6-63 // yadi niyoga ke samaya zAmavAsanA se vaha sambhoga kare to use maujAI yA bhrAtRvadhU ke sAtha sambhoga karane kA pApa lagatA hai, vaha panita ho jAtA hai| pAThaka dekheM ki yaha niyoga kitanA kaThina hai / sAdhAraNa manuSya isa vidhikA pAlana nahIM kara sakate / isaliye Age calakara manusmRti meM isa niyogakA niSedha bhI kiyA gayA hai| vahI niSedhaparaka zloka paMDita loga udhRta karate haiM aura vidhiparaka zlokoM ko.sApha choDa jAte hai|| hindU zAstra na nA niyoga virodhI hai, na vidhavAvivAha ke / unameM sirpha niyoga kA niSedha, kalikAla ke liye kiyA hai kyoMki kaliyuga meM niyoga ke yogya puruSoM kA milanA durlabha hai| yahI bAna TIkAkArana kahI hai-"ayaM ca svoktaniyoga. niSedhaH kalikAlavipayA" / vRhaspani ne tIna zlokoM meM to aura bhI adhika khulAsA kara diyA hai / isaliye hindazAstrAMsa vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha karanA sarvathA bhUla hai / AkSepa (gha) cANiSayane punarvivAha kI prAdhA nahIM dI parantu pani ke pAsa jAne kI prAmA dI hai / vidula lAbhe kA artha chor3akara dusarA pati karane kA artha to isa andherI daravAra ko hI suujhaa| samAdhAna-zrIlAla jI jAna bUjhakara bAta ko chipAte hai anyathA "yathAdattamAdAya pramuJceyuH" zrAdi vAkyoM se pUrva vivAha sambandha ke TUTa jAnekA sAfa vidhAna hai| khaira, pahilI bAta to yaha hai ki una vAkyoMkA anuvAda chapI huI pustaka meM

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(210) se liyA gayA hai| hamAre viSaya meM artha badalane kI kukalpanA Apa bhale hI kareM, parantu anuvAdaka ke viSaya meM isa kalpanA kI koI z2arUrata nahIM hai / isake anuvAdaka vedarata vidyAbhAskara, nyAyatIrtha, sAMkhyatIrtha aura vedAnta vizArada hai|| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki 'vidalu lAbhe' dhAtu kA prayoga vivAha artha meM hotA hai| manusmRti meM vindena devaraH kA paryAya vAkya bhartuH sodara bhrAtA pariNayet kiyA hai| isI taraha zloka 8-60 meM 'vindeta sadRza pati' kA 'vara svayaM vRNIna' paryAya vAkya diyA hai| khuda kauTilIya arthazAstra meM vidala dhAtu kA prayoga varaNa ke artha meM huA hai| jaise-tataH putrArthI dvitIyA vindeta arthAt pahilI strI se agara 12 varSa taka putra paidA na ho to putrArthI dUsarI zAdI karale / yahA~ vindeta kA artha zAdI kare hI hai / isI taraha aura bhI bahuta se prayoga hai / pahile hamane thoDe se pramANa diye the, aba hama jarA adhika deNge| una meM aise pramANa bhI hoMge jinameM vidula kA artha pAsa jAnA na ho skegaa| "mRte bhataridharmakAmAtadAnImevAsthApyAbharaNaM zulka zeSaM ca labheta // 25 // labdhvA vA vindamAnA savRddhikamubhaya dApyeta // 26 // arthAt pati ke marane para brahmacarya se rahane vAlI strI, apanA strI dhana aura avaziSTa zulka (vivAha ke samaya prApta dhana ) le le / agara isa dhana ko prApta kara vaha (vidhavA ) vivAha kare to usase vyAja sahita vApisa le liyA jaay| pAThaka vicAra ki yahA~"vindamAnA" kA artha vivAha karane vAlI hai na ki pati ke pAsa jAne vAlI kyoki pati to mara cukA hai| aura bhI dekhiye 'kuTumbakAmAtu zvasurapatidatta nivezakAle labheta // 27 //

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( 211 ) nivezakAlaM hi dIrghapravAse vyAkhyAmyAyaH ||26|| yadi vidhavA dUsarA ghara basAnA cAhe arthAt punarvivAha karanA cAhe to zva sura aura pati dvArA dI huI sampatti ko vaha vivAda samaya meM hI sakatI hai| vivAha kA samaya hama dIrgha pravAsa ke praka raNa meM kheNge| isI dIrghapravAsa prakaraNa ke vAkya hamane prathama leba meM uddhRta kiye the| isase mAlUma hotA hai ki vahA~ punarvivAha kA hI jikara hai na ki pani ke pAsa jAne kA ' "zvasura prAtilomyena vA niviSTA zvasura patidattaM jIyena" // 26 // surakI icchA ke viruddha vivAha karane vAntI vadhU se zvasura aura pati se diyA gayA dhana se liyA jAya / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki mahArAjA candragupta ke galya meM sura apanI vidhavA vadhU kA punarvivAha kara denA thA / agara sura usakA punarvivAha nahIM karatA thA to vaha badhU hI apanA strIdhana chor3akara punarvivAda kara letI thI / zAtihastAdabhiprAyA jJAtayAM yathAgRhItaM dadyuH // 30 // nyAyopagatAyAH pratipattA strIdhanaM gopAyet // 31 // agara usake pIhara vAle ( pitA bhrAtA Adi ) usake punarvivAha kA prabandha kareM to ve usake liye hue dhana ko de deM, kyoMki nyAyapUrvaka rakSArtha prApta huI strI kI rakSA karane vAstA puruSa usake dhana kI bhI rakSA kare / patidvAyaM vindamAnA jIyena // 32 // dharmakAmAbhuJjIta // 33 // dUsare pati kI kAmanA vAlI strI patikA hissA nahIM pA sakatI aura brahmacarya se rahane vAlI pAsakatI hai| putravatI vindamAnAstrIdhanaM jIyeta // 34 // natta strIdhana putrA harepuH || 35 || putramaraNArtha vA ghinTamAnA putrArthaM sphAtI kuryAt ||36|| koI strI putra vAlI hokarakaMbhI agara punarvivAda

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( 212) kare to vaha strI dhana nahIM pAsakanI / usakA strI dhana usake putra le leN| agara putroMke bharaNa poSaNa ke liye hI vaha punavivAha kare to vaha apanI sampatti putroMke nAma likha de| hama nahIM samajhate ki ina prakaraNoM meM koI punarvivAhakA vidhAna na dekhakara pati ke pAsa jAne kA vidhAna dekha skegaa| isa grantha meM paradeza meM gaye hue dIrghapravAsI pati ko to choDa dene kA vidhAna hai, usake pAsa jAne kI to bAta dUsarI hai / nIcatva paradeza vA prasthito raajkilbipii| prANAbhihantA patitastyAjyaH klIyo'pitrA pani / nIca, dIrghapravAsI, rAjadrohI, ghAtaka, panita aura napuM saka patiko strI chor3a sakatI hai / hameM kheda ke sAtha kahanA par3atA hai ki zrIlAlajI yA unake sAthI kisI bhI viSaya kA na to gahaga adhyayana karate haiM na pUrvApara sambandha dekhate haiM aura manamAnA bilakula vebuniyAda likha mArate haiM / khaira, aba hama hakhapravAsa aura dIrghapravAsa ke uddharaNa dete hai jinake kucha aMza pahile lekha meM diye jA cuke hai| 'hakhapravAsinazUdra vaizya kSatriya brAhmaNAnAM bhAryAH savatsagettara kAlamAranaprajAtA, svtsraadhikNprjaataaH||26|| prativihitAdviguNaM kAlaM ||27||aprtivihitaa sukhAvasthA vibhUpuH para catvArivarSANyaSTau vaajnyaatyH| tato yathAdattamAdAya pramuJceyuH // 26 // thor3e samaya ke liye bAhara jAne vAle zUdra vaizya kSatriya aura brAhmaNoM kI striyA~ agara putrahIna ho to eka varSa aura putravatI isase adhika samaya taka pratIkSA kareM / yadi pati AjIvikA kA pravandhra kara gayA ho to isase dUne samaya taka pratIkSA kreN| jinakI AjIvikA kA prabandha nahIM hai, unake vaMdhu bA~dhava cAra varSa yA ATha varSa taka unakA bharaNa poSaNa kareM /

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( 213) isake bAda prathama vivAha ke samaya meM diyA huA dhana vApisa lekara dusarI gAToke liye prAdhA de| pAThaka dekhne ki yahA~ 'pramuccaya kiyA hai / isakA artha 'choDa hai aisA hotA hai| pati ke pAsa bheja deM aimA artha nahIM hotA / pani ke pAsa se pitA ke pAsa, yA pitA ke pAsa se pati ke pAma mAne jAne meM muJca yA choDa dene kA vyavahAra nahIM honA / isaliye sambandha viccheda ke liye hI isa zabda kA vyavahAra huza hai| brAhmaNamadhIyAnaM daza varSANyaprajAnA, dvAdaza prajAtA gajapuruSamAyu tayATAkADnena // 30 // savarNatazca prajAnA nApa cArTa labheta // 31 // paDhane ke liye videza gaye brAhmaNa ko mantAnahIna gtrI dazavarpa naka. manAna ghAlI 12 varSa taka aura gajakAryapravAmI kI jIvanaparyanta pratIkSA kare / hA~, agara kinI samAna varga ke puruSa se vaha garbhavatI hojAya to vaha nindanIya nahIM hai / yahA~ para pratIkSA karane ka bATa pani ke pAsa jAne kI bAta nahIM laga sktii| jaba aisI hAlata meM parapuruSa se garmavatI hojAne kI yAta mI nindanIya nahIM hai taba unake punarvivAha kI bAta kA to kahanA hI kyA hai| kuTumbAdilope vA sukhAvamthaivimuktA yatheSTa vindeta jIvitArtham / / 32 // kuTumpakI sampatti naSTa hone para yA unake DAga chor3e jAne para jIvana nirvAha ke liye icchAnusAra vivAha kre| zrIlAlajI vindeta kA artha karate hai pati ke pAsa jaave| hama siddhakara cuke hai ki vindeta kA artha vivAha kareM hai| sAtha hI isa grantha kA sAga prakaraNa hI strI punarvivAha kA hai yaha pAta pahile uddharaNoM se bhI siddha hai / 'yathe' zabda se bhI

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vivAha karane kI bAna miDa honI ! icchAnusAra pati ke pAma jAye yahA~ icchAnumAra gaTa kA kucha prayojana hI nahIM mAlUma honA, jaba ki, icchAnumAra vivAda kare-dama vAkya meM icchAnumAra zanTa pAvazyaka mAlUma hotA hai / zrApadgatAvAdharmavivAhakumArI parigRhInAramanAnyAya propita ayamA mAnanIya nyAvATlena // sabasayamA rAmAyAya // 34 // propinamayamANaM paJcanInyAra inana // 5 // daza mayANam // 30 // eka dezadatta gurukaMtrINInInyayamArAm ||27dhRyamArAm saptanIyAnyasAdanaMta // 3 // datta zulka paJcanInyathyamANam ||36dsh agamArAm / / 40 // nanaH paraM dharmasthairvimRSTA yatheSTam bindena // 4 // nirdhanatA meM Apadgrasta kumArI (ananayoni) cimA cAra dharmavivAhoM meM se koI vivAha huA aura usakA pani binA kahe paradeza cannA gayA ho to vaha sAta mAsikadharma payaMta pratIkSA kreN| kahakara gayA ho to eka varSa nakA pravAsI pati kI bayara na milane para pA~ca mAsikadharma taka / bayara milane para daza mAsikadharma taka pratIkSA kreN| vivAha ke samaya pranimAta dhana kA eka bhAga hI jisane diyA ho aisA pani videza jAnepara agara usakI mAra na mile no nIna mAsikadharma naka aura khabara milane para sAla mAsika dharma taka usakI pratIkSA kare agara pratijJAna dhana sAga deTiyA ho to khabara na milane para tIna aura khabara milane para sAna mAsikadharma taka pratInA kare / isake yAda dharmAdhikArI ko zrAnA lekara icchAnusAra dUsarA vivAha kara le (yahA~ bhI yatheTa zabda par3A huA hai / ) / sAtha hI dharmAdhikArIse prAkSA lene kI bAta kahI gaI hai| punarvivAha ke liye hI dharmAdhikArI kI AzA kI z2arUrata hai na ki pati ke pAsa jAne ke liye| phira

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(215 ) jisa pani kI khabara hI nahIM milI hai usake zAma vaha kaime jA sakatI hai? dIrghapravAmina pravajitasya pretamya yA mArgamanatIrthAnyAkAMkSata // 43 // saMvatsara prjaataa||44|| nana patimAMdayaM gacchet / / 45 / / bahupa pratyAsatra dhArmikaM garma samaya kaniSpamabhAyaM vA / nadabhAve'pyamAMDhaya sapigaDaM kulyaM vAsatram / / 47 // eteSAM para eva kramaH // 4 // dIrghapravAmI, saMnyAmo yA mara gayA ho to usako strI mata mAsikadharma taka usakI pratIkSA kre| agara mannAna vAlI ho to eka varSa taka pratIkSA kare. isake bAda pati ke bhAI ke sAtha zAdI krle| jo bhAI patikA najadIkI do, dhArmika ho, pAnana poSaNa kara make aura patnI rahina ho| agara sagA bhAI na ho to pani ke vaza kA ho yA gAMva kA ho| yahA~ to zrIlAla jI pati ke pAsa jAne kI bAta na kaheMge? kyoMki pani nA saMnyAmI ho gayA hai yA mara gayA hai| phira pati ke bhAI ke pAsa jAne kI prAmA kyoM hai ? apane bhAI yA pitA yA zvasura ke pAsa jAne kI yA nahIM? phira pani kA bhAI bhI kaimA ? jisake panI na ho| kyA aba bhI zrIlAla jI yahA~ vivAha kI bAta na smjhege|| AkSepa (3)-prAcArya somadevajI ne jina mmRtikAge ke viSaya meM likhA hai vaha saba carcA magAI bAda kI hai| vaiSNavoM ke kisI anya meM bhI vidhavAvivAha kI AmA nahIM hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-"vikRnapatyUdApi punarvivAhamahatIti smR. tikAga" vikRtapati ke sAtha vivAhI gaI strI bhI punarvivAha kara sakatI hai| smRtikAroM ke isa vaktavya meM sagAI kI hI dhuna lagAye rahane vAle zrIlAla jI kA sAhasa dhanya hai|

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( 216 ) 'tAvadvivAho naivasyAdyAyavansaptapadI bhavet' naya naka vivAha nahIM honA java naka saptapadI na ho jAya / imaliye jima strI ko vivAhI gaI kahA hai yaha abhI taka vAgdattA hI banI huI hai, aisI bAta zrIlAla jI hI kaha sakate hai| phira punarvivAha zabda bhI par3A huA hai| yaha punarvivAha zabda hI itanA spaSTa hai ki vizeSa kahane kI jarUrata nahIM hai / maMga, zrIlAla jI hama vAkya kA jo cAhe artha kareM parantu unane yaha gAna mAnalI hai ki somadeva jI ko isa vAkya meM kucha Apatti nahIM hai| anyathA unheM isa vAkya ke uddhana karane kI kyA z2arUrata thI, jaba ki khaNDana nahIM karanA thaa| vaipaNavoM ke granthoM meM puna. vivAha kI kaisI AzA hai yaha bAta hama imI lekha meM vistAra se siddha kara cuke haiN| prazna aTThAIsavA~ isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA thA ki agara kisI ayodha kanyA ke sAtha koI balAtkAra kare to phira usakA vivAha karanA cAhiye yA nhiiN| hamane uttara meM kahA thA ki aisI hAlana meM kanyA niraparAdha hai| imaliye vidhavA-vivAha ke virodhI bhI aisI kanyA kA vivAha karane meM sahamata hoMge, kyoMki usakA vivAha punarvivAha nahIM hai, zrAdi / zrIlAla jI kA kahanA hai ki 'usI purupa ke sAtha usakA vivAha karanA cAhiye yA vaha brahmacAriNI rahe, tIsarA mArga nahIM jaeNcatA / ' jaba taka mithyAtva kA udaya hai taba taka zrIlAlajI ko kucha jaeNca bhI nahIM sktaa| parantu zrIlAlajI, na jaeNcane kA kAraNa kucha bhI nahIM batalA sake haiM isaliye unakA yaha vaktavya dugagraha ke sivAya aura kucha nahIM hai| zrAkSepa (ka)-aisI kanyA kA vivAha balAtkAra karane

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( 217) vAle puruSa ke sAtha hI karanA cAhiye / pAgaDu aura kuntI ke cAritra se isa prazna para prakAza paDatA hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-pANDu aura kunnI kA sambandha balAtkAra nahIM thA jisase hama pAgaDu ko nIca aura ganasI prakRti kA manuSya kaha ske| aura aisI hAlata meM pAgahu apAtra nahIM kahA jA sakatA / balAtkAra to zaitAniyata kA ugra aura bIbhatsarUpa hai / balAtkAra sirpha kuzIna hI nahIM hai, kintu vaha ghora rAnasI hiMmA bhI hai / isaliye balAtkAra ke uTA haraNa meM pAraDu kunnI kA nAma lenA bhUla hai| hama palate hai ki balAtkAra, vivAda hai yA nahIM? yadi vivAha hai to phira vivAha karane kI zrAvazyakatA kyA hai ? agara vivAha nahIM hai to vaha kanyA avivAhinA kahalAI. isaliye usakA vivAda honA caahiye| mAkSepa (b)-milaa| agara dUdha ko jUThA karadaM tA vaha apeya ho jAtA hai, yadyapi isameM dUdha kA aparAdha nahI hai / isI prakAra balAtkAra me dRSita kanyA bhI samajhanA cAhiye / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-ima emAMta meM aneka pesI viSamatA hai jo dUdha ke samAna kanyA ko tyAjya siddha nahIM karanI / pahilI to yaha hai ki dUdha jaha hai / 16 agara nAlI meM pheMka diyA jAya to dUdha ko kucha duHkhna na hogaa| umaliye hama dUdha ke nigpagadha hone para bhI usakI tarapha se lAparvAha gaha sakate hai / parantu kanyA meM sukha duHkha hai| usakI paryAda karanA samAja kA kartavya hai| isaliye kanyA ke niraparAdha hone para hama aisA koI vidhAna nahIM banA sakate, jisase usako duHkha yA usakA apamAna ho| dUmarI viSamatA bhAjya bhAMjaka kI hai| strI ko hama

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( 21= ) 1 bhojya kahe aura puruSa kI bhojaka, yaha bAta sarvathA zranucina hai / kyoMki jisa prakAra strI, puruSa ke liye mojya hai usI prakAra puruSa, strI ke liye bhAMjya hai / isIliye strI jUThI hAM aura puruSa jUThA na ho, yaha nahIM kahA jA sakanA | jaya puruSa jUThA hokara ke bhI strI ke liye gAMjya rahatA hai nA strI bhI kyoM na rahegI ? tIsarI bAta yaha hai ki strI puruSa ke sambandha ko zrakSepaka ne yoga mAna liyA hai jabaki vaha upabhoga hUM / gAMga kA viSaya eka bAra hI gogA jAnA hai, isaliye usameM jUThApana zrAjAtA hai parantu upabhoga anakavAra bhogA jAtA hai / sabhya zrAdamI apanA hI jhUThA gojana dUsare dina nahIM khAtA jabaki eka hI vastra kA anekavAra kAma meM lAnA rahanA hai| agara strI ko bhojya mAnA jAya to jisa strI ko zrAja mogA gayA usako phira kabhI na bhAganA cAhiye / taba nAM hara eka puruSako mahIne meM cAra cAra chaH chaH striyoM kI zrAvazya katA paDegI anyathA unheM jUThI strI se hI kAma calAnA par3hegA / strI aura puruSa ke sambandhameM to donoMhI sukhAnubhava karate hai, isaliai kauna kisakA jUThA hai yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / phira bhI jo loga striyoM meM jUThepana kA vyavahAra karate hai ve mAtA ko bhI jUThA kaheMge, kyoMki eka bacce ne eka dina jisa mAtA kA dUdha pIliyA vaha dUsare dina ke liye jUThI ho gaI / aura dUsare bacce ke liye aura bhI adhika jUThI ho gaI / itanA hI nahIM isa dRSTi se pRthvI, jala, vAyu Adi jUThe kahalAyeMge, sArA saMsAra ucchiSTamaya ho jAyagA, kyoMki kisI bhI indriya kA viSaya hone se jaba padArtha ucchiSTa mAnA jAyagA to sparza karane se pRthvI, jala aura vAyu jUThI kahalAyegI aura oNkhoM se dekha lene para sArA saMsAra jUThA kahalAyagA / yadi

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( 216 ) rasanA indriya ke viSaya meM hI ucchie anucchie kA vyavahAra kiyA jAya to kanyAko hama ucchiSTa nahIM kaha sakate, kyoMki vaha cacAne khAne kI vastu nahIM hai, jisase vaha jUTe dUdha ke samAna samajhI jAya / untIsavA~ prazna | "jaivarNikAcAra se talAka ke rivAja kA samarthana hotA haiM / "yaha bAta hamane saMkSepa meM siddha kI thI / parantu ye donoM AkSepaka kahate hai ki usameM talAka kI bAta nahIM hai| bhale hI talAka yA ( Divorce ) zrAdi pracalita bhASAoM ke zabda usa grantha meM na ho parantu vaivAhika sambandha ke tyAga kA vidhAna avazya haiM aura isI ko talAka kahate hai ajAM dazame varSe strI prajAM dvAdazaM tyajet / mRnaprajAM pacadarza sadyastvapriyavAdinIm // 11- 167 // vyAdhitA strIprajA vandhyA unmattA vigatArtayA / zraduSTA lamate tyAga tIrtho na tu dharmataH // 11- 168 // agara dasa varSa taka koI satAna na hA nA dasaveM varSa meM, agara kanyAe~ hI paidA hotI DaoN nA bArahaveM varSa meM, agara satAna jIvita na rahatI ho tA 15 veM varSa meM strI kA choDa denA cAhiye aura kaThora bhASiNI ho nA turata choDa denA cAhiye // 167 // rogiNI, jisake kevala kanyAe~ hI paidA hotI ho, bandhyA pAgala, jA rajasvalA na hotI hA aisI strI agara duSTa na ho to usake sAtha sabhoga kA hI tyAga karanA cAhie; bAkI patnItva kA vyavahAra rakhanA cAhie || 18 || isasa mAlUma hotA hai ki 167 veM zloka meM jo tyAga batalAyA hai usameM strI kA patItva sambandha mI alaga kara diyA gayA hai / yaha talAqa nahIM to kyA hai ?

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( 220) zrIlAla jI kahate hai ki dakSiNa meM talAka kA rivAja hI nahIM hai / saubhAgya se dakSiNaprAnta aAja bhI banA huA hai| koI bhI AdamI vahA~ jAkara dekha sakatA hai ki caturtha pacama senavAla zrAdi digambara jainiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha aura talAka kA rivAja Amataura para cAlU hai yA nhiiN| balki vahA~ para vidhura kumAriyoM ke sAtha zAdI nahIM karane / imaliye kumAriyoM ke sAtha pahile kisI anya puruSa kI zAdI karadI jAnI hai isake bAda nalAka dilAyA jAnA hai phira usa vidhura ke nAtha usa nalApha vAlI strI kI zAdI honI hai| isake anirikta anya striyA~ bhI talAka detI hai, punarvivAha karanI hai| dakSiNaprAnta meM nalAka kA abhAva banalA kara zrIlAla jI yA no kUpamaNDakatA kA paricaya de rahe haiM yA samAja ko dhokhA de rahe hai| tIsavA~ prazna / purANoM meM vidhavA-vivAha kA ullekha kyoM nahIM milatA, isake kAraNoMkA sapramANa digdarzana kiyA thaa| donoMhI AkSe. pako se yahAM para bhI kucha khaNDana nahIM bana sakA hai| parantu isa praznameM vidyAnanda jIne to sirpha apanI anicchAhI z2Ahira kI hai, parantu paNDita zrIlAlajI ne aNDa baNDa lina mAga hai| balki dhRSTatAkA bhI pUrNa paricaya diyA / jainajagat Adi patroM kA kAlA muMha karane kA upadeza diyA hai / khaira, yahA~ hama . saMkSepa meM apanA vaktavya dekara AkSepoMkA uttara deNge| a-purANoM meM vidhavA-vivAha kA ullekha nahIM hai aura vidhura vivAha kA ullekha nahIM hai / parantu yaha nahIM kahA jAsa. katA ki pahile jamAne meM vidhura vivAha nahIM hote the| na yaha kahA jAsakatA hai ki vidhavAvivAha nahIM hote the|

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( 221 ) zrA-Ajakala bhI prathama vivAha ke samaya hI vizeSa samAroha kiyA jAtA hai| dvitIya vivAha samaya vizeSa samA. gaha nahIM kiyA jAnA / imI taraha pahile jamAne meM bhI strI puruSoM ke prathama vivAha ke samaya vizeSa samAroha hAtA thA; hinIyAdi vivAhoM ke samaya nahIM / rAmacandra zrAdi ke prathama vivAha kA jaisA ullekha milatA hai vaisA hinIyAdi vivAhA~kA nahIM miltaa| imI taraha striyoMka bhI prathama vidhAhakA ullekha milatA hai dvitIya vivAhoM kA nhiiN| -puruSoM ke dvitIyAdi vivAhokA jA sAdhAraNa ullekha milatA hai vaha una ke bahupatnItva kA mahatva batalAne ke lie hai| purAne jamAne meM jo manuSya jitanA baDA vemayazAlI honA thA vaha unanI hI adhika striyA~ rakhanA thaa| isIlie cakravartI ke 16 hajAra,arddhacakrophe 16000, balabhadrake :00thA sAdhAgNa gajAoka saikaDI striyA~ hotI thIM / striyA~ apanA punarvi. vAha to karatI thI, parantu unakA eka samaya meM eka hI pati honA thA, imaliye unake bahupamitva kA mahatva nahIM patalAyA jAsakatA thaa| taba unake dUsare vivAhakA ullekha kyoM hotA? I-Ajakala loga apanI laDakiyo kA vivAha jahA~ taka ghanatA hai kumAra ke sAtha karate hai, vidhurake mAdha nahIM / vAsakara zrImAn loga to apanI larakI kA vivAha vidhuroke sAtha kadApi nahIM krte| parantu isa parase yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatA ki Aja vidhuravivAha nahIM hotA, yA vivAha karane vAle vidhura jAticyata samajha jAte hai| isI prakAra pugane samaya meM lAMga yathAzakti kumAriyoM ke sAtha zAdI karate the aura zrImAn loga no vidhavAoM ke sAtha zAdI karanA hI nahIM cAhate the| parantu isase vidhura vivAha ke samAna vidhavAvivAha kA bhI niSedha nahIM ho sakatA / dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki striyoM ko vivAha ke

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( 222) bAda paka kuTumba choDakara dukha kuTumba meM jAnA par3atA hai / isaliye bhI zrImanta dhaganoM kI striyA~ punarvivAha nahIM karatI thIM, kyoMki aisI avasthAmai unheM garIva ghagmeM jAkara rahanA paDatA thA / cU~ki zrImAna logoM ko to kumAriyA~ hI mila jAtI thIM isaliye ve vidhavAoM meM vivAha nahIM karate the| garIva ghaganoM meM hone vAle vaivAhika sambandhoM kA mahatva na hone se zAloM meM unakA ullekha nahIM hai| u-prAyaH kumAriyA~ ho mvayambara karatI thIM aura sva. yambara baDe 2 vigrahoMka tathA mahatvapUrNa ghaTanAoM ke nyAna the isalie zAstroM meM svayambara kA jikara zAtA hai / vidhavAoM kA svayambara na hone se vidhavAvivAha kA jikara nahIM aataa| U-hindU pugaNoM meM draupadI ke pAtra pani mAne gaye haiN| digambara jaina lekhakAna draupadIka prakaraNa meM isa bAtakA khaNDana kiyA hai| hinda zAstroM ke anusAra mandodarIkA bhI punarvivAha huA thA, parantu mandodarI ke prakaraNa meM usake punarvivAha kA khaNDana nahIM kiyA gayA. isase mAlUma hotA hai ki digambara jaina lekhaka bahupatitva (eka sAtha bahuta pani rakhanA) kI prathA ke virodhI the, parantu vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI nahIM the| R-hamAre purANa jisa yuga ke bane haiM usa yuga meM bhArata meM satIprathA z2ora pakaDa rahI thI, vidhavAvivAhakI prathA lupta horahI thii| aisI avasthA meM digambara jaina lekhakAne jamAne kA rukha dekhakara vidhavAvivAha vAlI ghaTanAoMko alaga kara diyA, parantu koI AdamI vidhavAvinAha ko jainadharma ke viruddha na samajhale, isaliye unane vidhavAvivAhakA virodha nahIM kiyaa| la-hinda purANoM se aura smRtiyoM se caidika dharmAva. lambiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja siddha hai| gautama gaNadhara ne hindU purANoM kI bahutasI bAtoMkA khaNDana kiyA, parantu

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(223) vidhavAvivAhakA khaNDana nahIM kiyaa| isase bhI vidhavAvivAha kI jainadharmAnukUlatA mAlUma hotI hai / eprathamAnuyoga, puNya aura pApakA phala batalAne ke liye hai, isaliye usameM gatirivAjoM kA ullekha nahIM hotA hai| isaliye usameM prema kisI bhI vivAhakA ullekha nahIM hai jo samAdhAraNa purAya yA purAya phala kA yonaka na ho / Upara hama kaha cuke haiM ki vidhavAvivAha meM aisI asAdhAraNatA na hone meM usakA ullekha nahIM huaa| ai-aisI bahuna bAte hai jo jainadharma ke anukUla hai, zAstrokta hai, parantu purANoM meM jinakA ullekha nahIM hai-jaise vivAha meM honevAlI saptapadI, veMdhavyadItA, dIkSAnvaya kriyANa paadi| o-parastrImevana Adi kA jima prakAra nindA karane ke liye ullekha hai, usa taraha zAstrameM vidhavAvivAhakA khaNDana karane ke lie unakha nahIM hai| zro-gagavAna mahAvIra ke dvArA jitanA prathamAnuyAMga kahA gayA thA umanA Ajakala upalabdha nahIM hai| sirpha moTI moTI ghaTanAe~ raha gaI hai isalie gI vidhavAviyAha sarIkhI mAdhAraNa ghaTanAoM kA ullekha nahIM hai / ___ uparyukta bAraha chadakoM meM mere baktavya kA sAgaMza AgayA hai aura zrAdeSoM kA pagaDana bhI ho gayA hai| phira bhI kucha yAkI na raha jAya, isaliye AkSepakoMka niHsAra AkSapoMkA bhI mamApAna kiyA jAtA hai / lekhanazailI kI anabhijJatA se zrIlAlajI ne jo zrApa kiye haiM una para upekSA dRSTi rakkhI jaaygii| AkSepa (ka)- damayantIne apane pati nalako hU~Dhane ka

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(224) liye svayambara raca diyA to kyA hinda zAstroM meM punarvivAha siddha hogayA? [zrIlAla samAdhAna-damayantI punarvivAha cAhatI thI, yaha hama nahIM kahane. parantu usa samaya hinduoM meM usakA rivAja thA yaha ghAta middha hojAtI hai / damayantI ke vyayambara kA nimantraNa pAkara kimIne isakA virodha nahIM kiyA-mirpha damayantI pati nala ko chor3akara aura kimI ko isameM Azcarya bhI na huyaa| saba rAjA mahAgajA mvayambara ke liye zrAye / yadi vidhavA. vivAhakA rivAja na hotA to rAjA mahAgajA kyoM Ane ? AkSepa (kha) antagala meM cAhe dharma karma uTha jAya parantu sajAtIyadhivAha naSTa nahIM huzrA karanA hai| zrIlAla samAdhAna-antagAlameM dharmakarma uTha jAne para bhI agara sajAtIya vivAha naSTa nahIM huA karatA to isase siddha ho jAtA hai ki sajAtIya vivAha se dharmadharma kA kucha mambandha nahIM hai| aisI hAlata meM sajAnIya vivAha kA kucha mahatva nahIM rhtaa| - sajAtIya vivAha kA bandhana to paurANika yuga meM kamI rahA hI nahIM / jAtiyoM to sirpha vyApArika kSetra ke liye thiiN| bhagavAn Rpabhadeva ke samaya se jAniyA~ hai aura unake putra samrATa bharatane 32000 vivAha mleccha kanyAoM ke sAtha zyi the| tIrthaDage ne bhI mlecchoM ke nAtha vaivAhika sambandha kiye the / anuloma aura pratiloma donoM taraha ke udAharaNAMse jaina. pagaNa bhare par3e haiN| vijAtIyavivAha aura mleccha kanyAoM se hone vAle vivAhake phalasvarUpa hone vAlI santAna muktigAmI huI hai isakebhI udAharaNa aura pramANa bahutase hai| yahA~ vijA. tIya vivAha kA prakaraNa nahIM hai / vijAtIya vivAha kI carcA uThAkara zrIlAla jI dhUpa ke Darase bhaTTI meM kUTa rahe haiM / anta.

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( 225 ) gala meM vijAtIya vivAha rahe cAhe jAya parantu jara usa samaya jainadharma kI pravRtti nahIM thI tava vaidikadharma ke anumAra vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja avazya thA aura pIche ke jainI bhI unhIM kI santAna the| AkSepa (ga)--mumatamAnoM meM bhI saiyyada kA saiyyada ke sAtha aura mugala kA mugala ke sAtha vivAha hotA hai| (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-vidhayA vivAha ke vigaMdha ke liye aima aise AkSepa karane vAle ke hoza havAsa durusta hai isa ghAna para muzkila se hI vizvAma kiyA jA sakatA hai| saiyyada saiyada se vivAha kara isameM vidhavAvivAha kA pagaDA kyA ho gayA balki isase to yahI siddha huA ki jaise musalamAna lAMga (zrIlAla jI ke manAnusAra) sajAtIya vivAha karane yaM mI vidhavAvivAha karate haiM to anyatra gI majAtIya vivAha hone para bhI vidhavAvivAha ho sakatA hai| samaliye antarAla meM sajAtIya vivAha ke ghane rahane se vidhavAvivAha kA prabhAva siddha nahIM hotA / phira mumalamAnoM meM vijAtIya vivAha meM hone kI bAta to dhRSTatA ke mAtha dhokhA dene kI bAta hai| jahA~gIra bAdazAha kI maoN hindu aura thApa musalamAna thaa| musalamAnoM meM Adhe se adhika hindaraktamizrita hai| prAja gau musalamAna loga cAhe jisa jAti kI strI se zAdI kara lete hai| AkSepa (gha)-vijAtIya vivAha se eka do santAna ke bAda vinAza ho jAtA hai / vanaspatiyoM ke udAharaNa se yaha bAta siddha hai| samAdhAna-AkSepaka ko banampati zAratra yA prANi zAstra kA z2arA adhyayana karanA cAhiye / prANizAstriyoM ne

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( 226 ) vijAtIya sambandhoM se kaisI vicitra jAtiyoM kA nirmANa kiyA hai aura unakI kaisI vazaparamparA cala rahI hai, isa bAta kA patA Apako thor3e adhyayana se hI lA jAnA / kisI mUrkha mAlI kI adhUrI bAta ka zrAbAra para siddhAnta gar3ha lenA Apa hI sarIkhe kRpamaMDUka kA kAma ho sakatA hai / khaira, mAna lIjiye ki vijAtIya samparka kI vaza paramparA nahIM calatI, parantu manuSya meM no vijAtIya vivAha kI vazaparampaga calatI hai| jahA~gIra hindU mA~ aura musalamAna bApa se paidA huA thaa| isake bAda ke bhI aneka bAdazAha imI naraha paidA hue jinakI paramparA Aja taka hai| kaI zatAbdiyoM taka to vaha vaza gajya hI karatA rhaa| bAda meM (57 ke khAtantrya-yuddha ke bAda bhI usI vaMza ke bahuta se manuSya garIbI kI hAlana meM gujAra karate the aura unameM bahuta se Aja bhI bane hue hai| yadi yaha siddhAnta mAna liyA jAya ki vijonIyavivAha kI santAna parampaga adhika nahIM calatI to isase vijAtIya vivAha kA nipedha nahIM hogA kintu manuSyoM meM hone vAlA vijAnIya-vivAha, vijAtIya nahIM hai arthAt manuSyamAtra eka jAti ke hai yahI bAta siddha hogI, kyoMki manuSyoM meM vijA. tIya sambandha se bhI vaza paramparA calatI rahatI hai| AkSepa (Ga)-kyA zreNika ke samaya meM rAmAyaNa Adi grantha bana gaye the? samAdhAna-ye grantha bahuta prAcIna hai yaha vAta aitihAsika pramANoM se siddha hai| sAtha hI apane padmapurANa meM bhI yaha likhA hai| dekhiye padmapurANa dvitIya parva. zrUyaMte laukike granthe rAkSasA rAvaNAdayaH // 230 //

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(227) pavavidha klinandhaM gamAyaNamudAhata // 237 // azraddheyamidaM sarva viyuktamupapattimiH // 24 // ye mava zreNika ke muMha meM nikale hupa vAkya haiN| rAmA. yaNa kA nAma taka pAyA hai| zreNika ne gamAyaNa kI anya bAtoM kI to nindA kI, parantu vidhavAvivAha kI kAhIM bhI nindA na kI, na gautama ne hI nindA kI, imame vidhavAvivAha kI jainadharmAnukulatA siddha hotI hai| AkSepa (ca)-jaba kucha na banA to eka lAMkI banA kara liga diyaa| isa mAyAcAra kA kula ThikAnA hai ! (zrInAla) samAdhAnayathA ca jAyate duHkhaM sadAyAmAtmayApini / nagantareNa sarvezamiyameva vyAmpitiH // 14-162 // ima zloka meM yaha batAyA gayA hai, ki paramtrI ramaNa se parastrI ke pani kA kaTa hotA hai isaliye paramI mevana nahIM karanA cAhiye / yaha zloka padmapurANa kA nisa zrIlAla jI ne mega kaha kara majhe manamAnI gAliyoM dI hai| itanA hI nahIM aise acche gloka ke khagaDana karane kI bhI asaphala ceSTA kI hai| parantu isama hamAga nahIM panapugaNa kA khaNDana aura prAcArya raviNa kA apamAna hotA hai| isa zloka se graha bAna siddha hotI hai, ki parastrI ramaNa se pani ko kama hotA hai, isaliye vaha pAganI AdhAra para yaha kahA jAtA hai ki vidhavAvivAha se pati ko kama nahIM hotA, kyoMki pati mara gayA hai isaliye vidhavAvivAha pAe nahIM hai| aisI sIdhI pAna bhI zrIlAla jIna samajhe nA balihArI isa samabha kii| zrIlAla jI ne yaha svIkAra kiyA hai ki apanI dhivA

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( 228 ) hinA ko chor3a kara zeSa saba meM vyabhicAra hai cAhe vaha kumArI ho sadhavA ho yA vidhavA ho' / zrIlAlajI ke isa vaktavya kA hama pUrNa samarthana karate haiM aura isIse vidhavA-vivAha kA samarthana bhI ho jAtA hai| jisa prakAra kumArI ke sAtha ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra hai, kintu kumArI kI vivAhitA banA kara ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra nahIM hai / usI prakAra vidhavA ke sAtha ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra hai parantu vidhavA ke sAtha vivAha kara lene para usake sAtha ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra nahIM hai / vidhavA ke sAtha vivAha karane para use avivAhitA nahIM kahA jA sakatA, jinase yahA~ vyabhicAra mAnA jaave| isa taraha zrIlAla jI ke vaktavya ke anusAra bhI vidhavA vivAha ucita ThaharatA hai / AkSepa (cha) - maharSigaNa ATha vivAha batAne vAloM kI hama mAne yA naumI prakAra kA ye vidhavA-vivAha banAne vAle tumhArI maaneN| - samAdhAna --- vidhavA vivAha navamA bheda nahIM hai kintu jisa prakAra kumArIvivAha ke ATha bheda haiM usI prakAra vidhavA vivAha ke bhI ATha bheda hai| isa viSaya meM pahile vistAra se likhA jA cukA hai| AkSepa ( ja ) - prAcIna samaya meM loga vidhavA honA acchA nahIM samajhate the / yadi pahile samaya meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja hotA to phira vidhavA zabda se itane Darane kI koI AvazyakatA nahIM thI / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - Aja musalamAnoM meM IsAiyoM meM yA anya kisI samudAya meM, jisameM ki vidhavAvivAha hotA hai, kyA vidhavA honA acchA samajhA jAtA hai ? yadi nahIM to kyA vahA~ bhI vidhavA vivAha kA prabhAva siddha ho jAyagA ? Ajakala yA

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( 226 ) prAcIna jamAne meM kyA loga apanI strI kA marajAnA acchA samajhate the ? yadi nahIM to vidhura honA bhI burA kahalAyA / taba to vidhura - vivAha kA bhI abhAva siddha ho jAnA cAhiye / prAcIna z2amAne meM vidhavA ko acchA nahIM samajhate the, isase vidhavAvivAha kA abhAva siddha nahIM hotA balki sadbhAva siddha hotA hai / vidhavA honA acchA nahIM thA, isaliye vidhavA vivAhake dvArA use sadhavA banAte the| kyoMki jo cIz2a acchI nahIM hotI use haTAne kI koziza hotI haiM / niroga agara rogI ho jAya to use phira niroga banAne kI koziza kI jAtI hai / isI prakAra sadhavA nagara vidhavA ho jAya to use phira sadhavA banAne kI koziza kI jAtI thI / isa taraha vidyAnanda kA tarka bhI vidhavA vivAha kA samarthana ho karatA hai / isa prazna meM kucha zrApa aise bhI haiM jo ki pahile bhI kiye jA cuke hai aura jinakA uttara mI vistAra se diyA jA cukA hai| isaliye aba unakI punarukti nahIM kI jAtI / ikatIsavA~ prazna | 'sAmAjika niyama yA vyavahAra dharma badala sakate hai yA nahIM' isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki badala sakate haiM, kyoMki vyavahAra dharma sAdhaka hai| jisa kArya se hameM nizcaya dharma kI prApti hogI vahI kArya vyavahAra dharma kahalAyagA / pratyeka vyakti kI yogyatA aura pratyeka samaya kI paristhiti ekasI nahIM hotii| isaliye sadA aura saba ke liye ekasA vyavahAra dharma nahIM ho sakatA / aneka prakAra ke mUlaguNa, kabhI cAra saMyama, kabhI pAMca saMyama, kisI ko kamaNDalu rakhanA,

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( 230) kisI ko nahIM rakhanA yAdi zAyAna vidhAna vyavahAra dharma kI vividhatA batalAte hai| sAmAjika niyamoM ke viSaya meM vidyAnanda kahate hai ki "sAmAjika niyama vyavahAra bama ke sAvaka hai ataH unameM tabadIlI karanA mAna mArga kI hI tabadIno , "sAmAjika niyamoM meM rahovata karane aura mAnamArga meM rahAbadala karane kA eka hI artha hai|" parantu inake mahayogo pagiData zrIlAla jI kahate hai ki "sAmAjika niyama bhinna bhinna dezoM meM aura minna bhinna kAloM meM aura bhinna bhinna jAniyoM meM prAyaH gina gina huzrA karate haiN|... * laukika vidhi unI rUpa meM karanA cAhiye jaisI ki jahA~ ho" / isa taraha ye dono zrApaka zrApama meM hI bhiDa gaye hai| yaha kahane kI jannata nahIM ki vidyAnandajI ne sAmAjika niyama kA kucha artha hI nahIM samajhA aura ve pralApamAtra kara gaye hai / sAmAjika niyamAM ke viSaya meM zrIlAlajI kA kahanA ThIka hai aura vaha hamAre vaktavya kI TokA mAtra hai / zrIlAlajI kahate hai ki nAmAjika niyama dharma kI chAyA meM hI rahate hai| hamane bhI lignA thA ki sAmAjika niyama dharmapoSaka honA cAhiye / ava vyavahAra dharmaviSa yaka matabheda raha jAtA hai, isaliye usakAnepoM kA nagAdhAna kiyA jAtA hai| AkSepa (ka)-vyavahAra dharma nizcaya kA sAdhaka hai| na sasArI AtmA kI avasthA palaTatI hai na nizcaya varma kI, na usake sAdhaka vyavahAra dharma kI / (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-kisI bhI dravya kI zuddhAvasthA do taraha kI nahIM hotI parantu azuddhAvasthA aneka taraha kI hotI hai, kyoMki zuddhAvasthA svApekSa hai aura azuddhAvasthA parApekSa hai| para dravya ananta hai isaliye unake nimitta se hone vAlI

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( 231 ) zuddhi bhI ananta taraha kI hai| isaliye unakA upacAra bhI antara kA hogA / loka aura zAstra donoM hI jagaha sAdhya kI ekatA hone para bhI sAdhana meM bhinnatA huthA karanI hai | zrIlAlajI kA yaha kahanA bilakula jhUTha hai ki saMsArI zrAtmAoM kI zravamyA nahIM palaTatI / agara saMsArI zrAtmA kI avasthA ne palaTe to saba masAriyoM kA eka hI guNasthAna, eka hI jIvasamAsa aura eka hI mArgaNA honA cAhiye | nimnalikhita bAnoM para dAnoM zrAkSepakoM ko vicAra karanA cAhiye / 1- manuSya agara aNuvana pAle to vaha pAnI chAnakara aura garma karaka piyegA, jaba ki zraNuvatI pazu aisA na kara skegaa| vaha bahatA huA pAnI pIkara kabhI zraNuvanI banA rahegA / vyavahAra dharma agara eka hai to pazu aura manuSya kI pravRtti meM antara kyoM ? 2 - koI kamaNDalu zravazya rakpaMgA, koI na rakhegA, yaha antara yo ? 3- kisI ke anusAra tIna makAra aura pAMca phala kA nyAga karake hI [ vinA zravanoM ke ] mUlaguNa dhAraNa kiye jA sakate hai, kisI mata ke anusAra madhu sevana karate huebhI mUlaguNa pAlana kiye jA sakate hai kyoMki usameM madhu ke sthAna para dyUta kA tyAga batalAyA hai / isa taraha ke aneka vidhAna kyoM haiM ? agara kahA jAya ki isa meM sAmAnya vizeSa apekSA kA meTa hai to kaunamA sAmAnya zrara kaunasA vizeSa hai ? auraisa apekSA bheda kA kAraNa kyA hai ? 4-22 tIrthakaroM ke tIrtha meM cAra saMyamoM kA vidhAna kyoM rahA ? aura do ne pA~ca kA vidhAna kyoM kiyA ? [ koI sAmAyikakA pAlana kareM, koI chedopasthApanA kA yaha eka ;

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( 232 ) bAta hai, parantu chedopasthAna kA vidhAna na honA dumarI bAta hai / ] aise aura bhI bahuta se udAharaNa diye jA sakate hai / parantu ina sabake uttara meM yahI kahA jAsakatA hai ki jisa vyakti meM jitanI yogyatA hotI hai yA jisa yuga meM jaine vyaktiyoM kI bahulatA rahatI haiM vyavahAra dharma kA rUpabhI vaisA hI hotA hai| haoN, vyavahAra dharma ho kaisA bhI, kiMtu usa kI dizA nizcaya dharma kI ora rahatI hai| agara nizcaya sAdhakatA sAmAnya kI dRSTi vyavahAra dhammaM paka kahAjAya to kisIkI vivAda nahIM hai parantu vAhyarUpa kI dRSTi se vyavahAra dharma meM vividhatA avazya hogii| isa kasauTI para hama vidhavAvivAha ko kasate haiN| dhArmika dRSTi se vivAha kA prayojana yaha hai ki manuSya kI kAmavAsanA sImita ho jAya / isa prayojanakI siddhi kumArI vivAha se bhI hai aura vidhavAvivAha se bhI hai / nidhaya sAdhakatA donoM meM eka samAna hai / agara donoM zrAkSepaka nizcara sAdhakatA sAmAnya kI dRSTi meM rakhakara vyavahAra dharma ko eka taraha kA mAne to kumArIvivAha aura vidhavAvivAha donoM eka sarIkhe hI rheNge| donoM kI samAnatA ke viSaya meM hama pahile bhI bahuta kucha kaha cuke hai / AkSepa ( kha ) - jo loga zrajitanAtha se lekara pArzvanAtha taka ke zAsana meM chedopasthApanAkA abhAva batalAte hai unakI vidvatA dayanIya hai | ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna merI vidvattA para dayA na kIjiye, dayA kIjiye una baTTakera svAmI kI vidvattA para jinane mUlAcAra meM yaha bAta likhI hai| dekhiye -

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bAvIsa tityayaga sAmAiga maMjama ucaTimanti / cheTuva ThAvaNiyaMpuNa bhayavaM usaho ya vIgaMya // 533 / / 'arthAt yAIsa tIrthakara mAmAyika saMyama kA upadeza dete haiM aura bhagavAna RSabha aura mahAvIra chaTopAdhApanA / agara Apa bahakera mvAmI zrI vidvattA para dayA na yatalA sake no apanI vidvattA ko dayanIya banalAya, jo kRpa magar3aka kI naraha haMsa ke vizAla anubhava ko dayanIya batalA rahI hai| AkSepa (ga)-vinA vyavahArakA pAlambana liya mokSa mArga ke nikaTa pahuMca nahIM ho sktii| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna vyavahAra kA niSedha maiM nahIM karanA, na kahIM kiyA hai| yahA~ no prazna vyavahArake vividha rUpoM prii| kumA rIvivAha meM jaisI vyavahAra dharmatA hai vaisI hI vidhavAvivAha meM gI hai| yahA~ vyavahAra ke do rupa yatalAye de-vyavahAra kA zrabhAva nahIM kiyA gyaa| AkSepa (gha)-jara patha bhraSTatA hAcukI no lakSya taka pahuMca hI kaise hogI? samAdhAna-mArga kI vividhatA yA yAna kI vividhatA pathamrapanA nahIM hai| koI vI0 bI0 mI0 AI0 lAinase dehalI jAtA hai, koI jI0 AI0 pI0 lAina se, koI aiksapresa se, koI mAmUlI gADI se, koI pharTakAsa meM, koI paI. klAsa meM, parantu ina saba meM paryApta vividhatA hone para bhI koI pathabhraSTa nahIM hai kyoMki samaya-bheda mArga meda hone para bhI dizAbheda nahIM hai| vidhavAvivAha, kumArIvivAha ke samAna niragala kAmavAsanAkA dUra karatA hai| isaliye donAMkI dizA paka hai, donoM hI lakSyake anakUla hai, isaliye use patha. aSTatA nahIM kaha skte|

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( 234 ) isa taraha vidhavAvivAha jainadharma ke anukUla siddha ho gyaa| maiM vidhavAvivAha ke pratyeka virodhI ko nimantraNa denA hai ki use vidhavAvivAha ke viSaya meM agara kisIbhI nahI zaGkA ho to vaha jarUra puuche| maiM usakA anta taka samA dhAna karU~gA / iti

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* zrAvazyaka sUcanA * dehalI meM eka jainavAla vidhavA-vivAhayaka sabhA sthApita hai / " ve sajjana jo zivivAha ke siddhAnta se sahamata hoM yA sabhA ke membara honA cAhe yA jinheM lar3ake yA lar3akI kA aisA sambandha nA svIkAra ho, vaha nIce likhe pate para " vyavahAra kareM: mantrI- jaina bAla vidhavAvivAha sahAyaka sabhA darIbA phaloM, DheDalI | t usa pustaka ke prakAzana meM zranyatra prakAzita mahAnubhAva rika, zrImAna bAbU rAjakRSNa premacandra kola maracenTa (b) pradAna kiye hai- dhanyavAda / -mantrI

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*anya upayogI pustakeM 1 zikSAprada zAstrIya udAharaNa-saMbaka-zrImAn paNDita jugala kizora jI mukhtAra mUlya 2. vivAha kSetra prakAza , " " mUlya 3. janajAti sudazA pravartaka-lekhaka-zrImAna bAbU sUrajamAna jI 4, maMgalA devI- , " " 5 kuvAroM kI durdazA . " " / " * 6 gRhasa dharma 7 rAjadulArI ' ' 8. vidhavA vivAha aura una ke saMrakSakoM se apIla ' lekhaka-tra. zItala prasAda jI , hai. ujalepoza badamAza-lekhaka-paM0 ayodhyAprasAda goyalIya dehalI ... .. 10 avatAoM ke A~sU 11. punarlana mImAMsA-le-bAbU bholAnAtha mukhtAra bulandazahara 12. vidhavA-vivAha samAdhAna le-zrI0 savyasAcI 13 sudhArasaMgItamAlA-le0-60 bhUrAmala : muzarapha jaipura ... ... 14. jaina-dharma aura vidhavA-vivAha (pahilA bhAga),. 15. jaina dharma aura vidhavA vivAha (dUsarA bhAga), milane kA patA:- . lAjauharImala jaina sarrApha, darIbA kalA~,de

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